Loving Your Off-the-Derech Son

people say oh a father how could you be upset at your son who goes off the D Rashi says that Abu hated because he went off the D he hated that's what rash say just and people well maybe rash didn't mean it okay whatever but says so what's the says Isa that had a son that went off and he has a talet he loves his talet he spends all day with the tal and with him and learning and this and he eats by him on chabas and best friends and then a fire breaks out in the Yeshiva who's Thea going to say save his best friend or his own son he's going to save his son cuz deep down a father always loves his son like nothing else and even if right now he's upset at him and they didn't speak in 3 months still loves his son take it wherever you want to go just the in life Hali you know what I'm thinking Hali our sons should know how true that is they know that truth when they have a son themselves when they're teenagers they say my best friend loves me much more than you Etc