Don’t Be Stuck in Your Past

Because whatever you do, you typically do based on the initial thought. Many times in life, a lot of things that we do are not because we thought them through. It's just because we're used to doing them since we're younger. You do it because this is what I did when I was younger. I skipped through certain things in because this is what I did when I was 13. So that's what I do when I'm 53. It came into effect because we had a get together of the entire all my siblings. And what I noticed is that many of us were acting with each other like we acted when we were 10 years old and 15 years old. Think to yourself, you're 53 years old. You're fight not fighting, but you know the the the the and the the certain attitude and the certain this is is from when we were teenagers. I think it's normal, but we have to rethink. Why do you speak like that to your wife? Because that's what I'm used to and that's what I uh grew up thinking. Why do you speak like that to your children? Why do you punish them like this and do like that? And then you take a step back and say, "Wait a minute. Maybe that's not the right way. Maybe I could fix something. Maybe I could make it better." For instance, in learning also one last thing, people come with a certain attitude. I'm not good at gamarra. I hate gam. I this why? Because since I'm a little kid, I hated it. Since I'm a little kid, I didn't know it. Since I'm a little kid, I didn't like it. I wasn't good at it. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe now I have to rethink it. Maybe I have to reprocess this in my brain and see perhaps it's not exactly like I