Daf Yomi Yoma Daf 23 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] dedication to the holiness shamans of the iran tragedy and reforest slammer for all the injured terrors it's a line from who you are said yesterday they asked him what's bashar in this so he said sometimes the generation needs a capara of certain sets and as if the agus barco picks out some sadiq and they they muhammad for the generation they're our carbon he didn't say this but mandy told me the lotion they are carbon sieber and he said i thought it's very interesting because he said what should you be makable you should be having yourself not to speak lotion hara and not to be makbid he said not to be mocked with and what's interesting about that that's today's daf today's dive is about not being marked all right i saw another thing i would give me a little khizuk because i said here during the show the other day about people throwing things at other people i saw the kalina rebbe said this in his speech that was his main point he said how could you then throw stones at each other and call each other nazis and different names and different things he says it's unbelievable that he would do that to another yid i was very impressed by him he didn't he didn't care about what other people are going to say about him in the speech was beautiful rabbi oh is there more there might be another yes sorry israel to the success of the procedure that is done today before shalema so this is very interesting i just showed this picture a couple weeks ago and americana shigaya called him he was very insulted because he said he lives in a frat but he really lives in illinois which is in a frat across the street but it's like uh accusing somebody who lives in lawrence that he lives in for rockaway or something like that or telling somebody who's in barber park he lives in kensington whatever those you understand what i'm talking about but first of all once i'm pulling out his picture haim snow is a phenomenal videographer and he actually came down from el azar two days ago and spent hours with us tweaking the cameras and came to my home to tweak my camera on the for eight minutes so you should go to him i found very interesting that these two wrote me an email independently with each other they didn't know that each other writing an email i want to read the first one from israel goldstein it became it's a classic to me this one it removed me a lot yesterday when i read it i actually sent it to nissan ganz and yossi klein and he said maybe this is a good email for this week's army hashem he will come any day but when he does he's going to be strong and we'll be so excited to be all together the mashiach might ask why are you so excited to be with all different types of hidden what do you do before i came to show that i love that you love and cherish every year and with that all of claire's role will respond to mashiach that we should look back to last week online man and see that there was not a jew in the world that didn't truly feel the pain of another jew but why wait for a tragedy let all of christ show their love every day and all the time he says like this i've done my share of travels with the cure group around the states to all different types of communities but i haven't seen anything like the camaraderie that takes place at mdy global sitting every night on zoom with all walks of life making a scene with all types of dress wear styles and designs traveling for hours and joining in on simchas with people we have never physically met before the healing groups classic groups giving out kimars et cetera assessment the list goes on i stand tall and proud to call myself an mdy member because i know that when mashiach does come and he asks this question i won't be standing there with my tongue hanging out lots of love to all claudius right it is beautiful you have dr avi factors ascoma here's one from time snow real quick we got to go but since they were in the same picture i got to read this as well it's beautiful heavily it's called the rebelli it took a fair amount of effort to break away from seeing the news after shabbos that joined the daf via zoom but there was something in the mission yesterday that gave us something to think about it spoke about how the courtyard of the base hamilton was full of people by the time the rooster crowd crowed so that people could bring their kirbanis immediately after the morning talmud azure valley are always keen to remind us we learn these things because very soon we'll need to know what to do in sheikh comes so exactly two weeks from tonight he's writing then on sunday in the early morning hours of shavuot perhaps we'll be standing on some very sturdy structures with a plaque of 45 names on it to remind us of the moshiach all right today is and we are holding like six lines from the bottom um why did the kingdom of shaw only last two years didn't last long and didn't go to his descendants it's literally counter-intuitive he came from a perfect lineage he didn't have he had perfect hijos and that's why it didn't last was because when a king has perfect vehicles so he becomes hardy he thinks he's better than the other one he thinks he deserves it and the next one gets it because his father is the king you have to earn it can appoint someone if he has a barrel well in english it's called the barrel of worms and the gemara is calling it a box of of of of dead mice in other words when he looks back he sees that something's wrong he wasn't he's not perfect he remembers you know he's he's human he doesn't deserve it he has to earn it cooper shruts him again another counter-intuitive thing he beteva was an unbelievable balmidas and somebody insulted him in public and he said yeah big deal but he has to realize he's a king and a king like the gemara says he cannot be moral he has to show that he's he's the king he should have taken care of these guys who's this guy every generation they have us who who does this king think he is well if you learn how they didn't bring a miracle and he was quiet you have to go to the end of the process over there bottom line is he won the war and then they came to him and said no now take care of these troublemakers they made fun of you kill them says nah it's not a good time now it's the the first day kids are he was michael on his covet for that he got punished then that tripped him up to do agag you have to be like a snake says the gemara he has to take revenge he has to hold the grudge i'm the snake yeah don't don't cross me judah don't cross me hey [Music] tell you to do something against the tire tyre says do not take revenge do not hold grudges where's the grudge the grudge is in the head you've got to remove it from your head you can't be upset at somebody this is the gemara mine so now we're going to go through there's a there's a few things that we have to understand so typical gemara we're going to go through the throws us a line here okay so we have to remember when it comes to monetary things you do not hold wow wow schmuck salmon here let me see that here bring it up here how long did it take you to do two days 48 hours straight only in the evening you're an amazing puzzle maker so i have to figure out all of shots the way you figure this thing out i don't know how you did it but it's amazing wow here describes almond all right let's put it up in a special place here oh right here okay hey zunikema what does it mean to be nikhil vasanithira what does it mean to all the grudge niki mamaloy hashi laini magoka this is a magol a sickle this guy right over here i want to borrow this lend me this oh my lord love no i'm not going to lend it to you who the lender who refused comes to the borrower who didn't get his mag obviously you don't have a sickle because otherwise you wouldn't have tried to borrow it from me but could i have your ex what are you talking about i'm not going to lend it to you you didn't let me yesterday that's called nakama kidairon zunikema look i'm naked i don't have clothing can i have a shirt she's not going to be a rush and say no no you can't i don't have clothing for you he's going to go without clothing to the show here take take this this i'm not like you you think i'm like you shall you didn't let me i'm going to lend you that's holding a grudge zuhi nathira now first of all i wish i didn't know this i learned this a lot when i was a kid and it got me into a lot of trouble says that nikima dumadin ethereum my father used to say do you know how to hit him it's nakamah or the redmi it's like oh ah says the key would do within the theory if a guy slaps you you let it slap him right back says it i wish i didn't know that and if you're you didn't hear that you guys didn't hear that give me the what fine and here here's the thing of not holding a grudge this is what gershon nelson said yesterday don't hold the grudge i don't know if he knew who's in the death i don't think he does that fiery but okay it was a crazy story also not for kids there were two sisters and they didn't speak to each other for 40 years famous story i read it just recently and one of the sisters was on her deathbed and she said you know it's i'm dying call my sister she calls the sisters you know i was terrible terrible we did yeah yeah and they cried along and says come i need to give you a kiss she comes in she leans in for the kiss and such a scream that no one ever heard they take a look at her half her nose is missing she bit off her nose and with a beautiful smile she died that's nakama that's that's material that's holding a grudge and the last act the person does instead of saying video in krishma bites off somebody's nose and goes tyler madness all right myself is it a book i'll show you the book somebody zoom in on knocking seltzer please these guys decide what stories to put into their books you see i'm gonna by the time by the time you write a certain book you are going to change your mahala the certain certain stories that they wants to hear darling likes to say over vitara the goofy so we just said okay when it comes to monetary damage you have to let it go let's go but when it comes to being embarrassed by somebody tom hawkins should not let it go he should be like him somebody's in the valley he's invited to tire out take care of the tire not forget about you you're thinking for the tire sake retired to go for life and if somebody harms you physically oh one of the best gemaras ever hannah loving vainam oven knocking actually i was going to call you up yesterday i remember you said a beautiful story here i forgot what it was and how it had effect on somebody else hannah love in vain and all of him beautiful madriga of somebody who's insulted and doesn't return the insult he hears his disgrace and doesn't answer him so there's actually three different things going on here the and a loving vein of him means that he answered but he didn't insult him back he said why are you saying that it's not true i didn't do it. doesn't even talk it doesn't say a word back he's happy with you sure to follow up on the story that i just said there's a beautiful rambam here i'm going to read it inside because you're not going to believe it if you didn't it's actually the javis alvarez but i didn't find it it's in perky office in uh the the perisher in the realm i'm on piggy obviously dallad mishna and he says like this if you can find it here he says what does it mean that you're so happy with you surim he says that mice are brought down and one of the safari of the of the musser and he means he says he asked the guy what was the happiest day of your life he says i was in the the worst place ever in the ship with the luggages i'm saying it inside because you wouldn't believe me if i didn't say it inside come la hashtan he wanted to relieve himself he relieved himself on top of me i was so happy that this is not that he was able to overcome it it's the happiest day of his life when he realized that that did not bother him because he was not upset at that person nothing he was actually happy be sure that's what mark says over here i was not happy at all no no because has shown that it sucked him in the face but because i couldn't save an account with subscribe like share the happiest day of the guy's life just like the sun when the moon started complaining and saying hey how come i'm not as strong as this with the same strength and i want to be strong sun didn't say a thing and what happened the sun remained the sun and the moon is only if not even a fraction just reflects off of the sun says the gemara he's not going to go take revenge he's just going to remember do not forget what that did to you when he cursed you out in public but when somebody else takes revenge you're not going to be monetary you're going to allow somebody else to take revenge for your covet and you're going to remember it but you yourself are not going to take the revenge of the gemara there's once a guy who said he moves thousands of cigarettes in his life and he hardly remembers a single one of the people that gave him a cigarette but there was once a time when he asked the guy for a cigarette like i said no that guy he remembers big time that guy he'll never forget the guy that didn't give the nathira that's that's a kayak all right if you don't hold a grudge to be michael everything that doesn't want them he's talking about if he comes to us great you have to you have to forgive him the guy wasn't mathias he didn't ask for forgiveness so you could hold a garage and if somebody else takes revenge great so basically people are saying here if it comes to money you have to let it go if it comes to physical harm and curses and that sort of thing hold a grudge let somebody else do it however if they come to ask mr then you have to let go of the garage so it says that if there's a tie in the race so you put them all in a circle one of them takes off the hat we have a hat here beautiful where's the other hat i think he didn't realize there's a hat oh here it is it's in there marty give me the hat please just just pull it pull it off yeah so anyways they're wearing these hats like snappers one of them removes the hat yeah yeah oh quite the slash shams just hit the ground and that's a thousand dollars down the drain all right okay he's wearing this hat and they take off something they decide it looks like this you could see it's just wrapped around like this many times that's what it is i think maybe something like this and they maybe it's the guy until yeah i guess and they take one kind takes off his hat and mainly they start from him and he picks a number and they go with that number until he reaches that number and when he reaches then unless he says a hundred so he keeps on going around in a circle circle until he gets to mr 100 finger number 100 that's the one that wins the lottery it says in the in the mishnah you could you could put out two fingers with one finger you're going to see soon you only count even if it's two fingers you count it as one but if you can put out two fingers certainly you can put out one or like when a person is too sick to to make his fingers straight he could put out too what business does he have being there running and racing okay he's hoping to be part of the lottery the medform bibari abraham stein says that this khaila is unless he has the flu or something so instead of he's sitting on the side so affilo time moitsi he could he could like use one finger he could do it like this he's just on the side he wants to be away from people he's strong enough he's not 100 years old he can't nevertheless he could use two fingers he could put out two fingers but we only counted as one counted as one why but it seemed you shouldn't put out the middle finger i don't know if that goes with the other fight you shouldn't put out the middle finger but like good old and not the thumb if ney i remember because when you're in a circle and the card is going really fast one two three four five now you make a question you're smart you see that this 25 kohanam and he's going to in the next circle he's going to hit you let's see at number 100 he's going to hit the guy right after you so what do you do you put out two fingers you go like this and he's going to count you let's say in the third round you're gonna count this is two and the melody's gonna miss your neighbor he's go and then you're gonna put your finger back as he passes you and then the next round he's gonna hit you you do the calculation real quick you see how many people there are based on that you put out two fingers you can be a rabbi so no thumbs allowed pain he gets malcus if you put out your thumb you get malcus so but it says here why are you telling me they only count one you see you do counted my money my name no we're scared we're talking about that he only he only counts one my pakia what does it mean to get marcus matrico de tayo the sick it's a type of a whip says rashi we have a picture somebody sent this in somebody asked rafal groskar from london he says if the older clever remember what cato nine tales means no you know how to say that whipped by this this is what they used in uh they they invented it supposedly for the for the british army basically it's thin string so it hurts more this is a famous joke say what brother do you make before you whack somebody the sativa you take these you know like it's the first thing you show if you ever got whipped by one you know what i'm talking about that's what it looks like stick with sits in here no what yeah it's occasionally died but you have to find so this is this is the pikia what great so gemara uh people are learning ahead great i like when they learn ahead to send me the pictures don't learn ahead stamiza what if you're gonna send pictures when it says in the mishnah that benbavi was in charge of the pakistan i thought he's in charge of wicks i thought pikia means wix it's talking about circus basically simple space shaver how did they make the wicks for them from the worn out clothing from the from the belt here we have a belt what else do we have here mr oh we have the kassadin also where's the trousers this is great see this it's beautiful yeah so the worn out ones they made it into wicks so i thought that the pikia means mafiki means to make it into strips he's in charge of making his decisions if somebody sticks out his thumb he gets whacked from the pakia i mean means a whip one looks at the other they see that they're equal in the race and there's a problem here and he wants to win he wants to do the truma sadesh and he didn't get up for nothing he has to do it he took a knife and stabbed him in the heart it gets worse stood on the stairs of the ulam says rashi over here bahara by you sula is higher bonus it's not in the ulam like we know we're like right over here in the ulam and she's not talking about this these tears because nobody would be able to hear him over here who would be able to hear him these people right here he stood outside somewhere where there were a lot of people and he said says rashi kimoshi kosovo say for you josephus so rashi brings josephus i thought it was very interesting i think we saw it before but here if you want a source some people quote him they don't like right robbie robbie schoenberg oh very smear it's not josephus yeah yeah but it was written by josephus in hebrew ah okay so rabbi schoenberg says that what she's referring to is the hebrew book but written by that person okay but not the book called josephus okay anyway amal is harabas so what did he scream he wanted to bring kleisthel to tears shake them up a little bit you find a corpse and you don't know where who it belongs to what do you do you bring your eglar roofa this is the capara oh no how are we going to have a capparo you're going to be responsible who's responsible for this dead body now the mother's going to ask who's responsible we know the killer is we saw it okay go columbia everybody realized it's not good it's not a good matter there's a dead person here you're talking about kaphara and everything what kapaa is there's a murder going on here unbelievable he sees the sun withering how do you see him a firefighter in english mama is like a parpara like a butterfly is flippering around he's what withering no really okay he's moving thrashing in the phone he's dying it's his last breaths what does the father say omar hareyou kappa he should be a capar to you that's where this fired him get it we've been to israel for five seconds he probably heard it in the taxi and then he says something incredible my son is dying away over here nitmos sakin get the knife out of him immediately we could save it it won't become tommy he's not dead yet his son is dying he's not screaming at salah it's all nothing he's worried about the tumor of the silly knife can you believe it somebody told me that they they they asked him how can you have someone send them a letter how did this client get a knife so he wrote back lemai nafkamina it's the story he told me what do you care it's none of your business i got it it's a story kasha for myself that's what he said basically him to harass caleb he cared about tahar of caitlin that we discussed this they were they lived to mentaire everything was about to entire them it was like kovid close sugar but there's a there's a knife in the kid's chest okay fine but i have to worry about the tahara now but generation killed so many people they became desensitized to murder i read once in one of those malcolm what was the name forgot his name already anyways um uh malcolm galdwell uh lauren what gladwell gladwell she said mario kazakh he said that in world war ii only 20 of the u.s soldiers were able to pull if they saw the enemy they couldn't even pull the trigger only 20 were able to pull the trigger the enemy the germans there can't do it and the korean war went up to 55 percent and vietnam is 90 percent he taina's it's because of tv they became desensitized by watching again and again murder over and out okay you could kill but in world war two they couldn't do it they didn't have the you become desensitized when you see these kind of things you see so many people dying like flies no another guy died what he killed one two kids sir after after five million they became very they became used to it look tomorrow asking tomorrow he might call them we're there's two stories a guy got got shoved off the the miss back and he broke his leg and the guy got killed under his bell which came first think about it he lived in the streets dummy if the murder happened first hashtag was dominated why don't they exchange the the rules right away there's a murder why are they waiting until the guy falls in his bed who cares it's nothing compared to murder they should have changed it back then elevation ragley caught them what a guy broke his foot first became the king of pisces so if they changed it then how is there another race that that the client pulled out of knife and stabbed the other guy they already fixed it when the guy fell off them is bear hello island the shooters dumb caught him no of cour of course the murder happened first um ammo you're going to bring it right from a meshugana a guy kills somebody because of a race it's a guy's nuts he they put him in the same asylum we're not going to change rules because of him but then they realize wait a minute this is serious stuff a guy just went flying off to his back he broke his leg we got to change things around the house okay so that we have before he's saying who's going to give us a capparo you can't even bring a eglar roof in your slime it's not a city owned by anyone but yeah sorry i'm never so all the victims of iran were forced in the hospital and leader of and in the hammer for all the misbaha'is but you don't know your islam doesn't bring any as rashi points out remember we have like us is your slime divided between all the time not the value of the way it says islam is not divided according to the mandarin it says islam is not divided it's not one so who's going to bring it it's nobody no one's fault oh it says in the positive void you know that mean cokes if it says by egg roofa you don't know who the murderer is you don't know from what city comes you measure and you say the closed city has to bring the aguilarova well neither may you go but over here is obvious we know that reuben is the one that stabbed shimon hello he's trying to move the nation and that's why he gave him muscle moves and he used that muscle of vegeta but it didn't really mean it literally the way it is he's just saying you need a capara what happened there is murder considered less they become really desensitized when came to murder avatars caitlyn could the kamikaze but nothing changed when it came to tumantara or dilma because maybe murder remained the same avatars caleb to come here maybe they went crazy all of a sudden it's a generation then they went berserk when it came to turmerity and that's why he started talking about the tarot tash but the gemara says desensitized to murder from menasha so you see it's murder that went down not the sahara going up because of the kamikaze up until now we were talking about truman sardashian this is truman's edition i don't have a picture of exhaust edition in the morning every single day takes this a shovel full and puts it next to his bear gets absorbed into the ground but the tire says that there's a concept called heitzi sedation when it fills up that much on his back every once in a while just piles up a lot remove it all clear it out bring it outside of the basement no no it's after it's already nice and it wasn't but it's a mitzvah to take it out but it says look what it says beloved begotten do not wear the clothing that you're wearing up until now you have to wear other clothing so i would think shimane kippur just like i am keepers should be the question i am kipper he changes from his from his this is the book i'm just bringing the onion kipper he goes back and forth from this from the white to the kadosh to the to the shemitah bugatti to this guy yeah and he wears the hoisin [Music] and it says i should probably wear this style for the picture why not like this [Applause] all right i'm used to it listen but i never give a share without you i'm good i have an unbelievable okay no four because them and that's it what i'm saying there's no sitsis no other things it was trousers no yamaka and a hat why should they wear yamaka what is this is that this this this just like a kangaroo goes from she might have got them to form got them so this guy in means he goes from his white all these are wearing this they're wearing this guy he should take this off and wear this you should wear big they call wear regular clothing it says the word begotten twice why oh god of allah what's the extra word begotten to teach us they have to be the same type of begotten begotten begotten it's a hackish so he puts on another pair of clothing and scottish okay now why is he doing this we'll see in a second the idea that have you ever been to a bonfire and like boeing it stinks the the smoke the the ashes it's terrible so you don't want to get that on your clothing that you're doing that video you're taking out ashes here from what from a place that's full of fire in this car bonus burning it's terrible that's not how you are avid hashem so you put on another clothing what does it mean the others means different says rashi shock or opposite of what we have today today when you buy a pair of like uh cotton tits's they turn from white like an undershirt goes from white to yellow in those days yellow is khashov so if you don't if it's white still that's not khashog and if it's worn out you should wear you should wear the stuff [Music] it's not referring to the goddamn it's referring to the type of a person it's a different type of a human being it's a different guy what does that mean lee made al-qaeda moving a person that has a mum could take out the dashing what does that say what does that tell us it tells us that it's not enough either if somebody that has a mum could take out the dashan so it's like removing trash you don't have to it's not enough that's not putting the dam under his bear he's removing he's cleaning up doing cleanup so even a cayenne that has a mum that does not allow him to perform any other videos could perform an avoidance rabbi where you go and you're pouring wine for your rebbe make sure that it's not the same stuff you wore in the kitchen you have splatters from all the food and all the things it's not the same thing so you have to you have to do a book of it so this is one line here in the gemara again it says in the gemara that when you pour wine to your rebbe make sure you're wearing something else from this line the taz learns and he says that you're not allowed to go into the bathroom with your towels when you're in seoul you cannot go into the bathroom with your towels you just dive in tacos do not go to the bathroom what about a tallest cotton is okay i'm sure we're passing this okay there are those who even remove the towels cotton and there's some that say only if it's above your clothing like hasida we're gonna tie the shirt they should remove it but the mishra passings you're allowed to go in with the taos cotton but it's based on this gemara i'm just saying that you have this line you wouldn't even think dream to do something with it what but it's it's a begging mitzvah it's a big mistake well you should take off your socks too everything so now you have to go to make sure to go to the no it's a beggar mitzvah all right talk to you more that would've been a good idea actually take off your socks go in and come out and put the sacks on okay they didn't think about it all right this is yumara amerishlokis comes with says guess what just like we just said that to remove the ash is completely from the same english not to be confused with truma sandesh this is this is true that happens every day sudden is more like removing the trash removing all of it which is just like satisfactory says rebellion says that a rebel he has another revelator that a baum could perform that avoid the so too this that that's a big finish because this is more of an avoider this is special it's not to clean so take a little bit a scoop full you put it in the ground a nice happens it gets absorbed obama could also do it according to schlockisch according to blazer eliezer uh the same thing he applies but when it comes the mclaren is the only one thing removing all the ashes but to do true massage and says that the kind has to wear this and this the trousers and the soyuz that's it what happened to the belt what happened to the hat there's two more hand and belt player doesn't say it so you see from here it's not enough though why would the tires say just where too it says sorry me they're bad me they're bad is one is this it doesn't excite us we'll see in a second they want to go through all four the kind never wears less than four it's a given he wears four what did you go without a yamaka should go without a belt you need all fours then why does atari say two to tell us they need all four but why did they try to pick those two because each one has a special kiddush nahani why did sorry pick them me they're bad it doesn't say the word sinus here it's a sinus it's this the thyroid calls it this beautiful thing i don't know how you do this it's like a robe tunic doesn't say it it says that it should be to his measurement meaning shouldn't be dragging the floor if you're a slim guy you don't take an extra extra large that drags to the floor and that comes up breaks with your feet now if anybody wants to see what brake is with their feet is or something like that so my parents i i was learning in ponovich and yoshi viktana by ramit you do lefkovic and they left me and they just draw they went they went back to america and i was stuck in punishment i had to finish up this man i found a picture of myself in part of it you want to know here here goes this is my suit the sleeves are like six inches away from here and my my this is how i walked around the front of it nobody knew that no my grandmother okay anyway don't don't publish that picture this is the first thing that goes on that's it the first first thing these trousers it's unbelievable sorry it has to be i'm sorry that's it nothing else verstakesh how does he know these has to be the right size that i give you i'll learn it just like so i learned that that's the first one on but the bottom line is it says midi bad and it says those are the only two says we're slackish fine atkan have a wonderful wonderful day foreign is did i show this i showed this right no listen because once you kill one person then you kill two three the first one the first one they were commanded that's not a bad idea i don't know if it fits no it doesn't fit me i should come in the trousers there's just this that would be great i'm sure you would appreciate it no what do you say just come in with this tomorrow with the trousers no just the trousers rabbit subscribe zalman my hat just the head and also the tits the the sham what'd you say yeah the the middle the middle question the medal sits phil you