Daf Yomi Yoma Daf 02 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rob boyce [Applause] it is awesome to be back ah home sweet home when i was in america i met so many ishmaka great mishpache we'll call them it was unbelievable we went i was in the five towns with only like two hours notice in all three places 50 people in barbara park and the five towns in muncie and it was all 12 15 in the morning it was it was crazy crazy stuff was unbelievable so but it's great to be back first of today's show is sponsored by srila bernstein not bornstein bernstein lillian nishmas my grandfather's your side straga five-o labe benchmark rome you know the guys in new york that came out with this campaign to give out gamoras whoever joins the shir i think is only in america i don't think you guys here also in the uk 560 new people signed up for today's share that's just the gemaras now you have all the people in australia you have people at dingakumars that didn't bother signing up etc so i do want to say a very very warm shalom aleichem to the new mushpaka and it is being in new york you just person after person wherever i went i met people that watched the share and we felt like family felt like we knew them i knew them they knew me and that's the feeling we share in each other's simchas and other things it's bacha support it's unbelievable it's not just a sheer it's mishpacha so i want to say welcome and to all those new people you're going to have to bear with me for a few minutes because i've done this twice already and i think it's very important to do hazara and that is that when people start the daf they have a dilemma they have different questions like everything else in life there's the pros and the cons and i want to say somalian to all the new guys in the room a bunch of new people on the hill just i haven't seen him in the ages of shambhala welcome back you promised me you'll be back a little earlier but it's better later than ever okay remote ah corona i forgot the pros and cons the cons let's talk about the cons why people stay away from that field they say it's no good they say that you don't retain much you're learning so much you don't retain it's a good time a very good time and to that i say if every day you retain one idea one concept you learn one new halacha just for that it's worth it they say you go too fast we're going too fast i learned in yeshiva we did 2 daff in 6 months what's this adafide business so when i was in the five towns i was introduced to that over there who spent his entire life up until recently in and he went out to the workforce he's in his 40s went out to the world and his wife told me that it doesn't really have time to learn tyro so i started shooting i said no maybe she joined the deaf go too fast way too fast for me so i said okay i'll make you a deal if you could answer this question then you don't do the daf he said besides the carbon pesach pesach how many carbonus is one mujhry to bring on pesach uh didn't know the guy that's been learning his whole life i don't know so you heard about carbohydrate yeah yeah i know i said how many are there i don't know you darwin or rio though you didn't know well he didn't keep his end of the deal i don't think he's not going to join us what else they say lumbus you gotta you gotta learn with london you gotta learn slow you gotta understand it's true i learned my whole life slow and lumbus but at the end of the day people are working and they're not learning at all so at least put some terror in your life and here's the biggest eight zahara the biggest aid sahara is you miss a daf it's inevitable it's going to happen there's a simcha or layla or something else you can't learn and you miss a daf or two and what happens is the azaren says you gotta make it up and you start you try to make it up and it doesn't work you start falling behind even more and even more and eventually you fall off the bandwagon and imagine it comes to see him ashas instead of making a scene on 2711 daf you don't make a scene at all why because in this yuma you miss three death that perfectionism is what kills daffy and what throws everybody off the bandwagon and so many people told me that this idea of no matter what if you missed five daf seven half we had one of the guys in the khabarov his brother was lifted at a very young age and he sat shiva for seven days and he told us that immediately after shiva he jumped on board to where the daf is holding like we preach every day and bark hashem by the time succumb was over he made all the seven dhafa that's the way to do it you jump ahead and it's not just that you saw it in the ibis you saw it in all of life many people came over and said you know you saved my time mikro because what happened was back in the day they would miss one parasha and that was it they're done with mikra so you just skipped that parachute or minus one parachute what's the big deal it's good for diets because you ate that one doughnut you're done with the diet so you continue right there you saw it in life now what are the pros my favorite saying taffy me is not about the daf it's about the yami the consistency of the daf to be consistent every single day to learn entire no matter what it's an amazing thing it changes your life when you learn entire every single day you don't have to worry about your harusa not showing up you don't have to worry about over sleeping there's no harusa you're doing the daft everybody's gonna adapt the consistency you're doing it on your kipper and you're doing it in disney world you're doing it on sundays you're doing it everywhere any place you're always learning every day no matter what you're learning it's an unbelievable thing if i wasn't doing the dive right now i wouldn't be learning because i showed up from america just a few hours ago but you have to do the daf the consistency um right over here it's guaranteed to change your life it's guaranteed to make you a better person ask anybody the number one comment that i got in america now people came over to me you changed my life i didn't change your life the torah changed your life when you learned thai every day your life changes you become a better father a better husband a better business person a better person and the actors the unbelievable actors that it creates within the shear when truly gordon in lakewood never lost his eight-year-old son the amount of actress that was shown he wrote us an email that that's what kept him going during shiva people drove four hours in each direction to get to see him a lebavature from crown heights that never met him drove two hours to see him the emails the the somebody sent the kayak for his son the the computers the the gifts the the whole camaraderie the actress was unbelievable and it's not just him when stephen suckler was in the hospital the 40 year old with covet there were people that called him twice a day and he said that brought him back to life so the actus the camaraderie is unbelievable and it's not just our death it's any daft that you learn you can go to any show in the world and pick up a sheer there and it unites clay stroll as a whole and especially our share that we have such after such variety of people you should have seen in muncie from the pasture gas there's a secret of the pious the long beards no beards this keeper that keep up it didn't matter we were all there doing one thing learning torah dancing in the same circle it was unbelievable tremendous athletes for medicines buffer and we've got a few more minutes here you know we're lucky we just finished calling you xiaomi the hardest of the hard the the daphim are wider i don't know if you notice they're just wider adapt and contain more words compressed lines the words are harder the girl size it was 21 days and now it gives us the opportunity to learn yuma like just we're going to go through it it's schmuck i'm telling you it's schmack it's you know the song nothing to learn [Applause] i [Applause] is [Applause] [Music] [Applause] [Music] all right at least the guys on zoom enjoyed it i just want to finish off the list there shaas includes everything as tyson says everything so when you learn the daf you're learning all of torah nikla mr everything and as i mentioned before every single daf almost has something new in it a new concept a new allah a new idea i'm scared to say this one last time i said it i got a nasty email i said 90 percent of people that are traveling are doing that for me unfortunately i was on a on a flight i didn't see anybody learning so i can't so i'm gonna i'm gonna go up it's 95 he was all mad at me it's like who told you you did you did a research no i didn't do research just common sense tells me that when you're learning alumnus and that so you usually don't bring your clients or both bears on the plane i've never seen but those guys typically don't even travel okay whatever it is sixty percent of the people whatever you wanna say but you see guys with the gemara in online in an amusement park it's always taffy me guys and that's a very important thing about that and also as i mentioned i stuck it in but there's nothing like starting off the day with daffodil me and if it's not the start the middle but nothing like having that daft it makes you feel so much better all right fine some people say means the day that day is referring to the holiest day of the year yum kippur the day of kapara the holy day now of course the torah says that your kipper is the holiest day and it's the day but we're on a roll here for us every day is the day in other words you have to live your life as if it's your last final day what would you do on the last final day would you watch a bunch of movies on whatsapp and schmooze or you hop around after tomorrow so we need to treat the day today as the day and we're going to learn torah by the way i forgot to mention i have to say mazatov to all the people that were messiah and swallow him no big mazel dove yeah you were just like you invited them to here they invited you all right if i could go if i'm already going back i might as well mention one thing i i keep on remembering new things 175 people beautiful that's on what on zoom 130 oh okay 130 and zoom if you don't know how to get in zoom there's easy ways to get on and to connect and there's whatsapp groups they could be part of the mishpacha just give your number to yeshua i'll take care of everything but i do want to say this people might know this it's it's a famous concept but if you do you stick to the daft for like 60 days it's not that long 60 days it will become a habit or become part of you you'll have a new addiction a good addiction will literally become part of you you probably will never break it so try to get 60 days but anyways yuma resolve solanter says that he would give a tremendous amount of haba just to have one more game kipper mkipper is unbelievable and we yearn for the base amigdas we yearn for that aveduk you imagine the the the spectacle there the the look at this this is the base amigos the brand new safer from call halashan which i don't have you on a pdf file basically shim soon this beautiful base amigdas right over here the heihal inside the hekha look at this it's 200 feet tall this and at the end right over here is the kaiser kardashian inside the avodah the current governor goes in there and performs the only time in the year that a human being could go into the kadishkadasham keeper and the goddamn performs all the availas everything he's so busy that when he does the shakita he does most of it and he runs to grab the blood somebody else finishes off the street he has to do everything this third thing for bonuses he's busy he's doing the terrorists he's doing this recall everything and we wish we could be there we wish we could see it and hear him singing or whatever we say in the thing i don't know if they say it we say [Music] okay i missed it i missed it a lot it's only 7 34 and we didn't even start sure yet small dab from small dabbing compared to skeleton so as we know we learned in gemara and we heard from the sky many times when we learn kerbanos when we learn about avaida it's as if we performed that that's as if we brought the kurubunas it's another way a lot of people they see carbonus and they get all nervous and they they start spacing out no you gotta embrace it because it's as if when the challenge is as if you you brought the carbon you performed that vida so we are going to be learning all about yom kippur all about that and all the pre-available and just like rabbi sai i heard it from so many people that this year's say there was so much different and so much better than last year's say the why because we finished them three days before pesach and we understood what maths is what mar is what characters is what purpose is hiseva do you put something under your head you don't you lean this way 45 degrees it was a whole different world we came to the say they're so much more prepared than any other year and this year based hashem will get to him kippur with a whole new understanding believe it or not suk is also going to be learning sukkah rosh hashanah following into these things so let's do a rabbi say let's jump into it aleph on the top shivas seven days before him kipper my friendship going golden basil we removed the korean gold from his house from his wife basically could also mean a wife lelich gas parhadrid so there's a room anyways called right here by this red arrow if this is the hull this is kardashian right over here what this this is the ulam this is the hall over here and this is called this is liska's perhaps right away there's a room stick him in there now i'm going to be using this a lot i did this is from my gemara i sacrificed for you guys i tore it right out because i don't have internet i came home at 12 30 in the morning and realized my internet is down so i couldn't really print these but here's a picture of the inside of the polyhedron this is sponsored by izvahder and let's see if there's other ones this is the base so he's just showing you if you're looking at the tables where they butcher and they they rinse the innards this is delicious have a head right in the corner we're going to discuss that here's the entrance delicious headroom from the outside of the basa amigdas okay yeah you had to live there for seven days and we give him another cayenne instead of him in other words we it's like a vice cayenne just in case something happens to him we have another one instead now this machine has reshared him a big one what happens to him do we bring the cayenne to the make this with him the second guy second in command according to those who say that he stays home so then why why do you have to designate a new client if something happens to our kind god we'll make one right away the morale says something very interesting says that people work much better under pressure when there's a guy sitting right next to him ready to go he's going to make sure he doesn't have any tumor no carry nothing going on he's scared he's right here understudy i don't want to say that because i also i put the mate and no i'm fix just sit right here and if i miss if i'm off a little bit they'll jump in right away so it keeps me on my toes every single day um because perhaps he'll have atoma a carry and he won't be able to perform the avodah so we will have the one that we designated jump right in this is interesting a cayenne needs a wife he needs to have a wife so they put another woman they designate another woman whether or not there's a not that was seeing the gemara exactly how it works if there's no conducion so how does he marry her i am kipper let's say his wife is nifty army kipper you need another wife what do we do we'll see [Music] oh no no i'm sticking only to making sure i'm not doing other things it doesn't say anywhere that a magazine needs another wife but you see from here a biggie sight a wife is very important the torah says krangola has to have a wife the house doesn't mean literally a physical house it means his wife like we had in gemara qarashi basi so maybe the second woman will die so maybe you should get a third elinda so therefore we don't do a wife what about another kind so that was in the gemara why that yes and a wife not not so we learned over there shiva's yam queen if a person touches a dead body the way he becomes tar not only by the mikvah he also needs to be sprinkled with the ashes of a para aduma the red heaven so the one who sharks the para duma it says shiva's quite sweet the same thing like the kind god i am kippur seven days beforehand we remove him from his house and we put him in a special lishka this cayenne that's in charge of shakting the para duma we remove him from his home as well so somewhere right over here if this is the leshkas per hedgeroon this is a beer is right over here so phenom is rojo so you can go back here this is toughen if you want north people want to know why north is not up i don't know they did it sound okay so north is up this is myrov this is i'm confusing myself but anyway right over here this corner is mizrah safan safa misra right over here this is mizrah this is softened so this corner is suffering israel so if item is based on evidence or the name of the room that used to sleep in and hanging out for seven days is called bayside heaven the house of stone will nick small space ivan why is the name leicester's base ivan so kumar goes on a long answer here interesting answers call myself so my favorite food of course is there's nothing better than kutak in a clean made out of dung imagine that combination that's my favorite in those days here's a picture gary if you could zoom in in those days they made caleb out of dung why i don't know but maybe it goes very well with kuta fine should call massive legola let me clear vanim stone stoneware earth not earthenware but made out of clay mai taimo so these what's the common denominator with these three kalem they're not because why can't they be macabre and that's why the name of the room is called beso heaven because it has caleb made out of stone my timer we keep on going to yo a person who was tummy and immersed himself in a mikvah is not completely tar not a hundred percent tar until harry of shemesh until nightfall that's called the tv he was typical it's still day he's not 100 tired but a person like that even before nightfall is crusher to perform the shrita ana para duma that's dukim held not like that zukim the heretics we don't they they they learn entire differently and we don't care about them and a lot of the exercise in order to override what they say so because zucchini said that so we went crazy went out of their way and they made xavius of hungarians to say the duke am i wrong you can't even use paradium as such such a homotoma that you can't even use any that's my cable tone let's see you could take a coin one of the sheets is you take where is my favorite thing you take a charets and you touch the cayenne like this you might you take a dead cherish this is dead and you touch the cayenne so now he's makable thomas he's his tummy the kind of stomach and you put him in the mikvah and immediately after you put him in the microwave said we have to do that to show this book in the wrong time they held that it's only people that already had hair of shamish they have zero tumor it was already after nightfall so therefore this is a long answer tequila clay glowlink so hum said let's go with the dung let's go with the stone and the clay the cable tumor so on the one hand you have the zucchini that say you have to be making tomah on the other hand is a person could be at fully he's not a hundred percent tar he could he could still perform that on the para duma in order for people not to be misaso we said let's add hummus here let's say that you can't use the cletus from kabul tuma only earthenwares things things that are not makable now lamar says fine so that was the long answer so find him mizrah why is the room right over here in south of israel now a para duma is not a catas it's called the catas the torya calls it it's not a carbon we know when we learned kochim that you could if it's kachikalam you could do it anywhere in the azara all this but when it's ahatas it's only center line or from here on but it's in this part of the base amignos in this part of the azara mela kera so when the queen is sitting in his room he should no sorry so he's facing he's in the harassing over here facing the doorway to the island to the to the hall loyal facing what over here yeah like this you're saying this way this is misra this is miserable right okay so facing facing east right this is the this is the east this is east east west this is east he's facing this way yeah okay he should be in this room which has a mizrah to it it has a softened soften is going this way mizrah going this way so he has them both in order for him to remember what he's doing there he's there for the para duma that has a softening it has a mizrah in it my biro why is it called beer oh my rabbit there's a place in harabayas that was called biro marco so here we have over here indirect and we have a pasok that says says you see from this positive the entire face i mean there's a beer it's not just one room emily how do you know this concept that you remove the koi in seven days before him keep keeper minyumi hashem so here's the pos and the gemara has a few drushes here on the pacific that's why they're different colors that's one part of the apostle last six second part of the possibility says le chaperone learns two draws from the red and from the green lasso is elu massey para the passage is talking about the shiva miami when they inaugurated the base of igbos for the first time the mishkan and his sons you have to be sequestered yeah this one put you into a room similar to the kangado before him kipper for seven days quarantine quarantine for seven days so since which when did it start on other when did it end the eighth day was on since we see the concept of being put aside leaving your house your wife for seven days so too there are other things such as para duma and yom kippur so we learned from the possibilities shivers he made me look so from this red word last week we learned that when you do the part then we have to be seven days away from your family so the question also has to leave for seven days because it says gonna tear up the posix see if it if it works what are the problems of the pasta and how to fix them vishnumakula crop a parliamentary camp i can't say that this plastic is completely talking about the para duma lucha brexit para duma is not the happer para duma is to make utah not to give you a capara for navero somebody touches that person he needs a firearm so can't this posse cannot be talking about only part of them um perhaps both parts lassos and harper are both talking about a young kipper so tyson would base long twice as disgust why do they need two why is one part not enough okay tivo tivo so therefore this word right over here the purple it says overtivo and it also says by para du motiva so now i know that it's not just him kipper purple the purple that's called exercise when the torah xerus shava is different i just want to explain for a second because we're going to be talking about it when a person makes a catholic you can make it up with your own common sense this has a cow there's a climber okay was given to mushroom by khabar himself now sometimes we don't know we know that the word is siva we just don't know which siva sometimes we forget we don't know there's a much like but we know the idea you can't just make up your own show and say oh it says this is so they connected connects two things because so it says by para duma the word siva and it says in this possibility of us i know that this positive is telling us that paradigm is seven days of sequestration sequestration you could have been a ponovich english teacher just like in this possibility it says the idea they have to separate from your family leave your house leave your wife for seven days so two para duma seven days and now we are turning to the base of the day sponsored for shidduchim three different families sponsored amazing okay you're going to take up another few seconds great i see that you're watching very good very good veymotivo by your says also the word siva who told you again so we know that a question told me do something with siva i'm not exactly sure did he mean para duma do you mean something else so say both of them are tiva toys points out why do you need two he has a reason a bunch of reasons said before the millennium this possibility is before it happened tomorrow be sequestered tomorrow do that so too paradumo tomorrow when you're gonna but you'll kipper it's already it already happened already happened it's in the past verses in the future very much right but by carbonus it also says the word tivo israel so what's the obvious answer it's slightly different it says it doesn't say so we had it enough times in shas we had it 11 times in shaas this is the 11th time and 10 different messertas this question and this idea and it's always the same question same answer when i went on baryland to check how many times it said 11 and then i saw on the side it had it has all 11 places and seriously he didn't miss any vehicle it's a slightly different word it doesn't say siva sadiq hey it says yeah extra evolve instead of hey it's not a perfect xavier that's the gemara but it is a good exercise [Music] in other words over there by the cayenne that goes to check out a nega on a wall of a house so there's three things he has to do he has the khai let's he takes out the stone he puts back cement there's things he has to do so we learn one from the other the first time he goes the second time the shove when he comes back when he goes but this week's power shot this week's power shot thank you it's always good to have a balkan new audience so that's way off it's way worse than siva and saw it's shove and ba it's two different words completely but they mean the same thing yet the gemara holds that it's a good xerishava i can learn one from the other i'm learning three alakas from ushav to ba or the opposite whatever it was there's no other word there's no other shaft there's no anything so i'm going to take the closest word that means the same thing but over here when i have the option i have para duma that says and i have keeper that says why would i go to something that's different when i can learn it from the exact same word the zero shot is exact it's much better to learn from something that's exact now going back to this possum we said that the first pirate of the pasuk is talking about a para duma the second part of the happier alaikum is talking about in kipper that the cayenne gobble has to go into a room for seven days the happier edu so before we asked the question on carbonites when we were talking about siva when i'm talking about the para duma now we're talking about yom kippur i want to know maybe the word le chaper doesn't mean i'm kipper at all maybe the copper means a carbon because you know a carbon does give capara somebody doesn't have air he brings a carbon and says in the torah this is the gummara we have a problem he has to be iron and his sons were seven days away so too yum kippur there's thirty thousand highness let's say which one of them has to leave his house army so they said allah what's the problem i have a very simple lightsaber yeah every time a carbon a kind does a carbon just like every time the kind god will does is avoid that you would have to yeah seven days why not but listen it's not the end of the world because a kind only gets to perform divided twice a year so before he does his twice a year thing and only one day only one day twice a year oh so let's say allam allah mibullet priestly you have all the were divided into 24 mushmares and every 24 weeks they started all over again every week was one mishma and in that week they took that one mishmar and they divided it up into six six families based out so take that you know that you're gonna bring a carbon on tuesday so the the the family that's doing tuesday they should be required before they do any carbohydrates they should be required to leave their family seven days before tuesday the week before the other business every carbon we're talking about every carbon dharme davar isma davish kovalez man just like the millum it was nissan so too it's something like kim kippur that has a qismat you'd tishrei the boogie girl bunny call yours now carbonas are not similar they they're all every day they may regalum but you know what okay so what about yante who told you tim kipper maybe it's sukkus maybe seven days before sukkos the kaine the kahanam they're going to be performed at vajdan sukhas they have to go and leave their home who told you to talk about all three i love it and it's even larger than usual 758 we have two minutes more than enough time thanks gary i missed you regular so let's talk about one says why would you pick one which one which one is better than the other is it pesach basically no it's successful maybe the pesach is the most important jantip player always starts off with basa iga 88 mitzvahs or something like that in the 80s but he's talking about their abundance brachas and and mario's they're about and all these things the seva crisis over here the gemara says there's more there's four day races i am sequestering for seven days to do that avoid it for one day versus circus is seven days pace like seven days she was two days you can't you can't bring it right and the gemara doesn't even bring to us it seems like suckers and pesach would be the one did it make sense to do just rules it's a one day antifa seven days for one day fun of it doesn't make sense to go and sequester the queen for something that has gedusha seven days of yanta before that lamar is going to ask why been done doesn't make any sense you're trying to tell me what's the most important yanta on the one hand it's pesach because it's the terrorist stars of it on the other hand it's because it has a lot of menses i'll tell you what shouldn't the fact that there's seven days of yanta before this young difficult called shreema at sarah's doesn't that make it very cautious it should make it super cautious and you should need to take the kite and put them away in a room this day you learn from this word hazet has to be exactly like this because uh that it doesn't have days of medusa before it the millennium didn't have any industry before it so yum kippur doesn't have any they're just weekdays before that there's no medusa so tim kippur that means that the queen shall leave his house and go to lush [Music] let's just do ravashi and we'll be done with that rav ashi it doesn't make any sense any common sense that seven days of pesa or seven days of sukis doesn't need the cayenne to separate from his house but the eight day does need that doesn't make sense therefore it cannot be sukkas and it's not pesach and it's not choice it has to be yum kipper have a wonderful day [Music] he's [Music] you just bored out your mind it's on youtube we're still on youtube [Music] it's great to be back great to be back what happened to my computer no nothing oh here we go sleep i didn't get my suitcases i don't have clothes i don't have anything i should go on this okay [Music] how does he get that you have to tell them tell them just to start it's brand new today no i'll try do my best look at this this kid has decided that his father is not doing the death he fell off the bandwagon he wants to know what to do unbelievable look at this night all right you must do just what's going on all right fishy [Music] let's put the you all the sacrifice for the daf i had a i had a direct flight and a great airline on united instead i took austrian i don't want to say it on youtube because they're going to sue me disaster i don't have my luggage they didn't bring my luggage i didn't bring 30 people didn't get their luggage on our flight and we saw the luggage by the plane but they refused to put it on and i had a five and a half hour stopover then bring it on and that and many many other problems many ben schwartz what are you doing on what's going on here you shouldn't be on now you can't you can't help yourself you can't help yourself ben you're giving in you're giving in to the acer type ben [Music] yeah ellie trapper i saw you enjoyed you enjoyed very much the i saw i austrian saw i mean it's really a great experience [Music] that there is very significant left okay and [Music] we just need um to be aware we might not even be landing in vienna we might have to go to a different airport i'm like am i going to be able to get to newark for my connection and i'm just waiting for her with her very thick german accent we know how to handle the [Music] they knew they know how to handle the jews i probably just didn't pay the bill when i was in america you know [Music] what is this oh yeah yeah [Music] watching you here every morning you