Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 98 by R’ Eli Stefansky

lakewood new jersey [Music] revelli an email from lakewood just in case you have no one from liquid at this year tomorrow my father river lizard katzman schlitto one of the most knowledgeable people in sparta world had an interesting story with today's agatha he asked the late lebanon before his class under the following question the meaning of lavish is to sing the outer rebels is that just a minute or there is more to it the river ants recording today's gemara is decisively says that if you say something over from somebody his lips move in the cave okay i won't thanks i really shared all my kids love the good morning my boy sai it's now a household phrase i'll send you some clips of the little ones to have your collection iri katzman in parentheses we are not labeled we love all jews here's a picture of a khayal doing the daf when i inquired with my son and how he's doing today he sent me a photo below i thought a chair i know you're a busy man i'm making quit updating numbers liran 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my friends and i used to tour the old shows in the bronx above they're now gone look at this shoulder by side unbelievable mug and david if you look on all the bottom of the picture lucas and it says head start i don't know what over there on the side this is no longer a show unfortunately the corbin is tremendous the shows used to have standing room only on chavez keep on dafting so you can rebuild even stronger than ever and bring mashiach now your time and simon zelman [Music] game changer the following morning while walking the show oh the reason why i'm reading this email is because when we learned after having base i said sav and everybody made fun of me the whole thing he took it the following morning while walking the show i passed a giant turtle coming out of the nature reserve this is muncie amazing because they have not seen one in many years i must say shabbos you wouldn't believe i was catching up to that unbelievable i heard the discussion regarding turtle shout out i believe it was rav cook who said that if you unscrew the word mikuro you get rak mahashem so he took the tsav rachmashim you guys can make fun all you want keep up your energy enthusiasm and tell me to leo levatoro my name is lanco antonio when this email he's all the way from uh by thinking in the bottom of my heart he got involved i listened to you i'm trying to follow you on safari safari he's from romania we don't have a way to buy the share i was stunned to see that somebody put such effort to teach charge happiness clear lotion and also someone is willing to give away a free safer and pay for all the shipping expenses big thank you appreciation mr shloymi replied so properly to my emails for the rav i'm wishing you all the best and health well best hashem to many many shiram thank you yours faithfully antonio this month's sponsor for the koi let's talk about where is okay our framing let's close continue number two by the lack of families because toy toyota's the best gula parasite number three lead number four reforest boys we have today is 24 charts so let's get going so the question is you have two brothers listen to this crazy story two brothers become gayrim together are they related or not related so one of them marries a woman and he divorces her can his brother marry that woman is she a nation self are they brothers they both became gayrim later on in life happens all the time how much are they related so that's what we saw yesterday we had a little bit of mahlikis tashima we're holding five lines from the bottom of examine so this makes it even more interesting they are twins and twins obviously we know where the father is we know the mother is it has to be the if your concern is that you don't exactly know who the father is here they are certainly from the same father and the same mother obviously so he can marry his brother's wife hey so now just remember this so that we had case number one that you have two people who became gary later on in life case number two we're going to have three cases case number two so this is half and half they were conceived as but the mother became a guillorist before they were born so they came into the world as jews in that case they called them why because khalito and yibum has everything to do with the father their father is there's no relation to him but the mother is their mother so avocados because they have the same mother and the mother has to do with the is servation so you can't marry your brother's wife if you and your brother were born after she became a jew hoy sorry ross and valet doesn't mean if they were born after a woman became a guillorist then what is what are the kids a hundred percent jewish hare yankee israel get married one dies without a child there's no way or you want to marry the wife so the gemara wants to prove from here like this that like ravshes who said yesterday it's a problem to marry your brother's wife aguero cannot marry rebecca said you could over here it seems like [Music] you should you don't you don't go ahead and miable but this still is why because you might come to to make a mistake with a with a real jew and nevertheless it's awesome like reversation says says there's no way sir at all like i'm saying the the saying there's no force here you could say there's no answer i think the bottom is nothing more just we are trying to prove today whether or not a girl can marry his sister-in-law is there an inspiration for for two people two who became jewish later on in life are they related to the point where they shouldn't marry their sister-in-law so i think mark goes into a little discussion here in between not to lose focus mystery is code for non-jew it means any non-jew not just an egyptian when we say that a guy is not related i guess it might be for the sense i'm thinking now that they put it in there not to insult all the non-jews so a guy doesn't have shaichez when it comes to aravind certain things to his father don't say stupid because they don't know who the real father is but if you know for a fact you were both in a jail cell for a year and nobody else was with them and it must be that this is the father then we are concerned about relationships through the father no even if you know for a fact that he's the father we're we're nowhere certainly identical twins come from one tipa but even if it comes from two people the point is we know who the father is versus saying that it came from two different pregnancies nevertheless you see from here that the torah said no there's no shaykhs of the father they're bosses like that of a horse it's nothing beneficial you could also read it nap time myself in naptime chart number one these are very very simple charts but you have very maybe make it larger because it's on the wide one i had to do y today because one chart again has like like at least 15 people in it all the way then over here you have ruckle in the center she had two sons but from two different men on the top leaving and ruling so yehuda gets married to five towns so shimon is related to that five towner through the mother it's his brother from his mother so we're talking about these are garem i don't have good pictures of gary i want to use mustafa but these are all game they look nice and jewish today no problem shimon can marry five counter underneath me in the screen i don't know if there's a way to change that box a little bit okay everything's going to be like this until further notice garrison okay fine maybe i should restart my computer if i restart the computer i'll go back to that thing we do we have the camera over there you should take your own shotgun okay so there's no problem for shimmy to marry yehuda's wife my love and we want to prove our point here my love yehudah married the five towner when he was jewish nevertheless there's no real connection between chimin and yehuda because their mother gave birth to them when they were non-jews psychologically they're not related what happened was yehuda married the five counter under the backs when he was a guy oh better where's the guy so if he if he married her when she was a when he was a guy so of course they're not related and of course she can marry her and we're going to have this line like i think three times mao the same elixir the case where yehuda was a guy when he married the five towner ought to the case that when he's a yid commercial the um this is a very interesting story here i was overseas i found this exact case shimon married yehuda's wife his sister-in-law who gave you permission look here's a woman who converted with seven of her children and they all married each other's sister-in-laws no problem he said two things one thing has nothing to do with the other but that's exactly the point that's important to us that a girl can marry a sister-in-law what does that mean to us they're not related yes they have the same mother physically but allah ugly they're not related and therefore i can marry my vo omar and he said something completely no relation the gemara says it's very significant that he said this because that proves that what he's saying is true he wouldn't just throw it allah there from rebecca make it up so because the question is in a second how could we trust this guy about himself he's trying to say oh i'm allowed to marry my sister-in-law because wherever kevin said him and foolish foreign people make stuff up no but here he goes walmart via shimla two times yoina there's a mice over there you saw yankee fisher a guy used to buy master yaring every single year and one year an american guy comes into the place and he starts buying them after yoda now in the show that i gave nafion for eight years in chicago there was a guy there very big bout zucker if shaq called him the gullah darms daca morris formulas so every year we buy them after i know one year the guy who gets up oh master yarina 18 dollars says maurice formulas 18 thousand dollars so nobody of course no way this guy also guy goes 18 shaquille he says 19 sheckle the guy from america says 100 i don't know what to do he's stuck he says he goes i buy this every every year what do you what are you doing what do you why how could you let this guy it's that really the guy won for a hundred hundred two and a half dollars whatever the price goes over there just twelve and made sure and a month later the guy died so the assignment came to the israelian fish and he said he wanted to buy it and he was relying and he kept him going and he died he looked at them and he said you know why when i gave him that bracha he didn't say oh man that's the mice anyway going back to after you i know calling me as gary on that note [Applause] wow i did not prepare that did not tony mia's guaran could they say don't make that video you better say homemade to that on video my live denis ball oh so accompaniment says that the guy he married his sister-in-law tonight has given you something so you see from here even in the case where he married his sister-in-law when he's already jewish and he's still not related he married her when he was a guy milo memro mao the same oh by the way when the gemara says that he married her when he was a guy it obviously rashi sticks in they didn't have relations after he was a jew because if he had relations after his jew he was coiner when he was a jew okay just a side note so what's the hidden if he married when he was a guy remember [Music] something else or he's not being accurate according to others but of course they're actually literally lying to because he's biased ibrahimovic he already said this many times before he got married he brought a raya from a current story that was before believe him on everything else and it's it's knicker says rashid that what he's saying is true um who spoke to you for the second time his wife didn't speak to you three times this is talking about yerov and ben yosh a king chrysler was doing extremely poorly and then they they lost the the army and they're they're they're doing terrible so who felt bad for them he's okay you know what i'm gonna put you back and that's part of the shot over here by the way every time we mention we should mention jaina was an average person he's an average joiner but he went to simple spaces and because of his simcha that he had it in this foreign i was saying that when it comes to the whole story with nimbe akuzrah only spoke them twice could be spoke to him other times as well as hashem flipped the situation like he flipped it by nineveh but it's not that he spoke to jaina kid liked the time that he spoke to yoina tashma okay so we still have to figure out going back to the original question two guys that are brothers from a mother at least they become gayrim and one of them gets married could the other one marry his wife his sister-in-law gary lay doesn't do very short his mother conceived them when [Music] she was a guy but she gave birth to him when he was a jew yes so he's related through the mother anything that happened has to do with the mother's related but his father he lost relations with his father he marries his own sister here you have a a mother who had two children one of them is the guerr one of them is his own sister he marries yaitzy he marries her he must get rid of her why um yeah the mother gave the right she was born when the when the mother is the guy right she says but why because maybe he sh he will marry the sister that's younger than him this sister is older than him in other words she was a guy but he might marry a sister that's younger than him obviously that's just that is a jew because he himself was born when he was a jew so everything after him is jewish from that mother so that's the xerox we have to remember that zero one sister because the others is because so the whole zero of the suggest now is about the sister that's younger than him mina'av and if they are thank you they are a brother and sister from the father they share the same father unbelievable he can be married his own sister because it's a sister from a father his aunt in other words shimon is allowed to marry his aunt how is she his aunt because his father had a sister from the same mother they share the same mother his aunt and his father share the same five town lady mother my name is again that's the same everything that comes through the ma from the mother is a no-no it's all from the mother men are aimed this this was from a mother so since this the ant is related to him through a mother it's yaitzy turning to that the customer base sponsored by mr horn in honor of hilazan sponsor in honor of ellie by the way in case you weren't listening to the emails because some people skipped those it also makes it very easy you go on youtube and it says emails and here's the daf like six uh three to four three minutes in starts to dive get over it for that i need a high five get over here it's all tired it's all tired no it's not [Music] variety some people just listen to that part how could it be listen the last guy that made fun of my emails got kicked out of what whatsapp right we're trying to get him back on i hope he's watching okay mino avikai so if you don't watch the emails red boys say there's a serum mdyceum to see him in new york it's going to new jersey in the new jersey it's going to be an amazing event oh israel that's your problem i'm not going to be here you got to go because the king you got to go convince them to come there to stroll deal new jersey there's going to be a big ceo dr factor is working in a very nice year mayor go speak to him hashem he's going to be a ceo so what yes yeah yeah i can't no i'm but no i was going to be with anyways we have a big coverage somebody actually i spoke to somebody let's say it's one of the guys here could i come to the scene in america people want to come flying even for marriage and stroll check out the tickets before you say that because tickets are over 200 close to 250 people already signed up by the way 30 bahrain signed up 30 bahrain already that's unbelievable the only thing on there right now is the cm and deal the other scene will coming on soon soon all right min if it's a check this out the same exact thing but it's your and related through the father your your your father and his sister share the same father but now mother yikayam akhoy so aim me how about your own aunt who happens to be the guerra avi this is you there's a lot lot going on with you today your aunt who happens to be your mother sister through a mother through a woman through the five counter and he marries her yoitsy okay again there's a sad mother over here anything that's to do with the mother me no but in this case where he's marrying the same lady but the way they're related his aunt and his mother are only related through her father over also not similar to his the whole concern is it's similar to the this his own sister from his mother no this is different this is an ant this is something else anything that has a little bit resemblance to a relation relationship from the mother's side you cannot be married to mr mahavika um here this is the case we're talking about sticking the word the box takes it in may she's talking about same case we spoke about before just on the over here i put the married in other words shimon is marrying his brother's wife but and they're related through the mother when it comes to garrett's more it's worse to be related through a mother than from a father ube that's this case over here that ruben has a brother levy and lady is married to a woman so shimon goes ahead and marries that woman in other words his aunt but his aunt is married to his brother's with his father's brother yeah you're confused there you don't know who you're marrying anymore your father has a brother and that brother has a wife your aunt okay usher cola royals what does that mean marrying your own father's wife because again your father zerma it's it's garnet you're not related to your father so you're marrying his wife not your mother his wife big difference chart number eleven you're married shimon marries his a mother and the that mother's daughter a mother and daughter when now we change speeds a little bit we're changing the fact that he did it when he was a guy now when he's a jew now if a jew does it the first one he marries is his wife the second one is nothing not his wife but since he did it when he was a guy and now he became a girl what does he do as a dilemma is he glad to be married to both of them if he can only be married to one who does he divorce what does he do pick and choose you can decide which one he wants to be married to and he shouldn't do it like he's going to say what that means here we're talking about the michigan again a guy can marry his mother-in-law if he's a garrett no oh yeah if he's married to this anyone's his mother yeah correct me so mesa but over there it's only one vegan that's right what's going on and some say it's awesome to marry your sis your mother-in-law tony mias but we see nevertheless this case the case or where is it [Music] if it says here you're allowed to marry your brother-in-law again the same lesson we have before it's a freebie we have a writer of akha that you let him marry your sister-in-law even though it happened after they both became gayrim before him oh my we just learned if he marries a mother and a daughter either it says before you have to divorce one so i would have had you allowed to go ahead in the first place and do it says we're not even talking about that case hassam kai wakhigama we're talking about the case of those kind of cases in the beginning of the break in this case a guy marries his own sister who's related to him only through a father and we said he's allowed to stay married but it's not a good idea to do so that's what it means but we're not talking about the case before of a mother and a daughter we're talking about this case and the case is similar to that if his wife dies you're allowed to marry your mother-in-law it's awesome so this is you just had the other day behind for a regular jew after the mother-in-law dies from after the the wife dies according to small the mother-in-law you if you're over on the mother-in-law you get miso you get schreifer just like if you the wife was alive remember we had the pasuk sn the together not together we gave you guys a mirror upon him so we made it back here also amanda the one that says that a guy aguero could marry his mother-in-law there's no there's no strafa it's alive but it's it's weaker big abigail and therefore by guerrillas says no sponsored by their own corn blood [Music] check this chart out you have five women who gave birth to five boys and this is what happened there's a big mishmash what happened i did it again i told you this story i just read i'm struggling a story about the two two guys in ukraine that got mixed up in the hospital mice and shy is still alive now one was a very wealthy family one was a very poor family the the kid from the poor family went to the wealthy family the kid from the wealthy family went to a poor family and the poor lady not only she's poor she lost her husband she brings up this kid and she doesn't recognize this kid he's like a nice gishmaking normal kid she's not he's not like any of her other kids and he's blonde and this and that the other guy is a meshogun he's beating up his brothers and this and that the whole thing and they they figure out after 20 years that they were switched to the hospital and then they tell this this kid the poor kid the nice kid you want to go back to your mother he goes yeah he goes he goes in this big mansion they tell this other kid the the rich kid you want to go to your mother he goes no so the rich family gets both kids it's a whole it used to happen all the time today with the bracelets and the yeah the whole thing dna it's possible five women get burned the same blood they all got mixed up what's the next step check this out next step is that each one has a brother the the the mother knows that this is my son each one has a vada the mother has a vaday son these are the spaces i don't know i just grabbed one baby from the hospital i know one of the five is mine i don't know which one so if you take this whole group and they all live together listen they had to be by each other's houses because there's a big rachmanas they didn't know so they all live together then it gets even more interesting each suffolk guy marries a woman now if you look at the suffolk i think any guy on the right you say you see the guy the guy with the shramal and the soviet brother he's a father he's his mother's daughter the guy next to him on the right i don't know if it's my brother not so if my brother goes bye-bye if that strayman guy's brother goes bye-bye he can't perform ibum or maybe he could what should he do it's not 100 his brother but this definite so what happened was all the fakers died of course in this story and they all died without children they're all very depressed people whatever happened over there and now the question is the women for sure are high of evil no question because from there their husbands have a brother 100 somewhere somewhere one of the five vadas is one of the dead guys brothers just we don't know which one of the fathers is the brother they're all mixed up but they require khalifa for shore but there's a trick here that they could each get to marry one guy and maybe he'll hit it on the nail he'll get he'll be missus even maybe so what we do is the best way to do it is each guy each vader guy takes one woman what could happen is one guy could be me i'm all five and then i'll for sure be making the mitzvah once or the five guys just pick one woman and maybe what are the chances i don't know math i learned the ponovich the chances that each one is going to get hizyobama are probably very low but there's a twenty percent chance that you are going to get your yobama one your vomit is going to get it right i don't know if that's the math maybe not five to five i don't know how it works okay i'm going to get the whole thing 16 emails all the genius math guys it's one another this okay fine so that's exactly what we do so knuckleball on the chart here oh here if you missed that this is what we do is like this four guys do listen to it you're gonna miss it you're gonna miss it here we go check the chart four guys do this give her a khalita one guy the guy in the left let's say does ibum but first everybody does khalitza now he could do ebay because if he does even first he might not she might not be his obama and he's pogeya be a vomit he's not that but he does even to anybody but i just picked this one one all four have to do i couldn't figure out how to get them all to move maybe you will all four brothers on the right should give her khalitza it's either zero the khalido is zero and if one of them really is the real brother of the dead so it's a gurkhalitsa and now shimon all the way on the left just marries a stranger from the street it's possible that shimon married his actual obama ah she got khalitsa beforehand it's not khalitza zero she got khalid's from the wrong person next what else do we have here um i don't know if there's oh oh and then they do it to the second one the other four brothers do it to the second one four khalises to the second one one guy i badafka took the guy in the middle the green guy to show that doesn't have to be an order it doesn't have to be the one that any one of the guys can marry any one of the women they got there was there was a mix-up and they got married then nasu nashim and they all died vamazou are both four brothers ducalizer to one by the way this chart i had a lot to do with but yoshi helped me out a lot he he set up i had a whatever fine and one of the five brothers the zebra then it says who usha now the one that performed ibum he should perform khalitza to the next one don't let him do ebon to everyone who is to the second woman and another one does each woman gets four khalitzas bibum and one ebon the galaxy now of course they don't have to be missy album if they want they could refuse it but we're talking about if you want to be kind to think about it to do the mitzvah 100 on one woman or you have i don't know 120 chance or probably less than that and you might mess miss it completely what's better so when you're looking at the guy if the guy wants to perform a mitzvah see you look at him i want a 20 chance that's what they say let's say what's in hashem that one of them should be maybe are you talking about the person i don't want to give up my mitzvah i want to have the mitsubishi once in a lifetime opportunity let me try at least one out of five maybe i have a 20 chance of of of making it happen even though it's very likely that it won't happen at all if we look at the the mitzvah in the total most likely we would have told them let one guy do even to everybody so at least one of them for sure 100 will get ebay versus missing it completely but we're not looking at it as a total looking at each of them independently he wants to be trying to get the mitzvah what he's doing no no they all got khalid first all four got khalid first and then oh you have to stick in a word here what's the word do we stick in about him without getting into the real you if you take no no you take these five vadas okay and you do this just understand just to make it very simple the guy in the middle the guy with the scramble he has two brothers in the mix in the mix of the five brothers one guy is related to the guy from the five towns but only through a mother so therefore he cannot perform ye boom on the five town's wife because he's related to him through a mother and there's no evil man a mother on a relationship with he cannot be he might do navera so that's why the khasid must do khalito that's the only way out he has another brother from a father ok next and the rest of the other four they could do same thing look at the chart it just says the khasit is a kayan the guy from the 510 is a kind so he cannot perform yebomb after this khalitsa she might be a kalutsa he might be marrying a kalutsa a kind cannot marry halluci she's like a grusha so therefore they only perform the khalifa part and finally the last thing if part some of the brothers are some of them are related through the mother elevator let me have him they cannot do them have a wonderful day [Music] you