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the lerner from border park ah remember's here in the house i don't know we don't go we don't we don't he's literally she looks literal to me there mendel come why don't you come over here to the front can't see him on the camera okay he's wearing a bieber hit i don't know what that is okay who else what the ron what's your name i know you where did i meet you in the in your slime no where did i meet you no we met of course we met gotti power okay revoir side here check this out no where did i meet you do you remember where i met you it wasn't that it wasn't it wasn't that it was oh i did i met him outside sadi gotti i met you outside of the basement remember yes yes yes okay it wasn't that memorable for you but it was very memorable for me um here's jakob yosef ayal our merch guy he says before she posed for the picture nevertheless it's a great picture shawn rabelli these socks are spotted tonight at a wedding in passaic turns out these are mdy socks turns out that the one and only the silent gans was wearing them this was the wedding of my brother rami kasper to nassau against his sister-in-law a derrick blazer being that i'm also part of mdy it seems from here that not only members of the cult married within but also relatives of cult members also only marry within mazdatov ire casper rbs dalid over here we have mutti says rebellion i'm doing the dive with you since megillah and yes it's changed my life i'm constantly seeing the pictures and videos people send you when i watch this share i sell cake for parnasso and i service the stores weekly in the tri-state area last week i had a surprise waiting for me in ridiculous supermarket in monty new york is that how you pronounce it oh red delicious everybody go shop at red delicious supermarket in muncie new york it's uh what's the word that i said yesterday conspiracy hypocrisy hypocrisy well how did i say it hypocrisy i made up a thing as i walked in nakhon had a glass yesterday as they walked into the store i noticed works in the store putting together phone orders had some video playing on his phone in the shopping cart you know you ever wonder how come you get somebody else's chicken and that guy's think that's why he's watching the sheer while he's getting okay hello the shopping cart it got a little close and this is what i saw i can't believe it okay and here a boy's eye we have another one two-year-old trying to say good morning our voice i here goes oops you guys have to do a different way [Music] why is this a new generation generation of torah for out with the days and over here we have from sami joseph he says that art school also is a sticker ponovich with their english it says scare crapper instead of sharecropper so a b prefers using the art schools you can read all the notes maybe he's that a 12 year old that came here father very nice in english is the case in point he joked that the art school also seems to have learned fundamentals okay rabbis i the carlos sponsored this month that's all commerce boxing diy arun freeman let's go continue to rebellion number two by the black and white baby families lakewood new jersey because toyota is the best gulo and the parents of college is the third one the nicholas kyo basio this is a very very special sponsor for today this is a woman dorit schonbrunn in honor of my husband joey's 50th birthday unbelievable everybody a big muslim to joey now what's very special is i called up dorit she asked me to call her so i called her and she gave me a whole rundown about how she's so proud of her husband and how it's changed her husband's life and how it's changed her life a whole thing he does the death twice a day he took upon himself many other things so i know it's very scary i'm holding right there right before the 50. i'm i'm very nervous about 50. 50 is a big number for me so i wish you a tremendous mazel tov basically shem i'll get to meet you in person because from dallas texas right by the dallas texas okay here we go we're on top of daff sadiq so if we want we could just read the the three last lines we have a question do we have any extra seats here yeah we have some seats come come in so what's your name again denver colorado come we have a seat right over here right over here development or over there i want you closer to me but okay denver section all right so the gemara goes on to say remember we said that perhaps when it comes to a yavamil ashok for a decade to be matar or yavama how is he mata yvonne two ways either he says the eight comes and says the of them died there is no yavim or he comes to testify that at the time of the death of the husband there was a child still around and then the child died later she was deposit from evil do we believe such a aid or don't we believe such an aide and then we said perhaps because she hates her brother-in-law so much it's either love hate and place goes into that whole thing hate is stronger than love therefore we say that she wasn't dying we don't have the svara that a woman looks into it and makes sure that the idea that it's not you can't just rely on one aide obviously so what's happening is we're trying to rely on the hud together with her research and then we come up but over here since we don't trust her research because she doesn't want to be married to the album so she's going to trust adelhod fully without going into it i have a riddle very very negative based in sav what does this have to do with that sadiq dalit any genius nobody duff daf 94 daft94 now who got me this f94 and we need f94 it's tremendous that he's still going strong that's all the guys are going strong in new york and vomits hardly ever used only all right huh oh f94 hint akiva salkowitz akiva salkwitz welcome to the daft tatting dollar oh my lord that a woman is potter from ebon she could go get married whoever she wants that or is dead we learned it another case in the mission let's see if we have this case here here they're married and then they say that the husband went bye-bye so therefore she's potter from e-boom but then they said it was reversed the son died afterwards and then she went and she got married to a random person so it says since it was the reverse she had no right marrying that other person because she's the obama and she has the of them they say va vlad riches take a look what's going on over here you have the vlad rishon vlad achroin they're both vampirin meaning before she knew that she was married illegally after she was married after she found out that she she can't be married they're both from zaire by the way oh i forgot to say zack sullivan's last last day here in arizona right not for a long time because i'm going to come back but he's leaving yeshiva levatora and he's been doing the daf since magilla right great guy comes all the time to miss measures so he is over here what do you mean zach have a talk in america don't let all the stusm all the gashes get to you continue to death convince your father to do the daf hekidami says gomorrah what's the case our mission what's the case elim betrayed trey if this sounds familiar we had exactly these same words the same argument at the end of yesterday on the other case so what what's the case here if there are two adam that testified that she should get she could get married that the album is dead and then two adam came afterwards and said no so it's two against two another question momser you're going to call her children that little guy a momser suffering mom zero she got married based on the testimony of two adam two way they can come and say that she shouldn't have gotten mad okay so you have a suffolk at least but why are you calling it a definite momser same thing same word for word that we had yesterday any of you will say that the mishnah was a media against the word it didn't mean mama shams it meant a suffolk monster didn't want to stick in there it figured you you understand hamid dikhtani save a harish mam servicer it says that the second kid once she found out so what's happening the the in the case we have the the original mishna the case where she this woman found out that her husband's dead she got married to a second guy then ate them come along and they say no when you got married your husband was still alive today he's not alive one child was born when he was alive equals what a momser one child was born after he died not a momser so the the from the fact this explains this from the fact that the mission says ain't no imam sir it's not a monster but you know what it is a little bit of a mountain there are abandoned it is a monster she has to get divorced and there are balance so the kid is mid-random but the mishna considers it not a mom's way at all so you see that the mishnah doesn't just call a semi-mams or a monster it's either a monster or nada manzar the mishna says the restraint it's 100 percent of manza so don't tell me that the mishnah is not media this is very die so it can't be that we have two ate them against two a them so we're talking about there's one a that testifies and this is what we're trying to prove we're trying to prove whether or not one aide has the power to allow a woman to get married whoever she wants and not worry about the of them the time it doesn't make trademark and the reason why she has to get divorced and everything is because two of them came afterwards and they were makrish the first thing but without that one aid is believed fine marsh looks it up and says no la la tree it's two adams say that she could get married then a day later two of them come and say the husband is alive and well she can't be married so what if we had a question if it's two against two so kim mandalasa forget about it so she can remain married why does she have to get divorced it's two against two no what we're talking about is the second adam are not just testifying that the husband is alive but they're also testifying at the same time that the two adam that originally testified they're liars you weren't even there you weren't in america you're never strong at the time what are you hacking so they're the spell they're contradicting they ate them not in just in the aedes but in who they are in their character they're liars both both yeah accordingly i saw an acharyan dr leonard says this the different what yeah no it seems like this the mission says and in addition they're being amazing yeah that's what it seems like i saw some aquariums in force like that i think others argue fine i just had a question here yesterday that sent the whole coil into a spin why didn't the gemara say this on the base yesterday we had the same exact raya from the other part of mishnah and we said it if it's two and two then it's it's two against two so it must be one and then here you see you could trust one that was on mace ballet and then we asked the question on mesa vomit do we trust me and now think about it comes up with that zama they're looking looking i found last night now it's close to midnight aramban that says it's the same thing i called it my havrusa but i think i don't think it's up i didn't want to go to sleep without knowing like they didn't know what to do it's like didn't make it like it was either a really dumb question or like but nobody spoke about it nothing no art scroll garnished but the rambam hashem the i think does say that you could you could apply this this pirka also because it seemed like almost like uh it's a great writer one eight is nemo no maybe it's talking about two a dim i have the question is two against two no we're talking about azama okay i still have to if you see him in the morning when he comes in for chakras maybe let him know because i'll probably forget vanilla avashi tashma is one aide believed to say to yavama you're not a yo-bama your or your husband died before your child died and therefore your partner a woman has not believed on herself to say oh my of him died and she's also not believed to say my sister died and therefore i can marry my sister's husband my brother-in-law right now we're going to talk about that you're not allowed to marry a man is not allowed to be married to two women so she also has that so she can't be married together with her sister to the same man so she testifies her sister died we don't believe her says mario so you could you can be dying he needs she's not believed so you could believe one eighth says that's not a good why but let's continue let's see if it fits into the rest of a man is not believed that my brother died my and therefore i could be me having my sister-in-law not believed on his own on his own brother mesa and the same thing reversed he can't he can't testify that his wife died she fell off the cruise ship and now he can marry the the sister-in-law so make the same the same argument oh it seems like the husband himself is not believe but a different guy a stranger is believed one guy one stranger but that that makes no sense why because if you think about it the only time we believe is in our suggestion why in the world will we leave on a man to let a man get married you're married to as many women as he wants la lafa vishnu he's not a gun thing he's a man at least in the time of the gemara ishmael says it's very severe that even though if she gets married to somebody else instead of her you have them hurry up is still alive but she gets mad at somebody else that's only a yes sir laughs there's no chorus yet but according to rybakiva it's a terrible thing it's a disaster why her children turn out to be mumsarim so she's going to be super careful and if she's super careful we can't trust her commerce malone and rashi takes out this line over here robo omar hey i have proof you're asking me could an aide be trusted that this woman is motor to the world she's not hiving evil yes i have a kava climate why makes a lot of sense what he's saying lisa korres hold on a second comes and says maize ballet so what is he testifying that she's not asia's ish she can marry the world that's the worst in the world right almost we're going to see that it's not such a it's considered cow compared to other things fine one eight is believed to be material but the israelite look culture so certainly that eight echo should be believed to let her be over alive the worst that she's going to be over is alive if if the of them is still alive and she married somebody else it's not asian she's over in a lovely see yeah if we trust either to be mater asia from the gimbal hamburgers so certainly we should believe that same eid to allow her to marry anybody in the world and the most that she's going to be over is alive of not marrying outside of the evil this is all this is a lovely culture i don't know why it doesn't bring his name it's a bomb question he asked rob he acts what are you talking about it's not a good cavalcade de la is forget the eight you're trying to prove to me when a stranger comes and testifies that her husband is dead we believe him certainly if he testifies that the album is that we should believe him but wait a minute she herself could prove to you the opposite the woman herself the listed car sitarta if she testifies invested in that that she saw her husband fall off the cruise ship she's believed on the husband on an asia but at the same the same woman is not believed to say that her young died and then she's mother the sugar that we just learned so mine obey your whole kind of claim is out the window you see that we don't prove anything from asia's ish yes frasier says she's believed and foreign i'll explain to you the the logic behind it what's the reason the cave is in the signilay like daikon means she doesn't want to be stuck with this guy just because she married his brother she has to be married she has to be married to the young for the rest of her life so she's not going to look into it she's going to trust me like that means why is a woman not believed on her she's believed that her husband died let's not believe that the oven died because she doesn't want to she doesn't want to be married to him she's therefore we can't trust they don't either you already have some questions today there's a good one fine let's go i'll give you another one no what oh so i was thinking about that we learned there's a like a machete is rashing tyson tyson says that's not just remember we learned the sugiya of i didn't look into it but that when we learned the sugar of um so she's there's a positive that says she could get out of it if it's mukesh tai says all good reasons rasheed doesn't we go with rashi rashid doesn't hold that what what exactly is he's going to do here i think don't quote me because my memory is terrible but i remember such a suggest of if could could any reason apply at the end of the day you could be kind of about that's a it's a thing so when yes when not places has to talk to you explain to you so we learned that madrid's doris river that was if the second guy the aide testifies the husband died and the second guy comes along and he doesn't do a full nissuan he does aerosol he just captures her he gives her a ring they weren't over anything she accepted a ring from a guy so we learned that even if that second guy gives her a get to get a zero what do we care if it's zero first of all the marriage is zero you can't be married to another man if you're married to the first guy the first guy is alive you thought he's dead but he's alive so the marriage has never come so the get that he gave her is zero but sometimes i get that he gives her and the right she doesn't need to get but that get ruins it for kuna over here says rebellizer massio it doesn't ruin for kuna or listen to this have a later veloz of the midrash bay marganisa he could have pulled out of this passage a diamond with dorajbay haspa and he pulled out a piece of broken glass a piece of broken shard he met he missed his opportunity he mama missed an opportunity a beautiful opportunity to get a diamond there in other words to say that the guy that's not married to her at all zero marriage and he gave her a get it's like stop a guy in the street goes over to a woman gives her a guess does that possible for kuna then her husband dies afterwards she's an armada she gru she also goes some is sure gonna decide to give her a get this guy is also not related to her at all he had no business being married to her so that was a push of this fire you don't have to use the possible way for that but listen to this he says even if the husband gives her a get there's a certain daddy gives her and it doesn't do anything doesn't affect her is her takuna that what the sagna lisa grew from me she's divorced from her husband so he wanted to taina from her husband and not from a stranger or a guy that thinks he's her husband but no i have a better shot i feel like i get the poison so if i care the supposed to say something else that what this is a big kiddush the husband gave her divorce and said you are only divorced from me and from nobody else in the world so it's not a good get and i would think but you're not you're not muted to the whole world you're you're divorced from me not muted to the world he says what kind of divorce is it you don't have to be with me great but you're also to everybody else in the world it's like a half a get so obviously it's not a good gun but this is called the reach schmeck get it smells like a get and therefore that ruins it for kuna she continues to be married to this guy but if this guy dies she can never marry a kind because she's a little bit divorced with this silly get that he gave her and that we learned from this possum that you're shaking your head that's an unbelievable diamond because you don't believe it it's like doesn't make sense oh it's before your positive that's what he should have doctioned you you left a beautiful shot on the table all right mishna sponsored by the wrong corn booth my dad uribe matasiyo and tarokinis and kashmiris of my kids so a woman went out of the country now the gemara i just want to be mocked in a little bit you don't have to learn a chat right now maybe but the gemara is going to say that we're talking about also when the brother-in-law so it goes like this oh you have two couples there you have ruvain and rahul and dentist and leia so rahul and leia are sisters you see they're identical sisters and rahul and the dentist they go off to madina sayam so rouhane who is married to rocco marries leia marries his sister why they found out they are the ship went down everybody died so now ruben decides he can marry leia just married they're married happily married until knock on the door we're back so what happened the same thing that we discussed nakamura ruvain was married to rocco rocco has his sister leia leia's us are 100 to be married to ruvain because she's a choice but because the two of them the it's a little confusing i'm putting it in here because we're going to have to see tomorrow extensively this case because the brother-in-law took his sister-in-law rocco on a trip on a cruise and they died they thought they died adam came and said they died so may larue went ahead and married leia okay now rocco shows back up she shows up so ruvain is also to be married to the sister but he's allowed listen he's allowed to go back to his wife he didn't know what else do we have here oh that's the next one okay we'll see to eight and one eight maybe we won't see a little confusing part of it is two part of it is one armor they told him the your wife died and he went ahead and he married leia and then his wife shows up muteress laughs her lie she's permitted to come back to him now before we go on sponsored by mushy horn in honor of hill xan sponsored in honor of ellie et cetera et cetera um that's the huge question the relationship that ruben had with leia is zero they were never married they weren't allowed to be married it was a mistake so therefore since there's no marriage ruben could go ahead and marry leia's daughter even though he had a lot of relationships with leia but it wasn't a real relationship it wasn't marriage the only time rooming becomes austrian that girl that little girl lay's daughter is if he had a uh a halachic marriage with leia but it wasn't somebody's mother to the daughter ushnia and what about leia herself mutters mcgregor she's allowed to marry ruben's brother whatever criva the masonry shayna mutabishniya if the first sister dies he's allowed to go back to the second one very very interesting even though they had an illegal relationship nothing yeah it was nothing it was a mistake it was oscar nothing yet um we're going to see look there's no zerus over here there's no drama so overlay may say they told him that his wife died vanessa's and because of that he married his sister like we learned in the first case just separated into two stages they said there was two stages first when you married the sister your wife was still alive so that part was illegal but now it's legal for you to be married to her like the mission said you're allowed to marry afterwards so continue being married have lad richard i'm like so the child that they had when they were illegally married as a moms or the child they had later when they were legally married is not a momser over here we're not going to explain anything because we have to explain it tomorrow review what does it mean exactly we're going to start the gemara we'll see a little bit of what it means but basically when it's a suki tomorrow and on saturday on base the affidavit says so going back over here here even though the dentist his brother-in-law and his own wife went off on a on a cruise so what's the difference so it went the brother the honey that it works what happens is i don't know do i have that oh yeah the dentist is no longer allowed to be married to his own wife because his own wife had a illegal relationship with reuven she's asia sish nothing to do with that she is a nation she can't go back to her husband she should have looked into it whatever however we want to learn she got married with one aide or she should have looked in better we or we hold even two of them she can't go back whatever it is affiloahe nevertheless even though from this cruise ship from this story a terrible thing happened one woman is completely oscar to her husband nevertheless we don't care about rocco rocco could go back to her husband rouvey and that's where bicy holds not like that reverse he holds if one is also not the other and that's that that's the soyuz tomorrow one is dependent on the other sort of giza so the i'm sorry over here the the the dentist the guest the brother-in-law is ushered to to his sister-in-law to roof and sister-in-law we're talking about reuben from reuben's perspective his brother-in-law and sister-in-law leia and the dentists are also to each other ishtari the wife of rouvain sharia rahul is mother to ruben and we don't say we don't say since leia is oscar to his brother-in-law the dentist he also issued a love that's exactly what our boys hold no we don't say that great laymas is like kiva perhaps our mission doesn't go according even that's interesting because stop you know the other mission it was rivakiva so this one is not like you i think the kumar is going to say it it could go like ruby like wants to say that perhaps it's not rebecca why did he remember a beautiful thing how could ruling remarry or get back with his wife if he must divorce leia and the is you can't marry even the sister of a divorcee not you can't be married reuven can't be married to rocco if roovey met divorced leia oh but according to him if you have to divorce her if reuben has to divorce leia they had this illegal relationship instead of her just bye-bye okay the husband and the wife come home oh you know show my easter all we had three kids together and we had a great life but i'll see you later with no divorce okay but if you hold you have to divorce her so like nobody talks or whatever the reason is zero then it would be oscar to get back with his own wife because she's grusha this is something we just learned that all that rice if somebody marries his own mother and they tell what are you doing she doesn't have to go give her a get it never and never grabbed that marriage quote besides the case that we had in the mishnah that a woman whose asian gets married based on the testimony of one aide and then here's eva verbal keeper here even we don't even know what the case is oh but for the question it's great it says you must if you by mistake marry your your wife's sister they told you that your own wife is dead so you might say you have to give your wife's sister divorce so if you have to give her a divorce how in the world can you remarry your wife or get back together with the wife to your wife [Music] i hear and what if the i don't know what if the sister was born after you married that say at the end of the day you're married it comes at your marriage that i hear it's a nice sorrow but that's not allah then that you're married to he's asking that maybe it's different because he's the man is already married to this woman and the divorce came after the divorce to her sister came after he's ready he's already married to rahul and then he divorced leia afterwards so how would that affect his marriage to rocco he's asking but it does you're not going to be married what nice try but not a lot yeah that's not that long keep it moist we so immediately she becomes austin she becomes the sister of a grusha says gemara this is a nice try but you forgot to mention the case if you just take the word okay but what is the case it's not a case that applies haramishna and therefore our mishnah could go according to rebikiva we'll have it my law you already our mission is talking about a married woman over here it's a different case so the brother heard that his own brother died so he went and he married the muku dashas says mark explains that i mean tonight i have a lady conducion what are people going to say people are going to say why did the brother marry his brother's wife married her because there was a night in the condition the the so you can make it nigh in anything you can make it tonight in a marriage you can make it tonight in a condition you can say if you don't do this and this and that if this doesn't happen the condition is over but you'll never do that in a marriage why why wouldn't somebody do that in a marriage because then it comes out that every time you had relations with your wife and they know them so that only applies this idea of tonight only applies in a condition and therefore the high chapter not so people are going to say the second guy he got married legitimately oh and so now that he got married legitimately and he just walked out on her without giving her a guess now people are going to start saying rumors are going to say oh you let it divorce you could just leave your wife without a divorce fine and the same thing would happen which we're talking about now same exact thing peggy dummy what's the case he showed me this here's my catfish a woman and the man went what who you're going to get this is your people are not going to say anything about it they can say they're going to understand that there's a deny here and he got married and therefore you have to give a gift then that's why rebecca comes along and says give a get because people think it's a legitimate marriage that house issue but in our case it's not a legitimate marriage nobody's going to say that nobody does it tonight in their marriage and therefore you don't need to get if you don't need to get there's no shiloh oh she's married to to to tahrir so the mission can go even according to rebecca when ravakiva says you have to give a get he's talking about only in the case by kidushin not being soon great question why does it say a case that a person heard that his wife died so he went in he married his own mother-in-law now what's the answer let's talk about that now okay you're talking about him people who married the mother okay fine and over here insured all the motherland jokes i i said this three weeks ago but every three weeks you gotta say the same joke the guy was walking down the street in bar park and he hears the guy screaming help help he says what happened he says my mother wants to jump she says no at the rabbits great he's yeah but i can't get the window open i didn't just say it oh listen to this i don't know about you but when i read it i read it like the terrors of the gemara after the wife dies it's like almost like a choice once the sister dies once your wife dies you can marry the sister once your wife dies you can marry your mother-in-law but look at the lush it's a funny lushen there's no shrafer mashem at the something else no nothing about understands it's 100 butter so if it's 100 muthur you thought you were doing something that's muther you heard that your wife died but this is only remakiva if the mishnah goes according to their kiva there should have been another case of a mother-in-law you thought you were allowed to marry and then then the wife comes back knocks on the door sees her mother in the house hashem the sanyo bay she's your voice and it says in the possum what in the world what is it okay i say i understand you kill him what's sn you kill both women but it says sn both how can you kill both the the first wife your original wife what did she do she's not over here she was married to you legally you went ahead and you were over with the motherless that's why you're gonna kill her obviously that's not the shot so what is the shot oyster so what does it mean is going to explain it there's no math just how you say the word also it means you kill him and you kill her one very keep his sovereignty in other words that a person could be over with his mother-in-law and his mother-in-law's mother that's what the process is going to say if a person is the world's greatest men sugar i mean there's mushroom that marry their mother-in-law but there's a who marries his mother plus her mother he's the both the mother's mother the mothers the mother-in-law's mothers also dies that the word means that they both have to be alive the essen means a different shot he's going to be small in order for the husband to be misa the wife and the mother-in-law to be alive at the same time when he was over if the what if the wife died do you not have miso by being with the mother-in-law it says vasen they both have to be alive you're right rabbi said don't close your mouth yet let's try to get a little bit to death okay we need it for tomorrow chrome is rafa ain't says that's that's how you should read it yes if the wife dies in srifa but me sure me me at the crow of course it's a sir and therefore it's not in the mission you can't say something to say a case that oh he married his mother one of his officers no we're not talking about that says how could he get back with rocco his wife if he had relations with leia the sister should be also immediately just like a woman we penalize you would give her a cannot shall happen um somebody wrote to me a guy in kylo don't forget to say not our coil i'm serious yuri gold's son love it gold medina is mdy something like that i think that's what he meant i said it in his name and he got the thing but i didn't want to say it because it says that you kill everybody and they went to medina yo i don't know that's not a good meaning to have a show about okay so over there we would give her a kunas so we should give him a knot he should have looked at i don't know what he shouldn't have been with his sister-in-law dummy a woman when she's over asia as the posix says she she's awesome to be with her husband bishop he goes over a bottom so we say also that bishoy she can't be with her husband they raised the last year they raised her there's no issue right that doesn't answer the why besides and the gemara explains better um how do you know that your wife doesn't become awesome if the wife herself is sir then she becomes a sir but you can answer your wife because you're with her sister now one minute before you close perhaps you hear this this is unbelievable asia's ish is a light is her why because at the end of the day you could give your wife a divorce and that man she wanted to be with is what to do all of a sudden she there's a way for her to be with that ish we're other things not malcolm so yeah so asia's ish which is cow nevertheless she becomes us or shabbat it's a hummer if you divorce your wife her sister doesn't come with her the only time she becomes mother is if the wife dies so male is more humber than it just is an identity sir i would say that have a wonderful [Music] you