Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 88 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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recognizes the color she's wearing a white dress but how does anybody recognize the hassan they all look the same those men and the answer is you see who takes the kaala home the one who goes away in the limo with the kala that is the hassan anshivus the person who walks away with the torah he's the khasan schwarz is this ghouli day it's a day for to achieve tremendous things in torah and one of the things i recommend is instead of coming to shoal and eating a lot of cheesecake and schmoozing and drinking coffee grabbing mario vamos try to do 10 daff beretifus see how good that feels sit down by the table du jazoro hazora khazoro but finally one of the big ideas to be zaika the torah anchovies again matantari the day of torah is using the candidate of ishachar bellevue we are one the actos we talk about actors and mdy all day long what does it mean actors doesn't necessarily mean that you are polite to the person next to you and you could stand him and you give a half a smile play actors means to appreciate every single year for who they are and what they are everybody's different this person has a rabbit this person doesn't know what a rabbit is this person believes in the medina this person hates the medina but when you could look at another year then say you know what every kid has every year that is special in his own way what are those types to recognize that that's true after some of that you yuzai the torah reboisai a brand new herik we are pretty much done with yeebo with alex of evo we might go into a little bit of khalito today we're going to be discussing adam edos completely different topic aguna eidos when do you believe adidas when don't you believe why are you allowed to eat at your friend's house and trust his casters of meat because of the concept the rashi says and why do we trust our wives the same question why how can we trust our own wives i don't want to say but you want to bring it up it's in the same rashi that says how do you trust your friend so i'm saying what does she gain by by by buying trade for me the guy over there i want to mention his name he gained a couple of cents per pound your own wife but here's the question think about this question are you permitted to go on the street here in a map of michelangelo chavez is beautiful people are selling their own homemade hummuses and stuff and cakes and this and that out in the street everybody sets up a stand people thursday night are making their own chunk in their backyard and people hang out in the backyard until one o'clock in the morning drinking beer eating their chong without a hamster it says and a big sign all ingredients are badass could we trust that no rabbi sai is there a problem eating this chunk it's a huge problem because the definitely swim is only 101 you go to somebody there but four hundred years ago there were mistaken that the the vad by relatives i'm sacking you should not eat without a hamster if somebody's selling it commercially so we have to see these are things we're going to discuss today they're off topic we'll discuss it anyway whatever you want it to mean what it doesn't mean okay we'll say that but that's either says the minister the mission is sponsored by their own corn bluth who's with us today oh with us welcome back when did you get back you've been here since monday her husband disappears goes away now the lotion is plural but it we're going to see that it means a single adequate came and said we i saw your husband is dead you're not an aguna then he says and she got married and then knock knock on the door surprise surprise here she has five children with the new guy and all of a sudden her husband shows up she must get divorced from both husbands and she needs a get even though the second marriage never was khal she was just misano with the second guy but she needs a get we're going to see they look subo so it goes like this rabois i'll cheat i'll tell you the whole sugya this is special takana because we don't want women to remain agunais it's a terrible thing we don't know where the husband is we don't know what happened to him maybe he's in jail somewhere maybe he died somewhere back in the day we have no idea he traveled maybe got lost at sea she can't get married so special heather allowing in it an adequate to testify in her eyes and say that she's not asian says she could get married however if she messes up and she gets married and her husband's still alive there are 16 consequences 16 including losing her nursing homes losing her pay rise losing her clothing she needs getting from everybody we make her sugar she has to go to this bed imagine getting a get from one guy some people takes him years and years to get a get get get a get from two people it's just extra things that we put on her to make sure that if she's going to get married she's hundred percent certain she trusts this either 100 not using it as a cool oh yeah he said my husband's dead let me get married because the consequences are so severe she's actually gonna make sure that it's true what are the consequences that she loses everything she cannot be with her first husband she can't be with the second husband is gonna say all that at the end it's a class we make her run after the second guy even though he doesn't have to give her a get just let's get a get from him too they ain't locked subba she doesn't get the nixie log all the stuff the nursing home that she brought into the marriage really pay rise the the the subah is looks like so embarrassing so milog the nifty log is even from the second husband villain is in eyes so if the second husband use stuff because he's a lot of us he's a lot of benefit from her nursing home because he's her husband but then they find out he was never her husband he doesn't have to pay her back retroactively willem is in us imagine this her husband disappeared for 10 20 years so she didn't have periscope she's borrowing money hoping that when her husband comes back he'll pay it back her husband did come back but she messed up and she married a second person all the 20 years that she borrowed the husband doesn't have to pay back it's her responsibility typically it would be the husband's responsibility the light blighs and not the worn out clothing alzheimer's from both husbands and if she took something from her husband's taxes she has to return the havolad mamzer mizel how much worse can it get her children are mumsarim now from the oh why the first husband these are knossos again we'll see the second guy's kids of course the mom's here what what did the first guy what does that do with the first guy tamala they can't even go to her funeral if she's a client she could they can't go to the funeral vlog yeah if he's like what did i say oh if he's a cayenne he can't go to the funeral he can't be metabolized let him see yourself let me see there okay over here these are just part of the 16 this doesn't hurt her this actually benefits her but if she finds something it doesn't go to them they'll ever ask you them if she works her salary doesn't go to them well they're by far the real they have no right to anal her nadar hoy sebastian's role nicholas if she is the daughter of a israel and she married a kind she can no longer eat truma ubas levy and she's the daughter of a lady sir obasa so if she's a bastard's girl she can't marry quinn anymore if she's a bad slave she can he might say if she's a basket she can't eat true more vanilla if these two husbands one of them dies that she requires khalitza but no yeebo if you i see mary basie argues subbasa there is a tsuba here she doesn't lose her exuber i'll say balor richard the first guy has to pay subway lozarimer another argument horizon zachary means he also massinodel foster the first guy does get anything she finds and her salary and couldn't know her nadarian may fear the netherlands in a number of things first of all he says there's here the first obviously the second guy is nobody had no right getting married to her because she's married to the first one but the ibum and khalitsa of the brothers works for terrorists sarasa and if he performs or khalito and one of the wives the other wives the other wife goes out vain vlad vlad the first kid the first guy's children are not moms another argument now mr says if she gets married without permission so you would think when you're reading the mishna without permission is a terrible thing permission is good without permission is not good over here it's not like that without permission means she has such a strong reason to get married she didn't need permission from besan what does that mean to aid them tweet them come and say your husband is dead so she doesn't have to bother and waste business time two weighed and testified her husband's dead so she got married she she got married to the second guy he was a complete audience they fooled her they made a mistake so so she's let it go back me says i'll pee beside you but if she only got married based on one aide so she had to go to the bed to make sure everything is good they'd say uh she must leave her first husband but she's potter from a carbon because best then allowed her to get married lloyd needs to be best then so again going back if she got married based on two ate them they'd say she must go out from the second guy because the carbon she has to she has to bring her carpet says the gamba says the mishna yafiq besides the besden has the power that she doesn't have to bring a kaaba now listen to this best thing told her she could get married based on the testimony of the aid she's not asian she's not a nation's ish so they gave her permission to get married so listen to this to me it's a huge college she didn't get married but she went and choose mizano but but she's not asian she doesn't pass and she's not asian no the only passing that she could get married they didn't pass it she could go and be misana so on this nose she's a sish dancing a death came and said that her husband is dead say beside okay she's not married to anybody not married to anybody go ahead and marry anybody else she didn't do that she went ahead and she misano with somebody stop she survived miso she says she's ish or whatever she's kaif why because besnet only said you could get married they didn't say anything else they didn't ask him that she's not an asian decision do whatever you want it's not asia's issue it's a big kiddish because they only gave her a hector to get married to not behave a carbon if she's misana it says the mormon military safe and lisa she's mutters if she got married without rashos explains what that means i explained to you that it means adam shalombes was best in ella what does shelley be supposed to mean that she didn't need rashos it was so powerful the testimony because there was two the claude so therefore even though the mission doesn't seem like it because the mishnah says the first line of two people came and said your husband died it doesn't mean two it means there was testimony of one way therefore so here you see from our mishnah that one aide is believed that her husband is dead with nanami we also learned in order to marry off a woman you could have a testimony from a testimony i ate this from an aide hearsay the ishmael not only that it could be a woman and not only a woman a woman that heard it from another woman that's how michael we are not only that we ishmael and a lower madre government over here you see the idea that one eight is believed the world is going to explain all the way at the end aguna so it says that they went to the woman directly because if they went to bed and it's already bruce was buzzing no she just says when she gets married i met these two people showed up and told me that my husband died if one person testifies you just ate half half the fat in the animal that's awesome to eat this fat that you're letting that's called schumann this kind of is it the rice to eat only in animals like sheep and cows but not a deer yeah not a not a kayak he denies it one eight says you ate and he himself he he argues with a potter says because he denies it but if he was quiet muhammad it's a big why because we're going to see that how does it fit into the pasta it seems from the pasta in order to be high of a carbon you have to know it on your own not that somebody told you almo what's the hidden what does that mean he's nemo the nukuda is very important rashi points out beautiful because if you trust this one aid that you have to bring a carbon you just brought an animal into the azara as a khatus and that's hulemba zara if you're not you can't just bring an animal and chucked an animal on the base of ming dash that's hulemba zara the only way you can bring the animals if you're high of akhatos you did a navera so i'm trusting this one guy that you did in avera and therefore you not have a ninja for bringing in a carbon into the base amigdas that's what it means how do i know that one aide is believed his average means that other people shouldn't teach it to him he knows it on his own so maybe it means all the way to the end that even though he's quiet somebody told him that he ate khalif he should be partner because it says it should have said yoda it says that means it became no it's in between came known through an aid then it's an awareness that creates a fear of to bring hey dummy elimination you could kill a person capital punishment is based on the testimony of two people so of course if two people came and said so obviously that's not what the positive is coming to teach us coming to teach us even in a situation where there's one aide and if he doesn't say anything that is believed here we have a source that is going to shrug this up we don't have a source it seems like we have a source that one eight is believed to say that you ain't caleb says [Music] how do we know that uh aid is believed maybe it's because he was quiet our case think about it our case is no i was quiet that means i agree i ate a piece of fat you caught me red handed hey you ate fat you ate kalev the rice and i was quiet that means i admit you got me but if a woman ate comes and says to a woman your husband died and she's try sick she admitted to something she has no clue she wasn't in africa she doesn't know what happened over there so there's no riot tower mishna so how are you proving from this pastor that one aid is believed what's the proof think about what the proof is it's a hard proof but rashi explains it and the proof is all the way from then if two people say you ate khalif and he says i didn't need khalafi's potter unbelievable two against one potter explains okay this is different we're not going into it the point is that a person has a migraine why the only way you bring a hat to us is if it was a mistake if a guy stands up and says there wasn't a mistake i'm a big russia i ate it on purpose you don't bring your katos so the two of them don't have a power to force a guy to bring a confidence because he could just say he could say if he wanted to who's on purpose i mean maybe he doesn't think it's on purpose everything's by accident but he argues with the atoms he has a trick to get out of his karma the point is that the macholic is you see look over here in the safe there's a mahalaka it's a it's a it's a cop without rashi i wouldn't know what's flying here because it's a macholic only in this last case in the case of to aid them that means that when this one aide everybody agrees that if he is quiet he's hive but here's the proof that if he's quiet he's high says gemara my time become a high very bottom well sorry rachel who thank you john where have you been for the last year and a half it's actually 12 minutes according to that clock up there plus we started late it's the second omit of the thing and it's done purpose not allah base it's the second of it when he's quiet why did say he's high of illegitimate if two of them come and say you ate a piece of caleb potter why because it has amigo so if one guy says you're hive then you're hive how's it possible if two people come and say you're eight of your partner so if one person says [Music] the case of one eight is a different case he didn't say anything he didn't deny it he's quiet so that's a case of that being quiet means that you admit guilt how do you say ravi in court i don't know is it such a loss in court yeah do you have the other right to remain silent silence consent oh i didn't notice you all the way in the corner jonathan by being quiet self-incrimination okay [Music] you don't need okay there's no possible we started off saying there's a positive no there's no passing meaning when there's two pieces one is a good piece of meat you could eat it's fat that you're allowed to eat it's part of the steak and one is the part of the animal inaudible i'm telling you it's kosher and he's believed now rabbi sai take a look at this and see why that doesn't apply to our mission there's obvious question here there's an a that says that this piece of fat is caution but i just want to point out this is where rashi says over here that if you don't believe that the reason why i believe he doesn't believe why and if you don't believe him says rashi you'd never be able to eat at your friend's house you'd never be able to eat in your own house so i want to tell you my sister here in ramada james there's a woman who's a caterer for many years and everybody bought her stuff and it was all [Music] that's for you not for you eitan mr chikutari boards whatever okay so i buy from all time oh yes okay there's a sign going up on the front door by the way no turn off your cell phones it's a big unless you're a doctor of course and a lady so and paul so one day her friend asked her a question she said how do you how are you mafreshkawa from your all the breads you make might show you here you could ask around and she said what's a fresh scholar she was about shuva she never heard of the idea never heard the concept so that's why they were misakin that commercially and people are biased commercially and here's another thing i was asking around yesterday about afroshala and there's a lot of people that don't even know the basics of a fresh scholar even within our community and i'll just tell you real quickly what i found midair isa or if you have five pounds of dough 2.2 kilo you your math for scholar with a bracha if but you are mafresh people don't might not know this you should still be mafers khala on a lesser amount even if it's like three pounds three pounds and up you should be maverick without a bracha and then again there's a lot of alakaz that the freezer is considered a cli so if you make a bunch of batches of cookies and you put it into the freezer it's matar if at all and then you have five pounds and then you have with the broth okay things like that viter so people should think about challenge and that kind of stuff without a heck sure the the they are hitarium because you really know the guy there's no way he's going to do it and okay fine i'm not a rob i'm not passing ask you local right next we have plenty of time so what does room balloons say a black keeper is not ashamed if the woman doesn't have akiba then what says dummy this is typical gemara this these are things that we actually could take to our life skills in business to take two things and know how to see the difference between them dummy surah you have a piece of fat nobody knows what it is or what it is nobody's saying that it was traif and now somebody's saying it's not we don't know it's a white rubbery thing and the guy says i'm telling you this is kosher i i fouled the animal it came from a country okay great what does that have to do with our sugar i was talking the woman was a married woman she's asian and we're depending on a dog to say that she's not asian anymore it's a completely different case being devastated when it comes to her you need to either it's okay i'll tell you what it's similar to it this is similar to the case where there was a piece of fat there was ulcer team in their eyes everybody knew this is it and he's arguing against them it seems like the schumannu the schumann have it's caution deloitte mammon is not believed so she's also she's marita she's married to a man she's asian and then says she's not anxious again it's not similar why me dummy has you're talking about a fact the fact is this is a piece of fat that i know for a fact that it's awesome now the one guy wants to say he wants to argue with the matias he also betrayed me all they're saying is the guy that came to say he's testifying that he died yes she was asian but something happened something changed okay now i'm going to bring uriah from these three things tevo we learned the other day we know what the music is you have a pile of fruit you're supposed to take turmeric you're supposed to take mice or so i was like my sushi my surroundings you didn't do anything it's devil it's a pile of fruit that you're not allowed to eat even a cayenne who gets the truma he's lighting mice when he eats from that pile miso we learned right tevo i take an animal i say this is for the best amigos i say this this thing is asura me like a kaina which is a lotion of like a carbon it's making a nether on an object i'm not going to use that object and now we have rabbi's side 10 lines of freebies it's the same thing three times in a row height what is the case of devil eddie day he owns the fruit you know why he's believed bishop to the other attack now he could just take one percent two percent whatever he wants of the fruit and say a few words make it true man everything is good so it's in his hand to fix it he's bullied no we're talking about it's his neighbors so whoa time out michael silver he if you don't need i could do my friend a favor take my fruit and say it's true my my friend so again bishop to be able to attack him he's believed because he could do so because of such as violent if he cannot be martha's schumer for his friend vamano you don't obey them attacking but he's just testifying that i know for a fact that my friend took truma i was there when he took it he grew from manola again what's the source that he's believed and now we say the same exact thing by hegdesh and konami's what happened with hagdish there's just a dummy there's two types of animals i could give them i could say this animal is for them is back and it's called i cannot redeem it or i can say this animal it's for the best they do whatever they want they could they could sell it and use the money for the base of english if it's just monetary medusa mushroom to be on the isle of daiso it's because he has the ability to redeem it okay so then he's believed but if he cannot redeem it redeem it so why is he believed to be able to if it's his own he does have a way to get do it he goes to the rough said i made a mistake i didn't mean i didn't know i didn't whatever it is he could get it out of it because it's like a regular nether and it could get out of the carbon and he says i know that my neighbor he went to the rav and rob said it's not a carbon anymore he grew from manila how do we know that is believed same thing with the kind of ego yes so what happened he took this animal he said this is a kind of but what is kainum if it just means he can't use it it's one thing if he said if he meant that it has a little bit of medusa it's another problem oh sorry if it has douches again if we treat it as kedusha then he's able to redeem it because of ill economics he's just making us on himself is just a regular issue of a nether so again if it's his you should be yelling he could get out of it it's his friends here goes this is what we discussed before because you gave her 16 consequences therefore she's muther to use that either to get married says mara what's the lashin don't do me don't give me sixteen huh ankit michael thomas you give me 16 chromosomes and they say okay you say don't do that and don't do that don't don't give me 16 hormones and don't be megalon why would you so make them says especially we don't want these women to remain a good noise that's missing if she got married based on one aid rabbi said fun thing is coming up a nice game i'm going to play with you oh my ravel is don't run away yet it's coming up says rav if she's got married by one aide says the mishna takes him she has to get divorced from both le shawna says you hear this what does it mean says rav if she got married to the second guy with to aid them then her husband knocked a knock on the door here he is shot him how you doing i missed you wow says rav you don't have to get divorced from the second guy it's impossible he's there he's standing there originally we didn't he's unrecognizable so over here is the very famous mice of the villain guide that a guy that's my sushi and you ask how is it possible i'll tell you how it happened a true story there was two guys in jail for many years many years you're talking about 20 years later a guy shows up in vilna and he says i'm your wife i'm your husband she says what are you talking about your husband you don't sound like him you don't look like him what do you mean we got married over here we said this to each other we did this together we have these children the names the ages we went out here's our first date we were over here second did everything everything she says i don't recognize you you duh it's 30 years look at my new beard and everything but but you were jinji now you're this okay not fine they went to the only guy the only guy said bring him to show friday night and let him let's see where he sits down don't tell him where to sit and if he goes to his seat then that's the guy he came to show and he's like a hundred autumn he had no idea what to do he started going here start going there they said no no go to your seat daddy didn't know what's the shot he was a cell mate with this guy and for 30 years he got all the information about the guy's wife about the guy's children and everything and they came and he wanted to be a russian merusha they caught him check this out says the gemara oh what was the point though very good yeah that's how you have to theorize last time you didn't fix me okay this time should we do so you didn't think of all the other ballgames what do you mean either the two people that said we were with him the entire time from the time he left the hutzler is in jail we were with him it's you guys that don't recognize him the brothers did not recognize joseph but he recognized them he left without a beard check this out oh this is our first call of five pounds this is what five pounds looks like you need a broccoli three pounds now but check this out you ready not this one who's this you see the difference of a zak on and not a sucker now i have this if you know this person he happens to be your brother don't say who this is but this is the guy from the chair who is this the boy said if you don't know who this is [Laughter] you can see the idle kite you can see that this guy is destined to godless huh so this is what happened in vilna he shows up somalia this is me so i don't wreck it yeah my boy said if you know this guy also from the sheer who's this blonde beard blonde hair [Laughter] is that the bulls game no zampurum all right the bottom line is that don't think that this has thing is a joke it's the real thing okay we have to turn the page though so how are you how is she allowed to remain with her original husband but she was she got married through to a dim trio trey says since she has a doubt how she allowed to remain there's a doubt here [Music] she married you know what let's stop over here raboisei have a wonderful day have a wonderful shabbos don't fall off the boat you