Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 60 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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it's like stitch for stitch i don't know if you can see all the stitches here these are very long retsus which we're going to be discussing later on and here you have the holes in the back and this happens to be a size 14 which is my size if anybody wants to buy me a paragon up here shoes size for it not just size 14 so if i need ever need to put it on to demonstrate it fits i tried it on even has these little snaps here it's unbelievable so now that you see this shoe and everything about it look at the video for a second you see two elderly people like we discussed second marriage and that's it there's no spinning here but they have the walker you have all the okay just thought i would show that it's here we have it somebody sent it in why go find one of these for less if a pair of shoes that caught that you could buy hundreds of them in every store costs sometimes a thousand dollars so this this is one of a kind it's supply and demand why not she does it you discuss they could could they opt out of it and you both say we're not going to get married and let's not do it but we we spoke about it a little bit there's a mitzvah ducalizer so you do it all right so now we are holding i you know i i do want to point out yesterday uh you know the fear and it happens all the time i make blatant mistakes and i made a mistake in in saying chad and the gemara the gemara was saying one or two and i said that the shot is that the goddess can't marry more than two one woman only two and pointed out rashid doesn't say like that so i i didn't give up it's not the same person don't worry about it but if your phone is on whatever please put it on uh just turn it off here i found this unbelievable thing i want to show you this is the rambam suribi of paragus and he says like this i might have learned wrong the gemara according to rashi but the raman learned like me or i learned like the ram i'm so i'm not a complete fool i felt really stupid during shir but at least he said then i found it also in the re-learning shot in the this is where he learns it this is the gemara this is the macarthur the rivet says but maybe he's only talking about young kipper but the bottom line is he learns from that but okay fine now we're holding david tess on base all the way in the bottom three lines from the bottom we're talking about the bryso that says atma before this aftermath of a person violates a woman a god who violates a woman could he marry her or not so he shouldn't marry her i'm not nasty but if he does marry her it seems like from the lost and he can remain married not so fast you must divorce her so wait a minute if you must divorce her what does it mean you're not so you could be married you can't be married after divorce who said according to ravuna who said that you must divorce her rav famous rav and what does it mean for so since he married her he gets out of that canas because it says but i'm a footer not by a manus but matters no matter what he has to pay 50 shekel but by mafuto he convinced her so in that case if he marries her he doesn't have to pay the 50 shadow since he married her shall since he married her he gets out of the 50. as teice is a very interesting question what does he gain by marrying her if he marries her he doesn't have to give her 50 shackle but guess what he has to give her oxuba it's the same amount 50 shekel 200z same thing so he didn't gain anything so texas has different roots in what he gains okay which is an interesting question went and said this over to ravashi okay again think about it rahuna said in the name of rabb says ravashi baharav rav himself says something else i say it's lisa should not marry a woman who's above 12 and a half years old what who should he marry somebody that's between 12 and 12 and a half annie should not marry umukas if she lost her slim from some other object so here it says if he if he gets married to her he could remain married alma soyfa liu is begerest of and now the guard goes into the reasoning the safari what's the reason because obviously if a congola gets married to onaira who's 12 years old and when she turns 12 and a half he doesn't have to divorce her soy for leo at the end of the day the woman is going to become a baguette the woman is going to lose her psyllium so he doesn't have to divorce her and that's the and he doesn't divorce her so that's the reason why if he was over and he married such a woman to begin with he's not a keeper after the fact with the heaven when the gemara says when the prices says it seems like the point of vinas is that you remain married not that you have to divorce her ravuna said you have to divorce her i'm not so means that you don't have to pay canas over here you see that the nasa nasa means you remain married because it fits into the whole logic since you could remain married to her anyway so if you married her you remain married to her so what does remain married to me not that you divorce it that you remain married so why are you telling me a different shot in rav cashio marries friends in other words a woman who doesn't absolutely rebel if he married his friends and usa in other words somebody else she lost their sulu to somebody else so according to blaze the sun is a halal he knows what he's talking about he's always right now who marries the kid is my time of the day what is the whole reason of revelation below kiribati as we learned yesterday remember like the top of nontense of the base two singles have relations he made her zainab and asylum is no good for any kind it's very interesting i heard once don't maybe i shouldn't even say it whatever it's not to think about it somebody was telling me that in israel during certain khasanas the rabbanum took upon themselves this this idea that pontiabala pnuya is a designer it's a bad thing but it's not a asia's ish if you have to think about what's worse ish which is much worse so they purposely ruin some you heard about this and keep listening okay certain people that they're scared and afraid that eventually there's going to be a problem invasion's dish so they rather that the couple not be over our nation's ish then it's better that they should be a punishable player than h so they ruined the conducion at the choppa they take possibility and they do something on purpose kafsa mati i don't know again maybe it's like that uh 97 in the army and then the guy said it's impossible you can't get a hundred and the reason could be just rumors i don't know omira [Music] foreign that's the worst that it could be right uh um is always like him he said is 102. we don't ask him like who marries his friends anusa in other words a woman that doesn't absolutely whether or not the kid is the child of hello very interesting oh david is not here today i wanted to do the math myself but i realized that i'm a part of a graduate and i don't know what i'm doing i want to find out what are the chances that what happened to me yesterday will happen again in somebody's lifetime and that is we learned that if you read in the power show of that week what you learned during the week it's a big thing is hugging you the whole thing what are the chances that when you learn that day 30 minutes later is in the parasha and you get the aaliyah after you this year so yesterday we learned that posit yesterday and i got that leah well i demanded that leah i only get alias here every you know every three four months or whatever but i had yard say yesterday so i told you i have your time and gave me that lead right after we learned that i know what the what are the chances that first of all what you learn is in the parish the second world that's in the parasha in the first part of the parashant until shiny and that it's within the aliyah i don't know if it ever happens what it's crazy [Music] it has to be on a monday or a thursday and it's only within cheyney and it's in within the cheney but the third part of shaney the dalia free throw yeah ah so you're saying it's even better well you can control that he says he's a cipher and that he writes the puzzle that he learns that same day they learned it right cool you just took the wind out of my sails so we have to do uh the same with the same mathematician that's going to figure it out for me we'll figure it out for you no you could you could do a search i'll i'll just look what's in seven and a half years on the yard side okay anyway fine first of all this is and we're talking about this one over here you see on the screen i've read me here just i don't know if you oh here we go and we have we have a film after you describe romney garrison is not here but either way it's a lot better than what we had when i was on the road you see it says over here in green he should take absula the following passage says don't make your kids means that they're apostle and going on what it says above it now what does it say above it says the number of things the beginning of the puzzle says these are the these women amana grusha zaina and then it says he should take absula and if he doesn't take absolutely also a bad thing but is it within is it in the same category as the al mana so says the gemara rebels says that if you the sula if you don't take absolutely god doesn't marry absula he takes the anus of his friend so she's not absolute so he's over in the next position anything even the pursuing part okay ravage he says very good rivashi says that oh i jumped into my story this you see it's in green it's i try to make it as a positive is a positive you should do this now if you don't do it the target doesn't say what happens if you don't do it but we understand we infer from the fact that i says you should marry absula so if you don't marry absula that's you're over an assay what's your overall positive commandment says it applies also to absolute go back to the chart you'll see that it says ela so first it says and then it says that it's going on the first part of the apostle not to marry divorcee not to marry a widow that is allah is not dividing the pasak it's one long passing and if he's over in any of that then if the child is a halal like revelation that a child from anita is not considered a hollow even though it's a chorus you just so and according to it wasn't uh it's on everything so it's just say like this it's like and it should say say hello so check this out over here this is a list of all oh you know what i shouldn't be doing this uh why don't you tell me i have to go like this oh much better so this is these are the seven craving that a cayenne goddale could be metamatu a father mother wife son daughter brother and a sister also on this week's parish show all the way in the beginning of this week's parish so who this ah all the way at the bottom what kind of sister says the mars we have like this here it's not so confusing we have a sister who's a bagueres she's already 12 and a half years old is he is a kind allowed to be metamater according to everybody 100 percent what about chizanusa she lost through sulim to somebody according to everybody what about amaku said she lost sulim not naturally through some side thing only according to rabshiman the kayin cannot be matama according to everybody else we may or may not be icy yes and then finally we have an arusa that's what we're discussing the second and arusa because here's the problem the posix says who's close to him who is never with a man so childhood what does that mean is it naruso a sister that had kidushin and ayerson is she considered never with a man on the one hand she's engaged she's a russo so says gomorrah tonight she's not considered that she's with someone you could be metamater review let's go back to this chart so maybe there's some sort of clarity here very simple the first one but gareth green she's vigorous everybody agrees you could be mitama anuso everybody grizzy can't be matama the big machole is in arusa and a little bit of mukha said okay called she's not absolutely possible says she was with a man she's not absula and the story no toma you cannot go to the leviatha [Music] verb shemin one out of four because we have four mandarin here you see on the bottom you see the other four remaining huda reviews set he's together with rabiose on the bottom on arusa and he says his own allah he argues on everybody mukha said cannot you cannot be meta why because he holds that a kind goddel cannot be with the mukha saints okay our reason why we were talking yesterday for the most part congo cannot marry amuku said so he can't marry mukher said he shouldn't be metamatter either sheriff says that the person that he could be matama to is somebody that he can marry if you can't marry her he can't be metabolic her even a sister so a sister who is a mukha said she lost her psyllium but not from a man you can't go to the lava uber guerras mithamela devre call odom so obigueras she was she she has suleim she doesn't have she doesn't have all her pseudo like aktana like uh like a naira because her body physically changed that he could go to the valley you can become tommy to her everybody agrees what he can't believe because he can't marry her you can't marry anyone no i thought you're going to ask me about baguettes okay let's not that point you're right not that part it's we're talking about what creates uh a problem in the sun in terms of basum not in terms of erva the the fact they can't marry sisters is that right it's nothing to do we're talking about what constitutes absula again the torah says what levi could he go to to absolutely what constitutes suleiman is the mukher says absolutely not she physically doesn't have sulim but not because of anything just happened well let's see could he marry her if he can't marry her that means she's not absolutely she's not absolutely can't go to levi that's what he's saying not he can't marry cause it's a sister or his mother or whatever we're talking about in terms of sulu [Music] everybody agrees that he could be mitama or some even right here devry alcohol because it's a very interesting question they're very colored every human being agrees that a vigorously could might have their merry review though so listen i don't know i i tried something here where are we here this is how remember you learned this possible every word everywhere this fourth russian series as you can see absolutely russia a love is another and like is the fourth russian faculty it says is to exclude an anusa she's not absula if she was violated what does it say here arusa that he could go to the lavalier of an arusa a love is a begeres and ash it comes to say that a mucus ate fine now if you look at the next one they agree on some stuff they add on the top instead of just sandus a love revie agree they both learn if you go back here hey love you see nothing changes on the a love a love is bagheras and nash is arusa they learn arusa from where they learn how crime is arusa they learn from salish that's now so that's the difference in the mahlikas my time in the remain so now let's see inside in this apostle what do you do with the words ah prat some of that's not absolutely like like who proud maybe i'll say he cannot marry this is very interesting i would think that she's married she's somewhat this kidushin whatever that is it's this quasi marriage so maybe she maybe can't go to her level she's considered that she's she was with another man the rabbi zaruso from the word akriva it says you could go to such a levite a love the rabbis have a guerrillas okay we're not going to go into christmas fine from the word a love comes to and that both everybody agrees that this word a love comes to say that a sister who's a baguiaris who's 12 and a half 13 years old who lost some of her psyllium he could go to levi it could be me says does anybody remember a mayor well if you don't this is ramirez from yesterday because it says she starts off this sula means even some of them so remain already learns that the word sula afido mixes so why do i need a special and look what it says in parentheses from yesterday i didn't change anything today i feel mixers meaning a bagueres yes he could marry a bagueres and therefore he could go to the leviathan bugaris because she has suleim she has ninety percent of sulu says the imaro [Music] he violated a girl but over there it says naira basula that means that absula is a naira so nairo afkan nami nairo i think that a begaris is not included because when it says when tarsus absula it's similar to the sula of anusa and over there we know for a fact it's uh naira the target says nairobsulah so they go together hand in hand absolutely no by us more than a naira older than the neighbors also okay how did they learn so like i showed you before absolutely is that they add one more thing called before remember says the mukha said you could get married too and now they're saying no omoka says it's not absula so she's not absolutely can't go to her lavalier i don't care how it happened so they stick in anusa mafuto and the mukha says they stick in that extreme it changes everything yeah no no that's something else yeah another thing but i'm saying in the top part look i want to see look remainer and under under the green episode what does remember you to learn absula is not does not include look at it keep on looking what changed mukha said they add the mukha says absolutely okay [Music] on the bottom is and arusa no good that's considered being married not like your mayor holds hakroy valera boys that you could go to the levia of a narusa no i should allow you so you can't go to her lavagia she's considered she was married to a man how crazy this guy oh acrylic so what do they do akram the rabbits are russian what if she was engaged and divorced or engaged and her husband died then the kangaroo could go to her levia because she never consummated the marriage and that's okay says gemara hey love the ravages of bulgaris that we had everybody agrees that the word a love comes to say that if his sister is 12 and a half years old 25 years old he could still go to the leviatha hakriva you're telling me that the word across is going to say based on god even a headache can't marry uh grusha we just turned to somehow sponsored by horn in honor of the gold star monte donna oh i forgot to say i have to say this bravo i got my suit my costume suit not from edkinsberski although he's a great guy i kept on because on the turning it off it said i couldn't wear it it's mushkin's burskie right what are you holding your head over there because now everybody's calling up edconsky for suits custom suits it's the wrong guy michigan's birthday he didn't even say anything he didn't say it was me he saved me i don't know if you guys know the story i'm in chicago five minutes before shout outs i gave a shirt you know two minutes before shovels run home try to get dressed i go to my closet no suits oh i brought all my suits to the cleaners because i wanted to bring them through the straw nice and dry clean before because i don't want to ruin my suit here seriously i had to get a brand new jacket my nice blue jacket i wore for sure every day i gave it to the cleaners once one time shiny so anyway i'll show i'll show you my new fight then i realized that i have my chickens burst is brand new mdy suit and i opened it up showed along the whole thing mdy fine not as cool as avi's he has his own picture in there his baldness oh it's a cigarette and show and tell nobody heard nobody knows erase zuckerimara whoa we only have eight minutes no stories now says gamora you're right shawnee rahmanic great question she she's divorced and he shouldn't marry her yeah but the turret says he couldn't marry her craiva the word hakriva says he could say you should also use the the the accrava to say mukhi says kroeva akhas village similar to that uh mess up that i did yesterday one you can learn one thing from craivo one woman not two in other words i'm learning that he cannot uh he could marry a divorcee that a divorcee from erison but it doesn't come to include a mukha saint says the gemara omaro isa you have two options you go this way to the right to the left why do you why do you knock out mucho saids what happened since mario is having about myself because something changed in her body huh this woman was divorced from her from her engagement lies out of myself it makes a lot more sense to say you could go to the funeral of a woman that nothing changed physically in her body which is a divorcee from iris now if you go back over here if i can find it oh in mukha said who's the only one that says should not go to the funeral rib shemin what happened he had he had a partner rubio shimon go together on the bottom and the last last line is ready and then he left his partner when it comes to mukuzei why is his partner rabiosi is going to hold like everybody else like her mayor andre huda the mukha said a kangaroo could go to the funeral it could be mitama minale so let's go back here if i can find it oh uh yeah so if you look over here actually ish tells me that amuka said is okay says let's go to his chart rabioisi rip shipment in this chart what do they do with the shallow islands look underneath it it says aruso that arusa you should not go to the funeral so how are you telling me is delicious he already used it up for arusa you can't say it's for mukha said says gemara oh you're right let's go to the next chart check this out rabbi say boom ish it's two different words so from the lehigh side learn arusa she was never with a man she was she's engaged in a man don't go to her funeral ish it happened through a man she lowers lost or absurd from a man no this is from a it's not from a man hey love so this it's a mute only from the ish but if it happens from rookie states he's masking oh you see i don't know if you noticed on top it says rubiosie let's go back to the other chart it's reversing room shiman this is a new chart this is a special chart for biosee he argues with the beshiman because riphen is the one that says mukase he's the only one that says he says can i go to the funeral but has ruby aci know that you could go to the funeral ish it's a reboot hey love the rhymes of guerrillas who said that the word a love tells me that he could go to the funeral of guerrillas does anybody remember that one okay here we go yesterday also absolutely that they start off rebelling start off that the word means complete sulim and therefore begeres not regards lost 10 let's say oh so you telling me says he doesn't learn the word basula that basulim means a hundred percent how does he know basil means a hundred percent love le rabbis since the word a love go back to this thing you see it says a love in purple it means even abigaires why does it sorry i have to say why does it have to say you can go to the funeral of a bangers i need a special word a love you go to funeral vigorous because atari says sula and abigaires is not absula therefore the torah says say you could go to the funeral a love without the word alab i would say she's not absulah so you see from the word absula not the word absula the combination of sula with a love i see that the what the meaning behind psula means sula means 100 percent any person that's not 100 sula because she grew up her body changed physically she lost some of her suleim don't go to the little valley but then the posix says no a love you could go to the levi okay anyways getting close to like bohemia well the whole rip shipment when we say rip shipment on top of this charge but okay oh boy chakras at 8 10 today what is going on here says rupture that if you have a guillotine that's less than three years old she can marry okay you could keep alive all the women from mid young who weren't with a man so how do you know it's three years old we'll see in a second very pinholes is a kind who's the grandson of iron so real quickly i heard once uh unbelievable thing the moisture i've been wondering for more years give me the years of all the mesa myth bar you took away their years added to my life that's why i'm saying no you're not my viral medicine by may miriva you don't get them but pinchas who was embarrassed he was they called him the your forefather did ava disarm a fatima goblin and he was quiet he didn't answer back when they were jim what was he zaika to live forever says very big was see that you could marry a girl a guillorist that's less than three years old because moshe roberto said you keep them and it included no it didn't mean you can marry them he meant to say that you could keep them as slaves the positive doesn't say how old they were it's just as you could keep them so even where do you know an age how do you know about me i wouldn't it seems like only women but children it doesn't matter if they were with a man or not you could keep them keep them alive by the way we're coming up to one of the most famous gemaras classic gemaras that heretics love it says children that weren't with a man then you could keep them alive so which one is it it seems like all children can keep alive and it says only children are born with a man no it's not if they were with a man or not if they could be with a man any kid that's under three years old keep alive is only saying not physically yes or no i mean who told you i'm since there's a contradiction absolutely explained before so you have to explain that the puzzle is not saying physically with another man they could be with another man so any kid under three could be with okay says but how do we know if a woman was with a man if she's absolute or not have viewers the coin god dawg used to wear this on his forehead it says a golden plate like this if it's this crazy like this okay like that underneath but it had magic powers i shouldn't say magic but powers and they would bring these women these can these medianim in front of it kosher panetta marikos if her face turned yellow we do or she really boiled then we know that she's over three years old josh because you don't shave on a ruined ball okay there's no social security no birth certificates how do you know kid is three or not three what you ask her bring in front of the tits similar vera dracon when people do a various they turn a little bit in the color they turn yellow these women also turned yellow because they were very they tried to seduce the the the jews so that's what they got [Music] because if she doesn't turn if she's not yellow then she could then she's less than three similarities again we're running out of time but the famous story plagues would give her they did a terrible thing to the legish and then he took her body chopped it up to twelve pieces sent it out the collage said look what she what they did they might be laggish we want the men that did it the men that violated and they refused to give so they said if you don't give us the man we're going to go to war terrible terrible tragedy climate change they decimated shiva beyond there's hardly anybody left from yemen and they needed women for the six hundred men that were left of shaving they needed they had to get married they were worried that they'll be wiped out they won't be ashamed of yemen anymore so but they also promised they swore that they'll never give their women to beyond do you have a problem who are safe when you're gonna marry so they they had it uh yesterday there's a place called the others killer they made claudius uh swore the rule ever is doesn't come to war with us against beyond we're going to wipe them out they found out the elvis gila for some reason didn't go to war they wiped everybody out besides the women 400 women so 600 men got 400 women and then they got another 200 for them says how did they know that they were never with a man omar afkana [Music] you could smell from her mouth if she's a bull or not there's a gumball that says that it's some uh i forgot supers i think they came through became leo a guy got married and he said he tied his wife is not absula she said i am sula so he took his two slaves one was abula one was a uh basula and he put them both on a on a barrel of wine and he tested this method out and he figured it out sigmar says why do you have to test it out on the shipping you should just take this one put around the barrel so they say because he wasn't he didn't know he wasn't familiar with the method he only got a bit messier yet so there's different ways to explain it uh it's hard to explain lp science you could say in ishtarov it worked in those days you could say the venna yoda says i didn't see it inside but tomorrow tomorrow it says that is solid and this is what is it exactly you want to tell me something like that barrack like that different shots and different things but the heretics love this oh it doesn't work or how could it the gemara doesn't know what it's talking about okay but we have another way a better way with it sits here on the screen this is the screen um you only use the tits for good things not to destroy can we use that we don't want to destroy chevy benjamin and and uh javis gillard i mean so but what about mid yeon how can we use the syst to kill millions so what's the obvious answer midian are good i think we have to stop here unfortunately the boy said have a wonderful day have a great challenge describe guests for coming what time is what's travis in israel i haven't been here in a while what time is my roof it's 10 30. 10 30 um all right 10 o'clock 10 o'clock 10 o'clock share subscribe you