Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 58 by R’ Eli Stefansky

i hope it's not my fault that some people are not doing sphero last year we did it every day the year before revelli first i want to let you know how much i enjoyed attending the live stream chicago was to my benefit that there was fox showing since i got to spend some quality time which i'm showing out everybody in the borough park brooklyn i've been jealous of you mentioned this about a certain person that was married to guilleres the following is what i heard i got this from a number of people rabbi bragg who heard it from his rebbe remains solavei czech that are of amram beloi that's who i was referring to yesterday the famous kanoi he married a guillorious the lady who helped the also escape from american straw it was a major tomo romero salvation told talmud that the israeli police had a protest on champions arrested him and beat him with a shovel and he had a status of sudaco grand marriage shalom felder but there's another email i don't know if i have it here who said there was a different story he got injured from a bomb or something this is vanderbilt with his he's competing with with all the barbers another one of his qrbonus in his restaurant yudha says daff noon gimbal you made me cry with love for hashem thank you yehuda i like this email a lot this is from unfangir i'm also ownfanger it means a starter not such a messiah but here he is mr unfangir made force human kept on pushing until the idea came to the magazine on the day of the art side of shy bitter moisture [Music] [Applause] foreign [Music] where's uh nothing we're the singers here they're off today he doesn't know yet he doesn't have what's up he doesn't know i'm back he's not encouraged here all right so he says like this in the picture you can see rafael rosen whitebeard the one that got me hooked on the daf i started learning this is one of the few emails i put like three four of his pictures each one was better than the next i started learning the daffodil on youtube since then of times two weeks before basil decided to learn extra daff going backwards pay sahala muay finished tightness now learning rosh hashanah will finish bezel hashem in 30 days i learned that every night with my five-year-old daughter not sure what you do but got my daughter hooked to the daft the five-year-old she can't go to sleep until she learns the daf i sent a clip of myself my daughter screaming good morning or boy's side that i didn't put on you have changed my life i'm a happier person and my family gains from it keep up your great work by the way it's been 18 years since i finished the maserta it was a massive simcha 18 years and now he made four sumim fangir here we go here he is with the person look at this sign behind him i believe this is an area i'll tell you what my right oh yeah it says coco and hebrew that's a pretty good giveaway but also the cheers the tree sim look at this cake your boy said look at this cake this is kashif ashley misha i'm only about but he has an american touch he has that uh what is it called that wall the um the wall accent wall that's what it's called the accent wall all right dribble yo hirsch half my sheer remote shonger knew the spoken said why wait until one dies and other people learn which is for you do it yourself and join the sheriff we don't fall behind ellie hirsch in lakewood okay next the coil sponsor for the month is sponsored sent me an email actually to nissano and sound forwarded to me that rabbi valdestein wallerstein he was moved by the first daf of tainus where i cried about my son akiva so i went to check it out i want to see what he was wasn't going to spell there's 14 000 hits on it i don't know if there's another daf like that first off of titans check it out it's embarrassing don't check it out our frame and the source continue parallel he took all his kids and he said we gotta see this you gotta see this so okay now i find that aaron freeman's host continued the boyer family rebellion wow his father's still alive that's how young he was by elliot weinberg ellie weinberg al-asham dear family friend who suddenly passed away the shops at asia 59. he loved them diwali was proud to be part of this amazing documentary you need tyra to make some money he says parents by the way families like in new jersey because ty is the best gula another person tyra is the best guru parent yeah okay i know he's talking about anonymously and cause what that's who it was i couldn't figure it out no he told me the story and i'm trying to remember who told me this in honor of nothing seltzer because i made him cry 30 years ago in miami boys choir it's a good thing knock was not here seriously you would not appreciate it hopefully he's not watching beyond [Music] in honor of our zadie on here we go we have a real sugar today stuff a lot of stuff sprinkled throughout the staff so as a review as you can see over there on the screen the mishnah told us that we have a choice huh it's working not working i'm supposed to be small over there okay i got it so i like this shimaka mclaughs in a very cool case we have a cayenne who's about to marry a divorcee which we know he's not allowed to but he didn't marry her yet he only got engaged to her does that fact that he's about to be married her in which we call mishtamires libyapsula she's waiting in the wings to be nival abby absula does that creator is preferred to eat truma or not she didn't do anything wrong yet but she's about to for rotten or rotten to have a b absolutely that creates a issue for her to eat trump like this then the kimono took it to the next step what about ram rambloy suedako i don't know if he's a coin or not but in a case of tsudako cayenne who is not allowed to be married to anybody in clash royale not anybody anybody that's in the cahall of clay stroll whether guilleres is a kahal or not that was yesterday and he's engaged her is it the same thing as the mishna as a cayenne being engaged to a grusha absurdako being engaged to israelis it's a mysterious libya it's only about only bad things are going to happen from here on out nothing bad happened yet he's engaged to her but she's in the wings to be nival to suadaka great then we fi we finished off yesterday the top words of dafn zaino and baze yes rashi explains that this individual skipped everything he didn't get engaged and he didn't do the final bia it's just something in between called hopa does that create absolutely says that just chupa alone without any aerus and before without any beer afterwards just which is close to bia it's a few steps away a step away that is enough to parcel her so that is what we're going to be dealing with today a lot omar ramirez so the first thing on that chart over there is our mishnah grusha russell cayenne that's the machoist between mayor and rip shimon river so he wants to take these tanoim rohimbar hama take these telomeres from our mishnah in the white letters and say that the same is that we have by a grusha engaged to a cayenne which they're not allowed to consummate the marriage it's also that apostles bia that passes truma so two by a chuppah our case the the blue case on the bottom is the same macholicus that's what he wants to say we go away from that we try later on in the death maybe it's another tana maybe it's another maybe something else okay that's what we're doing today is this case of somebody took a woman and brought her under a cuppa a nice canopy no no no ring no beer nothing just cuppa is that enough the basilar for truma we're going to see the gemara kind of is tricky in a way tries to stick in a hopper that comes after arusan also not so connected to what we're talking about but yes connected okay lee now what if you have aerosyn kidusan kidushin arisen same thing if somebody got engaged justin and erisen but it's about to be puzzled it's a grusha takayen that ruins her she cannot eat room anymore therefore forget about putting a ring on this grusha if you take a guru shall put her in also she can't eat rumor larry milosevich in the army conduction loya pastor in the mishnah brought down the name the blossom shimin just getting erusin putting a ring on a woman it doesn't make her puzzle for truma she said yesterday et cetera okay says gemara what's the connection who am i doing i'm both i'm going to push off your theory that our mishnah has a connection to hopa either i'm going to take ramayana and say remember is not connected i'm going to take rip ship and say rip shooter laws are not connected both way anyway i look at it hope is different than akai marrying a grusha or engaged to gerusa engagement is not like a choppa why ramayana said that an engaged kaiyan ruins it for the for the woman remain awesome kidushin getting engaged is a real kenyan it's their isa to give a woman kessaf a ring is the rice the kanila becomes kingian casper he acquired her haryat mukudesli doesn't mention anything about hope is not one of the things they acquire a woman doesn't do anything life so if it doesn't acquire her so then it doesn't ruin it for her okay and now let's go on the other side inaudible and they said if you give a woman a a ring and you say i read kudashiously it does not ruin it for teeth truma deloitte evil beer because in those days you do everything then you separate for a year similar like the hasidim today no do uh i don't know what they call it they could even call it arrested maybe what a whole neat one i'm not getting into it and i don't even know it but i think svardhan don't even do yeehaw room at the because it's a big problem and covering the hair afterwards she comes in the sewer because it's one step away from each other maybe they would say for carrot on the one hand you could say remember who said it's pastor's truman will say it's mutter on the other hand you could say also the shimon ribalazo who said that she's not us she will be also true because it's koppa hope is worse than getting engaged is a step away from from from beer ello okay so we're done with this we're done with roman bahama we don't like it says that is like the same as in our mishna of uh heirs maybe it's another name if this one and that one got married complete nissuan who's this one and that one shay roy sup suloise kosher woman puzzle women or the gemara wants this line right over here they they had a hopper but there's no beer oil they could eat truma now that's we have to understand that on the spot the first thing says if they got married and their puzzle they eat truma wait a minute so does nisu mean that they literally got married that can't be how could they how could absolutely truma if she's puzzled and she got married to cayenne who's not allowed to marry her then there's no trauma at all so you have to say el alav that's our case perhaps now what that it's explaining itself it's not two cases it's saying zuma's new cherished plus i'm sorry this is zubazu what is nissu negligent it's an explanation to the ratio it can't be that they got married that any kid that reads this knows it can't be literally they got married a hundred percent because they can't marry a hundred percent then you can't eat truma if you're a if absula got married and can eat so it has to be an explanation they got married meaning there was a chuppah and there's no beer and then that helps us a lot uh you see one man number that says that if there's a chuppah there's no beer you could eat your beard this is the opposite cheeto that if you have let's say your israelis who's married so in this case where if he's boiler she can't eat trouble because she's so the hoop also you can't eat chuma so again here we have a macaques you have a guy that took a woman and brought her under the hopper according to the tanaka she could eat truma according to the vietnamese she can't eat your mom so this is like that we had on top of nunzano's bays rav shmuel is actually not just amaryam ravenchamor it's tanaam okay so zigmar again you're going to slug we're talking about a case her to hope which is like i said before is a little tricky to understand not just it's the conducion that caused her not to eat truma because of skeducin that's remained now a mishna right mayor now omission says that if somebody gives a woman a ring he's makadashire aerusin she no longer could eat truma and that's why in this case after the chuppah since there's kidus and she can't eat trump but it's not the chupa don't bring me araya that is not the hope of that closet what closet is the ring well it doesn't fit into the words because it says if the point is aerosol should say heiress and that's what the more asked high call champions it should talk about errors says that even after choppa she could eat this kidushi in this hopper even though she's sula and she's this close to be she could still eat rumor that's a massive kiddush on that says because she can't eat but what he really meant to say is because it's irisin she can't eat tremor like remember mary says as long as it's harassing you can't eat rumor so why do you use the word just to fit in and mimic the language of kahama so the belzer told me that this lushen which we had yesterday is only a lotion that is used for afshaishishas in the whole shots i looked it up i only found three times but the variety different variations maybe and they're all in ibamas and this is the third time we're learning indian obamas and he's saying because rashesh was blind so the gemara says that rafshaya's even though he's blind he lit up our eyes with torah told us and we could learn that from our mission this idea that ahupa alone creates soul for truma and we learned in the mishnah amen so first of all look at this pausing for a second my glasses bottom milan there's a line there in the homes so you don't say it together fine the point of the gemara is that the word amen is double there's one whole amine that's extra and what are we going to use it for to say in this case that she has to swear what happened we have a saita we're talking about a saita here so there's a woman her husband or and we're talking about even hassan is suspicious that she's she's uh hanging out with somebody she shouldn't be hanging out so he warns her don't be messiah with that man and she has to swear so whole process he brings us to the basement this is an incredible story he caught some kala he warns her she loves her visa mikdash she's about to explode not explode great marriage the mom is starting on the right foot they're not even married already having issues so he gives her he makes her swear now i want to show you the the the creation of the gemara because the gemara is a long gemara it keeps on going from thing to things so we don't so we have cop a little bit you are going to talk about three conditions that you need in in saita three conditions from the past it gets mashma that she's not a naruso so in arusa hassan can't tell his arusa i'm uh jealousy but with the aleph he's meccano is with olive yeah so he tells her you cannot be with that man that's kinui he warns her but it's not it doesn't apply by russo the second thing we're going to see is venice it says in the possum that she is going to suffer the consequences he's going to have like this dikka death on the spot i forgot the i just said to myself just recently that uh who was it somebody was in a city and uh there's a whole rumor about a woman and he said uh he made her read from the safety she walked down and she died it's a rookie's death the stomach explodes whatever it is but it says in that possum that she is she is not she's guilty and he's not guilty why does the puzzle say he's not guilty what does he have to do with it he warned her not to be with somebody else she's anxious she's guilty why does the puzzle say venice we learn from there that he cannot be over avera in other words once he says that she's a saita so he's not going to be with her anymore and if he goes back to being with her then he's not clean and then the water doesn't work she might be a rashaw marshas an aisha sish the trick this this idea of uh the maya mammarum doesn't work on her vinyko ish so that's one thing we're gonna have a problem with we have to deal with today if he went back to her then you don't have a nico ish and the third condition these are all things that most of us don't know right we're learning for the very first time here in daphne ideas in in saita now what you need that he should be with her before the bad guy if the bad guy is with her first it doesn't work either you need cod mushrik's bala boyo okay now let's see how that fits into the suggyo these are the things we're going to be dealing with the second time it says amen right it's completely extra so i wasn't a saita when i was in arusa and not when i was in the sewer also shimeres yovam okunusa not when i was a chimera siobhan we know what a chamber is that's a woman who just lost her husband and he died without children she's waiting in the wings to either get halita or ebon so she's waiting i wasn't you hear this i wasn't misano when i was a shamarisi album what's what what what is it as a business if she was anna then anybody why is it his business which he did before he has to be miyabimer he goes miami he wants her to swear that when she was waiting for him she wasn't mizano no what about ziko it ruins the zika how does it affect him who said that about a child you no okay but anyways rashi goes into it it's it's a good cop i like your cup yeah wrong if she had a child so you wait three months whatever why does he have to blow up why does he have to bring it to the vegas so he says it goes according to revokiva wherever kiva says then khaivi lavin you become so therefore he cannot be miyabammer like you guys are saying but you have to say that it goes only according to woman omar remikiva she she's because she was misana she's asia fish according to her vaquitas asia city even though it's only israel why she's not allowed to be with anybody else it's a love it's not a there's no miso but that life creates according to every kiva prowl okay a riddle the tire says all may not mean everybody in this room should know when do we say omen three times in a row he said it first how old are you twelve-year-old got it before the adults by the seam oh no you said it after him he's quicker okay it's not the first time 12 year olds are better than adults we have to learn from them get valdic what does he win look at this how many 12 year olds know that only 12 was like kim how many zoom did you make since uma know how many how many mercedes is that you should know yuma sokka roshana the guillotines what else what am i missing remind me your name joel what's your last name omar eisenmann i never remember his name comes every day here every day it's my fault not yours i'm very bad yo yeah get over it yeah get over here come over here there you go finally get over here yo my scheisse man very very proud of you everybody is proud of you and you're the only one that hopped oh no me no man what's the next word [Applause] with the candy log shia russo again we have a saita here in terrible position the just engaged arusan is already accusing her and being and giving your kinui he lay me the connie law again the county law over here is not that he's cutting her a quieter but a lotion of kinui that he warned her element he told her don't be messiah with that man when she was a russo i became masculine and he gave her to drink when she's a russo arusa basmati so that was the first thing you see on the chart arusa and we learned the mishnah arusa arusa doesn't get to drink ever you can't afford to drink she also doesn't get aksuba why doesn't she get aksuba because it was her fault she caused this whole situation she lost loses ella the cannula so we must say that he did kinui kishi yes he warned her when she zarusa but the drinking happened afterwards vistatra and she was missing become ashkelot and then he gives her to drink after they get married and it's completely extra let's see if i have the no oh yeah the niko ishmael and what should the puzzle say she's gonna have the burden of her sin and the and we'll see if she's gonna die or live but why does i have to say that he is clear of a hat the answer is because he has to be clear from that point on not to not be miserable with other people with her she's not be with her manchester united she wow we're running out of time i wanted to say something involved here but we're okay fine i'll say it it says over here like this that a person if he wants to see if his wife is kosher he himself has to be kosher you can't expect your kid not to smoke when you're smoking right in front of his face all day on that i have to say the guevaltic and myself that i have about my unbelievable father-in-law who's a world-renowned surgeon and thirty years ago he went to epsilonetsuki who was a rebbe in skokie yeshiva then more of a like a modern orthodoxy shiva kind of thing and my brother-in-law learnt there and my father-in-law complained to riptv that today's in toronto i believe it's me he said how come my son doesn't learn anything so without batting an eye looked at him he says because you don't learn anything you're a surgeon and the whole day you're busy with surgery which he is you don't learn anything you need to be an example to your children so my fair that day that they knocked on the door of the chicago community kylo they gave him rip dove and oppenheimer and that was 30 years ago and they haven't missed a day a day in 30 years and what happened to that sun became a rush of shiva messi the siren yerushalayim massimo datsum mass with learns and learns so i hope my family doesn't hear this my son because he might not be so happy with me but it's uh if you are an example to your children they're expecting this if you're not an example you behave like a baboon in shoal and you expect your kids to to to respect shaw and this and that but if marshall your son sees that you open up a gemara you should make sure that he sees it because it's very important that they see it if he sees that so then that's the gener that is okay fine ten minutes you should have jonathan here we go it's the middle it's in the middle of your vomit you know what i'm saying we gotta copyright some stuff [Music] oh you did you may have skokie do you remember my brother-in-law from there i hope you don't okay uh says [Music] you're pure you don't have an avedo you have nothing on your great then the water will work on your wife so if he gave her stira akinui when she was arusa then he had no business getting married her ella the connie log she had russo vista he did the kinui he warned her don't be messy when she was arusa and she didn't listen to him so that's our case what happened was there was ever sin then there was huppah without bia ushmamina kumar takes a leap over here we're talking about huppah with erusin which is very different than what we started out this rava with his borough the homitaratsi says rava you think this mishna is a good mishna it's a it's a perfect mishna that has no problems with it look there's major issues with it also madrami can't prove anything from a mishna that has shebush that has mistakes in it he brought a bryce on his hand so our mishna has a problem from the bride so why it says you need the third condition here that you need that the husband should be with the saita before anybody else could be with the saita if she was niv out she was misana before she was with her husband it doesn't work again another condition now if she was live out to her husband what happens then she's in a sewer you're talking about a case where she's in irusa and she was with somebody else before she was with her husband then it doesn't work ella might she was with her husband and she's not a naruso she's in a sewer so we got a problem so what happened was she was with her husband but not her husband with her she was engaged and there were mizzanna the shame is nose not lashing the suin still doesn't work for this one and then there was a hopper and then it was without beer but the point is that she was with her husband so that mikhail khan were making the possum that she has to be with her husband first but it wasn't real being with her as because it wasn't hashem kids so okay rashi says incredible stuff here that there's no problem over here now you have to say the same thing occurred with yavama the obama she's waiting in the wings for her husband now what about the problem says rashi says i love this crap and uses it later on also what about the problem that she has to be with her husband before the bad guy she was how by the of them because she comes from her dead husband she was with her dead husband the brother takes over the position of the of the brother that died and and that's considered being with her first the yavam steps in and he says i want to make sure you weren't asana ah he has to be with her first and he wasn't because she's only a mercy of them she's not they never consummated their marriage because if yes they're already married says rashi no it counts for being with her okay oh oh exactly we're getting there so i'm just saying from rashi now uh so but the bottom line the problem is that roost doesn't drink rooster doesn't get to drink so we're gonna have to say that like you said ari that she was masana mizano not lasham kidushin mma law he he doesn't acquire her it doesn't acquire completely what but not for everything exactly so not for all things and that's an okay she still called the shimara siobhan for whatever practical purpose anything more asks says you have to say that we also had that uh she he only acquired her bibum for nakhla for yerusha we just turned to nukes on the base sponsored by horn and arnold of the gold star multi donut sponsored anonymously as a source if my brother was in shiva the the chef there was donut kim donut so it's not don't ask such a cash on his name as is from ben shashan and both rookies and gosh miss so this is let's go back the whole sugar sorry we can't go back to also started so we started the day or now we're trying to bring a riot to rav which is the first words on unzinan base we're going in rav he's trying to bring this whole mishna to show you the mccloykes tanayim that they go together with raf so we're talking in rav that does pass so what are you telling me oh it goes according to shmuel we're trying to find the right to rav me the time homoraph khan alcohol raph says that that yi boom even with that intent like you said luz nose so here's the shot this tube shelter marashi i have them both there you can look at them you can review them later you can look rashi it's even better say my merchandise remember we had this machis it works and therefore what so problem one of the three conditions we said you have it has to be when you're married naruso yeah mimer mimer fixes that mama charusso so she's married there's no beer what about the fact that it's only mimer so he was never boiled her and now the bad guy came with spoiler you have to be before the bad guy no says rashi the original brother was boiler and that's good enough for you that's the shadow over here mimer another shot rashi says is that mimer removes the whole zika and she becomes like a regular if she there's no zika so she becomes like a regular engaged woman and therefore he cannot jump and go straight to bia he must perform huppah the kitzer and then what he did before he's boiler losnos not to acquire okay but rashford doesn't like that shot great we said it quickly and we go viktor we don't have to say the first rashi but i thought it was kashmakim shot he says like this then what you gain you're talking about a vama who has the same kind of condition same kid as an engaged woman as a russo so why did it add it says so if you look at the lesson you don't have to look you can just look at the chart you don't have to turn the page back i wrote it for you it says amen from the next word oh man not when i was in arusa and not when i was in a sewer then a second category now when i was in shimerus and not a canoe so what does kunsan mean kenussa is identical to nesua once a yavam is miyabimer she becomes a kanusa element we're talking about two categories regular women in the in the street and yavamas they're both the same they end up to be the same but one is your brother's wife and one is not okay that's why i said it like that i married a regular woman and but when it says cruz means my brother's wife okay great so at the end of the day we have a raya to rav and then he gave her to drink when she was in a sewer ah we have a problem that what he's he he's he's guilty why why why did he live with her and if you live with her it doesn't work he argues on that he argues on on two things he doesn't believe in he argues you ask me a question it doesn't fit into these rules he argues with the rules what happened was don't bring manny right from here we're not talking about hope but we're not talking about anything so how could you how could i force a woman to swear that she wasn't masano when she was engaged you know why you can't but they're married and when they were married he was hoshida and he and he gave her kenyan steer and everything else so he brings it to the base amigdas once he's in base amigdas you do something something called the gilgal we add another schwa you once you're swearing on one thing you know what swearing this is wearing that also swear to me that you were faithful while we were engaged everson you remember that from uh bob matthias gilgal schwab yeah only i remember because it was khazara everybody knows gilgal rasheed says we learn it from this sugar right here this is how you learn gilgal okay there you go here very interesting story ruvain is married to five towner and ruvain goes bye-bye comes shimon and he performs a mimer so we have a problem says the gemara why the levy another baldwin brother is in the wings waiting to be miyabim five towner and that e-boom is what oscar why because shimon already did my murder shimon squashy acquired her and and she's mista maris lebi absolutely says incredible you hear this just like you know marry a coin can't marry a divorcee so levy is about to marry this five towner and he's not allowed to because in the zika there's a bond between levy and the five-towner he has a a non-kosher band let's see for a second affiliate coinbase even though she was eating truma her entire life solomon had truma this bond she didn't do anything wrong all she did was she accepted kidushin from shimon that ruins her triuma forever says gamora le mans eliminator mayor hey madonna what okay until they get married says gamora according to says libyan until they get married absolutely are you going to say eliminate mayor ramirez is the one that says that if you're mistaken you're waiting in the wings for something that's awesome it ruins the trump number that's because she's a grusha and a queen cannot marry a grusha but over here this whole concept of mimer is the rabbanon she's waiting in he's lavies waiting in the wings to be miyabim a woman who had uh the rabbana thing to her called mimer that does it that doesn't ruin it for her fellow rebels of shimon uh certainly not rebel shemin sula they say even in the case that you're waiting to marry a agurusha coined his way into margarita de raiso which is possible right she does eat rumors certainly in this case in this case everybody's going to agree that she could eat nothing was done wrong here all there was is a mimer yes but in this case now we're turning levy into a halal in other words his father had a bad relationship with a grusha and out came this guy levy a baldwin brother but he's still brothers with jimin through the father from another wife then everybody's gonna agree that what this five towner cannot eat truma why because she's waiting to be nival to hollow and that ruins the truman for her necklace what happened was instead of giving her a mimer he gave her a get which is also the rabona kind of thing and that's whether or not it ruins her truma why rebecca the whole get concept is the rabona thing it doesn't work doesn't ruin her let's listen to this that's because this client could go marry a regular woman and through that he could give her truma but this get listen to this he says something we didn't know about the get the get the action of a get doesn't create truma in any kind of situation by giving a woman a get that get cannot create trauma but by giving marrying somebody that creates truma if you're a kind marrying israelis the marriage creates trump but giving a get you never give somebody truma and the girl is going to ask it does what if you divorce a woman and she goes back to her father's house that creates trump is that they sever all ties and she just goes back to her father's house who has zika so if you give a get she's still attached to the of them it's very different have a very good day have a sorry have a wonderful day you