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Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 56 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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the last and final share in chicago bazel hashem the next year is going to be tuesday morning in arizona there won't be any stream missing this is actually the monday shear and tuesday morning i'm going to be back in israel hopefully if everything goes right i really miss artistrol as much as lincolnwood is gevalde and i have a beautiful home here it's a lot nicer than there's a stroll i can't wait to get back i have a little i have a much smaller learning room in my house in arizona and it's going posh again i can't say the same about my my room here in america i don't know why it doesn't have the same feel um i just want to read a couple of emails here that's our minogue this one is by shazicon from guitar this week i was planning to write and show my appreciation for the amazing music consistency even a live example of the xiomi never missing a day no matter what the circumstances the wonderful mdui team especially yosef who manages to tackle the most complicated situations hiring given spiritual spiritually connected holiday vacation season aside from purim purim where in mdy was business as usual then even when busy getting ready for yantev opening gemara nerf all the way through halloween getting up to learn early to learn before the family wakes up and a double share on air of shv me and all the others that i introduced to them they are so proud and great to be part of this tour empire and then close the name is madame was on an overnight trip with friends found the quiet corner of the duff noon base you're reading an email from someone who fell off the bandwagon chose to follow the famous mdy tip and jump right back on to the daf that we're holding that day but then he's making he's quoting me i believe almost every single person probably missed the doffer too there's no such thing it's almost impossible i'm still in shock i've been with you for close to 250 daf never missing a day because it's the yoyo me and i'm sure many many others are with you on the same journey with the energy that you've changed charged us nothing's impossible okay i hear i was just trying to give the guy fizzle come on everybody that's that hasn't missed the day knows who they are but i didn't want the guy to feel best i said everybody's like that i myself didn't miss but i was talking about uh jack warman on zoom every day doing the daff at his grandson's wedding right now which is happening right now in baltimore so even i'm thinking even if this picture is posed we're just not but the guy brought a gemara to his grandson's wedding it's unbelievable because there's a lot of down time when you're a family the pictures this you know okay valdic mazel jack david sutton rev i didn't have the opportunity to shake your hand and meet you to thank you personally however learning live from brooklyn with you every day 169 consecutive days here's another consecutive guy oh since the emotional day we started tightness 169 days ago was tightness yoshida brought torah to my life it augmented the khasi that i've been doing on salah for nearly 24 years i knew i needed to tire in my life the son of my hero who's been doing the daf before it was in his father has made the same shots many times below you'll see the random daf that you were middle of talking about when i photographed it it's very moving best regards david sutton f20 here's the daft the famous it's going to go down in history daphne gimmel in uvamus which we have over here from sam goldberg he says in response to how many people were at the sheer yearly duple went around at the share and counted downstairs and upstairs he counted 600 people downstairs and 170 people upstairs i know quite a few people have turned around because they couldn't find parking 770. and double there's not even a kabatsuki wow jonathan isquis do you have time i forgot to bring the clocks it just go forever we're still relieving the tremendous condition that occurred in new york thursday night and we owe it to you to by the way here and uh when i go to new york again it's gonna be the deal you're gonna be there yeah yeah now you'll be on the groups you'll already know sure he's in the house when i spoke to this chair they all asked where in town they asked why did ellie come to town since he came to give a duff then i realized that i feel sorry for those that don't get the mdy mishpacha they don't understand why maggie cheer would fly to new york just to give a shirt if you get it immediately so i'd like to thank you for flying in just to make the sparkle share beautiful words of kissing i'm sure you're staying with everyone for a long time i also like to thank you for the famous cliche pronounced cliche for the ponovitcher that you mentioned all the time the daffodils changed my life i started reading the parachute by kitser what he's saying is that this week's parachute is looking and he saw he noticed all these things that we learned in yuma and today's daf and yesterday's dive is all about in akron what's creation so really we thank you for your wonderful family so many hours you spend there preparing another one oh i got three emails saying the same exact thing so i just want to say real quickly this is from david taub and he says that i when i turned the page and i said jolly joe krause and the the people in new york they started laughing so i said most of the guys haven't been to share why would they laugh today i've been saying it for a month happens to be today i'm not going to say it anymore because there's a new one three people explained to me why they were all laughing it's not that they weren't part of the share but you mentioned a couple of times that people were laughing therefore they must have not heard the share before but i feel that actually they do hear this year or rather purposely making the jolly laughing sound to imitate those sounds that are played on the edited recordings of this year apparently i never heard it apparently on the recorded cheer he does some sort of joke left so everybody's going with it it's not that they were new three people said it so that must be the attaches a picture i managed to get with you pushing my way through the mob here it is if you guys want to see what he looks like here you know you could since you're the guest you could just go down here you could have this because usually we have huh and now let me just there's a new sponsor today it's a very sad story this is the guy that i was talking about he's 59 years old his name is rebellious ellie weinberg owned the pizza store in brooklyn he came to the sheer and he took a picture of the we have a picture of the two of us that was the last picture that he's ever taken he went around showing people on friday hey look i took a picture and then on chavez he had a heart attack and was lifter at the age of 59 years old so the boyer family is sponsoring i think for shiva they're very very close it says a dear family friend who suddenly passed away the shops at the age of 59. he loved mdy he was proud to be part of this amazing nation wow it's very it's unbelievable i i say this all the time you have to copyright nobody knows that they're going to live tomorrow what whoever was here and share last night knows here so go try to find ass forget it whatever i'll show it to you afterwards it was on there's a picture last night oh because you guys yeah you didn't there's no screen here so you can't see we don't know he's 59 years old a healthy guy he worked out he was in good health heart attack and bye bye nobody knows that they're going to live forever and therefore khabarine today because shaman like we're holding definitely aleph all over the top so oh good point a lot of other sponsors okay we have a lot of monthly sponsors coil sponsored by anonymous for shidduchim also uh the walking steam family the main camach there's a new one we're gonna have to hear that for a whole month for boys families lakewood new jersey because terror is the best ghoul apparently it's close to irons that's lock on to you and the video editor that's talking about not missing anonymously so the mission was talking about all types of bia and if it the yi bomb was beside the mesa rotten yukino or vamana then the mission goes into saying that hara which we discussed in great length what exactly is it and how it is it's the start of the act that's enough to be kind now the gemara says now mike kano what exactly aquina with well if we're going to just base it on these words would mean that we're talking about that part of the mishnah which is the beginning of the act but rashi says that's not what we're talking about we're talking about an inferior inferior bia meaning something that came from a shy gig or anus like we explained the gemara how is a possible ines he he was thinking about this and the obama force herself the whole thing shygig he didn't have the point is he didn't have intent for the mitzvot not a mara because ma'ara we already said that it's a hundred percent a good deal so we're talking about an inferior meal mike with an inferior beeo what do you what could you do already if you're yaw rav omar khanna would mean that if he is a cayenne let's say he had an this be a guru with shaggy and then he went on a trip he said i'll see you later i'm going to yeshiva i'll come back in three years could she eat truma during that time that's what we're talking about truma raph says yes she's a hundred percent the wife just like a regular wife of a cayenne corey truma only the things that have to do with the of them now what if a person's brother dies without children he's miyabim the obama he marries the obama he has five brothers this guy that just died left 10 million yarusha who gets the whole urushiol the other so he doesn't have to do a regular complete bia could be also a be a guru lesbian so the posix says over here this is chart 1 it teaches us that the one that steps in to to make a name for his brother and to be me and the wife he becomes you could i don't know no oh yeah he'll be instead of the brother and he gets everything he gets the whole yerusha remember we discuss according to some ashkenazim you get 50 okay whatever this act is it's enough to say that the yibum occurred and if he dies without children and he has children from another he has children from another wife she's allowed to get married to somebody else and if he divorced her with a get after that inferior bia that's enough she doesn't require get she doesn't require khalid so sorry he gave her a get doesn't require khalid okay so bikietzer is considered a good yi boom in hill but not in he didn't marry her it's not 100 a marriage why because it was an inferior yeebo so therefore she doesn't eat truma according to shmuel so we're going to have a discussion here what exactly how exactly is it says the gemara and this is shot number one we're going to say the reverse soon that what min is what happened there there's a guy that was married 100 to a woman and he dies now the brother comes steps in instead of that guy so everybody's going to agree that he stepped instead of his brother and just like the brother well the brothers and the only time you have ye bomb his brothers from a father so if the brother from the father is a cain you're also kind see both so the wife was eating true anyway there's no shiloh when it comes you you you inherited a wife that was already in the sewer right so let's just go back a second there's a thing called aerosyn there's a thing called the suin arisen is where you give a ring what today we called kidusan at khuppa but in those days it was done way before the nissun it could be even a year before and then there's the sewen which he brings into his house and he finishes off the marriage so minhan is if it's completeness when they react then she gets to eat truma oklahoma she was married to the brother and the brother is a cayenne just like he's a kind because they have the same father so she was eating truma so of course she's going to continue eating truma he pleague and harrison and the gamora later is going to say the exact opposite deminers and everybody's going to agree that what it's no good she never eats shrima there's going to be a machis in this one okay that's those are the two shots we're going to have in the kimono no i was going to be going to the universe now what's my flag is again rouvain marries a woman he doesn't marry he gives her a ring that's called irishman then he dies with that children there is yebum with irison you have to be you have to do ibum even though they didn't finish off the marriage it was just arizona rav ahmad she still gets to eat truma though because even though it's an inferior inferior beer what he did today obviously if he went ahead and did a regular yibum she's his wife he's a kind she gets the truma the problem is that he was a shy gig he thought he's with his original wife he this whatever it was it wasn't a real halal correct b it was an inferior beer and therefore we have a shia shiloh rav says she eats when the torah says is like amazing and everything is good you can't be better and stronger than the other the yava the guy that died he was only harrison and erisan only doesn't get truma if you're engaged not engaged in what we call engage but gauges of the torah anderson you don't get to eat the truma so why should the oven move steps instead of his brother be stronger than the oven himself basically says immortals like his own reasoning when the original guy that died he could feed his wife his arusa truma so the album who steps in when he does an inferior vo could do the same thing but if the original guy does not give truma like in the case when they're only arrows in java when the ovum has you have to stick in in parentheses when it is in an inferior yee boom then there's no drama don't fall asleep i'm telling you it gets more exciting tomorrow mace may no there are a few interesting sugars here but you got to just say you know you got to think the good of the bad sometimes yesterday we had the mudim you know come on what yeah oh bass clean yeah so it'll be the reverse probably i mean she doesn't she's not going to lose out you mean yeah i don't know it's a good shiloh i hear but yeah okay we're actually going to talk about similar things to what both of you are talking about says gemara meisway who's talking learning over there yeah but over here no no that's downstairs not here zogdingham basis so we're going to talk about this prices so remember it we're going to bring it again there's going to be a calculator when we switch the chat around you have israel israelis who's she has all her marbles this is a big hellish to me at least but i looked it up and have confused base and that's what the mission says when we get there we'll try to understand it we know that logically a deaf mute is considered ashayta times the gemara people that couldn't hear couldn't speak so they couldn't they were illiterate to the shaitan obery is very interesting over here's a person who started out his life healthy so he knows that he could read write talk everything and then he became a cherish somehow that turns him into a sheiter okay so again he gets engaged as a picayo normal and then before he was able to finish off the the nisswin he became a herish so what is that called a be a guru when he's a shaita and he's and he's bile her that's a be a guru that's not a good one because he happens to be a shaitan so rashi brings that the reason is and the murder talks we have to make exera when you have an ensuin because maybe this herish will get engaged and when when he's engaged she can't eat truma so also when they're married soon we meet at xavier that they can't eat roma she can't eat true so if the original guy dies and listen to this when she's mad when she's with him as an arusa in a sewer she doesn't get to eat if he dies and she she falls now to ebon he died without children so she goes to the brother now all of a sudden she could start eating what does that mean that the yavam is more powerful than the original guy um okay why because this the haresh who doesn't have das that's a be a guru so it's like but once once he falls the eboom and the of them is a herish listen to this it's tremendous what's going on here she's married to her she can't eat but she falls to a young why think about it because yibum you could acquire ibama with the sheikh you don't have to have intent so harish is like a person who has no intent so he is going to acquire the ibum but the husband you see that the yavam in this case is stronger than according to rav this makes sense because even a beer guru could allow you to eat rumor according to that says that a beer an inferior beer does not allow the woman to eat tremor so come over here she's allowed to eat truma with the bia of kharesh which is a beer group you're right we have to amend it a little bit and stick in a word and please remember this for later on because the command is going to go back to this and just as a hint you want to say oh like we answered before this is the answer that we said before right over here that what it's a major problem but the pro the thing is that nothing fits in according to anybody a hundred percent so shmuel is going to have to bid like a little bit and say he picked the khan sachin he wasn't able to do nassun until he became achairish but then there is no truma khanas here this part but if he actually got married to her fellas okay so the original husband is not worse if he was able to finish off the marriage then she could eat so too the brother was the yavam and he inherited a woman who was already eating trauma so she continues to eat tremor with him and then he died and she felt the e-bomb okay because now she's coming from a much better place she's coming from a place of nasun where she already ate truma great but you know what the problem is we said that a boom is stronger than marriage we just said it's not stronger than marriage you said marriage she eats shruma and she's true so then why is even stronger than marriage um because we're going something that we didn't speak about maybe or hinted to it spoke a little bit about it that if the original guy the husband that died the original guy during engagement during irisin she doesn't eat roma she would eat if she was messing up vegan army and some say the reverse this is what i warned you about we're going to flip it mi naires in the rack that makes sense what if they're just engaged the aeroson then she doesn't get to eat everybody even ravel gree she doesn't get to eat roma they're not really married no no truma oh where am i holding anybody because when she was with the husband in harrison she didn't get to eat chipley menace the homach like this is she was married to the first guy completely and she ate truma now the guy died and she falls lee ebon could she continue eating truma rava marijuana's rav says listen she was eating as a as a married woman now she felt the ebook she continues eating shmuel says no why you can make it because at the end of the day how did you get to the album through in an inferior beal that's not enough to eat could acquire the obama with an inferior bia only for certain things for yerusha but not for truman himself says in the name of shmuel we're talking about in the whatever the husband could do so could the of them do small says this you hear the problem says she was married it's this is to me i don't know what you guys think she's married to ruben she's eating truma he's a cayenne the brother is also kind she fall the husband dies she falls leave him to shimon no she can't eat truman now but why even shmuel himself says that the oven takes over where the husband left off and if the the yavam let her eat rama so she should also eat truma the the original husband let her eat rumah so the oven should also be able to let her eat tremor what changed so yeah you have to say that that's not exactly what shmuel said again because and everybody explains this because there's such a rav and shmuel this inchworm we're just gonna have to figure out what small says even though we have to push things around a little bit emo any type of beer a good one a real one then allow the wife to eat rumor yo it's like a beer without das there's no cavanagh he's not allowing her to eat true with it may speak that's this role now we're going back to the price that we said before for all the new guys i apologize it gets better by the way scratch i'm saying you have a flight an hour so valdic stuff don't forget about us that's the gemara we we mentioned this already yeah this is a freebie you have a normal woman who got engaged to a cayenne who's normal and before he's able first he did erusin and step two is nisswan but he wasn't able to do nasun and he became a death mute which had logically renders him not capable like a shaytan she doesn't get to eat truman mace vinnoff but this guy who's a deaf mute i don't know what happened exactly maybe they have a degenerative disease or something two brothers suddenly in midlife they both went deaf-mute these are all stories that are but not like we don't expect them to be real mess with you why because he's a harish and every bee of his is a be a guru or she could eat truma now once again um the original guy who died she couldn't eat truma the second guy who's also deaf but he's a yovam she could eat rumor bish lai malarav mitarets kidatara now according to rav she's supposed to be like an arusa you have a big guru and the chiro why why could she why could she eat so we're gonna say that what like we answered before remember i totally remember before it's like a surimaxer kind of thing we're missing some words and we're talking about no that he got married to her it was it was like nissuan and that's why she eats el shmuel cassio but according to shmuel she shouldn't be eating now she'll be eating truma to be a guru cashier okay it's not the worst again because everything is a trackish it's only a hash it's not a to you that's not the end of the world every single time that the says kasha almost every single time what saskatchewan is going to say that it's not as strong as the three of them is very strong cassio is you get around it past this role because we have a normal woman who got engaged to a normal client but like his biggest contention is and we said why remember what the reason is zera we have to be geyser a woman who is married or to a woman who's not married now listen to this so we go to the next chart no it's not a big deal right so let's see that's exactly what mars is going to discuss so from the past and we we have to i put in parentheses instead of you we pronounce it that the son lets his mother eat rumor if she has a son of kain she gets to each rumor now it's talking about now neil adler ben if she has a son she eats mace haben and the gherish guy the guy that's deaf mew the shayta is still alive she gets to eat because of her husband still alive if the son dies now does she have the right to still eat much like this my time with the urban awesome how do we explain omar this is extremely difficult to understand i'm going to let you ask the question before the gemara asks rabba hayao shikhfire since she was eating for five years when her son was alive now that the son passed away she should continue eating no what's the question what about the husband the husband also she could eat truma truma as long as he's alive once he dies it stops how come by the husband we don't say shikka fireakala she she ate for 30 years she you don't say that as long as it's happened by the sun you taste smart doesn't make any sense it doesn't make so much sense it doesn't make any sense that i don't understand the mean at all a israelis who married a cayenne and he was eating truma all those years and the minute he dies that's it it's over no but according to your logic she should continue eating forever because once she starts she shouldn't stop hello keeping the miss demisley pacquiao but obviously once the husband dies then the ducha dissipates unless of course she has a child from him which most kahana is doing therefore they continue eating forever i don't see what you're saying unless you go into like oh it's okay fine different things no ribonuclear argues on the whole concept that he said up until now he completely argues and he just says that a deaf mute who's a shaita who gets married he has the ability to let his wife eat rumor so what's the question the obvious question is then what are you talking about a sun here what does the sun have to do with anything it says that the only reason why she's eating is because she has a son it's not the shot shot is because she has a husband who's deaf mute and that's enough to eat great bomb question why are you talking about his son he says i'll tell you why we're talking about this that what rabonan agree over here they'll be maida if she has a son she could eat okay that's why we're stuck in the word sun in fact she doesn't need the sun she could eat just because of the husband that's rubinassen says she has a husband that's not enough teeth but if she has a son she could eat because of the son that's why it's his son says if that's the whole point then why does ramnasan wait all the way to the end of the mission to argue let him just say right away in the beginning if the herish gets married say she doesn't eat truma he's going to say you do each rumor right away say your argument why are you waiting until there's a son listen to this it's a he was polite he didn't want to interfere they were middle of talking so he waited until they finished speaking which by the way is probably some of the best advice in marriage and everything else just listen it's could die to listen and everything in business right you listen to the other person don't cut them off you listen to they finish the sentence and then you go so that's what he did here father paula goliath wait a minute it that doesn't fit in though listening mesa i did a charge so you don't have to look back look what it says in chart three neurologists i'm just reading from the mishnah in blue love ellis according to you that is being polite what should it say may saban remain first should go blue and then ribnasan who's being polite and waiting until everybody finishes then he says this no in the mission the way it's written rebellion interrupts he says his thing mesa ben what happens if the son dies i say you eat see hope shat doesn't fit you're telling me that he's being nice he's a listener he's being polite and he talks only after everybody's then the question is if he already interrupted them so he should have interrupted them all the way in the beginning of the mishnah where they said if akheros gets married say she doesn't eat truma and according to him you do each room because there's nothing with the son it just has to do with tahersh getting married it's enough to give your wife truma cashio again these are all good questions bottom line is we don't have a grape shot so we have to be duck a little bit anyway so we'll be done so it says that all these things that we said when it comes to your vama again yavama you could be kinder her bahara give me kind of her bashar gibb amazing all these things nothing stops you obama so the same allah applies if somebody's with a sister or his mother or all that rights your either isr you're either the shy gig but not over but you become possible all these things you're so amazed it doesn't matter how renovated is now returning to the afternoon government base sponsored we have a new sponsor today that's how it goes every single day it's very annoying y'all safe i never heard it wow one time is a joke every day that's why they were doing it so maybe i'm thinking back now they weren't really laughing okay i can't read my own handwriting the gold i knew i shouldn't have done this okay i don't know the it's by maisha horn the kids are in honor of jolly joe krause and family and if i could read my internet when i get there to stroll oh no in honor of moisture donut i think it is yeah this is what he means people have their name maybe you know that'll laugh these things guy has marty donut mutty donut there you go matadona he has funny friends uh michael horn the only only sponsors for people that have names that people made fun of them their entire life that's how it goes to kimura the unreal line rough she said a grape shot and it oh in honor of [Music] he enlightened our eyes and we could learn it from our mishnah now i believe you see over here there's an aleph right by the agency's row in other words his shot is his is good but israel the gemara doesn't like darya it's interesting the gemara slugs up the the the raya but the gemara doesn't go away from what he said goes like this asia's israel shinenzo a woman who was violated by by a strange stranger avapi in other words against her will terrorist incredible but it gets even worse and that is that a woman is straight list is married she's happily married she walks in the park somehow violated her when her husband dies she can't marry a kind anymore that's it now let me ask you something let's say she's married to a queen and somebody violates her what's that yeah i have to get divorced you hear this if you came just for this it was worth it you hear this aloha it's the saddest allah a woman is married happily married she loves her husband she's married to him for 40 years so russia marusha did something terrible to her they have to get divorced and if they're together he gets malcus that's the nexu it's unbelievable because he's a kind and a cayenne is a kind of kind can't be married to to somebody that has any sort of shampoo whatever it is let's see the suggyo every day every time every every helen says the gemara but this is a different allah i jumped too fast because i was so excited about this allah she's married to israel and she's israelis okay so now after her husband dies the shidduch market shrinks a little bit she cannot get married to a coyote there's the bala and there's a big she's allowed to stay with her husband why is she last stay with her husband because the only time you have to get divorced from husband is if she did it willingly she had enough fear but over here was against her will she's allowed to stay with her husband however she's right it's all good for yee boom shogi amazing is good for you and also and the same allah applies to the arias may the faint says the gemara this is talking my love number shrugging malaysian amazing that part of the mission it doesn't matter to show you it doesn't matter who's amazing now there's another part that talks about harrah the beginning of the act the first moment that's enough for evil no but let's say we're talking about chugging amazing in it creates absolute for kahuna even though she's a shy gegis shelley bronson it makes her salah she can no longer be married okay no that's not the shot you learn wrong that if she has willingly had a relation with somebody but only for a moment it was the beginning of the act that's enough to make her puzzle to kuno because ira is enough to pass the man eleven so we're talking the mission is saying that if this is hara and arise it's like ye bomb because the mishnah where mr the mystery started saying that by ivana harrah works shy works mesa works and then the mission says and also the same allah replies by arise shouldn't be reversed yesterday we're talking about that we learned yama from a rice not a rice from ibama so that doesn't make sense although i rise a sister you learn from your obama address so if a woman had unnatural bia she like then she becomes puzzle to kahuna she's she can't marry a coin again you're learning this from from ibama look by obama we said that you kind of should like a dark also and from that i learned i rise the opposite you vomit you learn from a rise not arise from your involvement same question we had a second ago that what that if you have a grusha which she was only shiloi kid darko she's not allowed to be married she can't eat true money more that's what we're talking about we didn't know that part we didn't know that shalaka darker works by hiv is like a gruesome alma mater that we didn't know that's the hidden share omarova back to all the good stuff they can have ah it's a it's it's not funny but it's incredible to watch you know america people take it so seriously the books go on and they take their kids and they get under the towers and they call them from this it's beautiful they're so so used to it every day every day asia's coincidenceo you guys know i am but you know you can see thomas i'll just repeat the joke i said like probably three weeks ago guy but you'd never heard it pia didn't hear it it's a famous joke the guy tells his father his father came to visit him in the mirror shiva and so he goes to shaka's with his father he says you know over here they do hanuman he basically told his father he's never minion yet he just showed up okay omarova this is the sara right here you have a wife of a kayon who was violated by a stranger so her husband must divorce her immediately and if her husband doesn't he says i can't what do you mean we have children together we have omashbacho we're married for 40 years i'm not divorcing her bala she's now obviously she didn't do any it wasn't willingly but in terms of a cayenne deposit says about her she they can't be married same thing let's say we this everybody knows already that if a coin divorces his wife he can never remarry her even though yisrael has a mitzvah to remarry his divorced wife before she marry somebody else a coin cannot so there's sad things about being a coin out in the hotel on on pesach there's a cayenne he's a you know baker he's in his thirties so i said no how's it going with what he told me that cert they're not available for him because of it being a client okay you went into the whole a whole thing yeah it goes together being being more cuddage brings more responsibilities more more uh more humorous or whatever you want to call we're not talking about the word tomo like oh tommy touching your shirts over here tomma let's see if i have the positive yeah here's a posix chart for we use a lotion of toma which means a lotion of of of what's the word in english what does the arch will say for tomah in this case to be the what the filement oh that's a little bit too fancy for me punisher but defilement it doesn't mean your tummy you have to go to the mikvatuma it means she was defiled through isrbia that's what it means so you use the word tongue sassaging marawi she's only a zainab but not maya she she she became tommy through that bad guy says and for that he gets malcus it seems like almost he gets double malcus twice massive zero vehicle asura so it says in this passage means that it wasn't forced in other words she did it willingly since she did it willingly that's why she's considered a saita and he brings her to the vesa midash they they get let her drink from the water and she might explode may not explode but it's because it wasn't forced ha nisbasa if she was forced she was violated against her will mutters and if you look at the pasta i did it in green the heat this is has this hatter but not not not a kahanas not a woman marital coins okay so let's just stop here for a second let's do this again says an apostle that israelis that was forced that wasn't forced she's a saita but if she was forced she's not and from that we're being medic that a cayenne who was forced is us her yeah again says in the past what makes a saita if she did it willingly her husband said don't be messiaka with another man she went willingly and she was she's a psycho she's temaya meaning that if she was against her will the guy grabbed her she's not a saita she could stay with her husband this pause again incite it you're not going to be with the site though but if it was against her will she's allowed to be but that only applies israelim not to kahanam but the kumar says that's not a love that's an essay it's a issue that comes from a from you should do here they she could be married she could that's a positive if she's israelis she could be married what is that a negative or a positive it's a it's a positive she could stay married to her husband if she's israelis if she was forced against her will but so married to cayenne she cannot so that's a negative that you learn from a positive a negative that you learn from a positive you don't get malcus to get malcus it has to be alive it has to be a negative it's the torah has to say do not be married to this woman over here it says you could be married to this woman if she's israelis and from that i learn that if she's a coyote she's married to god you cannot be married but that's a negative that was learned from a positive you don't get malcus omoravo i call hoyuba you know no you you learn wrong shot we don't learn it from this positive we have another puzzle that's actually a negative and therefore she gets malchus possible there is and then this pasok is just saying that a cayenne remains as is with the original issue of a negative and therefore if this original list of a negative you get what malchus is conscious some say before he said that if you remain with a queen who remains with his wife who is nanas he she's a zainab now we're saying no it she's tommy and now the girl is going to ask the reverse question which we asked before what about zaina yes before we said zaina but what about tomah and i was saying tomo what about zainab another thing well that doesn't answer yes you're right you get to isram says gemara alma bonus like karina baizano which makes a lot of sense to us now you can't call a woman a zainab really i mean according to this gamer makes sense you know call her zaina when she had nothing to do with it she wasn't willing she wasn't a willing party so she is tommy because at the end of the day physically she she was defiled whatever it's called the filement but she's not a zodiac muscle rib zeyron villain esposa she was enforced asura she did it willingly then she becomes us as her husband honest possible should i repeat it or it's good it was i think the island was giving me like these faces shall you repeat nakamura the pasik says just real quickly because there's nothing else going on today the posix says but it's very interesting the positive says that if a husband tells his wife don't seclude yourself with that man and she goes and she secludes herself willingly they can't be married anymore meaning if it wasn't willingly he forced her to be secluded then they could remain married but a cayenne's wife cannot but the fact that natalya says that if it was against her will they could remain married could is a positive word cannot is a negative word the torah says they could be married that's a positive on a positive you can't get malcus so the kumar says no you're right if we're just learning from this passage alone then it will remain positive the problem is that there's another policy that says that that's a negative and that gives the woman malcus not this puzzling all that happens here is that the cayenne remains in the original possum there's a puzzle that says the malcos and i want to say that oh here it says that willingly malcus no the word vahi says by it doesn't apply to that kind so erase this possible positive so what am i what do i remain with if i raise this positive from a positive i remain with the original opposite which is a negative in a negative i get markers says the mishna sponsored by oh vey last time we had a mishna a long time ago it's over here sponsored by the white hill group where we dive in for a fusion for clients and for our mdy family join us at mdy at taylorm.evendiff.com oh it changed you can't do double now okay his wife as his horse for his wife and jewel who's who's having children anonymous we should all have close of our wives and that is that if you're not supposed to marry a kind because you happen to be a divorcee or a widow to a kind goddel what happens if they do get married she becomes a kalala even before the marriage they just got arusan some sort of engagement whatever you want to call it davidson she also becomes officer to eat over actually says we're talking about abbas but later on now we're not talking about vasculin the point is that this woman before she becomes a khalala she becomes usurped to eat truma so almar al-qaeda gruesome these women which if they finish off the marriage they become halal and they're not allowed to eat rumor they're also teach roma already beforehand because they're about to get married to this guy miners in lego club they're not who never ate truman in her life she gets engaged to a cayenne she's the divorcee and she gets engaged to khan you hear this marty hear this she gets engaged to cayenne she's allowed to eat truman today once they get married she becomes a halal she can eat tremor and before she even got engaged she couldn't eat tremor because why because she's surrenders but in between as they're engaged she can eat tremor it's crazy oh so that's a whole rashi here that the problem is that yeah that's that's a good point iron rashi that's the first thing he says that we have a problem of um feeding the the brothers in the house over there okay fine these women who marry these kaihanam they shouldn't marry them they become halal and they can't eat truma so just because their husbands died or gave them a divorce that's it doesn't help they're gone for life they're possibly trauma minnesotan this is also even a this is a giant kiddish as well unbelievable today mine erasing even accord listen to this marty this you're going to love remember who says that when you're engaged you can't eat rumor because you're about to get married and because you're about to get married al-shamma said you can't eat rumor today he'll admit that if the guy drops dead the cayenne before he had the ability to you get to eat rumor because you never got married the whole point is because you're gonna get married but you never haven't so mela it doesn't pass along says maro you know what the boy said let's just stop over here it's uh oh you want me to go right there i know i know based on hashem live american stroll you're off the hook until the summer you don't have to set up the cameras anymore have a wonderful day and a wonderful simmer and basically i'll see you guys in a nice show when you come don't forget to visit us and remember you