Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 53 by R’ Eli Stefansky

thank you for all those who organized this unbelievable mymed i'm very emotional it's it's unbelievable over 500 sadikim coming out on a random night to hear a random daf in middle of ivanhoe in the middle of vivamus the voice i were holding in middle of sphere asymmetry in just a few days the very very famous story about rebecca and his 24 thousand tell me them are we going to learn it right here in uvamis a little over a week we repeat the story over and over but do we really take it to heart 24 000 tell me them died and i figured it would be appropriate to say from one of my favorites i know tomer levy our new executive director he learns ben yayada before he learns gemara almost i mean it's exaggeration he learns every single benjayada so i want to quote her ben yayada he asked the question he says why is it that the gemara counts as tell me them doesn't say twenty four thousand the kumar says twelve thousand peers say twenty four thousand what's twelve thousand pairs it says that rebecca knew what was going on and he tried to prevent the tragedy so he said i'm going to peer up to 24 000. the older with the younger and let the younger respect the older let the severity respect ashkenazi and the litzvah respect of khasid he paired them up and unfortunately it didn't work rabbi sai if you look around look at the person sitting next to you we have in this room we have zionists and anti-zionists we have hasidim and anti-hasidim we have a litvak sitting and giving a shear and a sparty show we have lubavitchers yakuz and so many high misha people i truly believe that was looking down at us and smiling we're not here kum singh we're not here to eat chong although i heard there's a good chunk afterwards we're here we're gathered to connect to the rabbinicial alarm and the best way we know how to connect we're here not judging each other not looking at this guy he's like that and looking down at the other guy we're not judging we're here and that's one of the most beautiful things about mdy and i think people feel it why there's so many people here tonight because so many people came to meet them this is a place that we get together once in a while and we meet family we recognize so many different faces the mark ashkenazis miranda kash where are you mirad murad right over here for sponsoring and if we're talking about revokivo we're going to mention him today on the daf another lesson that we hear but we have to internalize think about it rebecca is what we call an amaritz until he's 40 years old nothing zero and amaretts what happened to this amarette when he decided to take things in his own hands he didn't just become a great person he might have become the greatest person that ever lived the greatest yid that ever lived is a gemara that says that who saw rebecca in the future and he's told the rabbit shallow why are you giving the target through me give it through him he's more worthy so second place third place right up there with the greatest of the great when did he start when he's 40 years old 40 years old so that's a lesson for every one of us it doesn't matter how old you are it doesn't matter how many daphne mario you did you're still not as big of an artist as rebecca was when he was 40. and look at what he reached there's no stopping anybody you're 40 you're 50. people wrote in a guy wrote in i'm 80 years old i just opened up a gemara for the first time in my life so you're still young you're only 40. you're only 37 in atsala you're still young so i think instead of emails tonight i propose that we sing two songs but when i when i when i mean sing i mean sing not look around and watch everybody like sing with your heart [Music] [Laughter] [Music] [Laughter] [Music] oh [Music] is [Music] foreign [Music] glory the next one we're approaching black bomber and we remember what happened in murone and when we had the the seom in ramapanchamesh which i'm flying high you know everybody that was there is still on a high one of the reasons is because of all the camaraderie and the singing that we had over there was just out of this world [Music] i [Music] hey [Music] me [Music] my [Music] in [Music] hey [Music] me [Music] imposing beautiful beautiful again take it in it's it's very emotional you should know doesn't happen every day 500 people not coming for a see i'm not coming for a chevy broadcast coming to learn torah it's unreal unreal the we have to do sponsors that yeah the kylo is sponsored good morning wow you know what we got to do it again we got to do it good morning rob boyce that was better wow i didn't think you'd get better i tried hey never know the coil sponsored by a nominee anonymous for lakewood what lilo is anything else i forgot did i i'm wearing my closet hope okay gevalde wow it's been a long day sponsored for this individual sponsored by the local families like new jersey because toyota's the best gula they went on for another month [Music] if anybody can read it like me let me know it's it's not so positive and the video editor but it says oh i guess it's the next word no space in honor of all my friends and family who came out to meet ravelli wish to be there foreign buy his pancake mix bjorn says nielsen sonny in memory of my grandmother freda batthana says for yosef rafal ben rahul a member of the mdy family and one of the original members or belly share how many people here are with the share from beginning of broadcast five and a half people unbelievable you're you stroll you came at that field don't don't make up stories you weren't in the fed you came actually in shabbos yeah i know you're not going to pull a fast one on me tonight's your event here in brooklyn is this course for for staying for yehuda we're making brachas on the refreshments please have you been rocking mine for a foolish lima tonight this is written by miranda cash tonight we remember the six million this beautiful kitties hashem all the evening coming together in to learn torah to learn the daft brings alias to dinner shamans then shaman should have an aliyah a voice i here we go it's not just all fun games it's even more fun we're learning the daff by the time this is over the rabbi of the show is going to be converted is going to be part of the daf as well okay we are holding three lines down from the top now we're in the middle of a soggy smacky middle of the sugar so everything daff related you just need to know that in five minutes we're going to be in a new sugiya so if you're new to this it's the first time in your vlogmas we're going to start something fresh but let me give you a little breakdown of your vamas in 30 seconds the best i can in case this is your very very first time doing yavamas you're not allowed to marry your sister-in-law your brother's wife however if the brother dies without children then it's a mitzvah to marry his wife she's the obama and by marrying her you're performing yee boom there's a way out of it if you don't want to marry her or she really thinks that you have a shrine or something then there's a couple of veteran for her then you perform what's called khalitzo i have here for the very first time a real shoe i know you have to give him a tremendous dish and i left it in this role unfortunately this is real actually jakob vayals is nicer but it's very very similar the thing is that yaakov's actually fits my foot okay i don't know it's like literally perfect but i think this is even better than this must be better this is a khalita shoe the yelva wears one of these and the obama gets down removes the shoe spits goes through a whole process says if you suck him and she can marry whoever she wants those are the first two things now if you look at this chart right over here we just discussed the blue and the green khalid those are both in the torah their isa now midi rabban on ravanan added two very very familiar things to the evil and that is a mimer and get my mirror is what we know today as kedushin somebody gives the kala a ring or money that's kidusan when it when you do so to yavama it's called the mimer it's the same exact thing as kadushin just to a regular woman it works with their iso over here it only works with the rabbana that we had a whole discussion why does it work and how does it work etc the other thing you could do unfortunately we know what this is it's called a get instead of giving a khalitza you give a get now it doesn't really work works somewhat and you still have to do a get what we're learning and discussing from daphnon is the combination of all these things to take all the four things mix them all up and many different combinations so first a person first gives mimer and then he gives a get he gives a khalitza the bottom line is that if a person gives khalitza or he performs zebum there's nothing else after that you can't do anything you're not really doing much but if a person goes ahead and does mimer first and then does khalid's person does get first and then does khalid so what happens and the combination of all those things so if you just want to take it back a few lines and not to confuse all the new guys so it's like 24 lines from the bottom of numbers we're not going to go there don't worry we're starting from gimbal but just so you understand what's going on here rebbe says rebbe the one who wrote the mishnah rabbanu akades reviewed that he says and i argue and i say a masai when is it that if a person performs khalita he lets the obama remove his show the khalita you could do something after that you could do a mayhem or you could give conducion isn't khalita and for these words we have six shot them what does he mean what does rebbi mean yesterday we learned three he makes he differentiates between a person who gives khalid and then he's makkadish the woman and he has a mind for issues for kidusian ava kitchen if he has intent to be me it's the end of the story and if you try to give her kidushin and give her a ring nothing happened because you had the wrong intent yeah intent for ye boom and eboom is over with khalita but if you try to marry her even though you're not allowed to marry her because the torah says once you give khalida eventually banash no you can't try to marry the the the ibama after you do khalidzo so what is rebbe saying exactly we had a great shot of him yesterday london stuff he was trying to great story guy found out after he plowed his front yard he was mowing his lawn he found out that he mowed his neighbor's mansion's lawn the mansion is worth 10 million dollars and i'm just throwing it in because it was a great story he mowed the guy's lawn by mistake like one foot of his lawn and he finds out later that when he mowed his lawn the guy already died and the guy happened to be a guerr and you're allowed to be kind of the gara's mansion just by mowing his lawn but he had no intent he thought he's mowing his own lawn he missed out on the opportunity because he didn't have the right intent and that's what rebbe meant if you have the right intent you think to yourself i'm being a cottager because i wanted to be my wife yes it's awesome but you had the right intent so something happened but if you had the wrong intent you're like a guy mowing the law and just moving around mowing the lawn thinking that's your own lawn that was one of them shot them then you did zero okay now let's jump forward another few shots i'm here three shots three lines down abstravia omar he's just going back on the on rover's shot that we said yesterday and that's basically every shot is going to work on the shot before it what they said and they said the difference between this and this no there's no difference i say loop shot okay well rather said yesterday domino is casually busy women if you use such a language you should become mikudashiously typically you say i read this just leave it to bazoo this guy throws in zika of yava now if you're new to ivamus let me just tell you the word zika means a band so when the brother dies and he leaves a sister-in-law a widow so there's a zika there's a bond between that widow and the brother-in-law so you could either marry her or do halitsa but even before he does any of that there's a bond between them how strong is the bond what does it do that we learned a lot of stuff about it but if he uses a lotion he's done with this obama completely there's khalifa they went to the best and they performed khalitza and the story by the way this thing right over here a couple thousand dollars just so you should know we try to get in there just really i said no way he said give you three thousand dollar deposit no a guy who took one and ran away with it we don't have it they use this and they're just roll unfortunately in the best in the neighborhood once a month because think about it this there are elderly people get married it's evil cheney let's say and they pass away so you have a 80 year old woman who has to do khalita okay either um if he uses a funny lush and he says you should become qudeshas to me with the bond of a yavam honey that's zero he used the wrong loss and forget about it now we're talking about a khalid so that's no good what's khalid that's no good so you look at the chart over here yeah you guys could see because i'm just pushing buttons here okay what happened was the guy in the top where is he here he is right over there yeah we don't hear reuven goes bye-bye this is our artist yoshi calls me up i don't know what time it was like just right before this year he goes i have a new idea some people don't like that ruvain who happens to be a prominent guy in our community goes by he's laying down he says i think that we should put him in a picture frame he's thinking about this at one o'clock in the morning what if we put him in a picture frame next to it i think that's a better okay fine anyway so if you see him in a picture frame you know what it is reuven and next to himself is a picture of him but anyways ruben goes bye-bye he was married to the five towner we have it right over here is this the first time a woman stood on this aren't quite this thing unfortunately not okay um so the yovam mr shimon because their brothers riven and shimon are baldwin brothers they're both bald and they're brothers shimon has to do something with this five counter either he gives her khalita or he does ibum what does he do this klutz he gives her get you know it's not one of the things you're supposed to do well it does take effect to the point that oh you're supposed to do khalifa they tell them okay so he does khalifa that's called khalid's absolute because now he already he ruined it by him giving a get it's not a pure good khalifa like the torah tells us to do so mars absolutely says no if you perform a khalitso that's no good that's a schwa because it came step two after the get poi teres there's nothing that happens afterwards once you perform this khalitza so what if you did a little bit of a get beforehand but now i took care of business i gave her jalitsa and the story marsovar marisol pateras there's still a little bit of a bond going on and therefore the khalitza doesn't work one hundred percent ravage absolutely so you see ravashi takes this shot of the gemara refshravis chad and says no not true everything you just said i don't agree with if it's a khalis absula if the khalifa came after she received the get no good inipitarus what's the question over here what's the math like it is if there is a kosher good kosher khalita could i give a woman a khalitsa and i make some sort of condition i make a condition i say here's your khalitsa on condition that you give me two hundred dollars two hundred zu says rashi could you do that that's the shiloh so mario schneiderlin it works so in our case she didn't fulfill the condition she was supposed to give the guy by the way you go you guys are oh learning great is the mevo recording or is the other one recording which one is it because the meevo's in the way okay great now i'm just into this stuff you know later on there's some people that watch it once in a while okay so since she didn't fulfill the deny she didn't give him the 200 bucks like she promised then it's not a khalito and therefore it's not good um i'm sorry that's not and therefore yes that's what i said and therefore she didn't fulfill that night and that night is a good night so it's not a good halita because she didn't fulfill the night um you can make a condition and the story and even though she didn't give the 200 it doesn't matter the condition so if let's think about it for a second she made it he made a condition with her you have to pay me 200 bucks for this khalifa to work she didn't give 200 bucks so therefore there's still a zika and therefore if you went ahead and gave kedushin to something to grab on to because it wasn't good so we're not even talking about a funny khalid we're talking about a real kosher khalifa that never took place because there was a condition and now for the final shot ravino right we have ravina ravashi they're the two that wrote shas so their last over here in the list he tells his contemporary ravashi no you don't know what you're talking about there is at nine khalid so everybody agrees they can make a condition i don't know that he's saying you don't know what you're talking about it could be there's like i'm just thinking this out loud they're just saying maybe this is the shadow rebbe you're not forced to say it like you maybe you could say like me that what there is you could make a conditional vocabulary so the famous idea in shaas night cuffle and if you look at this possum there's two parts actually to the power show but didn't want to go in territorial they wanted the better pasture on the other side of the border so mushroom made a deal with them if you come and fight the war with everybody else great and then he tells them that should be the end of it but he says first he says [Music] if you do that great the aru and if you don't keep your condition then it's not good so you see from this part from the sukim they have to double up your condition for instance this circus by the prusian there's a show right next to mdy and these are like real grunik's they look like your xiaomi's but they're gronix and i s the guy brings to show a mag 40 estrogen every shape and every color and everything and everybody goes like this they pick up all 40. so i'm about to do he says oh yeah he tells me in hebrew i'm giving this to you on condition that you give it back to me that's what everybody says right but then he did it night cuffle and if you don't give it back to me then i never gave it to you like okay wow it's like awful so he's mock pit in not only his macbook on 40 strike him he's making up night cuffles and all sorts of time okay there's such a thing i i guess it's very important to know what you're saying and what you're doing like if you write a will you have to know how to write it because if you do the wrong you think you're writing it the right way and if it's not theologically correct hardly you don't have a will you have to know that do you need a nightclub for the different things that we learned from this possibly but anyway the bottom line is over here we have like us in tonight [Music] with my do you need a snake off all and he didn't he didn't double it up oh my god i mean night coffee okay so that's all my leg is here great and so that explains rabby is lushen and those are the six shot them in review just took us through a little bit of a trip through shots different suggests and it was beautiful and now on to the rest of the mishnah until the end of the pair khals of awesomer so this is chart four person did khalito and then okay or because both of those are the end of the story basically because those are diorises so if you do khalidza and the story boom and the story but then he goes ahead and does step two is either he gave a get or he gave a mimer so he did khalitza and he gave a get or khalid gave him mayamer or he did the e bomb and gave a get or evo okay well what happens we mentioned that yesterday we were learning the mishnah what does the mishnah say look at the lotion of the world i guess it's three days ago i don't know when it says over there ain't the last last words in the afternoon if you have a gemara might be two lines before that also okay the point is that it doesn't mention anything about the guy in green if a guy performed e-bomb how's everybody doing up there hey baron what the rabbi says they hardly have men up there ladies up here yeah but men of their never they're makman to do the dark to do the dive today [Applause] is [Music] foreign [Music] [Applause] since nobody's listening i gotta tell you anytime i stop the show and i start singing songs because i don't know shot in the next tomorrow all right so we have here a situation where a guy does khalito and then he does mimer or vinasan doesn't mean and it means or not or ubal and he did those things below means okay belimar's problem is why does the mishna mention that ye boom is the end of the story once she's his wife there's no other mitsubi makayam she's a wife for every alaha if he divorces her he could return her like a regular wife she's a wife but it doesn't say that in the mishnah just says after khalita it's the end of the story why ignoring that whole line about ebam abayev [Music] both say and this is the theme of the gemara we don't want to say we don't want to use too many words we're going to say one thing that means everything and we don't need to say oh after beer there's no there's nothing else after khaleesi pick one or the other says yeah that's what it means it's the same thing stick it in insert it there but you know what it means so but how come the tiny use okay so if you want to pick one of the two shouldn't you maybe pick eboom why did the why did misha use khalid so after khalid is nothing says i want to tell you that she's not anxious anymore look if somebody performs even okay forms evo and then what there's no major criticism so she became his wife i'm telling you that if you do halita she could get married to anybody without anything else and she's not ash's ish that's a tremendous goodness i'd rather that than tell me that after ye boom there's nothing next part of the mishnah whether there's one or two of us listen says in other words if one person gives a minor and then the other let's see if we have a chart here yeah so over here we have two baldwin brothers reuven on the bottom goes bye bye his wife the five towner falls the two brothers now what should they do maybe la lacha today we say they should do mimer and then it's more appropriate it's not such pretzels fine that was the other day's gemara but mina tyra before me boom goes shimon and he does miner goes levy the doctor in the the white doctor code he also does mimer says why should he do my i want to marry her i do my so banasi says yesh my meraka maimer it works to appoint him and they both need every one of the brothers has to give her a get now nobody could be sounds very very similar to words but they're very different we have two men and one woman or two women and one man here's the picture here you have one brother who two women two vomits fell to him and he performed mimer on each one why i don't know he's only let him marry one and he decided to to perform conducion on two so again look at this picture it's two men two brothers two bowman guys giving a mimer to one woman she received one lady received two members and over here you have one man giving two members to two separate ibamas that case he says it's different yes ibamas and one yavam he doesn't have the power we actually learned something similar that each we saw svara and each yavam has the power to give but okay forget what i'm saying now kate said the zoo now two ibamas right over here you have two vamas and one received a mimer the other one received a khalid so you see the shoe in the picture is pretty good if you look at it it has the two things here we're going to learn about these straps different way to strap it it's a whole process that's why they're very very long straps where's yacov sir yakov is all the way by the door by the center door great job great great job now i'm serious i looked at it how did you do it not at all okay fine not him somebody else les miserables so look at this what happens is like this you have two yavamas two women that were married to reuben so when ruben goes bye-bye what happens the two women rocco and five town they fall to shimon what does shimon do he ignores rahul and he performs a mimer step one he performs a mimer on five towner and then he performs a khalito that's completely nuts because if he was going to do mimer he's setting himself up for marriage he should be miyaban if he wants to do khalid just do khalid so fine he doesn't know what he's doing he's ahmad he does mimer and then does khalid what kind of khalid is this khalid's absulah it's bad it's not a strong khalitza why because something happened beforehand he didn't mimer so listen to this right by your side very interesting if he was to perform khalito without anything before right just a regular guy regularly performs kalitsa what happens to rocco she's with sarah she goes free and clear she can marry whoever she wants all you have to do is one khalita to one of the two wives and you're good perform ebam to one of the two wives and you're good but this character went ahead and he did a mimer first so he ruined the khalita that came afterwards so what about the co-wife she cannot go free and clear because the khalitsa that her co-wife received five town or garagalitsa is not strong enough to let her go free balls what does it say by us if you look at chart number seven it says that if shimon gave mimer to the five towner and then he gave khalid to the berkeley he has to give the second one it seems like the second one gets khalita that's what kumar understood first he does mimer to five towner kalita wouldn't work on the five counter give the khalita to the burka lady and that will pass through both of them because the berkeley is a strong khalita she doesn't have a mimer so the the khalids is perfect so is that a good rioting of the opinion that when you have a weak khalitza it doesn't pass through the other one that's why in this case it seems like the mission is saying give the khalitsa to berkeley digimon is going to answer no that that was the story it happens to be he gave mimer to this one and khalid is the other one we're not telling him what to do it just so happens that's what he did another thing the gemara says this will stay just outside real quick because the deuteronomy members those over there that we learned this idea that if you have clean drinking water don't spill it out if somebody else needs it right what comes to mind all these pesach programs what do they do with all that food no it's unbelievable waste how do you throw out food that other people could use i don't know what the what they do exactly so the same idea raviolis have said that if you could just give this woman a khalifa and she's no good for a client anyway she's a divorcee so give it to her why ruin another person's life why limit her market so that's bach says yosef look over here in this case why are we telling him to do khalid to the burka ladies she's not also to kahanam now she'll be awesome if the khalifa the five-towner already has a mayamer give it to her did we tell him what to do we didn't tell him to do halita it says that's what this is a case that a guy did in mimer and then he did it's not because he was following instructions that's what he did on his own the evidence he did it on his own the so the the evid kind of case not that not that we tell them to do it okay next case get lazulu get lazu here's a case where shimon has two of us that felt him he decides to divorce both of them it's a real bad thing because get mimer at least has a place in today's eboom i don't know rabbi you know anybody that did the gibbon really because they said in the sparta communities some spider communities still have evil that's what i was told i'm still looking for a real true java me if i'm a couple not in your community okay so so my release is give her kidus but there's no place for get so if he gives a get to both of them so they still need khalifa both of them and if you look at the lotion it says srihais they both need both of them so what's going to say let's i'll remind you if you perform a bad khalito in other words you give a get a woman by mistake so then you give her khalitsa that's not good enough and she has to go to all the brothers let's say all the brothers the the guys from cassidy family i said i use that as an example and one guy is in south africa and one guy is in sahao and everybody laughed not today and one guy is two years old so you have to now wait 11 years until he becomes bar mitzvah she needs to go to every single brother that's what it says over here each one says doesn't mean that these two women five town are in berkeley it means that anytime you have a similar case like this case on the screen all of the cases from beginning of history till today all of those srihais they need akalita not that both of them need a colleagues only one of them needs to call it get the zubakula zoo we're going to chart number 10. i like to say that the number 10 this is all on the plane chart number 10 i don't know what the person next to me was doing but staring at my computer perka lady things i had a mice i was talking to my cabrusa then on before we took off and um this crazy this is like uh not crazy it's very very interesting sugis hopefully we're not going to learn it tonight we'll leave it for tomorrow one of the most famous stories in shas it's basically daphnum dal and uh top top line don't peek there um and i'm talking to him i decided okay we're gonna talk to him usually in hebrew nobody's gonna understand me the ibama the oven fell off a roof and this lady is giving me these looks okay but it's in hebrew but then afterwards she opened up a book in hebrew i'm like okay next song not making this up she didn't sit next to me there's a guy in between us but the guy was looking at my pictures he thought they were interesting didn't ask me anything and she gave me this crazy look okay where are we [Music] okay get the zoo where are we yeah fourteen lines up get lost the zoo lima we have i'll get another here shimon performs i'm telling you we're going through all the tempests so he gave the five tanner get he gave the other one a khalid so let him say this and what's that seems like the same this is a freebie rabbi so we just did the suggyo it seems like the mission is telling us that he should give a khalita to the second one so the marley says is that a righteous shmuel that if it's a bad khalidso it doesn't work for the five towner that's why we're encouraging to do the khalita to the berkeley and it's also a questioner of the isis who says don't spill out your clean water if somebody else needs to drink from it and therefore we're over here it says go do halita to the berkeley lady why you already gave the five-towner get she's already awesome give her a calisa doesn't say the mishna this is what we're encouraging this is a guy a clown that came to us after he did this funny thing by giving again he comes to us and asks us what to do says think about it real quickly if you do khalitsa nothing happens after khalidzo you're done so the fact that he gave khalidza you can remove as many shoes as you want it doesn't do anything right but once again we have the same question we have before and there's a freebie why is the mishnah focused only on the khalita the mission should have also said there's nothing going on after yumi abbam so if a person is miyabam the five towner and then he decides to do khalid to the percolator size to bimiyabi it doesn't matter it's over says the kimbard rabbi ravadavantara value you're right the mission only is one wants to say one thing and today fine you inserted in your mind but all we need is one we understand everything isn't the main mitzvah here we could add the maintenance of his inbound so why is the tana talking about khalidsa oh because it's a great hataras is the greater kristin even because to tell me that she's mother and she's not asian is better so here we have chart number 12. um ellie where's that tea it's gone and drink it fine no no where did you get it from no no i don't want you to miss you sit back come back no it's fine went away then you have a metal shave so here we have right if there's a khalito and then a mimer and again we're very familiar with this case one of them two ibamas and then we have here khalidsameimer one yavama tuivamim two men says so it goes like this if you perform khalito wow that was quick is it hot okay that's good thank you just the pasta salad no you're not gonna cough anymore okay thank you if they perform what's this or to marry your sister-in-law is sir karis now what about the other yavamas he performs let's halita to the five-towner in this case what happens to the burka lady if he didn't do khalitza if let's say reuven had children and he goes out and marries berkeley he's high of cars but because they fell lieberman so the yi bomb you'll not have to be miami there's no aveira at all but he already took care of the e-bomb situation by giving khalida what happens to the burka lady he didn't do anything with the burqa he just did khalita with the five towner does the isir karus remain on the burka lady or it turns into a lav says the gemara that according to her it turns into a love so what what should happen so if you remember we had a homach like us if you have somebody that's us sir on you belov also do you love and you try to marry her children are my room and not mama's area remember that homocolicus according to rubikiva yes according to everybody else no and we pass ken karis it has to be a sicarius fine our mission happens to be going according to ruby akiva rivakiva the one who was 40 years old when he started and 24 000 tell me to win if they're riviki everybody turns all the other vomits the percolate in this case turns into a lav she goes from a car she downgrades to a lav why because she felt tibom and her sister received the khalitza so she's no longer karas it's a minor so there's a very big kid here the ain't you try to perform a mimer on her but you cannot perform in my mariner why because your sister already got to receive the khalita but this mimer is only a love if you try to marry her it's only a love nevertheless we hold like rebecciva that says that if there's a love the children are mum'saim and if the children are around zarim the condition is not typhus it doesn't grab okay so there's a very big criticism i need to tell you this that you should know that mimer step two after a halita on another woman doesn't work hello there shlokishdam are cooley basically where are we holding time-wise we're basically we're like two hours into it wow how many people are here you know we don't count people but at least 200 no wow i like that mr exaggerator i'll tell you this there's 350 seats on this bottom level now on top i don't know what's going on is it 640 total but timeout the four of us are up here you didn't count those there's two guys hiding behind the screen okay it's unbelievable it's my missions very much very emotional i'll take it in it's one of those moments but of course you're sluggish everybody's a chorus you try to marry this burka lady try to give her kiddush in your eye over on chorus it's a clash meeting i need a kid to tell me that it doesn't grab i think i have this yeah no no maybe not that's something else over sluggish that's the next one for the tony here in this case in this case where ruvain performed e-bomb so you did the mitzvah answer sluggish back and basically what we're getting at is that the mishnah has some repetitive things some things that are not tremendous we're just going and we're we're filling up the boxes we're talking about khalid's so some things are going to be there some things are not going to be efficient but we want to be consistent and say all the all the cases possible even though some of them are not tremendously illusion look at this this is a classic case of asia shimon goes ahead and marries five towners so what is she one hundred percent that even says in big letters married she's a nature sish comes the brother levy and and gives her kidneys and gives her a ring she's married so i i need a missionary to tell me that that ring is nothing you can't go over to a woman that's already married and give a ring i don't need a mission for that why is this any different [Music] that does it when there's israel of kidushin doesn't grab so i tell you why one of them how do you release the zika how do you release this bomb and then i go from there and i thought it daphne coming on base sponsored in honor by moishi horn in honor of jolly joe krause and family and anonymously you guys are all laughing that means you never heard the shirt before let's [Music] literally i don't know if this is true or not i thought about this five minutes before i got into a car to get here so it could be completely fuzzy i'll throw out this thought what is yibam yibum is a person who unfortunately missed his opportunity he doesn't have any children terrible thing he left this world without children so what do we do a brother steps in and takes over i mean you think about it he never had a child but somebody else is going to do the job for him it's it's the the evidence says this is the way you do it and it's not the greatest thing in the world but bellez breira does not it doesn't have a child he needs somebody to lock him shameless so just thinking in terms of us sometimes we learn li here we're learning for other people that maybe didn't have the opportunity or need more opportunities but what greater opportunity is there than you yourself having a child you're yourself learning torah so all of you here all those guys that laughed at jolly joe what is it jolly joe krause and are not doing the take this opportunity and start the daf i know it's smacking middle of the sector it's in the middle of your vlogmas who cares you'll make a simashas in seven and a half years when you reach your vomit's daf nun today will be your first daff and go from there take that opportunity don't miss your opportunity don't let somebody do it for you yeah no it's making more sense to me like i didn't do shots but after maeve astrim they'll give out a bunch of mishnais in the the shiva house and other people do much nice for me and most people forget to do it anyway and then my song is up a creek do the mishnahs yourself do the shots yourself awesome okay so he did khalito and then he did mimer we said after khalid says you don't have to do anything if there might be some sort of xavier here that well the guy did khalitza and then he did mimer but maybe he might get confused or somebody else get confused between a mimer first step one and then jalitso i i think that i would make zero a minor that comes after khalid so which is nothing nothing because he already did khalid but you might confuse it with a mimer that happens before khalid and if it happens before khalid so we said the khalis is not good come ash malone it's not a great commercial the legacy you don't do xero once you do khalifa i don't care what happened before i don't care what happens after elohim get lonely but the guy that the khalid gave a get what is the khidash i did khalitza we went to beds and everything was great then the guy goes ahead and gives a get i would have a half minute something happened there so now the more uses the same story that we said before you're right some of the things in the mishnah are there just agavriata it's the flow of the language it fits right in that what am i i'll prove it to you what about you even say foreign perfect she's his wife and then he does mimer [Music] to the other one to the other ibama but he did the eboom and then he gave a gap to the other one okay i would think that she requires a halita for this get because perhaps we might get confused again comes after eboom with a get that comes before you commercial and reno okay merlot if a guy did the bomb and then he did mimer what what what's the zero ella did the ton of khalad zvasamayama so we have to say this is all part of the proven to answer the first question you see here's another thing in the mishnah that wasn't necessary but we threw it in anyway first i said the case of khalid so and then my mer and then i talked about yibom and the mimer by the bottom of this name because i already mentioned yibom and then okay now he said in the mishnah that after ye bomb there's nothing once you do ebon it's all good she's your wife so if you look at this chart real quickly midday raisa there's yeebam hey midday raisa the one in the blue on the other side this is khalid so what happens after you do evil green you could do mimer you could do get you can do whatever you want nothing happens she's your she's your wife and shall make israel says our mission argues with this you said the name if it's the first one like in this chart the first first thing he did was then i don't know if checkmate is the right word i'm looking for good it's the end of the story finished game over thank you who's that uncle phil wow recognize that voice you know you messed me up uncle phil the whole pace of people asking me there's another uncle phil it's like there's only one uncle phil i'm uncle phil my swears brothers also okay fine says like any good mahleikas when you have three so you have mikota alcatra you have one that says all the way to this side and one smack in the middle now what if you have a khalita grua then which is a kalisa that comes after again right so one minor was going to say that doesn't matter khalid's nothing happens after it and the other one is going to say that there is something that happens after it because it was a weaker yi bomb a weaker khalita and then you're gonna have one in the middle that says one and one so tanaka missover biadiculum mixer agus renon so this has really to do a lot with that no no days iron chomp but if a person was miable after a divorce so there's nothing afterwards but people might think that you're allowed to be miyabem after khalito or lamar's going to explain in a second people might think that you could be miami fd and if you me after mimer people will think they could be miyabim another ivama okay so there's some sort of zero uh but you don't have any of these uh xavier's bachalita river kamisavar b or nami like le mixer there's nothing no no zero why all the karma's liquor bill get the fact that you said that we should be geyser when he does ibum after a get mushroom because you might come to the eboom after khalidzo and that's a big no-no once you do khalid so you can't do anything keep the release of the right so no wait there's nothing to be guys are here everybody knows khalis is midday raisa and they know what happened they know they went to peasants the whole thing no nobody's going to make a mistake and if you're worried that it might come to be miyam the second year obama keeping the bill everybody knows [Music] he says like we're born in the gaza movie yeah we do have to be concerned about evil and therefore he takes it to another level because the khalid first it's like zero elixir kind of thing first we make xavier on ebon once we make the xero e bomb we make xero san jaliza hey we're not finished yet all right moving right along we're just going to do a little bit of we'll do the mission we'll do a couple lines here now i noticed something very very interesting about this mission in the parrak if you look on the side over here it just keeps on saying keep on turning the pages you'll see all the tsukumo on the side are from our pirate show this week next week's power show ahrimus emmer very great you test it keeps on going throughout this peric pretty much just thought it was interesting so says the mishnah very easy stuff sponsored by the md white hill group where we down for a fusion many many many of you guys are here because of him because of his marketing genius and and everything that he puts into the deaf yossi klein is in the house somewhere all the way in the back of course [Applause] sponsored thousands and thousands of gamoras i didn't want to say this but i'll say it yossi klein is looking for a major sponsor for xubus he's thinking about service hundred thousand dollars at least ellie hundred thousand dollars okay so rosenberg's in the house where is he how you doing i thought he's going to be here first he doesn't come to the scene when he's strolled and then come to the thing here okay great if a person didn't have intent when did ye bomb whether he thought it was his wife and he happened to be with his ibama whether he had intent bamboo in us think about is going to talk about it he was forced how he was forced baby ratzing of course willingly affilo now very i feel like the gamer's going to talk about this lotion what does that feel mean we just said but amazing even in a case where he's the shy gig even if she has intent and he doesn't have intent it also works of course it works why not we just said he doesn't have to have intent who makes it vicigus now i just saw a beautiful turry evan that says something fascinating he says you know when you have to have intent by a mitzvah when you're holding an object in your hand like a lulav and this lulav could be a piece of wood or it could be a mitzvah so you have to turn it into a mist we have to say okay this is going to be my mitzvah you have all the scheifer in your hand but when it comes to iovama there's no option here there's no other woman here in the world she is the widow she's the only one in the world that you could have the midsole width and you'll be behind the mitzvah similarly if you're eating a piece of meat that happens to be a carbon pesach you don't have to have intent because this is the only piece of meat that's a carbon pesos for you and you're eating it if you're eating matzo let's say i guess you have to have intent for the matzo it could be this could be a piece of bread it could be a matzah you have to have intent but certain things you don't have to have intensity says one of them is ayathama okay juanos he was forced there's a story i like to say a lot of stories but evans is a little hard to come by stories but this one i said a while ago but it's a very very powerful story but the kozaks was a one of the kozaks took absula he took a woman a jewish girl and she knew what was going on and she told him she says look i'm jewish and i have a tradition that i could say a few words and i'm going to teach you these words say after me if you say these words you cannot kill me i become bulletproof swordproof immortal ponovich english swordproof so he says i don't believe it she says look i'll show you she said take a sword i'm going to say these words and stab me you see it won't go in and she said he took the sword and killed her that's hoiness she didn't want to have this inus who knows vilayanusa it's true story whether it was the beginning of the act or is the end of the act kana doesn't have to be a complete it could be partially there's no difference whether it's a natural beer unnatural it's all kind of says and the same thing applies if let's say somebody shall has a relation let's say with his own sister just sabotage it doesn't matter if it was beside who is bemesed doesn't matter it's the beginning of the act the end of the act it's all the same aloha going on [Music] let's say okay god had a relationship with absula he didn't realize he thought it's his wife whatever it was the same the same allah applies or a regular coin marries a divorcee so now they can eat truma manzares also another possible person and momseris now if you remember this is from a few deaf ago we had the major macroigs just to review i'm not going to go through all of them but what creates a manzares we mentioned it today according to makiva he has all the three shitas that all greens are in rebeqib what did he say is it only a lav or also an assay or maybe just this very specific love of family kurvo that's rebecca we said our mission goes according to rekiva that if you marry a woman that's just a little laugh just a little let's say somebody divorces his wife there's a missile to remarry her but he doesn't remarry her somebody else marries her and then that guy divorces her and he takes back his original wife it's us you know take her back and he did so the kid is a monster unbelievable this we are used to aisha's sis remember it says that's a mom's but we passed in even ahead of course okay so if you have a mom zeros in the sinali israel or the sinnohs from the devoidem they fooled yeshua they became gary but they weren't supposed to be gary so they're possible we said they can't marry into the into into into our nation basis again so they they explain i'm serious what's the point there she's already puzzled she's already memsers yeah but you get malcus or not and there's no difference what kind of act it was it was natural unnatural and now let's just do a few lines here in the gemara maya filo what is it even if she has kavanaugh a mitzvah hakeem shane it's a big mistake in the tiger and he doesn't have any intent it's still a good evo mitzvah or he has intent and she's muhammad shall give him listen to this even if both of them don't have intent have a wonderful day oh you know what we never done this before but we should do it again i see the island likes it raboisei have a wonderful day shkoya thank you for coming you