Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 47 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning it's actually i think what's in shabbos for now what's yantef but we are live in mandala in illinois some people ask me what what's this mandala in illinois so my shirt has a hotel in mandalay in illinois this is a hotel and we've been doing this family program for 26 years anybody that's related to my father-in-law and his two brothers the freeman brothers so we have extended cousins and cousin-in-laws and now it's the next generation ready and now there's great grandchildren just mishpache and with us here today rabbi here come coming get over here we got rip shoulder and all the way from new york who's visiting chicago but came in 40 minutes i don't know we'll move over for you say hello to the oil right over there what's going on with the favorites from masala i started giving you shout outs i i thought they're done with the involvements there's still a lot really yeah even silkwoods yeah i know i know i know all right let's let's keep on going real quick this is from nailed it home improvements llc from he says my brother-in-law the bulls game yesterday learning because learning the daf because the show must go on here yeah not not a post picture at all learning the daft during the game here we have yossi klein and you'll see the hire from manchester they know each other just through the daf de valdegan pesach simon's third good morning rebellion hope you're well thanks again for all you do it's the first time in your life where i experience a learning young tiff and especially on halloween see that's a lot of people because of the daft the learning during halloween during young time it's unbelievable what's that i must say enjoy what's on zoom what do you say about zoom what do you say mark are they on zoom we're frozen on zoom [Music] but we're recording live i must say i enjoy every second of this yeah no doubt it's the toyota that lets me enjoy this so much so thank you for giving me new life as behind i'm on for my third dive today with the help of using split screen on my phone and earpods i can learn while waiting around for the family to get it ready to go to and from the park see picture how we use it here he is learning the daf and learning with the actual daf on the same screen i have the pdf a bunch of people were asking how come we don't have the daf we got to get the actual death again we used to have it may hashem give you and me and everyone could have to be able to continue with good health and wealth and all the rest god bless lehime simon this is the newest edition to the mdy mishpacha this is the song against his son mayor kovacs sean morelli it was an absolute pleasure meeting you last month mdy with the friend shamshi schlofrock could you could you pronounce that s-d-l-a-f schlofrock it appears like you skipped the line from dav 43a at around 2620 mart you read the rubble the guy who made a sudah on the 90th day but then jumped to the hill and appeared to skip over the words it doesn't sound familiar actually i probably did skip it he's right so we're going to do it right now rava what are we going to do about it there's only 46 people watching that so no no watch it afterwards i don't know what to do thank you and mayor kovacs of baltimore there's a difference between a sudas ayrson and sudan soon whether or not susan and soon you have to be massive iris and not okay next here we go so what should we do about zoom should we try it again one more time we could pause here for a second a few minutes later all right back to action first of all we want to say a mazel tov schwartz one of the characters in your vomits uh he's in our troll now sanjitsu had a bar mitzvah and finally we have schlemmy climb from uh what is it called over there crown heights thank you my nephew levy shapiro 12 years old going strong it's baba kama that's in addition to the daily doubt that he does with mdy schmuck and the parents of haiti hillo is anonymous for hilben sardino rivka basfiga that should have zero yamaha by the lack of families like jerusalem because there is the best gula questions in sponsored by video editor that's talking continuation not missing before music should have an aliyah and by aron meislich nishmas our dear beloved and inspiring friend to be gottman he passed away before he got married not leaving any family of his own behind may all tyler learned honors memory forever very very sad i don't know what the story is but it's sad okay rabbi here we are i apologize for all the tech this is the first time that we had a 40 minute delay because of technical issues this is with buying a new computer with having a professional on site that's what happens okay everyone here we are people of mavish moist and efficient to be on zoom 40 minutes wasted to hear a little bit torah so we are two lines from the bottom of that almond base very very smack it easy person shows up and says amagair now we have to understand that we know that he is not jewish if he lived in the community like that in pastor and energy israel and everybody thought he was jewish and chamomile so we have to believe him why as amigo he could have been quiet we would have believed him anyway but we know that he just showed up he came from holland he looks like a guy he acts like a guy oh i'm a guerrilla guerrezo sorry misha baba miguel jojo maybe he should accept him as his tamale i'm just repeating tyson's tamale so take a look here for a second at these charts so the first one we're going to show this pause a number of times i just want to show you it says in the puzzle if you have a converted gear that's living in your land don't torture him don't bother him so the murder tells us from the word in red that's when you know he's part of you he already has now what about bob the eid of imam he comes with adam minay and how do you know that we should trust him tamaloyimar now the obviously is going to ask adam are believed i hear myself from something adam are believed that this is a disaster there's no way to make it lower [Music] oh yeah but adam are believed even to kill somebody so certainly they believed that he's aguero so melo what's the hidden is going to discuss how do you know that we trust that and the more is going to say they not really ate them they just heard rumors they said they heard that he's agair so how do you know that's okay too check this out it's not the word malcolm any any type of whatever it is even these kind of adam we're going to believe them what do i do with the word which is in your land in the alabama means inertia's role and by the way wellington says in a second baarette [Music] now the problem is we just used it over here but we're learning another another russia itch in green that what even in ghostlars we accept him so if you accept him as a gay all over the world then what do we learn from the word tsukem says i'll tell you the difference in art israel you must prove that you're a gayer and the reason is because israel is different than christ why because everybody wants to be part of verizon's role even till this very day you have all these different people coming from different countries they're not even jewish they want to benefit from marriage israel just like people today want to come to america it's ariz zavas khalvadvage there's so many benefits lucky chicopeo great stuff so we have to be suspicious that this guy is not for real of iraq however in the qur's largest guy says he must be saying the truth what benefit does he have to say that he is being he comes together with adam ali adam yakum davor the torah tells us that no matter what to adam could do anything kill somebody so of course if two people testify that he said gary zager says the gemara omar we heard a rumor we didn't see that he's a girl we just heard that he's a girl you know i would think that's not enough to believe commercial that's enough now we said we're going back to what we said a second ago and the word comes to say that inertia's stroll you could accept and what's that is how do you know you could accept it you see this green that's what we learned from green we learned that you could accept the gear everywhere i picked the first first russia that we said today that if a guy comes to you and he says i'm a ger but we know that he's a guy that we don't believe him how do you know you don't believe him it has to be somebody that has a kazakh so i already learned from it and read how can i do it on green how can i learn tulimudhim from the same word says the gemara you're right i'm not learning from the same word there's two different sugar one is in passion and that's the pasta that we just said you're right the red raja that wa that if a guy comes in and says i'm a gary you don't believe him and then we have another pasuk completely in a different period para cafe not in paraguay rashid brings this positive only going he's with you teaches you also you could you you anywhere he lives even not true he has to bring araya that he's aguero vala velah other sivarats what does hammer do with the word boris bart seems like an artist israel afghanistan there's a lot of advantages of becoming a girl like we had the given and all these other the kusim whatever reason people want to pretend that they're eating even now talking about you'd see some australian pesach how many of them wanted to become gay rim how many of the myths are one thing they have ulterior motives maybe now i would think that energy stroll i shouldn't accept the gear at all the hashtag nami and even today in our days the legacy wusso we don't have eretz zavas khalid unfortunately so still like a chico people my surroundings so just uh why not the boy said here's my celeroni because we didn't mention it the other day so i'll mention it again if a person has produce so two percent goes to the queen ten percent goes to the lady and then you jump to the green ten percent goes either to yourself in years one two four five or ten percent goes to the oni in years three and six of the shmitah right ten percent goes to you as meister cheney and years three and six you have something called mycerrani you have ten percent of your produce though to the poor this guy this guy he's living never think about it i'll tell you i just thought about it now we have a cleaning lady in there just roll she's from the philippines she hasn't seen her own children for 14 years she can go back she can get a ticket for 300 and go back to the philippines no she's going to stay energy stroll and earn money because in the philippines there's you don't earn the money that she earns she hasn't seen her kids in 14 years her kids are in college she left them when they were little kids 14 years it's not fathomable to make to make a buck so they come there to stroll to make a buck he's going to commentary this role two years out of every six years we said also that in shemitah as well we have it three years out of seven maisoni i get free ten percent from everybody's field let's call it two years because whatever schmidt you can't really plan oh yeah thank you mark but two years and there's like it here this i found this guy today i'm going to go check him out because there are so many styles called he allows you to do the mitzvah of like a chicopea let's see oh you could just randomly take a sickle and go to this place i'm not saying that this was in his place there's another picture but you take the signal and you chop the wheat and some of it remains on the ground and that's like it the little pieces that remain on the ground are there for the anem paya is a corner like right over here he puts a sign up paya can't even touch it you can't use your signal there that goes and check out what you forget on the field but anyways these are madness anim there's many benefits of being a poor person so he comes into third israel i'm i'm russian i'm a jewish i want to become a jew i became again so even in our days we they have benefits commercial on that you could accept him [Music] there's a different reason inaudible it should be more applicable territory stroll not the hoods large but in both in america a guy comes and says i'm a gear prove it you know it's real especially you know today with everything that's going on and this kind of gave us this kind of gears just today my cousin sent me an email and basically i know it's a message it happened to my friend here in chicago when he sent me another message that a guy became a gear energy stroll and he wasn't sure he later on became more more he sent his kids to yeshiva and then his son made him more from then he realized that his garris wasn't a real gayers his reform whatever so then he went back and he asked he sent the shiloh through klamkanibski but before he asked the shout out to him becoming as a shout out to this rabbi that i received the email from like the the copy of the email and the ref said you don't have to wait three months he had some sort of kula and but then remember khan kaninsky said back that he has they have to separate for three months and the rev writes that it was a shame that they got upset because lama said they didn't separate for three months they were over or whatever but imagine that you want to become stark and you have to go through the process of guerrillas again you have to do the separation as we discussed beans separate from your from your wife three months goodbye move into a different house i'll go bottom fine [Music] coming to bim khadesh we said that's the sheet of him that say there's no difference between of course they're going to beat rabbi who's the individual about the same time they come across the word we learn then we review the learners from the word that we accept gerim uh everywhere so what do you do so the way they learn bharatskha is not the best so i think that yehuda is right in this case he fits better into the apostle come ash melano you go with the rabbit it says the word ushfatitem which is a lesson of a besden and it says the word gay right mechanometer gershwin is again if you become aguer in besdon that is the only way to become a guerrilla benelux if he did the whole process he jumped into the mikktor gave himself a bris milo or whatever it is he went to private mile and then he jumps into the makeup and he says i'm a guarantor myself all the mitzvos says story time shabbat finally reviewed my rebbe i want to tell you what happened you think i'm a real guerr i performed the gyros between myself could you prove that that's what happened do you have sons yes i have sons of you have nimanus on yourself what kind of mnemonics do you have you don't you're not believed to ruin it for your children you want to ruin it for yourself you can ruin for yourself so let's see twice this for a second says isis and this is very important for the shadow and the suggest i could say to myself that this piece of meat is strafe that's for me but i can't say that this piece of meat is straight for somebody else so therefore avalon blah blah blah i cannot hassle another person by testifying about myself that i'm not a true guerr i could make it awesome for me to marry ambassador maybe so i just want to point out the beautiful cashier enticements if his wife is a guy it all goes by this by the woman what exactly is he to engulf what is he what is he accomplishing by saying that he's a guy how is he destroying his kids he's not passing his kids if his wife is jewish the kids are jewish if his wife isn't gaya the kids are gay he does he's not milo murdered anything so he goes on to say that goes revealed is the that a jew that has relations with the guy the vlad is ah that's what i'm going to say and mela to avoid that but we don't pass it like that or review this okay what uh who no i need you according to that cheetah we don't pass it like that that cheetah like rebuked a bunch of different uh they hold that a relationship between a jew and a non-jew produces a monster we don't hold like that we hold that the vlad is kosher how kosher that was a different child and we're showing them but very kosher says a person is not believed to say that his sons are apostle listen to this here's the here's the possum right isn't the famous parachute if a person has two wives okay so what's this yaaker if he has a car he should give the bahar two portions what does it mean he recognizes his son he reckon what does it mean to recognize says he he's going to introduce his son to others meaning what is he introducing me kind of review the name another is now there's a big jump here a huge jump review that says okay the target tells you that you have the right to decide that this is you your son the bahar the the this little this guy that looks older he's not your heart it's the the younger okay fine you have no manas on that and the jump is and if i'm believed to say that um that he's a kosher heart it's a little bit of a job so they're trying to discuss it they have different ways to explain it very cool things some say that he he's actually saying that his first son that we know as a son is a memser because he's saying look everybody knows that my little reuven was born in in 2020 and everybody knows that the second son shimon was born in 2022 but i'm telling you that 2022 is the heart whoa so what what's 20 20 20 20 is a monster oh so you believe that he's a man okay that's a fine the bottom line is review the holes that you have namanas to say that your son is abhar and you have no money to say he's apostle he cannot marry akanes it's possible so so you see a person is believed on his own son nur rabbi said what's a good turret to that kasha says gemara a beautiful turret oh let's not forget he's not believed what are you testifying you're testifying you're a guy okay vayne this life you can come i'll believe you that you're good and if you're a god i cannot believe you that your son is possible so maybe his son is not it's not possible he's not remains cautious but over here it's the jew testifying over here jews testifying his son is a halal so we do believe him if a guy is testifying that he's a guy he says inviting him about himself i am a guy and therefore my son is a guy well wait a minute if you're a guy then you're apostle eidos and if you're apostle ladies your son is not a god your son remains a jew so just reminded me of a cool story that i heard once i wanted to verify it with a columnar hassan good friend of mine but it was already yanked by him but i remember hearing that the carolina rabbit we know he became red when he's very very young maybe nine years old or something the the the current carolina carlin stalin and i don't remember exactly when it was it was like the first time maybe because i think he became the actual rebel when he became when he got married the night of his hasanah whatever so he what yeah right but he actually took control and he said things you know i don't remember at what point but the mice is cool whether it's true or not basically he is a very like he's a very uneven looking person he didn't want to be rebel so he tells his guy by i want you to make an announcement i'm not there ever says gabby told him well if you're the rebel so i can't get up there and say you're not the rebel because that's khutzba and if you're not the rebel i don't have to listen to you so so that's basically they remind me if you're a guy then shalma israel i'm not going to believe you and if you're not a guy then okay then your son is kosher yeah but you know the worm what happened was always didn't ask him do you have children he asked him do you have grandchildren so mayla and he said yes i have grandchildren that we saw that a person's believed in his own children you asked me a question a person has believed on his own children you're right he's believed in his own children meaning i could say my son is a bihar and i can say my son is a apostle but i cannot say the same thing for my grandson who am i to say something on my grandson but listen to this vart if you just read the gemara you you'd stop right over there you'd think okay then you are saying i'm believed to my son but not believe to my grandson but ignore saying gevalde but since you not believe to your grandson that you not even believe to your son if you have a grandson since you not believed on your grandson you not believed on your son if you only have a son then you're believed on your son you're here you have to fear ice you can't just stop at that point oh you're not believed to be grandson but you are believed to be a son if you're not believed to your grandson you have a grandson that you're not even believed for anything not even for your own son that's tysos says we learned this don't read it simply barabba like cotton cotton mama's really got to go to mamash it doesn't mean literally a miner ella cotton bottom it means that if he has children he is considered so if your son has another son in other words you have grandchildren then you're then the kid is a goddamn that's what it means so if he has grandchildren then he's not believed and if he doesn't have grandchildren he is believed [Music] we like that there is if he's a guy then he can't testify against his child a guy does not doesn't have vados so therefore he's not believed on his child but ravin is the one that says that a person is believed to pass all his sons so you're jumping into he's saying that allah is like where the god he's not believed on his sons and then ravenna is that he is believed on the son says this time we said the ravino says he's believed in the sons [Music] that's when a jew testifies about his own son that says hey my son is a hollow my son is a bukhar that he's believed like ravina said but when a guy testifies then we have swara that he's a guy and he can't testify oh a little bit of agatha kind of shabbat is somebody comes to become a girl we know this gemara it's from here yvonne stevens we tried to discourage him marie as going to explain later gary were not good for chloe's fault they caused us problems so we try to discourage them why do you become a girl why do you want to be coming here this is from the article they're afflicted the oppressed suffering the don downtrodden um i can't read my own thing all right the rest be sure and boy malaya they have hardships i would say usual means you know no hardships fine the kids are claustral is full of these things oppressed afflicted unfortunately why do you want to become youth i'm very familiar with with all the anti-semitism in the world and everything that's going on in the world veni kidai i wish i could be part of them i wish i could be i'm wrong to be sober this metabolism we could go we could start the procedure of accepting him as a guerrilla um very interesting we tell this guy you hear about his side we tell this guy why do you want to be jew you know about chavez you know how hard it is to keep shabbos can't drive you can't turn on lights those i know people became balichuva and uh okay they knew they can't drive a car but they didn't know you can't turn on the lights the lights they didn't know this they were they were lighting candles like three hours after ski they thought that was the mitzvah like you know how hard it is to be in great and then they tell them by the way you have to put your right shoe on before the left and then you tie the knot to the left before the right mrs kalos the simplest of the simple why okay i want to talk him out of becoming scare him i say kenny khazer you can't do this you can't do this and all hundreds of but why tell him the simplest of the simple explains to me that goof is going to scare him away he's used to having five major sins and this and that and now you're making sugar with every little thing you can't even tie you put your right sleeve in first you should not put on two clothings at the same time and when you take it off don't take it off this way and take it off that way sneakers get dressed under your cover but okay that much i didn't i didn't know what this guy's all about i'm out of here so that's why we tell mrs collins [Music] going to explain why we tell them look be careful when you you're a farmer you must leave a little bit for the poor it's called lekket shikho payup a miser on it um and we tell them look if you are over in this actually the zoo until you didn't come into this v8 the fats that are also at the honors careers you don't get anything to eat mcdonald's no problem there's a a couple i heard of in eric stroll they were in the prize of becoming about the chuva and they wanted to keep shops but then they realized wait a minute if we keep shabbos we can't get to the beach we got to go to the beach it's summertime so they said i'm not joking they said valtrueva after the summer's over until then we're going to we're driving to the beach schilo it's not it's not a joke we don't want to turn them off completely we got to scare them up uh yeah there's a lot of stuff yeah that's if you came everything everything everything no makeup at the casa correct it's called ganeden and this is unbelievable things and by the way even living like a frumiya you look like a man she lives [Music] you know so rashi says you should even see rashi inside rashid says leficia zahara the did you know this that sahara has a special love for yiddin he goes after yiddin a lot more than he goes after the non-hidden you know this you think it's equal we all have the same answer no his job is to trip us up he he loves us he does a bigger and better job with us piranhas we don't have that much good we don't have that much piranhas by the way we we turned to that from zano's base passenger horn in honor of joe crouse and family honestly in both the but we don't overdo it we don't threaten him that much they doctored him a love and we're now very strict with him we're not very strict with him he bill and if he accepts everything mullen oysters gonna say once you do it do it right away you don't you don't uh you have a mitzvah do it right away don't procrastinate so i once did a demonstration i was very serious without leaksadas because this is not something you joke about but i had a hard time uh understanding it so i might do a very short demonstration in a second so this is amira so we're going to discuss it soon i'll go back into it these pieces of skin that remain from the mila that were supposed to be removed and remained on the mila it's not a good brush meal you have to do it again so they discuss why is this okay this rape once he's healed madina you don't want to put him into the mikvah when he has a wound like a bris miller see wait a minute [Music] so that we already said you again once he's going into the mikvah and this becomes his kabbal's old macho miami becomes the yid so during that time you have to remind him again by the way skila for shabbos don't forget don't forget this and also a couple of the easier ones second time so this is the second time that they teach him the mitsubishi allah once he comes out of the mikvah harayuki israel called the varuv and gemara is going to say what it means it means that once he becomes the israeli he can't take it back he can't retract and say oh i don't feel like being jewish anymore you know let me go back which we had in our neighborhood a woman married a aguero and then decided uh i don't want to be jewish anymore so he went back in chicago you can't do that there's no going back what about a woman isha no someone shiva's is so the women put her in the water atsavaro now this applies to gare like we're discussing and also when you want to release an evident well welcome to s just like any other needs for the saw make when you need a kosher mikvah the evan [Music] now forty saw we know we're familiar forty saw fatoma nida kerry toma of uh sharit but uh a guerre is not going in for tomah aguero is going in for becoming jewish nevertheless this is how rashi explains it you need the 40 song just like you can have something that separates your skin from the water the water has to be touching your skin in all places okay so ruins the tree love by aguero evan and anita oh my man now we're just going to go through what we just learned gary schabala's guy here oh my gosh this guy here we try to talk him out of it why do you want to become a guy we teach him a little bit of the easy ones a little bit of the harder ones mai taima why do we do this the parish nifra if he's scared of it let him go now there's no loss for us at all why why do we want them to go why do we want to discourage them is like a taras why is a girl like a tzaras suraj says to shot them either because they come with really bad habits these gay rim and they might teach us really bad stuff teach our children teach us or this is geval dick the guy comes like our friend over here big long beard he looks like a talmud and and and he starts passing stuff you let it go and shabbos for 2000 or whatever it is and people are going to listen to them they don't realize this beard just because a person has a beard doesn't mean anything right what do you mean that is like a saparkas why it's it's it's he he understands it he knows exactly where he's coming from so the society that he comes from forget the gerr how do you explain in their cistrol that my neighbors won't let my kids play with them because we're american we're we have different ashkaf for them we understand they're they're prusan they call themselves prusian and they have their own backs in a society and they're not from they never looked at a computer they never saw a video in their life a movie a song of this that my children are much more exposed i understand that i get it i'm not insulted they they want to protect their families and that's what they are they're very very innocent they don't know anything of anything of anything you're not going to bring a telephone that's not kosher into the basement i told him what about uh having um barry lan no no computer now i have a computer don't get up i said it's tired we don't want to hear about it get at it yeah you're russia you know they don't say that but they think in their head you guys are they live in on our block they have a show right next to mdy that's how it is am i insulted no i get i i understand them they live in a different world and they want to keep that and their kids are mamatar in college they don't know anything anything anything zero most of them yeah we have a mitzvah to be muhammad again and everything else but aguero doesn't understand where he comes from he was in a whole different society he saw and did and he did every other in the world and then he's coming here and he doesn't know 100 percent the whole ling going to this and he'll he'll say certain words he'll say certain things he'll do certain things he'll think that it ruins our society yeah he has to understand that it's possible he doesn't understand then something's wrong with him it's not it's not insulting forget it one day he'll be had to be just like everybody else and it's not but la maisa at the end of the day we try to discourage him because it's hard for klaus um what's we teach him this one thing lekkeh chica the aveira of lucky chick what do you mean this is a very difficult gemara without rashi it just doesn't have any shot because if he steals less than a pruta if he steals less than a proton no that's fine steals less than a pruto he's he gets the death penalty less than a brutal so so that's why you're teaching what's the connection so rashi says very interesting chat number one which he doesn't like that much but i thought it's give other girl shot is in his mind this is you steal from me i kill you that's the that's that's my job i take out my shotgun like in the farm you come into my property boom boom boom that's what they do you're not going to steal some of my wheat you steal my weed i kill you so all of a sudden it becomes jewish and all of a sudden that neems start coming into the field and they start taking look at they start taking chicha he's going to pull out his shackle and start shooting people so we got to teach him right away don't kill anybody that's not something you kill about but actually he doesn't like that shot so much and he says like this because a guy why is it going to show up because he's not michael he's not without her a yid if you steal from him impossible though he's michael right away it's less than a proof of fight but not and therefore if he comes with this attitude of being selfish and stingy he might not want to give away from his micer the mysore honey the luck of shikhan i'm saying giden we have we're in a society that we're givers i believe we're probably the biggest givers in the world in terms of the there are other societies that they give ten percent they're supposed to give ten percent but bottom line is philanthropy is that a saint philanthropist but i'm saying the muslim philanthropy no philanthropist philanthropy 101 here happening okay whatever it's daca why do i have to try to be fancy live we are the biggest ballets daca i know a number of people first of all a lot of people give twenty percent of their income a lot of people the mesh and i know people that give 40 and 50 and even more than that of of their of of their earnings were very very giving nation and and to tell somebody coming from the outside might not be comfortable with it rip abrev the said once he said there was a woman a gazillionaire and people try to explain to her look if you give charity it's not going to cost you a dime because you have all the what is it called no not yeah you have tax breaks tax breaks and that kind of stuff different write-offs there you go write-offs it's not going to cost you a cent you anyways are paying taxes and then it has so you just give whatever percent you can give for free is that going to go she said no i only give when they take from me i don't give that's that's the lush there's people like that so you have to explain to this guy that by the way that's the second channel rashi we're giving people and there's something called lekker there's something called gold we have all matano's ten percent of this 10 percent that it's never ending all the mice is telling about all the knocks on the door that you get all the guys that come in the chakras in the morning you got to understand this that's what we're telling you you want to accept that great not not they might be loving why are we not tough with him oh so i got to tell you the story real quickly about russ coming up counting down to schwarz so real quickly so we have a hazard on the story there was famine in there's israel and there's a very wealthy person called ali malach was a very stingy you didn't want to give money to the poor talking about stingy people here they're saying that you didn't are so giving there are some that are not very giving i know a billionaire that no one has ever seen him give a dime to zdaka not a dime i know him personally i know very well maybe gives batsina i have no idea but he's never given to our soul one dime never given anything anything any anything anything fight so eliminate takes his wife nami runs away to maiev maya of our enemy with machila and killian his two sons they end up marrying two goyas sisters rus and ami rusen arpa now naomi the the mother-in-law she loses her husband elimelech and machine killing they die they're penniless they came with all this money they died with nothing eventually nami decides to go back to all she hears the famine is over and she convinces her daughter she's trying to give us her daughter-in-laws not to come with her the guy him the guys so aryappa says okay she gives her a kiss goodbye stays there but rose comes back and everybody knows the story she was but in that story it says in the past the elder one nami sees that rose the younger one can it's hard for her to go but illa she stopped talking to her armor law so the the mario says takes this passage over here paragal of pasuk design and you design here the two took them together i put here you see here there is one two three four five six differently move them from deposit not they move them but there's a conversation a back and forth here so first it says omerlo osterlund jon chavez why do you want to become a glorious rose stay over there you should know we can't walk more than 2000 ammo as you see in this picture right over here if you have a house you can only go 2 000 ammo but if you put a sudo there then you could go another 2000 ammo so she tells her about shabbos so she says i'm gonna walk however far you walk great so at home is really the rabbana according to rebecca it's the right so it's a shiloh exactly what you meant here tell him now she said to be in the same room as the asia fish is not at the rice is the rabona but with the asia do i rise bachelini all in the way you're gonna sleep i'm gonna sleep with we have america your nation is my nation i want to become jewish we can't worship idols your hashem is going to be mine arabic misses names to the best there's four different deaths if you do different things they're going to kill you capital punishment pastor thomas almost that's what she means in the light blue snake virus like we learned the other day those who committed crimes the the harsh ones kilau and srifa they be they're buried in one place saif or herreg and hennek in another place but kids are we have different be careful they won't even bury with everybody else the sham ed cover i don't mind that's the last lemon in the possum i want to be with you then she tried so you see this idea also from ross and omi she try to discourage the guy once you try it and you see that they're stubborn about it accept them but terry came in and she detected the dabber she stopped trying to convince her ki bell if he accepts it then you pull out the knife chap chap milo maitaima mitzvah if there's a mitzvah do it right away the storyboard so real quickly so you understand if this is the bris the atara is the widest part of the bris the part that sticks out rashi says so going this way and going this way there's one part that everybody recognizes that's that tara so now sits in a mac film is let's say there's skin so don't think that the skin is all the way around like this or rive what it is it's just even going upwards in one spot like this that's that's the whole thing here so if you have one little tiny piece of skin that's touching that taro that said you have to redo the bris milo venus and you don't eat truma if you don't have that bris mila the proper one and you're kind you can't eat shrimp and that's what i just explained gova means that it's not going around but it's just one part going upwards miss rapid madrid and this wrap it if it seems like you wait until he heals from his meal then you put him in the midfield my taimou very simple mushum the maya marzu marco the water irritates the wound so you just want to wait just for his benefit now for no other good reason if he wants to jump in the mikvah right away with the wound okay why does gemara say two thumbnails you need three homies you're right it is actually three we have to amend it it's not two it's three top of all of ariel hold varro if he was toevault and he came out of the mikvah then he's a regular israel the mighty also what does it mean he's a regular club israel the other baby stroll if he takes it back he retracts and he wants to be mikados even though he went off to derek he's still jewish so the condition is good he just happens to be off the dara so you can never retract once a jew always a jew and even if he became a jew through gerus you're always a jew echoed we thought that it means that aguer uh avid you put him in the mikvah in order to receive to accept upon himself the mitsubishi vermino where when you have to accept upon yourself mitzvahs when you're title when you're title when do you have to accept define yourself from it says when you are a convert ager or encircle but as you're releasing the slave he already has mitzvahs how many misses does he have just like a woman so there's no need for him to be macabre mitzvahs again all right and this is going into [Music] so just for a moment you fast you see from the torah a very interesting thing the torah understood the psychology of man and when soldiers go to war and they happen upon they have to capture the enemy and there's going to be women there that they're going to want and the tire understood that people are going to be over that vehicle so the torah went out of its way and said okay i'll let you have that taiva provided that you take certain steps those steps are to discourage the person from the taiva but allow them to have the time at the same time can't have the type of right away you have to wait 30 days you have to shave her hair let her nails grow it's everyone see the sugar tomorrow like this that but the point is to make her stickle mias and if after all that you want her okay so that you could have that type of behavior i think it's amazing no think about it what yeah well yeah we'll see in a second here but i it's just a hell of a thing target said no no control your titus you're in there it's control no so you see it's going on like in russia and in iraq all these things the the the our cousins when they come into the country they go meshuggah and this i don't know if it has to do with war or whatever it is typhus are strong so be misguided no the third understood people are not going to be misguided not every they're going to be a few people that won't be able to miss garber but melee i'm going to do it in a way that nobody's ever if you talk i have that taivo there's a way to achieve that taiva but it has to be in a certain way and hopefully after you take these steps you won't have that type of i think that what am i actually had i'm not mistaken okay yeah sure you had children for me so she's going to cry and she's going to she has to be in mourning that's one of the things she has to be in mourning for 30 days we met when i'm wearing she like killed all that if she didn't accept upon herself the mitzvos by twila the thing but if she accepted upon her mitzvahs so over here it says you don't have to go through the whole process if she became a yid so she's in look look you could go if somebody has a taiwan and he's able to convince her to become a yid she gave me it for that you don't need a parachute you fast taya shimon lazoo listen to this even if she didn't accept upon herself any kind of mitzvahs kaifa forces her or matabila and he's madbull you have to go through that tv she has a trick first you take her and you make her a shift she's captured she's mine i'll make her a shift but she has to go to the mitchell the heiser then he takes her and he's typically again with the intent to redeem to release her the only issue i have if somebody has i couldn't find it i looked it up i couldn't find the gup shot isn't that once you release her then she's a full-fledged then she'll run away then she doesn't need you come here come in uncle phil we're we're done your mom is done so we have to look into that maybe it actually means that she could maybe she wants to marry that not that he could still force her sort of but why if she's a full-fledged then she says adios so he's totally she made it he made her yid on condition she doesn't run away there's such a thing i don't know i couldn't figure it out so well andrew boise have a wonderful day a good yantov everybody you