Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 41 by R’ Eli Stefansky

just a few hours before they say there seder for all the support last year i was giving this year in the hotel by myself and i think that's why it was a lot more difficult so ish makes a big difference uh this year again this is the mem alef today 40 days into the obamas and it's really we're doing this year so that we could be ahead for the clever narrative's role shalom come here come here shalom cleveland he's here just for a few days his grandfather's mushy cat says for being here last night for i saw a he's till 12 30 it was last night what time he went to sleep probably 132. she's going for being such a big part of it so what do you do you learn incredible know how many guys you got doing it just you uh but now i have at least one ten people in cleveland doing it ten people that i got to join this and they're all doing with us mdy [Music] [Applause] thanks for coming by oh i just want to read a couple of things quickly here from fisher plumber from borough park um i've never in my life dreamed that i would learn so many messages but your vomit is for sure not wow wow can't believe i'm learning every day since i think it's supposed to say since rosh hashuna thank you reb ellie next let's see if we can get there oh so one of the sponsors today is ezreal abraham's rep ezra abram it's still abraham's brother and he's from australia melbourne australia so i'm going to read what he says here because he's saying i want to tell you now the only person started after me middle after his father's nifty in the second day pesach eight years ago he traveled back to australia he was because himself to learn daf yoymi he joined beta daf lamid so his personal shots was a month a few months ago all disclosed to my father one of the favorite verses my father is saying in the name of the village on dna which is mentioned as say from mali satora which was written by his brother abraham the verb goes on islam the torah is compared to and just like you can grow a whole tree from any little part of the tree as each and every part of the tree contains all the trees properties so too each word of torah contains the entire tire and that's the famous going that from the word boracious you see all of target so his dna is actually linked in our morning vomits oh discussing what do you do you don't know the father the baby is either seven nine months these days you should be able to work it out with dna question is he correct if you can work out with dna who the father is could you get married within three months let's say you have ultrasound you see she's not pregnant can you get married anybody was that you shouldn't confuse who the father is now you know like he's saying dna okay you guys are correct it's even if you've elio and he says she's the kid is this one not pregnant yes pregnant in other words ultrasound cannot get married so bismarck she goes many times she wants the ultrasound she can't get married for three months last time you're traveling is one day when you share was posted very late in the day so so first of all i have to apologize it's been a disaster i that's why i'm scared to leave air to stroll i have anxiety i usually don't have anxiety it's like anxiety it's sort of anxiety scare what's going to be the shurim the traveling the the alps the pesach and this is why because it's not the same over there everything is is hooked in we know well yeah there's always some sort of issue there but not like we had over here over here the first day in the alps the shear came out i don't know 10 hours late so he thought he wanted this possibly with the day the streak would be broken i would miss the day's death i don't want to risk missing the day so i listen to someone else's share boo this is someone else to share instead later in the evening after completing the other share i got a notification that you should have been uploaded then i listened to your shirt needless to say i think the addiction is to your sheer and not just the duff it's not about the daf it's about rebellion and on to the daf i know the island is very very busy it's unbelievably i'm going to hotel i'm just going to show up take a shower and go to the seder but you guys i know you have to do harasses and the murder and the this and the shield rim and the whole thing in the kettle so ishkar for coming out the parasolides for the kylo there's actually a guy in the room here that's uh that gave for the coil one month but it's not him this month so to you i know you're anonymous also sponsored by austin rosenberg families ezra is from melbourne australia hill from chemist in honor of their dear father god better sweetheart abrahams says first day of harmony our father is proud to be an eighth generation descendant of haravagoyan reb avrom i can't read this aha that's why you brought okay give valdeg what doesn't that's not what his name was but okay maybe ravois i was starting a brand new mishna daf it's a tremendous accomplishment i believe 40 death into the obama's mom is plowing through a third of the vamas the official mishnah sponsored by the md white helm group where without inverter for this class for chrysler and even not only clydesdale but also for the mdy family joining us is so we got charts today in sequence the simplest of the simple by the way i have i own a shoe just like this we'll show it one day live so you have reuven who married rahul and ruben goes bye-bye and shimon performs khalido but that's not it that's just the beginning there's another sister and her name is leia and there's another brother yehudah and he marries leia and then he goes bye-bye so now what happens to leia once yehuda goes bye-bye now shimon has performed on another sister the problem is that they're sisters he's already he already performed khalid's uh to rahul why shouldn't he be potted from everything [Music] so let's see what happened there similar story same characters but instead of ruining going bye-bye rubin divorces rahul and then yehuda marries leia he's allowed to marry leia it's just a sister why not two brothers we can marry two sisters and then he goes bye-bye what should shiman do in this case what if you have a woman whose husband died rocco's husband died and she falls to evil to two brothers the shimon and yehuda so she's waiting out there for khalito yibum she can marry either one of them could perform the evil either one of them could perform the khalidzo and what happened was he one of the brothers yehuda was mikados one of the sisters the the sister nakamoto shimarus she rahul is waiting yudo goes ahead and marries or is mckaddish not married kaddish the sister of the woman who's waiting to be missy album so if you look at this picture right over here there's a zika between rocco and yudo he should not be doing this he should not be getting engaged to her sister what he did so anyways mishra reviewed them and said so that will remove the zika between rahul and yourself and therefore you'd be able to marry the sister leia if shimon performed [Music] then he could go ahead and finish off the marriage ma fit now he's just makadesh leia aerus and now there's nissuan mesa hayabama what if rocco dies like in this picture so now once again the zika is removed there's no more zika between rahul and yudhoyo gone with his wife leia what happens if macey of um check this out rocco is kuka to both shimon and yuudo yehuda went ahead and his mckaddish layer but the problem is that shimon went belly up so now rocco is the only one that yehuda is the only one that could help rahul out before we were depending on shimon shimin should be me album shimon should do khalid but shimon is gone youth is only brother left he happens to be engaged to leia which is the sister of rahul so what should he do he cannot be miyabim rahul because he's engaged to her sister so the only thing he could do is very sad but you also carry at me he must divorce his wife leia and he must perform khalitza to rojo mace young sorry [Music] if shimon goes bye-bye then yehuda yehuda must divorce his wife like it shows here in the picture and rahul originally obama you must perform what do you mean the they're they're this kukuis it's if he divorces leia who marry his ex-wife no she's a choice like he lost out from both sides that's not the legendary we had a lot the gemara talks about it says like what's the connection between garrison and khalido by garrison you don't do anything but khalitza it's only the robot on that you can't have anything to do with the other the sister but by get when you divorce a woman then the sister is you don't have to do anything there's no khalifa there's no evil so it's not similar to the first case you're right uh ema avalan not the same avalan garage but if you do something similar called get there's a whole different story then you don't have to divorce you don't have to do khalid even nothing um rebbe the one who wrote the mishnah stuck in here you could see from the mishnah ah since i divorced this woman so i have nothing to do with her sister minatora and i don't have to i for sure cannot be miyaba mur but i don't even have to do halita because she's the sister of my divorcee with you've seen the mishnah from the fact that rebbe wrote in the mishnah that you're required to give the sister let's go back here this is if the divorce he doesn't even do khalid but in this case he did khalid khalid what's that with leia it should be nothing she should go home scot-free should get married whoever she wants why because she's a sister of a kaluta you see that assistant is only the rabbanan midaraisa he still could even do evil with her so urban says to leia but the connection is not so strong it's not like a divorcee like this case where you don't have to do anything to the sister zero zag um where are we all the way here you have again so you have this case where is the case chamber you have what does she measure i mean her husband just died nobody did anything yet it's in between stage it takes a few months first of all you have to wait three months can't do anything anyways she's a shimerzo gozai one of the brothers that the zika and it's so strong to zika that it answers can't do anything i'm a visual person i don't know how people are doing it without charts without things it's sub it's very very simple everything is simple just to put it in the brain sometimes it's like you see the words and what does it mean yehudah yehuda is married to one of the sisters there's a rocco that had a zika to yehuda before he was over isr and he went ahead and he got engaged to leia he shouldn't have he should have taken care of rahul or wait until his brother took care of what he did and then leia dies you hear leo dies could you either go back and be me abraham was that what you were asking somebody similar before there was any khalid here what's a shiloh because at the moment that he married leia now rocco comes out of them you can't marry but she's gone [Music] at the moment i don't know if we should go back here now let's go back maybe this okay at this moment when ruined dies and raj is waiting for khalid everybody can marry her both brothers yoho they can marry or shimmy so she is mother then comes yehuda and marries her sister she becomes also and then the sister goes barely up so now she becomes motor again so it's mutter also motor so i say says rav that's okay let yehuda marry the obama tax on the terrorist you have three brothers three baldwin brothers two of them are married to two sisters ruben is married to rahul youth is married to leia and mace ruben goes bye-bye now you though is not available right you is not available why is either not available because he's already managed the system so what what happens shimon should do something instead of performing ibum he does mimer bye bye so now shimon has a big problem what's the problem he has two sisters that are zucked him but not really why because he already he already did mimer to rocco that should knock off leia when leia comes kooka to him she should go she should go fife and then look at this then leia goes by by so let's look at all the steps again you have three brothers two of them are married to two sisters one of the brothers dies and yudah can't do anything shimon ins instead of beimiyabham he does a mimer the next step is that yehuda goes bye-bye so now that means that yehuda's wife goes down to eboom to shimin but jimin already did mimer torajo and then lei goes bye bye foreign [Music] she doesn't get evil only halita why because look the two sisters were sucked to so look at this i put it over here for a second you can see over here you see on the top by rahul it says the word muteres at this point shimon can marry rahul there's no problem he should look what happens when i go to the next screen now that yehuda dies rakha becomes a surah why because now there are two sisters that want his attention they both want ebon from one guy called chimin but then when leia goes bye bye rachel becomes mother again so it's mutter us or mutter you just told me mutter asa mutter is mother thanks for the territory why shouldn't stay like that he didn't know what to say the boss omar i have a great answer for you since in this in this screen right over here if we pause it right here shipment cannot marry rahul because rahul and leia are sisters so there was a moment of israel that issue remains forever according to rebel laws or even though a second later lego's belly up it's awesome yeah that's not such a great answer maybe when do i say this you saw it that if there's a issue for one moment that is who remains forever that if that that's if the moment happened all the way up here when rahul fell to shemin if there was an iss or then at that moment then that is remains forever but look there's a pure hat there he could have married her something came along called you the dying so that happened afterwards that doesn't work that doesn't ruin it may see a vim toy over here if rocco dies then he's allowed who doesn't let him marry his own wife leia he's allowed to continue the marriage but if you have this case where yehuda this wife dies in other words she's us her forever like shmuel says even in the case where in the beginning she was mother no since there was one moment of isr even though she's gone she's not no longer proud of this leia then the yvonne rahul is khalitza and not evom says the gomorrah level shmover which is not to say that shmuel goes like a yakid is not very good so okay this is makarashi i feel like we're talking about a case where divorce's wife he took her back okay so in that case it's later on in the second in the cuffs like it says over there because from the nephilia and on there's no essa there was a moment here at this point where the two women fell to shimon and there was a israel after the filo affilora rabbino will also perhaps agree in this case that she remains also forever the official mishna sponsored by the md white healing group oh i forgot to say the first mission oivey where we downvoted claudius for christ's role and even not only clydesdale but also for the mdy family joining us so this is what we're very familiar with you can wake up everything is get married for how long for 90 days for three months because every single woman it doesn't matter how old you are even a katana who cannot get pregnant and even even in the doesn't matter if you're engaged or married and engaged meaning the big reduces there's no beer going on there's nothing going on why should it be that she's pregnant there's no reason to wait for three months xavier everybody across the board waits three months not true i argue if she's married let her at least get engaged so nobody else hops her yes you have an amano widow nebuchadnezzar gets killed in a car crash and at the shiva house they read her let her at least get engaged hop right and get engaged lock in the the the guy varus if she was only engaged in other words there's no way in the world she's pregnant yanasu let them get married what's the big deal no one's going to get confused if you look into it you'll see that it's literally like the hasidim in the litvax today that they they allowed in yehuda they allowed the couple to get to know each other mamish they get to know each other so that there shouldn't be any fear at the the night of the hassana so we're concerned maybe they went too far sleeping gospel so you can't say oh she's for sure not pregnant maybe she is is more makel but he says like this all women even married women get engaged but besides almana she has to wait at least 30 days after her husband died with nayo i don't remember anymore it was it was like seems like rebecca but i doubt it remember we just had the gemara that at the uh at the base like fires or something during like mama's during the lavaga he got engaged to the to the sister yeah mama forget avelos who's like mama like daddy okay we just turned it off from him on the base i can't believe how we're mama's plowing through your vamas it's the beauty of the daffy me before you know it we just started the ivamus we're already 40 days in was just uh wasn't just the scene the other day okay 40 days ago sponsored by moishi horn in honor of jolly joe krause and family and another sponsor in honor of atkins bersky brian kinzversky and harry miller for learning the daff says more visually it's i understand why if a ye vomit just became available this shouldn't be a real yi boom shimmy you have lavin rabbi said we we know this inside out we learned this a number of times so the concern is maybe the obama is pregnant and if she's pregnant there's no here of a veebum not only is no heroin she's awesome in the eraser she's a herva gummer called hsr and if he remains married to her and has a second child with her that child is a monster so i understand why you can't do ibum why can't you perform khalitza today and wait after three months she could get married with ahalito it's so famous that this is it's one of the only places in shas that allah is like during pregnancy this account does not count that holds much like this [Music] why are you attacking him again we're already passing that look it's like you're sluggish three times the entire shot that's very very i mean it's i don't know what that is it's probably less than a percent they don't i'm sure they had like 300 mahlegas in chat no maybe not i don't know it just seems like in the hundreds no so three times is nothing and this is one of the only times it was a very good cash register why don't i need another question from our mishnah so if the baby survives and is a good viable baby then the khalita is what zero one minute hold on we you learned it already did you know the answers are what uh uh no what is the answer she's now running around everybody thinks she's hallous you're going to have to go and announce that she's mutual says maybe people weren't there they didn't know that the kids are and somebody asked the question so what if she wants to get married only to you throw what's the big deal okay great this is an almana grusha marikila maymayer she's already a divorcee and she's already also takaya and so it's a big deal she can't get married to quite anyway so who cares about the whole cruise the whole announcement there's no announcements to be made she cannot marry a client let her get khalita a minute after her husband dies because her brother came in for the levia the bro the brother came in yeah that happens let him do halita and go back to urgent role why he has to wait around three months to perform khalid it's not that's not right what's the big deal if she does khalita oh because she wants to marry coin but she can't marry a country she's a divorcee as we're going to see on today's daf this yavama gets me zionist for three months while she's waiting but if if she's a kalutsa no longer and it's big money big bucks support now what if she's a gazillionaire she's a millionaire she doesn't need the twenty-five dollars a week for my zionist she doesn't need it could she get you're saying the whole reason is to protect her and her misogynist she doesn't want protection she wants kalisa she wants out she has a great guy waiting for her she's going to wait now three months the answer is no she doesn't have to wait it's not a rule it's a it's a it's a case by case i don't want ybo it's a shiloh if you could force because if both don't want khalid so what do you do that's a different thing but over here she wants khalid you see what's going on here rabbi mantras look look around hours before yeah says good morning so maps and museums according to this shot yes it's a case-by-case thing if she doesn't care about the messiah's let her get it if she's married so she's entitled to mizonas when her husband dies great but at russo she's just let's call it engaged or the better word is arusa aruso grusha mayaki and la member there's no messiah in that case elementary you see now we have the real chat this is there's a man that came through i said oh my lord could i perform khalid now i don't have we didn't have a gomorrah of hamas then and i want to know what that is can i perform khalifa before you cannot so he says what's the big deal she'll remove my shoe she'll spit a little bit what's the big deal kara love mikrozen he said no it says in the paw soak look at this puzzle posix when he doesn't want to perform ibum meaning that if he does want to perform ebon he can so they're intertwined they're connected the two the yibum and the khalids are connected we also saw this history many times or not so there's a gishmaker cop here there is a the guy could be miable it's only xai there are bon on so we know how to differentiate between husbands so male it is our little evil it's not only human but there are bon on so it's them it's called earlier this is not an early living without bottom because where bonan paskin they said uh they instituted takana that you have to wait three months so mei la mirabaran it's not oil it's not a if you have a woman who's not sure she's married not married so what do you do is now okay well i'll try to remember this rashi later nice fakeos what does it mean what that what was the case and these are cases that we had also eliminated that what remember the case he took a conducion and he threw it to her and it landed and we're not sure where it landed and heard daladamus his dalaramis that story ah my lord messiah if they both agree to get married why can't you perform if she's a vama and he's a young so you perform the mitzvah if she's not a vamos she's never married to the brother it was a suffolk you do never married to the brother and now this guy wants to marry her let them get married what happened nothing happened either way it's a mitzvah hello so we have to say talking about a different case that's another case we just had oh what's the gamora's kasha you hear it's murder you have two sisters and whatever the case was if it was through remember marty through you're the one that said it i gave kidushin and then the accepted condition now we don't know which sister is married but why you can't be me abhim you just said kolaroi khalids since there's no evil available here because we don't know who the real wife is so it's a big problem so it's not rightly but it shouldn't be right finished why are you doing khalita here by the way rashes is a tremendous hadith you got to look into it a little bit had to understand it but she says that this idea of kalaeli once in a while we break the rule and we break the rule says rashi you want to see inside it's [Music] you see and he says like this that so once in a while we we let her do khalita in order that she shouldn't be in aguna it's afghan our case where there's a way out what's the way out wait three months so you'd be a little patient in three months from now it's motor so do it then why are you pushing khalita but once in a while when you have a woman and there's a couple of cases that we learned you have a woman that's going to get stuck for the rest of your life if you don't allow her to do kalito so you do khalifa even though he cannot do ibu it's not a concrete whatever the case is i don't think it's that one okay we said that already says that's why i warmed you up to this idea because it's a very very strong idea the gemara is asking that again you have two sisters who accepted kidushin and we don't know which one accepted the condition we have we have a a technical problem we don't know the mistake happened there we don't know so each one should be not really evil you cannot luckily be having either one and therefore they shouldn't be allowed to accept khalido says you're not asking a good question [Music] if eliot points at this woman he says hockey dash this is the one i'm telling you she's the one that accepted the condition i was there and i saw it then you're allowed to marry her so it's just a hazard in your idea all over here you just don't have the right information available but she's not us her she's also because you don't have the information but if you had information oh but in our case and that's the big kid what if there's an ultrasound or better than ultrasonic it says she's not pregnant so there's no it's not necessary to wait three months you can't listen to navi you can't perform evil why i'll prove it to you says you have aktaro who's six years old she cannot become pregnant and feel it so it's at once that's what you guys were saying they established the economy you have to wait three months it's three months ultrasound ultrasound doesn't matter but in the other case when there's a suffix who uses mikados then if you're not he tells us the truth devaldic if you get a video tape that shows you exactly which one received that's everything is good so there is no worse than the video michelle the first three months the obama gets missionaries from the husband and that's it why the boys say why you know that if a husband dies then the wife gets missiles forever what's the limitation over to three months so you have to see because in the soup it says that you shall sit in my house and you'll have missionaries for my nakasana called mega armor as long as you are an almana now a widow but that's for three months three months are a given but after three months my brother has to take care of you then it's his problem you're not an almana anymore you're not in my in my house that's my brother's problem the first three months since it's allah you have to wait three months and you know about the salah and you wrote it in the subu so it's my cries from that moment on she moves on to somebody they told them hey you're the brother we have rice your brother either khalid's or ibum he got so nervous he ran ran for his life nizon has been she he already saw what she did to the brother he's dead he doesn't want to be case number two so he read them then of course the young is responsible for moon's owners of them caught on what's that here's a very big shiloh why because now she has to wait 10 years for this kid to grow up we love him less law she definitely she doesn't get from the yaw bomb the little guy he's not have to give him a zionist he's only three years old now he's not married to her why should he give him a zionist but is is that something that the husband thought about when he said does he mean three months i don't care what happens there's a little guy he's big guy or no he said listen you're under my whatever it's called you're you're my you're my wife until somebody is able to take care of you which is in another 10 years from now please it's a penalty that she fell into such a terrible massive so i think it's gevaldic here in the middle of yvonne's def memphi base in two words also it's a it's it's something to reflect on something to think about the coveting that first of all each person this is protest to every single person looked at that ivama and he said first of all i'm going to make you a widow and not only going to make you a widow you're gonna have to wait now ten years until something happens but it's a it's an unbelievable thing to think about to to realize that every massive that we're in the worst of the worst you're in jail you're you're your vama your widow and all these terrible stars that people have claimed israel it's a it's a protest yes it's not random this guy got this organization that's how i have to live everything's been a shamayim even the bad stuff and it's for the good at the end of the day i'm going to be a mandoline 10 30 sheer but after that basil hashem back to this room until further notice until the next janta eight o'clock daily have a geval degente you