Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 39 by R’ Eli Stefansky

welcome to all the new faces the guests it is love it's here in chicago and the plan is to have two shirum for those who could uh make it through so one chair at a time we're starting today daflama tests and baser hashem we're going to be doing daf mem and this is all so that the people in this role have a share when yantev is over for them and tomorrow shem 2 o'clock p.m right here we're doing another shear so i want to share with you a story that happened to me today for me was a very powerful story if anybody takes out of it something gevaldine i went to sell my comments by replying towards the rev here in lincolnwood so i'm selling the comments he said i want to tell you a great story he's like yeah he said you know years ago azeroth a guy came over to me and said rabbi what do i do i have a personality defect and i start different projects i start different books i start different sectors i start different jobs things i can never i'm not a finisher i'm a starter not a finisher what do i do so the roof told them pick something that you really like you know go with something that you enjoy so i said okay it's an interesting story but what does it have to do with mahira's comments and why do you think it's so powerful he says the guy that came to me was you i wasn't laughing i started crying this was like 20 years ago and i came to him i said i have a personality problem i can't stick to things and he said you know i actually when you made a siam ashas and this is going back years ago when i made the simulation in chicago he spoke he reminded me spoken i said the story i said you said it that was me said no he says why it was me so i thought i would insult you okay obviously doesn't know me that well but uh i guess the point is that if i can can be consistent than i think anybody can it's and i say this over and over but he he reminded me that i came as a complaint that came as a as a tsar as a personality defect which i know i have it's you know i'm more of an entrepreneur i like to start projects and in real estate also i get i go crazy in the beginning and going going when it finishes it fizzles out and marty could testify to it so it's a limited high school for anybody anybody could take uh khizuk from it we're here bazer hashem i mean in nine days from now it's going to be 900 q room straight 900 straight i hope darling throws a big party come down to mandalay and i don't know where i'll be but it's it's it's just it's it's nissan daffy me creates nissan i don't know what it is but it it's able to do this so i just want to show you a couple pictures before we start we jump into it we're a little late today this these pictures show the essence of mdy over here you have i don't know who this second guy is schwartz if he's not he doesn't look like that but yeah goldstein everybody's familiar with with yeti schwartz in brooklyn two brooklyn guys and check this picture out also mdy tukaya lim jack josh hulkhour from odinn and charlie engelhardt learning the daf in the idf that sits us outside i know i know josh give all the key guys but that's what mdr mdy is all about you have to see them you have the guys in the army you struggle singer says thank you so much for all you do with terry spread i'd just like to clarify something yesterday showed the attached picture to the share informed them that mayor dickstein was listening to mdy here you go this is mary dixten so this lets us wants to say i know mary very well he's not let and he's actually isn't this really boring cheer i'm led to believe that the picture was submitted but this really could show it to the ship but refused thanks again for making the duff great again your town for life shrilly singer inwood new york now you know this really guy you know dixon he listens to maisha right yes he does okay gevaltic okay just wanted to make sure so the sponsor for the coil is unanimous of hillary ceredino and rifkova somebody sends this to me and when i paste and i copy and paste it onto powerpoint this is what it comes out it's a big big mumble jump pencil you've been lacking a lot of families like new jersey because torah is the best ghoul dr mark bergson in honor of my in-laws matt and nina weinstock thanks for your love and support rabboissai here we go now also i need to warn the islam this is where a lot of problems occur to the island we have a very stark alone we're doing great when you've vomited pesach well i'm going to learn on there of pesach so you take a day off then you're tired from the state there's two days and then also you find yourself behind the couple daf and that's when the eights are kicks in so a boy's side the eight so the guy i said he's behind five that what do you do you do today's daf if you're able to do what the second guy said and that's make it up and as you're cleaning and go one and a half speed without email gevaldic first to do today's that so matsuyantev don't be don't be uh don't don't go into some sort of uh so if you miss a death not the end of the world you move on yesterday we were talking about a chimerasiovam and we had a stero sort of it seemed like a stero what do we do between the race and the seifo a woman lost her husband before the ovum had a chance to perform any ibum khalifa she inherited a nursing home she inherited some significant cash maybe does it have to be significant but just to make the mice and more interesting so on the one hand it says that she's in full control she can do whatever she wants it's as if she's not married full control if she dies all of a sudden the husband jumps into the picture her brothers jump into the picture the yeah like what happened why is it when she's alive she's in full control 100 control the the ovum has zero to do with it if anything her brothers her father it's on her side of the family also when she dies the the vomiting the brothers they they jump in so we had a bunch of tea roots and four shot them so let's just take a look real quickly abbay says there's a difference in the duration of the safe the ratio is that she inherited this nursing home whatever it was when she was not married unmarried she marries you and therefore she has full control the safa is talking about when she inherited when she was married to the first guy okay so therefore the first guy and his brothers the first guy's not around anymore he's dead the brothers have a say and rather says no the whole difference is whether or not there is a mimer whether or not one of the brothers performed kilushan gave her some money if they gave her money so they're sort of cleaner in a way and then they have control on the nursing home if there's no mimer like the beginning the ratio then she has full control says the gemara it matter two four six eight lines down get a head start here gotta do two daf and this stuff we have to finish in a half hour right 20 minutes actually 10 30 we'll start the next step okay it marish made the review in the name of lazar we said like rebloggers said like rover what is the difference between mimer no mimer if this mimer then the husband has control his family no miami her brothers have control the father has control with marvin schmidt when did she inherit it if she inherited when the first guy was alive then that side of the family has control if she inherited when she was a chemercy of them nobody was married to her then she's in full control um doesn't do anything it doesn't accomplish anything rufus says if there's a mimer then her brothers step in and they take over the nursing home that's not what he says mimer doesn't do anything all it does is pushes off another woman but it does you're not quite anything you're not kind of nursing comes with it says just flip the the the name say instead of rebellizer says like rava say rebellious says that meiber doesn't do anything that she needs it's not enough just to divorce her she needs also even like i never said that mimer is not strong enough that the other the other guys should have some sort of say in the nursing home that's not what i said i was just talking about ged that is the difference when she inherited the husband if she inherited it when she was all by herself she didn't have a husband and the of them didn't do me yet so then she's in full control you can see this from the mishnah rafa got the cashew mesa but there's a big question about the word mesa what we had yesterday why do you have to kill her why can't you say the whole case when she's alive so let's see inside what's the how's the how does the mission call a nursing home it means they came in to the husband's family into his possession and they go back to the father okay so you see they were talking about that then hassan fell to her when she was married that's what it means she was married you see by his answer by says the difference between whether she was married with the first guy or not married at all that's the difference in the race of the save here you have it it says the question she was married the cashier but okay it's a great writer from the mishnah but we have a problem with the mishnah and the kumar's going to remain with this thing why are you talking about the real estate and that she died lagoon talking about the prophets and she's still alive why'd you have to kill her off and that this whole thing that we said yesterday the kiada that the husband has the same power as she does so it's 50 50 but then when he dies then the zika goes down one level so now it's 51.49 she wins or he's a little bit stronger according to one cheetah so he's 51 she's 49 then when he dies he drops the level so they become 50 50. like okay so why do you why do you have to say that she's dead i don't have anything to answer you're right great kasha the bottom line is from the mission that seems like a buy is right just we have a bomb question about miso he fits in the best but there's a really good question against it does really mean that we have nothing we can't go either way we can't say yes no it is what it is says the gemara it says in the mission of kansa if the ovum goes ahead and performs ibum what's that he's like uh she's like a regular wife what does that mean um i thought the first time i saw we learned this i thought it was a phenomenal says no it's a sheet that's so simple the fact that the ovum divorces her that's not the okay that's very big he doesn't perform halita anymore she's a wife like a regular wife how do you divorce a wife get but it is after you perform a get your there's a mitzvah to remarry her and you marry her again whatever the fact you say that disappears and disappears forever i want you to remember this because i wanted to use this against my favorites and everybody else in the coil today got a conference call and they all shot me down and they brought it right from resharing them against me i'm still not happy mega should beget of it says yes she becomes his wife but what does it say a second later the next word vietnam it seems like even though she's his wife there's still yibum going on here um is maybe hinting that she's still a vama but what does that mean beget lawyer not like you read it it means also khalid together with the get not just khalidza and forget about it again but again is not enough you would need both commas milan all you need is one thing called the get maxirup shita the kimura took this as a given even though for me it was a huge kiddush maxira of course when she's a wife she's a wife why can't you take her back everything goes back to the original isuru now she's still asia's out she's the wife of your brother commas malone that avaira of arias goes away maybe maybe it's so maybe there is another oh my god look the bottom line is she turns into your wife she doesn't stay as the obama she turns into regular wife but you're responsible for the suba the super is on the brother's estate what's the lesson here he's responsible says oh what does it mean my time you didn't ask to get married to this woman they forced this woman upon you they told you you should marry her it's the big minutes of the merrier so you're not responsible for aksuba be less law mineration what if the first guy is penniless taquito miss shiny so then the second guy has to step in and give her suba why okay they should have calibrated later so this is uh there are but on that the second guy shouldn't just divorce it for no reason it should hurt him it should cost him at least 200 zuz and i'll think twice before he divorces her it's for me it's difficult to understand exactly what's going on here because at the end of the day if you think about it the second guy inherits everything from the first guy his entire estate goes to the second guy including the super money so then what exactly does he gain by saying no it's not for me it's for my brother everything your your brother owns is you i'm not 100 sure how it works exactly maybe some sort of exhibit or abundant i'm not okay a little bit of tyson's here says the mishna official mission is sponsored by the mdy temple group where we dive in for a fourth choice and shidduchim for claudius troll and for our mdy family join us at thehillem.com also i was told by using zev this is the brand new second volume which by the way tonight we're making a scene on the first volume it's a big thing you can laugh all you want but we were making cumin my which was 30 daff my cotton volume 1 is 40 death it's longer than a maserta you should actually celebrate hope uh samia brought some wine no no you know we're familiar with a lot of these we went through them the bahar the oldest brother has the mitzvah to we go to him first le rotsa if he doesn't want to perform the ebo mahakam you go to the next guy each one as they they're older in age they have the mitzvah light razor and it's a goddamn if everybody doesn't want to do evil you go back to the oldest one mitzvah you are the one responsible for the mitsubishi or evo what if he is full of excuses no i'm going to start the daf tomorrow tomokoto nachiyagdil you know yesterday we had a bris we had a baby boy we had another brother let's wait 13 years and 13 years come back to me i have a feeling this little guy is a perfect shoulder for this 40 year old woman when he becomes 13. you're valdic so they tell him no thank you you know we have older brothers the bigger midfield older brother but he is in africa he hasn't been back for 18 years but we think he's coming back soon we haven't heard from him we think so no no thank you the the older one is the stickled death stickel today became sugar maybe tomorrow will be normal let's wait a little bit ain't charmingly we don't listen let's this is amazing if you had to think about it without looking into the gemara what would you say what's a bigger mitzvah for the young kid to perform ibum or the oldest boy to do khalito you had a choice everybody would say ebam right why because that's the icker mitzvah ah that's what i would think oh not bad the whole point of this thing should be so let the young guy do it no no cotton sorry sorry let me explain katherine does not mean a minor kata means the youngest brother he's 37 years old but compared to the 68 year old he's the he's the small he's the youngest the mitzvah is in the oldest brother the 68 versus the 37. if the 68 year old doesn't want to do it you go to the 62 year old then the 59 until you get to the 37. he's the cotton in this case we're going it is confusing because we're going back and forth talking about the youngest brother versus the a cotton that's a minor here you're right that's why you got confused because over there the mission is talking about a minor let's wait until it becomes 13. that's different now we're going back it's better that the older brother should perform khalifa rather than 37 year old then buckingham goddard is the torah says it's better to do with the god all then everybody else is not considered anything so even if the katan meaning the 38 year old decides to do ibum it's nothing compared to the older man's khalito says gemara what about our mission if the oldest one the heart doesn't want to perform we go to all the brothers my lovely rash it seems like he didn't want to perform ibo only halita so if he didn't want to do anything but khalitza why are you going to the younger brother stop right there his khalita is preferable then the next guy in lines ebam so the ray is it's a very good rain the reason why we're going through the younger ones because it's better that the young ones should do perform rather than the older one perform khalid he didn't want to get involved in at all he said leave me alone i don't want to have anything to do with her she killed our brother you don't know what happened i'm not going to mess it with her i'm not giving your khalid so let us remain in aguna so they go to the next brother what could you do could you do ebon can you do khalifa he didn't want to do anything if you want to do khalifa perhaps his khalid is better than evil says okay wait a minute nice try so it means he didn't he didn't want to he didn't even want to perform khalido because so then when it when the mission says that they didn't want to perform something what does that mean they don't want to perform the same thing the other one didn't want it before laura sullivan they didn't even want to perform khalid if so then if no one wanted to do khalidza then why do you trouble yourself to get in the car and drive to another city and knock on the older guy's door and say okay nobody wanted to do ebon now you do khalita why can't we just go to the youngest guy and say you do khalita what's khalid so khalid is a get who cares who gives the gut the oldest the youngest oh you're thinking something's churning there new there's a greater myth you're going to tell me it's a bigger mitzvah for the older one the before okay that's the most [Music] let them force the younger one says gemara keeping the mensah did they ramya since the mitzvah was on the goddawn that's why we force him to do the khalid it's his mitzvah he should perform evil he doesn't want to do it we'll we'll try by the other ones but we're going to go right back to him let you take care of business we said if he he starts making excuses let's just wait for the miner over here he's a miner until he becomes older let's wait 13 years this bar mitzvah ain't showing you don't listen to it bibi ask nadifa i'm proving to you if it's better to do ye boom with the younger one rather than khalito with the older one why don't we listen to him nintendo let's just wait 12 years end this story says that doesn't make sense it's better we should wait for him to perform khalid even according to you that khalifa for the older one is the best way so wait so what's the answer we don't wait for anything listen to this very interesting shiloh that happened they told the guy in prison in israel they said we're because of all your good behavior we're giving you one vacation day but you could pick which one you want a birthday you uh so he starts calling the rav so which one should i take him kipper rosh hashanah what should i do what's the answer everybody say why today that's what they told them what dr dao today another tomorrow whatev the the earliest time you get the certain misses you can't do in prison go home right now perform any mitzvah you could do today don't worry about your kipper that's that's a different time today by the way we're talking about pesach what's the difference between mata it's a difference about waiting and not waiting when you you wait you get comments you don't wait you get matzo you have you have inspiration for a mitzvah you have inspiration to learn torah you do it right now you don't wait you don't push it off tomorrow so the same thing here it's obvious to me i think it's obvious to everybody wait for even for 12 years who knows what's gonna happen in 12 years or one year or three months whatever it is the guy's coming back from his business room today we can perform kalitsa let's get it over with kalitsa mario oh you just turned to the phlegmatism base sponsor majoring in honor of jolly joe krause and family and another sponsor in honor of edkins bersky franken zversky and harry miller for learning the daff it's the army and some say a little different a lot different biblioplegibias like a lot of people in the room said that it makes a lot of sense the eboom is the most important mitzvah so it's better that we go to the youngest one the 38 year old and tell them perform yibom rather than the 68 year old performing khalidsa it just makes logical sense we want to be making shame what about khalitza is there a difference between the older and the younger one is is there a preference in khalid on the one hand you can say listen khalid is a bad thing it's just divorcing her you're not accomplishing anything who cares who does it or no the mitzvah viebom is by the goddam by the oldest boy let him do the khalid mandala khalid's gladiator explains at the end of the day he has the mitzvos so he should perform the mitzvot that we said that the god should perform is only let's bring it right from our mission if nobody want to perform uh yi bomb or khalid so you go back to the god my livelihood too sorry the gomorrah is going to prove my lively wrote so what didn't they want to do they wrote about they wanted to perform khalid even though the younger one wanted to perform khalita we ignore him and we go back to the oldest boy from here that it's better that the oldest man in the house should perform khalid not the youngest that's not what it means there's no proof we could explain the mishnah they didn't even want to perform khalito so if so because it has to be the same wording same same same meaning of the words so if the meaning of the words when it comes to the brothers means they didn't want to perform khalid's so that's what it means by the goddess he didn't want to perform khalid so the question is why did we force the older to perform khalid's let's force any one of the brothers keeping the mitzvah lady they rami or since he has the mitsubishi [Music] these are all things that we're familiar with we brought these rice before for the other shot in the bar if they said let's wait for the gobble to come back from out of the country ancient we don't listen and if you're telling me that it's better for the khalita to be performed by the oldest boy am i in chairman nintendo let's just wait the master because maybe he'll come back i like this lotion maybe it'll come below it and it's better that he should perform the khalid than the younger one i'll force my answer even according to you what about the second case don't wait for the minor until he gets older ain't charm like we don't listen to that guy let's wait maybe i'll get older and i'll perform the e-bomb and it's better allah kosovo so we go back to the east side when it comes to mitzvah we don't procrastinate we do it immediately just curious if somebody's out there watching this year does anybody know of a real case of ibm's manager because in the safari communities there's a minute to do yibom so if anybody knows this farty that's don yiboom i'd like to meet the ovum the ibama bring them to shear alive live couple just get the guy it's fine um now so the mitzvah is performed with ibum rather than khalid so that's the greater mitzvah virus in the older day in the olden days when people like kavanaugh for the mitzvah that's how it was actually mitzvah but in our days where people don't have kavanaugh for the mitzvah mrs khalid it's preferable to do khalid so then to do [Music] ibum yeah but i thought we had more than that yeah we're going to have it even more we're going to have a show he says it but once again you see and this again has to do with lilla say there yiddish kite judaism is all in the head it's what we think when we're performing what we're doing so you could take the same action marry this woman and it could be a great myth of evil or in your head you flipped it into navero we're going to see it's it's mama very according to it why because you had the wrong carvana you didn't have the kavanaugh for yi bomb shame yeah or whatever carvana was matzo same thing a piece of matzah zero carvana i don't know what kind of mits you get if you just think in your head this uh this guy said this friend i have to think how it goes tells his friend oh you should have seen the cavanaughs i had a matzo so on i did so many yehudim and kavanaugh's and the insights and the zach and i didn't even know these things but whatever whatever you do what do you do over there and you don't know he says you have no idea how many conferences i had so many cavanas was unbelievable his friend says i i'm sorry i didn't i didn't have any cavanaugh's i just had one simple kavanagh kavanaugh because hashem said we should eat them his friend says oof that that that one i forgot to do i did the other ones i did everything else okay but we have to have just simulcavana we're eating matzah because hashem said we should eat matzah that's it that's that's the shema if you don't have that that havana then maybe you missed the whole the whole boat says you don't force khalido yes we're saying that in our days you do khalifa we don't perform ebon you don't force it says rashi on tap tap rashi omar having koiven very important rashi we mentioned this also let's get that to see it again if both of them want to perform ibum and koi venomous we don't force them to do khalifa don't say to yourself oh i know this guy is a big dodo he's not going to have the right kavanaugh's and he's going to be over and the issue of isis ah of erva ellie burn me up if he wants he could be miyaba what if a woman says i don't like that guy i don't want to be married to that guy it happens all the time just because she married the brother and never her brother died doesn't mean that that her loser brother-in-law should be married her she doesn't want him know this is very important rashi vamra dvaram nikarim she says things that are makes sense listen he's not a mukesh he doesn't look gross like like that picture i want to show to mama you know a heavy disease no but he's uh you know a little socially off whatever i don't know what [Music] any excuse anything you know she's [Music] so holding in the middle of the page you decide you know yes yes there's a uh there's a halacha that tells us today we shouldn't perform ebola it's better to form khalifa it's up to you you decide you you want to do evil you do it i'm telling you i don't know i didn't hear of a real true story but some of the spider-man narratives said yes it's known svardhan do ibum okay we have to see if it's or maybe a hundred years ago it says if the man doesn't want him prophet says in the first entire if he wants to igbo because this is the lotion that we say in the get of khalito airplane i'm this is the daughter of this man icarus is plenty of vomit man of the medina i brought this to my dino i i recognized in him the i recognize he's a brother the one's going to say what how do you recognize you just ate them not ate them this is that is ate them but you don't need them at the end of the day we know it's it's a known thing somebody came in a woman testified that that's a brother ramulei it's obvious and we told him if you want to be me album yes not and if not be loyal and if you don't want to be me give me your right foot there's an interesting mysore shahaya there was a man who was a yavam and he was missing his right foot and the zanzi rebbe said he has no breira there's no there's no khalito he has no right foot he has to do ebon that's performing and yeah skin that it should you should do the the khalifa on the left foot telling him a true i said give me your right foot usual and i'm going to undo untied the shoe me i'll glory from his foot to the yard i'm going to spit we had this we discussed this the raw the mammogram that happened recently this woman spit and the ref said no no good do it again and she couldn't he kept on saying spit over spit i can't see the spit it has to be the mischa that you could see the spit visible like you schmuck a spit then sometimes she's 70 years old and you know it's hard to spit then see it on the ground not necessarily and we read off the sukken they had to read the psukim that say that from the safer the torah of maisha check this out just so i just took this from rashi it says like this okay what you see over here is whatever's in red they say whatever's in blue you'll you'll see that you can't even say it it's the tyre explaining if the man doesn't want to take the obama obviously they're not going to say this but i'll say if in their shiren he refuses to do what he's supposed to do lock him shame leave me he doesn't want to be and here we make him say this and this is what it says over here he says this is what you do to the person who doesn't want to perform khalido you spit at a shoe spit now the mark just goes into that word i recognized what does it mean i recognize that he's the brother of my dead husband i recognize through them even a relative and this is how obviously not the person themselves not the person that's not a gabadover but even [Music] what do you mean we went back to say that you should do give them what our generation is better than the previous generation the more always says they were like we're not even like every generation is less not more says more to me in the beginning they have like that's considered if somebody has the wrong intent he says he's he thinks to himself he's marrying this woman because he wants to be married he's sick and tired of being delter or bakker yeshiva wants to be married nothing to do with evil or noi it's a beautiful woman nothing to do with with the igbo for another reason it's similar to being over in arizona to the point he says it's in my mind leo is a vlad mamser so much so is he over and over that it's almost like the sun is a monster so a number of things here this fusiakov says this this is what i had a a shailah asmr he wasn't masking to me i thought i still think that this whole problem is the beer rishino the first time he's with her but once he's with her for a moment then she flips into a regular wife the is removed and then the second time he can do whatever he wants he doesn't have to have cavanas for for evil and and the guys in the coil held no they brought me araya they found a ritzvah and another maserta that says like them they couldn't find anybody like me but what they could did find is that yakiv says that if a person is very interesting if a person has a mixed kavanaugh that's also okay a person thinks themselves i want to be kind but to see him but also happens to be she's a very special woman blah blah blah i'm not going to be single anymore so that's okay he says no we're talking about our riots here we're talking about so abhishel holds that since typically this woman is 100 percent user to you because she's your brother's wife and the terrorist made a dispensation and said tara you could marry her because you're performing something here you're bringing a child into the world that's going to be considered his child or whatever so you have to have that carvana you can't just we're going to talk about kavanaugh soon even matsu let us say that we're going to talk about the daf tomorrow's death is about the sailor it's unbelievable but that's not a coincidence it's a crazy protest but rip shimon shkap says it's this is incredible i don't know where you got it from but listen to this marty he says that you have to have carvanha that you're marrying this woman mitzvah beforehand but when it comes to the act the actual gibum a human being is a human being and he's going to have cavanaugh for typhus or whatever his kavanagh is he doesn't ruin it that's not a that's not a rise that's being normal the cavanaugh has to be beforehand that's what he says before like when he goes to the shidduch that is the right compound of that okay so that's that there was a vits that that's going to get me into trouble i think but it's one of those nights that you know doing i'm just going to say it and if it doesn't work out well maybe you also feel edited before my uh the enemies get a hold of it there was a there was a baba that was seeing people and one of the people that came to him said listen uh she she comes and she says you know my my my husband he ran away you know what what should i do so he was a victim of this baba he doesn't look at anybody set us down he tells you listen you give me ten thousand dollars i'll tell you what to do so she gives him ten thousand dollars he says i'm telling you he'll be back very soon okay gives her she leaves she's going down the block she sees the sign says baba she goes in there this bob is not such a sad he's looking around looking steps up so look my husband ran away says his husband ran away is he going to come back says ten thousand dollars i'll tell you the answer she gives her she gives him ten thousand dollars he says he's never coming back he says yeah but the bigger tsa the bigger baba he doesn't even look at people he's never picked up his head he said he's coming back he says yeah exactly because he didn't see what you look like okay maybe we should just erase that one okay um i just remember because it's one of these jokes that the guy got thrown under shiva for two weeks for saying it says chicago at night ah this is gonna be showing there's a show during the day um it's a problem no we don't have to be concerned with abishol however whatever cavanaugh's doesn't matter [Music] so listen to this we have to remember this lash in a little bit mitzvah this woman he could have married her she was muted to the whole world then what happened was his brother went ahead and married her so that what happened nezra she became also to the whole world including him because of the brother died so she became mother again so perhaps you should say that whatever hath it was in the beginning so too her head should be now we have to understand what that means that what what can you do okay what's shot in this bryce so now if you look at the words blank a new slideshow oh i know why uh no it's in a different day tomorrow's here okay so montana um this goes according [Music] you can marry her for any reason you have in your mind you don't have to be a big top connector all but then she got married to your brother should be muslim to you so she went from being come from being assated and maybe you should be able to marry her it's important to remember this so the shot number one it goes according to i would think that this woman was muthur you can marry her for her beauty or whatever you want to marry her and that was mother and then she became officer and then she became muther again so go back to being able to be me or have any kawan you want commercial no you have to have cavanaugh rava marafi luthema rabona i could go even according to abundance so what's the midsole what's that veyro or the is the israelite there anybody could marry other coins or any kind so you don't have to you're not forced to marry nesro then she married your brother she became awesome to you then she became muted oh maybe you have the option not to perform yeebam nothing to do with she's also in your cavanas maybe you don't have to rotate any kind so what do you mean rotating what do you mean you're not gonna you're not gonna beat me out of here so how's she gonna get married to somebody else you have a bond there's a zika going on here elo emo rats according to rosso if you want you could perform khalitza it's the same mitzvah that's performing eboom you hear that the kumar is having you know maybe it's equal that's the shiloh maybe you don't get a greater mitzvah by performing ebola you could be making the same mitzvah it's either you you do this or you do that but they both get a hundred points in canada says mitzvah the greater mitzvah and the the icaru but if you don't you do khalito but it's not as great oh so i think we should stop right over here rabboissai have a wonderful day for those of you who are moving on have a kakoshi versamaya you