Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 38 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rabboissai ah lydia nishmas rossi roospas moroccan here in chicago for hashem what a start arif pesach real quickly the schedule tomorrow is share number one on da flametest at 10 30 is year number two on daf mem and then the following day erev viantev two o'clock me and myself in this room probably y'all go bergman maybe uh dr dalber no he's taking a schluff he said he can't be there sorry so just me and myself two o'clock and the guy's on zoom ellie dykman the cavero from barrow park matsuyantiv 10 30 in mund lines really not for the seaboard but if you insist we'll we'll figure something out and then back over here eight o'clock every night bazer hashem so a few emails here's the email from yaakov daniel says should i skip if i'm five that behind what's the answer yeah of course you skip but here we have just from today a very interesting answer to that question since the beginning of venezuela i started being behind in the daft this is from mayor rothenberg was cleaning shiva's best man and memoir which caused me to totally forget her laugh although the result was i came back from diamond on friday while seeing that i'm behind five daf minus the same question i told myself a few reasons and this is from today you can see april 13th 20 1004 p.m he had a few reasons why you should stop learning to dive it's too many adopting to catch up two even if i do as many as my name i'd like to have time off three ivan is very hard anyway but i decided to at least do a daf and figure out what to do afterwards the shir was one of the first chiron from the hotel room in switzerland i got so inspired from your belly that even when you travel to different places with daf and even with the ruff's kids are skiing the rov ellie can go skiing and have to prepare and make 20-plus sharks for that day's dive i could say with much inspiration from you i was able to set an hour and a half every day to learn to adopt him every day with you on one and a half speed without emails today i think of course hashem and you rebellion for catching up to the deaf and making me only one death behind some of my experience no reason in the world that can stop someone from learning especially the deaf there's always time to learn especially when it's a routine to learn the daf and for the reasons i thought earlier i can explain why they're just simply not good enough reasons being behind that isn't an issue i always come to the match learning during pace of cleaning much easier especially the charts all i can say is thank you so much keep inspiring please keep up with the showers can't wait for your turn there's a kaye dish mary rothenberg i hope that answers the first guy's question isaac godlevsky says i thought you and the londoner would be interested in seeing attach every peso checklist i've been compiling for a number of years now this is this year due to the end of the solution following so i don't know if you can see but there's a very very nice checklist here i wish i i knew how to share with everybody maybe you also put it on the chat or something attenborough utensils pick up the dry cleaning clean the phone the center center column the first thing on top says brush teeth dentures thoroughly okay but i have shot for it i have another email that explains this and then it says stopping comments by certain thai make sure comments very very cool things here burn the little of everything pillows nash for the kids kyrie says okay that's the checklist now what's your brains checklist beautiful you have to finish the brewery just to say that takes a half a year and here we go by alex gilden my dear md wire and chaver shaman goldberg came in for his pre-pacer cleaning pun intended so you see there's an indian to brush your teeth really well or go to the dentist for it i saw he's listening to the string in the waiting room and suggested they turn it on while getting cleaning teeth and a healthy mind keep on keep on keeping on we look forward every day to turning on the share and absorbing the rookiness or the best like ps we decided to go for the stage and the unstaged picture as well all the best alex gildan you see in the screen over there the shears playing all right oh the sponsors so as usual boys i the parnas for the koilo salmon we have a famous person in our neighborhood joseph this is joseph schmoyer handle miriam bass motherhood handler this was my children learning their ellie continues we're in the middle of a sugiyah of maminus everybody said it was very very geshmak unfortunately it's almost over there's a mission coming up and we know what that means a brand new seguio so we're discussing basically a kid that's a suffolk we don't know whose father is and he has a claim to yerusha other people have claimed hirusha so let's see what's going on here so we'll start with a sequence because it's the beginning of the suggest over here we have a grandfather the guy with the hat and he has two sons ruvain and yehuda and ruvain goes bye-bye this is the story of savage villain benici saba then ruvain marries the five towner i'm sorry it happened before he died and yehuda was miyab in the five towner and out comes the suffolk that's the suffix that we're familiar with from yesterday the little guy comes out we don't know who the father is we know who the mother is he's definitely from the five-tower but we don't know if he's a nine-month full-term baby and he's born to reuven his father's reuben or it's from yehuda you died the right to be able because in fact reuven never had a child and this is his child and then the grandfather goes bye-bye and leaves a tremendous amount of yerusha that's worth fighting over suffolk says i'm the son of rouvain and therefore i deserve half the yerusha yehuda says no you're my son you deserve zero what do you think that level should be oh so let's see inside of him [Music] omar hi governor bye miss nahu he's talking about himself hi gabriel that guy in third person i'm the son of reuben the guy that died upon the du the avam certainly gets yerusha no matter how you look at it either yuhuda gets a hundred percent or he gets fifty percent but he's he's a vada in this case he's 100 percent going to get yerusha the suffix and mr suffolk his name is suffolk he's a real suffolk when it comes to yerusha he's not only a soviet whose father is but he's suffering yerusha either he gets zero he gets fifty percent but there's a there's a sad that he gets a zero being and therefore he gets zero in this case suffix same case but now yehuda has two children i forgot to do a bye-bye at him he went bye-bye he has two children more of a five towns guy and the suffolk they come to court the the two guys tying a what we come from our father and we deserve a third each one of us deserves a third you mr suffolk you're our brother and if you have a brother you get a third so let's say there's six gold bars over there so each one of us should get two gold buyers there's three sons each one should get two bars the suffolk guy says no i want three buyers i'm the son of reuven the son of rouvain should get half of the yerusha of the grandfather and you think it's half the year and you guys should divide the bars between yourselves each one of you should get one and a half bars but i should get three bars i actually have fifty percent of all the gold says the gemara um the suffolk little kid says i'm the son of reuben i deserve 50 of everything all you are is a brother you're our brother as a brother we're going to divide the arusha in three ways says shockley here goes next chart mr suffolk says i'm not your brother i'm the son of ruben ruben gets 50 you guys get 50 okay so you admit that we get 50 okay let's start off with that thank you thank you for the three bars of gold now we get three bars of gold now what now you guys admit to me that i'm a brother i'm at least a brother so give me two so now he takes two out of the three now we have one bar left what do you do with that one bar that's a suffix that one bar so you give half and half half of the hulk him half goes to the brothers half ghost to him so comes out that he gets two and a half and they get three and a half another they get 175 one or three quarters they get and he gets two and a half so depending how you look at it he was claiming that they should get three bars and at the end they ended up getting three and a half bars that's all that happened there it wasn't such a big loss for him he wanted three bars he got two and a half his whole claim was that he wanted three bars so yeah so again we'll see inside says shockley it's not really gone quickly enough here we go huh a little bit of a delay half that you would admit to me to us we'll take that tilt a third that you admit to the suffix you say that he's a brother and as a brother you divide the six bars in three so he gets two poshlohudanka so there's a sixth left in other words there's one bar of gold left have a mama in our motherboard and you take that one and you divide it in half and the brothers get three and a half well what happens is if there's ten brothers you divide the three and a half gold bars by ten brothers and he ends up with a ton of gold he ends up by himself two and a half bars sabo yava beniksae suffic what if the grandfather and the yavom are trying to divide the nihasam of the suffolk then the suffering goes sideways not in this picture but he has a lot of cash next thing because he left over yerusha so the the the grandfather argues that he's the son of rouvain and the grandfathers the sole inheritor of rouve and his son so he deserves all of it yehuda says no he's my son and i deserve everything you grandfather get zero now by the way it doesn't mean that the grandfather is a bad guy and he's taking his son to bed we want to know let me see this what happens well who where does it go if everybody's a big siding doesn't go to bed but tacos where does this money go to so it's the same case whether uh i guess my computer is really slow we need a new one saba village what if it's the grandfather mr suffolk argue over the money i thought i made a chart for it i guess not but you guys get the idea have a moment over here everybody's coming without any real strong taina and therefore divide the pile of cash 50 50. sugya official mission is sponsored by the md white hill group where we dive in for a foolish yeshua's and shidduchim for clay stroll and for mdy family i guess a lot of people signed up because i heard that they extended their i think they sponsored another eighteen hundred dollars for the next 18 minutes nights join us at the hilum dot a mandaf.com what's this humorous you had a number of times chameleon means a woman who lost her husband and is just waiting to see what's going to happen is the oven going to be miyabe she's going to do halito which kid is going to do it what's happening she's waiting and she inherited money so typically we're talking about nik milog money that a woman brings in to a marriage so once again it's it's kind of some of the ideas that we discussed until now what is her status is the zika does the zika make her as if she's married or she not married what exactly is going on here so we're gonna say that it's not marriage it's definitely not marriage but it has some sort of effect so how much now when a woman is married let's say a woman comes into the i have family members that as teenage girls they own nursing homes right the parents put them on nursing they own nursing homes they come into the marriage now what is that kind of marriage the husband gets all the profits of the nursing home that's how it works nursing home is hers but he he gets the profits whatever the reason is she goes ahead and sells it no can't sell he has control while while they're married over here nobody's married yet there's three brothers waiting to do something the oldest one is supposed to do it as you can see the next mission so who has control on this nursing home she can do whatever she wants it's hers she could sell so we must remember this ratio this is the discussion of the gemara why all of a sudden over here she has full control she's a chimerasi album nobody did yibum yet her husband died she's about lost she's sad waiting for one of the brothers to make a move she has full control mesa all of a sudden things are changing here mesa mayasa big su basso uber hussein so first of all if she dies mayasa vassa what's going to be with her subba who who owns it who takes it the nursing home the next what happens to that wait a minute who's in charge here we said a second ago she's in full control all of a sudden she dies suddenly like this what goes on here if she's in control she's in control if she's not in control if the husband if the vomit are controlled they're in control you hear the sheila we got to understand the question because that's all the gemara is going to be talking about today and a little bit of tomorrow again first part of mishnah says that if she's she's hanging in between yibum nobody did anything yet she's in full control of her nursing home she could sell it takes all the profits everything so what happens when she dies shouldn't go back to her father she's in full control it's in her her possession her property so when she dies the people that inherit her should inherit the nursing home fifty-fifty fifty percent goes to the father fifty percent goes to to ruben the guy that's going to be miable shimon whatever those guys why if she's in control she's in control that's to understand the question for that question we're going to have four answers so that's today next week means her side of the family her father or her brothers whoever's whoever survived over there and your shambal are the vomit or whoever's on that side they still say no everything stands with a hazard since she was going to be taiveya she was gonna sue what's the right word she's gonna collect from the husband's family the ksuba so they get to keep the subah it's in their possession but the property that comes in and out with her the nursing home the the the the orchards whatever the fields that goes back to her her family kanso and now another aloha console if one of the women went ahead and it was miyabammer hare kishore khodovar then she's a regular wife he's in control not control whatever that means he has to eat divorces or what they get obvious takes two boss so on the same battle or resharp what time do we start anybody so we're 20 minutes in okay so we got to start moving okay subscribe is on on that side of the family and the husband's family asking him or the question my generation pleading why in the ratio basham i agree everybody agrees that she's in control say for this i just want to show you real quickly so we stopped so we have an overview of what we're going to be learning there's going to be an af camino between duration the seifer what is the navigator for nafta munis ulla says the first the nafta mean is the race she's talking about inaurusa she's engaged so if she's engaged she's in full control of the nursing home she's not the guest she's not that person's wife yet makes a lot of sense right and the safe is talking about when she's completely married married is different then he takes over control rabbit doesn't like that so he says no the race is talking about she's alive when she's alive she's a vaday and she's in control of the nursing home mesa if she dies the safer then abbaya says i'm just saying this real quickly as an overview so you don't get scared of the sugar it's easy we just have to understand the overview abey says no the first part of the mission is talking about when the property came to her when she was in that in between status she wasn't married and she wasn't be bomb she was in between so if she's in between nobody nobody married her yet so she's in full control but the second the second part of the mission is when it fell then hassam came to her the urushi came to her the first ones came to her when she was a humanistic album second she came through when she was married to the first guy right married to the first guy then she loses control and rava says then afghanis whether or not somebody did mimer she's a chimerasio of them but when there's no mimer nobody gave her kasifkidushin then she's still in full control once the of them gives her condition then he becomes in control let's see inside omaru laresha when she was engaged arusa whatever you want to call arusa in english call it engaged not really engaged like today but it's real it's it's like mama's like a semi-married so almost married what yeah humans were a result yeah so she was in arusa and that's when she got the nakasa but she's in full control they're safer than enough law she got the yerushal sheena sua when she was completely married and therefore the husband has control says arusa the zika of the ebon yes the zebra when you're in arusa that zika that bond is only a suffolk bond when it comes to this hiroshima zika is a suffolk in the sewer not really i mean at the end of the day there's nothing he gets nothing there's no bond but there's enough bond that she requires khalid so this is a little bit of a ban [Music] so according to beshama what do we do when we have a suffolk according to vasila what do we do when we have a suffolk whatever whatever is whatever has the hold on that money so the nursing home goes back to the parents to her parents the super goes to his family turn the dove sponsored by moisture horn in honor of jolly joe krause and family and in honor of athletes berkshire brianski and harry miller for learning the dive okay [Music] are going to agree that she can do whatever she wants when she's in a russo this is a foreign possession of an inheritance while she's engaged beside my immigration team like they still say she cannot sell why because she's engaged but you see still say she shouldn't sell me no zika zarusa is a suffocate so in our sugya it's only a suffic it's very weak it's less than a russo and therefore she can do whatever she wants the katrila yeah let's go back for a second [Music] everybody agrees venusen is she could sell and do whatever she wants but wait a minute they still say she can't sell if she sold it sold but she shouldn't go ahead and sell so how come in this mission that says she could sell because she's not really engaged she's only zakuka it's a little bit of a bond to you she was engaged to the guy that died and therefore the zika comes down as a zika of an engaged woman and for that we say she could sell her yerusha no problem nobody could stop her she says um now if she was married beforehand like everybody's familiar with the the typical um story of e-boom that what she was married her husband dies and she falls to ebon now this is zika she's there's a certain bond between her and the avarm that creates a sufficient source the zika is not strong enough to make a real married woman if she inherits something while she's married and you're telling me that this is hundreds and married as a married woman he has the power to stop any kind of sales she does if she tries to sell her nursing and while she's married doesn't work so obviously if she try to sell the nursing home now when she's only as cuca obviously she's not 100 married because if so she wouldn't be able to and we said she's able to so moro is the suffocation all the bondos is a little bit of a bond but not a hundred percent omelette rabbi i have a question says rabbo why does the mission say that we're talking about that she died and we're talking about the actual real estate of the nursing home live the google hayel or the pay rise why kill her off we have a suffering now what to do with the with the with the produce with it with the income so why because she's a suffolk missouri we don't know what her status is so if we don't know what her stat look if if she's 100 married we know what to do with the income what do we do in the income it goes to the husband that's what happens but over here we have a woman that's nice to her she's she's married she's not married so what i do with the income what is that called a suffolk [Music] goes back to the to her family and then the story so why did you kill her why doesn't mr say she died why why are you killing people for no reason i don't like your shot enough not like you see no both of them happened she received the urushiol while she was married the zeration of safa both of them are when she's married music is the soviet nessua you're right i agree to that part the zika makes a suffolk she's semi-married suffolk if she's married or not i don't know what allah is reishi kaimo hyper lawyer valeri the racist that she's alive the safe is that she's dead reishi the kaima she's here she's arguing for it heavily venus she is avadai and the other guys are sufficient veins she owns it it's hers comes the other guys say well i'm semi married to you i might be married to you a hundred percent i don't know so he's only a suffolk okay ain't suffocating devada safa de mesa but in the the second part where she's dead over there's another shiloh who inherits her is it the husband's family or is it the father's family her family or his family okay so then that's that's a real suffix it's a suff against the suffering [Music] and that's why this and we should remember this question because he asked a question from the case that we once had similar of a house that fell on somebody and the gemara is going to ask i'm just so that we could hold cop they want to say why did you ask a question from that case which is in a different say there it's in ezekiel you could ask from our missionary you could ask from from notion okay but what's the question is we just said that when she's alive she's a vaday she's about she's alive she has a nursing home before she got engaged it was 100 hers so she's about that comes the husband or the of them and says hey i'm connected to you there's a bond it's called zika i'm somewhat connected to you give me give me the nursing home maybe you're connected maybe you're not i don't how homophobic you're connected so that's a suffolk and a suffolk that connection cannot take away from her she comes with a vada but wait a minute but not here's the picture the house fell on the father and the sun all of al marishov okay so the story went like this there's a very wealthy guy with a hamburg and he has a trust fund baby called ruben this guy kidakin because she gets a lot of javas he gambles away all his money he's always in fact it's ours he finally comes to his father one day and he tells his father i need more money and as far as i told you a thousand times don't come here i give you enough ta-da the whole spiel now he's in a lot of javascript he's he owes everybody money the father starts screaming at him he screams so loud that the ceiling caves and kills them both now the shiloh is who died first it's a big shiloh why because the young kid he owes a lot of money and if he died second even a millisecond later he inherited all those millions and now that he has to pay his debt but if he died a millisecond before the father then he he died penniless so those guys bye-bye all the jaives forget about it bankrupt it's a big shout out who died first the the the guys with the chivas they come they say we know we're going to say the young guy died second died second pay us the the other yoshim the the brothers say no he died first nobody knows the real answer but who's going to get the money so what is that called a sufficient vada and what's that allah but we said already when it comes to yerusha when you yarish in 50 you're a vada at least at least you have something 100 and they come as maybe maybe everything or maybe nothing they're not a value they're not a vat in the urushi let's see but each one is a equal suffocate they both die these two people die we don't know who died first nobody's going to know besides a lot of money yours showing the the ones that inherit the father say that our brother died first he died penniless and the guy that's owed money says that's not what happened the son was alive and he inherited 10 million dollars a second later he died so pay up over here you see that the suffolk guy gets gets gets fifty percent he's able to take out of the vada he's the suffering takes out no the money stands status quo in that family yourself they get their shared 100 they're going to get a share how much is this share that's the shiloh ube suffolk the bachelorette might get zero because it's available what's the difference so since the bachelorette has a star it's as if it's already collected and therefore they're both suffix it's suffolk against suffolk how do you know this is not because it says i'm wondering what the island would think without seeing the inside if a person tells his wife don't be messiah don't seclude yourself with that man and she's caught secluding herself now we don't know exactly what happened behind closed doors we could only assume so the husband brings her to the base amigdas and they give her the my mamarim they write the whole thing shamashem put it in there and if she's clean she gets a bra she's not clean she dies what happened was the husband dies first he didn't make it he got a heart attack he's so sad or what happened with his wife heart attack and he dies this is the important word here this is what we're going for right here but shyam i say they take the subah they get aksuba but aren't they a little bit of a suffolk because if they were masana if she was masana she gets zero a woman's resigner doesn't get like super and if she was a mizano but over here it's just hearsay no we don't know anything but okay the kimono understands it's a big subject adam came says she was she's neutralized to boss on they don't drink obviously she can't drink the water the husband is not alive anymore and it says that he has to bring her and drink it so mella she gets super salary either they drink or they don't get exuber what do you mean she has to drink but she can't drink some invaders she doesn't get exuber welcome over here it's a shy list of software whether she's missing or not in other words whether or not she gets sexual because she's suffocating look misha may say she gets exuba even though this is suffolk whether she deserves it so abaya who asked the question he asked the question from the case on the screen the house fell on the two people they have a sufficient and a sufficient voice he didn't ask the question from over here another question from the site [Music] okay now you have to see rashi inside over here rashi says you see it like six lines down from where it becomes wide open see very important thing that she has aksuba okay so no but her 200 zoos whatever she's owed in the tsuba go to her immediately upon the death of her husband's as if they go into the bank account they go into her hand and now the yoshi want to take it out of her hand see what rashi does here rashes explain that what happens is with the when you have a star that's as if you collected it's literally as if it's in her hand and now the yarsham are trying to take it out of his hand out of her hand if it's not literally that she she uh collected it then it should be and rashi goes on as akasha teres okay says why did abbay go to this case of the house falling down on people into another say there it's in say they're it's in the zika go over here say they're not saying [Music] because especially when it comes to suba we're very lenient to exuberant we want women to get married we want to entice them through the tsuba so we make all these leniencies don't bring any riots of suffix vadas when it comes to tsuba different al-aqsas when it comes to but at least that's a question from our mishna that you see that the yava is highlight the tsuba and we're talking about a yava a young you don't have right after she dies when the woman dies but over there there's no you don't have to be nice to the woman you don't have to entice the woman you're talking about men fighting here men are fighting over the tsuba you don't have that swara of of trying to entice them so tomorrow there's no much like what the [Music] i'm asking you a question if the woman dies what i do with the tsuba bashafka and we went to sleep we left the question we didn't answer the question what do i do with the nursing homes there was no the mclaughlin says not because it's that's to have the immortals to begin with and they still say the tsuba goes to the husband's family [Music] we're gonna divide the the family of the husband are going to divide it with the family of the wife so what does that mean in in in grammar and the way you read it yourself in other words the yourself are the main people they're holding on to it we're going to allow you the the yarsham of the husband to divide with them but like tony yours so they're they're holding on to it the yershay the others you have it's in the family the wife's family those nursing homes the thing about so let's go back here abbaya says the difference between the race and the safa is when she got this in the castle the enough look she sure embarrassed when she's just waiting around that's when she's in control safe at the novel she talked of the bowel when she is married to the original husband because so listen to this his hand is equal they're 50 50. what 45 okay we'll go two more minutes let's see if we can just finish this again 50 50. but once the guy dies what happens there's a bond and the zika obviously is less than a husband so if a husband is 50 percent and she's 50 percent now what happens the zika is at most 49 48 percent she's stronger now and therefore she has full control omelette rovo either look she talked of the bow the coolant please obviously when they're together the husband has more control ellie did enough look she is emergency of um that's not enough camino it was under the husband's uh watch or under no we're talking about the race in the seifo when they she got this inheritance when she didn't have a husband she didn't have any of them racially of a mohammer the race is talking about that nobody performed the miami and therefore she's on her own 100 percent she's from full control safa okay let's just do one more live because if you do mimer you become a strong arusa but a little bit of a sufficient surah vada russo is betsara she's a vada arusa that once you do my murder push off she has a status of a married woman of a suffolk married woman at least to do yeah because we don't know what to do so we do yeah raboisai have a wonderful day you