Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 30 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] so here i am day three in the alps and the emails are pouring in people they're saying wow so encouraging you're on vacation others are like what are you doing how could you go to the alps it's oscar you're not gonna leave very distraught how dare you this year was late yesterday a lot of hate mail a lot of zafen so first of all i want to say that the streak is still on for those who wrote in the streak is bro not true yesterday there's a sheer 882 days straight barcode very challenging daphim in terms of the charts so as yesterday i spent over three hours on just one chart the issues officially by alumni with eight baldwin brothers today the charts are simpler but there are many there's 29 charts today spent over seven hours on vacation doing charts so you shouldn't follow the squad i just want to show you so here you see the streak and then let's see if i can get to it here i made a little video for the islam so i have to get in here there you go by the way don't take this seriously but i'll explain it to you soon [Music] he said you come up there says did you join my house that should be the only thing that we weren't behind but just just haste that is the only thing you want [Music] uh [Music] i'm going to get all these emails now it's not a mitzvah this mitzvoth i was thinking about it yeah yeah yeah i was holding my phone while you're not supposed to this you're not carving enough the bottom line is that i thought about it i'm not really taking care of my body the way i should i'm not playing sports anymore i used to play a lot of basketball this year i stopped because of my hip but barcelona my hip doesn't bother me at all so i think i have to go snowboarding a little bit more to mckay more mitzvahs mitzvahs of skiing and taking care of one's body uh what else do we have here we have here um c stag i'm not gonna say his phone maybe he doesn't want me to say his name his son in lakewood [Music] okay so as they wake up and here you have my brother sent me this my eleven-year-old neighbor jacob vortelski watches your shear daily give valdez the boys eye this month's sponsor anonymous for the coilovers of hilbe and saradino rivka pass fago first time that the only two people in a live share are my two sons and yoel which by the way again i have to give them a big issue they agreed to go skiing by themselves they went yesterday by themselves and when they came back they were exhausted so by the time i went skiing which i only did for an hour they weren't with me so we didn't ski at all yesterday but based on hashem they decided they wanted to watch the sheer even though it's kind of late today and we're going to go out together hopefully we'll have a few hours and this will be our last day here in the french alps refore and by the way you know that i'm not doing this for me i'm doing it to spend quality time with my children there's a lot of emma's to that in memory of my father-in-law alex klein abram schmulman our league and the entire staffanski family means a lot especially with all the chatter and all the hate mail that i've been receiving yesterday in memory of zev wolfe been a frying official father of lorraine margolius great uncle of jeffrey and robert rosenberg the shaman should have an aliyah and here we go believe it or not we are where we're supposed to be aleph right on the top branu mishnah brand new miss sakta in fact we're going to have five missionaries today i feel bad for the mdy taylor group they're paying a hundred dollars a mishna the mishnahs are very similar different cases that are variations of the same case the guru is going to go into it why do we need all these cases is it lazu abzu what do we add on each case okay reb shlaimi rosenberg who does tremendous amount of work tremendous amount of work under nobody hears about him but hours every day for mdy he sent me a suggestion and i kind of ignored it he said the following day in the founding three days in a row finally i opened up and i took a suggestion and that is to make the charts in sequence so i'll give an example here's the first chart chart number one and this is how i did it yesterday and up until this point he just wanted to add a little bit to my workload which is okay as long as the islam has enough from it over here you see in the chart there's two two sisters married to two brothers one of the brothers dies ruben and then shimon takes his wife lebo but if you do it in slammy rosenberg's way it looks like this there are two sisters married to two brothers and then the third brother shimon marries a stranger then ruben by the number one goes bye-bye and this explanation on the bottom in the square it tells you what each slide is messed up and ruffle who's married to ruben now she's a little smaller because instead of being on top of the slide she's now on the bottom he's miyabe you see there's a arrow that says yeebo so now shimon is married to two women five towner and rahul now shimon dies mace they both both of these wives rahul and five town fall to yehuda but the problem is yehuda is married to leia so the mission explains how chinese obviously cannot be married to yehuda because youth is married to rahul sister leia and therefore that sarah the five towner the tsar is also potter end of story okay so now let's see inside the mishnah here that was like six slides official mission is sponsored by the white hill group where we dive and i'll say this once today where we dive in for refuse yeshua's and shidduchim for climbing stroll and for the our mdy family join us at the hilum.8.com so you have two brothers that are married to two sisters and the third one is married to a stranger if reuven goes bye-bye cannot be married to you though because rahul is leia's sister and youth is already married to a sister and it comes out that yehuda will be married to two sisters so therefore she doesn't even fall to him there's no connection between yehuda and rahul however ushnia so now the achishan makes her sarah her co-wife the five towner also potter from ebon also bombaimer the maze but what if shimon instead of like in this chart right over here it says ebon but instead of that he did a maimur all he did she felt him tivo and all he did was he gave her a case of kedushin he gave her a little money what's the connection between ruffle and the five town right now because shimon didn't really marry her yet the gemara tai madhav it seems like it's because shimon performed my murder therefore the five-towner needs khalidzo hallelujah but what if like in this case right over here on the chart shimon didn't do anything he left it as is isn't there a concept called zika without mimer isn't rocco bonded to shimon and therefore she's as if she's sort of his wife in a way and therefore the five towner also should be at sarah to that it seems like there is no connection and in fact yehuda could be me as you see in the chart the five town even though there's one brother left look reuben and shimon they're both on their side bye-bye there's only one brother left so the higher the zika bound should be so strong it should be as if yehuda is married to rahul nevertheless we say no you does not marry to rahul and he could in fact be miyabim the five towner so what do you see from here ain't is going to prove from the following years or two missionaries from now it's going to be a contradiction we're going to have to understand what does rivashi do over here again so we have just to remember so that we could recall when we get to the third mishnah ramanathan says adiok it says that he did my murder and that's why there's a connection but if there's no migraine there's no connection in other words there is no zika what's ravage you going to do with that next mishna official mission sponsored by the md white hill group join us again we have the three brothers so we already know that the two brothers married the two sisters that we saw on slide two and now we're just gonna go to the next slide this is slide nine for yosef um sorry this is the slide so you have two brothers married to two sisters and a third brother is married to a stranger you guys want to see what it looks like on the charts come around it's kind of boring over there on that side without seeing the charts what do you see your brother you that looks like your brother that's where you're laughing yes mais [Music] so now over here you see uh [Music] let's see if you have a different chart no so the first step one is that shimon in the center he goes bye-bye and rouhane takes shimon's wife as the obama she could either fall to yehuda she felt yehuda or to ruben ruben took her mesonos on the right takes the five-towner essentially the mace and after he took her and he's already married to who to one of the sisters reuben is married to rahul so now at this point when ruvain is miyabim the five towner the five towner is so it's a very very similar case in both cases both in schneiz the two women rahul and the five town are fall to just in this case they're falling through reuven one of the brothers that's married to a sister and in the other case they fell from shimon let's go back over here they were both married to shimon and they went from shimon to yuhudo okay you understand the difference this mishna the two women five-ton raffle are married to ruben and when reuben goes bye-bye they fall all the way to the other side in the first mishna the five town and rahul both with shipment because shimon was me having the rahul and then they fell to you so once again the oh why is the sun i hope i don't get more of this okay in this case is called rahul rahul as you see in the red dotted line is ah she's the sister of yehuda's current wife leia and the five towner is the co-wife of rafal sorry now instead of ruvain marrying five town or being the avenger like the original case he did a mime same we're repeating the same case as the first mission but now it's by ruben says so in this case the five towner gets khalito from you though in this case she's mamish married to ruvain that isha didn't come through my let's see if we can find that real quickly here over here rahul who's that became connected became achieved through mimo okay it's a little weak but in our case we're much stronger luck reuben is married to the choices not through mimer he's physically married to the arva certainly the five towns should be awesome in this case says listen to this had a change of mind and he decided later on that it's us and because he is beloved to him he made it first he made it the first mission once a mission that goes into circulation and everybody repeats it and it becomes part of the memorization and it became part of the yeshivas we never take it out even if it has zero goddess really so but because the first mission was they stuck that in the second mission rashi says here for a second why is it because [Music] other [Music] when two brisketers meet they say no [Music] you have a humor for me something tomorrow mission of the official mission sponsored by the mdy film guru join us at the hilum.8mindab.com there's a third mission that says excuse me doubt stops blame it on them okay so we have two brothers that married two sisters and the third brother married a stranger what happens is mace is ruling in step one he goes bye bye they call us toy as you see shimon takes reuben's wife i guess i'll have something stuck for the rest of this year technical difficulties so leia you and his wife went bye-bye tells us that rahul is offered to yehudah forever because at one point she's a choice isha of his wife now yes the wife died and when a wife dies there's no ah but at the point in time when rahul was ascertain she became when he become that issue never goes away in other words don't get confused between two sisters and asiasath the wife of a brother at one point when rachel fell to ebon to both yehudah and chimen after reuven died in step one you're going to marry rahul because yuda was already married to rahul's sister so at that point when he couldn't marry her we say stop this woman became a brother's wife and that is never removed even when your own wife dies okay let's see inside of us if at the moment of falling to ebon when the brother dies i can't say the apostle you should be able to be me adam if i can't be miami we pretend that this ruffle has children and if she has children she can't marry the yava she's a lasso and she's also forever michael marshall what's the kids i would think daftka like in our mishnah we're at the point of falling when she fell so when rooving died rahul falls leave him to who to shim it into you to the remaining brothers [Music] took her here before if this step that we see over here that the wife leia died but it happened before shimon took her leaving emmett history maybe in that case i would think that she's mother komash malone even that that's what's coming we also learned that two brothers were married two sisters here you go here's the here's the chart and one of the two brothers dies so now when this brother dies ruckle falls lee boom to you but she cannot fall why can't she fall because she's a choice isha you're just already married to her sister but what happened is that died [Music] so over here you see that exact case that you're trying to give us a finish line in this case right over here at this moment when reuben dies ruffle is ushered to you and astra the no other brothers it's only two brothers so this woman is also so there's no way that i can make her mother but in our case you go back to this case there's a third brother out there so rahul when when she felt the ibum yes she wasn't muted to you though but she was muted to somebody she was muted so maybe it's different um so i think that later on so it's a little weak later on when yehuda's wife goes sideways bye-bye once there's a little issa for yehuda that is remains forever [Music] next mission of the official business sponsored by the whitetail group where we dive in for a foolish issue him for clay israel and for our mdy family divorces rahul so at one point in time she's not an isha now does it make a difference when ruvin divorces a guy was once divorcing his wife he went to bed so they told him you know it says murder of the mice if you divorce your wife the misbehave is going to cry so he told bazdan says i rather than misbehave cry then i cry. one of the sisters shimon goes bye-bye shimon's wife the five-towner falls leave them she could go either direction she could go to reuben she go to yehuda what happened is yehuda decided to be miyabamir question reuben now is married to five towner is there a connection between the five towner and ruffle are they considered soros co-wives reuben already divorced raffle beforehand we learned this in mishnah aleph of the musef the first mishna if the husband gets rid of atsara of ereva then it's not considered a co-wife since he divorced her so it's not considered that the five towners married was that in the same marriage together with rachel they were never co-wifes because reuven had already divorced his wife rajo says the gemara time of the girish vacations it's because in this case you see ruvain divorced his wife first and then he's he's miyabim the five tower what happens if it was in the reverse first shimon goes bye-bye and then in other words and what happens the five counter becomes zakok to ruben the five towner becomes to reuven and yehuda either one of them can marry her and then ruben decides to divorce his wife rahul so there was a moment in time that through zika there were co-wives ruffle and the five tower were co-wives through zico what does that mean to me that means that there is zika if she's also it's only also because he never married her it's also because of zika on ravashi comes rivashi and says the opposite of what rav nachman said in the first mishnah zoi is from here you can prove yeah what happened there the when shimon dies the five town earth is zucko to reuben and the uda so you see that the zika works even when there's two brothers forget about one brother even in two brothers that's the opposite of what rav nachman was made from the first mission of the zero zika even when there's only one brother asking from the first mishna that says if he did mimer xyz and if he didn't do my mirror then well if you didn't mind you have to do khalita if you didn't do mimer then the five towner could do yee boom to you though but what about zika doesn't zika answer the ibum do you know so you see there's no zika says that if shimon performed mimer to rahul let's see if i could find that case it's all the way up here oh if he did my murder to ruffle then the five thousand requires halita from you that if there's no mimer like in this case no mimer not only does the five 510 or not get khalita but you could do ebon with you though mimer is a complete kenyan and that you could even it's mama kiddush so i'm telling you no she's not completely married and she deserves all i want to do is take out bichamae but in fact without mimer would have the same allah she would require khalido we just turned to lamin ahmed bayes lamin unbelievable thirty spotted by motion her horn in honor of jolly joe krause and family in honor of atkins burskie brian kenzeberski and harry miller for learning that from the what about the beautiful proof of ravashi that from our mission over here so let's go back to this case no we're all with them and [Music] oh what happened was reuben was married to russell and then reuben divorced russell and only after that married oh no this one right over here married divorced then shimon goes by the way but what happens if shipment goes bye-bye and then reuben the vote excuse me then reuben munters the tsar is mother elizu so then while i say zooey this is the only case you're saying in both cases it works the same way so they can as vacate going to come to say that if ruvain as in this chart 24b rouvain went ahead and was miyabim the five towner and only afterwards divorce his wife rahul in other words there was a moment in time where the two of them rahul and the five towers were co-wipes and afterwards uh shimon died okay so this we have to explain we went through this already before but we'll go through it again it's always good to do hazard there's a big question and there's a question whether the first mishna of the massachusetts is in contradiction to our mission over here and we have this and that is what causes atsara at what point of time do the two wives have to be married to the same man is it that they're once upon a time married and that's my pelvis or they have to be married and they have to be co-wives at the point the time of evil when the husband dies and if he divorced her five minutes before he died they're not considered co-wipes and they're not saras the first mishna says that it's the nisa is not bill in other words if you divorce your wife one minute before you die then they're not considered co-wives says gemara caribbean that's great if you all like gravy that our mishna tavern [Music] that it's the death that makes them cold co-wives saurus might have seven international appeal and the first missionary halls no as long as they were married once upon a time together they're considered co-wives [Music] so therefore zoohe this exclusion comes to exclude khanas this case that was shown over here that yes they were married once upon a time the five town room you see ruvain was makat it was miyabim the five towner so at that moment that was miyabim the five town and rahul were his wives at one moment but then he divorced his wife he divorced rahul okay but as long as they were married together for five minutes they're called wives forever and ever that's our title ellu what if you all like the first mission in this mishna are that even if he divorced her at the last moment sorry the the first missionary holds my pillows right um so the first mission holds miso my palace the death of the husband is what causes it so if this is divorced any time before or after they're not connected so if so how do you explain this if ruben married the five towner but he divorced his wife then they're not considered saurus anymore because it was a divorce before he died elizabeth [Music] according to rabbit who holds if he holds like your vagina's now the question is what exactly does rubble hold does rubber hold the zika or there's no zika so it says guimar if you say that rava who holds that the two schneiders are in agreement and we hold meesa my palace it's great if you hold like rivashi the yes [Music] if ruben dies without divorcing rahul and it was miyabim at least overlooker of nachman but if you hold if rava holds in this is a little interesting because at the end of the day ravage doesn't agree with rover that much rubber has to hold a little bit of zika and he therefore we're proving rava holds and ravashi yejika end of the story and fifth and final mission for today sponsored by the mdy the hilum group [Music] the first mission of themselves keep on going back to that mission and that is if a brother dies without children his wife or wife's fault even to the other brothers what if one of his wife's happens to be his brother's erevo his brother's daughter his brother's mother-in-law great so our mission is saying but what if we're not even sure if his brother's kedushin his daughter was valid again reuben dies and leaves two wives one of his wives is possibly his wife we don't know and if she's his wife that happens to be his brother's daughter but we don't know if it's his wife why don't we know because it was a suffolk if the condition was good suffolk if he divorced or if the ghetto is good so it's a suffolk on the air though is this irva related and married to reuven when he died or not the queen joyous had sorrows the co-wives is since we have a suffolk so the co-wife the she can't go out without anything the first mission says that the co-worker doesn't need khalita because she's a co-wife with the herba and since the arava cannot follow them the co-worker doesn't either follow you but now we don't know it's just okay so anytime this is something we do what does it mean that we don't know if the should not says the mission they were both standing in front of them and we know when we learned to shabbos and other places everybody has a four ammo area around them that's acts as the russos so now they're standing in a area of adamus exactly at 8 am and he threw kidusian we don't know if he threw it to her well it's possible maybe it was like a oh basnida you don't want to give it to her he threw it to her maybe through a different uh i don't know there was some sort of mojito for sneeze through the condition and we don't know if it went into her area her four almonds or his four albums okay so we have a suffolk [Music] what happened was so baguette and gamora's gonna explain doesn't tell me the case that he threw a get to her and we don't know if it's within her dollar diamonds or his dollar times no oh it's different over here we're giving you a case three cases that they raise uh it's 100 to get just wrapped on what glazer is not again so in this case the woman requires khalido kosovic it has the handwriting of the husband then elevate them you don't really need a them it's only with the right body you need so that's one case yay should level in maybe or we have aden but we don't have the exact time of the guest or it has the time but it only has one aide zeus it's a good guest and she needs khalid v garrison says the gemara but why doesn't it say the same exact case like by kidushin that he threw the get and we don't know where it landed bummer [Music] is ready to get married to anybody um she get married to anybody why because she's the sorrow of an arab and sorry that ever goes out now you want to tell me no maybe her sorrow is divorced and therefore she has to be missy okay so you want to take her out of a hazard that she has she has a hazaka that she could marry anybody you want to take her out because you have a son um [Music] this woman before she became before the erevo was miss kaddish the suffolk this woman was allowed to be missing she's a perfectly bomber now you want to add a uh um [Music] that could bring akula which reminds me actually of a misa i don't remember which gobbler was there was a goddamn that went and said to a big rav maybe it was rough statement or something like that he says should i be on giving my kids chicken with bones on shabbos because maybe they'll take out the bones that we butter so rough statement says i didn't know they make chicken without bones what do you mean he says no no we'll take out the bones he says who will take out the bones you you're not going to take out the bones your wife will take out the bones so you want to be mahmeer on your children on the account of your wife sort of okay or this i'm guilty of when we lived in lincolnwood i wasn't saying on the air over there so there was a big uh debate but my wife wanted to use there so i said okay people that saw me they always saw my wife pushing the strollers i was i was the big tadic and let her she's pushing she's dragging the kids are you know she's holding three kids and pushing the stroller i'm standing on the side watching but anyways why is this um and they'll say that the first they'll say what the first one is conduction the second one is not given oh so so people will be confused there your homura is going to bring a big mixture in mama sherba so therefore says no it's different since you see that you do require khalifa they're not going to say oh she's she's mother to everybody nobody's gonna be she requires khalidso so no it's just a homura not that that she wasn't related at all no we just said she shouldn't be missing but she needs to says you should say the same thing by garrison that he threw it next to her and she requires and because of the khalifa the same thing that you just said um [Music] oh have a wonderful day you