Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 20 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] i was uh as you know my wife is in america and i was going to do shabbos all by myself and my my niece called me up and asked me if she come for chavez i said i'm by myself she has three children husband of course so i said if you don't mind that i don't know how to cook or anything you can come why not she was here for the the danby chevy broncos so she came so thursday night about 11 o'clock i ran out i got some dips and some challah and ready to go then i come home friday and this is what i found by my door watch look at the screen for a second dear of ellie and rebecca thank you so much for making us laugh making us cry most importantly for making us stag and for helping us not be in amaritz the shabbos koidesh.com team leiden i don't know i know i mean i know the guy that owns the place i know him a long time but i don't think he does the sheer so whoever you are you should kayak i'd like to see your face maybe i do know my like okay she has a nice nice platter and then we had chant everything was good i was at sherry brooke this week and it was great to meet some of them we all came from different sides gary garrison larry pearl and jakob silverstein but it felt like we were ready here's the picture larry pearl i just saw him for after he had a stroke for the first time i think he was at the scene where i see him let's see him so hashem he's looking better than ever larry pro's the one on the left and um oh you stroll goldstein sent me an email he said that i keep on saying that you cannot marry a sister-in-law unless she falls to you and he says he knows three people i don't know that's three people that married the sister-in-laws in other words their si their wives when if they're young and they marry the sisters well i wasn't talking about that system that's true talking about a brother who marries a woman it's oscar to you forever unless he dies without children okay yesterday we had a really vampire bark hashem today is a lot lighter let me show you if you weren't here yesterday this is what one of the charts looked like now that that was dumb posture dumb to make a chart like that i don't know what i was thinking like oh this is going to help the islam okay it's actually a very simple uh all the things are very simple just different variations of the same thing what goes first the the kedushin the the mimer that okay but here we are on top of daf huff what are the oh sponsors we have to do sponsors right it's also a thing you'll save i guess had a long night editing when did he post it 4 46 a.m so therefore i did not get the sponsors are just gonna do the monthly ones [Music] drukshlito so we are holding top of the huff and we are like seven lines down so i i'm telling you it's an easier very it's pretty easy daf we're just gonna look at this chart for one second one more time don't get scared don't be nervous by it these are the two mishnahs that we had and it's mesoderm or mace it says even i added those words i forgot to mention them yesterday mace ruvain ruben goes bye-bye no la di soccer and then ye bim shimon in that order we said yesterday according to everybody the little guy can never ever marry rahul because when he came into this world he found rocco and al-mana and that is however in the second case since when he came into the world it was after shimon already was miyabe yes at one point in time in history she was in almana and he if theoretically if he was born then it would have been ancient absolutely but ximen and then he came into the world in that case as much like his reputation and says he could be me look so very simple your sister what happens if your own sister falls to you libu what is the difference the gummy as a very simple question before we go into the case just the idea of the question asia's actually hayaba ilama is a isr your sister-in-law is also to you if she's married to your brother not your wife's sister but your brother's wife your sister was isha if you're not in the world then she's just actually amazing where did this sir disappear to just like your own daughter you understand that your own daughter that israel never goes away so why would the issur of ishizak ever go away if it's issues absolutely by allah what is the case so let's take a look over here at this chart very proud of myself did it all by myself so true so true what we have here is the plumber right over here was once upon a time married to this woman mazal and they had a child called reuven okay then you have the five towns woman you like how now she has a tag already five town married another five town dentist and they had a ba iron girl the they both got divorced or whatever happened to them but the plumber and the five towns they got married and they had in step three they had uh shimon okay that's sherman so now shimon and ruben are brothers from the father they share the same father the plumber shimon and but ayan are also brother and sister because they share the same mother what happened was ruvain who's not related at all to bat ayan they got married they got married at step two and then shimon was born later okay so i messed up the steps but the idea is the same shimon came into the world he found his brother ruvain married to his sister which is completely allowed it happened to repre actually that was the story okay so now if ruvain goes bye-bye what happens shimon's own sister who's rubin's wife falsely is that the case his sister from his mother's side his mother the five-town woman had a daughter from another marriage who married his brother which is a completely legal marriage it's even possible they married each other when the parents didn't know each other you give me these eyes like they're crazy and it happens it actu it happens i i've heard of stories they meet each other by the by the sherbet broccoli this he married but it it's possible that rouvey married but ayan and the plumber and five towns didn't even know each other yet they they only knew each other through their kids marriage let's say what's the big it's possible it's all possible afterwards step three that's why i put one through three so i wasn't looking at my own numbers step one on both sides is there's a reuben and a battalion step two is that reuven and bataan got married step three is that shimon who happens to be a brother with ruben and uh another brother with bad iron he was born the maze who died reuven [Music] so now according to your logic shipment should be able to marry his own sister hi obama heter when he came into the world chimney came into the world at step three and he found his sister married to to reuven in other words we know that's not a good question but why is it any different than our sugya that if a little guy comes into the world he finds his brother shimon married to ruffle oh then it's no longer issues actually why where did that israel go to israel so the more answers you can't get she's your sister while the gemara is trying to get to something okay we understand she's your sister and therefore you can never beat me i'm trying to get to this point what's the difference between the two surum they're both ervis says imara i'll tell you the difference is actually there's a hatter every e bomb is goes away when uh when someone is born uh dies without children so there's a typo there's a way to get out of it so maybe the little guy yosaka who's born in a certain way then he's muted to his own sister-in-law because that's something that goes away but a daughter that this or never ever goes away so don't ask such a question there's no connection says the mishnah the official mission of the sponsor official of claistro we'll talk afterwards you're bringing me through snileth now come on i'm mr baze what's your question though what [Music] when he's born to shimon having married rubin's alma mater right he's born late mace right even so i ask you why can't you marry him not because of rumina no this is much stronger this over there over there he was born into an israel that we all understand that can't go away maybe maybe when he's born into anonymous or then he could get this away and even that's a problem but when a guy is the kid is born into anissa he's born he sees his sister-in-law and almana and the turtle says specifically he says it's also how could that ever go how could you erase that just because somebody else came it was miyabamir it doesn't take away the fact that he was born into this sir okay anyway we'll talk later says the mishnah claude uma this is yeah i just said the official official official call khalshi israel this is basically the first mission of the maserta when you have israel so if you look at the chart simple case you have ruvain is married to five town also he's married to but ayan so they're sorrows to each other and it happens to be that the five town is shimon's daughter a uncle can marry a niece it happens so since the uncle reuben married his own niece when the uncle goes bye-bye his niece his wife happens to be shimon's daughter and nobody has to have amina that he giving me out of the daughter so what is but i ayan called the tsara of a nerva so that's called isr khalshi is when the obama falls to you when she happens to be your own blood relative or one of the relatives one of the fifteen lawyers who doesn't have who doesn't get kalita the tsara well either of them but the misha is talking about even the tsara the that the daughter doesn't get khalid that's partial she's she never felt her own father but that her sorrow or co-wife doesn't fall as a big kiddish no khalisa no even that was the first mishna what if it is isr mitzvah look at this case right over here it's the same design but instead of shimon being related to mazal because they're blood relatives now they are one step removed this is the daughter-in-law of his son not his daughter-in-law that would be one of the fifteen his son's daughter-in-law so that's called schnees it's only us mris he can marry his son's daughter-in-law but we want to make yeah yeah second matter of course granddaughter-in-law this woman mazel was married to shimon's son son divorced divorced her or died and she went and she married reuven lomashana how it happened that's how it is isr mitzvah of israel and israel is going to see in a second which is the same case just happens to be that shimon is a cayenne and that urushami lady is a divorcee and rouvey married a divorcee illegally he shouldn't have they both had him of course if shimon is he's also and now a gruesome falls beebo to marry grusha is love so what do you do khalita no ibum akhoi very interesting case listen to this oops why is that there here we go so we have two brothers married to two sisters and they both go bye-bye the two brothers go by the problem is that one of the sisters happens to be lavies where's levy today oh he's in another country he's traveling again okay hi levy one is in dubai i want to say it all over the world the youth is also in america chicago somewhere fine there's only one left here it's not really here it's a musselton fine so two two sisters fall to levy but here's the situation if you look underneath leia it says khalasi she happens to be levy's daughter-in-law from another marriage once upon a time she was his daughter-in-law a daughter-in-law you can never marry daughter-in-law even she got married to another guy even she even if she marry your brother so now this this woman leia never fell to lavy she can't fall so who falls to levy the other sister typically two sisters can't fall to one man because it's as if you're married to two sisters but since one of them is your own daughter-in-law so she's erased we don't we don't we ignore her she never fell and melissa says in this case lady could be miyabim rocco even though she's a sister yeah because leia never felt them why didn't she evolve him because she's very very related to lady she's his daughter-in-law yeah did i lose everybody here good is sir mitzvah now the mission explains what is the submission it is that's the servo that has yeah but it's together with sisters it's sisters plus it's a big hit here when you no you can't do you right on the second one that's the that's because this is the one sister didn't fall she's not at sorrow the only time you can't do evil is when they're co-wives one of them is not a co-wife because she never fell it's like as if one of them is islanders no no if the the two brothers so first one fell and then the other one first you had the the kala so we ignore her if they fall simultaneously you're right that's the first mission they fell together beta and somebody else together and one nephilim you have two brothers there's two different deaths you have a death that that gave him a kala and then we say she she has no connection then what right the the first mission is simultaneously says says the mishnah what's isra mitzvah medivh that we saw now as a side note we know that arias is the biggest sahara so hakama made another gether in fact it's called gilui arise why anybody ever think why is it called gili arise because the idea is that once you're megala once you uncover something it's already too late before you even even have vera once you get to the step of giloi then you're done so you a person has to be careful not even to reveal because once you reveal he most likely will be over that veil so ham went ahead and made it together they made even more your son's daughter-in-law is also awesome to you because we've got to stay away from this stuff what does this igusha mean almana in other words every time he obama falls to a congoto she's an almana so a kind god can't be me many any time now the grusha though how does how does a grusha fall to you you're a client and your brother's a kind so how did you ever get a divorcee here because your brother did a navera your brother married a divorcee and when when he goes bye-bye this divorcee falls to you now what should you do you have to be me having her you can't live with her it's also every minute you're with her it's awesome every time you're with her it's awesome not every minute every time or halito was performed on this woman before and this is the second husband that died for her mam zeres una sinhal israel a woman who was the maamza or an asino it's the nation that fooled yeshua they came and he made them quite simple he gave them jobs he was upset at them but they forced him into being gayrim so he said you can't marry them go chop wood draw water but we're not marrying you israel lunas okay so these are issued israel means the governor's going to explain why is it called khadej because it has to do with the the terrorists who use the lush and gdusha with dz surum so we have israel which is arise we have israel mitzvah which means the rabons only that mean the rights you allowed to marry your son's daughter-in-law but added it and then we have issues what is this cloud coming to tell us what is it coming to add says the gemara check this out let's say married a goat a isle highlanders is a woman who can't have children right physically she has all the simonimo violence she has a different deep voice she can't have children so we had a whole study about it that if a person marries an islandist and he also had another wife but i in since she doesn't count guduravasi because islanus is a woman who can't give birth and it says in the positive i should tale it so gibum doesn't apply to her because the whole point of evil is to have a child like is very nice if though the wife the this yobama force you and she happens to be a daughter an irva a sister an erva great but what did this iron lady do nothing she's not an error to you she's not used to you she has a bodily defect she can't give birth but that's not a herva she falls into a problem in the torah russia tailored but that's not ereva that doesn't create a that doesn't create a problem in some mellows some say that an island is not part of this halloween service with the like here of asia this comes to exclude what is this case talking about elimination mitzvah it can't be just uh it's the rabban on giving them the rights of ramyka may since you have two sisters where is that here you have two sisters that fall to one brother and instead of saying kala right over here it's gonna say a son's a son's caller your son's daughter-in-law well midday risa both of these women just fell to levy who cares that maduro bono would we don't allow lady to marry his son's daughter-in-law so you have two sisters that felt him if two sisters fall down what happens both of them are out pogba ella joseph so you can't say it's talking about a son's daughter-in-law has to be your daughter-in-law she doesn't fall to you and that leaves wide open the ability for you to be miyabam her own sister now i think amara says why wha what's the lush washing mitzvah what is this says it's a mitzvah to listen remember i'm going to i mentioned beautiful stories last night it was his yard site last week he says there's one excuse they can use in shaman only one excuse because excuses don't really work one excuse no what is it if you tell the urbanist i did what my wrath told me to do maybe it was wrong but he told me to do it your partner if you listen to europe if you go to the raven you ask him what to do and he tells you what to do and you did it that's it then you could say you died your day shuffles we're we're knocking we have nothing to do with this says and then it says the next passage is they can't marry divorcee why they should he's he has geducho okay has more douche he can't marry the gurus so therefore because the word kedaishim and kadash they're called isagidusa tanya review the makhan for you that flips it around isra mitzvah when the mission talks about a mitzvah it's talking about it so it's a general thing for the entire home these are the mitzvahs so we're calling it a mitzvah it's in several vayikra and it's a mitsu it says that a question should i marry a divorcee it's a mitzvah let's call this image a person should add in addition to what is awesome you should add another layer of protection you have all these arayas the 15. add another layer one generation down up whatever add another layer now if you look in the metals sharing which i did this morning in uh shire preachers it talks about um which one is i think it's like you gimmel or something um forgot to write it down but he talks about what is precious and he goes through this gemara kadesh as he brings all the suggests that say on the one hand a person should be perished this on the other hand you should enjoy oil you should do whatev gave you all these things to and if you if you fast you're russia and you're this you're that and it's good to fast it's not good too fast what is it and all the way and i said this once and it's a little controversial fine i'm not going to go into it 100 percent but look at the message of charming he says like this he says this is the cloud anything that is not a hacker that you don't need stay away from anything that you need is muther if you feel that it's a need so you have to go in the guy was upset what does it mean you feel to me it's time you want a steak that's feeling that you need okay i ain't trying to figure it out yourself but when it's a need it's muthur when it's not in need it's awesome because he says because if you're pirates you do tanay and do things like that you're a height of the gemara says okay rebrevis says as a side note and we spoke about this i it's cadet to bring it up once in a while reverend says when you when you're eating at a meal it's motor to you to fill up your plate that's what you feel you want to eat but once you're done with that plate and you take more now you're a fresher there's another even more important side and that's the tightness arrived and we spoke about this also the rivet says is a beautiful thing every plate that you have leave something over i know people that go crazy can't leave anything over in the plane if you don't finish the plate they put it back in the refrigerator and they force it theater the next day that's arriving you're showing and he says that this is what's beautiful if you leave something over in your plate it's more hush of than fasting it's burning the shari truva tennis arriving so we shine him just leave something over in your play don't finish your whole play okay it's just the mission doesn't tell you what kind of valmana what happened and then what does it say the next possible it's a positive do take absolutely in other words any time a kangaroo marries in almana he's over on two things a lois assay of almanac but what if it's only been erasing this woman she's not a real amana a full-fledged monday she's a half an hour in other words somebody is makatish her and he died so she is absula she's just an almana she's an almana but absolutely so you have the problem of loika you don't have the problem with mussolika the mission didn't differentiate even if it's just the license say allah alone without answer i understand if she was married completely so it's two against one you have a voice against the mitzvah of she falls the coin god he cannot be me because it's a mystery but and it's only an essay and this is against you should be able to marry her and this is what kumar is going to be dealing with you know the kumar says all the way all the way to anchor i tell you the secret there's a way out of it you're right theoretically it's true but there's another way out what kalitsa says until we get there we have to go through a whole bunch of stuff over again omacro voss even the ashara rav has especially mode this one particular ifama she gets khalid some foreign it's referring to women like a grusha turkayen or el monotokoin weba have increases maybe the puzzle is talking about worse than a kai vlad so it's high priestess that she let's say your daughter falls to you you give her khalid oh my crow yeah it's because he doesn't want to take her to miami seems like he has a choice he could be me so why are you telling me he's talking about that case says rakhmani of india but i don't know what to do on the one hand it says you you should give khalid so and you're right what do you do um you saw so we had the same question yesterday i could go to the right i could go to the left i don't know which direction to go the target gives me two options don't give khalidsa do du khalifa what should i do so what do you do in every case like that usually you do what's svara logic mr brock heavy lifetime's a big condition don't get nervous here he goes again he's leaving again in the middle of vomits he left last night he gave him a hard time having christos like that you know why because if a queen does marry a grusha the condition is cow he has the divorcer but it's a good condition when it comes to hypocrisis if a father tries to be much his own daughter nothing doing massive rub okay sponsored by moshi horning on shmuley sugar the original sugar shaker sponsored in honor of ed kinzversky brian's birthday and iron miller for learning the doll muscle brother what happens bellow he was over he's miami or he performs nifty wrote sarasota it works the tsar doesn't need khalid's okay love me the right so what did it help me to be me it doesn't zero the torah says this woman do not do ibum and you went ahead and you didn't listen to the third of the debut what is that worth a big fat zero it's nothing humous of love um he loved this question so much he said an answer let's dance you're right your the question is beautiful and therefore when when we read it we didn't read it correctly masa bravo three lines from the top is mitsubishi if you have these two cases wait a minute bala goes to one case khalsa goes to the other case it's not you have two cases and you did two things to the two cases it's one-on-one well it's done katani it's half and half when it's only is it works but if this isn't a raisa and you're miaber it doesn't work that's they have to read it masarava petsu adaku khrushchev okay now we're talking about the male reproductive system if let's say specifically the bait sim the gig if they are crushed severed even the git the bris is severed this will shock a lot of people it's a very very sad thing let's say a person has shaman's in a car accident and his baits him were severed you know what he has to do is divorce his wife it's unbelievable even if they could surgically repair everything and he's back to normal 100 percent divorce his wife it's aposic in ontario it's unbelievable it's shocking it's hard to understand it's hard to fathom and that's it here we'll see more but these are i saw this in in paiskim you have a man that went through the war and that russian virus i don't even want to mention his name doctor whatever his name is did a a scientific test on him and severed his is beto he can't get married after the war also he could get married to to he cannot marry israel is unbelievable it's very sad but it's it's true now zakia and if you look in the grove here on the side there's a big alif here zakin is a whole different category zucken is a man who can't have kids anymore because he's old but he's he could marry her just he shouldn't if there's another brother let the other brother do it he's not in the same category as a soros sterile person so what do they do so we're going to see it doesn't mean they should perform evil they're not lateral he's not allowed people call he's not getting married it means if he's over and he go and he's miabim it's good by the way there's uh there's one old man sitting on a bench and he's crying this guy came over he said why cry he says i was just me i'm my my brother's wife so so why are you crying i forgot where we live thesaurus dies and he has brothers and wives of also my ministry say him and the brothers went and did a mimer they gave them kidus does it get work could you give a vamagette only in the raw bottom and the rice it doesn't work at all you have to give khalid but if you give a get it says if you say i don't want her anymore it works in the rabbit [Music] they shouldn't have been doing any evil here right it's also for them kano voss or the kaiman but they cannot keep them now this is not referring to the zakin says rashi zagging could keep on marrying her but thesaurus has to get rid of her right away now we're going back asking a question around rob is still asking questions rap says the puzzle says that if there's a hive eleven you could do it right so there's no way you could do ibum imbalance so what does it help me that it did ye bomb there's no evil in this case so how how were they kind of this yobama it was illegal what they did by the way there was there's a whole save for shambhalam that the khopsheim wrote just for people in this situation that can't have kids they're married for a long time can have kids i wanted to bring it's a quarry here to show the islam one of the nisim of khan kanewski we had him here a year ago he was married for 22 years he lives right over here two doors down from the basement and he went through kamikaze and he said i don't have kids and everybody get up gave up on him of course 22 years he went for every treatment possible konkaniski told him if he builds a mikvah he'll have a child so the everybody jumped into action the community got together money how much did they raise two hundred thousand dollars and basically nine months and a day later as part of my book nine months in a day nine months a day from the day that they did the inauguration of the mikvah he had a baby girl and so walking you see this girl every day every time i see the baby i walk over i say it's a miracle from hashem 22 years married okay we had to bring him up here to say the mice again huh marry the obama it's one answer against another against the mitzvah the mitzvah should win if it was menerusen if there's only a problem with like not that she's she is absula but there's a probably ego so it's a nice essay against that say of what's stronger a mitzvah navera we said amitsu always wins that's the license says rav i'll tell you why because regardless there's another i say no matter what doesn't say here even if she's absula i'm gonna raise her if you're in america it's the past we read today if you're in israel like us yesterday we just read in shmini you know how to eat all these non-kosher animals it says viscadistem so but it doesn't really talk about arias and almana is talking about animals but nevertheless you have a hero of viscadishna let's see if we have the possibility look at this passing islam it's an amazing part of kenya it's good for us just to read it and to think about it for a second you should make yourself kaddish and graduation why should you because you have to emulate because you have anything in your life you should make yourself college whatever that means for every person el amarova zera monument eris in autumn soon oh now the gemara is going to go off he says it's zero you're gonna might confuse you agree with me that if this almana was already completely married so she's not absulu anymore so now when you're me having me over two things allah says so i have to be concerned even in the case where you don't have dase of basulem nevertheless you might get confused oh the says he might get confused memphis doesn't see michaela maymar what about him because if i say that you'll either marry her by e-boom you might marry her in a regular situation you might get confused there'll never be any eboom thai's just talks about exactly what the case is but the the point is if you're going to make zerus so you might confuse a brother your brother from a father from a brother with a mother which there's no evil in that case says no nobody will get confused that has to do with yerusha no the idea people know to be the eboom only applies to brothers from one father so ishain lebanon in other words every event in the world should not create yi bomb but this explains yesterday you might get confused with a woman that has children you might be me but i'm talia everybody knows that it's made the idea people won't get confused says in other words a regular case of is the brother's wife you should that you should be us about the little you sahara guy is everybody knows has to do with being together in the same world at the same time says [Music] mitzvot everything after that is not the mitzon so when you're with amam serious for the very first time yes she's a mom serious yes she's also to you ese the mitzvah pushes off the issue from zerus what about the next day the next day she remains in marseilles and you don't have a mitzvah that's the problem you might not want to divorce her anymore you might forget about it you might keep her on and finally we have these terrorists love nilsi damari forget about all these xaviers and everything i said says zarova no that's not the shot dominus you're right theoretically the midst of ye bomb should push off the the aveira of almana or whatever hakanami but in our case i say you could get you could kill everything two birds with one stone ducha you'll be making the mists of ibum you won't be over in any available monologue and that's it so why are you asking me that the cayenne should marry the guru show or the coincodes what are you going to do with this it says that it does work you're telling me it's not going to work because it's khalitza and you can do khalitza there's no way in the world you could do eboom but it says before that if he didn't it works how does that that doesn't make sense according to what you just answered accordingly just answered evil should not work why because you have a way out of it through khalito to yufta that's a bomb question on what we just said have a wonderful day you