Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 121 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Laughter] ah everybody baltimore come on [Music] [Laughter] [Music] is [Music] i [Music] oh [Music] good morning rad boy to be here in baltimore thank you thank you so much for coming out it's a tremendous crazy what a way to start the trip on the east coast you know i was in chicago for five days i had a bar mitzvah there my nephew but i was worried coming to the east coast what is it going to be like tomorrow i'm giving a shirt and a basement somewhere coming out here the feeling of meeting so many people tonight so many people introduce themselves i have to say like this is the first time that literally five people came over to me and said my wife knew your mother my mother-in-law knew your mother i am your mother i did unbelievable but ishkaya thank you for coming out the sheer the way it is is a effort of first of all all the people that listen to the share all the people that schlepping friends to come listen and come join tyrod come get a free gamora you have perez heim levin who drove in from brooklyn to set up a table to convince maybe i'll get another 10 20 people it's kadai every square firms can die it doesn't matter how much he has to drive how far but when i come to baltimore the first thing you think about of course is your official official your official was with us from brock's death base all the way in the beginning when we were still in our infancy he used to come with a taxi every day when he was in energy stroll day after day had the taxi parked outside of mdy he wanted to see what this why did they build a building just for that via me what is it what's going on here and he became a real partner he's a person that doesn't stop for a second you notice every day when we have a mishna the official mishna because he decided that mdy needs a little money this is a great way to raise cash he's going to give x amount of money for the rest of shas his name is going to be on every mishna then he had a brainstorm why don't we raise money when we turn the page we'll call it turning of the daf so now bar hashem we limited it to two sponsors every time we turned off the brainstorm official because he's there to be marbet's torah to increase torah and then reboy say you're not going to believe this one he doesn't stop pestering but ellie when are you going to do the official line every line is going to be the official line i said how much official hundred thousand dollars i said no way 250 now we're talking so now we're in discussions now the official line sim and movie commentary game the official line about that's how that's how he wants it to be but the boy says seriously he's a person that used his ingenuity is that a real word it's a punishmental word he doesn't stop thinking of ways how to increase torah and claudius role in fact i don't know i said it yesterday without his rush i'll say it again today without israel official is donating a hundred thousand dollars to massachusetts to give other people and clay israel a chance to learn torah it's unbelievable i think that deserves a round of applause [Applause] the other thing so you're talking about official but mdy is a whole group of people behind the scenes tonight we have with us that he flew in all the way from energy stroll gary bemosher right over here the tech guy all the way in the back in the left corner the last guy on the left tomorrow levy always sits in the back left corner flew in from mary cicero standing up he's our executive director and we also have with us avi kamianski one of the bowman brothers also flew in for meredith israel just the beer tonight so is your kayak i met somebody i don't know if you could come up here but to me it was a tremendous cause to learn that cantor david newman might be one of our oldest members at the ripe young age of 94. he is daffing away day after day get over here i don't know if he could come come get over here bring him from over here it is unbelievable no rabboissai [Applause] i'll go to him you don't say get over here to a 94 year old you're a cantor yes could you do the good morning raboisei very good okay how long are you doing this year with us about a couple of years a couple years yes when you're ripe old 92 i think uh somewhere about there by the way yeah i tell you i see you every day on the screen yeah i get great zakus seeing you in person yeah and what you're doing you're learning gives me greater emphasis in my other learning areas wow it's a pleasure meeting you thank you here they give the whole isla maybe one round of the whole the beautiful zebra here in baltimore unbelievable crowd ishikayaki scouts official again for all the food the very tasty dinner that we had before there's good food out there rabbi all right we don't have that much time for uh emails but we'll do them anyways dan muscuit says on my way to toronto see him because i'm going to be in toronto based on shame on sunday so he's doing like a five-day trip to toronto seeing the neflores hubbard on the way road tripping from calgary to toronto got this great shot learning in one of canada's national parks on the edge of lake superior it's a struggle to learn without reception in canada's north but that effort makes it feel so much sweeter when getting the days da fin what else do we have here oh there's a long one oh but nevertheless we have to say we have to read it we are three high school boys because when high school boys learn your vomit it's a tremendous tremendous thing from the uk you started learning the daf with you two of us started at maricotto one at sukkah none of us has ever missed the daf except the pg ones okay and together brought several classmates to the deaf as well we're so enthralled and encouraged that we decided together to work back on the massetes that we haven't done yet net we now learn every night together because of you we have started to fit more learning to our daily routine even with all the school work which we have had recently after all it's not about the daf it's about the yummy i'm so proud of these guys we'd really love to come to new jersey to the next major see them raboisai i believe that everybody here should get in the car and come to new jersey it's going to be a moment of kid hashem like you've never seen before the feeling i the one that we did and if it's anything like ramapi chambers but this is going to be even bigger and better i had i was on cloud nine for like a month later it's kadai i'm telling you it's kadai we really love to come to there are people here by the way that drove him from new york to be here for this year so you guys could drive from here to go to the to new jersey it's only two and a half hours or something because of you and if garrison ben moshe drives you it's an hour and a half so we'd really love to come to new jersey for the next major scene [Music] you tell me them ari please don't read this out loud dania rubinoff higher belly sorry i'm going to be missing the big seal in new jersey but i'm here i'm enjoying the one in rbs i met mayor planca mayor plunkett from toronto bazel shah will see him there i think i hope kevin rashbee miron we are part of the mdy family best regards dan rubinoff and here's a picture of the siem matches the old daf cium in manchester the mdy all that i've seen in manchester all right if i could read this without my glasses the partners foreign today sponsoring ilana price in honor official sara lee simcha margie groves and the entire girls family for all that they do to support and enhance entire learning for all of clyde's role by david dimbert in honor of the wedding of joseph dimbard and rochelle friedman i heard i was asking about him how come you're out there in chicago he made a wedding some mazel tov thank you they should be so able to build a bike novice roll and by jonathan babakov spiegelman in honor of the engagement of their daughter devorah tyrielle marcus from toronto mazel tov lauren see i have to read these things in order to know that he made an engagement wow you guys know lauren is right he sits on the table every day by perez heim levin a biggest shakoya actor official for paris crime get over here if you're in the room for all that he does andy why he's outside giving out gamora's first friendship to me and my family for being partially responsible for me joining this year you're partially responsible for getting him so every guy that he gets you get dividends come come here without knocking over the camera ishkoyak or paris heim you're sadik i love you you drove all the way from brooklyn to give out gemara's over here unbelievable how many guys did you sign up maybe 30 people 30 people you mean there's more people that never saw this year than okay wow hi ellis you know everybody can be a paris county levin it doesn't have to be him you can get one guy your neighbor that doesn't learn toyota or learns toyota or something bring him on you know what i'm saying okay we are starting from a brand new mishna which means it's like a brand new suggyo daf alef which means we are only to dab them away from the end of the maserta it's unbelievable it's a beautiful beautiful daf it's very very geshmak and if this is your first day in yavamas no this doesn't represent yvonne's this is more of an agatha gemara says if a person drowned being she is whether you could see the outskirts of the the banks of the water bain chain lam saif whether the water just keeps on going ishtai asura we're going to see a pella digger thing there's a very very beautiful idea here in the mishnah and that is that when khachamem establish it has an effect on our nature on the on the matthias on the fact did us a favor in a way by them saying we're going to see throughout the surgery today by them saying that a woman is user to get married we cannot assume that her husband is dead by drowning that enables people to escape drowning because if ham would have pasquened that she could get married right away so in essence what they're saying is that somebody that get drowns in the water he's dead on the spot so in matsias he would die right away but i'm saying that she's user they're telling nature that hey this guy has a chance that's what that is speaking about him is a guy that fell into a great pit full of water but he came up after three days so you see that he could survive three days the gemara's gonna discuss was he submerged i mean the gamora doesn't really discuss we're gonna come out with some sort of idea what happened over here you see myself a little bit there was a blind man who went into a cave the yard of he had a shadow he had somebody that accompanied him and they both went into the cave the show they should taste in afghan they have i'm a diver also there's something called cave diving it's probably the most dangerous definitely the most dangerous diving you can do but it's it's beyond that it's one of the most dangerous things a human being can do but anyway they go in there to dive maybe without the equipment in those days and they didn't come out so they start counting one minute two minutes 20 minutes how long could they be submerged and survive the history they said their their wives could get married here again is a very bad example of during shiva as the wives are sitting shiva for their husbands they come and read a shidduch for their wives hey you know your husband just died what a tragedy terrible you know but you know i have a very good shidduch for you what do you say and then the mission says if he wasn't immediately after shiva they got married that's my own little shot but it just reminded me of a mystic i just said it last week but i hope i didn't say it in sheer i told somebody this is a true story my next door neighbor loyal lost his 20 year old son two years ago something like that like two years ago and he told me that during shiva a guy came over to him and asked him does your son did he eat a lot of barackus because barakas could cause heart attacks people say the most ridiculous things during shiva and uh it's probably not a good idea to read shidduchim either during shiva so this is the amazing story that we had yesterday where they lowered a guy off the ship they tied some sheets to his leg and they lowered him down and they said go get go fetch whatever pearls you see down there and they're holding him tight don't worry he'll pull you up before they're able to pull him up comes a shark and eats most of his body but he left the leg tied to the rope so now they pull up the rope and lo and behold their friend is gone but he left them his shoe and part of his leg depends if it's a fatal wound it's a wound that's going to cause trey for above the knee so she we could assume he's dead how long exactly have to wait because a trey fell could survive 12 months to neither could she get married immediately the next day or she has to wait 12 months i mean she can never get married right away just to wait three three months anyway but three months 12 months okay but you can get married based on the foot imagine if the foot didn't come up that would be if i acted sorry because maybe it's mine shane i'm sorry if maybe he found the submarine or something or a tuna and he he got out of there but now that we have his leg we know that he sustained a very major injury mma law he could get married but if the wound was below the knee then she can't get married because perhaps he survived turnaround novel she is so we have a a pretty big daf here with a lot of words so we have to pick up pace a little bit soy bench is fall into water that you can't see the edges or you could see the edges if you could see the edges so it's less of a kid because where is he he didn't show up i don't know if i said the story about say it again i was a 12 year old kid i was in a camp and we were doing this trip in eduardo called naha yuhudia and we're in yo dia dia and there's a 12 meter i think waterfall most people they come from the top and they jump into the water and they swim across this body of water but because we were younger we were like 12 years old they didn't want us jumping so they wanted us to go across the water they didn't think it through very well because everybody was very thirsty some kids dehydrated they fainted and a lot of us didn't know how to swim across this big body it's a large body of water so anyways this guy on top he was a shiva ball his name was maimon and he goes jumped in and he never came out and here's the hope camp and we're watching and we're counting where is he and he never he never surfaced and we realized that he's dead he's under the water and there's a terrible terrible tragedy and they had to bring the army and they had to bring the body out and we're all watching this as 12 year olds whatever don't send your kids to that camp and i just draw um i'm sure it doesn't exist anymore but it was main schlemsoife it was a body of water the size of this room let's say there was edges you could see that the guy didn't come out it was obvious that he's not alive that where is he he jumped from the top of the waterfall where is he i don't know ask avi is that thing still open these days where is avi zavi coming on scare they still have that nacho deal because sometimes they close it down so so sometimes it's a very dangerous place anyway been closed for years if it has no edge then maybe the guy got out somewhere you don't know like yeah i know they they grabbed him and finished hold on you stroll hey dummy i brought that story true story the guy in australia i think was australia the shark whale whale shark swallowed him alive and then spit him out somewhere so you're not going to see that it's going to be two miles later what does it mean if you stand in one place you can see all four sides that's a man who drowned in the swamp antivirus said his wife could get married omale ravishmaul the famous duo raven shmuel the goddess tell shmuel tony let's put this rasheela what business does he have saying that his wife could get married based on drowning in a swamp without recovering the body he says slow down before you put in maharam let's see let's be damn liberation let's ask him what happened chocolate so they asked them teres this swamp is not unlimited it's not ocean it has it has borders so what do you say what's that she says oh i'm getting you know if and what do you say about this uh body of water this swamp shalom so according to of sheila right now this agam is in los safe and so then why did you say the wife is mother oh i got you um you know what he said i made a mistake you can make an honest mistake a guy came over to me tonight i don't know if he's here i hope he's not here anymore he said you know i used to watch your i don't want to share anymore you said this and this and this once in an email i said i'm sorry i don't remember what you're saying but it wasn't right well you said okay sorry you know especially me i i told them i said i don't have a filter really and the fact that you that i'm only saying these things once every six months or once every two days is a big cut me some slack people make mistakes even the cover with kaimi i thought i'm explaining my mistake i thought that since the waters gathered you know it's a swamp swamp land you know you go to florida there's swamps over there so it's kamehameha shish lem soy dummy i thought that you know there's no waves so if a guy goes in over here how is he gonna get out uh you know two miles later there's no waves so valahi you know what my mistake was kevin dickengale but the r waves you know why because the wind comes and it makes waves etc hey mongalia so maybe you know the they asked uh rabbisical khan inspector the galadore they said this arov he made a terrible terrible mistake in allah we need to fire him so rubisco hanan wrote back that that rob is right it's not a mistaken al-laha he was right so then wow he's right and then two days later they got a letter from music no i made a mistake he was wrong he wanted to show them that robot will make mistakes it's possible so the rob made mistakes because he made a mistake you're going to fire him raphael made a mistake and for that rav wanted to put him hire him so karishmullah laid the rav tada kolovan rav almost made a boo boo hair rav almost made the mistake forget rav sheila rasheelah i made a mistake in allah but rob almost made a mistake that he almost put rafshil and hair in for no reason without finding out and seeing that he did chuva he felt bad and he made a mistake so rav was saved nothing bad is going to happen to the tati koi rava laid the shmuel and rav then said a passage to shmuel ushua beravy and my salvation who saved me they ate the yayats shmoop there were people two people that were putting out nets in the iron in the jordan river and one of them went into some sort of cave where the fish hang out the chocolate [Music] this reminds me again the story that happened with the in thailand i think it was where was it three years ago 13 boys and a coach soccer team they go into a cave they're looking around the cave all of a sudden a storm water starts coming by and they got stuck and they couldn't go into the back into the cave right they got stuck in a room and the whole world was thinking what's going on with them are they dead are they alive and they survived how many days like two weeks almost no whatever it was two weeks something with sugar they were just drinking water that was dripping off the ceiling of the cave it's mad was like this they go in they go into something she'll dug him and all of a sudden they don't know how to get out and everybody decided that they're dead [Music] what would you do you come home and you hear the making a big hesp in your house i would wait outside listen to the whole husband see what they're saying the guy goes in they say i don't i don't know if it's 100 true but i heard this a while ago that the nobel prize i don't remember the guy's name is alfred siegfried whatever their names were these the guy that invented dynamite one day they they decide this is the rumor i don't know if it's true ein chum they he read in an obituary about his was they thought his brother died but they thought it's the inventor of the dynamite that died so they wrote a whole thing what a russia what a jerk he caused so much death and pain in the world and there he is reading his own obituary he couldn't believe what the world is saying about him so right then and there he decided to do the nobel prize and give out millions of dollars and give all his husband away but it happens yeah a guy comes home and he hears a hespid about himself they're being masked with him because everybody was sure that he's dead again we're talking about is it possible for somebody to survive different situations and how how sure are you that this person is dead it's not over it ain't over till it's over but in certain situations when we know we see a line ripping at the guy's head like we had yesterday or certain bodies of water that's not possible or even in bodies of water a doctor came over to me afterwards i forgot i still forgot the name forgot there's a it's a look it up it's called diving reflex it's possible to survive under water for an hour or two hours whatever it is if the body is cold and the body shuts down and you don't you don't fight it you don't drink the water then the body goes like almost semi unconscious soda and gives a little look it up there's a certain syndrome so it's possible to survive so a guy was there for 15-20 minutes it's impossible he's alive okay his wife is able to get back not true maybe it is possible maybe found a little cave maybe this maybe that we don't know and this is what these zachariah are pointing out look how great the words of him are so the simple meaning is look they have that not everybody dies in the water but according to this established a rule in the world by them saying the bells of khasi told me that the belzer of or one of the the bells of rabbit however they call them he passed in that when you go on a plane you don't say again why because to establish a rule that it's not a sakana you should know it really isn't the sakana but that's a different story so they come in they established a rule in nature they don't necessarily die right away from water so if a guy gets lost in a big body of water you could you don't know you can't establish that he's dead okay in a big ocean how can we not concern maybe found some hole somewhere and he has oxygen because it's not so common to find those kind of the fish some explain the fish create these holes or whatever so if it's a smaller body of water they created larger bodies of water or not ameribashi is and a regular person why these solid colors like when the timer pops out imagine a goggle comes out oh everybody starts talking about it rumors before whatsapp before internet things traveled only certain times so if it's a simple person nobody cares about thomas everybody knows about vlad says no mobile network doesn't matter who it is so if she went ahead and she got married fine we're not going to make her get divorced but we don't tell her she could get divorced she could get married rabbi said this is a very very famous gemara their mayor shapiro used this when he's trying to even kleistro to do that we have a tremendous acoustic type to remain shapiro one man one idea one of the most powerful ideas that chrysler will ever had and he used this gemara aurora leo marcus i have no charge today for whatever reason let's just say i was flying and the plane got delayed and then canceled and went to another gate and then official said i don't have time to prepare so this is the only chart i was able to pull up my favorite chart who's wrong i'm leo leo is the great grandson of hillary zakin yeah villa zakin rip shimon gamaliel azakin i'm shimmingham leo raving emily fine i'm in a ship and i look over and i see a broken vessel take a look and it says on it i don't know titanic or whatever i noticed the name and i know that on that ship is the galadar umano ribakiva he's going down he's drowning so i'm very bizarre rebecca is no longer with us suddenly all of a sudden he's talking to me and learning what happened omartyloid bini a board from the ship was floating by and i grabbed on to it no it doesn't get any better than this one day before the end of the messerta you grab onto the daf saves you the gal of a gal shabbalai na neither roshi roshi i want to elaborate a little bit more maybe by the seam but every wave that came by i ducked the wave and i went right there and i was saved says romero shapiro saved by the daf the torah the tires would save me all right hashem will will schmooze a little bit more about it when you get attacked by a russia you nana li roshi like the gal the enemy comes so you duck you don't you don't go head to head with it and over here you have a case where he actually survived another very similar story now this time it's rebecca veroisi [Music] i saw a boat about to go down i was very bit sorry about it i was on the boat but what are you doing here i thought you died in the ocean how'd you get it same story same lotion one wave passed me over to the other wave the chavez and another one to achieve until you spit out to the to dry land now the question is why would did rebecca kiva ask him benimiya elka it happened to rebechiva the story right before river kiva had the same situation and he was saved by daf so what is he asking her mayor i mean okay miss tama you grabbed onto the daf and you were saved but mayor doesn't answer that he had a duff ramirez says he had a wave got him so perhaps the answer is that it was a little bit different rebecciva's ship broke up it says by rebukiba that his boat broke up completely and he grabbed on to adaf but by remember it doesn't say that it says mithorefes and that the entire ship went down so it's possible there was nothing to hold on to and therefore mayor was so rebeccivo was inspired had you i saw your ship going down i didn't see any survivors i didn't see any wood that you could grab i saw all ship go down somebody said you're right it's a much bigger i actually had to swim the waves i wasn't i didn't have a flotation device but we'll have to explain it a little bit better what's a gal sometimes you have to duck under a gal sometimes you ride the gal alright when there's borders and you don't see the person surviving his wife is motor my limbs there's no there's no end ish you don't never know when he's going to come out and therefore the ship this happened obviously in open waters in the ocean and you see survival of vermeil revoking it was i don't know there's not so much you don't have to laugh this is not so much for baltimore but this is the island of new york say this uh this guy's gonna yell at me that i have no filter but i i ca it's a whatever if you think it's inappropriate let me know we'll erase it later but there was a seminary girls who are in the zoonergist role and they wanted to they wanted to know when when there's going to be the lying the lion feeding when they're going to feed the lions so they asked the guy mattaya gilliarias [Laughter] all right so who said it ah that's what i said brooklyn doesn't count okay tell those background they wrote me the email they shouldn't listen to that one okay fine all right um so where were we so we have over here the lions um no fella goeber rose this this one guy over there in the left side he loves the good morning he's listening to it over and over here like i don't hear it okay whatever nobody every royce amid the love huh novel governor roy say me either my love if he fell into the lines then you cannot testify that he is dead now i'll just tell you from my own experience not my own experience i never really jumped into the line but lions in general they don't eat people it's not a thing now if a lion is very hungry or very sick and old that's a different story but a lion if you bump into a lion in the jungle chances are he's probably going to take a left turn and book out of there i'm just saying now if they threw them into a guy by royce they threw them into a pit with hungry lions that's a different story that's like daniel is that something else you can't get out of there they probably didn't feed these lions in six days they're gonna eat you no it's a passing in the tire that says that lions are scared all animals are scared it's it's a passing and voracious now if it's full of snakes and scorpions by the way in this week's pirate show we have the nakashim that came to los shinjaro the snakes bite even when they're not hungry they're going to attack especially if you're in a tight space with them they're going to attack reverb you're going to say roy mayer so therefore you could assume the guy is dead review them saying all of you don't you can't assume that a guy is dead if just because he fell in there why kaishina maybe he's a snake whisperers that lush and rasheed says he knows how to tame snakes the boys they could all thank fishel for this one sponsored by moishe horn in honor of rabbits feminizki the only rebbe he came up with this that's officials ham saw the only rebbe that was actually good at basketball sponsored by nissan la salla and gashmi from ranakash for for introducing me to mdy with anakama how much time do we have when do we start show malekan how are you huh for real five minutes for for 45 minutes or for an hour you're hockey in china okay it's a masculine when you step on a snake it's not a very good idea so since he's in a small little pit usually the pits are small for the snakes the the lions are in wider places doesn't mean you're stepping on his head but a snake you're going to step on him so he'll attack tonight he fell into a fiery pit meeting a love he could assume that he's consumed by the fire meshemen a boiling pot of wine or oil me then allah he's going to not make it olive oil he's not going to make it because even the oil that spills on the sides i'm not exactly sure the whole how this works this suggyo i would assume that boiling oil and rash he says his body goes into shock that he can't jump out he doesn't have a chance if a person falls in you think okay jump right out you get third degree burns no his body just it he gets a shock and he can't get out and then just keeps on getting worse and worse but oil that spills off the side let's say he jumps in here and the oil spills to the side it's going to ignite the fire more it's going to be worse for him shall yain ain't me even all of you could survive hot hot wine i don't know how hot but hot but because when he jumps in the wine spills over the surface of the clay and puts out the flames oberlo she lost not true yes it might go out for a second but then it'll come back with revenge and it will kill him omer mayor mighty because and he came out the commissioner says the story a guy fell and he came out three days later may remasking myself okay also fell into a pit full of nikashima survived we're not talking about nisim don't talk about nissan let's talk about natural happenings what is why do you consider that an ace that he fell in and he survived three days it was because he didn't need her drink boxing esther don't she's telling everybody fast forward for three days so it's possible to starve yourself for three days and not die hello what happened was he wasn't able to sleep for three days he's treading water for three days that's impossible that you die from if a person says i swear that i'm not going to sleep for three days since it's impossible and he's over is today right so for making a schwa you give him a zed you give him malcus miyaza after and he can go to sleep right away because it's impossible not to sleep for three days i remember the tsugi over there we're talking about this guy uh blaine he stays up for days upon days more than three days so you're talking about it then i i don't remember don't quote me at all but i think one of the shocking that we had there was not that it's impossible to stay up a person is going to fall asleep not that it kills you if you do for if you are up for three days if a person is up for more than three days it doesn't mean that you're going to die from it like the gemara seems like something it just means that's impossible because you your body is going to close down and fall asleep remember why is it not considered a nice according to remain now keep it on keep in mind there's little ledges over there in this bar of god though he was able to grab onto something and therefore he survived rabban in the shay shahab but they were very slippery or made out of marble he couldn't grab onto it it doesn't say in the gemara that he has to sleep eight hours it says that in the three days he has to sleep no so maybe you have to dremel like that guy over there for for ten seconds not just pointing in general i wasn't sleeping just a little bit it's hopping a 10-second dream okay unbelievable story or a voice you have here a goddess of them how do i know he goes without says that this was a very very hush of a man but what did this hush of a man do he used to dig ditches for a living for clyde israel so the clydesdale should have water when they oil little regular so what do you see it doesn't matter how great you are doesn't matter how much of you are doesn't matter how long your frack is you go out and you dig a bar for clyde strong incredible story happened his daughter his own daughter fell into one of the boy rights that he himself dug for clay israel he took off from the seder of learning he's a god of the torah and everything and he took off a satyr to dig a big pit and in the pit falls his daughter the famous the whole world survives because a little bit of boxer of how do you say baksha in english carob oh he's had unbelievable nissim throughout chas shahri showing on if this gemara sounds familiar because i believe we learned it the number of times from the beginning from brock is still here we had at least once before sorry shining armor lamp so they said no where is she she don't worry about it she's going to survive sean schnee omar lam charlotte he came back a little bit later she's she's she's alive shelisha is oivey he sees that you can't survive that long in water on my lamb also nope don't worry about it she came out oh my [Music] um himself took her out why because avraham of vino when he sacrificed yitzhak he gave klaus ross of trisam of of saving of say could you imagine thousands of years ago a man did a unbelievable act akita and that act survives all the generations it's unbelievable yeah we also you do an act now you don't know what you are doing today when you do a certain mice a certain mice or whatever it is official you here talking to you you don't know what kind of ramifications it has on the next generation and then three generations they say officials grandson became a rosh yeshiva why why because there's a certain mindset that he did a certain thing to this it's unbelievable yeah it's it's for us it's not only avraham of inu yeah it was an unbelievable act and we're not comparing the act but that act lasts for all the generations we once discussed another thing that because yitzchak sacrificed themselves so klaus israel is able to be seen a lot of yid and over the generations jumped into the fires there's in auschwitz and all these things no i'm not going to do it i'm kill me because of that one mice of yitzhak avinu sacrificing himself says the gemara are incredible how did you know that she survived it's a bad language from the navi no you don't have to be a navi to know this he says this is common sense does it make any sense to you and you see you saw there also i mean i don't know how how you could use this but each person can use it on his own it doesn't make sense that is going to punish the heifer sheikh and the one who who digs for clay israel he's going to kill his daughter in that pit that he dug it's impossible that is impossible so he said i don't have to be a navi i know that it's impossible um nevertheless his own son died from thirst so what does that what does that mean well first of all he didn't die in the pit that is impossible in a pit that i dig for akash barack obama's role to kill my child and that pit is impossible that doesn't make any sense but yes i do dig pits to to have liquid and water for glycerol my son died from liquid deprivation why his son why it's a me that connected me to because he probably didn't dig whatever was that i saw this once i don't know where a while back that he he was lazy once or didn't dig a and clay store when they were coming up with a little regular they didn't have water at that place so who paid him even though it's very very dark stick that's what gamer says now it's more and more turbo the closer you get that barco the wilder it is so you see again he was from the greatest who had to take care of him and be the doctor so that all is on come in this world and that nothing's left for him inaudible i'm just quoting from the artist girl great counsel rabba great the new york vivo okay so whoever is next to coach barco the closer you are he's going to be more immaculate says the official mishnah sponsored by the mdy talent group now we're doing a little bit of a 180 it seems like not really but until now we're talking about women that cannot testify could testify now we're saying at the end of the day even children can testify even women it doesn't matter if if you hear shama no shame you didn't they didn't even testify you were on the bus and you overheard a woman saying oh you know i am you heard so-and-so's husband died that's it i take that to the bank now the woman the woman could get married the kids in the hey there they're saying oh i plainly died how are you know welcome to this boy the league foreign whether they want to say like a testimony it was just messier to me [Music] he insists to testify i think was going to describe a little bit more miscaving and he deceived if a guy comes along you can't trust him maybe he wants to be mcculloch the wife says maybe these kids hey they're they're saying oh let's go to the funeral of so-and-so maybe they never went maybe it never happened or video oil dicamri you're right that we are concerned that might not have happened but they said already boy i mean let's put the legitimate stitch plane we just came back from the funeral hey i love this casual vidal maybe they went to a funeral of a grasshopper my this is the gemara saying in other words kids were playing they you know these banibaraki kids they took their legs out of the grasshopper they killed it slowly they put it on a little orange and they said you should say yo and they did a whole fake kid's levio and then they got on the boss they said oh what a terrible avaya well it was a husband the guy i made look and what do they call them they call them a rabbi friedman craze they call the grandson of a name now this hakan batata is sitting behind the who rabbi fema's nifty ooh he goes to his wife oh you can get married to anybody you want they're talking about a grasshopper frank the gemara vedim will come to bahamas so many rambanim and so many people describe the whole thing from the words you're able to see that they're not messing around with when a guy wants to testify we trust him but if he wants to make the woman muther and the man is going to say how do we know the best involvement are each playing bass play ish playing mace he sees if he demands from besden that you should marry off the wife we don't trust him it's similar to that other gemara like a woman comes into bed and says oh my husband's dead give me my money give me mike super you see i guess they were pretty dumb back then i don't know the guy wants to mess up the woman so he comes and says marry off the wife let her be on if i was a guy i'll just say hey the guy died i saw him dead whatever happens happens obviously she's going to get married after no he can't control himself he comes into bed and he says based on my testimony let her get married that zone is kavanaugh we don't trust him but if the guy comes in and says listen like we had the other day i saw so-and-so die does and that's okay if he wanted to make the woman mother then we don't trust him about the scavenge but if he came to be made then we trust him basically he had a big fight with 85 scanning he's saying the same thing but the 85 didn't agree to him that that's okay so they say what happened was if an andrew comes into bed and he says their boy side so-and-so died we don't trust them but if the non-jew was schmoozing on the bus again you hear him stop schmoozing yeah terrible i remember i used to work for the for this and this kid and he was nifter he's not trying to testify so then we can use his his words and use it to take away because again rabbi said don't forget the whole he's talking about here how do we have this woman get married without a problem of aguna so we have to be making sometimes and one of the clues we're going to do is we're going to take the the words of a non-jew not a testimony if he comes and is made and doesn't know we're not going to trust but since it's just words and he wasn't trying to do anything he's just schmoozing we're going to trust him guy come start screaming he comes into the city he starts screaming where's his ass he's dead he's dead now reminding me that my side i said it i know official i know you'll tell me exactly what i said they asked one of these russian soldiers every day another soldier had to go and notify that one of their people in the platoon they died so they they took this klutz and they didn't know how to do it like they don't you have to be professional he didn't know how to do it they said you go you go notified so-and-so so he goes knocks on the door yeah hi are you the almana of so-and-so she says i'm not he goes you want a bet okay fine so that's what this reminds me this meshugana instead of saying it you know somebody died you go nicely you know there was an accident there's a very accident knew what happened something no hawaii shockingly screaming outside that everybody should hear through the windows is dead okay very nice and based on the russian soldiers uh screaming they allowed reviews have said the wife can get married i would have a call by vasel there's a person who's saying violent parochials risa there's an unbelievable horseman he's an unbelievable soldier the habit of he died vince very simple and joseph allowed the wife to get married with him some say it was the talmud of riyadh it's interesting lotion but he says i i guarantee you the fish ate him up with the burrito of nachman people heard him saying this also the visa the ghost of incivil she heard of nachman saying ah her husband is eaten up by fish nothing is left of him so she figured that's i could get married but they are murdered so nobody said anything to her it was okay for you to get married is you see from here look the guy drowned in a body of water that doesn't have edges and we said it's awesome to get married based on the drowning if you don't recover the body that's to go ahead and and get married avalinas like this woman she jumped the head without asking any al-aqsa she didn't go to ask the rob she heard her nothing say oh never must have been eaten by fish we lost if she goes ahead then we're not going to make her get divorced igedomeri in suburban some say rav nachman married yeah married what does the art school say anza vernacular he married her off married he what of a person like the sword we had earlier it means the solid if it's true that he perished call isla if sorry if he came up saul means he came out of the water collis like the militia people would know about it because he's a hush of a person and as we said earlier it doesn't matter how what your status is how harsh of you are the evident you should if a person goes ahead gets married we let her remain married have a wonderful day you