Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 117 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] yet been able to attend a live share unfortunately i started at mcdilla however remy should know that i can't go a day without learning enough on youtube thank you for changing my life finishing involvement for me is wow thank you thank you thank you and thank you to that standing team of mdy you also have gary and everyone else we have no idea about okay and then he asked me a question if i could meet his talmidhim or the guys from new york will have to discuss josh leighton when will ellie be in the five towns will there be an opportunity to meet the answer is i am giving a share in the five towns however it's like in my brother's basement or somewhere like that i'm not gonna give a to the public those who are organizing the ceo which by the way they sold over a thousand tickets to so now the um the venue that we have is probably too small for the amount of tickets that we sold and there's still people that want to come so we're gonna have to see what to do they're not they don't want me to give a share before the sheer in deal so therefore there won't be an open share to the public in the five towns but there will be one in baltimore that's far enough away and so there will also be one in lakewood mutsy chavez and one in toronto spotted in smackdown and because arab shabbos and people are in a rush we're gonna go short on the can i say what's the shabbos arab shops whatever it is right now confuse myself it might be monster shots right now the kylo [Music] in loving memory of the rebbe upon his 28th yard side lili nishmas mental bend is here we go we're holding by brano mishna brando daff it's not really brandon but in case you just showed up today brando almond base if a woman testifies on her own behalf that her husband died we trust her she could get married based on her own testimony and because her husband is dead she inherits the 45 million dollars he left her so it's a big kiddish because okay it's one thing to marry somebody else it's another thing to to accept your testimony regarding monetary issues yes we trust her that her husband died and we had all the safaris in the world issa daiko mitsuba she's not just going to get married if it's not real she looks into it aguna he killed the whole thing but we stop at a certain point we allow naguna not to be to go the rest of her life and not being able to get married but it doesn't mean that she can just go ahead and use up all that money going through her husband's estate i have a question my boy's side why does it say they shaman before they still you never see that in shots he shot me even the mission literally the first paragraph of himself and said is the first female schneider go through the different times where basilo took him back and said that bishop may right and this is one of the four times so therefore bishop are brought down before we saw i believe it's four base alarm room three or four basil armory she's as far as we know she has she's married to someone are you gonna trust her and allow her to go get married forget about her what about the man that's marrying her he's marrying asia but she's not ashes based on her testimony she's gonna go ahead and be mad there something as not so hummer something called geneva there's a guy comes to the to the rub and he tells the rav i need a kapara so why do you look apart well i didn't wash my machine vassar water my macronutrient water so he says uh and why didn't you watch my back right now he says because i didn't benching is the right surprise why did you bench just because i didn't watch and why did you watch because yum kipper so i want to be mata something that's sort of insignificant compared to the big average that he did a video keeper i want to be matter mom and a cow certainly should be mata moment no they still have a great rally look if you have brothers that are ready to pounce on the arusha because whatever it is you had a kid that died later whatever there's a uru show there's no son but the brothers are waiting there we don't allow it based on her testimony so you see that we could chop her testimony in half we allow her to get married but we're not going to pass can hook us momminess based on her testimony this is actually when i was reading it i thought maybe this is a hint to us we have to learn subus we should learn receptors too this is our boy's side somebody said a good i i forgot to write his email what i didn't forget we didn't have time for it somebody wrote there's another school of learning himself as i should say and that is used to tell people that don't have him learn that was his go-to message for i'm sure he does he's not hearing it but the vince you can tell him i said let me see it says i looked it up i didn't really find it in the suburb maybe i didn't but even if it doesn't say it in the suburb it should say it in xuber that was italy suburb if you get married with somebody else then you then you you're entitled to your tsuba so you see that one has to do with the other getting married to somebody else and receiving the subare one and the same the khazru bay silo lahiris at the end of the day they still said trishaman you are right and if we trust her for ervo we're gonna trust her for vampires so we also trust her that she could go ahead and get married to the ivama nishiatma yvonne nicholas it says if she gives birth to a first born bahar that first born bahar should be in the name of his father well that's not what the puzzle says the positive is telling us that who should perform the evil the eldest brother that's how we learned back in the day remember and but what does the continuation of posix say yakuma that he is instead of the brother who died in other words he comes in he takes over he gets the entire yerusha says what it says in the tsuba certainly us we should definitely direction darshan yaakov very calm and look he took over so therefore he should be getting the urushiol boss the best when she comes to bed it depends how she asked the question yeah there was a story to belichuva you're sitting learning and then a question could you smoke a cigarette while you learn the mismatches so one bit about true gets up goes up over to yeshiva he says hey i'm learning could i can i smoke he says absolutely not she comes back to cabrusa and tells us said no so somebody said let me ask he goes back to the receiver he says listen i'm smoking should i learn tire of course so depends what comes first and how you say it and how you present the question she comes to bed and she says miss valley that's really nothing i need to get married he died materia knows she asked it the right way we allow her to get married and give her newly suebossie what if she comes in and you see what's on her mind she's one track minded she's thinking about all the money how many times he here here in america it's like very very common first thing if somebody gets killed they right away look to see if there's an insurance policy did the wife kill the husband the husband killed the wife because that's that motivates people you see what her motivation is she comes to basin first thing is hey where's my tsuba where is iksuba there's other more important things can i get married am i gonna why are you talking about money right away lulu you see what she's thinking about she has something up she's thinking about money if you're thinking about money we're not even gonna allow you to get married based on your testimony you're a liar my time at that exuberance what if she says both of them together i want to get married and i want my money she couldn't control herself like instead of just saying i want to get married come back the next day she had to stick in where's my insurance policy on the one hand maybe she's thinking about the money on the other hand when she comes to bed and she just wants to put everything on the table vincent's let me come and leave this lily now and if you're going to say yeah she was correct for saying that she wants your tsuba because when she's there already let her just say could i get married can i get my tsumo but the question is nulik tsubasi what if she started off with money first with nasa and then only afterwards she said but let me get married over here since she's saying two things now we see where what her motivation is perhaps rashes is a very interesting thing here she would think that maybe it's the super that allows her to get married if she's getting super that that triggers also that the fact that you get married why would you say something like that okay i was thinking over here stop as a little bit of a hazard then maybe it also makes a difference maybe though again i'm not a rob i'm not possible just something to think about maybe it makes the difference how we dive into that if we die when we say hashem give me paranasal paradox oh and also by the way i i wish my kid will turn out to be a goddamn and uh an attack well what what are you emphasizing what what's important to you when you dab it is it the kashmiris maybe maybe hashem also looks at it and you can learn from tomorrow a lot of different things you see here it makes a difference what you say first perhaps when you say something first that's that's your main intent the rest is just okay i'm already talking to hashem let me you know let me learn well i mean this let me have a good rookie stick a year it depends maybe says the mishnah official mission is sponsored by oh i forgot to say the first one lineage master health of rome is a chronological everybody in the world even women slaves there's no aid those here there's no allah when it comes to testifying on behalf of a woman everybody's believed besides five women these are five women that hate this woman very intensely and therefore we can't trust them they want to trip her up what do they want to do you want to create a situation where she gets married illegally based on their testimony and then the husband shows up and as we said already earlier in the misef a woman messes up based on the testimony of one aide she gets punished how many times in how many different ways anybody remember sixteen sixteen eleven sixteen something like that over ten i'm thinking it's sixteen sixteen sixteen cause you said six is probably sixteen yeah so one other thing she's gonna have to get divorced from her husband ah who is the number one culprit over here mother-in-law besides the mother-in-law and also the daughter of the mother-in-law also hates her god so why because she learned it from the mother-in-law over here rabbi i'm not going to go into any jokes although he's thinking all the mother-in-law jokes and go invite her however since i can't control myself a guy came over to me said i named my daughter after my mother-in-law and now she has soros in school wherever she goes people hate her just make fun of her name i said what did you call it i called her passive aggressive psycho all right fine next there's many more many more from where that came from the guy a guy sees a hundred cars in front of his neighbor's house he knocks on the door what's going on terrible tragedy my horse kicked my mother-in-law on the head and she went bye-bye she's like it's terrible to hear so what everybody's here to to be marvel what are they doing here so no no they came to borrow the horse okay yeah anyways you insert here any mother-in-law joke you want and you go by there by the way seriously with all jokes on the side the skins that you have to respect your father and most mufasa say that that applies also to the mother-in-law as well so as much as you love your mother-in-law don't love your mother-in-law that you probably have a feel of keeping that in for a moment huh those okay fine very good um that sarah was it sorry that sarah is the the co-wife her co-wife she is married to a man that man has another wife now that other wife hates her guts it's very understandable that's normal that's why it's ahead of the rabbinication that you shouldn't marry to women they they're called stars soros means they they're enemies they're common enemies they're fighting over the same husband so obviously she's gonna try to trip again what is she gonna do here she's gonna lie and say that her her own husband died meanwhile she's hoping that her tsara is going to go find another that can get married as soon as she finds another shield then then the original husband shows up from his business what's the evimta vivimta is think about it if this woman falls leave him somebody comes and testifies that her husband died and there therefore she falsely evil who's the who's the one testifying here the other wife of the album okay she's married to reuben and now she's false the shimon shiman is three of them but human already has a wife it's okay he's still hiding evil right it happened to my cousin hello his brother was nifter pillow was already married he watches the show every day he sends in uh i did it like this and uh so even though he's married he's let's do khalito he the the lockhaven still applies because in their rights he can marry two women so that you vomit is not believed now wait a minute think about it for a second please ask a bomb question why she why she not believe what's going on what is she trying to do she's trying to say that that woman has to fully evil and that woman is going to marry her husband why would a woman in her right mind ever do something so silly she's now bringing the obama into her life by by killing off her husband by killing off reuven illegally that means this woman falls to ebon illegally and guess what she's going to be a co-wife now with this woman why would she bring that upon her early than necessary you ever taste this question is anybody following me you know what isis says incredible when it comes to hatred this future yavama is so concerned that this woman might fall to evil that she makes up a story today and this woman is going to be with her husband for five minutes or a couple of days she's hoping that her real husband is gonna show up and then she's gonna get divorced she's willing to sacrifice her own husband for for a few weeks as long as this woman should never ever fall to her husband forever you hear the the hatred well i'm thinking about it now as i was reading this is like wow that's that that's steep but it's very bad let's say a guy is literally dying in the hospital and she's making the session wait a minute in five minutes from now she's going to be the obama let me trip her up right now and say that your husband already passed away from whatever disease he has in the hospital and mamela you know what i'm saying that that's the casualty says the gemara josephine zev is trying to reach you i don't know somebody told me a good line today managed today so this father tells him all the time he says well first of all rabbi twersky says that when you hate somebody you're just giving them spacing your head rent-free but the line that this guy's father always says is says who's worse the guy that you hate or the guy that reminds you what a terrible thing that guy did to you and he keeps on reminding you hey so remember that guy did to you and he said oh yeah i hate him and then it comes a week later remember what he did to you oh i hate him so who's worse the guy that keeps on reminding you says his father guess what you're that guy you're reminding yourself how much you hate him so you're worse than that guy that you hate anyway fine step daughter is also that that we understand also everybody know everybody knows about stepchildren it's a very very problematic thing to have a step child getting married for a second time and bringing children into marriage everybody knows step daughter they always feel slighted they always hate the their stepmother you know they there's a lot of different things and cinderella the whole you know stepdaughter so she's not gonna she's gonna testify falsely ma being good lamiso but why are these five women that hate the daughter-in-law the mother-in-law hates the daughter-in-law the the daughter of the dog why is she believed when it comes to a gift why all of a sudden do we say oh it's a it's a good guest says the gemara it says the mr because you're not relying on the testimony of the woman of the mother-in-law you're relying on the get you just want to know if it's been funny but it's a it's a simple case it just looks like a lot of people here but basically you have a guy in the center of the top center naphtali he had two wives he had that from me on the right and he has the five tower on the left and he had children from the from lady he had ruby he also had a daughter rocco ruby went ahead and married the bataan woman the five towner had another bunch of children yeah shouldn't let you it doesn't matter and a daughter so if you think about it the daughter i wrote underneath the daughter leia you see leia what is she in this picture bass come because the five towner is a mother-in-law to who all the way to bataan on the right so here's the question can the is it recording it's recording what does he want to know one of the cameras would be turned to a lot of pieces don't interrupt here maybe this i could turn it into a problem like that maybe okay so could leia you see the xiaomi lady leia could she testify that but that iron's husband reuben went sideways bye-bye now what's the question you saw typically why the daughter of a mother-in-law can't testify emotionally because the mother hates her he names angela if typically a daughter follows her mother's lead if the mother hates somebody the daughter will pick up on it yeah my mother hates the my my sister-in-law i'm also going to hate my sister-in-law but over here welcome to yola but over here there's no mother look the mother the five towner has nothing to do with badai but over here maybe there's something else over here typically the the the concern is maybe the concern by a mother-in-law by a daughter of a mother-in-law it's a monetary problem why does it why does a mother-in-law why does the daughter of a mother-in-law hate the sister-in-law because she's concerned that she's going to eat up her urusho they're going to share yurusha she's she's coming into my erusia i'm losing money because of that dying you see you know but inis from another another mother they're from they share the same father in the middle but they have different mothers but yet but ian's husband takes money from naftali when he dies so badayan hates her i mean uh leia hates about that what so we're talking about that the brother you're right but the brothers get you should the brother is inherent so there's some sort of at the end of the day are you asking what rash is talking about rashi says that the money her mother's money we're talking about the father's money now not we're talking about naftali not so much the mother le who are you talking about leia oh you're saying leia herself yeah but she doesn't want somebody else eating into her father's house it's like a a stranger i don't want strangers here but my brother's wanting but strangers no says i call them if you are correct that this lady with the green square underneath her leia can't testify so adam she's not in the mishnah how come she's not one of the people this is only five miso she's having according to the six one of the five is a daughter of a mother-in-law so what's the difference of daughter mother-in-law if it's the daughter of a father-in-law daughter the mother-in-law it's it's the same idea the concept is the same so we said the concept we didn't say the type of people we're talking about the concept people hate each other because they take away from my my parents urusho whatever it is that's the problem says gemara but wait a minute okay fine but not now for some chavanesh what do you do about a brice that says seven that also contradicts our missile we say five and then seven so tomorrow let's not review the myself asia's ab a stepmother what's the reverse of a stepmother a step-daughter you see we're talking about a step-daughter but review that adds a stepmother vachalla so akala is adorable what's the reverse of a daughter-in-law a mother-in-law we already spoke about a mother-in-law we're looking at it from the other angle a daughter he adds these two says it's one of the same it's the reverse you're going you're going from top to bottom about the top if a daughter-in-law hates them if a mother-in-law hates her daughter-in-law it doesn't necessarily mean that her daughter-in-law hits the mother-in-law so maybe she could testify maybe daughter-in-law could testify about the mother-in-law losing her husband why vishnu used to sign a little a mother-in-law hates her daughter-in-law daughter cochlear because she's saying that she ate into her urushiol by the way uh-oh this thing is dying fine the the famous it's actually an old joke it's an american joke but rebecca golinski says it says he said that what picture because his battery is dying that's why if somebody else has another phone maybe you want to switch it out for another phone ribbian galinsky said it says i guess that why why do we say you should be like other marijuana the only people in the world that didn't have a father-in-law and a mother-in-law however i just want to share with the islam you want to plug in here okay that's a good idea okay um interesting you just plug something else and no one wants to shoot from your phone that's funny just trying to read the other thing okay okay i went back great i just want to share with the islam when i married off my daughter i think it's like four years ago and i have to thank toilom brabham here a number of people came over and said listen i want to give you a piece of advice they said the same advice he said when it comes to your son-in-law keep your mouth shut and keep your wallet open and for me you know i'm uh you know i like to give monster once in a while and give a few hours here and there help people out this and that as i'm doing right now but when it came to my son-in-law i could say i don't know maybe he'll argue with me but i don't think i've ever told him a single word i mean he's perfect he never made me nervous or anything like that but i never opened i never said a word to him i never said hey uh don't don't do this to my daughter or you know you should it's better if you do xyz to your son because at the end of the day you have to be smart about it i'm just sharing with them if you have a son-in-law or a daughter-in-law it's best if you keep your mouth shut at every sin no matter what keep your mouth shut you're never gonna gain by saying something to your i better take this off because this messed up everything for some reason oh yeah wow yeah okay let me see if uh obs is even working no i froze up here in obs okay i don't know we're gonna have to figure it out later i'll go part of it maybe somebody else wants to switch we'll put once we messed it up we might as well just have zoom now at least five but the other thing is if we are if we're already talking about a son-in-law then also the should try as much as possible to make sure that the mother-in-law doesn't have that jealousy whatever it is it's these things he could do and say that the mother-in-law shouldn't be jealous of her daughter-in-law you shouldn't have that hatred over there there's a natural hatred for whatever reason okay says the gemara then one other thing is why not bring this on the famous hobbits can i have to say here we're talking about fighting between people says like a muscle so there's two kids two children two a person has children at the table he's feeding them they're fighting over food right children love to do it you got more than me you got less fighting it's not fear the smartest thing for the child to do obviously the child doesn't have that kind of cycle they like to fight the smartest thing for the child to do is to go over to the father and say listen i don't want to fight with with my sibling but it would be nice if you could give me a little bit more chocolate you know and what is the father naturally gonna do of course i'll give him more so obviously the martial is passion instead of fighting somebody starts out with you and fights with you instead of fighting back you say look this guy wants to steal from me he wants this could you do me a favor just give it to me from another another angle and obviously hashem who's our father is going to listen a lot quicker than you fighting with that person says the gomorrah if that's true what you're saying is by the white light they just the simulations have the um little years in the name so it's just going nuts huh and zoom is not working anyway so you might as well just says gemara about the simulations i have the hormone calculators in the name so i it's great that a husband's step-daughter is going to hate the stepmother because she's worried that she's consuming her urushiol asian so my time is sounding about but why does the stepmother hate the stepdaughter great but you just told me a reason why it shouldn't be in the mission not why it should be you didn't give me a reason why she can't testify well you're just telling me there's no reason for her to hate her if there's no reason for her theater then she could testify about her ella kyle my time in the sign of cambodia so why does the daughter want to hate her mother-in-law the miguel have not called off this thing maurice is very interesting that that a a mother-in-law in those days think about it the husband would go off to work all day so when the husband came back the mother-in-law would say hey by the way the mother-in-law tells the the son you know what you do what your wife did so therefore she hates her she does hate her she has a reason a daughter-in-law hates the mother-in-law because the mother-in-law spills the beans of how how terrible the uh the daughter-in-law is so two the the father's wife hates the daughter of the husband the megalovia called because she tells the father everything she does grab on here comes the major majority certain chassis in those days i guess mirrors weren't very if you looked in the water you saw your reflection whatever that reflection is that's how you're going to treat the person that's looking at you in the water in other words when you feel that somebody hates you you hate them it's kamehameha you look at a person you tell right away does that person like me friend the foe there's some people that have it naturally like sloane collarbot or rabbit kalis from waterbury a bunker comes to yeshiva immediately feels that he loves him i don't know how he does it but he has this that's why he's so much leah because bahram feel they're able to feel it it's not it's not a he's not putting on a show they're able to feel that he loves them when you when a mother-in-law hates her daughter-in-law then the daughter-in-law is going to hit the mother-in-law it's one one one across from the other now says the gemara is apostle referring to tara tube shot rashi rashi says amazing if a person loves the tiger where the person goes ahead and repeats and hazards over and he really loves the tire like some cypher says i don't forget anything entirely because it's like i treat the torah like they got married nobody forgot their wedding so mellow you don't forget the tire i mean it's interesting because if i got married every day 45 times then i probably forget my wedding also okay but tyra every piece of tyra was was like that one time then he got married another shot is and a few people wrote me emails pointing to this gemara including shafzy cohen and rafal and different different people wrote me emails that oh you should put a picture one of them said say this rashi and bring a picture with you know what says rashi that it's a rebbe who gives over a tiger with a geshemak and and makes it fun so bring a picture and say like that famous magazine of the fiami and put in your competition but no i'm not going to promote competition right masking mask even though you go to the competition it's fine well we're trying to grab you says i don't know we have to get out of here for a second let me just maybe that's the photo of the competition here we go in other words very very simple case rouvene is on the right right you have naftali again on top he married two women he had two sons reuben and jim and the baldwin brothers you see them we know them no the rumor is on the right you see his body laying underneath him that's the that's the question mark here did ruben go bye-bye or not ruben is married to badai great now look at the five-towner the five-towner on the top left corner could she testify that rouge went by what's the problem because if in fact ruben went bye-bye what happens to battalion she falls to ebon to whom the shimon the brother shemin the brother and then she is going to become batain's mother-in-law so could a future mother-in-law testify about a future daughter-in-law and and make her daughter-in-law through this testimony it's not necessarily a daughter-in-law maybe maybe the son will decide says does she anticipate this that she's going to be her mother-in-law visayan law and today i already hate her because she's going to be my daughter-in-law in the future so i should start hating it right now let's practice hollow or no says gamora sponsored by michonne and honor of robbie two that ski the only rebbe that was actually good at basketball sponsored by nassano rouhani and interesting if a woman says my husband died so what is she in fact saying there's something else she's saying she's saying my husband died therefore she's not my mother-in-law anymore two things go by by her husband and at the same time her mother-in-law is no longer a mother-in-law she's a late how do you call it when the husband dies a late not a late mother-in-law ex-mother-in-law something mother-in-law anyways so maybe now that she's testifying that her father-in-law died it's not really testimony about her father-in-law and mother-in-law why because she's no longer her mother-in-law she was her mother-in-law five minutes ago before she testified about her own husband but once her husband is dead her husband's mother is not a mother-in-law anymore she's not related anymore to marry based on her own testimony because her husband died you believe a woman that hasn't died he can't trust her about her mother-in-law why can't you trust her about the mother-in-law because nobody died there not the husband and not the not the father-in-law so why did she testify like she hates her mother's mother-in-law so much she wants to destroy her mother-in-law's life that even though right now think think about this so rash rashes is something interesting that you're all going to argue on you're going to be mohamed with mars answer but she says where's her husband right now her husband is in south africa she's testifying my husband in south africa died and also my father-in-law they went on a safari to baltimore lions ate them but right now she's not suffering says rashi from her mother-in-law she only suffers from her mother-in-law when she has to go there for shabbos with her husband but her husband's out of town she's not suffering from her mother-in-law she really doesn't hate her mother-in-law right now and nevertheless she wants to mess up her mother-in-law's life and lighter mother-in-law tell her that her mother-in-law's husband died so what's the answer the answer is once you hate your mother-in-law you always hate your mother who cares that her husband is here or not here that's what remark says suffer the bust of shattered lactation styrene i'm gonna punish my mother-in-law now so that when my husband comes back i don't have to deal with my mother-in-law anymore for for future reference so here also what do you see when it has to do with the future a future mother-in-law you shouldn't trust her because because a future mother-in-law is going to anticipate that she's going to hate this woman and she's going to mess up her life right now she says awesome the ruggish little tyra no the reason why we don't trust a daughter-in-law even though she's not suffering from her mother-in-law right now this moment is because she's suffering her in the past she hates her so much the sin is there she must she wants to get rid of her mother-in-law says the michelle sponsored 1a testifies that dawson died and based on that testimony she goes out and she gets married and then another eight comes and testifies against you the problem the dilemma a woman gets married based on one aid that's okay but what happens when another aide undoes it now if two of them come and undo it we have a problem but if one eight comes hare zu leitheid says she doesn't have to get divorced is the second case two against one now one has a lock like two we believe in but in this case we have two real like them that come and contradict them vedro melee base abba bishol and he says oh sorry i jumped schneiderlin based outfit saying she must leave her husband why because we have real testimony that a russian is still alive if two testified that he died and one testified that he's not dead what do you think that allah should be we go by the two atoms so what's the criticism even if she didn't get married but based on the testimony of the athens she could get married go ahead and get married i don't care about that one night that says that her husband is still alive i think mary's gonna explain what the fitness is says gamora time and then he says holly and he says lightning awesome it's because she already got married based on the testimony of one eighth that's why she doesn't leave her husband but what if she didn't get married there's a he came he testified in court she didn't have the opportunity to get married and another aide echo comes and contradicts her him it seems like she cannot get married if there's one eight and the torah says your ladder get married based on the one-eighths that's the money where else in the torah voice i for a hundred points where else in the torah the tire says we can believe one-eighth by saita and by eduardo so over here we trust him like two eight they made up for derek we trust him as two so how could one other eight come and undo the two you see when it comes to believing he's two when it comes to contradicting him is he's he's only one one against two two wins why is he two because the latoya said one is believed like two so we can't believe the other guy so what difference does it make if she got married or they get married even before she get married we should trust the one eight that her husband is dead only if there was if there was only permission to get married she doesn't mean that she actually got married she has the russians get married and then so we shouldn't believe the other a rashi points out that the first a went to besdon and we trusted him 100 and we took his testimony it is only afterwards that another aide came along and said but if there were still both of them in bed one against one says rashii going to rashi we don't trust the eight that says that the husband died hey noah makes the red submission the mr says we're only trying to get to the missionaries so don't worry about it a few minutes one aide says he died come to and say he's not dead who do you trust we trust the 2. of course we're going to trust two against one says listen to this revision if you have 70 people that say that this and this is what happened and on the flip side you have two people that say no the opposite this is what happened who do you believe no all men 70 men two men who do you believe it's like two and two he says 100 70 is like two two is like 70. it doesn't matter how many have but over here when when the turtle says something special well it's the red button and we say we trust women now it goes by the rife 70 women is more than two women or one woman over here we're gonna go by the right we don't we don't say trey kamehameha it's isha of uh apostle ethos which typically is possible over here it's it's we accept it but the difference and we say that two women against one man you have one man that comes and says listen what happened you haven't eaten a man but he's one two women beat him because this is different than regular testimony typically two is considered the most you could get two and seventy are the same but over here one equals two one man is like two no we're gonna go with the majority two women have more power we believe two women over one man because this is a funny type of vendors and this interesting type of adults it goes by the majority we have two women in the majority we trust them more than one man and therefore what listen to this if she got married based on the testimony of a single aide of a man then come to women and contradict her what's that going to be she must get divorced we believe the two women and she has to get divorced just like two men could undo the testimony of one man so to two women could undo the testimony of one man because it's a different type of atheist of it or another shout out is everybody if one man came along and he testified we were gonna trust him like two two men and therefore two women can't undo him what happened was there was a woman that we trusted who's not a man this shadow is different one woman came and she testified that so-and-so's husband died and we trusted her and then though and then came the women and the two came and said that she's wrong when victoria believes one man we go by the majority but we trust the two women now that contradict the original woman and we trust them over here but two women against one man like we said before que palgo pagoda is like trade trey so again before the first terrorist of the gemara was one man will be beat by two women and now we're saying no one woman will be beat by two women but one man has the power of two men and two men equals seventy men so two against two is kippah gopalda a few more lines makes two say that he died and one said he didn't die michael marshmallow is that what i said before i hope i didn't make that mistake before michael marshmallows are you telling me that schneider means two women and then one came and said not like that but that we already said in the first part is that you go by the majority that's the same thing if i want to answer the woman again one man or woman depends how we set the chat in the mark one eight comes and says the husband died and therefore what she could get married come to men two elderly two men to women they come and say he's alive and well so what i want to do i want to say she cannot get married what is that called a homura i'm saying you can't get married i'm making around you or maybe i want to do the opposite in other kids i wanted the opposite i want to trust the two women that who ate them to say that she could get married oh in that case i would say that perhaps we're not going to trust them perhaps yes two is stronger than one but not where were we allowed to get married to somebody else come ash milan even in the case where it's a cooler we're allowed to get married to somebody else i have a wonderful week ago after the shabbos wherever you are whenever you're listening for coming out have a great day [Music] you