Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 114 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] it also means that in 10 days from now our very good friend ahri get over there harry come come come out big he's leaving us he does this all the time because he he learned through shots he knows these messages basically subbasino pretty much he's going to leave us for pretty much for good so we wish him all the best i need to announce i forgot to announce this i am leaving bayes rosham tomorrow on the worldwide tour which uh basically to go there for a ceo i'm gonna be in chicago for five days tonight if anybody's interested i'm giving the sheer tomorrow shear daf test of here in the basement at 9 00 pm limited seats available not on zoom just right here being recorded thursday friday shabbos sunday monday i'm going to be in chicago if you're in chicago please i beg you please come to this year then tuesday in baltimore a big big event with official official catering a whole massive of course thursday is the seom as of now 870. you understand the number 870 people paid to come 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okay so rabbi sam i'm serious it stresses me out these kind of trips and i asked ireland to dive in for me that everything should go well i shouldn't miss any flights i shouldn't give the wrong diff in the wrong place things happen hundred and fourteen balkaram rabbi say a very big simcha today you're not gonna believe it listen to this being ready with your shirts in shabbos makes me very proud to be part of the great mdy family exactly a year ago today my 69th birthday was america's for the first time and enjoy coming ever since you'll see him around almost every day now it comes in on bus from your shalom every single day i want to wish you a rebellion all the so dedicated staff gary no i'm nachman assad yosef avi and everyone i may have left out to all the members of the group and not to forget mark you'll see klein schlemmy klein eustrol and all of you behind the scenes on my 70th birthday which is today yakov rosner come over here for a second give me a real brother well uh you can leave you can leave it's okay fine it's okay oh man i can't wait to come back again to the muslim address just say you could come the shiro will be here every single morning basis and that's the plan gonna do it a little differently than last time i'm gonna pre-record this year we're gonna be shown here 7 15. if you want to talk avi seder you want to say it yourself come 7 15 every morning thank you appreciate it i think the mdy viewers will enjoy the attached clip i put together please display it in the sheer i don't know if i will i'm inspired by ellie's enthusiasm humor infectious obviously stroll only continues to everyone on the upcoming scene shmuel wise lakewood in jersey i don't know i had a big debate if i should show this not gonna show it okay how about this one if i have a doubt you're saying don't show it this is real bartlett from baltimore his children he's on zoom every day you have some volume [Music] try it again good morning [Music] late schreiber architect like new jersey it was a pleasure to meet you finally when i came friday in the following week once you shove it started off you're in the beginning last cycle and heard about eight minutes magazine started this past versus shawna started them do i die for the tightness my daughter took a picture of me learning on a little extrusion trip before excursion excursion you're right trip before going back home looking forward to seeing deal new jersey my 11 year old grandson yossi gladney started my caught in waterbury connecticut okay i'm finding people i know i saw my old neighbor all the best labe schreiber daniel tur off this was gevaldik her boy said i forgot to put the picture in here okay different time yesterday we had a chassen i said that was the neil turk and after davina i went over and i said i can't believe it he goes i can't believe it either. we both realized that he forgot to say something very important he says i started learning the different motifs a week later i went on my first date with navi green to whom ambassadorship getting married today so he attributes meeting his kalo to the da fi me which he told me at a class the ones before so have a wonderful day wonderful wonderful life together it should be simcha should always deserve to do the daf and bring turn into your life here you have three people i forgot to write their names down from florida and today the kylo is being sponsored for the month to get married i thought i told him about that you cannot talk during these things i know that you're bored by it but imagine you were sponsoring you want people to speak during your sponsorship by the lack of living families living in jerusalem because tire is the best bulla rufus the mdy family has safe healthy happy and know that hashem loves the new one i guess huh yeah i know i didn't know about the consonant the sharp family leadership is our cousin davis davis from chicago i believe yes simca davis happy anniversary my wife cyril farkavitz make today's learning videos closed for her and the whole family of romario sold overnight we initialized my grandmother honor your side by grandson paris county levin is for the whole robot we have a bunch of guests here i don't know if we could go through all them but we have robbie david from manchester's making casino tonight from another from london lightner from clifton new jersey who else okay all the way you're not going to be in toronto when i'm there okay boys have a riddle huh we can't be in the same time together i'm leaving yeah so somebody just wrote an email he's so excited he's going to come to live share july 4th on 4th i'm not going to be here i'm leaving tomorrow morning early in the morning so this is the second to last year tonight is the last year fine her voice i riddle based on what we're talking about the other day donnie fine do you think it's uh issue if your wife was pregnant do you have an issue knowing whether or not the baby is a boy or a girl to see an ultrasound you're a client does it make a difference to you rabbi schoenberg what do you say kohanim do you have an issue what would be the issue you can't imagine having a girl okay so we're going to get to there very interesting shyla whether or not a woman who knows a client who knows that she's going to have a boy is she permitted to go to the hospital talking about this without that but there's a problem of thomas it's awesome for you donnie to bring your child into a hospital when there's a mace in the hospital do you know that okay so it's not just redundancy i'm also even a one day old it's also in this big shiloh we're gonna see whether a woman who's in the hospital who gave birth and the doctor said you can leave if you want but if you want you know insurance pays for another day she's a kahanas could she stay there for another day knowing that her kid is going to become tame these are shilohs not really the main part of the soggy but interesting things says mario we're holding the cuffs seven lives from the bottom hey that is a deaf mute whose father married her off when she was a tana and that constitutes a derisive marriage so says we have it over here you want to see hey everybody ah to beget even though it's a derive so marriage she goes out with a get so omarova from this eidos me this is from this testimony which is the halacha i can infer another lady look at this get that i am giving to my wife now his wife does not hear this it's behind their back then he turns around to his wife and he says listen i want to give you a check for a million dollars here and she grabs it she opens up the check and she sees it's not so much a check but it's a divorce here's my gracious why is it magurish because god says that the freerushes she's a deaf mute how luckily she doesn't have seiko you could give her a get you can divorce her so you see you don't need the dice of a woman i would think since he fooled her he said listen this is a check so what he meant to say is this this get that you have in your hand i'm about to give to you i want to another i want to destroy it i don't want it to be again comas malone that's what rob is coming to be the battle laid him out of the camera why is he telling her he would go to the aid him and from the fact that he didn't go straight to the aid him nothing happened here right and why did he speak in such a language why did he say it's a check he didn't tell her to get mahmoud he was simply too embarrassed to divorce her and he decided to hide it in this and disguise it with a check and then he ran away he gave him the check bolted out of there and turns out it's again he signed it to her check here is a check discussing this amazing allah and what do we do today practically speaking to keep our children away from do you have to you see your kid be mahal shabbas you see him going turning on lights he's three four five years old six years old is the difference one one year old eight years old 13 years 12 and a half year old going to mcdonald's and eating burgers to stop him is the difference between a burger a cheeseburger and turning on a switch on chavez it seems like there is a big difference according to many that achilla is worse than isurim okay so we're not talking about switches maybe some people here come here we have a seat for you sadie come right over here all the way in the front give him a gemara so we have a gemara there's one over there next to you oh no that's uh no no no not one more thing krishnan okay tell me damn that's new in battle park they tell the island to go in the back what's going on here every single time the guy comes from bar park he sits in the back seat with tom mercier they have it there's no use and the toilet knows okay that's why i have to before you're able to sit down okay so here's the shiloh we it happens a lot and you see it in they discuss this kind of allah you the guy forgets the keys to the show everybody's locked at a show no area what do you do so what a date this is you tell a kid you tell a three-year-old there come with me grab this let's carry is is it permitted or not you go into place without an air if could a kid carry your your your scissor to shoulder could he carry the child they he dropped his keys in the middle of him this is their eyes that they carry also they came through pados omar lei zil devar to leive italia get get some boys and girls with the tyler some have them play in the street and they're to play and also they're going to find the keys when they find the keys you don't see anything you let them pick it up and they say come let's go home by the way today's daf the seminary inspired by ari is kid kid remember this is all the shy is about the kids on shabbos what what you can do and not to do okay the imagination because he's very interesting he has everything asking throughout chats this is about boss but he knows many many more sequels literally by heart this hazard says i'm just looking for my marker which i totally forgot at all okay where what is in here i'd rather not use anything than have the one with your name on it i really appreciate it i really you know let's give it to me let's switch oh that's the gemara so you see amiku solvar so we have over here you lost the keys you go you grab you grab a kid and he'll pick up the keys bring it to you let me say like perhaps it's a riot latinos don't tell them specifically don't talk to them directly and say go pick up my keys now the gemara switches to another case you let him go and cut branches as you know kids walking down the street he starts picking the neighbor's garden and the flowers roses whatever it is mini zaryak could throw in this rabbit says gemara oh no no right from there or bio the case is taylor's bought it shiny lock up again in this case you have a pot that has a hole on the bottom that's a knuckle without a hole in the bottom it doesn't nourish from the ground so mellow it's not considered a real cliche just like you know even meister like we had yesterday zyrex the caramel is there about and caramelism where you have the the the width and the amount of people that go through it's not that's a private domain it's in between it's like almost like streets like we have today caramelists and that is sir to carry there's only a button so it's not a riot that we that he let rabbi does let the kids find the keys because it's only he assumed their abandon and their abortion to be mafish them but maybe perhaps in the direction we are [Music] again for the new guys there's a guy that keeps on sending an email every day he wants to know why i don't make bracha so for the new guys i make a baraka purposely before shear starts because there is a little allah we had whether people that watch it on on youtube later on they should say oh man or not so just but then there's another shiloh for these people the new guys that don't know that they think i'm drinking without a broccoli he says i don't understand he's such a great guy what do you drink without a bra every day and again you're not answering me i want to know why you're not doing it okay fine it's you wow this guy a non-jew shows up to put out the fire we know it's not okay um if he decides on his own to come ahead and put out the fire we don't have to stop it is but if your child or cotton comes to put out the fire or even a cabbage um you see from here you have to stop him um why do you have to stop him you didn't tell him to put out the fire but when a child looks to his father right she says so if i love him he looks at his father and he sees that his father is okay with what he's doing so he's doing it all das aviv yeah don't know that son children look up to their parents and he takes a look and he notices his father's okay his father's like yeah he doesn't shake his head or anything his father's like schmucks finally somebody's doing the work that i can't do so that is to stop but if he's not doing a solve he's not a guy who once dashing this kid he told him you have to learn you have to love tyra you have to love tyra over and over the kid grows up the kid doesn't like learning what am i doing i'd have to learn the stuff so the father is very disappointed for years he's giving the kid muslim so he goes to the rub it's not what you think goes to rav and the rav says are you as excited when you learn torah as when you got your new tesla you come with that enthusiasm so what do you expect the kid the kid is sofa kid sees the kid knows he knows the nuances he knows what's important what's not important does his father happy with the fire not happy putting out the fire email that's awesome it says so if so the cases have to mimic each other when the guy comes and he puts out the fire he looks at the jew and he sees the jew is excited the jew his hands are tied with chavez he can't do it and the guy shows up when a non-jew puts out a fire for the jew even if the jew is not there or he is there it doesn't matter the non-jew does it for his own reasons what's his reason he realizes he's going to get compensated for doing it so it's his own dance he's not doing it because so-and-so wants it he wants it he wants to earn the money happens all the time you have a frumer kind of child he went to the right let's say he's a cover he's very mocking on everything that his parents are not so much about whatever you are i'm a ratson call mamaratsu so you go to the amara's grandfather's house and now the kid is walking around with an apple that it's house his produce is my we don't know did he take meister didn't take my sir so what do you do we're not concerned you could send your kid to your in-laws house it's fine and we're not concerned they're going to give them traffic and they're going to give them fruit well what if he has it in his hand already it's it's no let him eat it so what do you see we had this many times and amarettes most american they take troubasomes certainly truma they always take truman meister is more it's more expensive so so because it's we're not so machped now tyson just points out that the mai could be a director it's a taconider butter not to eat it and we already established that there are button is not a problem you know i'm going to stop your son from doing it but in the damage there's a hashash there's no maestro so that's it becomes the horizon oh time of the demi so but that's because it's mine okay so they will make sure but if your kid is holding an apple that's 100 percent not myself off the tree but we're working on voiceover but it's not true we thought we just answered before the building says if the father is happy about it then you have to stop him but if the father is not even looking he's not even there then you don't have to stop the song from eating trey from eating meisser uh the uh complete devil hello sugimar says you're right rebecca is a pokemon capulet we don't know where he's going to push it off and say i don't know so maybe the shot is that he's doing it with his father's consent and then rotten maybe his father is standing there is that that that's what he holds he's not sure when he's in the other mission about tavel he says oh it's a cooler you can't put rebecca in the corner because every time he'll answer you maybe you mean this maybe it means that not that he really holds it it means this and that it's a way to get out of it because robert himself wasn't sure do you have to be mafish your son or not been covered here's another case you have a guy that's macbeth and trump's a maestro's hover and he goes to his father-in-law his father-in-law's house his father is a queen now truma is a director mata the other payroll is ain't zucker clay so before when we had a similar question we said oh we're talking about the rabbana but now truma that's tommy is is their iso what is he going to say over here you don't have to take the rice away from your son why not we're talking about a truman that's durabanan and that the rabbana became coming here's for rashi it says the shiva's aminum from the shiva's aminum what do you have to take truman midday right so only the ones that are circled grain grapes and olives that's it the rest of the fruit certainly vegetable only throughout bonanno also different countries it's not an artist's row if it's further away you don't have to take troublesome issues they're a bonnet so that kind of trauma we're not concerned if it's tommy that the kid is going to touch it you don't have to be mafishin tashma joining me so this is very interesting if a young child let's say a two-year-old walks over to the guy and starts nursing he's thirsty starts nursing niran points out that the non-jew might have eaten a cheeseburger five minutes ago and the milk has that flavor you don't have to worry about it it's not straightforward afterwards that's how the round learns um now this is not such a good picture i just realized but let's say this is a behemoth i mean it's a kid the kid part i got well but the other one i didn't want to take the other one there's other pictures this is more of a okay picture fine in other words i'm not concerned that it's a trieve it's pretty it's pretty nasty you think about it don't even want to say the word pig they call it the kid is your own kid sitting there drinking from a pig the milk of a of a pig is the same thing as the meat of appearances to say it's us straf khazer you don't have to be mafish or travis scott you're muslim don't don't feed him nevaela don't feed him a trayvon don't feed him uh rat that that you can't do um so a child could eat drink even on travis nurse even in chapels uber goddall it doesn't mean an adult it means an older child us you see that you don't have to stop the kid from from from uh from nursing from uh from obama's male why not you you mitsubi fish you see not mitsuba you know to take away a kid from his surum that he does on his own we're talking about the the kid is in danger of losing his life if he doesn't have milk so you let him go so what about a three-year-old a two and a half year old let's say they're still nursing we said before doing that we have to sit there and measure how much how much how long could he last could he make it until after shabbos says you should you also have to see could he last or not if a child doesn't nurse doesn't have the the milk it's a very big danger for him there's a story in arizona a famous story here with the remedia formula what is it called remedial formula they forgot to put the b1 vitamin in there and three children died in arizona 20 children were critically the whole thing they had they shut down the company they were making over 100 million dollars a year they shut down the company because one nutrient was missing from the milk it's like 20 years ago remember this myself what on shabbos they're going around with with microphones screaming if your kid is on this formula take him off right now from people going around in cars in the neighbors on chavez so the point is you don't have milk sakhane literally a sakana so you got to let him drink from even from a behemoth [Music] what's this sir dash you see over here in the picture to separate a product from something is usur on chavez and so to separate milk from a woman from a behemoth his user that's why it's close to iscider isa for a woman to to take the milk on chabas and and save it for sunday that's why if a woman has to if she spills it out then it's then it's okay today to do it with a machine by hand or whatever is already the norm so dialogues are different now it's a bigger issue i'll go upon the child has a lot of pain he's not going to die but he has pain because of him and he holds that if you do it you separated it's okay shabbos this is kilo goes robot they said to go directly and do to be with fire with your mouth [Music] okay now that brings three almost identical things the mom is very easy three sukim that say that you have to you have to be careful not to do an issue to your child first one is tasha malloy to warn the parents not to feed the kids nevaela traif he's telling them don't eat no like the lilies will be a dime not a rye from here not that he has to prevent them he shouldn't do it with his hands he shouldn't feed them tashma same exact thing again it says you can't eat blood the shot if you see a kid about to drink blood you have to stop him like the lady will be dying don't give him a bottle full of blood toshima here's the pause it says impossible it would be this is what we're talking about before that a client cannot be with thomas kitty he has to be careful and if he's married to yesterday-less let's say and she could go visit the hospital she can't carry her child with her into the hospital that has mason same exact thing again look how ero it's even that you have to prevent the kid from going in like the time will be dying you're not gonna do it with your hand and i slept the kid into the hospital or something okay so we have the three identical the ashwini [Music] check this out is the dasho the issue of one of the schweinershwatsim is the mount of a lentil where it comes to a mace this is larger it's a it's a olive size because it's so you see how humber it is sheriff's is horrible the third is macbeth on the smallest of the small aladdin which is more cow that nikki reveals you have to drink at least the revis maybe kazai is reversed so it's less hum or a malloy maybe i don't have to be my freshman my kid you see the there's not so much on blood let him drink a little bit a sharert it's even a mashup but maybe if i carrot diamond is more calmer the the the ironish is stronger there's the carts and if we would say just those two missions the whole world is also in it is only for ghana yeah by the way not that i'm i'm not very good at it obviously but i heard once when you want to tell your kid a kind tells his kid look we are special we're not like those low-class foreign and levine where khashog where are kohanim look at us we have special halachus of tomah we don't say oy they don't right donna you don't thought you could oh i can't believe it i can't go to the funeral i can't go to the care i'm i'm a hush of a person so when you tell your kid also about mitzvos terry and missus as he is look at us not that i we have to keep shabab as a soldier we have we we go with different rules you see from the kehal i'm just saying you could point it out from the heart meaning the torah gave them more misses they're special malloy for the others maybe not okay fine now rabbi said we did this and a lot of people fell asleep during the season so here it is hazard all over again with the potato heads from the beginning now just to make it easy i'm not even sure why the gemara goes through the first two steps it's the it's a it's a classic yamara style where it's so simple the first step the second step we want to get to the third step and maybe think about just pointing out you can't learn it from anywhere else the point is if you have a heritage they both don't know what's going on and and their their their their marriage is they're abundant on both sides yet if a ifama falls to him he has to give her a get he has to get take get rid of her give him his wife again you're right why let him be married let him do his surim who cares zaraya that we have to separate even people without dies from doing his surum okay that's the raya yeah right is khloe when they're married let him stay married who cares he has the abomination obama and protagonist says all the way the last words of the parrot we just care that other people shouldn't think that it's mother but before we get there the girl is going to go through two cases that we had with the potato heads that only one of them is or she's either he's a harish or she's a heritage one of them is awesome zumar's going to ask let them stay married let them be over is her what's the answer to that but the other one is not a cherish only one of them is a herish what about the woman who's smart how's she allowed to be married tim it's like most obvious answer but let's see it here we go uh marriage and but he's already married to the sister so with the rice he can't be married to her he can't she can't fault him leave him because he already has her sister in a derisive way not in the ravana way so she gets bounced out of there oh sorry now what about this case may speak now does the normal guy dies and his wife is a 100 percent director ibama who falls who's married to the sister only so now that the obama should bounce out that sister that's married midday rabbana may ask her because what should he do moist is to be get he has to divorce his wife is going to ask why divorce he's only a hair she doesn't have das vaisha's he can never do anything with her why he can't give her khalitza why he's doesn't get it he can't beat me or why she's stuck forever asking my mother to be dead why does he have to divorce his wife this is gabe let him let her just sit there he's not doing any sir he's a kata and he's a shayta how could she be still married to him and be with him you forgot about her oh okay fine let's go to another case same exact idea the point is it's just the it's the style of the gemara the kumara knows the answer of course we're just trying to show you that we have to get to the third case here we go two brothers who are normal married to two sisters it's the reverse case it's just instead of the two women being smart or normal the two men are mesme married that's only of the rabona marriage what should the other one do so here's your vomit this if i'm that falls is only a body of she gets bounced out of there what about if the the rise of marriage he dies divorcer yeah letter letter statement says through the day but he has the answer okay so therefore i have to go to the next case so now finally we have a case where you have two non-validas married to each other if the the abundant guy dies so that's not our case we don't we don't need it right now it is okay so she goes out but this is the case but if one of the smart guys the smart guy died now he's other iso she's a deriso yeah what should the guy in the bottom do for his wife what's his issue beget he should divorce his wife says now he's married she doesn't have das he doesn't have that why does he have to divorce his wife why can't he just remain married to not to shout them married to each other let them stay married so you see that you have to be mafish even though somebody doesn't have das even a cotton oh yeah we are concerned that people are going to say you know what if we let them stay married and not get divorced he'll say you know why they could get they could stay married because the theoresis was so powerful she bounced her sister the picasa they're not going to realize that the reason why they listen let us say marriage is destroyed them they're going to think that she's powerful and then so what they're going to take the lady with the green hat who's and let her get married to anybody but that lady can never get married to anybody she's also through the world we're questions that they might let her get married based on this allah they said get get divorced we don't have a raya do you have to be married to your kid or not meet my efficient kid at the end of the day i think they pass and most of you show them safe you don't have to okay but one thing for sure don't get confused to take your kid your two-year-old and walk him over to the to the switch and have him push the button or the air conditioner and have him go like this 100 awesome that we said even a kid that's one day old do you know how to make him do something you know how to feed him a hamburger now i'm making mikhail shabbas if you see a two-year-old that's how we that's how we describe kill shabbos in our days you're going to say car it's not really fire whatever you want you can't put him on you can't bring him to the oven and have him turn on the fire on chalice you're happy great and if he does it by himself it's different i just said if you hold the kid and bring him over that's us or he does himself that's something else if a woman goes together with a husband on vacation so very famous a woman goes on vacation with her husband we're talking about whether or not a woman could testify and say her husband died so when it comes to the death of her husband she's she has nemanjas because it's something that eventually people can find out she she's scared but to get she can't say i got divorced because she could lie so if everything is good charlemagne the sean vice is great bishop on bottom is no war above them rome is battling she says my husband died tiana said she's allowed to get married makes bally and if she says my own night to see album she could do hibou even though she's what if there's peace between them but there's war in the world let's say they go on vacation right and i'm just saying like how did they get into a fight they went on vacation and she opens up the window and she says wow look there's a goat he looks at her and says it's not a goat it's a cow it's not a window it's a mirror so then you start having a thought about them you have a fight but then possible um and then she showed up now she's here oh maze badly i wonder why he's dead i think he's dead ain't no menace you can't believe it even today like when the when somebody gets killed whatever not by us they get killed they take like the husband the first thing the first guy they cop is the husband they bring him into the room and they interrogate him right and then they look in the video they see if he's crying what is he doing exactly is he happy he's crying is he nervous there's certainty on him that if you lose a spouse you cry the clothing is ripped wow okay we have some work tonight at nine o'clock whoever wants to come could come otherwise it's just me in the camera i'll see you basically hashem in about 13 days wish me luck dabbing for me bam miss rabbi say davin have a wonderful day [Music] you