Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 111 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Laughter] ladies and gentlemen or gentlemen some there are some in the room you just don't realize they're i think whatever it's thirteen days to messages days i'm asking each and every one of you look around you have friends that used to do megillah and tightness or mamash what's the lawsuit i don't know cloud9 tell them about subis it's coming up in 13 days it's your christ you're cries where's mendy he's out looking for people let's get them to come back rabboy say let's get them to come back we need to bring back 2 000 people only that's it another thing 700 tickets were sold to the seam in new york 100 bahram it's in somebody's backyard so i don't know how much that backyard could hold so i'm assuming that we're reaching the limit now so hop around get a ticket if you don't have a ticket they're not gonna let you in security the whole thing get a ticket today sign up and let's make this an epic event sitting with a family member who had knee surgery mount sinai hospital new york city i rather remain anonymous from lakewood new jersey reminds me of mice i just thought about it now because there's not a lot of mices today there's a story about the famous balzdoka mr wolfson he there's a guy from lakewood who had the mahla and wanted to go see a doctor the biggest specialist in new york city and they told him it's a two-month wait so they called up mr wolfson he had the connections to everybody and he called up the doctor and the guy said the doctor said no problem tomorrow so mr wolfson sent a helicopter to pick up this younger man and bring him to new york city and mr wolfson himself took the subway that was just the way he was it wasn't that he didn't have the money to take a helicopter or a limousine he was a passion anyway just thought about it because it's lakewood and new york city david schreiber i miss the miscellaneous for the past year and a half with my karusan up to you can't look at me like that because i'm trying to read over here and all i see is your eyes staring at me i don't even know what you got to say no i'm not going to say anything i just can't look at you in any way i'm not in the i'm in the middle of the separate moments for the past year and a half of i try to jump onto the yummy wagon just for a hana this friday i watched this year on the same day for the first time and just went into ruptures uh-huh right absolutely are you p-t-u-r-v i don't know i'm not good so notice no but to notice your nice boro you gave my son schreiber from london i had no idea that he left london the day prior and it came as a shack i'm very familiar sometimes my kids do that they just leave i just stroll and i find out in america the next day now about your share i'm sure that even rebecca okay he's saying let me keep it at 24 000 tell me then but he claims that he didn't have ten thousand talmudim for a single share yes cumulative he had many more your share reached out the most surprising peoples and places someone would not have learned 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ben you hear me have an aliyah rabbi here we go so if you weren't here last night some of you a dick don't come on mr chavez you'll be surprised to see that we have a few new characters that we introduced amazing characters because the question is nachman and noam and mehndi how would you depict a heritage somebody who is mute and what would you do it's a good question it's a good question you want to see how it's how it's happening check out the screen is holding her ears and her mouth in her hands so that depicts somebody that can't hear and can't speak what do you mean here look but now you see it clearly here's the pikaf the guy that has everything going for him and the pireshas this is says noah there you go okay on what do we do when aktana in this case we have a regular tano she's just she's a miner and we have ahiresha's both married to one man and then that man goes bye-bye or he dies and they both fall leave him so they're both there are buttons and they both fall to the brother now what does he do so he cannot be me having both why you can't do khalif why not he rushes is not in the parasha of khalidson get over here abby get over here by the way tuesday okay yeah she could spit through her nose whatever great great question avi we could always rely on you for more of the conscious so what do you do you meab the kireshas and if he wants he can give her get afterwards and the kitano when she gets older he gives her a khalitza that's the eta over here casey takanawasan what do you do when does he give her a get raboisei he's kinda serious when does he give her a get the next morning a week later when after he gives khalitsa to the katana now he can no longer be with the qireshas so therefore he gives her a get uh tagged check out the board there's two options here one of these the katana or the kireshas has one of the things on the top green or red each one has one they both don't have the same it's one or the other either aktana is a hundred percent married or a hundred percent not married there's no in-between by her or maybe it's the rashes is 100 married it's a suffolk in other words suffolk i don't know if she's 100 her marriage is there about on is it 100 marriage or zero you see the zero over there it's in small because they couldn't fit into one line either it's a hundred percent or zero or no mischievous meaning she has a we'll call it fifty percent just uh la saber's heisen not fifty percent could be partial how do you say partial fifty percent stop michigan is meaning she's somewhat married but a hundred she's a hundred percent fifty percent married like there's no suffolk over here she's 50 percent married which one is it the kirishis or the tana it could be the katana or it could be the clearest which one is it but if one is 50 then the other one is a suffix 100 and zero which one is it oh that's the suggest there's only one way to do it we start off with that way we're going to end it that way just the whole um aleph is going to bring us two rivets that's it and if you don't like the riots and it's too much for you you can go to sleep i'll wake you up by the mishna on the bottom says like this we must say that is 50 partial and the katana could be serious serious 100 or absolute zero it's a suffolk we don't know but now i'm going to go ahead and prove to you that it's exactly like this why in the world does he have to divorce the herashes now in order we have to just realize one thing here what is the difference between a qiresh and aktano well they're both they're abundant but if hires could get messed up for life there's a possibility if you put her in a pickle and you cannot do khalit of her zohalida she's not in the parasha you could do khaleesi bogtana eventually once you get but there's a situation where she'll be stuck stalemate you can't do anything that is the problem here so therefore you have to be very careful and sensitive to the cliches how do we get her out of her issue don't forget the first words we said today keita takanasan i want to be misak and i want to fix it i want i want something that's going to work i'm not looking for a problem i'm looking for a solution what is the solution for khareshas so these ok because if you're going to tell me that either is 100 of zero titanic shields and staktana that's only then why in the world do you have to divorce the qireshas top of the third of shas will not mamish we have to go a third down into what into the into the mishnah counting the words fine third of the shots let her remain married to the yavam with a mama you're telling me she's either a hundred or zero so if she's a hundred then her her katana that fell with her did nothing she's she's the obama she's the real one that hires us we left no yeah and if she wasn't at all a obama honors bombing so he married a stranger in the street and let him stay married to her why does he have to divorce her mother now so ask me the same question in reverse so why did you have to wait until she gets older and give her khalid so face if you guys remain married to her what iknow he just married some stranger oh that's no good you can't do ibum to the kireishas because you already married the tano and truvillo ivano you can't do halito to the qiresh is why she's not in the parish show so she's stuck and we don't want her to be stuck mela it must be the reverse omar rashesh bro i can prove to you that the hireshes is actually the messieres she's the 50 percenter that's how rav learned however to learn to rap okay how do i know this design is two brothers are married to two sisters you saw mois kitana kireshas here's the case you have to pick him one has a black cat one has a brand it's hard to see but there's brothers and they're married to two sisters one is aktano one is just mess let's say that the husband of the tana died he rushes yo to beget so the heresh is on the bottom now the town of ebon the resist has to get divorced why because she's a she's older now the hireshes cannot remain married to her husband why because what if the town is a hundred percent if the town is a hundred percent we said right we said a town is either a hundred or zero the kiresha's is fifty but if tektan is a hundred percent so she knocks out the kireshas she's stronger than a fifty percent she's a hundred versus fifty zero what zero zero okay we don't know but on the suffix she has to get divorced we have to force her in the divorce because maybe there isn't sad there's a fifty percent sad sad that she's a hundred [Music] and it's a suffolk but for that suffolk he can't he can't he cannot be with his wife he cannot be with the hirajas anytime he's with the qirashi's maybe he's over and it is sir whatever you want to call and you can't do ibum to dictano because she's a choice he's married her sister is the qireshas maze ballot shall he rashes now the other case is the one on the bottom dies check this out give out did you see that no you didn't if you didn't see you have to see it now you take the dead person and you flip okay oh no now you have okay so if the husband of the hireshes dies to beget again she's a high school the kiresh is a surah alone oh now the heresies is also forever why because maybe the tana is a hundred percent so now i don't know what to do with the qireshas oh but there is one asap of the russians there's one way out and that is if he was over isr and he had relations with the skireshes then nice and low get vahutura wow i can't read my own handwriting okay so some amount of shelf if the tano is married a hundred percent so the koresha is nothing if the tan is not so she's good so it's a hundred it's even now just a simple question not to wear those very interesting sugar back and forth but just this quick question you don't have to get the answer you don't have to know what i'm talking about but just throw it out there what happens question you know everybody should know this answer what happens if the tana eventually dies can he marry the pireshas because we said always a choice is only when the sister is alive and well but if the sister dies there's no ah how about in this case will there be a problem if the sister dies could he marry the khireshas hmm why not no you tell me why not oh so we should know this we're going to learn it today and rashi brings it over here it's a problem you know why because since at one moment in time when the husband died he could not the album could not be me album because she had a sister so therefore she turns into a asia's ah and she's also forever even though later on we're gonna remove that is her since she's also for one moment you remember this she's awesome for one moment she's awesome forever just a very cool ha-laha says gimbarro so what's my proof from this now going back to the first case let's go back to this case what happened the one married to the dictano died we said the town against khalid so the gerash gets to get he rashes if it's like we are saying now the whole time that the qiresh is the 50 percenter and the tana is a suffolk if a 100 or zero that makes sense that if he's over and he goes with the qireshas he gives her a get the mother the more explains the like i said before me album then he had a good relation with the kharishas and then he gave her a get and she's moved to the world hello yarmouth now we're gonna introduce well not new we had it a few times but i'm bringing uriah that it can't be that the heritage is either a hundred percent of zero percent that's a fifty percent why is it good enough to give the qiresha get when there's a a yi bomb that's usur like in this case it becomes apostle of bia will be absolutely patra she will be required to have a khalito also because it's a be absolutely here why would you say that again is enough she's required to have a khalid as well so it's a rayo that it's not is a hundred or zero right is 50. so the way i could get out of it is i could say that this goes according to the mandala and it says bi absula you don't need khalifa and that's why we said just give her a get but if i could prove to you that i can't say that it can't go according to the mandala so i have a good riot okay so the kimora starts with you're telling me there's a bee absolutely here and it ruins there no the beep soul does nothing with the bib sula still she doesn't have to have khalitza the iguana says no it's still a good rally why because it cannot be revenge again like i said before if you're losing me here it's okay in three minutes we're going to be by the mission don't fall asleep yet because how are you going to explain this to us here the bottom of the ahmad we're going to get there so let's do a hakudama person who's married to two usoimas doesn't have to be two years times rashes right away it just means she's a tana and she's rashes the piraci doesn't matter the point is steve simons vamaze a guy is married to two women and he dies if the other relations with both both of the the avamis the tana and the qireshas the two to the rabbanons same thing the one of the brothers nesrush dame i love the first one is user now the truth is the katana the tana doesn't have to be like that dicta she actually can remain married but listen to this nothing's wrong with the katana if he had relations with tektana first so the you could say with her either she's just ivamo she's not a z vama so then what's the problem the only problem is xero because he might be miyabim that he rushes first okay fine another wrench in here so kate santa can awesome what do you do here's or the town is nothing and he was with her and melee gives her again we're trying to prove that it can't go according to rebel camille and if you can't go into accordance we have a great raya that he rashes is 50 50 just 50 percent of the evening respiration we have this problem maybe he'll be by all the rest of the heavy lay be this goes we have a why do you have xavier because maybe there's a bee absolutely but you said according to me there's no such thing as absolutely doesn't ruin anything so melee can't be remnant the whole problem here is according to our bottom there's a problem with beef so i'm concerned about missoula so i said both of them are awesome so this must be going everything must be going through abundance if everything goes according to our bottom we have a great writer from rafa's that is right that we're talking about a 50 50. we're talking about the haresh's is and the tan is the one that's either 100 or zero or avashi one more mauritian from this case let's see this is just the case we just discussed somebody's magnet too oh from this case miration amin it says i could also prove from the race in this case where the husband of the hireshes died and he was over the bequeath was over and he married his me but like tony listen to this you have to stick this in it's another case now like tani in this case where the tana's husband dies it doesn't say something hey why didn't it say think about it it should say what if the guy was over the guy in the bottom was over married victano doesn't say anything if he was over it only says in the case of the kireshas if he's over with the piracious why does he say anything about what if he is over with dictano i'll tell you why why because that's a big absolutely oh and you see that be absolutely the problem that's why i don't say who's either because if yourself doesn't help anything she's the katana is going to still be in the same exact spot because it's a b absolute she says mario no that's not a great riot image from her loyal that's not a right why you're asking me again why didn't say a case where the guy the guy on the bottom the the guy married was i've already married dictano no he rashes the only way out of her pickle here is for the guy to be over is her and then he gives her a get so the mission is going to tell you by the way there's a way out she's not a gooner for life if a guy is over there is her usually i don't tell you his surum i don't want to talk about a guy that's over is sir he's over here she's over this i don't talk like that but in this case i need to tell you that she has a way out she's not stuck for life but i have no reason to tell you that a guy was over his sir and marry dictator what good does that do for me so man i left that out that's what the mother says it's not a riot what this is their hatter exactly this is their hat there and therefore i don't want to talk about it you'll be loving subs i'm telling you you'll be loving subase we just learned a person was married to two katanas and he died typically you could only be with one obama he was with both but they both there were barons he didn't he wasn't diver the brother was the bomb china the first one mother of think about it turned to that cuff dialogues the first one either she's a hundred percent and if she's a hundred percent he was kind of her the fact that he's over is with the sister that's just nus but it doesn't affect the kenyan that he had in the first one or the first one is a zero so you use masano with the first one was out of the segment doesn't do anything nothing happened he's he's not he doesn't puzzle okay by the way i'm stopping here for a second because we did a big suggestion i want to tell you a murray story i couldn't see on on friday no shyness of the surge at all let's check this to pass this kayak where in america is part of chicago where one day after mehndi reminded me of the story i heard the story a long time ago it's a smack a story a story about shalom and how to be mevator there was a uh argument between neighbors they built a wall and they had a big fight about the wall who has to pay for the wall they went to the rove and back and forth finally one of the guys said you know what i'll pay for the wall i don't want mcclaykiss enough i'm going to pay for the wall here's my vata and i said it might say yesterday continue with the theme from vitor you don't lose out so he goes to the contract and says how much money do i owe you so congress says five thousand shekel for the wall plus the fifteen thousand you owe me for the other work i did for you so he writes him a twenty thousand shekel check and he's movado okay he gave five thousand a month goes by and he notices that the check never came out of his account so he goes back to the contract and says what's going on the guy says listen i gave it to one of our cousins i gave it to him turns out that the guy he gave the check to was a ghana of course and he saw it says twenty thousand two zero zero zero she added another zero he made a 200 000 shekel he goes to the bank and the teller looks at it and she says wait a minute it says 200 000 in numbers but in the words it says shackle so the guy takes his feet and ran out of the bank he got out of there quickly because if they're going to catch him on fraud and then may law they never cashed the check and he gave 5 000 but he he made back 15 thousand from vitor you don't lose out he did nothing he gave nothing he gave he he wrote a check he thought he made 15. stay yeah we did turn the oh turning the bass turning the page sponsored by motion horn in arnold hills and sticking information aren't there nisano sponsored by nissano rouhani again people ask me no it's not nissan against it's uh uh an anonymous nasa even though the san against and miranda kasha great friends for introducing me to mdy because nasano did not introduce miranda cash to a different assembly well miranda cash did not introduce nissan should say mira i knew nisan was part of him by be former okay the turning of the page is the spontaneous lofa i said it's not in the central gans fight names stay her choice if [Music] if the same thing happens instead of two times it's two hersheys and these miyabim both the first one is not possible but if you take you mix two di rabona's two different types of the rabbanons because if he first had relations with dictano which could be a hundred percent or zero percent then i have to resume the crashes why why was he poisonous because they made it with make zero that's what we discussed before inaudible [Music] okay it's like zero like we explained the number alef he could stay with her but no we made it zero because maybe he'll be with the hires first okay this case this is the xero for this case if he was with the qiresha's first and then now this is easy right boys this is very easy two yavami's fault him one is the dai raisa she's a regular woman one is the rabbana and she's here and he had relations he was miyabim the normal woman what happens that knocks out there's no shield over here don't fall asleep on me here knocks out the clearances is a great marriage everything's good but if he had relations first of all now the hires need to get what about the pikachus again twofold to him and he has he does even so the hireshes needs to get what about the vikas she needs a get and what else khalidso why because it's a b absolute good luck tana again this is the exact same case because we have a director later on he has relations with tektano it does nothing however and khalidzo revelazer oymer this sounds familiar we added another mishna milan we teach the katana to do mio and therefore what if the title doesn't mean then retroactively depends how you learn how far back do you go like you're shy like but retroactively she's not married and therefore what he remains with is igla as she says it's revelation and revelation rebellion pidas also agrees that allah has killed lazar you hear this it's it's if you don't have rash you can get a little confused what he's saying about himself no he lived a thousand years later he was an amira and he's saying about atana i don't know how many years later but many hundreds of years later that atana that lived in previous generations that was like him now what we teach the tana to do meow say today that you don't want to be married to your husband even though he's dead she's the obama and it would retroact retroactively and know the marriage and only the toilet remains says remember this case before we had potato heads we had two brothers married to two sisters we had two baltimore brothers married to two sisters ago and over there where the three-way macholic is what to do the daila is now at the rise of falling liebhum teruving and reuben is stuck with a sister that's the rabbanam what do you do three three-way macholinkas and we said that is that your teacher to be my mayan once she was your own teacher if she does it great yesterday we had crazy sparrows that it turns i don't know you guys learned it or not but it's unbelievable it's so beautiful but if you don't do anything niktana gets older then her kidushin turns into a condition you should have came last night retroactively five years when she was a tano it's unbelievable rashi it's hard to understand okay great but that's not how we're passing don't worry about it oh i want leia to be mikhaima mr de rise of ebam so i teach the little one the miner to do to do me alba but over here that he had relations with both the kaivensis why should i do me now let them just get again and show them my israel and the older one within the khalid as well as we said before yesterday and it would only say our mishnah that what both of them fell to him and he was me having both of them because both of them fell to him even the dialogue avalida over there in this case that's on the board who is ruben really married to victano so think let her be married to her husband they had a good they had a good marriage a good relationship just because the daughter of philly even doesn't do anything he's already married to the title why should i mess up the tana's life and tell her to be mine right the mission of the official mission is sponsored from let's say he's nine years old shabalia vomitana she's four years old i don't know she's a vomit now we're talking about aktano who's married off by her father we're talking about their isa here since they're both not in the parish of ebon let them grow up together until they become daily could he give her a get could could the cousin give her a get no there's no get for a cotton ball magdala what if he's a cotton had relations with igdaila together let him let her bring him up which would seem that they continue having relations that the kimura is going to discuss that shows up with a get and she says i need halita i need helito because we never had relations why this is svara to say that out of busa whatever they never had relations there's such a hazako within 30 days it's impossible what's she saying is not true she says she's in a relationship she requires khalita to we've actually met likes we could ask him nicely it doesn't feel like it not as tysos it's me that's dime let him give dukhalito it's a big deal should we move his shoe says thais this tap thai swiss maybe he's embarrassed the spinning could embarrass him which is a pellet to me because the spitting is of the rice that's spitting in his face no it's spinning in it the time talks about this is it a bazin for somebody to be divorced yes or no is it a bazaar what do you guys say stuck up with zion not anymore unfortunately stick up the zion so is it a la shark to say somebody got divorced so one thing he says is apotheca the whole world knows what he says very interesting don't say it and sometimes i know for myself oh you heard that guy got divorced huh he got divorced for the fifth time already you see he's saying it in a derogatory way that's awesome believe it or not even to say somebody's divorce could be a israeli but the same thing you could say on kalitsa it's maybe there's a little designer maybe not i'm kind of missing okay fine i actually felt that it was a little bizarre and one of my relatives and i feel funny saying it that he did khalid so he constantly writes emails how he took khalid says i was doing the kalitsa but i feel his little it's not sogeshma it's not a choice you're right you're right but it's not a choice that she's spattered him but this says that it's a it's a design correct you say maybe then it was bizarre because they didn't do ibum but that's not what tyson says this is the spitting part he just got spat on the toyota said his he showed fine and let's say the thought said to do it in his face and it should hit him in the face that you understand is a design yes so right by his feet is also bizarre no no he says in our days he's forced in our days compared to our days okay and if he says no she's right we never had relations i feel like even a very long time later we could force them to khalito honey there is she got lucky the she had a huge fight with the brother-in-law they were sitting at the shops table the words were said she says i'm never going to see you i'm never going to be in your house and also her husband dropped dead without children and now she has a problem she can't be with him because she was modern so it depends since it happened before he died so she didn't do it to get out of the e-bomb she just did it because she was angry with the guy we forced him for khalid's bala but if she's trying to pull schtick her husband dies and now they say you're going to be with this jerk so she says i'm going to know from him that doesn't work we can ask nicely but we can't force him do you miss scavenger and if she had cavani even when her husband was alive she saw that he's about to die she knew something's up i feel about vaccinating then we can't force three of them says the gemara element season like the famous european major we have this in the september remembering all of shah says for the most remote thing that might happen and ramirez says remember remains always of the opinion that we're concerned that maybe the the furthest thing that maybe the katana and the cotton maybe is the sars or islanders she's a nylas and if so how could they have relations all the time over here the mr says they have relations i feel that every mayor cameraman it's only when a cotton marries it will be a problem in the same category like omar in that case he didn't say that a cotton can't be me what if a cotton was with a good idea he already had relations it's different we're not talking we're talking about after the fact remember just saying it seems like he could continue on with what he's doing they call b.o.b how could he continue every time he's with her he might be over according to your mayor what if he turns out to be a stars ella mcfarlane like your mayor that our mission does not go like room mayor should do a few more lines let's keep on going kari khan asked the gemara a very simple question you could read over here locking lock of shame how could this nine-year-old be with the obama when he's not he can't produce a child over here he's too young his bia is a beer how long do we need to be but it physically can't produce a child and it's like a block of shame so she should be asian she bought she should be us doesn't matter it's matchman the posik everybody rob omar um here i i just found this ugly chart i i redid it later but i couldn't find that this was easier for me to find this morning if you remember the famous case of it's just actually everybody love my messenger what does it mean if the baby wasn't in the world when his brother died but if he was in the world for one minute he is the of them so you see from that possibility that talks about his absolutely lovely that all you have to be is even one minute all even though you're not in the powershell one one day old baby is not in the parachute but it's still easy of them we learned to then you can't say that the cotton is usual that's the boss of the sharia has it possible that and this is this far that we said before has it possible that the of them when he's nine years old is us and five years later he becomes mother vehicle i should say six years ago if he cannot be me ever that minute of the death hare occasionally bassoon remember the same story we said by that even though later on the sister-in-law died she remains awesome why because at the time of the nephili you have to be mother [Music] maybe it's tacos have a wonderful day a wonderful week don't forget to bring your friends subusa you