Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 11 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning [Music] today it's even more harsh of the come to learn than yesterday i could only imagine how many people here have headaches and hangovers it's unbelievable bamas to come and to learn torah in every situation every day we have an amazing prepared cheer today i have to say yesterday was probably one of the hardest days to prepare share you hear judah i know your stickle hung over but let's go let's let's get this together i accomplished sitting for hours trying to prepare four or five lines unbelievable worse than learning on a plane it's unbelievable so welcome to all the guests where's burger what's your first name yo ali where's burger from brooklyn new york and you're here with a son or something he's getting a mitzvah you didn't go to the castle of course you first came here now overlooking the coastline all right so i just want to take you real quickly if you um you want to see the screen a beautiful piece of art by our artist yoshi this is it says magic cheer on the thing and on his head it says amaritz and this kutak in the monasters there's fish blood there's peanuts there's even woody govaldika stuff the next one is it looks like you struggle goldstein i'm not sure something happened this beard and that's ellie dykman now one of the reasons i'm showing this picture is because this is a cave the cave 2013 cave and it brings back terrible memories from yesterday and i'll explain i had a guest maison shahaya he came with a battle of cave he said i know you love cave i brought the cave right before the sudhi comes over and he says ellie i have to apologize i couldn't control myself i drank the cave all of it the entire battle i promise you my sister and here he is he's leg la rush with his battle of cave this is you're going to see okay i'm off i missed you the shook knock on horowitz and ravi think don't you think who else okay that's it these are the baldwin brothers now i got to show you this uh i'm not i'm really not uh happy about this i'm not uh condoning this but in the spirit of purim i want to show you this video real quickly hold on you can put on the uh the volume real loud here it gets good over here this is what we call avoid the zara you ready here we go [Music] i'll show you the screen here [Music] [Applause] oh that we need new either new equipment or new guy in the equipment but this is not working out that's the sign all right we need the best equipment part of the house for the coilovers mr anonymous in honor of my mother's seventh yard said rafa are you also not in my grandson's offer of this coming shabbos yakova marcus lattis refuse name of our son malcolm victor zechariah reforest lama lisa leia oh i got to tell you this i was over a tremendous sister and i want to do two robin at the seam i'd have to do the calculation real quick famous i didn't do it i should shut the program it's the program's fault okay here we go is it shut get valdic here we go let me just do this real quick i was honored over there by the dinner and as the guest of honor and as the messiah and the magician for 800 plus daff my wonderful kaverim noam fix and avi kamiyansky who advised me robin once before and they put my face all over the buses and people thought that i hired those things okay they came and they gave me an unbelievable matana i'm doing the math here real quickly oh okay what do they give me i'm not joking they come with six boxes in front of everybody said we want to give you it's really for your wife not for you okay i brought one with me i'll show you this is what they gave me and immediately my first reaction my meet this took over and i'm like are you kidding me i put in i don't know 13 14 000 hours to prepare 800 off and this is what they're giving me a butterfly for my wife i later found out that each one of these costs about 200 plus dollars and there's six of them my wife really likes it gevaldic but on the spot i started i i went on i went crazy like this is what you gave me with crazy give me something better this is what a magazine deserves but they redeem themselves or buy say they really redeem themselves this is the stuff i like and this is the stuff i'm very proud of and they bought me this ampuram it's a picture that you've seen before but it's a blow up and it's an amazing amazing photograph first of all i want to give ishikaya to stroll goldstein who gave me this idea i called him up i said how do we do it do we rent branches what do we do how do we get he says no i'll show you a picture that i took the photographer and it happens to be that we have one of the best photographers in the world especially here in arizona eugene weisberg look at the clarity you can see every single face every single phase and mordechai seltzer use the program and there's approximately 600 plus people in this picture alone there's over a thousand people at the scene but in this picture which was close to midnight close to 600 if you count the hundred women behind them with pizza fine but no he really put a dot on each person's face and the program counts it like that so you don't have to bother counting it's very difficult because i tried it myself so you should have for this unbelievable they redeem themselves and i ask hilo you could get yeah on the merch side it's like seven hundred dollars it's per it's a dollar per face all right on purim i i hung it up i don't really have room in my house but i realized that when it was high up nobody noticed it but it was at eye level people came over i'm here i'm there everybody went over to the picture to see where they were and the video was amazing but now as you realize by now that i didn't really prepare the daf and that's why this monologue is gonna that's a little bit of a problem ravenna okay so yesterday we learned this amazing um let's say we have four brothers it doesn't matter these are all the baldwin brothers right there in the picture room and shimmy lady either the brothers ruvain goes ahead and i put a shoe there we have to have a better prop but for now this will do that's an antique shoe that they use it costs thousands of dollars today we try to to get it it's a bit of a issue to bring it here to this year but bazel hashem we will have one here by the time you've hummus is over so rouvain performed khalitza too a iobama on top of him leo we'll call it one of the brothers somebody died la michena he performs khalita now as we learned yesterday a wife of a brother is israel's ah you're not gonna marry your wife's brother your sister-in-law but if the brother dies without children it's a mitzvah to perform ibum or khalito what happens after you perform one of those the isr of asia's ah is removed so if he performs halita though he cannot marry leia again he performs khalifa she's like divorced bye bye now not by buying the sense of bye bye like rubin bye-bye but a different bye-bye she is you can't you can't marry her again what's this at the marry her only a iser love the iser asiasach which is the isocarous is very humblers arise that's removed what happens is as you see on movement it says israel now what about the other brothers what if they go ahead and marry her so according to rashlakish it's a issacharus because that israe karus was only removed for that one brother that performed the khalita bonafer shimon levy hoothy you see israel's here let me turn on that laser people like the laser turn it on here we go but these brothers right over here they have a issacharis okay rebecca this guy ruvain he performed the khalita but he performed it as a messenger in a shliyak for his brothers so whatever happens to him happens to the brothers so he removed the israel kardas it became mr alive it says it's the life of all the brothers now if they go ahead and they marry her illegally then i want to marry her says that she'll be bothered but they're only over israel that is a chorus then the gemara went ahead and brought a contradiction in the bryce so on the one hand it says in the bryce uh that if you perform khalitza to the obama like reuven did in that picture and then he goes ahead and marries her illegally and he dies he did something good over here you have to do khalito it says in other words the brothers shim and levy you that have to do khalifa why do they have to do khalita we should treat her like a mother like a daughter if a daughter falls to you lee boom you don't do khalita you're not related you can't be related to her you can't do you can't do give him to her so there's no there's no zika so if reuven went ahead and he married his halutsah after the khalita according to rishlockish that these brothers and her are is her chorus then she never fell to them so why does it say on top over there and the bride said that they have to perform a khalito misat cheney it says in the brazo if one of the brothers went ahead if shimon label you they went ahead and married her the condition is nothing who does that sound like like you're schlockish ruslan says it's nothing rebecca says it's only a laugh so would would would catch on so which one is it is it the blue or is it red it's a contradiction on the one hand it seems that it works the conduction works reuven's illegal condition works and you have to perform a kalitsa on the other hand it says that it doesn't work says the gemara beautifully kasia top of your aloha ten daf into your vamas by the way yesterday a very brilliant guy in the sheer i know he's brilliant he's like he's a very good businessman his name is benny comes over to me and he says i'm just starting to happy vamas so if you guys are not copying it you're in good company because there's very smart guys here that are but they're happy they're starting to happen and then the guy comes on purim i'm not exaggerating with a three and a half foot board of meat so you know what three and a half feet it's wider than this thing it had i don't know what was that a half a lamb on it cow that's that's what it does for a business he sells this stuff but he made it he prepared it apparently he's he was calling my wife how many guests you have how many guests no one but then like we had a bunch what what is that a wreck is that a racquet lamb it was the size of my gemara like yo thank you but benny's been no but by the time i got to the meal he said i'm sorry i ate it all so let's see here we go so this is people had a little bit of an issue but we're going to repeat it over and eventually it's going to sink in i changed the socket's vulnerability with the pace and this net to the store i think it fits better i got to speak to the artist we got to redo it not means he's born it's hard to see from a three-year-old kid whether he's born out no that means he was born so again we're going back to this case mace we had neula over here we're going to change it up a little bit mammish a little bit there's a brother who died he left over a little wife on top over there her name is rahul come shimon and he's toilet sir yeah i'll show you comes this guy shimon and he takes ruvain's wife and he is highlights what does he do afterwards he does something else or he's mikadash after he's makadesh all of a sudden a brother is born what's that called nylad so says him are like this it's not the bar is going to repeat these words don't worry about it what does that mean he did step one he stepped to firstly the khalitsah then he did it now yesterday we we mentioned the halacha according to ramakiva rebukiva holds that if you are makadish somebody that's us or just alive the condition is not khal at all that was yesterday we mentioned it that's one of jerusalem we're not going like that the kedushin is a good kid you're either alive because so these are brothers that are in existence so the regular brothers we're going back to this right over here shim and levi huda they have to perform khalita wai because he did either everything is good where am i sorry sorry i'm sorry man is so what happened is like in the picture over here forget this picture now this picture there was a kid that was born afterwards so since he came along afterwards while his brother simon was married to rahul he came into the world when he had a married brother and that brother dies so mama he has to perform a khalita what about his other brothers they don't perform a khalito why because it's a zakaris so only according to shimon this picture right over here this nylad has a connection to shimon and his wife in other words coins we don't care about history the history is that in step one there's another brother who died and left over rahul rabban and hold that's a big problem for this kid in the stork because once he was not alive when his brother was married to rahul but rip shimon says no there's a new a new marriage here between shimon and rocco forget about reuben and rocco there's no marriage i don't care about history i care about right now when he was born he was born into a world where he had a brother that was married and that brother that was married shimon went bye-bye so the kid in the store has to perform a khalito but what about the brothers that were alive when reuven was alive and then jimmy came along and was toilets and then mikkadesh they're they're not allowed to have anything to do with her she's is there cars on them let's see inside these are the children that were born later the store kid came and grabbed shimon only according to shimon who holds that he has a connection to his brother shimon we don't care about the history it's not a fast day today right oh my god came along let's go back to this one right over here shaman comes along and is makatish makatishir does khalido and does kidushin a love command the other guys the other brothers in this picture did i have better picture i don't remember anymore okay the other brothers this car is with her so therefore she doesn't fall to them they don't have to do anything ravin omar ravina salva ravin is going to do the opposite ravenos again so we go back to our bureaucratic holds i just i'm just showing this as uh to confuse everybody again the idea of mace noiled the idea that in step five this kid in step five he was born with a stork after his second brother died according to shimon take away the clock for a second because i don't see it according to shimon he's mother oh you guys see a fight he's motor to to the step three he's motor to rahul why because when he was born same thing we said a second ago when he was born he was born into a marriage labia had already married rocco so it's not just actually according to shimon only according to he was born after step one and his brother ruvain no longer married to rahul and therefore he's forever us okay we're just taking that and using it in our case of khalid sankirushan it's the same thing revenues but rebecca and holds that these three brothers are all alive in other words when rouvey performs khalitza on the ifama he's a shliyak for all four brothers for himself and other three brothers and when when the israelite goes away it goes away for all the brothers and when he goes ahead and he performs a condition on this this ebola which he shouldn't have the condition they all have to do the original brothers are around they have to perform you like khalid but if the kid in the stork goes ahead the kitchen and he's been catching another club because camacho are born and robot and hog that step five kid or in this case the kid in the stork even though he came into the world when his brother shimon was married to rahul but it happens to be that his brother reuben was also married to rojo and he wasn't in the world when he was married to rahul and what is that called isis that kid in the stork is always a sir to rahul forever and ever and therefore if he goes into makatishir what is that worth zero next it i gotta tell you this i've been holding this back for since the beginning of this after so because it's much important i want to tell you this myself it's a true story and i confirmed it yesterday with the bacharam from irish row that if you review two minutes late the chakras you go home for a week go home there's no monkey not not one minute late nobody nothing come late to say they're going for a week a lot of guys they want to go home for a week they come in to say that for a minute later i'm not kidding so this bunker comes over the reshiva and he says i was already home i met my brother's kawa i like to go again this is what do you mean the minigame shiva is only once you don't go home he says besides what do you have to get to know your brother's kala he says what do you mean what i have to get to know she's my future your vomit i need to know he says oh that's a good cop you go home he enjoyed it they say that when when he hears a good good job my future is verma my future obama um no ismar how about you voma he was so he was [Music] yeah so they had to get a guy to cut the door [Music] so now again this is we're going with through the same the same ideas that we learned before what happens after somebody performs a khalita we had a muklicus the other brothers are they ivan allah on karis what happens if one of the brothers performs the igbo removes the israelis from that ibama but what happens to her co-wife we said before that according to a biochem yeah courtney one brother does he's a messenger for all brothers one ubama is a messenger for all the wives if you hold that it's one brother versus one of the wives and they removed from each other the israelis but everybody else is left with karis this goes according to your stockish one person performs a khalitza or evo everybody is removed from the israel of asia there's no more cars from here on out it is only an assay omravido marav sora soito if you remember it was we were still moms in the beginning of vomit stuff gimmel on the days the gemara asks why does the mission say 15 we know how to count and what the gemara's answer was to exclude this gemara right here amarav according to rav soras soytasuro you have adam let's say somebody's wife is mizana then she becomes us with her husband and her co-wife becomes user to the yavam so the guy dies before i had an opportunity to give her a divorce and designer falls down together with the co-wife they're both potter from eboom no human coin to rav no jalito karius uh what did i do here i didn't remember why i said this maybe serena oh venister of initma i know this is very important this thing here but i'm not here a hundred percent so you look at it was there more that we already learned i have no idea we did yeah why did you say oh very good what this one uh oh let's go back why is it an assay because the taurus says that you're 100 percent says one person is miabim not two brothers or not two it can't be me adding to your vamas why it says in the puzzle but rashi explains obviously more whatever lava bomber cloud say this is more of a positive that you should be buying a bias but you learn from it it's not a live it's an assay so that's why rebecca says it's an essay fine next this teaches us that if a person is a saita she's a zainab there's toma it says nitma and it also says by all that rice so we see that she's not she's a nervous she's like nervous whatever we do with the nervous the 15 hours that we have in the first mishna we add this to the list according to rap says though should be says that if there is a from one of the brothers the other the other ones are potter now what's the case the case is like this there was a woman very very sad case a woman her husband went on a business trip and never came back home comes the guy yanko says i saw your husband he was held up in a robbery he was murdered i saw fight so based on the the the testimony she goes and she gets married a year later sham alaikum he's home the original husband what's both of them have to divorce her now what about ibum so rip shimon holds us you could be miab now she's a little bit of a zainab here because she shouldn't have she should have looked into it more she it's a little bit of her fault yes it's trigec yet it says here that as a zainab there is there is evil there is khalida raf says that she's mama shahirva she's potter from evil and khalid what's the obvious answer that she's not a real zainab there's no real aid them she did whatever she could do she thought she could get married it's she's mama shahinas i'm telling you that there's nos purposely but obviously so that they were born and somebody made with the a mistake makkah allah so what's even the haber meaning it doesn't make sense the question kosova called the talking about in their eyes they're talking yeah but when established and they they said that she has to get divorced and we treat her we treat her like the rice designer that did it on purpose and the mainland there shouldn't be any any iphone what are you talking about there master of ashi nicholas vishal tumor if a husband tells his wife he's mcconaugher it's called mcconnell he warns her don't seclude yourself with pleni and she goes into seclusion for the amount of time that it takes to be metamor a surya the base of a sword [Music] apart again it says the word she says three times from there we learn that this saita this woman that was worn by her husband not to be secluded she's a surah her husband she's a surah too that guy that she was with and she's a surah to eat truma she's a kyani married so nicholas but what does it say what does raf hold if the husband dies ralph says there's no gibbons no khali to nothing zero why because she's uh erva and sora is it sarah servo mama's part of the first mishna treat her like you treat your own daughter if a daughter falls to you there's no evils nothing is i'm not saying she's a hundred percent saying the suffix we don't know 100 percent what happened over there we have regly ladover as he calls it we have very good reason to believe something happened but it's not 100 you can't say it was eden nevertheless sponsored by moisture or noticeably sugar in the original the original sugar shaker sponsored by moisture kanberski in honor of brian and talia edgar look at this the guys that turn in the page they make it in my michelle's manus he's in there woody wasn't that unbelievable the vodka stuff we're going we're going straight rabbit cats by the way i should really call you up here give out a guy i met him yesterday i mean i saw him a few times before he's a teacher for korea and if anybody needs kriya he's top stuff he's unbelievable guys if you have other jobs for him speak to him at the end i'm telling him he's a great guy bemis cavaldo guy had a lot of not from yesterday what's that if a person here this is the best i could do this morning person we'll call him a dentist from the five towns i love the shadow cool guy from the five towns the hozar dentist the woman who never saw a dentist no one said i'm just saying i'm a little bit upset at that particular woman i'll tell you why every formula had a murder idea what better way than me showing up here like that woman i need to show what she looks like i turned over the world they will not lend that thing out i couldn't get it i couldn't get it i got the i got the pink crocs i couldn't get the thing fine i don't know what they have they make it themselves what do you did you see what okay boutique yeah there is i just couldn't find where it is fine so anyways she's married to mr five town guy and he divorces her and uh the plumber from monty i don't give he goes ahead and he marries her what's that is that the five counter can never marry her again he goes eddie he marries her step three marries her he fights on what it says in the torah you know look look he can't marry her he marries her and it happens to be this guy he used to be maybe he's trying to become a little firmer i don't know what the thing but he's married to also your xiaomi lady too not such a firm one so she has a phone or thing whatever just two phones and then he goes bye bye so the shyla is because he married the burka lady illegally he's not that a marrier the plumber married her in between now obviously if the plumber doesn't marry her he's it's a mitzvah to marry her back though he said already fine by the way did we shine him say beautiful over here if anybody was wondering what's this whole idea that the time of the mitzvah so to speak the ramban says it makes a lot of sense this whole idea of magic because you want to avoid um what's a good word for it you want to avoid people doing monkey business in other words they what you can do is it's a trick somebody wants to be misana you get a le you you could be a novel brushu satora that's what you could do you divorce your wife she goes on a vacation for two weeks does whatever she wants and it comes back and you marry her again somebody saw we need to avoid that so you say well if you're going to be with anybody during those two weeks i can never marry again so you can't do any monkey business it avoids monkey bits fine so you mara so it's very in those that what the monkey business right well he could yeah a guy can marry a hundred women i'm saying for the wife don't say it loud because then i got it ready the same lady that wrote me an email about how come her face is covered you know okay i don't think that that aveda is right in the tiger okay fine so but there's a difference between harrison and the suin ericson we call it kidushin it's just giving her conducion but you don't take her as a wife in those days you can do kidushin and then a few months later do it's harrison in the sun you do arise and we call it heiress and dennis so if it was only the irison they never were together he just gave her a ring or whatever then there's no issue to be maxer the guy dies and then five counter can remarry her to defile but it really means that it was bia there was there was there was almighty even if just there was a money thing going on there so unbelievable that we're talking about a completely different case we have a positive of max also and the pasta is not even talking about magic sauce in that part it's talking about a whole different case that's talking about a woman was already married and her husband told her not to be secluded and she was so mela what do you see here that even suffolk thomas usur he just the whole pasuk is talking about a case that he told her don't be mister and she was and it says that she's parted from khalido says the gemara my mister nivella no you didn't read it right mr doesn't mean that he warned her and he doesn't know what happened jose then was real everything it was real but my carolinas it's just a nice way of speaking that's the difference why do i need the positive what i have to go into max grishas and use that there's a whole parachute about it vinus ravi nitzma it says before us by the parish of saito that's just allah if you only go by the parasha of soyta then it's an essay there's no lab over there and what's the difference if it's not malcus that the torah says that that you cannot marry that woman who was mr you can't remain married to her and if you do you get marcus i wouldn't know that without this positive mammal i need this apostle ryoza vikki berlav besoy the leslie he holds that the zero love in other words if i continue being married to my wife who i'm suspecting whoever's knows there's no love i don't get markets so if you look at the at the at the screen for a second in the past of massacre it says not in this not in that chat over there but just as a so the the positive is telling me according to resume given that we're talking about real marriage so guys we keep on hold that number one there's two magazines like we saw before is only real that the the plumber guy not only was makadashire but they were together nissuan so therefore he doesn't have a pasuk for saitama yeah ribosome keeper holds the whole position talking about so what about asylum that a husband tells his wife don't be secluded and then he continues living with her it's only an assay i don't have a special passion but according to the possibility of so he's talking about a saita so two things happen here first of all i'm over on max the plumber will be if the plumber just gave her condition he gave her some money give her ring the original husband is over immediately number one number two the saita has a full lab because that's in the positive masters of your side according to them the puzzlemaster is talking about get alive and if you get alive you get marcus maxwell shows the mission out somebody [Music] divorced his wife and then so it's basically do i have a thing here sarasota yeah here's the here's the case you have the dentist from the five towns he had a wife divorced her the plumber marries her and then he remarries her after he shouldn't have married her but he has a second wife that's what sorrow what happens to that sorrow i'll leave you with the resume and keep it like the body lock even though everybody is going to give yourself the opinion that the passing by maximum size is talking about her about the whole posting is talking about magazines they forget about saita so mela it says the word toma over there so she's mamas it's like the 15 of our mishnah the tsar has the same allah i cannot be me [Music] it says he it's only hersh only she's a nerva but it's are not no that he goes for something else just to say that they they're not possible for kuna they're this pasta is not mamish talking about it it's talking about a saitama and making them but you can't ignore the fact that the the simple wording is talking about at the end of the day the puzzle not talking about though so melissa she's muttered to be missible that sora the ushami lady right over here even though she's a sorrow with the burka lady and the dentist shouldn't have married the burka lady but there's no puzzle to tell us that they're tsaris when it comes to evil mm-hmm some say no it's very similar but the opposite i believe there are abnormalities according to the possible massacre is just like the the one that he returned so just like he wasn't allowed to marry the burka lady so he's not allowed to marry that sorrow so when he die i mean when he goes bye bye he can't do evil no the brothers can't perform even to the two of these but that the other day in the past it says he no i'm not going to put both of them in one category only one of them only the burka lady but maybe the word he is not going on her it's going on her sons i haven't for surprise that's a mishna if a person has to your vomits to be me album yeah regular case a brother dies two obamas come down to him now what is i want you take the puzzle and just keep the soul with her give her do whatever you have to do over there give khalid to the boss she says what does it mean mike sherry might absolutely eliminate maybe you're talking about absolute for cayenne let's say but he's he could take any one he wants any one of these two women might have to leave me so what's the difference if he takes this one or that one it's me i'm this one me i'm that one ella i think more wants the force sharik and i'm telling you you could hear me first it says you could loi loyal cherry cherry lama no it's like our havamina is cute what difference does it make to him he could do whatever he wants let him be highlights the kosher lady no it makes a huge difference this is there's a lesson in me that's whereby side i'm serious don't pour out your water when other people need it why would you ruin a woman's life why would you make her possible and she can't marry a client tomorrow you're making her hallow so she came here to kind do your khalita on the woman who anyways is positive to the client it's a lesson i learned here in this neighborhood robbie grieman's wife comes to our house every week tuesday wednesday sometimes friday leftovers from las chaves there are people in the neighborhood that are starving i'm not kidding starving food that i thought for me is not edible because it's already one day after shabbos throw it out i'm not kidding there are people that love this stuff they say it's one of the best my wife is a great cook on tuesday they know she she's the best cook but i don't have to get captain on wednesday so i was cleaning up my maksan the first i just moved here to show took all the stuff all the drill bits all the stuff through in the garbage i see a hundred kids in the garbage cans they're coming out with so tacos what your your you think it's you don't need this water don't pour it out especially in these neighborhoods and it's a lesson for everybody have a wonderful shushan purim by the way mati shabbas today is friday right multishabbos let's do 50 minutes later gerson okay 8 45 8 45 which really means 9 15. 8 45 you