Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 109 by R’ Eli Stefansky

welcome to all the guests we have with us two gentlemen from south africa your name sydney edition and your son your elegiant and we have all the way from boro park the bar mitzvah schreiber from london uh since my father didn't sponsor or not on my birthday i had at least give something from the real clever man zacharias stern so if you're wondering what he looks like his father also sent an email which he doesn't know about and here's zachariah i think he's giving seriously i don't care what they do they can burn my face as long as they don't have spiderman on their cake a lot of kids have all these stoolsim on their cake and look burn it not burn it [Music] uh for you thank you for providing nightly child care says david stern puts his kid in front of the tablet and he watches the duff unbelievable it's a different generation the hemi celsius says spotted in great neck no here no here nakamiya there's a sticker on the thing nakami just got to america a lot of people are all excited 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whoever wants to sponsor the coil next month be in touch kyle's passenger for the week let's to have of teenoik and esther foolish lema who's my mitzvah oh that's right get over here wow i didn't stop here he is [Applause] [Music] you have been with us every single day since rosh hashanah every day tell the island you almost got kicked out of school for doing the death right you mean i was here let's speak to him but you stuck with it and you're gonna stick with it and you're to finish us with us yeah very very impressed very impressed not a single doctor he missed three vomits in everything unbelievable and he brings his father too yeah he brings his father here we are we're holding one line before the wide lines on almond base biram we're middle of a story they spent a lot of money the gemara says 400 zulus to ask one question in learning to find out the halakha very very simple case whereby saying you have a tano she's 11 years old let's say and she is married to the brother of the wife yeah you're holding cup here so far the brother the wife shahishni allah and she because she is only a shnea she's a second degree arava only there are bon on in other words there's a guy on the bottom and up here there's a mother who has a brother who's married to this katana so right over here and that guy on the bottom he went ahead and he married a brother from his father there's a father and had two sons and one of them is a brother you're holding club so far right gomez and he died who got married to the brother on the bottom there's a father two sons you're with me you're with me i hope that you're with me there's a father has two sons right over here so she dicta went married him after she married him over here on top okay now she's married so so what happens is we don't have time for this right boy so we don't have time for this but if anybody anybody that's what i'm saying here mostly if she does mew now so now maybe she could be married to this guy on the bottom because she get to the mean to the guy on the top next next case anybody clap what i'm saying here nobody's up thousand dollars if you can repeat what i just said a thousand dollars no anybody the lady come there if she marries the boy from here all right we have charts i just don't know how they do another shoe room that's all i'm trying to say i don't cop without a chart how you doing okay so we have here a couple who got it's one of the more interesting cases in your vomits i think you have a couple on top then they're not important to the story they had two children a boy and a girl five town and a plumber we just saw the plumber actually he's the guy in the video that says there's a lot of prizes if you sponsor and everything's massive now the five towner got married to the dentist in the five towns who also has another wife battalion now the plumber marries aktano so if we look at it just like this the five counter's brother married oktano so the tana is asias we're going to see in a second because the five down here is the sun hold on hold on it gets more interesting now the five towner has a has a son with the dentist and so does badai so there's two sons reuven and chiming room and jim the baldwin brothers are always related they're brothers from the father not from the mother now reuven went ahead i'm telling you it's interesting i don't know how you do i don't know how you do this about this some people hate charts and it's great they're more of an audio kind of person reuben married now so everything clear let's anaheim you have a couple at the top that had two kids a boy and a girl five towner went ahead got married to the dentist who also has another wife the dentist has two boys one with the five-towner one with the other one of them reuven marries bad guy or mazel the plumber marries a miner great what happens next the plumber gets divorced from the minor and rouvey decides he's going to pick up another wife now he has two wives he has mazal and he has the the girl so just to picture it no i it could be over here she's she's married to him but she goes and she marries ruvain now what happens reuven is going to die he went bye-bye now if you look up there it says hs that's the name of the case because asia's i i left it there now bring her back just for a second the show she's the wife of the plumber who's the brother of the mother you see the five town is a mother of who of shimon so therefore the katana cannot folly eboom to shimin why because the katana in this case she was married to the plumber who's the brother of the ovum's mom mother the mother of the other the other michiman his mother has a brother called the plumber and that guy married the canada now you wanted to get married it's a pro oh no let's go back to sweat she's his aunt very good she's his aunt this little girl is shimon's aunt and he can't be miable your aunt but it's removed says so what's inside this was the wife of the brother vinosa but later on reuven the brother married her umays and reuben dies what happens if this tana does mean right now today after her original husband divorced her and say that she was never married to the originalizing the plumber if we could take away the marriage the tana from the plumber then shimon could be me abhimher then they're not related anymore it just happens to be his brother's wife so i should take it out of the gamora okay i'll take it out tomorrow finally whatever you want take it out now or later okay let's go right there i hear what you say we're calling it we're calling it this is what it is okay says [Music] after her husband died does it work or not be mocking mitzvah in other words why am i performing meow so that shimon could be making a mister dairy so maybe i'm his wife the fact that she was married once to the plumber we're to undo that marriage retroactively and therefore she's going to behave a minute do we do that so they hire two people on the side that says maybe one because the first time it also says one one or two people went across four hundred zuz and they answered what to do he says do not do it let's review them i'm saying he said don't do it so here goes the case check this out this we had yesterday step one is the dentist gave her divorce step two is she married chimin and then she did miyun in shimon is that she's user to the dentist according to rav she can't go back to the dentist why because he gave her a get remember we said they go into each other he says that his three candies come back so he said no no more to the dentist no more but what about to the dentist's brother the plumber in this case dentist and the brother and the plumber are related what about to the brother is there an issue here or not [Music] resistive precise of course it's only the dentist that we have a problem with and the robot and rabbana said don't let him get married to her anymore because he knows how to wink to her and and give her a cement that they should get married and she should get out of the the the shimming guy and come back to him but the brother doesn't know any of these hints mao the same as so it's passion while the same elixir hi maybe just make one xavier that whole family shouldn't marry her the brother shouldn't marry her come asheville and the brother could marry her they could have the exact opposite overall showing just like this kind of can't marry the dentist you can't marry the plumber cares because we think this should be zero combustion there's no zero second shot is nikithara no there is xero everybody is also there says the helium mission oh the official mission responsibilities survivor of the war how regards this each of zero so just check out this very very simple chart this is mccoy what at what point do we view the obama do we view her at the death of her husband miso ma pelas so at that point she's muted to the album everything's great or no do you say nisuanori shining these are concepts we already discussed in themselves is it you have to look at the entire marriage what happened from 30 years ago till today was there any point in between that she the ibama was ushered to the brother-in-law that's the sunnah of china or we say no i don't care about the 30 years i care about this moment of death was she muttered to the to the brother-in-law or not that's it hamagars is a ish of f-zero here we have a situation that during the 30 years he gave her the original brother gave her a divorce but then he took her back but when he gave her divorce she was us sir to the brother-in-law and now the original husband takes her back and then the original husband dies and also she falls to ebon oh maybe it's a problem well if you say in the sooner you shine in my planet they have to look at all 30 years there was a moment in time in the middle of the 30 years she was also to the third brother-in-law muteres leoven but the tanaka holds no me so my palace i go by the moment of death i don't care what happened the divorce started to come back divorced there six times zero i care about right now and right now she is motor type of kuftas river allah is always sir and allah says no no now we're going according to the tanaka that says mesa my palace i care about the moment of death so if he divorces the minor that her brothers married her off verzier and they took her back it doesn't matter what she is right now she could be a miner she could be victano she would give doyle muteres like she's muted to go back to the other she's moved to the oven why because mesa my palace we could look at this moment right now wherever he loves her he says no you can't go back you can't have evil now a little bit different you have a tano that her father married her off if her father marries her off what kind of conducion is it venezuela says rashi he took the get from the husband so what kind of divorce is it de raiso de riza plus de raiso he is now she is like in the life of her father because once she receives it once she gets married directs a marriage she leaves her father's rushos forever that's it she never goes back now she's divorced verzier and he took her back as ektano the react ho a suro leigh of them so she's also to the album why because mido erisa what does she considered a divorcee she got married midday right so she got divorced with the arises so right now she's in a status of the rights of divorcee and then he took her back the recall dirac's really of um because now she's not considered married she's considered divorce or ifo says afa name of a person says rashi in the first two cases of the mishnah that he says that well we're going to come to the sunnah mapillum once there was he divorced his wife reuven divorces his wife somewhere in the marriage so at that moment the woman becomes awesome to shim and the brother-in-law and therefore she becomes also forever and even if he takes ruben takes her back and she falls the eboom to shimin according to you she is oscar to the tashimin the yavum so she's awesome the album why does she need khalid if you can say where does it mention anything about uh it says he took her back mutters lazar in the story maybe the chat is oh she's also to you and you don't even have to give khalid it says before she doesn't require cleats but why according to you this is a it makes a lot of sense this shouldn't be anyhow it's a she's oscar to you if a woman is offered to you she's your daughter that foster you leave him you don't give her khalid so she just goes out she walks away hello do i go with the green or the red is it the moment of death or i look at the entire marriage my palace haram kameliibo if i say that it goes by the moment of death say i don't care that she got divorced and she came back to her husband in the middle he goes by the moment of death this if it is you have to look at the entire marriage during that marriage there was a moment in time which was awesome mela she's also rubble so i don't know i have a suffix what are you doing you have a soffit of course she's high vibram why because we go at the moment of death so um when somebody gets divorced everybody knows it happened it's the biggest thing the first thing you hear in shul you heard so-and-so got divorced when they get back together nobody cares nobody knows so veina kobe kimbakazaro so as gamora's gonna explain in a millisecond then maybe they get married for five minutes before he died it's possible there's always a possibility there's a case in the world somewhere right crazy cases huss and calo i know somebody that she was coming back from her var she got killed it's possible that or my friend my good friend the schwabs the father was got killed in a car crash leaving the vart of the sun dovid so the it's possible right it's possible that you're married he takes her back for five minutes and then he died and nobody heard about it if nobody heard about it people gonna start saying rumors oh look at her so adriab has even asked her to say isla calla what do you mean she's married him everybody knows hey look they go they're back together again so knock him on shoulder everybody's moves the rule is in every single case and there isn't one single possibility yes it's a very far-fetched possibility it's possible that they were married for five minutes and nobody heard about it rivashi omar another shot either my palace at the end of the day you look at the moment of death zero oh so i'm just i'm just making xero here that in in terms of uh aktana or received conducion when her father is still alive she has a father he's still alive but he gave her away to somebody else and she got married again and he took her back and that's it if her father married her offer and she got divorced so now she has al-laha of isaiah in her father's lifetime verzier already took her back according to everybody that's the end of the mishna right this is shito so the fact that the mission has to tell you this case says the more alive it's going to tell us this time of the river the reason i'm bringing this whole case where it's not necessary is to tell you to explain to you what rebellion eliza allah says in the beginning of the mission the first two cases of the mishnah are because of this final case in the mission which is a chitusa but it says it anyways just explain the reasoning behind the first two cases thank you i have a writer of ash it says now this is the writer from right here why did him talk to her belongs in this case in a case where the father married off the tana and then she got divorced so he said it's the rise to the right so he married her after aiza received the gatherizer and then he took her back her father accepted the get like we explained before and he took her back when she's in town but if he took her back when she's or another case here's a godless lawyer she grew up with him she got older and then the first time they were together they had relations that is the kidus in the maze and then he dies and then mushroom river all of a sudden revelation comes into the picture but don't forget this is real but don't forget that all in the beginning it said he only shows up all the way at the end of the praiser so why does it say so obviously the reason why it says because we want to say that that is important to the mechanics that we have here that is the reasoning not that there is in the beginning but by the way this is going to be rebellious reason the geiser is here we go oh you have rouve married the two women and he gave the five-towner get and then halogenically he's permitted to remarry her it's actually in mitzvah max also but now you have that point when he gave her a get that she was ushered to shimon on the bottom the guy in the bottom his sister-in-law became austin esther of grusha right and then the brother goes bye-bye asked the gemara okay she telling me that the five counter is offered to shimon according to the sheet of why because the summer shrine i go by the entire marriage and during the marriage there's a point of time where she was user to the brother-in-law but what about the tsara is does does the badaine lady become the sorrow of the masturbal lady what did i say okay can shimon marry the battalion lady would be very funny if the dead man married battalion okay but jimin says the gemara what's the whole thing he goof zero the fact that shimon can not be with the five towner is the exercise so that's one zero you want to tell me that she cannot marry the but in lady because he might marry the the five-town lady and if he marries the five-town lady he might marry a gruesome uh he said that's a double zero we don't do zero like zero he goes there you can think so exactly that's by the way we're gonna get schmuck and got to go tomorrow if you get to there soon summit bass monster shops here if it's russell that's a big guest coming with the show's basic show personality famous one mandy you should come you're gonna enjoy how's it going you got some people to join subas mamish but you're working as hard as like like you when you work on a safari or like i want to hear that's happening i know the safari is happening i want to know that this is happening i'm not going to let you go mushroom loves all right oh it says both of them one or the other but nevertheless we have a problem here you just said that he should be motor to battalion why because it's exercised we just said he can't be with battalion he has to give him khalita both of them get khalid says jerusalem tarzan it said something funny it said they both they both need halita and you already fixed it and said it doesn't mean both it means one of the others so you fixed it okay so fix something else what it means is the one on the left 500 gets 100 of khalidzo the one on the right you can even beat me if you want says the official mishnah sponsors here's the case yeah married to two katanos katanas um and one of the sisters husband died one of the husbands goes bye-bye the first one the one on the top doesn't even need khalito she could just go out why because it's impossible for for shimon on the bottom to be married to two sisters it's also for him to be married to two sisters so she goes away because the same thing what's mean somebody can't speak can't hear i was at 1 30 in the morning i started getting messages from yoshi i want him to draw a nice keresha's we came up with a great idea how do you how do you draw that think about how do you draw crashes put a hearing aid it's not so nice this x is that great idea you'll see it i think everybody will love it now what about a different case you have two sisters they're sisters but one of them is an adult in other words her marriage the shimon is a director look at that mace balo and as you see over here the husband of the tana goes bye-bye she gets bumped off because she's a choice however what happens if mae's battle should die law what if shinman goes bye-bye and now reuben has a major problem he has a ivamado eryssa knocking on his door she has the zika with their iso the wife that he has the town of the 11 year old is only the rabbana it's a fake marriage kind of it's not a real strong management there isa but badayan is a real obama what does he do now so we have three opinions here rebellion there's no bond between but i interuven emma meilo therefore milan we had this a number of times in our septa milan so therefore we teach the tana say i don't want to be married to ruvainam and mela reuven will be miyabim shimin's wife today if she does it on her own great vimlav we don't force her we don't tell her she should wait until she becomes ignored interesting he says you wait until the tana becomes an adult and then the that katana bumps off her sister that was an adult before her and was had we thought a connection no it's not a problem dictator takes over um [Music] here just to show you a little bit what's going on here before we were saying that if he if ruben decides let's give let's give batayana he won't be able to be married to his wife why because then she's the sister of a hallows if he divorces the katana he can't marry bataan because she's a husband and now if he he bumps off the daily because she becomes another thing she ca he can't be with her because she's the sister of somebody that she's shizuku says the gemara umi shari rivaleza says we teach this girl to say i i don't want you. there's three things that you should grab on to israeli muslim and you should stay away from three things either backward slasher devarim you should stick to three things you should do khalid instead you should take upon yourself by the way this week's parashat in here just roll past kyra the parish of shaolin is if you're making i went around yesterday i asked a bunch of people do you have anybody in your life that you don't talk to almost everybody told me they have one person one person there's one one guy i don't talk to so you max of course it's not your fault it's that other person's fault but if you imagine then you're over on this parish on the parish of kyrah kirby so maybe the coveted parties koryak pick up the phone call of that person uba afar you should be if you make a nether get rid of the nether go to the rabbi get rid of it be made for it the strathmore shall i should vary and stay away from three things you shouldn't me it's a bad thing you're gonna see but tyson says an amazing thing he says in the name of going not the only guy going in the category so much if he rishi begaris therefore don't even marry uh an orphan why can't they lose so gufo oh no sorry megamian um noise don't take the passes the gamora's gonna explain women are violence don't become a guarantor and alone so i how could you teach for me on you're not supposed to do me on me in the midst of shining over here that there should be a bomb so that's why it's different guffa tony baka para lola meat bacon you should stick to three things but khalid why they do khalid's like we had in the messenger a number of times you marry her because of your beauty with shame issues because you want to shame like we discuss people wanting to be known as married people they don't want to be that ultra what's a very dirty word money that's what it means here usually means uh pig or whatever over here means money he he marries her for her money he'll get better require vanilla leaves have vlad mamas like we had the other day like there's a there's a veil of shema but if a person has a little bit of enough from it he has the wrong intent that's terrible over here person yes it's a mystery between heaven but if he has a little bit of an ano when we discuss he's allowed to have the hana but in the beginning whatever it was by vashon to make peace to see if back in charlotte you should chase peace of course on the base sponsor by michonne and honorable zen sponsors for miranda cash for introducing me to mdy whatever ask your different default check out rashi we have to see rashi inside ridiculous shalom it's a tremendous reward when you bring peace you get reward in this world when you make a net there you shouldn't make a net there it's as if you created obama you're making a mistake in your backyard when it's awesome it says in the position if you don't do nadar in other words you could be medic that if you do if you do make an ad there it is ahead this is rashi not my shot so kilo banana because you're over on this possum so there's two steps first you build i'm just back in your backyard well you didn't bring the carbon yet and then you bring the carbon on top of it over here you made a nether but you do you you you say you're not gonna you're not gonna eat the meat for the rest of your life you made another and you keep to it that's bad hashem doesn't want you to make in the dharm like that go to the rav and be my battle of the netherville carp be stronger than stay away from three things maybe she'll take back from and so what she might get married to somebody else you shouldn't explain and then you're going to try to convince her to get away from it and you're going to convince me to get because there's a proud men epic diagnosis don't take deposits says muscle from a person from a city division they say my house is your house like my father's house everybody walks in walks out it's a whole so somebody's going to walk in see his uh leicester how do you say uh candelabra other names whatever you want to call it on the thing when nobody's looking cops it runs it's a problem when you go directly to the area today it's almost like that if you sign a guarantee you're guarantoring a loan they most likely will come after you even before they they'll call the guy three four times if they don't pick up they call you right away and it's a problem so be very careful before you do i'll guarantee you for somebody my review swag there'll being a guarantor for strangers so to speak to them when we accept converts gary villarva chatzioin means when they come to you right away we'll take a assignment by allah explain all these things so so you're not confused and you say whoa how how we take uh a gay rim says twice is rock hurrah when you try to convince them you go out there come become gabriel hoshi miato you don't do the whole research you don't make them work for it hey miss i'm this guy here but if a guy wants to become a gary works really hard yes you should accept the girl they didn't receive tim and then terrible thing out of it and then he brings here most people say was a zainab for that person who wrote online the raku is not a zainab there's one cheater that says that she sold him his zoinus but anyway are like uh like like a negative ass why because we learn from their mice him and a guy gary has a very long beard and a beeper hit and he walks around and everybody's like oh look he touches moksa on shabbos i'm also but he doesn't know and we had another shot once when we learned this i i don't want to i shouldn't quote because i don't remember so well but i remember a shot that it's like uh it's like uh doctors were going to look at them and say look they're doing the mrs so beautifully yeah they could take her and then what about us i don't know one of the shadow i think said it russian oh christmas places okay fine what do you guys look in the bottom of the art school it says it no you're looking to miss the fight what does that mean they have the schleif deutsch schleich dice means attach and detach in other words i i'm detaching from the leva and attaching it to you dar if you become responsible through amma in srinagar says it's a lotion of soap i cleanse the liver from his loan and it goes directly to you what does that mean is says i don't keep the tire i don't learn torah not that i don't care i don't learn taira he's not going to get scared for learning tyra shita you didn't learn it why would you get scared ain't eloterally oh they went all the way to the difference that's why i remembered it i was wondering i remember that okay so colloidal memsion on base members if a person only learns and he doesn't do anything else we'll see in a second what's he learns toro he doesn't do khasi but he teaches other people to do it and everybody else goes out and does it mother's day means isla aguila today always tell me then go out and do questions maybe he should get some sky because he taught him to do it commercially doesn't give this car for that you have a dying that something came to him he knows something remotely similar um you're supposed to take something similar and put it together but it's not very similar very it's very far business and he has a review so over here the word means he leans on on himself and doesn't go to his on we're going to learn noob shot here here you guys in the back wrong in michelle and then here's the better because so to speak says should have delilah we'll stop over here wonderful 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