Daf Yomi Yevamos Daf 108 by R’ Eli Stefansky

i love this short clip over here because we have trevor from williamsburg in the sheer a bunch of them the only problem is that they don't know about each other okay so here you go question-wise hold on let's let's go from the beginning i'll tell you what he's saying he's saying he's from williamsburg the screen's off he's a cloisonne bigger younger man from williamsburg and he does not go by bus he goes my car here you go really [Music] i really hope that the cover from williamsburg to get together as a kabura and they come to deal new jersey so we could all get to meet the tabra it's one big family to get to know each other maybe tomer and nisana will get together a group a whatsapp group something we have to get them together the governor have a go rebelli me my younger brother as you know this is from a buffer that's why he's saying it like that did the daf in camp a good the last summer yes they did it's the copper mans the famous cooper mans from brooklyn doing the diving cab was very challenging no video missing the chemical funny pictures and jokes having to download shoes a task on its own we're going to camp this week me and my brother we really hope we can get the tablet i'm not exaggerating 30 to 40 emails a day for these tablets oh joseph is back in town did you get any sleep oh you don't you didn't send me all of them okay forget the dallas we ran out of time we don't have tables anymore shalom okay we're gonna have to do something i'm not the one who wanna kiss my kids in college i don't wanna you know flutejack he's in my class he says i think rebbe knows his father i don't if it's her moisture blue check then of course i know his father somebody other pool check maybe it'd be nice if i could get one huh yeah that's that's much of losing there i was waiting ever since it was mentioned the first time thanks for changing my thought listen to this thanks for changing my father's life me and my ninth grade and my seventh grade brothers lives for the good it's can't wait to get one meet with my brother i'll meet you and i just felt like my brother did that i'm skipping around they didn't write it so sloppy like i'm reading it alex gildan whereas my little rummy says and as he hears you repeating that rebelli button this kid calls me rebelli button [Music] your belly button this little knocker has been brought early to be smashed literally since he's three weeks old i figured if he's up already he's in a head of zenith and my wife could get some more sleep better from focus this morning he heard me listen to share and i think he did his job on the intro looking forward to the big deal seo the voice i have been with the share since brock's death base and i feel like you and i have been family forever says jonathan stefanski [Applause] speaking of family wouldn't be this is amazing seriously the reason why i'm showing this these guys they never met jonathan who's like he lives in rbs they live in brooklyn look how many guys showed up from the mushpaka to his his daughter's vart speaking family wouldn't be as simple without the mdy family see attached picks amazing to have the mdy new york oil i'm joining now simcon jonathan stop guys they they they like to sperm spiel whatever it was i don't know some family you are i was i was at the m i was i don't remember your name i know you're asking was one of the founding members of our shirt he's with our ship for close to four years he always cracked a good joke during sheer when he was here and right before he sniffed her he sent me a few videos and a few text messages and one of his videos he looked very sick and he told me that he can't learn anymore it's pushed so hard he wants and he had his gemara right next to him and he told me that he in the video he says i told my wife don't touch this this doesn't go anywhere this goes with me even though he couldn't learn today the island was getting together they're doing a cause match they have to raise a million dollars for his family he left three you saw him that are not married he has other kids three that are not married he died at the young age of 59 just short of his 60th birthday so whoever could be mistaken we don't do this came out we don't do this at all but because he was part of the kabura and he was one of the founding members of the kabura and he died at such a young age it's a tragic story and they really really need money so we're doing we're announcing this and you'll see vaseline is going to put the cause match on the screen and whoever wants to be stative will have tremendous sim all right i would like to understand that no i don't have a screen in front of me so what do you want to do i'll i'll be in touch with his son but i would definitely have a shout out okay yeah okay foreign one more response who's the sponsor oh all right sponsor today i should be joyful to have nachas success in my endeavors the boys holding by brando mishna oh we have a few guests in the house herschel cohen from lakewood new jersey and your son-in-law is here in the house what's your name mark harris from afulla boro who else up and we have okay he's not a guest anymore he's gonna run vice versa from manchester who else all right that's it for today who the wrong and that is a girl who was married she wasn't really supposed to be married her father died he's the one that has the ability to marry her off but she could that her brothers can marry off the mother can marry off and if she wants she could just say she doesn't want to be married just by saying it lahavdil there's a certain nation that they don't even give a get they just say it a text message by the way you're divorced so something similar with hectano what kind of tana has to get me has to do me and call mother brothers and she was a participant in this decision then she doesn't mean he's huge detector but if they forced her and it's columbine it never started the whole thing never even started if she could say she refuses to be married to the guy certainly if she refused from the first minute it never grabbed if you give her a ring and she loses it and it's she doesn't have enough das to be in this marriage and she doesn't have to be mine i just recalled again am i hasano somebody gave mike subba to my mother-in-law and by the time the wedding was over there was no more ksuber left so anyhow don't worry she's not going to watch this it's fine we had to go and write a star we got to go to the rabona and what do you do you can't live with it with your wife without exuber the whole thing get the rav wake him up you have to write this in this lash and it was valdic so somewhere somewhere we have like a little paper okay who wrote it do you know where it is i have actually suba that i used to have in my wall in my house with my signature what's going on avi today what's going on the ritalin schmuff somebody have extra dose raboisei ribavi the lady the woman he's upset that i use voila [Laughter] he's very consistent he says it's zero nothing it's like a seduced woman there's no condition here at all passes through all to the point where basis if typically when are you israelis ambassador marries a client she's permitted to eat roma in this case she's not permeated tea tremor why because she's a tano it's not a real it's not a real marriage and if she's the best currently israel if her father is a cayenne and she married a throne and she's a katana she continues eating truma it's as if they're not married the khmer uses a lotion that the methyl they're just taking a shape together in the park they have relations and they go back as if nothing happened by america ish if the holdback is from the the man the husband is going to explain then we say okay they're married if it doesn't come from the man then they're they're they're not married it says review the love and master some say we learned it in the brazil very shiny kaiser get myun in the beginning they used to have a very long lotion just like a get has a lot of words in it the meown had had a lush now what's this get me not to be confused you're a boy side because i did this yesterday i think i got confused i said and share something nobody fixed me nobody corrected me i mean it's a terrible thing because now it's gonna go for dirt and i'm not gonna fix it but i think i think i didn't even look back i i confused the khalitsa with the mion it's confusing because it said uh the rav nachman says the halacha is not like oysters and i said oh he said it is a no he was talking about khalid saying he's talking about me and two different things however get me we're talking about mion do you need to get for me means she says words she says i'm don't want to be married to you i'm done with you so what's this get the get is nothing the get is just a receipt that this is this if she wants to get married to somebody else this and this is what happened it says it in the get in the in the get me what does it say larry in a bay i don't want him late sabine bay another lesson if i don't want him i don't desire him how are you come on in sit down so what's your name amy hey skorsky from west hempstead where sam said where you coming from this morning we're saying a little little week on the guest we only had four or five today it's like thank you come on in do we have a seat here up front right here you're valid learn about light sabina i don't want to be married to him you came just in time we're just about to start today's death so all these lashes i don't want to be married i don't desire i don't want to eat this i don't want to stay married keep in the cipher who's going to get confused here this cipher is going to get confused and he's going to put these words in a get and so what's the problem that's not a culture yet interesting because i had a story i was going to say a little bit further but i could say it over here there was a woman who got divorced from her husband and they didn't read her single she's a very very successful person a very good should have nothing zero so after a while she saw that segate nisht it's not going so well so she she called up the shotgun she says maybe maybe you could read my husband so they read the husband back and everything's going great and they're about to get married and the ruff said let me see the get it looks like they get and he says you're born and shalom let's get his puzzle so okay they redid the get they redid the thing and that and they got married and then of course typical the guy's divorced again but then after they got divorced again she got a lot of shidduchim the point was that akushborg who saved her then she had a bad get over here a guy is going to write instead of a get the lashon he's going to yeah the big big he wants ro to get mion so he thinks he understands the lush and what you have to write and he's going to write the shyness of mion into the get you can't say in a get oh i don't want to i don't like him and i don't want him and it doesn't work in the gut it's a different russian that's a lotion of a mion i want to i refuse the marriage to begin with that's a different lotion so therefore taquino haki looks very very simple not to get confused it's a one-liner beyond polany on this day miyan are playing as she's the daughter of lavon pono or whoever it is who's ruffle's father love him okay love it but you're playing mia not playing his best play nobody corrected me bass play any bad partner fine it's one line there was a mion that occurred in this show so nobody's going to get confused with the get that's 12 lines how does minion work now this is a big kurdish what if a a woman is talking to somebody and she tells that somebody how she doesn't like her husband is that mean she doesn't she shouldn't have inflation she discovered two people overheard it is that considered a meon a woman says to somebody they say oh what a humbler here your husband is coming she says you take him is that mean is that me why would it be me or no i don't want to be i don't like the condition that my brother and my mother did you also know what's in up here on here we have a special picture that was made just for us here you're in the picture i think check it out it's one of these things these whatever they they they carry around on it's not accurate but fine for for the depiction only it's a special college here so in other words she's on the way she's in the limo whatever you want to call it in those days she's on the way to the casano where he loves me sevilla baseball she's on the way to her husband's house and rashi sticks in at this point she should have jumped off the couch and ran away she should have shown something that she doesn't want the guy but she didn't show anything that's and she says he have she would play any badly and she continues the ride all the way to the husband's house do you think it's like uh steering maneuver bay she's she's contradicting herself that's enough for me yes sir al-qaeda murray though in addition to that i feel like baseball she's sitting in her husband's house and she's serving the omron she tells them you see this this loser i'm married to f she'll be playing badly i don't want to be married to them and she continues pouring the drinks she's she's uh she's a waitress hi reuben that is enough to be me and you're in the house already forget about the limo you're in the house yes more than that i feel badly lovely now he put it to work so you would say oh she's upset right now let her cool down a little bit he sent her in the heat to buy something a heavy uh a heavy package from from a store and that's why she's saying i hate the guy but maybe later on she'll calm down but um she'll be playing by the way i don't want him now they're showing him what yeah so they're showing him sticking over here that there are another two like we had with the case with the ribakiva that they saw through the jail cell they were able to see there are witnesses i think in the zombie are called teenagers so we said in the mishnah that if a girl is too young to know how to keep something safe so she doesn't even have to do me on aura what about this you have a young girl who didn't do meow but she went on a date with somebody and she married somebody else is that meown again what else does she have to say she she married another man but she didn't say it with her mouth she didn't say i want to get divorced you don't have to say it actions speak louder than words ebola what about not marriage but she received the ring she had kiddush in toshimach tanosh says before the mission in the brazil clash now very interesting we don't really have this many times in shas i asked around they told me in illinois no why not what's the difference how long six years no no no we almost have to be right away where did you find that you could be married for five years if she got married at the age of five we're talking about the time of the gemara interesting things she got married at age 11 she does meow and the whole thing retroactive by the way i don't know no but let's say let's say not let's say let's say she needs the mother what's the difference no hold on hold on we'll see that now nothing more says says the gamora ebola please rap under the light there are you though i'm saying does anybody argue with this i just said i don't remember such a lawsuit and somebody said yes you're right it's in baba mitsia in other words not too many times in shas that um you have like imtim salimars on on a on ashita if is like him and if that looks like him is that only by kidushin or even a soon she by by be accepting kidushin from somebody else she she she knows the first marriage intimacy like that victim yeah no it's a very long lashing why because we don't find anybody arguing we don't even know if there's somebody that argues so that's why we want to know if there's somebody that argues how much does he argue on we don't know vincent sullivan i look at myself and as soon as philippe conduction what part of that is like him halfway all the way tashma let's try to figure it out over if somebody says that allah is like so and so that means somebody argues on him we don't know what they're arguing on they haven't received me was it full-fledged marriage and she just decided to marry somebody else and that he knows the first kidushin or dilma mccacha it's ma it's it's the it's a very weird thing i have to say mian is weird it's exerted there i wanted to do it like that but whoever does it it's it's it's a giftherala and we want you to do it we want you to take care of this girl she's a usaima but at the end of the day you could annul it and and the five years you had with this person goes bye-bye if we all remember we just had a story a crazy story ruby schwalbe icy came in and abdul was upset at him it looks like you're stepping on everybody and he was a very very large man and adam said something not nice to him and he got inside the whole thing and then abdullah was punished on the spot his two sons drowned and his two daughter-in-laws did meow his two daughters did meown so daughter-in-laws daughter-in-laws yeah so daughter daughters-in-law so lucha it's those same daughter-in-laws shadow reviews so rebbe if you remember in the story abdul was rebbe's shaman she he's the one rabby told him what to do and he was close to rebbe so rebbe said let's get something home to check out what's going on here lunache the story happened like this women saw let's say two guys with the long jackets and the beards and the hats coming you know on a donkey from a fireplace causing you right to the gods look up your husbands are coming back amelia so these two girls these daughter-in-law said have you give rachel to do you marry them you should you should be with them we don't want them so what does that show um they never said to anybody specifically huh maybe you're making a joke okay so happened so quickly because you don't joke around six little kids has you as your wife ever joked around like that it should be your husband you need to get there to marry because they said they should be your husbands not your hussan if there were there was a marriage so again you have a young girl she's six years old she got married to somebody her mother married her off to get rid of her and then when she's 10 years old she sees somebody else and she marries somebody else without getting a divorce without getting immune that is a mean that's the aloha in the story review so it says in the mishnah that mai saktana is nothing whatever she does nothing and she's like i looked at all the i didn't find anybody that is consistent they're having a good time in the in the in the park and then they have relations and she gets up and it says in the past not because her husband is a client her father is a client it's as if she's not married to the guy no problem she's with him then she eats trauma as if she's not no relationship with him at all that's really as if she did they're not married now the other ten i am hold no there is somewhat of a marriage jimmy there have bonon and she can't eat shruma the the conducion are nothing they invite zack elements for the massey adele so since the conditions are nothing the husband cannot take her her fight whatever she finds in the street he can't take and she can't take her her salary messi adele will be baffled in the real he's not in charge of a new darwin he can't annul them vanna yorshaw she dies he doesn't inherit her vayne with hamilah and if he's a kind he doesn't go to her funeral claus if she doesn't do mian she's going to need to get later on in life baby val is occupancy also if she says no she duh he does get her metia but why she's not really married to him only in the robot because of hefker besides an africa who by far obamacio dale everything she earns uh first iran he could have known her nether beyonce why could he inherit her why could he be metameter forget that you're so fine matama anybody he's a cayenne and she's not married to him so how could he be muthameter now we had that earlier actually brings it over here it's a lot for me so nobody wants to take they said listen you got all the pairs from where you get everything remember you're good so this barrier the club says very interesting that if there's a mitzvah that nobody keeps it's one of these myths nobody really is so careful with and you keep it that's considered a mesmer mitzvah it's a mitzvah that's amazing mitzvah and and so so what if it's amazing mitzvah you get very very special skyrises think about it there's a missile that nobody uh nobody wants to deal with why what are we doing yeah but it's a mitzvah there right so the clouds and keep that's that's their problem there's boxes to keep it you're going to worry about other people and he says don't pay back the loan it's url what are you paying back alone yeshua i like him his wife she should get a get like a wife says okay but if you're saying that she's not his wife at all let her just walk away me and nami like dubai what is why she have to do me on a little bit what with her button she's married so she'll just walk away that's impossible rebellion what does it mean in the mishnah if it's dependent he's the one that's holding it back they they read her she's married to reuben they come along and they say hey we got a great guy for you forget this guy we have a great guy for you vomron she says machmas playing by lee i can't marry the second guy because i'm married to the first guy zoe fishermen ish now she has to do meow because she admits that she's married to the first guy however if she says i cannot take the off why can't i take the off because i don't like the guy that you're reading me he's a terrible guy so what she's saying is i don't want to be married to my first husband but the only reason i'm not married marrying the second guy because i don't like him so that itself is mean like if he gave her a get before she was since he he did the get so may that's a real it has a lot of the get here even though it's their bottom but they're in 25 seconds we're going to say these exact words we're going to say it in the mission in a second that what happened is you're telling me that's the shot in the mission before why is the mission repeating it here nothing this mishna that we're about to read is just a shot in what rebellion yakov says at the end of the mission of the previous mishna the official mishnah is knows the marriage to begin with they were never married they had no relation at all no relation i could marry your father can marry your brother can you marry you nothing look get but if he gave her a get she's tectonic give her a get who else i'm going to sell yesterday now no get the zero so it goes like this check out the chart here it goes like this you could turn off the volume no evaluation it's on the screen somewhere okay so look on this screen you'll see now you'll appreciate why there's two screens in the front or you can turn around backwards look to the screen happened was this guy from the five towns married the woman from the five towns and he gave her a get step two he took her back why is there volume sadiq thank you step two he gave her he took her back and then he did meown she did me on step two is meow so there's a get and then mion yeah now she goes ahead and she marries somebody else so rabbi said after a get you now after you get does it miss her to remarry your wife but if she marry somebody else you're not gonna marry her so what just happened there he gave her a get at one point in her life and then she married somebody else is she allowed to go back to the first guy he gave her again she married somebody else yeah but there was me and in between so what should be logic over here she's allowed to go back why because the mion undid the entire marriage they ever had before so now this guy dies mace shimon so what happens is she goes back to the original she could go back if she wants to the original husband what if she had a kid [Music] almost the same case but the get and me and i reversed first came mion step one mia then he took her back and then he divorced her now she's the divorced woman so you see what's going to happen here because the last thing that happened was a get so she went ahead and she married another man and then that other man went bye-bye now she cannot marry the original why because the original guy gave her the divorce after the meme says the mission inside me oh no not get first came get zero and he took her back me and above venezuela and then came mion so get and then mean and then she married another man then inside of allah and this guy she got divorced even she's allowed to go back to the first guy however if there's miyano zero nothing will get but the get came after the mion venezuela venezuelans guys are the same story she married shimon asura loves her she can't get back with him zack lau asura laughter if the guy comes afterwards she's not gonna go back another one an anonymous nasano that's local even wrote let's look with the u rouhni and gashami from radner cash introducing me to mdy miyun i want to say raboisei real quickly i keep on thinking about this and i forget to say it there were people that came over to me after the serum here in betchamesh and they said i cannot believe i didn't go i was i was over here i was up north and when they heard about the mats of a thousand people dancing together and having the time of their life a rookhni and gashmi everybody had karate so if you if you're in new york you better come there i don't care if you have to drive four hours you better be there because you're gonna have harotta dolomite if you don't come bring your friends i'm telling you don't tell me i didn't warn you fomo yeah very good you don't want to it's about like this actually but fine again if there's me on after the gets he you know the whole marriage to begin with she could go back to the first guy check this out i'm a man of the gear show there was mion and then she married another guy and the second guy gave it get la hermina here's the picture not this one oh just in case this is the video i wanted to show nothing but we didn't okay so as time as you should know this is a picture it shows the whole story in one picture there's no no moving parts she was married to the guy all the way on the right she did me on she married reuven see that's rude ruben get she marries the plumber mion shimon get levy that guy the talker over there is quiet for a while mio so it's me you'll get me on get me on you're here levy yes and the girl's gonna say all the way at the end that if you just had one more get she people are going to think she's abdullah how could she be married so many times but this not so it goes like this very very simple case all the people that have meun have one allah the people have again have another many times it doesn't matter how many times anybody that gave a get she can't go back then the gemara is going to say it's zero bimion there's mion at the end of the day mutairis lacks her lawyer she's allowed to says gemara alma assimil um from this case where am i okay i don't know i don't know what i'm looking at get from yeah from this case the the original case of the mishnah you have the guy from the five times married the five towner and then there was a get and then there's a mion get and mion what's she's allowed to marry the guy from the five town so what do you see that mion gets rid of the get that's what we see my first nation very meaning but that's a problem it says jaman what about the case we just mentioned the five guys there's a meal get me who get me and get and over there you don't say that the final meal all at the end there's a meal at the end it should undo all the getting what's the difference between the two cases oh very good the gamora doesn't think of your the gemara doesn't like your answer the mars says your answer and explains that that doesn't help but there's another reason they're saying it's another guy over here how could a mion maybe perhaps the mion doesn't work for another husband that gave a guess your own get yes somebody else is getting up that's that's the obvious answer so in this case you see that mio doesn't unknow the whole all the marriages she ever had or review the beginning of the mission is juan mandomar the end of the mission is another amanda omar there's two sheet is whether or not meon announced retroactively or not lumafreya perhaps his mion has the power to do his own get me about to get today maybe the meeting of a friend not like you guys were saying but um today i have to explain to you why what's the difference says the gemara amazing i did my characters of recruits of he she understands the winking of his eye and when he tells her listen here you eight-year-old i'll give you three candies she cops exactly what he's talking about and she's gonna leave the husband that that she got married to he's gonna the first guy already he knows how to do it also mashable isolate they're going to convince the guy to do convince her to do meown and come back to him says the gemara me in the day but what about oh what that's what they said anytime there's a get you you can't go back and and and do me on because you go back then because you might you might play schtick afterwards you might grab her what the explain the difference when he gives the guest he's the initiator he could still convince her because she didn't want to get divorced he did it so she still loves him rashid says that lash and love and mama he could get her back asked the gemara but what about in this case where there's get and then mion look look he the five town or step one gave a get and then he gave him it shouldn't work because he's going to go and when she marries shimon he's going to go convince her he's going to say hey come come back says the gamer no that won't work over there over there also says in this case there's a get and then she did mion what does mean mean she hates him she wanted out of the marriage she wants out of the marriage she's not going to be able to communicate to get back but when he gave her a get it was his thing then she still has a connection to him and he could get her back ellie cassio i have another question chart 17 [Music] this case where there was meon get look what happened there the last step is and step four shimon dies or divorces her but what happens on miano what if step four is still alive but she got out of the marriage she did my own what's that maybe she should be able to get back to the first one mutairas laughs or why cause she did a meal on chimin and she outed everything it's only the medic why does it say mei shimen may shimon it should say anything shimon miyano shiman meshem and niz garcia shemin it says only two cases it's mastered that in this case of mean of shemin she could get back to the first one today but that's not good for me takes off everything retroactively in this case over here you see it doesn't lose the tavro it's broken i don't have it in this picture but just add the word gate get does get so if she got divorced three times and there's three mions so meyla now people are going to think that she's a dolo like he asked that was the first thing that came out how's it possible such a young kid went through so many husbands so many different things she must be 15 years old and and then you have the rest like in the rest of the shots it happens to be when it comes to rise pay attention when the when the gemara is very careful and concerned concerning this word what other people are going to say it's usually when it comes to irise or laws on a kid but these kind of things people might think that a good doula could do mion and get back even though like who's gonna think this who's gonna find we're very concerned and really we said no go montana so who are the two cheetahs here that could a meow go back retroactively or not who are they um we had to buy water we had a pay for maya then what is it called you know the water the the bottled water hey it's even our our wood costs money so in other words we pay for toira shiyatsu merishoin baguette the machinima this girl she gotta get from the first guy and then she got a amir from the second one does it retroactively movato the first kidushin the fir and and therefore the first get and she go back to the first guy soccer rolled them barbara jesus now exuberance 200 jesus that's a salary of a year so two years worth of salary they paid a guy just go ask this question michelle's request based on not what rav asked lester carlos if you say that mion works against asia she's married to a guy and now she's not married to them just by saying the word listed lively culture game so you're concerned about max of your soy which is just alive of course meow works for that biraam capsule so what was the question let's you know let's just stop over here [Music] have a wonderful day you