Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 7 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Spotify really do you have any white friends this is from Avi mandelbam's wife and girls Ivy genuinely loved the mdy share and I think it was mainly due to special relationships he forged there to share in your time together were very meaningful to him we too felt your love and kindness in the last half a year we want to especially thank you for your support and feel out before and after the Shiva you guys are amazing true friends with much for appreciation Mikhail and the girls good my name hi rebelli my name is Benjamin lazri from Brooklyn New York and I'm 17 years old and in the 12th grade this is a very moving and touching email for me it's one of the uh one of the classics I'm going to put this one away I do all of them but this one goes in a special file all my life I never enjoyed learning because I did not know how to develop a gemara I'd always had a dream to finish a mess decided to learn with you beta I just finished tightness and I'm so proud that not only did I finish one but two receptors and you teach me on how to develop a gamara much better than before it made me want to learn more so I joined the daf with mdy starting with soita and Mr Shell will be smooth and ride we'll finish shots together on Main believe it or not part of my bucket list I want to come to one cheer live and give you a massive hug when I come to yeshiven our destroy all in the yellow can't wait you know my last we have to remember that but young and last dream thank you so much for what you do for every Jew and I wonder why everybody has close to 20 000 people daily watching ND white beautiful I've always said that's it for today I had many emails oh I have another one here I have a lot of emails that unfortunately I ran out of time schmuck between the daily on every soccer my family is listening to themselves they're all into it we haven't put on the radio or CD in the house instead we listen to the doc the biggest Rea checking out stolen Hudson from boropar your voice I just wanted to say a big Mazel Tov I failed to mention this but it's a huge milestone for us mdy kids finished their second message yesterday and this is tremendous they told me who here finished Tinus anybody you guys two of you finished high in this unbelievable so a tremendous Mazel Tov they had a big uh cm and RBS holding the whole thing these guys are away Arab saw him Tinus and soita involved this stuff I'm not sure what mess after they're gonna learn next do you guys know yet are they gonna pick it up after after pesach mdy kids a new phenomena sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood the second Spanish of the coiler Reuben Kleiner rather my daughter at least becoming College from Toronto the messes Arab remember that name because I don't have a written down I've run in Asha Ben mysharon and the art for complete reforms once again I want to mention I have to remember to say this over and over this is where the eight zahari gets people anyantif there's three days if it's hard you're not going to share you don't want to open up a Gamora all the excuses so first of all force yourself to learn that death even if it's just on the you know just skimming through it you learned it and if not you find yourself in a deep hole you do is you jump into that path wherever you're holding we're holding that he jumped it up whatever that is and then you make up the the hole at a different time my voice I we're holding that Allah by the brand new and they have a Shiloh for at least the married people here what is your wife's three favorite words and it doesn't start with i wife's three favorite words but she wants to hear from you right that's right how do you know you're married that's exactly what I was looking for you are right I'm going to see it in the immoral in a different way but I think that's uh you've heard that before huh it's a famous One okay yeah very good you're right we can be happy yeah said the helium sponsored um so we have a very easy daf site to style even if it's not a goddess of per se there are some parts that are Gaza but it's a very smooth easy flowing death husband suspects his wife he warned their kinoy then she was nistar she secluded herself those kinui and stiro now what is first you go to the best and you bring your Aiden with you and they testify yes to us yes to astero um and as we saw yesterday the gemara brought this mission of this idea that he doesn't travel by himself he travels with two Allah we're concerned that will have something like this the Posse says the man has to be pure if you want the waters to work you can't have an aveiro it's not very for him once he suspects her certainly if you know for sure that she's a that she's a site the vadai it's awesome for him but even when she's the site the Suffolk they're not going to have any relations and we don't want him to ruin it foreign anything you don't have to send anybody with him so you have the husband remind you okay when I forget to put take it off the thing just wave to me foreign there's a whole neither we went through the sugya is but there's no history when there are two men that's in the city but when you're in a in a desert you're on the way you need three why Shema is one might have to go somewhere far to search for a place to a restroom it reminds me actually when I was on a safari and I had to use the bathroom so that they had to stop we waited for the stop but now you have to go to a place that first of all you don't get eaten by a lion and that's away from all the people and it's flat planes you have to go and go and the guy takes you and you know so it's Asic so he one of them goes all the way over there that leaves the other man by himself with this woman and that's a problem so we want to have at least two people yeah two eight two guys yeah what if the husband goes what if the husband goes and there's the aid left over what if the eight goes and the husband's left over you see each one is awesome first of all she's an Asian dish so the Adam are for sure also and the husband is also there if it was just the husband of one Aid it wouldn't be enough because if the husband goes to the bathroom now the eight is left with the with the wife so that's why we need three total foreign we want there to be Aiden if he the husband had relations with his wife on the way we want to eat them to come and say hey don't give her the water do whatever it says you don't stop send two witnesses perhaps this is right another Allah again when is there no Israel with two people only when they're good people foreign there were 10 people of aryanam and they wanted to be with this woman to devise the whole plan they put her in a in a coffin and they pretended she died and they made it a funeral with her so that all 10 people could be over enough here so when you're talking about fruits and the other side if they come up with all sorts of toxic all different things and the Mela Mahar that's a great Riot to Rav that you need time because what good is it if you just give them two witnesses two witnesses three witnesses that could all be over on the Vera you need the famous story said a number of times but it fits right in here there were a bunch of guys that decided uh to do to make a business and the business was to get things over the border to get proud over the Border you bring like even now and they're so you know you come up with a couple of iPhones it's a whole game did they catch you you know bring things over the Border I saw a guy gets uh stopped over there a guy from one of these nationalities the owner of his suitcase he had thousands and thousands of cigarettes the entire soup is just cigarettes that's it busted so what did they do they talk a coffin and they came through the border and they cry and crying they let them through and get to the other side open up the coffin take out all the jewels whatever one leviath comes and uh the guy that bought it says get over here let me see what's going on it opens up the coffin he finds all the jewels no dead body says what what's why'd you stop us so the guy said a big muscle high school he said you're crying now because you didn't cry before had you come through and cried like Sarah and pretended better I would have caught you but I noticed that you guys are you're not so serious it's not there's not that bad in there is now and cry now so you don't cry later but anyway this is the story of the temp roots and I took out the the bed no it's not a Rio again from Irish it seems like the reason why these two times because you can't trust anybody else you know what and this is the way to learn it it's very important to understand the word is not slugging up raps Allah you need I mean you need any people that are not part of it you need chair but don't prove it from our mission says you need people that understand how to learn so when when the husband is about to be over Navarro they say wait a minute it says in the positive he's gonna say no it doesn't mean this it means uh and you have to argue you have to know how to learn I mean that's why we have people that know how to learn but not because we need them that are caution no no over there over this sharing over here over here you have to know how to learn so you could give him a good restaurant him ten men and one woman they could make a fake funeral but don't prove it from our mission because over here we're talking about because literally people that know how to learn reviews [Music] really says you don't need you don't need to wait them you have a husband husband's not going to do anything wrong and he says I'll bring you a carbohydrate so the way it's going to work is he says then he brings Apostle because they don't like his and he agrees with him his not perfect somebody brings a project later um every husband in the world is allowed to live with his wife who's a me dog and the needle if he's with her it's it's your car as the worst of the worst though who has a laugh there's a love not to be with a Saito but it's only a lab it's not a chorus certainly the husband should be believed what are you talking about him um because it's so severe you get the death penalty is going to be over on it people are scared of me though people scared of uh of course the love the site of the lab it's only a love look hamir like it's not that scary to him and therefore we can't trust them we have to send to Adam um you really think you review the sensitive I'll prove to you the reviewer uses a positive um right so we said this yesterday here's the passing again Behavior the man must bring the site the wife to the kite foreign Maybe he won't keep the average so first of all we have a ton of common here that says you see from the apostle foreign certainly what was the neither they'd have to live in different houses that would be impossible to live like that so certainly you should be believed and trusted with a cycle listen to this here's another slug up here no because she's gonna go drink the water she's gonna be good let's see let's see look at more here I hear my question is so here's how they shrug it up what are you proving to me foreign Weimer Taco says Rashi the human nature is they have more desire for something that's awesome to you then something that's important to you MMA lower concerned since this site is going to be awesome from forever and they're taking the last final road trip maybe it'll be whatever it is now even though listen to this what's going on here I think it's amazing even though he hates her he's very upsetted her he's Furious he's bringing her to explode in the base he warned her she didn't listen he's going crazy nevertheless we're concerned that the it's hard is going to get him so this is a famous story is old man who's in the hospital and the nurse a very old nurse walked into the room he jumped out of his bed even though he was sick and ran out sister and they said listen explain to us your old man she's old woman look what she looks like I mean there's no what's going on there he said a very very strong line he said the Zahara is about Memphis and it can make me very young and make her look very young and mainly you got to be careful in all situations just reminded me here you have a man who's very upset hates her even a sinner nevertheless it's about my first ideas never to get close so here's the game this is what we're waiting foreign foreign that's it so remember this is of the opinion that a husband is trusted you don't need any to hate them nothing why because it says in the positive behavior just as is the husband and the wife before you told me it is not a possible you do need protection so he said you know what hello Crow you know what I found the plastic that will help me out but what is the difference when you're reading technical that's exactly says you don't need two people it says unfortunately and they bring the same puzzle literally brings well Behavior right before this is very very simple says yeah in the Posse it says you could trust the husband nevertheless it doesn't say nevertheless he says it says trust the husband and we trust the husband you don't need anybody says sponsored by official s we continue with the story how you Malin or you saw a little bit please so let me show you a few pictures what's going on here this is the out the outer wall and there's a picture of the list that's where the Sanhedrin of 71 not 23 this three buddies of English 2 of 23 and this is the serious one the Sanhedrin ago they spoke for languages 71 the dialogue English I just uh made it put an arrow here at the show you see that you can see over here the the gray box that's where the logical side goes is right above the the red arrow this is what it looks like inside depicted by the color of the shop book amazing book that they put together for Yuma that cost him a few hundred thousand dollars and they allow us to use it no says do I need this now well easily okay and um they'll threaten her they would persuade her but just like bezden are Professionals in trying to get the truth out of the witnesses that come for capital punishment they're coming to kill people they say we witness that this guy is a killer kill him so they take them both and they put them in different rooms and ask them all these different questions try to trip them up and they have a lot of tricks up their sleeve they Tire them out they do all sorts of things don't give them food make them crazy same thing with the Scyther what are we trying to gain because the site as we know the client takes the parchment with hashem's name on it the whole parish and it has the shem's name in it and he puts it in the water and hashem's name is erased and it's a terrible thing and we want to avoid that if at all costs we don't want her to die what we'd like to see here is an admission of guilt once he admits that she's guilty okay so doesn't divorces her she doesn't die and we don't have to erase hashem's name or one person sister the back is good so let's say eimer because I don't think two people are talking the same time but the buff knows better than me he says you know what and I saw I saw this tactic when they interrogate people you could look online they'd have video cameras and all the interrogation rooms listen we understand you drink a little bit so you know when you're in a good mood and you just you know the bar say kill the guy no we understand hurry up you're the majority that you have China Mariah maybe a terrible neighbors that seduced you okay do it for for the rebellion and his name that was written getting raised on the water volume nobody nobody hears these stories they tell her these stories even her family is not worthy of these stories the terrible people if they brought up a terrible woman like this what are the stories you're going to hear soon we're gonna hear in a second story is from from Navi about moving about Yehuda sinning they also sin they also regretted it and confessed you too Imam if she says I'm Tommy she writes this she writes a receipt that she was mizano you know we could see inside rashio Mirch Tsubasa so I thought it's a very strong lotion like 25 from the bottom and she writes these words terrible zonisi afterwards says we don't kill her but she just admitted that she's mizana history you don't kill somebody if there's no stroke there's no Adam so she could admit full guilt and there was no Adam and she doesn't die but she will lose her Cuba and then she says no I insist that I didn't sin Malinois then we bring her to the Eastern gate that's opposite Charney Connor and let me show you what that looks like you guys ready here you go that's how she goes she comes from the most eastern gate and they Place her right by Charly Connor Shannon Connor looks something like this that's right over here okay so this Courtyard that you see with the 15 Steps that says the solution doesn't have to do shot even the shower itself doesn't have that much douche as you're going to see soon and they put her over there the doors open up and she could see directly into the Azara once the doors are open you could see the big hey hole over there so this is perfect because she's not in yet she could view her carbon and she could see what needs to be seen as a Warner where are they wanting them yeah so then she goes to the business person oh oh so we're gonna see that in a second yeah [Music] all right says the gamara because over there that's where they give the site of the drink water now here I'll show you real quickly she's always outside she never goes into that as hard and Sean nicknor has a little bit of Lucia not too much Rasha says it over here he's a lotion of um where did I see it ah will be as mixer it's a little bit going it's a little bit of douche over there it's not the not in the world okay so here brings the the story shiny Connery says he's a tremendous person and he brought these doors the famous story it was too heavy and then when they got to the port they found that the door followed them the the gamar and Yuma okay so let me just show you this there's something called we're going to discuss it in a second Purim is somebody who is tar from they went to the Mikvah and even they had hair of shemash the sun went down on them which by the way before I forget are people I heard there's a minute that people go to the Mikvah today so that they have hair of shemash that the sun goes down to them tonight and tomorrow air of pesach they're ready to bring a carbon paiser some people are going to make it means the only four people that I know of that in in the Torah meaning that they went to the Mikvah of Shemesh but they're not completely tar they're not completely there until they bring a Karma who are these people owner who gave birth on day 81 or 41 if she gave birth to a boy 41 81 she gave birth to a girl that's when she becomes complete she's mother to her husband but she's osser and Truman until day 81 until she brings the carbon same thing with the matsara we had the message okay these are the four people I didn't have room in my charts I put the zombies over together it's really four this is only 20 000 people listening They're Gonna Keep on hearing you and get annoyed at you save it save it save it for a good one so hold on so you let this here's the chart over you let this I don't have the Zohar she gave birth on day one to a girl she's taught me for 14 days she goes to the mikvan day 14 then she has 66 days of tahara which is completely tall no matter what happens to her what she sees and doesn't see it doesn't matter she's 66 days of Tara on day 81 that's when she brings the carbon great now here's just the animation again to if anybody forgot here's a guy who went to the Mikvah and as it becomes night Harry of Shem and she becomes a tarp and here's a guy who's I don't know what we gained there here it became dark but he's still until the following morning if he's only half shamish we're looking for championships good at night but if he's these four people he's still not completely guitar until he brings a carbon the following word oh check this out you know she did this today uh you know what I'm not gonna show it to you I have to see it inside [Music] yet that's where the Missouri goes because the Missouri we know Dakota takes blood from the ocean puts it on his thumb puts it on his big toe puts it on his ear oh says the mission like this the coin grabs you right over here by the by the collar and he and he rips it down if her shirt rips great then if remove if it falls to the shreds also good at sleep until he unveils her heart the soy series and he uncovers her hair so if a woman is kosher she's a tahiro she never sinned from boys high why should they do that to her why should they rip her clothing like that because she's still put in your situation oh because she was bad rosin told it don't secure yourself with that guy and she didn't listen and she did that itself is deserving of that embarrassment now if that's the case why did she get such a big brother she comes out to her she never sinned so yeah she gets children and a big brother why shot is beautiful because at the end of the day she put herself in that Italian and she shouldn't love but imagine if you're in a sign like that and you control yourself and you overcome it yes you shouldn't have put yourself in that position and because you put yourself in that position you deserve to be embarrassed Etc but you overcame the Messiah that alone it's very very deserving of tremendous bracha and tremendous things everybody knows the the idea is not to get to that point but once you get into that point to overcome it it's very very difficult says the missionaries if her heart was attractive attractive hair like so he wouldn't uncover it why you have people watching you have men there if she was wearing white clothing give her uglier clothing so here this is the this is what I wanted to show you what Yoshi did no no I ruined it yeah we gotta start over there we go okay get over here uh so if she's wearing white to give her some black clothing they make her look ugly their lips change her hair changed okay give out huh this is [Music] she had those kind of feet she is she had feet of a dog you can watch this she had a very big ears she had a round face this is lots of this she's a real person so we're not sure that we want to make fun of her so much but okay the members of the HBA group and their families on me because of your eyes if she has chokers different types of jewelry and summon nose rings taboys and Rings my Very Metal she can't have anything that that makes her look more attractive to make it look ugly brings the worst type of rope not just the regular rope but a mystery rope a casual and it ties it above her chest to grab the the her clothing because all the clothing can fall off right Leroy is if somebody wants to come see the whole procedure more proud you don't want her own slaves cleaning ladies to come because that will give her a boost in confidence we wanna the moralizer and we want her to confess I'll give her a boost and all women could come see her he was going to talk about it men could see her women could say which one is okay it's to warn all the women look this is what's going to happen if any one of you sins this is more of anonymity in the basement we have different best them I know you have to come to the place Amigos to drink the water but why 71 San hedrin you know we have Xavier by our Parish of Satan is foreign just like you Warner that she shouldn't drink the water don't don't let hashem's name be erased in vain what it says on the flip side you should threaten her that she should drink which one is it if he's so sure that you didn't send stand there with your innocence show everybody that you're innocent drink it says this water is like putting medicine on a raw raw skin on on Raw flesh if there's a wound it goes into the wound and heals it so my mom have a have a special thing to them it goes into the body if she sins she explodes she didn't sin other obviously get a broken from it there's a lot of things in Sword like that one of them is wealth some people that have wealth it destroys them go online check it out the guy that won 450 million dollars you know 10 years ago whatever it was destroyed his life his kid committed suicide and this he was shot uh 10 stories that happened to him he lost most of his money anyway sometimes wealth is is a is a curse go both ways use it for every right thing you use it for the wrong thing many things like that in life so this is one of them that it could go both ways depends on what if she's good it's great if she's bad it's it just destroys her so which one is it do we convince her to drink it or to convince her not to drink it says before the process before the coin takes the clap and puts it into the water so we sit there we beg her just admit your sin just say that you're guilty let's get over this why do you want to die why do you want to explode in there now we try to convince her to drink it maybe we even force it to drink it we'll see oh this is the god of pesach you see this they tell her stories um things from the Navy and from going foreign Yehuda admitted his sin and he wasn't embarrassed and what happened to him now what you don't we just had to sue you but we're coming up if you didn't hear this year it's coming up in the next day or two two days from now we had enough tests right what that was the test okay I don't remember anymore it's one big blur we know the story those of you sitting here but you'll get there you hit you'll hear the whole story but yahudah he gave his first son to Tamar they didn't have children Eric dies without children so he gives her ibom no children he said that's it enough is enough this is a Killer Woman This is a what is it called the katlanas you're not getting birds so she she decided to to fool yahuda because she knew that she's gonna have holy said sorry from him and the whole story where she she dressed up designer convinced him and they're gonna once you got pregnant they're gonna go kill her because she's mizana and she didn't want to embarrass him the famous gimoro North London she's the guy from Egyptian age and then finally when she sent him the staff and the khresemmes he said South Korea you're right it's me he admitted in public terrible thing when we were learning again I don't think I mentioned in front of ramadino everybody's there they're all alive it's a tremendous boost up even said the memorial day that she went the crossroad where'd she go she went to everyone's house no he's still alive this is what I did okay you could also admit you're so admitted just like you did now it says in the apostle that that he was with Bill with with Billa but it's it's now we learned already what happened was he changed the beds he wasn't happy that his father after his own mother after his aunt Rachel died so instead of taking his bed yakovino putting it by his mother yeah oh what's going on here my mother comes first so he switched to bed that the target considers like the mizano but they say some aquariums say that we don't tell her that they weren't mazana we tell them even though it's not true that's not the real chat but we read her the Posse because if she was mizana and then he admitted to this nose and what Ma is and I couldn't do anything I couldn't read the homage because I was doing micro before so I said you know I'll do some ration right before shishi the Posse right before shishu it says about they argue within the sons of iron they they argued why with the hotness over there it says rash uses the sloshan Maisha was made of foreign [Music] that was beautiful fits right in there something you might done something and you're not embarrassed so that's what I'm saying over here what is your wife's three favorite words you are right you might have delayed okay um and what reward did he get on my ball no element what did they gain in this world special in this world this is right it's me I'm the father what was the biggest from the whole story about you then Thomas that he remain married with her not the when we're in school all these years we thought that he never saw again they remain married foreign Yehuda what his bones were rolling around in in his coffin so Rashi says over here that maybe we should see rash inside if we have time how much how are we doing with time oh 47 okay maybe we don't have time for ration the bottom line it says Rashi that all the shottam we think that Joseph's bones came from it's raining too foreign had a problem um they're flying around in the in the in his car financially foreign oh you see over here who caused you who the Ruben to admit is guilt Yehuda zeisley Huda that's what it means you see the Reuben admitted this girl and that's why we tell the site that you also admit your guilt all every little shafa so his bones went into the joints fine you do is good but they wouldn't allow him into shamaim he says Rashi an amazing thing it says Rashi that what happens is when you make a nether yes this is Rashi if you make a nether like that it still goes the nether goes even if you make kind than other so you have to you have to do something you have to be Mata the nether you have to and that's why they wouldn't let you do in the Canadian you're unbelievable foreign words are very very powerful very good you're saying very good there was a Mesa two people two friends they made a deal they said if one of us dies first we're gonna come to the other person in the dream and tell them how Canadian is what up so one of them dies a week later he appears in his friend's dream he says it's unbelievable it's going out there unbelievable you you've never seen a view like this in your life the mountains the the waterfalls and this the air is so pure so unbelievable I don't have to worry about my mortgage I don't have anything nothing no expenses it's unbelievable see I says that that's Canadian he says no you fool they put me a Google into a cow in Switzerland okay fine but Yehuda made it he made it bring him to his nation in other words bring him together and say One hand but boy said is one of the most amazing lines in all of Shahs you can just miss it if you just walk through it what does it say here but he didn't know how to go back and forth in learning with their abundant so Yoda so much for him and he's able to talk in learning let's keep on going we have a good so that most people just keep on walking here but I need to pause here for a second and tell you why I to me this is one of the most amazing lines of shots because it says here that Canadian is one thing Canadian is talking and learning with rabbana if you think the Canadian is sitting there looking at the view and chilling and watching uh I don't know some series or something that's not gonna yeah then is talking and learning with the rabbana and Yehuda the great Yehuda where most of us in this room are from you by the way he couldn't understand was flying imagine sitting there and not knowing the word what's flying they talk about this that and you don't know anything you're like what's what's a tool yeah I don't know that's sitting there in Canadian and being at the same time because not understanding learning so the entire we have to understand that it's hard to understand but this is what Canadian is again Aiden is talking and learning with and understanding how to learn learning Tire with the Rubina that's what the Quran says right over here you want more proof that's what it is again read it or lie foreign innocent individual Tamar to be killed by a fire why did he admit a person who gets up in public and says I see this and this and that that means he has no from the from the from that very that I did and that's not a good thing to admit it foreign I did it means it says in the mission that she should write a receipt if she had missed the hertoma remember where she said zonisi amazina she's your eyes in the receipt no because it's Allah you write a receipt or do you take the actual document I have to see what's going on there oh oops let me go back you gotta go through all the slides now just in case if you missed any uh this one goes like this okay here we go this shiny Corner this is where we live okay next this is I I guess I should have shown this earlier no let me just say oh yeah okay now this is good says you know go over here for a second foreign one more two more lines you bring her to the to the Eastern Gates over here you can see the Eastern game Malinois that's basically what you were asking me for what do you mean you bring you're there she was already in English so how you bringing her right that's what you were asking me for she's in English they're giving her all this advice don't drink the water admit and now all of a sudden she she she's at the front gate how did she get to the front gate what we do is we tire out we make her walk a lot today I go to make her tired so let me just show you real quickly here's how it goes she's in English and they make her Walk This Way once she's over here they make her Walk This Way a lot of extra steps and the idea is to tire out inside we're talking about capital punishment they take the aid them and they Tire them out they started I guess that's what they do with interrogation to make people crazy make them stay up the whole night bring them from here to there Tire them out and then we'll say the truth I have a wonderful day