Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 40 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning round boys [Music] and here's the long-awaited announcement the tour in New York Cora Park Muncie Queens five towns and finishing it off in Lakewood on Sunday there's a sheer here I think it is in the five towns at 11 p.m never done a share like that 11 p.m in the white children it's very exciting news we believe that more than 2 000 people will show up to the bar Parks here and it's going to be a tremendous tremendous moment you know what it means 2 000 people in a room even if it's only 500. singing and and dancing and the whole thing so try to be a part of it you go to dafyoimilive.com to register even though it's free but they're asking everybody should register because entrance is with a barcode spaces are limited in case 3 000 people want to come in they're going to limit it to the 2000. all right so please register and even if you don't register you can register at the door it just takes longer so try to show with the I got a tremendous amount of emails yesterday and obviously I'm not going to be able to go through all of them and a lot of them are very very nice and interesting I want this here this one right over here from Beyond car coming up on May 18th I'll have the supposed to host the live stream board park at the Terrace golden Hall they said the other day I did get a zits one of my Halls went up in Flames was the very next day and between the calls from the adjusters contractors insurance company you'll see Klein called me can you imagine to even pick up a phone call from anybody he wanted to make the final arrangement of the bird box here as we were talking I was thinking what better way to get a few extra schools in during a difficult time then this is client I'll not charge anything but there's no need to advertise I've donated it and then call me back the kids sir he's not so happy I mentioned his name but maybe it'll be his horse business and quick recovery my loss beyond my car from a cotton death Basin is hoping that maybe they'll encourage other people to step in because it's a very expensive uh thing to do this uh fight every share is expensive part of the cost is the hall there's other costs like the the technology the this the video the the food so whoever wants to be if you want to do a corporate sponsor correspondence you want to do private private it's all the cover that Toyota hi everybody first watch thank you for everybody you do you're truly inspiration everyone learns I'm amazed at the tremendous impact that that has had in all facets of my life just one example when I linked Ember this past Shabbat my bar mitzvah there were several soaking that we learned together over the past week or weeks that came alive to me in a different way than they have ever had I lean frequently I realize that as a result of doing the DAP I have a deeper level of understanding knowledge I made my learning incredibly enjoyable and meaningful in a way that I hope to continue to be blessed to experience and have so much more to go about Hashem your positive impacts and clients feels immeasurable thank you second as a client the kind of death over the last few days has been extra special as you often say Hashem is always sending messages in the way just making things happen you mentioned today that every song has a certain Cadence and a rhythm should have should also it certainly does here is a pro tip every time this only this is basically in America every time he goes up for biggest I always ask those who are leading what's the tune I don't know if you guys know there's an interesting tune that you guys are not familiar with only in America [Music] they say oh this came straight from English not uh yeah yeah yeah that makes sense yeah but they the other guys you heard the first one I didn't even know how to do it anymore that is the one so anyways he's saying that they discuss which Negan and they don't discuss the Cadence in the Rhythm but okay obviously it's much easier to this outside of Israel finally what can we get you to come to give a share in Inglewood in Jersey those guys are persistent the many people have asked him about Ingle New Jersey you talmud Greg Haber I'm not sure if you're not gonna finishing all the lines in the Gamora with the Islam I notice on Friday is this you Maisha who's he no where is he no Friday morning at minute 27 and 10 seconds skipped from 10 lines from the bottom to three lines from the bottom that doesn't make sense to skip seven so it's probably a problem with YouTube or something skipping YouTube I think I got another email like that well check it out we're very imagining every word and if I skip even a half a letter we have people here that would jump on me this morning huh there's Quail is here and he said I said it oh I skipped in the beginning and then I went back or something that's what happened this morning he showed a video of a father donated to MD wise his daughter should have babies in the video the father mentioned that both his daughters did in fact have children this this inspired me to become a monthly sponsor in spite of the common monthly sponsor we're starting to make money off the Memphis you hear this knife man we're making money off the mofus you have no idea what I'm talking about because you want to know yesterday exactly what you're talking about I would like to say that this donation is now my oldest daughter finds a good children oh yeah I forgot to say it doesn't work in sudokum it only works in babies I also asked you for a brothel When I Met You in Borough Park two weeks ago even though you said you usually don't give broadcast he gave me one for sure for my daughter I remember this person I truly wish and hope in a few short months send you a note that she found the up okay so we'll make a video in a few short months you're gonna send me a note that you became akala you're valdi thank you for all you do and your team is bringing it down to have a baby eventually what's your name I know you we mad no no yeah I always appreciate the kizuki we get for during this year this is from chapstick Cohen the most powerful one so far for him is not talking during cabbage someone tell you an amazing thing Seltzer told me that and the family does all these shorts he said that when he's in America he drops he dropped it off but one thing that he stuck with he doesn't talk dirty anymore I think it's a very big thing it's cautious to me that's very hardship however regarding the lucumrah wasn't this however regarding the new kumrah I made up of not to learn between Alias this there seems to be talking learning not silently reading to yourself shop say Cohen so if you look in the mishnaburra and Simon Cooper involves Civ base he says if you learn to yourself I make a little more does if you're Mako you shouldn't go over to the guy and yell at him mashma to me that it's not a right thing to do you should just shouldn't be Michael don't call it a homura at least the fancy listen I wish I didn't have to get up like a few hours before the second on shop it's like it's love like everybody else and learn during uh foreign [Music] one last thing one last thing one last thing from yaakov Vlog last week Rabbi mayor was the receive of Stanford was nifter I used to down with him in private meeting someone's home for 30 years ago in Lakewood the battlefield always wanted to wait for the receiver to finish when esri whatever her scores would do I love this myself he would stop way before he's finished when x-ray put a sitter down and look around and make believe he was finished so the khazan started not waiting for him just thought you'd appreciate the story I do I love this story all right we have we have people here well boy so you understand the sheer that we have we have people on a level that argue with the time we have the daily oil I'm sitting here in the audience you don't appreciate it you push it don't appreciate it I'm starting a lot to appreciate it [Music] I have to say this seriously the Mississippi news Ben youth Cafe to surpass his goals at work Hashem Steve Melnick of Romulus and by the one and only David Kramer for doing the avoida because and your friend is here from Baltimore what's your name Jonathan Jonathan Jonathan lesson from Baltimore friends of official from official catering I'm supposed to read this now and it's in English oh in honor of the brother twin granddaughter is born to Rabbit dovin area lesson Atara and Hano twin granddaughters Jonathan Ladson of Baltimore is an honor of official growth for all he does for Baltimore Community and all of Claus ISRO especially okay what yeah yeah some purpose kind of but okay Rabbi I have a question every day during khazur's shots we says why is it called perhaps today I think every day we learn Hinduism everything I learn Hinduism every day this is a little bit of a credit to Me Maybe I once learned it I know I said A daff on it years ago but I don't remember word already if you learned that you can't you can't answer no what's the answer yeah the only person that you give thanks right that's why we called it eraser Reborn okay did I make a bro I don't even know I did okay the answer is Rabbi says we're going to see today that many rabbanon put it together it's a it's a combination of five different cheetahs and that's why it's called not that it's the opposite of the right so it's but because many Rabon did it I think that's a lot of people don't know that so now we're holding him over so yeah again it's going to be givaldica today and actually we're gonna have a piece of Gamora that talks about a guy that the verse is not a god we're talking about when Israel say what sukum do they say in fact we're going to learn that then they don't say anything we're going through a whole thing that when when the clams say ing they say the top line and that's and what what does Clyde Israel say onion Kipper these are lips you can sing the song you can feel free that I don't like that song maybe it's a better one no no no it's better not to sing I think oh that's better help him out [Music] also you have a um foreign [Music] at a time she says every possible um if you say this outside you're making a mistake why because it's said for the shame of Irish this are giving covet to the Shema Shem but since outside of this Amigos you don't say hashems you don't say anything you should know imagine how could he not listen how is he how he's receiving abraha you're the Israel you're receiving Abrahim from the client you should be paying attention you should be listening um says you said you don't say it anywhere and the third sheet that says he said it you say it everywhere he should show his appreciation your giving him a brother who's being starved Today show that you care where you from Woodbury people actually live there during the year did you say Woodbury wow okay what's your name because you're going to be there at the we're doing a sharing months are you going to be there then or not Monroe ah not Munchies Monroe ah so like we had two days ago also from around Monroe Baltimore Lakewood already doesn't show up they already sent the solution last year you're from Lakewood so what's your name tell us your name again huh extended living from Lakewood oh so we do have a guest from Lakewood it's not your first time here maybe in sheer for live share you once flew territory just to say something to me a year ago I wasn't kind of what you said he came to ask me to give him Mr Brewer's here to do the dealership and I told him no and then he went back on the plane stood by my door until I opened the door my wife said I can't come to the door he said but I came just for them so I said come too bad so I'm not leaving I can't go I he said he didn't go to the coastal he didn't go anything he just came off the plane he came to ask me this he has an email he loves the Subaru you still do it no for sure ignore it please listen to this this is and we could learn tremendous tremendous meters from this whole story right over here I used to think um okay so first of all he says I thought in the beginning he doesn't say I'm also not going to say it and finished at the end of the day we don't say the sukum once we bring River I used to think I'm an honor of this other person in this room that also thinks he's on of certain people think they are not he thought now we'll see he is a super super honor but he's saying that and the martial I think says he didn't really say it he was thinking to himself I used to I said I thought to myself that I'm an honor then when I met him the way it used to work right the tunnel would say the Torah and he didn't raise his voice he had somebody next to him that would announce it would say it loudly you would hear interpret it maybe he would say it in Russian call you this you interpret it into into um Aramaic what happened was he saw that he said a certain thing and the matargumon switched it around right African sign language oh there's a lot a lot of stories African sign language there's a miser a guy jumped over the border into Texas and he stole like a million dollars and they caught him so they bring him to the sheriff and he tells the sheriff no habla English whatever so they they bring an interpreter Sheriff tells the terror tell him I want to know where he hid the money so the guy tells him tells it tells The Interpreter tell him there's no way he's going to get out of me so the sheriff pulls out his revolver puts it between his eyes and says listen I'm gonna count the three if you don't tell me where it is I'm gonna pull the trigger so the guy pauses for a second he sees the guy serious he says okay I hit it by the river by the oak tree three feet from here right over there so The Interpreter tells him he said go ahead let me see you shoot me [Laughter] I told this this is a my sister came out that we were on a mentor's mission for ursameth we had uh people that were coming by tuba and we're in a hotel up north and also and I see we have an onion stock S I said you know there's a whole group pair of Americans that came with people to be Makai of them maybe get to speak to us there's no problem so we gather around him and I forgot that he doesn't speak like he only speaks Hebrew he starts speaking these guys what's going on it says who speaks Hebrew I said okay I'll do it she starts saying stuff and all of a sudden the item starts laughing and he looks at me he's like I didn't say anything funny what what what exactly do you interpret yeah I go about it fine that's it what no some Cipher says that and this is this is a real thing he says if you want to say my Torah in your name that's givaldik but if you want to say you're Torah in my name uh don't don't don't don't say you're tired and said some cyber said it and that's what happened over here he said his toy running changed it around exactly how he changed it around there's some that want to say that he made a little bit better otherwise he would have been very much with the fight the light carpet Amino alive look look what Anova that is he said something that that person changed it he didn't make a fuss out of it he knew that he changed it he didn't say anything I'm not Anonymous compared to him [Music] my husband is greater than your husband your your husband's not that great my husband doesn't even need your husband and the reason why he asks is such a novel and he bows to your husband without it Lane he gives him covered you know why he says rashy because he was he was baptized by the Caesar as the Rashi brings the gemara that says that when the Revival used to walk by the by the Caesar's Palace the the sing a song for him and say oh you're the leader of Clive okay so if you're such a famous guy and by the guy I'm gonna give covered covered like in England long live the king okay fine I'll give a little coven my husband is greater than him he can do better I'm thinking like nothing changes like it's the same same me this those those days these days nothing changed me this rice I mean this rice if all the government so goes the wife and says is her husband you know you know what you're my turgman's wife is thinking about you oh my law unbelievable who cares what difference does it make is Galaxy law the bottom line is that we're learning Torah the bottom line is that whose name is he's learning I'm learning we're all learning who cares who's bigger and greater and he could do it this way that way this is all the stuff is awesome law huh from me and from him his name will be great it's unbelievable huh and their own interpretation law well no Batman's what difference does it make the bottom line is the bottom line is that we're learning player that's it liberation see if anybody can be ointment in business side they took River phone they said okay you should be the Russia he's always borrowing money what are you doing don't hire me he lied there's somebody greater than me remember Marco hire him why because if you're a Russia Shiva it says an apostle hmm Maybe oh here here it is sorry that I got it you should make him great you have a key of to give money to the Rob to the receiver and make him wealthy because a person who's wealthy has more control over the tea book people respect them more so listen to this it's unbelievable here he is he's getting the jife of a job of a lifetime he finally could be a roshishiva they're hiring him and like this he says no not only does he say give it to somebody else and let him become wealthy not me but he says that guy is greater than me he makes up a story that guy's greater than me unbelievable we could learn we could learn a lot from this it says that all of herbivo's sons ended up being tremendous Israel and also he ended up getting the tremendous covet from the Caesar so yeah the rambam says it's a famous rambam that it's also taking money for teaching for being a Rob for being a rashiva the rashadam didn't argue on him they want to bring a ride from our gamara here that it's okay you see that rebeau is about to take money he gave it he knew that there's money involved and they took the job anyway okay but that's not uh yeah there's a lot more than that they became very wealthy it wasn't just the time of teaching you also got the cover that we tell the story through ever and ever no oh okay it's another another teenager he's in the gemara as a yeah foreign [Music] the amount of solve to make people feel good but this is you have a diamond dealer like Mendy who sold used to sell I wouldn't play voice now he sells chachkish there's a guy that tells a bunch of tchots kiss little toys little stuff uh needles you know the stuff on the street that's cheap who has more buyers so don't worry about it your stuff is Tyra it's the most valuable okay but naturally people go there's a lot of people that they don't know how to learn so well and they're not so into the gishmakers into the pilpulu so they come to that guy don't worry about it your your dress is much better the better kindness and Doma says that most people don't like you know they like they like Agatha and therefore he recommends that in the drushas you should give at least a third stories and Michelle him like he brings the gamara mayor he said he should do a third Allah [Music] but you have to say you have to talk a speech you have to say a speech that people are going to enjoy yeah but it's not your story you give speeches around the world mostly stories 90 stories yeah you have to know your Island some sometimes it's two-thirds stories one-third this is 95 percent sometimes it's no time at all okay fine what are you laughing I'm talking about myself seriously when I get out usually when I give a speech I don't I don't mention the parish at all to me because only because personally as soon as the guy says state in the the Spanish uh the time the story comes around I'm completely sleep so I say the story and I finish the story and somebody's wrong let me show you guys oh call your mother here everyday and walk him to his house because of the season because he was upset that day because nobody came to speech he flipped it around he went and he beloved him to his house whatever that means he didn't it didn't calm him down my room when the cousin says what does everybody else say so just to remind when he had his big surgery when he's about 100 years old he had a heart surgery they brought in a surgeon I think I forgot it was from New York one of these room had a private plan the flu and a surgeon insisted to learn the word thank you in English he wanted to say thank you so he said what right he said because when it comes to to Tokar satave and saying thank you like you said that Buddha rum or whatever I mean it's we said it a few days ago thank you you say by yourself and you always have to be made you say it yourself so what does say what is so what his Rios says no I'm fixed was from and by the way I just want to point out to the Islam as a public service announcement that when you say Maiden I noticed the other day sometimes people not so much you should say it loud enough that everybody hears because it's still part of it's just like saying you don't want to whisper smack Elena knows an entire thing from beginning to end loud so everybody hears you go and then they wait for everybody to be quiet that doesn't work okay next so here it is we did something like this you have the first sheeta which is RAV and basically this is today's news so it's oops sorry there's a few variations here it's not exactly like the guitar says but okay Raph says you say the first part only sure that's what it is there's a comments there usually so now each one of the five adds one more piece shmuel adds three more words great separations Al so here that's it he added three words you training inspirations so now we understand why it's called modern you have RAV you have shmuel you have Simone each one added three words there three words there until we have our notes of today so don't get mixed up here the question is what is before and Rashi says that each one add to the other they're not putting in different places you're keeping us alive you you gave us life now that you're sustaining that life okay they all say that you know you should find favor just got to say no this is a little different than what we say recessive God is saying oh back to what we say you should gather us here we go so that's the last one Texas brings you Shaman he says it three times the xiaomi says you should say dies we have a mcclegs battling passing like the baby for some reason I'm not sure why they've only gone past since like do xiaomi and therefore I says I don't know why he passing like that but he does huh why because my father does no no they're quiet still hate um says republic since we have five sheets here so we do this oh yeah oh it's supposed to be sound okay we say oh all of it now we mentioned this a number of times because it's brought down a number of times shots why is it that we say in the Hadron khanina Barbara whatever all the names ten names cause they provide a beer but why the sun is a republic because yeah but that based on this you're right it could be what was Europe Schoenberg I just remembers 20 minutes long so please don't say it now I'm kidding I'm kidding show me get my humor anyway so no they say upshot that Ralph Papa ten times in shots and I looked it up I found 10 times you can look it up under came up real Papa ten times in shots make shalom he takes cheetahs if there's two sheetas he goes because this tushitos the Allah is like this let's do both and here's a here's a situation where an instant where there's five sheeters he said you know what let's do them all why not oh because you're a republic we have more than we are abundantly the way we have it and that's why he was joyful because of the Shalom the at the end of the seam we mentioned is 10 children represent the ten times of Charlotte processor I don't remember as I said it once in uh says it rough crater what are we gonna do without you we're gonna miss you you have a lot of knowledge you have a good neighbor start with stuff or reviews should always fear the kahal the congregation check this out like me over here this is over here what right does the person have to turn his back says he should we learned Panama upon him the tibers facing you face away from so the fear and the respect that you should have for the tea bird foreign collected enough money to build a base I mean that she had everything in place besides the fact that he couldn't build it and he told the sunshine we become king you build it so he got up and he made a an appeal the Ami either they're in my nation and I control you and I I will tell you I'm gonna love you upon you with a certain amount I need you to pay each guy a thousand dollars don't ask questions so I'm gonna install you're my nation you're my brother but my brother takes it as fear like he was scared of them he called them brother out of fear so what are they their brother or their Nation it's a contradiction um if you listen great then we'll be brothers in live I'm at them and I'll use I'll whip you foreign how do I know that we have fear from the the call because we know that a coin is not going to go up with his shoes in a regular show forget about some English they don't wear shoes right because that guy my time now check this out this is uh Yoshi put this together is a spouse they used to wear long cloaks in those days and they had to tell us now during big skyhane if you're calling you have to lift up your hands so what's going to happen when you lift up your hand this is what happens uh uh so they lift up their hands so they're naturally the robe is going to lift up and what are they going to see you're gonna see muddy shoes oh you can see somebody's shoes and muddy shoes is a bazillion for the tea bird and think about it they didn't have sidewalks then in the in the winter everybody had muddy shoes no that's not how you serve Hashem and then I'm saying everybody you know everybody has it right but everybody has it I'll give you a marshall uh at my daughter's wedding I went uh to see her during the wedding do like a little bit of a misitance on the side and also I noticed that she's wearing white gym shoes underneath the if she thought she had it covered and nobody will see as soon as you see the gym shoes come out that over here everybody has it covered it's normal to cover the cover okay but anyways oh wait a minute I I miss the piece here here's the piece you see the muddy shoes and then you take off the shoes and what are you left with those says maybe the Scrabble break well there was a limited right he'll be so embarrassed Raji says they'll make fun of him make fun of him he doesn't want to stand the booster nothing changed I'm telling you like like kids in in the teenagers uh it's gonna make fun they have this shoelace so he'll run officers that the reason why I ran off is because he's not really two take off his shoes and when he takes off his shoes you should hide his shoes it shouldn't be visible that's why you'll see a lot of times they put it behind something great what happens if somebody steals you give a guy an absorption at a mic Toya somebody had very expensive shoes and he asked his friend please watch my shoes for me and then they stole the shoes during Brick's condom is he Destroyer not a shimmer I ain't sharp or if I make this bro oh my mama's base Greg Haber for broken Supreme my entire family rebelly and everyone learning the dab so it says how do I know they shouldn't say um check out this puzzle sounds like this so that's what we're learning now then we're going to learn that means that you should say a broker that's going to show you what it looks like the other thing it says in the passing in green foreign from now the next part is and it looks like this if you ever see this Russia Davis on the side I'm just trying to talk about Islam but that's what we say instead of army you're saying that you shouldn't make a half SEC the reason why you don't say Amen in the basement is supposed to go from beginning of your Reflow to the end foreign says toys verse perhaps the chart is inserted when they say hashem's name all three have hashem's name when they hear Hashem the Great services at that point but it's not a half SEC because at the by the time deposit is over they're done Keep On Moving oh and I want to point out a beautiful thing in Texas over here I just thought it's a big kaddish or interesting uh fact fun fact it says towards the end of tysis like one third from the bottom the Taft is Hashem and they forgot it they would either fall on their face or stand in a certain way but I guess it was some sort of Nays just left their brains and they waited until that point that you leave says the mission because he would lane from the Torah says so we have four people there we have the guy in charge of Dominion like the Gary of the minion he decides who goes up to the khazan who gets the saliyah he screams that kohanim dolphin you also have a guy that's the shamish he cleans the soul he sets up the tables and that that's not Gary but who's more hush of Gary so says the shamish takes to save a Torah and he gives it to the guy above him to the Gary Venezuela's got now Gary's not as hush of as the second in command the second coin goddal the the one that would step in if the coin godo can do okay it can't perform that that's gone and then finally the third of this gun noise how could he be sitting look higher from here is the Minogue to do what we call at a bris I give it to him and he gives it to him we pass we pass the Civil toy around we pass the child around all sorts of it's a hush of a thing now check this out this kadai no I'm just looking at the screen for a second because this is going to help you foreign two parishes ago we read empirical design and at the same time we read vampirious M or this past week's power show in paragraph what's the distance between the two it's not so far it's a little far it's about six it's five and a half Pro come away right because in Africa we're reading like 35 sukum it's like almost in the middle of the parachute the point is by the time the metariam says over the blue weak uh the red by the time the pentagram says over the red he's saying it in an RMA we could be going to save it there real quickly six six uh procam and get to the blue real quickly Nobody Knows the difference but the green the green is the green is about mid bar you can roll the safety that quickly and it's not nice for the tea board the gamar always talks about being considerate to the island we have to read you know what you do in order not to be my tree of the team or you read parishes not from a safetyra unbelievable uh sorry there's much more from where this came from um Hashem a lot of people say this doesn't now since it says it means that after you do an avoida you should take Hashem right away it says here is because Hashem you say the whole thing beforehand the whole whatever the words are and then he finishes you say all things Israel we say and finally almost finally valueslaim I skipped filo this is counted this nine here not eight like the mission says and we need to have a shot where boys I have a wonderful day [Music]