Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 2 by R’ Eli Stefansky

I [Applause] [Music] am away from Chicago [Applause] Miss Simon and broken my volume to all the masculine here in Chicago and all around there are over 700 people that are starting with so big round of applause for anybody that started over 700 people 700 it's a tremendous number tremendous as I promised merciful is one of the most fascinating myself this exciting easy very short you're not going to be disappointed today is a little bit of an exception we're gonna get something there with some technical gamara Sonoma Bays do not let that turn you off you're also going to face pesach we're starting on a Friday Shabbos going into a very tough week and this is a week that could really get people so I'm asking you please stick with it and if you know that one die fits you you can't do whatever it pays out he can't do it on below I say there it's understandable and the trick is as usual you skip ahead and you catch up later skip ahead go with everybody else one dot don't let that one die if the two that bring you down you'll make it up eventually I also want to welcome here tonight we have over 25 people that flew in from all over the place I have to say Chicago is a tough City it is only because there's a lot a lot a lot a lot a lot of guys that do the daf but they don't want anybody else to know the cop they won't even come to the scene some of them so I want to thank everybody for coming out for not being such a mister tonight coming tonight it's a tremendous Island I don't know what we have with standing room only it's unbelievable you know especially Chicago we spoke a lot about him this year he had a big loss his young child they went on vacation lost the his young son and Tani won one of the Raffles they were doing for the ivy soccer initiative the khazara he won the raffle and he said I'm taking that money and I'm buying a ticket to come to Chicago and here he is tonight so Tony where are you tiny stand up wherever you are counting in the back if you are new to MD wide is your first time learn the merciful so we have an initiative we have something to push you to get you going if you start and finish you'll enter a one thousand dollar raffle and the guy that brought you I don't know what that has to do with anything it's like a yeah take it over there maybe the guy that brought you is also gonna be entered in another raffle another thousand dollar raffle so let's encourage people that brought people in to to stick to them and ask them how they're doing encourage them to keep on going because it is going to turn out to be something that's going to change their lives and you want to be part of it and you want to encourage them to continue no mics we don't need to make that so I'll tell you I guess I could say this in the seam but I'll say it now because people might be wondering why am I wearing a shirt from the 80s so I'll explain to you uh I had a tremendous process I was able to make my flight and I believe I I tie it to the to the island that Seaboard because I was coming for Toyota coming to give a share but my suitcases didn't make it all my clothing my suits my ties my hat everything it's all I'm friends somewhere but I got to tell you it's a tremendous growth of practice because Yoshi the artist which we have to think he did a tremendous job in himself he worked tirelessly to create the another book it's over 100 pages and it's a great way to do Hazara you just go through and say oh that's an acceptor of cloud product Cloud that's the best I'm sorry this is all the beautiful circus we learned worked many hours I also worked a bunch of hours on it and we gave it to the printer way in advance the printer the day that I'm leaving from Marriage Israel here and I'm gonna bring all the books with me he calls me up and he says sorry the machine bro this broke does that every excuse in the book I said but we gave it to you a week and a half ago what do you mean uh you know so I was natural I was upset I said you know it turns out that had I brought these books they've been stuck in Paris and nobody ever had a book tremendous myself as instead the island printed in New York and yossi Klein and Marcus shanazi over here tonight they brought the book yeah you have books is worth so you're straight out for bringing the bugs phasers everybody's gonna enjoy and I guess I guess we could start why not so we're gonna before we get into all that goddesses and all the stories and everything else that comes along with we're gonna have a few deaths about the actual Saito the actual site is very interesting that as the guitar says tomorrow that a person doesn't sin unless and this site is a shelter and in fact if you look at the rambam in China that's based I guess on the Torah but a site is a shelter because when you do a sin like that you're doing what is a saita so what we're talking about here is a husband who suspects his wife of sinning and he warns Earth and he says I don't want you to talk and seclude yourself with so and so help me see hmm not good hope this doesn't happen during share but okay it's going really slow I just wanted before I even start I want to show you something that I missed out last night and I'll show you real quickly for today this we have ribiase Klein who started the gamara initiative is here with us tonight thousands of people are learning Target because of him we asked permission from both of these individuals and this is Avi mandelbam who's just lived there the other day 40 something year old a very very big part of our chair so isn't it and there's a lot of people here that are literally grieving over the loss is a very big part is our official about the Kaya he's on Zoom he's about to have zoom every day literally they took the strike once he took that chaifer he never let go of and he was the he had that mic he was in so Yoshi did this for masectus Nazir and I just want to show you these are the two main characters of acceptance and basically you had a goodbye thing for them oh did you guys see what happened over here if you snooze you lose it happens in a second look what happens to the Nazir Punk thing on his head okay and see inside that all right so here we are in saita these are the the terminology goes as follows when a husband tells his wife I don't want you to seclude yourself with so and so that's called hinui and for that our mission tells us you need to weigh them you know see there's other cheetahs then this theorem steer is when the the wife doesn't listen she goes ahead and she secludes herself she's in this star you need one Aid to Aiden what happens is she becomes Usher to her husband but she's just suspected of being over in this sir we don't know for sure it makes sense she was he told her not to seclude herself and she did so there's a way out of it she could drink the mai mamarim the maisonita the special Waters puts it in water mix it up she drinks it and the word kinoi comes from the Posse there's a it's a jealousy there's anger and finally this is what happens this we had a character this is a mix of two characters we had a character in yovamus the burqa lady she was one of the women in yavamas and we also had this lady right here this is La Lucas from Nazir and if she drinks huh from the dorm okay it's from the dorm it's all a big blur from the dorm says he's already 13 years old this is what happens if she drinks the water and things don't go well fine no people ask me since I interviewed another will I interview you in azira uh saita so this is the best I could do oh yeah oh yeah boy okay let's see if I could get there even so the shear of course is sponsored lead English was my mother Russia let's see if I can get to the other sponsors here [Music] is this it oh so real quickly the coil was sponsored by now is from Lakewood the other responsibility Ruben Klein another my daughter at least becoming College it's behindo from Toronto we don't have a masecta sponsor yet so you guys are lucky we'll move right by that quickly the sponsor of the monk Lil nishimaskheim elephant by his West Side friends [Music] the pirates of the week vladis loves graduated this may Paradise we have five of them Brian intact brain brain in that should be do show tremendous success in all my Endeavors Justin Avery Williams uh it's a relative he does the dive every day all the way from Detroit I believe we'll see him on PESA fourth sponsor leadership mayor benaraf shmuel scheinberg executive and finally Dave scharfman leadership Aaron to all the mdy members with the new Miss Seth uh I guess that's Avi melodrama from Nasha Ben moisha Aaron and here we go a person warns his wife not to support herself by the way because we're so used to nadaram and another where the DAP him are very short we have to learn how to pick up speed and you have to learn how to catch on quicker I'm a kind of listening law in he has to use two of them to warn her not to seclude herself umashka and he gives her the water the mime he could do it even on his own account and certainly if there's a eight maybe she argues and he says that the stero not only the key no he needs to Aiden but also the stero McConnell how does it works it says how it doesn't work how does it work I'll tell you how it doesn't work if he tells him don't speak he doesn't say don't secure yourself don't speak to so and so Terrace to have relations with her husband if she's married if she walked into that secluded place and so by the way just in case you're new to the sheer it's always kadai I've done this a thousand times we'll do a thousand one because everybody that's familiar with the shares familiar with Truman maestras and Tuma is just something that everybody is not scared of anymore truma if her husband is a client and there's a straw that has a bunch of produce he must give to the kind two percent of everything that he has and then after that he gives 10 percent to the lady and from that 10 percent that the lady has that Levy has to take 10 of what he received and give that to the fight that's puma and Miser so she must be in that house for whatever the sheer tumor is forever however long the start of a relation takes now listen again this year is also it's important to know the sheer because sometimes a one would go into an elevator in a New York skyscraper and it's a two three minute ride up is that the shirihood and maybe it's also to be an elevator with another person depends if it stops on every floor it doesn't stop living now has like that you don't even understand how much I miss Rashi from a receptor full of Ron a masseur full of typhus which was very very difficult here we are finally welcome back Rashid and Rashi brings that this three second behind it and it comes to teach us that this this woman who secluded herself after her husband warned him not to seclude herself but nobody saw exactly what happened there but we could assume she becomes also to her husband forever unless she drinks the water she becomes oser to the bio to the guy that she secluded herself and she becomes awesome because we have three sukim that teaches that if her husband died says so going back to yvonis real quickly here you have two brothers Reuben and shiman Reuben is married to Rahul you show me lady with a fish in her car the chicken hanging out of the bag one of our characters from yabamas and if you were married Israel you understand what the picture is you see she has two phones inner tickle like most good your xiaomi ladies they usually have one this one has two great ruvane goes bye-bye so this wife since she didn't have any children with Ruben she falls the evil here goes she falls she goes down she she marries her brother-in-law the one time that a woman is let him marry the brother-in-law if they don't have kids if not if they don't get married he doesn't before me boom then the way out of it is to do halitza she removes the shoe she spits at a shoe Etc this woman since we don't know what happened there and right now she's also to her husband and then her husband had a heart attack from everything that happened and he died so she does not marry the brother-in-law the only way out of it is through halita says the gemara probably had it a number of times the guy just wants to understand why in the world sure why in the world is misakthus Nazir right after Mercedes nidarum where does Nazar belong in kochem doesn't belong over here says the gamara why did rebbe put Nazareth over here to the rebby this goes according to ready the author of The mishna beside your ability why is it in the Torah the Parish of Nazir is right next to the parish website famous famous gimara and this is one of the little treats that we have today that gathered the treats and we could learn a lesson for ourselves as well when a person sees the Saito what she goes through the husband schlepping her to the basement embarrassing her in front of everybody he has to remove her hair covering her shethal her tickle whatever she's wearing is very embarrassing and he rips her clothing her shirt and they have to tie the shirt back up with a string it's a terrible design and he might even see her explode and everything else a person witnesses that let's understand where did it come from what started it off people act in certain ways they drink too much light-headed comes to issu so he should think upon himself something to correct it that he shouldn't fall into the Trap and he should also refrain not necessarily become another because we said another is proud maybe not such a great thing to become but at least he should refrain from going to the bar and drinking and all that the very first time he saw a person be Mikhail Chavez he started crying started crying couldn't believe the second time he saw a Jew being called Shabbos he cried even more ready what's going on why you crying more he said because the second time I saw that I wasn't bothered as much as the first time and for that I'm crying I can't believe I became slightly numb to it and unfortunately when we witnessed certain things we witness our varus we get these whatsapps these videos we become a little bit number every time we see it I keep on saying that they sit in the chair many times that the American soldiers in the Korean War had a very hard time killing the enemy well by the time he came to Vietnam and they watched a lot of TV they explained a lot of it became a lot easier you see it in movies he's in this then he becomes ah it's just killing just shooting and just pulling a trigger same thing with that various we see in Avera even though we're so far from it but we say you know what oh he did it no a lot of time another time so that's the most telling us yes he has to take for carrot the question is why should that person refrain from wine everybody else should refrain from wine he saw what happens he saw the woman explode so he's not gonna have a problem no the opposite the person that Witnesses it is more in more danger than the person that didn't Witnesses zero scores Carolina right you always tell the nozzers don't go don't even go through the vineyard because the first step of doing a Vera is getting close to it is coming close watching it thinking about it getting close once you get close once then it might be too late so like this to be Miss rafik means traffic from wine stay away from that very completely foreign I did the tonic suit was with Tonya mothers has a parrot called her mother which talks about nadarum so right after EXO bus we finish off turning the door and we're having seconds in the dark so first you have soups that talks about nadarm they have himself but it is and once I say in the diary I have myself I talk about another why the dominant because nazare is similar to nadaram as we said when we're learning notes there's a very similar idea and once I said Nazir now it says in the mission the first words explains that right afterwards so it's like a double lotion says from the words I'm a kind I could learn the evidence it's only if the guy wants to tell his wife not to seclude herself great he's sure he should really go ahead and do it it's not a good idea is imagine this woman the anger that she has against her husband he's just embarrassed in front of everybody he's accusing her of all these things it brings between your husband and her wife don't do it don't be meccano don't don't tell your wife that you shouldn't seclude herself with somebody sure you're sure but don't don't start that's one man dollar so that's why they mentioned use Allah if he did it after the fact this is the Allah but he shouldn't do it all right when was learning if a person complains that his wife is a witch you should look in the mirror or look in the closet he has a broom in the closet he's a witch he's like a bar who doesn't give a person a sugar unless he deserves this woman was a fruit so you know why she's a prusa because you're a parrots because we gave you what you deserve again every look in this world is based on the individual because well it takes two not good Nicks and puts them together they can put them together that gets married to a Russian not like that foreign goes against nature it's actually dozens of shot them here I don't even know where to start maybe I won't say any Chris yamsov is against nature I'm just rational to stop nature and have claiso go through that's how hard it is for him to make a so like I said there's a madrushment measure says that this matronising said what is doing since he created the world was he busy with he's busy with making shidoken foreign she took a thousand slaves and a thousands and she said you with you she lined them up exactly they lined up and she sent them home the next day he says the medrish they came back this one had a broken arm this one had a broken head this one was missing an eye she's okay I give up it's really hard but if you think about it when Clyde Israel came up to the water the last last thing on their mind they said Hashem better help us what's he gonna do maybe all the mission will drop that maybe a boat will arrive but the last last thing that they thought in their minds is that the water is going to split it never occurred to them many times when we have Shido him it comes from Left Field you have no idea that you just happen to be here and somebody saw you and read the or whatever it is it always comes in the in the most interesting ways in the firefighters ways like crazy I'm so but perhaps the shot is I think a lot of people relate to this is that to make this a not so good fellow we see people it's easy maybe once you meet somebody it goes well you get engaged but to keep that marriage going for 25 30 years that's crazy I'm self to keep that water standing straight against nature to take Men Are from Mars Women Are from Venus and to put them together in the same house and had that last why why are you smiling Dalia you're relating to this huh oh yeah okay let's go from coming coming all the way from New York um another thing is okay we'll we'll see in a second I have a question about what the gamar has to say but let's see this um there is a taste of chance here I don't want to forget to say it so let's just see it inside right now let's try this is that small little print all the way on the side I believe I typed it out for everybody if I could get in here so if you want you just look on the screen I'll read it for you here is I think this is a very wild pleasure science that's why I'm reading it here unbelievable the reason why it's not the crazy answers listen to this just like at College you hear what's going on here what's going on killed the mitzrim in order to save the the Jews listen what he does when a person gets married for the second time you know what you know what happened there it's hard to understand but I'm telling you to you it's a wild thing I'd like to tell you wild shot them can my heart you have a person who wants this guy to marry this woman the problem is they're both married to different people accident over here a Mackle over here gets rid of the these two and then he puts these two together that's Trias yams of says it you think I said it's not the reason the Pacific changing America 's gonna explain now we're talking about the second marriage says the game right now we're gonna see inside I told you now um is a different story don't blame me for anything we'll go real quick and all know that it happened and then again people are not married and makes them into a home he marries them off foreign and he takes out the people and the boys are not going to believe it it's talking about PESA peaceful from Israel at the perfect time because that's one shine Amy asking tomorrow how could it be verages of land 40 days before the baby is formed what does that mean what day is that the day of conception because it takes 40 days to have a Surah meaning it's a nice way I guess to say it 40 days before you see yourself laughs so place it says on the spot just so you should know maybe not all of you knew this which vlog the girl or the boy what if they're not what if one of them isn't born says Tyson is talking about the boy only before the boy is born or as he's conceived says you are going to marry a girl that's not even alive yet wasn't even conceived yet that's what places says by his funny lapointing that house with the basketball court in the basement that was already designated to you before you were born saw the plane of the plane and your paranosa everything is present series of life so what are you telling me that has to do with you being a Russia that if you're a Russia you're married to Russia if you're a Savvy married at Sadiq Hashem already decided way before you're born Who you gonna marry mmm now says the gemara like Casio huh by the way I said this joke 300 times already but I have to say it now it's joke 137 I'm gonna say real quickly for all those that want I know it has his jokes I'm saying it for him there was a man who divorced his wife and as they left the best then he turned to her and she and he says let's get married we got married what are you doing and he said you know what for the second marriage she's Perfect all these guys didn't hear it foreign second marriage oh that's uh Sacrament every Chevrolet it's the first second marriage not for the first marriage you're in the wrong Shepherd Brothers it doesn't work the gamara says cautions is only on the second marriage it doesn't apply to the first marriage you could say I don't know if this is the real shot you could say that Riza says that we're all here for the second time our first marriage was back then we are Civic Cheney so to speak we're all Googling okay different different shot them everybody says their own shot but this is a fascinating Rashi and all the reasoning talk about this Rashi and it's a very very famous question We're not gonna have any answers tonight but we at least could bring up the question three lines from where Rashi becomes thick why the employment what do you mean I bothering me I'm calling it tears of Life basketball you guys have been married the Kumar is asking how did Hashem know if that guy's gonna become a Sadiq or Russia what do you mean Hashem knows everything Hashem knows the future there's no future by himself everything is here it said this what is it called it's uh it's relative whatever space that there Hashem knows the future so they're both witches they go together and they're both sitting and they're all together what's the I don't stand the question says Rashi says Hashem doesn't have power so to speak over the yirusha mind that a person has a person that's plural he could decide to be a rush or not you know he brings the the Zara in front of he says decidesh emphasize everything foreign name in the famous rambam but at the end of the day yes it's not in hashem's hand so to speak but she knows what he chose so he knows what he chose he should make his of based on the job and the ramam says a shark and the rap it says if you say something like that don't ask the question and there's a whole fight between the rest of them if you're not Victorious this is a beautiful rash if you you can take it to the bank foreign the first step when a husband tells his wife don't exclude yourself and so-and-so we need to weigh them but when she she secludes herself do you need to Aid them or one Aid that we have but what if they witnessed somebody witnessed her actually one is enough to say that she's completely awesome to husband or boy's eye what happens if there's an eight or Aiden that saw that she became Tommy she was mizana what happens work for her no my mom is only when there's a Suffolk so I think I have to get divorced immediately says official from official catering who also flew in your skies are officials there is no drinking if one witness saw it anyways says I'm coming it comes to tomorrow one Eight is Enough with the rice uh how do I know this idea in the Torah that one Aid is believed Amber says something fascinating that nobody knew and if you came just for this it was could die when the tire says the word Aid Ada means how many two eight means how many whoever said one is wrong I also said one eight means two a eight means two that's it that's also get today when it says it means two so when the tire says she doesn't there's no two witnesses me there's no two witnesses that witness that she used matama but there is one foreign how do you know that the player is referring that there's not two but there's one maybe it means there's not one but none come alive so here's the possible he doesn't know about an Israel she secluded herself the word over here means to now this is very important to remember this possible and the guitar is going to go three times to explain why we need this pause why we just said this Russia is one eight is not enough no it could have also said one is not enough but it says the members of the HPA group and their families you could all go to sleep now I'm just gonna go through this Technical sugya and I'll wake you up when I'm done it's nothing more explains why is there a double ocean zip and I have because this is a big enough for the whole time anytime this is the word eight it doesn't mean like we think one it means two different over here teaches us this idea it has to be one aid but if I just say a by itself it means two and this person it means one because it says that says there aren't two that's here because it says two people didn't witness it how many did witness it one Witnesses and she wasn't forced because she wasn't forced and there's one eight Asura one Aid could say that she's answered her husband forever says on the screen is said that when the Torah says it means literally like we thought singular one one eight uh so it says and there isn't one Aid there isn't one Aid then what's wrong nothing happened how could you make somebody awesome if there isn't even one a says the gamara um Mark I need you desperately quickly Mark Ashkenazi the famous Market shanazi the biggest right in here okay um it's not even one Aid what happened means this person right over here okay we're gonna keep going back to this possible why do I need the address not that there isn't one but he's not believed what do you mean he's not believe Bill it might bite what do you need I think a tray you need two what's the chromina then why do I need apostle why do I need a positive to tell me that that the one eight does not believe or me Mama check this out the famous this is it says over here the word Dover it says by two eight them regular two Aid them up every eight is in the third we know you need at least two for Testimony so by side also so why does it have to tell us all possible obviously foreign you know what everything leads off to the fact that she was mizana first he he warned her not to seclude herself then she secluded herself okay and finally the third step that somebody saw it whomper that's enough maybe that's try again 11 Israel maybe one is enough visario so what are you tell them only there's not two way then but only one Aid and she's she's multiple her husband but the Taurus says but she wasn't forced so think about it she wasn't forced means that she's she's awesome not that she's mother the third saying she's awesome the healing is sponsor she wasn't forced what does that mean she wasn't forced she wasn't forced and therefore she's also their husband foreign yeah I would think that you need to Uber train on me he the lane is possible so much one is that Aid means two and by Saito you don't have to hey danebo right it says eight ball eight means two and you don't have to you only have one so she's also to her husband forever if it wasn't blindness that's what the person is saying if it wasn't buying us and one Aid then that's the tiger one Aid to make your answer forever okay you need two ways let's see if we have the Posse here yes in her so the gemara understands there's three things going on here we have Thomas the actual Act somebody witnessed it that's Bob then we have kinui and stiro he warned they're not this include the seclusion in other words the tomorrow we said is enough to have one eight but for the kinoy you need to for this theorem you need to and that's the sheet of Ruby only but only in the Tomah part three you don't need to Aid them but part one and two you need to Aid them I take that drusha but I only use it for one out of the two things for Kino and office theorem above who told which one to to use the ball for there's two things we have here in stero maybe kinu needs two maybe Steven needs two how do you know which one to use it for she secluded herself so it's very close to actually doing the sin up for that you don't need to weigh them that is like Thomas the seven is because it's very close we have an impossible I have another person to tell me that kinus also like that it says only one you know he also won why you tell me about comes to say that the Kino needs to but at the end of the day what I'm going to do I have a word box what should I do the third says that one out of the two only needs one out of two needs to weigh them so we're back to square one with my Risa but how do you know which one of the two marvelous theory if uh makes more sense that when she's over and she secludes herself after she was born not to chicuma because that makes her also through that says that's the beginning the whole thing started because he warned her so maybe that warning needs to sigmari laughs without secluding yourself who cares if he warned her says and if you wonder who cares if she didn't seclude herself the bottom line is which one is better which one should we use the dresser for foreign starts and that requires to say good morning our mishna doesn't go like this Tano that says we have another Madonna that says in the name everybody the exact opposite whatever our mission says in the name of everybody or he could warn his wife directly he doesn't even need a masculine but stero you need to the exact opposite of what he said in the Mishra says zero is one king is two and over here saying Q is one series two I apologize ran out of time I could have had charts to make the city a little bit more interesting no that's it gonna explain what that means basically if a husband is permitted to to warn his wife on his own so if he wants to mess around with his wife if he wants to mess up her life he could just say I warned her nobody don't know if he did or did my time in derivation for you though oh my crawl Buffy stereo this we saw before he's using the same Joshua that we had before the word whoever's talking over there please quiet down it's very disturbing foreign again same Shadow we had before how do you know this word ba comes to exclude stir up maybe Constitution same thing that we had before the Civic is going to talk about tomorrow the news now we're saying something that we didn't say before the the Posse has come to say how much time does she is you have to seclude herself and I will have a different gamara exactly how long that is but that there is a sheer don't say that she screwed herself for 10 seconds no it has to be the sheer of Tuma to do an act what does that mean my new says if a person has the right to warn his wife without any Adam then anytime he's upset at his wife I'll say I warned you and I'll take her to the bad days you'll have to do all the the entire procedure which is very embarrassing and that's not right what's the difference in our in the one and himself or himself so he can mess with him our mission also you can mess with her he he'll bring to away them that Warner don't seclude himself with her but he's believed according to our mission on his own that she disciplined herself so now you can really mess with her he goes It goes to business and says listen I saw that she secluded herself and we have to trust him say no I know it's very quick it's very technical It's Gonna Get Easier adorable think about it when a person hires to weigh them to warn his wife not to seclude herself and then she secluded she secludes herself and we trust him does that make more sense do we trust him more than in the other case where he didn't hire anybody and he comes to bed and said I warned her not to seclude herself with somebody there's no start there's nobody in that case how should we trust him in the case where there was she has a history he already hired Kuwait them now we should be able to trust him oh so if that makes more sense why does the gamar say ah even in the case where it doesn't make sense it should be the exact opposite even [Music] uh is the one but even our mishna English Even in our mission where there is a history still we should be concerned that the husband could mess with his wife even though this is history he could still if he wants to be mean he could bring him to business even though she's never secluded herself with anyone check out this place is very very interesting places and this happens to be the very very final Allah in evaneser I just thought it's interesting Allah listen to this it's like seven eight lines from the bottom of the last Isis when a person does CUNY to his wife and he warns her not to seclude herself he shouldn't do it out of late Sonos limited house hello it sounds like an mdv song no hello should I fear you should do it but rest Isaiah listen to this it's crazy what if a guy is in a great mood he just had a drink and he says oh by the way I don't want you to seclude with so-and-so my name is it doesn't work if a person is five says it's unbelievable think about it myself if a person tells his wife even in a joke you know the plumber is coming today I don't think you should uh keep the door closed be careful yeah it happens a lot careful the guy's coming this man you're not all right keep the door slightly open you know what that is that's kinoy and if the plumber comes into the house and they close the door she becomes us with her husband there's no way out of it says the gemara it could happen doesn't matter English was destroyed so we don't have my mama and we don't we don't know what to do there's no way to figure it out since we could possibly could be like like would be icy that a person on his own he doesn't need anything he can tell us the war in his wife um and she secluded herself after he warned her you told her about and she forgot and she closed the door and we don't have the Miami anymore because there's no way out of it so tackles the bottom line is if a person says to his wife at least we learned one all off with that first is the way be careful don't close the door I've heard people saying it so you have to say no I'm about to what I just said you have to you have to be in battle because maybe Orange where does this come from the tire says lotion of jealousy of Anger of of fighting government says this has to do with a fight between her and her friends and the world not between her and her husband all of a sudden you notice that this woman is not socializing with anybody she doesn't go to weddings she doesn't go to that foreign and she goes to some place and by mistakes you and she'll be awesome forever have you ever imagined them y'all married no the fight is between husband and wife and this I think everybody knows this but it might be kadai to repeat the Avera of sinus and hurting another person does it apply to one's wife and children or not huh amaratan who said that yes who says no over here anybody nobody ah okay good yeah the issue of fighting with one's wife is the same exact this is fighting with somebody else in the street same thing with your own children does that but a fight is a fight so says you might cause a fight between a husband and wife is must hold that the kinoy is something that everybody knows about and everybody knows that he performed the keynote he warned his wife and he is going to fight with her um because Ivory the awesome mechanics so this is the the sheeter that holds since it creates a husband and wife you shouldn't do kinui if you know something's certain great but if you don't know don't start warning your wife about stuff um and if you say that you're permitted to I'm gonna see tomorrow permitted but you're permitted so where does it come from this lotion of anger Fighting song that doesn't mean a fight it means to warn okay it's a solution of warning have a wonderful [Applause] but both sides just finished mdy is excited to introduce kahoot to the Daily sheer kahoot is a fun interactive way to test your knowledge on the DOT for those of you who have already participated in the mdy Hazara program you know how this works every day we'll be posting four multiple choice questions on the dot if you paid attention to the sheer you will be able to 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