Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 16 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning wrap boys hi I couldn't Zoomer sorry for all the technical difficulties we're having the same technical difficulties when a Remy is not available I apologize for the delay if you're watching live we had like a 30 minute delay and I really apologize for that so we're here in Chicago still in the hotel it's mate of Cheney and it's ready morning nerds is wrong so amazing the way obviously this year live in our trial today internet trolls eight days in oymer actually here in America it's atheism what is an energy straw also it is never okay a couple of uh quick emails um five words one of them I'm going unimaginable reward as a subject today's clear lessons to recruiting people to the deaf we get endless rewards which is interesting I'm bringing this email because we're gonna have a Sugi about offer the Aether today foreign if we could get used to seeing five words it will lead us to getting the same ongoing reward try saying are you learning daily yet Uncle Phil and Mark Ashkenazi by the way Mark is uh filling in whatever REM is not available he helps us behind the scenes getting this technology working but here you have from Harry shalom they've been sending me packages for my kids every yantiff for the last two years decorations the guy that never even met well I met Uncle Phil once for a few minutes but the point is that they think of me mdy what a family it's truly humbling and touching to be part of it recently was the third year to my sister and I had this thank you Harry Shalom from Los Angeles we remember very clearly three years ago when Harry Shalom joined us during the Shiva for her sisters during covet and he didn't have a minion the whole thing shall jaspin thereabella I wanted to say that yeshua's being a bit it's been a big comment for me and my family this year maybe zoika to the ghoulash Lima together with the Kansas here we go the sponsors today this month the coil Anonymous from Lakewood the Mississippi by myself the 39 year old MD wire was nifter suddenly families foreign and the art is sponsored graciously foreign charts feel bad for your safe we're holding the base we'll just go back a little bit because we just to do the entire so like eight lines from the bottom ammo so let me show you real quickly what we're talking about if you remember there was an ammo by an ammo a tile that they would lift up with a ring and from there they would find some dirt to put into the vessel that contained the water for the Saito here goes to be able to see it where how okay next time we got another screen for the big oil on here in this room so right over there they'll take the dirt says the gemara horrible um yeah it says an apostle let's see if we have this puzzle here we go so let's look at the puzzle the coin takes water holy water please any offer offers dirt Ain offer with with the iron is dirt actually it just happens to be there big harka the karka means from the grounds we have the green and the red it's almost like a contradiction is it just happens to be there it has to be from the ground okay thanks Daddy puts it into the water says let's say you can't find any dirt it's a funny but we need to learn it even though it's probably not very shy well they're not gonna find any dirt in the entire reasons fight but let's say you can't find any dirt everything's perfectly clean it's all titled so I think you just bring dirt from outside it must come from the karka from the floor of the Mishka can't bring it from outside maybe if you can't find any he should dig it up with a shovel I'm a lawyer yeah that's what it says no do not dig it's there okay so the contradictions if you have dirt in the basement use that angel thank you there's no dirt in the missing bring dirt but leave it in the basement momentarily and once it's there for a few moments and it becomes part of the piece of English and that's the dirt we're going to use again it's better to use dirt from within the business if it's not available so the shot is we learn from here then we take dirt from outside and put it inside the vessel but what do we learn from the word again let's go back means it just happens to be there it's in the ear the ear makes it not the grill not the character okay the point is the same places leaves those words in the question is the tire text talks about a side than the Michigan does it apply in other places like the base that we had or not even give up now rashford just says that not even given there's never they wouldn't give decided to drink so that's not what we're talking about so let's say we take those words out this says leave those words in nevertheless he learns from the word bakarca that it doesn't matter there's other places besides the Michigan that we would give water to drink to this so what do we learn from the word not that it has to be in the karka they have to put it down on the floor but rather it could also be in the basement that's a whole different and so soon we bring up is the same the same name same name but different father so remember this he holds the first sheet this even you know that it means not only not only the mission problem but the business as well you don't need a special demon that you give the the side of the drink s is so when it comes to tumor just walk into the Visa really make a difference between the mishkan and the way some of them are are also this car is so the Thomas when it comes to the side certainly there shouldn't be enough it's also everywhere it's also in the basement as well so what does he do what does he do with the word you shouldn't bring dirt from with from within a box in other words if you are to bring from a box you're not supposed to bring from a box but let's see there's no other choice there's no dirt in the name so you do is you bring it in for a few minutes you put it on the ground and then you use but you don't put it directly from a box into the clean okay you are in the famous Mesa there's a guy who's bringing you know and there's a straw a car believe it or not a car that costs in America twenty thousand dollars costed in our control forty forty five thousand dollars 110 in um tax hundred and ten percent so there's a guy bringing cars from Jordan into Israel he's bringing in a pickup truck full of dirt so the guy at the border says what are you doing he says I'm bringing dirt the entirety strong okay after a few times the guy said you know something's suspicious over here he said I caught you you're probably not bringing dirt you're probably smuggling diamonds she made him empty out all the dirt and they sent it through the dirt they couldn't find anything turns out that this guy was not smuggling dirt the guy was smuddling pickup trucks but he threw the the Border Police off by bringing in the dirt it's a message it never happened but it's interesting story tomorrow [Music] is always very confusing for me I did a small thing I don't know if this is going to help anybody helped me what is offer what is affirm how do you remember which is what one is dirt here I actually have my son did this for me today this one is dirt this is from new what's his name oh yeah I forgot his name now give me these cups last year which I remember I forgot his name for a second okay this dirt the number one sponsor who's the number one sponsor in the ship I'm I'm the guy that works for the the pancake oh yeah yitzy okay I can't believe I forgot his name I don't know if you can see this is ashes and this is dirt okay so the way I remember it is offer is that aleph and Ashes is a ash is an offer but afer with the iron is third almost seems different seems almost the opposite okay so now is supposed to put dirt into the water spring water for the cycle what if you're not what if you don't want to put dirt you want to put ashes in yeah you just came from we use the ashes at a wedding right to remind them which reminds me taka that some people you know last second they they try to get the ashes before the hop up no ashes that's one of the achieving guys they smoking yeah give him some ashes the Iration said say no they don't want to use ashes of a smoker it's Mitzvah seriously I heard this thing he says I have some ashes left over I want to put these ashes on top of the water for the site though is offer an a for interchangeable they sound very similar just the only difference is so if you look at this over here this person this is Apostle talking about you take the ashes of the para Duma and you mix it in water and then you sprinkle people foreign dirt how does a paradum have dirt pardon doesn't have dirtum has ashes tomorrow's going to talk about it later see that it's interchangeable a fire an offer are interchangeable according to basilo so according to be shamai they're not interchangeable so if the attorney says use dirt use dirt you can't use ashes the question is you see the apostle uses the word a fire with the iron instead of offer mine this is gentle avocado from a character Mission ship maybe right sometimes they're interchangeable but over here the tourist says it should come from the ground and Ashes don't come from the ground I do more perhaps hi because maybe it comes to the touches and I told you to remember before Isabella says that the word Target doesn't mean that it should come from the ground it means that you could do the saita they shouldn't bring it from a box bring it from a biopsy should put on the ground but now that has come from the ground the point is you could also use ashes perhaps again the question is could you use ashes instead of dirt for the cycle don't worry there are only three place in the entire tyro that the Allah breaks what it says in the tire says one thing and we don't go by the tire we go by the Allah what are the three things the offer third says that when interesting that word if you're gonna like a deer war bird you cover the blood with what the offer with dirt offered with the iron dirt you can cover the blood with anything it says Rashi not anything anything that you could grow something in it I guess glass wouldn't work but Crush brick says Rashi things like that they could plant things in it and they they would grow you could cover the blood by the way it's one of these myths that's not very common but if you go to caparus I know the challenge by the Cabarrus they allow people to take a handful of something of sand and make a bracha so I love number one it doesn't matter you should cover the offer as deposit accessory and we say no you could use it not only offer anything is here with a razor with anything even pulling out of here we said he can't even comb your hair person is an audition come is here I'll save her when it comes to giving a woman again the wife again because I've lost safer creatures safer means parchment on a olive leaf says Rashi or a wooden board the Miso and if you write that by a site you don't have to use dirt you could also use ashes how come it's not number four in the list instead of dirt you use ashes the tires said dirt and I also Allah no even ashes it says it's not a complete list we said three things on the list there's actually four it says again rule is if you're going to make a list you don't have to put all the things in the list but you have to leave at least two things you can't leave out one thing that doesn't make sense you're going to leave one thing out just put it in the list make a list out of four if you have five things in the list and you want to make a list of three things that's fine because you left out three two things so what's the second thing that we left out it says again so we need to we need to find two things that are not on the list then we're okay so b instead of dirt it's ashes Emmett's iron but if I get rid of matsira now and all I have left is saita then I have the question again why is it not part of the list so tomorrow okay so let me just say about pen I'll show you the the uh charts that Yoshi made for this it goes like this not to be scared or confused very very simple stuff we we had this in Northern it was very good the Torah sometimes gives us a cloud product cloud in other words instead of the third saying do it like this the third says a generalization do it and then the third goes into very specifics and then when the tire is done with the specifics that are generalizes again so you have a generalization specification generalization so by the material the way it works is a person speaks it gets latches on his skin he shows it to the coin and the client says yeah you're definitely material he puts him away for seven days so when it comes out sorry when it comes when the soraz goes away the first thing he has to do is he has to shave his body the coin shaves the body notorious says see if I have this here no we'll do this later okay so the tire says yeah he should shape his entire body that's it all of his body everything doesn't say shape the beard to everything the second time around after seven days he comes back to the continent says okay now you have to shave again the first time he brings Birds we'll go into the exact details Birds blood put the blood and the bird and then the water and then there's the Azo the whole process but we're talking about the shaving now so the first time you shave everything the second time turns to shaved everything and the third says shave three things the beard The Head and the eyebrows so that's the specification it's very detailed and then the third says shave everything so what's going on so it's a cloud of breath of cloud or it could be a really needed replay depends how you learn it they learn a cloud to cloud and some call the same thing what's the difference difference is that a cloud product clouds we're going to see in other words the third tells us shame everything the third explains three things and anything that you shave has to be similar to those three things so it's very limiting it has to be similar to those three things but if you do a reboot that means the third is only telling you take out one thing because we're gonna see take out the nose hairs that's it but everything else you should shave so now let's see it inside and then we'll see the charts [Music] says sorry Club so this is on the second shaving it says that you should shave everything that's Russia it's Economist God we say enough practice limited it's only three parts of the body the head the beard and the eyebrows best call sorry it says shame everything this is to shave everything so which one is it was generalized again is to be similar to the to his head his beard and his eyebrows just like the Pratt is specific now what you could see it it's on the top of the head it's on his beard it's over here and it's also gathered in one place we have two things going here it's gathered and it's visible my brother is welcome to save and Nero these two things so all other here has to be the same way any here of the body has to be seen and also gathered for instance my Robbie Robbie Sarah recline Society is a clean way of saying the erva because it's gathered and also of a person standing there without clothing you can see it my meat so what does it come to exclude on the underarm now even a person is standing without a shirt on you can't really see his underarm unless he lives up his art so that even though it's gathered but it's not seen it's not visible is all hairs on his body there are visible but they're missing the other part they're missing that it's not gather so here on the handoff whatever it is is not gathered it's theirs sporadic here it's visible but not gathered you need both you need gathered invisible okay now let's see the charts for a second so the cloud here's a guy with Terrace he has a beard he has head here well maybe I'm sure he got his call Sir oh got rid of the beard got rid of the head got rid of his eyebrows that's the clock the practice those three so it takes off that part the rest of the body nothing cloud is called sorry means everything so what do you do what says I'm coming to include Sarah Glide therefore and I'm coming to be my mind I'm coming to take off the arms and the rest of the body so here goes thyroid gland and the underarms and the entire body the legs Etc oh let's stay there for a second now next slide with all this that it says that you shouldn't you don't have to shave the underarms you don't have to shave the entire body tells us you should shave the entire body like a pumpkin here's his heart okay that the entire body should be as smooth as a pumpkin wherever they got that phrase from so again we have a problem not a problem says shave the body like a pumpkin the tire it tells us if you go with the cloud about the cloud Tara says you don't have to change the whole body only places that are gathered and visible the underarm you wouldn't shave the underarm so here's another thing for the list now we have five things on the list the tire says one thing we do it differently so it's five things once you have five things we're okay site is number four but sorry is number five we have two things that are not on the list we have three things that are on the list you could say the list is not complete it's a partial list you shave him with a with a with a razor blade on his entire skin okay safer and what do you do the second time thank you you shaved the entire body the second time even though the second time we say we have a cloud to cloud and you don't have to say the entire body we shouldn't talk about it okay micro oh okay not that what are the things that we take we put on the list something that undoes what the 30 says but over here when it comes to the material it's not it's not in the tire the tire never said you shaved part of your body don't shape your whole body that's not the target that's rubbing on learning brother cloud that's not considered in the tire we're talking about when the tire says by another tar or razor blade and we say no it doesn't mean erasably yeah what else do we have um where's the list oh yeah kisi Adam for instance it says my first offer we say it's everything okay but I'm sorry I didn't say shave this in this part we learned it from a draw so that's not considered unfortunate player rad Papa what's on the list something that curses razor blade and I'm gonna undo razor blade and go with something else completely he over here we said shave 90 of your body and now I'm adding to it 100 of the body okay so that's like a home run I'm adding the tutorial that doesn't belong on the list Russia has a question when it comes to a razor that's also adding the thought it says use one device to cut the hair and we're adding we're making homework even if you use a scissor even if you pull it out with your hand so Rashi says the answer he says I don't like it so much he says but you're adding you're you're right you're doing homework but also you're causing somebody to get malkus in a place he doesn't deserve Marcus because we have the Aloha of the United if you give somebody if you hit somebody you have a fight with somebody you have a fight with a junior you hit him you're ever gonna die right so rash says what you're doing is you're creating it is an eraser by adding this Homer it's not a homura by you saying that you can't cut with a scissor now if he does go with this I'll give him Marcus that I can't do he says I don't like that answer okay but I'll ask you all matter how much money says listen it depends how I learned as possible if I learned the pause look like a cloud Prat Cloud you're right but return to that design on very sponsorship [Music] the members of the HBA group and their families are made no idea what it says there 37 minutes okay okay but it lasts money but there's another way to learn it that we can learn that the positive is saying that you should achieve the entire body we're not adding it's not our solution it says we're first in the diagram that you should shape the body like like a like a pumpkin why because rubikiva learns the Doris community so it's a Rashi brings that rebe was the famous everything and in fact the gemara has stories where he said the donkey died and the the candle went out and everything was for the better and saved his life if you say God's Little privy you understand that everything that happens in life is for the better then you live a different life because if you're able to see it on the Spot Great sometimes it takes time to see it but it's the truth the bottom line is that rubikiva always learns instead of cloud he learns the same idea reboot meal dribble and what happens when you learn a reborn reboot instead of a collaborative Cloud it's almost the same thing but all we do is we take off one item one type of hair from the body which is going to be the nose ears foreign so it says impossible this is the possible we already learned we're doing the same exact thing over but we're not calling it Cloud rather Cloud calling it reboot wait a minute let's go sorry rebound best version is so it means you should shave everything my rebook everything is armed legs everything he has to shave off what might mean so then what why did our complex scoot something meet them okay now let's see this so reboot versus call sorry what does it mean everything is entire body meal exclude what that's relationship is enough only those three things so to me then the target comes again it says rebu best calls our everything so what does it come to exclude Robbie you should shave the entire body you're right like a pumpkin what's the here that's most obviously shouldn't shave something is so not visible so nobody sees it the hair and the nose okay oops let me go back for a second color golf in my mind the nose give all dick says the imara my Javier and the other day can I use this stuff the ashes for the saita or not rap says paint shop offer if there's no dirt maybe rapist you take a vegetable that went so bad that it turned into dust and you use that instead of dirt inside the water and rash takes out these two words in other words actually Orion that only a vegetable that goes bad is similar to the dirt and therefore you can use it as dirt a fairly have an offer but ashes are not to be used so the bottom line tomorrow says you cannot use ashes you can only use the dust of a vegetable garden bed okay we learned today shiralama the dirt that goes on the site of water you have to be able to see it it's not like it goes into the water and disappears you have to see the dirt relationship from Shiro there are three things that you must be able to see in the entire attire only three things they have to see with your eyes off our side though the dirt that goes into the sight of water the Aether Apollo and the ashes that go into the paraduma water varai ke vama and the spit of Diva so okay just in case this is your first time learning any misafta so we have a couple that's married and the Reuben was married to Rojo he has a brother called Schumer and unfortunately ruvane goes bye-bye so the elephant is that ruvane's wife since they didn't have children she falls libom she should marry no if shiman doesn't want to marry ruffle so what happens is ruffle removes shiman shoe and she spits at it when she spits at the Shoe or at him let's see I have it oh I didn't highlight it unfortunately but it says like this eventually the York she spits in front of him but it says it must be visible to the eyes of the scanning I had a video and you also seem to send it to me but I couldn't it was very pixelated and I couldn't see it and I didn't have time to look for it there's a video of a real Carlito where the yavama she spit at the yava and the rough said I didn't see it please do it again I didn't see it he kept on saying I didn't see it it's yeah it has to be rook in there she has to gather the spirit of the map and spit if he finds it maybe we'll put it up here I'll go up on him it says oh fine next the blood of the bird so what's going on in this house in the puzzle here I'll show you real quickly this is I don't know I I uh ordered a drawer a sparrow this is what came it's not 100 what I thought it would be like those little guys that we have tripping around in the neighborhood but it's a very small bird and part of the process of the material brings two of these guys and they shift one of them and they pour the blood of that one into a vessel then they take the live one the other one this guy is a goner take the live one together with the Asus these last the eres the Cedar and they dumped the live one into the blood with the air and then they let it free they let it fly away so here's the puzzle we even have a Yoshi did something for us and he dips it in he dips the blind bird into the blood on the water so where's the blood on the water and seems like so tomorrow he should dog with a live bird and the cedar in the blood of the dead bird the Italian it says maybe she dip it only in blood not in the water takes a bit mine says my foreign is here okay so now let's see what Yoshi did for us here's the vessel with the water oh this is the third of the cycle you have to see the dirt of the saita next take the blood of the drawer that's the drawer that I want to get and now you could the blood is visible in the water you see water you see blood what does he have next oh this is when it's too much too much red so that we'll see soon hold that you don't need to recognize the blood so but what does the term saying Mayim and Diamond says both you should have blood and water what do you do it it's just to tell you how to do it has to be blood and water but it doesn't have to be visible the the blood doesn't have to be visible you just take a little blood like putting salt in water doesn't mean you have to see the salt that's all you do it's a process you take the blood you put in the water if you're small if it's true that you're right you don't have to see the blood okay normally in them in the blood in the water but why do you have to say the words when they come to teach us that it has to be visible you have to be able to see the blood verbon on okay that's a good title it should only say why does it say the word I mean so this is a typical classic gamara going back and forth and which one learns with it if it just said the top of them you should dunk it this live bird you should dunk him into them something that you have to dunk him first in blood take him out then duck him again in the water mind to teach us they have to be able to see it visibly visibly okay so let's see if I have that one second oh you know what this is good I didn't I didn't realize hold on this let's show this is this is dipping the bird the live bird Into the Dead Bird's blood here goes [Music] and the wing of the bird that's what it says the life because you're not going to put his head in there he might drown put him backwards very very nice okay [Music] okay let's go later says the gamaro [Music] how about I mean if we'll just says I think that let me just see if I have that puzzle care [Music] no okay so think that it doesn't say it says you should do it over the water but it doesn't say that it should be mixed in so maybe it means that you take the bird and you shift but not this bird this bird is alive take this Gunner guy you shaft him next to the clip over but not in the thin olivery them so you put it over and then after you shift them you you squeeze its neck real tight so the blood doesn't come out and then you put them over to the next please well so you still don't see you have to mix it commercial only have to mix it and very good vitaminated [Music] what if you have a very large bird and it makes the entire water red very red it's not no evidence in their mind or it's a very small bird and a barely the blood is barely visible Mao so who has to Revere may ask from zero or my letter zero tells didn't I tell you a bunch of times what are you getting involved uh what's the lotion here in Ratchet let me see if I see Russia here [Music] oh cold there is no reason for you to start thinking about them I told you a few times gave us the sheer don't worry about it why now the reason why I brought this because there's some that say it's a sparrow it's a little Sparrow the Irish training that say that any burden could live in the house we we had once in Yeshiva we had a bird like this that got in nobody could catch it we had pigeons that came in we were able to catch it easily first like this they're like a fly you know what I mean they just they know how to get away from people they're very very Nimble so it's called a drawer According to some but the point is it's it's a small it's very small in size and here's something very interesting in Bates says over there that if somebody has a mother and daughter so if you decide to that's something more sentence if I remember correctly if you decide to eat let's say the mother you should tie something to the mothers you know it's the mother so you don't eat the the the the the the child one day the the point is that it seems like from the gamara it's very hard to differentiate between the mother and the child because they're very similar in size the more it says so if you're talking about this it's very easy to understand you look outside they're all the same size you don't have a large one you have a small one and if you Chef this one oh the some of the blood will make the tint the water slightly but it won't overwhelm the water you'll be able to see it but at the same time you never have where you won't see it at all you don't have where the water will overcome the blood and the blood will overcome the water take them offer offer again means what the eye means dirt if you put the dirt on the bottom of the vessel and then he poured the water High him into the vessel am I impossible take them off says the reason is because this isn't the possibility so therefore it's mother white it says [Music] you again going back to the Apostle of foreign it means dirt now the problem is when you burn it you don't have dirt you have ashes we spoke about it before well everyone's ashes the reason why the tires switched the word even though we're talking about ashes and it's speaking about the Earth to teach you something offer I learned from here that the the water comes first and only afterwards you put the dirt and just like over here if I put the dirt in first and then I pour the water over and it's called sure how do I know this is going to say in a second we have it here oh here yeah this is possible you should first put the dirt on the bottom the the affair the ashes and then you put the water on top of it but then it also says that you're supposed to put it inside the vessel so which one is it the water should go directly in the vessel l Kelly in the vessel there's nothing there's no dirt there but it says in the green it says they should put the dirt in first the the ashes first and then the water so which one is it civil love Alma a fibration you will put the water on top of the ashes and it says the water goes directly into the vessel not on ashes on my bridge okay so Russ is a noise it depends whatever you want it's it's your choice you can put the ashes in first you put the water on alcalid no first columns no water l Kelly has to go directly into the vessel so then why does it say Olaf that you put Vanoss it seems like that the ashes are there first no to teach them that you should mix it up with me maybe no maybe a love means they should first put the ashes and then pour the water on top of it so the wise entire say l Kelly to teach us that the vessel that you draw let's say this is the this is the vessel you go and you draw water that's it this is the vessel that it remains forever you cannot use you can't pour this into a second Fleet once you've burned the second flea it's no good anymore maybe that's what it's coming to tell us that there's only one clear that you can use the clue that you draw the water that's actually they use stay tuned we finds his rash in two other places we put the blood on top of the water and we find by Saito you put the dirt on top of the water by the paraduma you take the ashes and you put it on top of the water is the thing that makes it work by inside the water what makes the site of water work what's macro what makes it glowing gets it going by putting the dirt on top of the water what gets the water going by putting the blood out so two what's Mastery by the paraduma you take water from uh springy pour the ashes on it has to be on top have a wonderful day foreign