Daf Yomi Sotah Daf 10 by R’ Eli Stefansky

foreign makes no difference what keeper we were in our heads the fact is I Morty have seen the love that each and every one of us show me over the cross of time and I've been part of this special family we all lost a brother and each one was especially in their own way speak for myself but I know we all have cried enough because of who we lost may this yawn to change the crying we have been going been doing to laughing and smiling each other's families Kevin plays Incredible brotherly lost I have to grow and learn and become strong as a whole hello for all those who made this impossible to happen a brother Morty rasby their belly sleep though what an opportunity and thank you for your continuous dispersion spreading Tyro you mentioned a couple days ago on daf dalid as you well remember my story at this time of the year where I was hospitalized for five months missed which included napping around for Payson which was due to being in a coma by taking what you said is a little different is after what you've been through it's then how you accept who has given you and yet you still are able to look up to him and appreciate what you have got but even more so for what you didn't get yontive and all the best one regards Ellie selliger so everybody said here we are on the tail end of the double header the double double header because we had a double header yesterday final double header today and there's actually going to be one more double header during calamide so this is the field an amazing staff of agarita uh who did us a great favor by giving us these easier dopping so we could do these double headers without a lot of hardship the uh coil is sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood the coil is sponsored by Ruben Klein and Otter my daughter at least becoming college and NATO from Toronto Mazda and the Art of the month foreign with us you'll be entered into a 1500 raffle and the one who brought you in is also entered into a 1500 raffle so it's to encourage people by the way you turn on your phone you're still recording from before it's new okay so just encourage people to do Hazara to stick with the program I know that it's uh oh my voice I here we go Ahmad alif two lines down we're talking about again just uh re-emphasize shimshine was a tremendous person he was a strife yes he had some small flaws and he got punished for them but in in terms of his personality Hashem when he grew older now typically that he because you won't give him more we don't find that he was very wealthy we don't find anything so where was the Brach exactly um the more soon is going to say that he was a very large person perhaps According to some shitas but no he was a regular when he came there it was it was regular says Rashi what he wanted his desire because Ronald gave it to him that's we're going to see a certain theme Here when a person wants something really bad because Robert gives it them whether it's good or not good because your brother gives it to the person wants a lot of money he'll give it to him doesn't mean it's a good thing and he wanted he wanted the pushed him he wanted more glacial women we're going to see more of this at the end of the tomorrow it's a famous song I wanted Revenge that they took my eyes out and I mean I just put it in not not hasn't shown to depict Simpson and over here you certainly don't see him as as in a depiction but uh oh but the famous pictures that people have and this is the nakama that shimshan took um remember the 22 years that I was a sheifet and I I made mishpat the clients I didn't take any bribe not even to ask somebody to to move my staff from one place to another place foreign went ahead and he trapped 300 foxes so we're talking about the story that when one of Simpson's wives worshiping his wives was given to another man and shimshin he wanted to make a Muhammad with the Polish them and make it a personal a personal War what does that mean they did something personal to him he's going to take a personal Revenge to them in order that the polished him shouldn't take the Revenge out on Clyde's room there's this little trick so he pretended he's really upset that they took his wife to give it to another man so he went and he burnt their fields how did he do it he took a facts burnt the Fox's tail set it on fire and let the Fox Run so Fox is is burning alive and he went through the field zigzag to one field to another field and that's how the Detroit times 300. it says why do you use foxes all Revival Bernardi um a facts when you confront him he doesn't run away he backs up the apartment as we said yesterday they took it back they went backwards I'm going to take him to come on you with something that goes backwards said foreign the shoulder was 60 ammo wide 120 feet wide says the beignet doesn't make any sense if his shoulders were 120 feet wide then how could he fit in the house how could he get into an elevator he couldn't live normally so must mean that he was able to carry a weight that was 120 I'm a wide because typically even a person's very strong so you could carry something that's within a certain size but not a hundred not a 60 ammo with those who are going to be in the other Marshall says it's literal okay we have to understand he carried the system again I don't like to depict and show pictures of uh figures from the navi but this is what we have today this one is one of one of the only ones that he was actually wearing a shirt but he took it with the door post with the lock with everything something very extremely heavy and that's how he scared the plush IES these doors were 60 ammo wide so Melo so this could fit in right to the menu that he carries on that 60 I'm a wife the grind is it makes a lot of sense actually because the Polish them if you think about it push them were created from zeros so maybe you know the DNA is about my obserion about Neil they brought their wives to the jail where assumption was the Siberian medal so the simple meaning would be that he impregnated all these women but many argue in this and they say that's not the shot the shot is that they just they wanted their wives to look at shimshin and they figured by looking just like we have in the gemara that uh Republican would stand by the Mikvah so women could look at him or by Vino you look at the at the staff and the and the the Sheep turn this color that color there's a certain kayak and looking and maybe they they were hoping that their children would have the strength of shimshan agiba all right if somebody loves wine you give them wine if somebody is a guard you read the uh give him a basket full of vegetables so many other brings on this gimbara that there was a guy that was a big drunk and alcoholic kept on drinking and his children wanted to teach him a lesson so he comes home he starts drinking drinking and he falls asleep they take him they lift him up with his bed and everything and they drag him to the cemetery and they put him right there by a grave and they're hoping that I'll wake up in the morning and I'll get a that you know he reached rock bottom there goes by two days go by and they don't see the fathers that they get worried so they go out there's a Madras they go to the cemetery and they seem drinking away what happened was that there were a bunch of Thieves that they stole a barrel of wine and they figured they'll dump it in the cemetery so they put it right there right where he was without realizing there's a guy they put it right there wakes up in the morning he's on his bed and a barrel of wine gun Aiden mom's gonna hide and he opens up the barrel the force and he starts drinking away so says the Madrid is what a person desires when a person wants something is wrong against them you want alcohol so badly we give you a barrel even though you're in the basic Farms so Simpson wanted these guys he wanted to push them you know what that's what he got he got what does it more call it a thousand s all these push them came there foreign if a man is not faithful to his wife even though maybe I logically he's allowed to be married to more than one woman but he has a deal with his wife and he goes off you should know that affects the wife as well she feels that she knows it she'll also start becoming not doesn't necessarily mean she has to but it makes it easier before the grinding other people she you Bakery he's dealing with the large pumpkins and she's dealing with a smaller pumpkins in other words they're both dealing with the same over there she's not over there but it's his fault all right shim shine he did a mishpat he was a diet so like like our Father in heaven Israel foreign so protector if shamish is the name of Hashem you shouldn't be able to erase the word chemist anytime you have the word chairman she shouldn't be able to erase it hello it's not hashem's name it's similar magazine okay just like who he protects the entire world shimshin protected kly Israel and his generation he had a limp on one of his legs so sheffy is a singular lotion of bingling was lame in both feet in other words even though he was lame he was able to accomplish everything accomplished in war Cinema is a double ocean of Chevy foreign certain mileage they each had and all of these five they're they're demise was with that Milo that they had shimshan because what was special about Simpson he had a special guura gourmemouth in that kayak that he had that's that that was his downfall because he was so you're so strong so he wasn't scared of the push them and once he went into the position he was fighting then finally they got him and that's how they they were able to to destroy him show the terrorist tells us he's taller than everybody and his demise was with his neck and basara is with his hair he had a beautiful hair he's an awesome goes through them his strength is what they once they were able to take away his friend by cutting his hair that was it they captured him fell on the sword in other words he fell by his neck come on like we're gonna explain later on foreign he killed all his children in front of him and then he pulled his eyes out and put him in his hand in other words the last thing Titi saw was the death of his children also a Barack love is ragla the the all the way at the end he became Sicky with his feet the article calls it gout I don't know where they got it from yeah what is this how's the work it's like needles in life flesh so this similar to what we had the other day with benaze remember one of the nine cheaters was been answered no at the other day he was never married no had this disease he knows exactly what it felt like because Hashem told them exactly how it feels like also why did also now he enlisted to go to war shine nobody got out of this no one meaning literally no one mayanaki Hassan did I skip something maybe okay it's not here let's see interesting okay I thought I had a deposit but Hassan it says we know that if a person just gets married they would ask who just got married lucky elevation he doesn't have to go to war he could stay at home but not also also to get everybody into Hustle went down Wards towards Tim now again because it's late so my my vision is not strong so I'm not seeing the words 100 so you could correct me if I'm making because I don't see understand these words I'm doing it a little bit by uh my memory almost that kind of thing you'll tell me okay actually I have my glasses here but now we're not gonna go with that I could could have taken some drops also to help me but lazy okay so this is gonna put us into a new song about yudan Tomar what happened was you that two children and were married both were married to Tomar first he died without children so he went to the brother ibom the second one died now she really desired to have children from you with them in fact the maluka came out of her so she knew what she was doing so when she found out that you this coming it says and that launches us into but you see that timna is upwards not downwards but shimshan says he went down all right who had it was his downfall so it's called the ureter Yehuda who he was able to have herets in zarach from that relationship with Tamar which later on David and everything a lot of turrets these two cities one you have to go upwards two and one you go downwards too they don't in the time of shimsha it was down in the time of Utah was up no there's only one team now the loop shot listen it's the middle of a mountain the middle of an incline similar is right over here on this part so if you're coming from up here you have to go downwards if you're going for a minute you have to go upwards okay so now we're going into Tamar and uh she sat at the fork R Alexander Milan is so everybody wants to come see him everybody loved him it was a great time over there now it's a place called foreign she was very convincing with her words in those days it was either I don't want to be with someone who is yours honey no no don't worry about it foreign no I'm not married maybe your father accepted condition so this she over here was saying that how could you either marry her is his daughter-in-law akala's officer so she answered that by saying you saw him on the only person that can marry me off is my father my father died so how did I end up with your Arizona my mother married me off that's only the robot on she could do me on and she's not married to them I could be with you maybe you're a needle I'm really tired no I'm not when did they make sure of Roma Vino planted in Asia and we know Asia was a Rashi brings us it's interesting just pointing this out of Roman Vino in order to be retire of people he didn't open up a Yeshiva and it was Makai of people the way is Makai of people was through food he fed them gave them all to drink and they spoke to them about the Roberto all my slogans also heard this he made an orchard they planted all sorts of beautiful trees there is some say he planted Orchard so you have good fruit and some say he built a hotel so people could sleep there to plant you planned Orchard how do you plant a hotel foreign Phil how are we doing with time very fast now 25 total oh okay we still have to move a little bit I love a yakry the yakry he caused them to call what does that mean s forced each and every one to talk about it when they got up after they ate they fresh good and they wanted to leave so they said oh thank you very much everyone no no no no no right we learned this in school when we're kids these are the kimaras right here you think you ate my food Michelle the master of the universe so thank him rethinking me so there's a beautiful place this chance here I don't know if I can read it yeah we'll get that in a second remind me again she says the top place the stands all the way on the right side small words it's eventually wrote um what does it say there Peru anybody should help them okay yeah Peru but bottom line is the pleasure I can't read it so well Sunshine says yeah for my glasses for that word hold on told people said you know what no no I'm not thinking you're you're God said okay no problem we're middle of the desert food over here cost 20 times more than it cost in a regular restaurant payoff the bill is 1300 bucks pay oh for 1300 bucks you know I'm gonna I'm gonna think through bonus level the question is that's a you learn a bit you say from here he's forcing them to thank everybody does that work if you force a kid to say Amen if you don't make a broker I'm gonna I'm gonna take this away from you does that work it says over here it does that's exactly it get them used to it I they're not doing it really out of their own will you know what eventually I'll come to them foreign doesn't cover her face Zona shows her face if she's covering her face that means she's a snooze she's the opposite of designer this is never seen his daughter-in-law ever because from the moment that she got married she always covered her face and he never saw her face so when he saw her real face in the street he thought that she said foreign so it says he's the son of a might now we know Amite is no I don't think it's from here where do you see this from well it says not over here she covered her face the fact that she that a woman that was that's divorced or widowed covers her here that's a Allah for the same reason that a married woman covers her hair and a single woman the same age doesn't cover her hair it's more of Allah so just because her husband died or divorced once she's married she has to cover her hair but not from this guitar um so what would I say the brothers oh yeah I have two sponsors okay so Matthew was a king and the king and he came from Thomas so once a matz is a king and I met his brother is a moitz and Amite is a novice so because the brothers now we know that they both came from Thomas we know it came from Thomas now we have different proof but that a might who's a navi that also came from Thomas now we know because they're both brothers so obviously both came from Tamar let me just go back the reason why I didn't do this because it's over here on the other stuff is and we did in the double header here we go oh this is the members of the HPA group and their families are made somebody has to remind me next time I do a double header to put eye drops in my eyes that's your job to remind me okay I can't claim that I understand this question at all the word says what's the solution of mutes foreign the only problem I have with this question is I never seen this word anywhere I don't even know what this word means mean says Rashi it seems like she was found it should say me tutses you took her out but I I never I don't even know I don't know what that means okay that's how it should say it so she had the staff the you know the the Jose all from Yehuda and she was gonna send it to Yehuda in order to save her she they brought her out right they bring her out to to execute her which is on the way to be executed what does she do she goes and she brings the staff and the reasons a lot of people don't like to say this name this is the the uh the the malach of edoi what's going on here knows that David is going to be born and destroyed destroy them so he didn't want her to have any connection he wanted to destroy Talmer and her pregnancy because if he destroys her as she dies then we don't have we don't have we don't have a new Asian this is Gabriel and it brings them closer so what's going on here this destroys the Gabriel brings the the Simone closer as I saw an interesting thing that the real is more piranhas why is Gabriel involved in Michal let's get real say that Gabriel wanted to save Roma vino from orcasm I said no you know what you don't save somebody else will say you'll save later on so tomorrow is going to say soon came out of this pregnancy says gavriel I need to save Tama because if I don't save Tamar I'm not going to be able to say later on in future Generations that's why Gabriel is brought over here says foreign once she couldn't find the staff she became like a a mute foreign that says Americas [Music] he was very sad he says I don't have to fill in enough tits I don't have any misses and then he looked down he says oh but I have a breast milk but if he was born with it so what kind of Mitzvah was it okay they say maybe there's a midst of the keep it differently just like when he wasn't the king what does it doesn't mean when he was young when he was small in stature he wasn't the king he made himself he belittled himself at cellular he went to those who are greater than in order to learn title so too when he's already a king and he's already high in stature he's still the same honor of he went and he learned from upibotius tells us remember he got his hands dirty with blood and this maybe boy she's okay so she sends to her father-in-law doesn't say you the father-in-law to the person who these belong that's who I got pregnant don't kill me I said the famous gamara why didn't you just say yahudah it's you don't kill me you're the father Omarion Barbies foreign a person should jump into a fire and kill himself and not embarrass his friend in public it's more comfortable no it's a shield as twice's points out not all of you showing him agreed to this but Tyson says why is it not one of the four hamuras we have a Vedas one of the things he says that it's not my first in the tyro sis Halls that it's a diary so you have to jump into the fire it's not oh it's comfortable for a person you you must jump into the fire and not embarrass your friend on the public there's a story I don't know where how but I heard this a few times that there was a guest ones who they gave him shall and they said you take first so he takes the ball he eats and he wouldn't give it up he sat there and he just ate the entire boat what's going on she said listen I tasted like kerosene in the child you heard the story a famous story this story happened in Chicago the oil for kerosene and he licked the ball to me so he said what about the fact that it's dangerous you weren't scared you're gonna die he said it says you have to jump into a flame you have to jump you have to kill yourself you have to embarrass somebody okay each and each and every one don't think you know you should recognize recognize him oh sorry so this is the first thing I want to show you I mean even brings it but going back to Joseph when the morning don't worry about it look uh do you recognize this son is passing this is from your son look foreign he used that word recognize this clothing was like well we learned yesterday meeting can I get me that's always punishes with the same thing so use that word hacker in order to cause you do a lot of pain no what is not please I'm begging you unrelated foreign I know that maybe you're going to want to pretend that it's not you but remember I'm about to die here they're about to put me into the kitchen age please remember everybody's love I'm not gonna throw you under the bus but I'm asking you to do the right thing recognized it and he said immediately she's right I am the father's name is I think this is a it's made a big impression on me when we go on a trip how am I trip with uh with the school and the bus and whatever it is the rebbe always says you want to act nicely I really think about it says different hell by not being over in Avera by being true and not faking and not oh nobody sees so curious no no that's Michaela doesn't mean you're in a public place and all the government watching you and saying oh this is what a year this is how I hear that it doesn't says Joseph someone so they added a hate to his his name is [Music] easily thrown Tomer under the bus let her die and not be embarrassed but he did it but if you did this in public and he told everybody yes I'm guilty the entire name Yehuda is like the name of in other words even when Leia called him Yehuda this story is going to happen in future future years given sorry development talk to me man yes the basketball so Heavenly voice came out you saved Tamar and her pregnancy two two children says because of that I'm Gonna Save three of your sons and future generation from the fire manino are you talking about how do you know that it was him maybe she got pregnant she's a Zona maybe she got pregnant for someone some other guy the other basketball so this I thought it was a tremendous condition that many people don't know it was good night to stay up late tonight to hear just this finish you know they want to bring you right from here look his name was small Saba the father-in-law of shmuel barami in other words the father-in-one son-in-law had the same name that's a it's say maybe in those days they were marking on that or maybe no his name was Shmo sabos he had a second name okay sorry don't care about him no interesting that's Father and Son but what about son-in-law okay I hear others were right so they date father-in-law and Grandson but okay sure a father-in-law and a Hassan have the same name vice versa not a father-in-law and a grandson okay uh because listen to this this was mano he kept her he didn't divorce her the sound was great and didn't stop means it didn't stop not that it didn't continue he kept on he was married what caused that something to go off is that he looked in the mirror he looked at himself and said look how beautiful I am I'm the most beautiful person around must be that I'm supposed to be the king besides my father was up to no good with bacheva Etc he had all these different reasons people spoke to him foreign he's a beautiful person he's another so he had a certain Holiness to him but still he went off because he put too much emphasis on his looks on his hair that was his demise that's how he feltics oh he came running the mule ran below uh elm tree but yeah and his head got stuck in the branches his hair got stuck and Tangled in the branches and he's hanging dangling from the tree because the mule kept on running and his hair got stuck under the bridge and he stuck there a paradise attacked evolver five I don't have time for this uh I'm not in the mood for this joke you go right there different time for the kids he pulls out his sword is about to chop his hair off he's going to give himself a haircut so he could get out of there he looks down and he sees get him right below him if you chop his hero if you fall into this gun in other words the shot is beautiful showing him is that if you cut your hair off and you try to get out of here it's over for you you'll never be able to return you're going to fall into shawl taxes you'll fall into this game you have no way out stay where you are and that will be your hat solo what does that mean because if you think about it it's a it's a typical thing he's hanging there by Lords and he's saying to himself I could give myself a haircut I could Escape what's the alternative his enemy David's soldiers are going to come get him and do something terrible to him what happened that then you have came put three Spears in his heart like we saw yesterday and the rest the soldiers they put 10 spears in his body terrible terrible death he's dangling you can imagine it's not very comfortable to dangle by your hair kicking and fighting and then a guy calls him and he has these three Spears in his heart he's still alive 10 more spheres that's a typical muscle of what happens in this world because that is what saved them had he not had that those yeast serum those terrible you serum of death of amazing he'd be gone forever erased from this world forever says the yamara um you I've shown that's five six eight why do you need a foreign about to be destroyed by his own son his son did the worst of the words took his ten pilakshim and had relations with all of them fights him and destroys another how to run for his life what does he do he goes and he cries for him to save him from ganim so we see right by his side that a father always has a horse and a son no matter how terrible the sun is they say that if there's a rosh hashiva that has a son that's a no good guy he's a terrible kid he makes all the trouble in Yeshiva and the roshiba has this favorite favorite talmud you know his pet and all day long he talks him and learning and everything he's mavish's favorite he's gonna try to get him for his daughter for sure that's the whole thing and then the building Goes Up in Flames he's able to save one of them who really save he'd save his son obviously this best friend is this pet not not for now now he takes his terrible son and this is a muscle of the Republic no matter how bad we are and how bad we act Hashem loves us as as a father loves his son and we see them here as David loved I've shown even after everything they did for me he's crying the whole thing well Texas that's a question the the the is that a son could save a father but a Father the Son of a father can save his son but because I saw him had a terrible death so then the field of dovet did work another terrorist station says it says three through is another third says that but that's not what we're talking about we're talking about Philo don't have a damn interest on that always works only good this will be finished unfortunately such a beautiful dive so Shiva the escape the seven names beneath that's how he took him out again they chopped I've shown's head off they fell into some pit somewhere they buried his body but when Dora Miller said beneath time his head came out of that pit and reunited with his body big army he brought him it did a terrible deal he fell for a terrible idea to go against his father as my services to go against him and give God a tremendous I'm going to get you from within your own house Barbara yeah we'll stop right over here have a wonderful my head a good human for joining us tonight thank you very much