Daf Yomi Sanhedrin Daf 8 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] good morning very good you did a great job for now my daughter said it sound like there's a lot of people in the room oh yeah so I'm live here in Park City Utah in my son-in-law's and my daughter's house they're here in Utah uh to do cure of to bring y Judaism to to all the Jews that live here there's a lot of Jews that live in we actually met a guy we met a instructor on the uh lift so I started talking to him and he asked me where I'm from and you know I was like she say I'm Israel there's a lot of anti-Semitism going I said I'm from Israel said yeah I got my sister lives in raat like his name is levenson maybe you even know who he is levenson um yeah so we started talking to him about filling and everything that was cool so um I have a beautiful email that I read this morning and when I read it I cried like a little baby I don't know if you'll understand why and then when I read it in sheer again I cried again so I hope to cry for third no I'm kidding I don't want to cry a third time I don't usually cry but this one was very moving um I connected with the email but I'm not going to read it now I'll read it when we turn the page to B anyways I'll read some of some other ones oh no I don't want to read this one here we'll get let's get the next one reell this is from Ab Renard from Brooklyn regarding what you spoke about on D six about incentivizing our children with money to give them drive to learn Torah there's a fascinating video taken in 1982 of the halberg rebi see attached speaking about how important is to do exactly that it brings out the point that when you didn't come to for you give a they'll be upset in other words if he just give them a br that they can survive then they would be upset they want Millions when it comes to either their own learning or the children's learning and suddenly they're okay being getting by he say it's not enough to send the child and your being doesn't produce the father has to show that he actually cares about becoming both him and his child he said that people spend I was just saying that maybe it's a good idea for Bar Mitzvah a lot of kids they learn all of MN they said what's a big deal you give your kid $1,000 let's say it's a lot of money but you know people spend a lot more in therapy $1,000 and you know brings results a lot of people didn't like it but he's saying that I have some backup from the kenberg Reby in 1982 he said that people spend their money on what they need and what they want so it's only private to show your children what you're truly M how do you say Mak in English there's a lot of words value why you put his money where his mouth is and even pay the child thousands of dollars to learn Tor says the in order to show him what you really care about if I can add he says even if the child doesn't take up the offer the off the offer still makes them appreciate and see how important Torah is to the parents that will have a deep effect on them take care of yourself because I'm skiing be Aid aberer yeah this I don't need it I'll read a different time thank you to yourself an entire mdy for the most intense memorable and uplifting shabat of we returned to montre car last night but I still haven't landed I feel I've been connected to a spiritual IV drip since Friday afternoon pumping me non-stop with the love learning my MD family and hasem last the whole year why should it if why shouldn't it we each day something like that just made my first recruit tonight our 11-year-old son I think I pass what you mean when say that the greatest gift to you is to bring another Jew to the DA when my son agreed to the challenge I felt overcome with joy like I just won the lottery and he hasn't even started the thought of him gaining experiencing self discipline and learning is over the top imagine self-confidence he gives a child warm regards so how many words didn't you understand so far there a lot of them huh this that okay next um last night I was listening to the Sher from this past month of sh my wife was sitting next to me burst out laughing when I asked her why she said that she found the ah very funny I then told her that 6,000 new people joined this cheer this week and she became very emotional it is simply unbelievable I'm writing to you because this morning I found something in the save her from my Morgan that made me say hey that's rebell speaking and I quote there's a very it's very good to set a fixed amount of time for learning Bas Bas means to learn quickly in Yesa they they could learn one page like this for like two weeks maybe even more so the fact that uh and then people graduate from Isa and they feel uncomfortable learning at that kind of Speed Learning a d a day so we we talk about a lot and here he is huge foundation of life take upon yourself to learn every day a specific amount because constant spim are Monumental fulfilling of Holiness the Torah the G desire learning in order to succeed and not break one needs to keep learning this way under any circumstance even the expense of understanding even at the expense of understanding he says and whether he learns this way because he cannot learn with understanding because of his General condition such as suffers from add or because of lack of strength and concentration at time is considered learning and those who oppose it and say that there's no benefit in learning this way even if their intention is good in fact they're causing terrible loss to those precious Souls who find no point in learning and without any doubt that many Souls of dropouts they were taught this would receive the Holiness of the Torah in their souls to withand in please do not object end quote udman originally Lakewood oh he's in aad now in Israel originally Lakewood he himself gives a she and learning in perseverance gives us to give up a under any situation thank you yeah yesterday was one of the hardest uh classes I've ever given ever just because I was up from 3 in the morning and after a day of skiing or actually it was just an hour and 20 minutes but I was just I was destroyed I'm not doing much better today but a little bit better I need some lens and tomorrow morning you have to get up like really early maybe 3 and uh prepare and give the shear all before 7 so wish me luck it goes like say we're holding like 10 lines from the bottom but so the basically is taking a in the Torah and disect it word by word basically in those days the time of thear about you know 1500 years ago 2,000 years ago the bezan had a lot of authority and they were able to whip people into shape literally he says that if you're going to use the whip you got to be very very careful so now this whole basically is discussing T the the whole process so one of the things is that you're not allow to listen to one side before you have the other side in front you have to listen to both them together they both have to be standing in front of you and then you listen you can't just listen to one side because you might take a side like that and the same goes the same is is also on the person that is not the judge but the defendant or whatever he's not he also should not be going over to the judge and telling him a story before he gets the court it says in the between your brothers so you both have to be there the two Brothers in other words the two people that are coming to the Torah they have to be there and they have to hear each other you can't just go to the judge on your own I could I can learn from another it says you can actually read it like tassi so basically it means you're not to accept a false report and it also means you're not to make a false report the continues so I have over here here let me just this this we don't need this we can move over this way let me see [Music] um no I don't have that POS yet first the judge has to make up his mind exactly what the is what the is and then he can cut it or give it over if two brothers let's say inherited a two flat so it' be easy for the judge just say you know what you get the top floor you get the bottom floor no you have to bring an appraiser you have to appraise the bottom floor versus the top floor sometimes top floor has a better view the bottom floor has a yard whatever it is they don't have the same exact value so if one if I say that the the one brother should get the bottom the other brother should get the top if one of them has more value then the one that gets the more valuable apartment he has to pay the difference to his brother show you what in the time of the this is what a oven looked like here we go it's on here so sometimes they had two of these guys on top that's aim here now we have 35 people on the live I don't know I think it's YouTube yeah so if let's say the father left over a one burner or a two burner and a two burner sorry one and a two you can't just say you know it's easy for me I don't want to get involved over here let me give one brother the two bur the other one but one has more value so the other brother is going to have to make up the difference in other words if you love somebody you know somebody well so you shouldn't judge him you shouldn't you should excuse yourself from that particular d one my son my oldest son once got a ticket in Chicago so he went to court and sure enough there's a guy the judge happened to be one of my students so it's not so simple that he could be the judge Le I don't know how it works legally so what he did was he he didn't he didn't say a word to us he just had his face and then he got upset at my son because my son had his hands in his pocket I always used to tell my son when you're doing you should take your hands out of your pocket it's not it's not respectful don't worry here he is in front of a human judge not Hashem had his he goes why are your hand you're in a court take your hands out of your pocket now okay he say what happened there speeding okay get out of here go he's like all annoyed or pretended he was annoyed at us but it says over here that if you know the person you should excuse yourself now we're going to see in a second says RAV he was the the great leader in B in Iran at the time and he was hosted by a certain person his host came to him to Tor I think I recognize you didn't you once Host Me In Your House in yes I have a I have some some case I want you to decide for me that would be 81 I think I am pule I cannot judge for you so tus on top over here oh you know I forgot to say the okay hold on a second let me just say the tyus and then I have to I forgot to do the SP they're not happy with me yesterday also the top line of Tyson you don't really have to read it I'm reading it for you Tyson says he he was exaggerating when he said that he is puzle he could be the judge just it's not the right thing he just wanted to be you know above and beyond so now that I messed up all the uh sponsors I have to go through all the sponsors I apologize here they are um so we have four sponsors these are $9,000 sponsors I got to say them nicely from his family second one third Larry m who started learning age 70 listen to this he started at age 70 he started age 70 and continued for 32 years till 102 until he nter fourth for the unity of the Jewish people the for fasting just tell you real quickly we have somebody in our sh his name is Robert Earle um his son is in the Army was in the Army and his son was killed in Gaza and he comes every single day to the Shar so it was a big loss for us uh obviously was uh you know it touched everyone every loss is a loss when you know the person you see the guy and so and what was amazing is because the Dai has tremendous power when you get used to it and you just do it every day every day every day he came in the day after shba and he told us and he gave us a little speech he said listen I'm not supposed to be here I can't learn right now my head is not here but I know this is what I do every day and I know this is going to help me and he came and he gave everybody a lot a lot of inspiration so um is this is the day the daily we have five day guys Dr May today burn of Grandmother both of these guys were at the uh says healthy pregnancy easy delivery firp V day seven in honor of 13 this is incredible in M New York they have a firehouse 13 of the guys over there do the da 13 Mony fighters from Department 7 who finished bazra actually made a entire B the longest that's what we celebrated 175 days by theou should art of the month for forell the whole St to to make enjoyable for so second sponsor yay have another sponsor out of the month finally in honor of yusi Klein and Mark ashkanazi for all the work they do Mar asaz is the guy online right now he doesn't know day night whenever I call him up I said we got to go he goes It's amazing big big I tell you the story I said it 20 times I'll tell it to you because you guys didn't hear it and maybe somebody online didn't hear markaz he flew from New York to my house and he came with a big suitcase I said are you moving in like what are you doing you don't here for a night it wasn't even yeah it was a night so he's do you have a freezer I give him a freezer and he puts in all this meat into the freezer next day he leaves and uh I find out only later that he left and he flew to Phoenix Arizona from my house because he has a vacation place there and he gave it to some guy that really needed it but he didn't want that guy not to have food kosher food so he flew from from New York with the meat to Chicago from Chicago to Phoenix another I don't know 3 4 hours whatever it is f the freezer with meat changed the guy's linen and flew back to New York so this is a this is on a whole different level so everybody in MD loves this guy and somebody sponsored for him okay so we're so R says I want to excuse myself because this guy hosted me so now somebody else wants to do it you you take care of him noticed that this host is coming with a certain attitude like you know I know the rabbi he's my friend he stayed by me you know how it is right you host somebody you think you know that the guy owes you on so you told him he is if you're GNA accept the entire gra if not so typically the just a literal translation with mean I'm going to pull RAV out of your ear but what it means is I'm going to put you excommunication I'm put you in so don't don't don't show off don't don't be Hoy so to speak calm down accept the D says in the so here this is the it's it's a little bit of a mess because basically what the gar is going to do is take every word here and uh and go through it we had some here maybe we can move that water bottle thanks these guys okay great it's a long but thear learns from every two words so it goes like this the says you should listen to the small and the big the small and the large you should listen to what does that mean you as the judge do not differentiate between a million dollar the entire and a $1 inter it's all the same to you now it happens to be that people should be careful not to make the best and crazy for nothing you know oh have a little fight over you know don't exaggerate I saw once a guy in rapes somebody came over Rabbi do I have to pay him this that he said how much is it he said $50 $50 he took out his wall he says here take the $50 don't make me crazy I don't know what the is don't here you worried about $50 here here's the $50 but at the end of the day if they they're serious and they want the beant to listen to their case so even if it's 25 cents they have to listen to it what does it come to to tell us if it's just coming to tell us that the bezant has to listen to it that's obvious you don't need a POS to tell me that bz oh no we only take very big case there's no there's no limit there's no there's no minimum it just means that let's say there's a case for a million dollars and a case for $1 you think that the million dollar case goes first it doesn't go it works by whoever came first that also seems to be like obvious but you know some explain that you have the two people there maybe one guy will run away and then the guy would be stuck with a million dollars you know you could you could help him out the other guy's only a dollar there's hardly anything to lose no it goes by whoever is first I was once standing in line by the great he's no longer alive and there was a very long line and a guy you know Israel whatever he just buted the line says what are you doing he says where does it say in the Torah that you're not let a but line I said you tell me it doesn't say anywhere it's not it's not a it's not a problem I said what first of all it's it's it's really bad MOS it's you're not allowed to do something that you yourself don't want somebody do to you you know this not it's not how but where does it say show me where it says I just saw today that people bring from this that the one who comes first you got to judge him first so they want to bring it is that it doesn't say anywhere hey if you're in the line don't cut somebody in line I I get it it's not it's not it's not uh in terms of manners in terms of you know society and all that but is it could I sue you for cutting me in line like what could I get from you if you cut how does it work so over here they want to say that this is where the comes from because you see that a person that comes with $1 he's before the guy that that has a $1 million uh lawsuit and therefore you have to respect those who come first okay you shouldn't be scared of anybody don't withhold any words because of a human being it happens in society sometimes you know you have the the guy that's extremely wealthy he's the hack of the neighborhood and people give him a little extra respect or whatever it is no when it comes to D he comes in you have to treat him just like you treat everybody else right Elam musk he comes in your your your buddy the wealth these guy I mean you're not going to treat him differently than somebody else you're not going to like oh you know try try to make it easier for him you're not allow because the judgment is for it's also the red line right before the end this is this is incredible I thought this is an incredible line here it's not enough that this Russia he takes money from this person he takes money away from people he steals is saying it's like you're you're making it hard for me so to speak there's there's nothing that hasem can't do and nothing nothing's really hard for him but he's saying it metaphorically you're you're making it hard for me you're changing nature basically but it says here an amazing thing that if somebody steals M money from somebody else you hear this may it's a big I thought it's a tremendous that he okay money was lost stolen forget it that's it no Hashem is going to return it to you in a roundabout way and it's going to come from that guy we don't know how we don't know when but it's going to happen that's what the gar says over there what are you laughing what you said which part you why is it funny though we don't know how we don't know when okay what the guy took money from me don't we all have people that took money but but Mexico but but you know it at the end of the day it says here in the gamar that you're you're inconveniencing Hashem because he must take money from the Ghana the guy that stole it and get it back to you somehow Without You realizing that there's a God involved over here you know what I'm saying he does it in an interesting way around about way and that's it's s it's like a inconvenience for so to speak so it says here in the green line all the way in the bottom the stuff that's hard for you come to me says I'll answer [Music] you said here all the way at the end it's in red I put it right over here you see it says Eli Eli means come to me like I'm the man it's a little Hoy understood if you have any hard question come to me so that's why M was punished so we have the daughters of and they were complaining that they didn't get inheritance from their father they said why is it's not fair that the boys get and the girls don't get it was the first case of just girls so typically speaking Hally when one dies and leaves over boys and girls Hally the boys get today we do do it differently and there we had a whole that's what we learned in whole thing the girls should get even the whatever's daughter says what about us what do we do wrong that we didn't get so because wasy this whole all these about inheritance are named after it doesn't say that was Hy and I'm going to let you he that what if I heard I'm G to say it over ask me why is that considered being I think this is also a very very important lesson we know gave the but there's there's something about somebody that does the right thing in the right place he also gets special he's this entire par in The Inheritance is now named after [Music] forever here's the mes mes is basically this guy after hasem said not to desecrate chabas he went and he did something on chabas he gathered wood either made a fire he just gathered whatever it was that he did what he did and they killed him so some say it happens to be some say it's the same person and M is the same exact person and that he did it on purpose he wanted to show clly that they're serious over here that if you desecrate chabas you get killed it was wrong for him to do that but that's what he that was his intent some say that but at any rate he said the whole somebody gathers wood on chabas that's the desecration of because there's the guy by the name he gathered the wood and he ended up dying because of it so the whole par is written on his name so what do you see from here when a bad thing happens it's done through a bad guy and a good thing happens from a good guy says on this why say m is a wheel he says because when once you do a good deed it keeps on rolling it rolls and rolls out of control and that's what a good deed does when you do something good so it has ramifications for the good you do something bad the reverse is true uh says thear so one says let just see if I have it here no told the of that that generation there's another says commanded all ofel not just the the one thing want to do is he wanted the entire nation to be fearful of the judges and also he wanted the judges to be tolerant of the nation not to be you know impatient or whatever how much patience do he have to have just like a father who has to bring his son to the nurser to the to what the wet what is it called the wet mother the the wet nurse wet nurse so I don't know exactly how long that is but you have to have a lot of patience so there two over here here they are and one of them says says to he says when you shall come to and later on says it's referring to because all the way at the end of the says I swore to so that means it's we're talking about but it says a different wording it says when you shall bring before it says when you shall come it says you shall bring so it seems like in the second is saying that Yeshua is the leader you will bring the nation bring and then in the first PA is talking seems like he's not the leader you will come with cl you're not going to bring you'll come with them so what's going on so in fact MH said you're not the leader you will be the leader together you'll have a partnership with the Elders of that generation Steve does that work yep two leaders does work three leaders you have two presidents in the United States would that work we do now we do Comm yeah or we don't have any yeah okay so depends which we don't get into politics over here I haven't heard from any of them seriously I haven't heard from I heard that they commuted a bunch of people that's all I heard but um it doesn't work in a company it doesn't work you have one CEO and that's it one of the problems we had in our organization is uh people were telling me is that everybody seemed to think that they were in charge a lot of people in charge when a lot of people in charge a lot of bad things happen you know this guy spends money over here he doesn't have to ask any questions this guy does this you know he's a lot of issues we finally got a good now and everything is in order so that's what was saying take a sck it's an interesting language take a stick hit them on the head in other words you're in charge you have to show them that you're in charge should be one person in charge of of a generation said you know you'll lead Kao with the elders that doesn't work there is one leader you take you take uh what's the word I'm looking for the whole thing no you take charge no the guy in charge gives out orders you take orders from one person right take orders from one person and in my business like sometimes some employees they don't do that anymore but they would come to say could I could I get a raise could I you know you have a supervisor go to your supervisor what are you coming to me for you don't skip you're supervisor right in the hospital whatever it is you everybody there's a certain hierarchy and there's a reason for that because otherwise it's a big mess so typical typically speaking if you tell somebody the word zon zon means by benching right for that you need three people you'll be surprised by the way that in my family it's weird but in my family the women do Z by themselves there's uh not a lot of people do that but in my family it's based on the vill that women when they eat by themselves they'll do their own zon a lot of people think it's interesting what does the word mean talking that can be because it says in the same sentence Z and so you see that the word zon is different than with three maybe that's just an explanation of the line by the way the second page the other half is much much shorter um and this is one of the longest in terms of words per page in second longest in so um if you'll say that the the line is explaining in other words what is we learned somewhere that there are two separate categories one is called zimon and one is called B and both of them are with three people so you can't tell me it's an explanation so therefore what does mean as when you get a summons from the bz it's called in Hebrew right somebody sues you how do you know that you're being sued you get you get a letter from the bz that says hey we want you to show up me if one individual from the bz decides on his own to do H it doesn't work it's nothing he has to receive permission to summon somebody from all three judges that's only if it's not on the day that the is is in whatever the word is so in the time of the G used to be PE on Monday and Thursday like we doday show Monday and Thursday he to be present on Monday and Thursday so on those days Monday and Thursday you don't need all three to literally say hey this guy has a summoned you one guy could do it because it's obvious it's coming from the whole B okay now we're starting a brand new topic we this is based on the Mish so in the Mish we had a it was a very very long mishna probably the the mishna with the most Concepts in sh 35 Concepts 35 different ideas so it was talking about the bezin of three that's why there's a three on top and there's is a little thre person bezin there's a list of 21 things that are done with a threepers bezin for instance capital punishment is done with a 23 person B you three people is not enough you need a majority of 23 so number six and seven on this list is Cel doll what's Cel Cel is when somebody steals something if let's say he steals a Tesla or whatever he he has to pay double the Val of what he stole that is the Jewish law is to discour now if he steals a sheep he has to pay four times the amount and if he steals a bull or a cow he has to pay five times the amount says the when it comes to penalties there's something called a penalty now this double is a penalty it's not logical somebody steals $100 why should he pay $200 so it's a penalty how many people do you need forz to to talk about to on a penalty I understand we just saw the list here it is it says it's a bezin of three for for the penalties six and seven are penalties and it's a bezin of three so says no my question was if this is your first time doing gar that the way the gamar is written is different than any other book safer or anything it's a it's basically a back and forth It's a question answer kind of thing and even when the gamar knows the answer the gamar would ask the question and go through that there like a rebi and a talid speaking so it just shows you it's it's uh the gar is written a way to show you how they arrived at certain conclusions like they they're dting the eyes and crossing the tees they're showing you well maybe it means this no it can't mean that well maybe it means this it can't mean that and therefore we have to come to the conclusion it's like this you have something called that's based on the G it's taken right out of the gar but it's the the the end of the the bottom line that's what goes into that's so it says like this I'll show you next time when there's a in I'll show you how how we got to it we're talking about an expert a single individual expert is he good enough to force somebody to pay double and tri quadruple can he do what do you mean we just learned it says straight out in our M that it must be you need three people for the four and five and the double and explains what what three people what kind of people talking about talking about simple people that don't know much your own father's father your grandfather said in the name of if they're simple people or less than simple people here we got a picture that's a good one okay I'm going to show that in a second here we have 10 simple people here we go you ready no big rabbis there so 10 people like that cannot force somebody to pay double so we have to say that the three people that the mission is talking about they're experts you need three experts one expert is not enough so that answers that question one expert cannot Doos now I just want to show you somebody just threw this in here so I'll show it to you tonight is is uh non-jewish holiday right right so there's a large amount of people in that don't learn Torah tonight they call so somebody made a meme you shouldn't do any learning so instead I do so basically they're saying that is not learning Torah because it's so fast it's making it's a it's a jab at it's okay we take it every day it's a good one okay there's a whole uh Concept in the Torah a person gets married and he claims well the way let's start from the beginning the way it works the time of the gar is what we have today at a where gives the Kal ring that's what we call Aris it's step one in a marriage then there's n so in the time of the gar they would it's like almost like an engagement but they're married meaning if the woman has an affair she's liable to the death penalty because she's married 100% just they never consumated the marriage that happens later on usually took it was about a year later where they would go to the and they had now if a a person marries a woman who was never married before she's AA virgin then herba is 200 if she was married before then herba is only 100 this guy he's called the MRA this husband he he's making something up he wants to get out of hisba so he tells his he says to the bezin that when he married his wife he couldn't find she's not aula so basically he's he has a a monetary claim he doesn't want to pay for 200 they're day one they're ready in a fight crazy marriage but it gets worse than that if he could prove that she actually had an affair then they'll put her to death so it could also be din this could be uh a lot more than monetary so says gor like this when you when this husband we call him a might sh because he's he's um saying something he's making something up that's not true in certain cases it has to be in front of a bezant of 23 and the question is why if he's only after money so it's a monetary dispute monetary dispute is with how much three people three day so why do you need 23 there's a number of reasons and the mission explains because it could in some circumstances it could have the death penalty so you need 23 but today it's not about death it's about do I have to pay 100 or 200 why is it that you need 23 we are concerned that once rumors come out it's crazy right did you hear about the guy that just got married last night he's already in bz with his wife he's claiming she wasn't he doesn't want to give her a regular so somebody might say wa you know what I actually witnessed some funny business two months ago I saw she was with somebody else so do we have to be worry that some other Witnesses are going to step forward and say that she does deserve to die and therefore let's just start out with 23 people why go from 3 to 23 this could lead up to a death penalty very very quickly no that's not something that we have to be concerned that people are going to step forward and say that she we have to be concerned and therefore we start off with 23 have to worry about it so says something very interesting here imagine a story where doin claims I want bezin to sit and and talk about my new wife who I just married last night I think she was with another man so they say okay we have to gather 23 people and we have to see what's going on we find out that he is lying he can't produce Witnesses he doesn't know what he's talking about what what do we remain with we remain with a monetary dispute now I said well you know what I can't prove it but I claim that I don't have to give her 200 only 100 or nothing so is it appropriate to send 20 out of the 23 rabbis home that's the question they they they assembled to do a din Torah and you're telling him go home that's not nice to tell him to go home so says 23 GA and we found out that he's a liar at least get get me off this big soup of 200 it's not that much but whatever he wants to get out of it says now we're holding that is 8 B1 oh so now I have to remember first of all I have to do this um sponsorship for turning thank you to plus all theas and by and of elite is reality welcome all the new proudly standing with you on your journey and the finish together now I'd like to read to you the email that I cried hopefully I hold it together here it goes like this H one second okay it's just an emotional week the whole week the amount of people that I saw this stories is is insane dear I'm sure you get dozens of email emails like this daily but I feel like I need to get this out I was brought up in a very warm family in tremendous I grew up in great and was always one of the best I must say that I really enjoy my learning I was very successful eventually I realized that I need to go and get some parosa suddenly I felt much less and embarrassed to say to say say this but slowly I stopped doing in a minion was less mock about Kus and felt like a teenager with everything regarding myish so basically you saying is that he was in he was a great guy but he went to work and once he went to work things started falling apart it's hard for me to even type this but even missed fill in a few times I tried a couple of times to join the do but was never successful mainly because it's not my target to learn beus here's another guy talking about Bas that it's too fast for him so here's a guy and this is this is what this is something I talk about a lot um thesea guys that go to work they don't want to learn D because it's you know it's too fast for them so but they want to learn the slow pace but they don't learn the slow pace they don't learn anything and that's the problem or because when I miss few eventually i' give up until the next so that's another problem you're eventually going to miss something you know you're tired you're you have a wedding whatever it is and you miss the D the trick is and this is a trick that I helped a lot a lot of people with you don't make up a d that you miss you skip and a lot of people are perfectionist and they want to make it up and that's that's where that's where they fall because it's very very difficult to do two D in one day so they say okay and then the hole gets bigger and bigger it becomes three do 10 do and then they say you know what forget let me let me start again next time start a new safer so that's what he was saying to cut a long story short I'm now in the Army and saw that mdy starting a program for yeah guy in our program is giving ,000 she per who does the entire 110 days as much as it will be nice to get the I was just happy to give it one good chance I watched the first half and he touched me so deeply it was as if you knew what I was feeling it spoke directly to me in that moment I knew that this time I'm going to finish sanedrin and all the rest it's been just a few days but I I already feel the difference how can you skip a ding or when you just finished the D how can you not be a bit more mocked about the minimum at least if you know that you're a do Jew my father passed away almost 11 years ago when I was 19 every year of the past years I'd feel ashamed going to his to his Cav knowing who I truly truly was inside myself but this year I know he'll be so proud of me and I can't thank you enough because it means the world to me my father is very M see them he learned Torah every day while running a very small business uring fighting cancer with all that it takes so he kept on learning even though he was fighting can so you know how happy he'll be now all because of youd Y official and one last thing if can give me a for my children and easy K so I can be the isra fish totally fine if you want to share this just leave my name my name out please thanks so much again I'll make sure to come to the live share as well okay now the reason why I was touched by it is because there's so many guys out there that they're lost like they they play this game that they're they're religious and they you know they pretend that but they they don't really they're not really doing it just going through the motions and they want better but they don't know how to achieve it and they feel like losers because they're not in Yeshiva they're not in Co they're this that people look down at them and at then they they end up not doing much this is um our editor yoseph and Gary B is our cameraman one of our c one of our three editors and one of our three cameramen says on the way back to Israel from the Shabbat we flew a lot of these guys in and there's an amazing time um M top of the oh we got to hurry up here so it seems like in this BR a is not is like a mishna but it's on a different level it's not as as um as accepted as a mishna so the Bry says two two cases there's a case of um suing for monetary damages you need a b of three and for for to kill the guy you need 23 in this case that we're talking about this is talking about a somebody that claims that his wife was an Absa when he married her it's possible to have a case with three in this case when he's only fighting about the so then you bring a bant of three but if he claims that she deserves death penalty then you have to bring 23 but according to we just said says you always start off with the 23 bz why because you never know maybe people come forward and say that she deserves to die blah blah blah see 23 so how do you ever have a Bez of three in this case so the thear says a beautiful answer what happened was the husband brought two that claimed that she had an AFF now there's something in the Torah called and that is if you have witnesses that claim that on Monday you know this this thing El right exactly on Monday we saw somebody kill somebody else and then two other AD say that can't be because look here we have a oops sorry not this one let me show you over here here this one okay so these two these say hey they they witness something okay they witness this woman with with another man so two them come say what are you talking about you in a cruise how could you how could you Poss I could place you that day in a different country that's called is whatever they try to do they get they try to kill somebody we kill them they try to take $1,000 out of somebody's pocket they have to pay $1,000 whatever it is so that would be that would be NE that would be literally a life so so we're asking the question how's it possible that you have a bezin of three or a bezin of 23 answer is because we're talking about the next step we're talking about the father of this girl he is producing witnesses that the original Witnesses are liars they were on a on a cruise ship so Mama He's now trying to get money from the husband what what did the husband the husband wanted his This Guy's daughter to lose her entire kba whatever it in theba I want you to pay so that's that's a b of three but if to the the husband wanted to kill this this his his new wife that you need a b of 23 so that's why we have a difference of three and 23 three is for the money for the monetary part 23 is for the death penalty so says no we could we could say perhaps that everybody agrees that once you started in Tyra about a woman and she got married and this and the husband claims this that maybe somebody will step forward so we got to be concerned that somebody might step forward we also have to be concern concerned that if the buz starts out with 23 it's not nice to send 20 of them home without finishing it up now we know in the you can never kill anybody let's say somebody's and he deserves a death penalty whatever it is you have to warn them and say listen if you do this and this and that if you even a killer if somebody kills somebody you don't kill him the killer unless you warn them that he will die if he kills now the question is do you have to tell them how he will die there's four ways to die right her and what am I missing SK no what's right no AR is not the right word call fine one of them let's see what they are one of them to Stone to death the the hot thing that's ra and okay so but you have to tell you have to tell the person perhaps what death penalty is and over here it's a little complicated why you need 23 and you need two witnesses and you have to warn that's the warning have to warn him that he's going to die death penalty in the you adds a little bit it's not just enough to warn that you're going to die but what kind of death penalty so over here she deserves stoning and if you forgot to say that then she she doesn't get she doesn't get killed at all nothing as she do according to so mayor is of the opinion he holds like reute in this case that you have to say what the death penalty so therefore it's not a death penalty case because she's not going to die regardless and therefore we just do a bezin of three the most she could lose over is not her life but her we're talking about a woman who's a very learned woman here we got a picture so why what's the difference if she's learned or not says the only reason you warn somebody is because they don't know they're not learn it so you have to but someone that's learn it you don't have to warn them and therefore over here you don't need to warn that's why you need a bezant of 23 because she could get the death penalty because she doesn't have to be warned according to re you do need as and M since she didn't get that last R she didn't get the warning it's only B of three R have a wonderful day