Daf Yomi Pesachim Daf 121 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rob boyce massimisi today we have a number of sponsors and we have an unbelievable guest speaker and after we have the guest speaker we have one of the shortest daphim in daffy mishas followed whoever wants for the halaquaz this year when arif pesach falls out on shabbos sponsored by lauren spiegelman in honor of and with thanks to ellie and the mdy team for leading me and all of us to our fourth serum in this daf yami cycle if you're uniting klaisrom abu kampesarits in limbo terra elli as you always say we come from all walks of life but what we all have in common is limutaro iso may we all be zoyka to see the cubes golios and finish shots together here in our stroll best wishes to everyone in the mdy family for beautiful lauren beautiful sponsored by official reforester basienta devorah the matriarch of our family she should have her for schleimer ah healthy 17 year old boy suddenly rushed to the hospital in serious condition not kovid refused layma and lili nishmas moreno haravagoyan of mayor scheinberger of mayor ben today was the vart of my son the bahar he was engaged to malcolm and it was a beautiful simcha uncle phil for the gifts that you sent for the whole mdy family the new york family who sent in a gorgeous beautiful gigantic tray of chocolate ishikaya steven sokola who drove his wife and his three children all the way from south bend indiana to come i appreciate it and all those who came from near and far ishirakaya it's a beautiful beautiful day so as i promised yesterday one of the biggest nissim gulum that i've seen in my life we had i want to play for you first of all okay we'll start from this and it's on if you have the eight minute daf app it's in the classics it's called the golden dove i'm just gonna play a very small part of it so you see what i'm talking about i'm gonna try to make this as loud as possible you also is probably gonna have to patch it in somehow and here it goes get out of bed you get dressed you get in your car and go to school and as you're going to show you trip over a golden dove has it ever happened to anybody it's happened to me [Music] and i want to tell you that boise it's happened to every single one of us because you know we're raising money for our neighbor that lives literally 10 feet away from here he hasn't had children for over 20 years we're building a mix for his host the when we have a child or in my case a grandchild that's our golden dove when we do a good business still we make some money so boise my very close friend a neighbor of mine who i've dealt with and i heard a story and he would we would talk a lot and i made phone calls for him and did certain things for him to get another treatment and another whatever was for 21 years he struggled and struggled i mean if you just close your eyes for five seconds and think about what it means to struggle people after a year of being married and not having children they run to the doctors 21 years it's it's not fathomable and he didn't give up and he went through abraham kanievsky and kanievsky told him if you build a mikvah you will have a child after 21 years and people said and people donated money and he built a mikvah and this story is so incredible and so real because i was there when he built the mikvah i remember the day he inaugurated the mikvah and that's the day that basically his wife became pregnant his wife gave birth nine months later this past shabbos i see rabbiakov schoenberg is sitting and watching he's his next door neighbor no i'm fixed next door neighbor we're all his neighbors everybody that lives he lives 10 feet away from mdy he davens in mdy as a matter of fact he named his daughter i have no idea what her name is he named his daughter this morning in mdy [Music] [Applause] all right the emotion is unbelievable so without further ado i want to introduce you to the ballast himself it's a query by the way it's all over all right take it away ethic [Music] okay um he's saying i've married for 21 and a half years there was a story about a year ago of uh somebody they made a campaign they made a campaign and uh they made a movie and they asked me to speak on the movies of um when i spoke this was somebody that helped me a lot financially you know the treatments are very expensive and he's helped me out it's the first time in 20 years that i i cried publicly about the situation and about what was going on when they made this video about him so i spoke about my situation and i started crying a friend of mine showed this movie this little clip to uh the mancal the head the ceo of uh an organization called tarata mispaha to try to get some finances from him for uh for this friend um showed another video back of a couple that didn't have kids for a very very long time they made a truma to a mikvah and then they show in the video nine months later or sometime later twin girls can my friend said to me we're going to go to reprimand we're going to ask him if we should do the same thing should we build a mikvah and that should be maybe my yeshua as well i went with my friend to abraham on my birthday we asked him if this is what we should do and he said zouaitsa that state said to do to build a mikvah in a place where there is no mikvah and that's going to be as host for us and with that we'll see a yeshua campaign [Music] he suggested a place in zohar which is a place in the south they had a very very weak mikvah over there the cost of the mikva was about 640 thousand shekel approximately 150 to 200 thousand dollars and we just started to campaign to raise the funds so uh we can rebuild the mikva over there we raised the money you dollar tammuz tough shin pay we were able to raise all of the money to uh to build the mikvah to dedicate them nor great shabbat on comes out about uh nine months later after after the uh about nine months later we had a baby girl the first message is i thought i was doing a tova for my friend speaking on the video to raise money for him and his family turns out that was the yeshua and the hassa that was done for me [Music] um [Music] m the second thing is just the kakatora of refrain what does raphaim have already sits and he learns and he learns and you see that his word is kadosh whatever he says and that's what happens and uh a similar thing is what we're doing over here or sitting and learning and rebelli is taking on this project and he turned it into a business a business called the business of torah and that's what we do sit and learn daffy i also have a colal that i opened up of 30 of reichem and we sit and we learn and the of torah and the somebody that sits and learns is a tremendous tremendous scholar [Music] ago he's not didn't just take on torah's learning but he's also a big balchester a few months ago he saw me and i looked pretty down and i get a knock on my door heir of shabbos and he sends me a gift with the following note i saw you this morning and i saw how much physic you gave me every we have friends and we have maggi deshire like rebelli saw me a month ago a month and a half ago and i told him the news on shabbis and he just basically burst out crying i have to appreciate the people that we have around us and what we have around us and who's guiding us want to thank everybody for all of their efforts and help you just [Music] foreign [Music] last translation just finished it up now he's saying uh i don't know i don't know how i was able it's 20 years of ups and downs and constant disappointments and back and forth but a lot a lot of kilos two and a half years i was in uh cave oracle people kept telling me let it go cry let it out and i couldn't it didn't come i just didn't cry until that first time i cried on the video it was the first time i cried and people may be connected to that as well and it's a lot of ups and downs and a lot of philos and a lot of davening and uh here you are at the end you see that uh here it is unbelievable unbelievable all right [Applause] all right thank you etiquette all right our boy sai we only have 20 minutes left for the daf and i wanted to give him some malaccas here we're holding the almond base by omarovo omarov by the way i must say tomorrow night in new york i hope to get a ticket because the ticket i got was the wrong month the boys side ah yeah yeah this is what happens when you buy tickets at one o'clock in the morning the seal is in new york at eight o'clock i will be there if i have to drive there i will be there eight o'clock it's going to be transmitted live on youtube and on zoom be there in person or be there on the media we'll see you there omarova today we don't have a carbon pesach last year this year we will have but typically up until now we didn't have a carbon peso and yeah mata after hot sauce now we just had a much like us when sauce says pay stuff comes before khasis and after kazakhstan doesn't count so mata also why because the passage says the mata is connected with the pesach so so we don't have pesach but the maths has to go at the same time as pesach what's a big says the gemara let's just do this about pe a second we had this yesterday that's positive number one yi matzah for seven days what does the other pasta and this is possible what is going on so that's the question we had yesterday is it six days or seven days this comes to teach us on the seven days that it's a resource you don't have to eat months if you don't want to if you want to be on a diet you don't like carbs you don't have to eat matzo oh maybe you don't have to eat mats at lil i say there for that we have the erev turklo matsus to took it out and said so you don't have to eat matzo so beforehand so you have to eat matzo like when there is a carbon peso when is it calling pesa it's up until so it's contoured so tomato has to be until now there's a fascinating aveni neser real quickly he has a cop cordillera blossom and azaria you can only eat matzo until christ now let me ask you something the whole sugi is about having the taste of the matzo in your mouth so you can't wash it down with dessert but when when could you eat dessert you can't eat dessert for three days you can't eat dessert till the till the morning till the afternoon to when when you wake up unbelievable you cannot eat dessert until the time of the mata in other words the mat says hatsais so a minute after khasis you could eat dessert i have a great idea let's say you look at the clock and you see that's almost godzilla's you didn't do anything you didn't eat yet what do you do you sorry these are tears of simcha you take a khizai samatsa and you say if the allah is like rebel azaria i'm eating the mata now so you're allowed to eat dessert so you eat your whole meal after hot sauce you eat an entire meal and then when you're done with your meal you eat another kazaas and say in case allah is like rebecca i'm eating my my kazaas of avikaiman after the meal a lot of deuteronomy like this idea including the brisker of he said it's a great idea i saw i think it was the milk citizen says i don't like the idea so much because rebecca himself holds that's not kadai to go to alloys you should go like rebels okay but this is zach says it says if if somebody thinks as he's doing one of the four awaiters during those four avadas he thinks in his head that he's going to eat the kind things he's going to eat this animal after it's a lot of time say you're allowed to eat a slum him for two days and a night he thinks he's going to eat it in three days from now that makes it piggle if it's piggle you touch it your hands become tummy nowadays are also left over meat your hands become tough is between the two and we have this like the concern is if a kind wants to get a israel real good now this animal costs a thousand dollars a sheep five hundred dollars whatever it costs so the coin could destroy his animal with the marshall he'll think in his head oh i'm going to eat it after three days and now the the israel is going to have to bring another carbon and he's going to tell the jew he's going to tell you so oh by the way i made a mistake i made a boo-boo in my head i thought you could eat a slum for three days i made a mistake i'm sorry and because he says i'm sorry and he made a mistake he doesn't have to pay the eastroll and this role has to never go and buy another carbon take the carbon throw it in the garbage buy another animal it's a lot of money it's not a joke so we're worried about these crap oh i remember learning this with you guys but if you tell him that his hands are tommy hey oh that is not going to do to mess up the guy you make him pay 500 bucks daddy has no problem but to say your hands are tommy yes they're very very concerned about tumor in fact we said they killed somebody but they wouldn't become tummy and one said we're late he was lazy now there's nobody's here the mother's gonna there's there's not enough time they're not going to want to eat the meat and they're going to leave it over so that's the problem is we learned this as well how much of this meat do you need to make your hand stomach zaiser cabeza type of daft aleph catonia piglet one is talking completely about something else another one is talking about a piggle piglet has to do with the cayenne being mean to israel and the other one nicer has to do with being lazy he's being lazy he's not going to eat the carbon and it's a lot of times how much tumor do you need in a food object to be another food has to be a full quebeco and here we're talking about food being the time of your hands not the isr but the ability to be thomas something else so mellow you need a full kibato that's we don't know who said what one of them ravuna refrigerator one said something with the other one said the other thing the official mishnah sponsored by official and the matriarch of your family you should have or for shleiman repeat it it's coming up in just a few days final daff of mis final final daf y'all see schloss i got your you have other you have other carbons you have to bring a shlom in you have to bring in the of your dialect to fill up the the the stomach so you're eating the pes lesava you have to have another carbohydrate so this path is this doesn't work they're not related says the gemara if you think about it you'll figure out the diver would be small says that pesach works for everything else but everything else doesn't work for pesos rico so [Applause] this is what we call to pour the blood gold vessel silver vessel but you're pouring it nicely gently you take it and you put it on the wall you pour it down this on the other hand is what we call zhrika he's standing from a distance and he tosses it tosses it at the wall and animals so says according to that what works for pesach works for everything else now pesach is pouring this is pouring so if i take this if i do this if i do this rika remember this is the kappa so to speak the final step of the avodah you take the blood and you pour it on the mizbaya so if i do this for carbohydrate it works just like the brock of a carbon basically works for khagiga so the the the the orphan the way you put the blood on his back even though he's supposed to toss it but if you put it it's also good why rajab says i learned from apostolic places says i learned from svara tossing is not a great thing it's putting it on the mizbaya i don't have a choice i'm far away you give it a toss the toss it's a size but the reverse is a problem if the torah says i have to put it on nicely tossing is not good if i'm going to do it the way you're supposed to do which is to toss it and i toss the blood of a carbon face off from two feet away i go i toss it onto the wall i'm not yelling to the carbon peso the divider of a kiva and rebecca says that the block of the carbon peso does not work for kagiga and the giga doesn't work for compessive it's not going to help me to to pour the blood on the misbehave and certainly won't help me to spill the blood to toss it from a distance for a carbon peso and now we're turning the final final time on soccer sponsored by ellie dickman broker for all the mdy team in their everyday lives for all the heart awaited and sponsored for for slammer for holi israel especially for our mdy family please consider joining them the whitetail group at thehillim.8mindaf.com in three days on thursday so might be kadai for some of you not to do a complete seal and tomorrow we'll probably start we'll take it up from here but let's just do a little bit revise very similar to our mishnah it's one person makes two brachas he has to make allah pessah and allah one is almighty the other what a battle over here is maybe tomorrow will explain a little bit better there's no they're shining a mask maybe they should both say no that was partial that there's only one brah and it's only for the mitzvah says the rashba the kind is not making a bracha oh he just scored the lottery he got five slime because if that was the case then every kite in the world every time he gets a basket of fruit for truma jamaica the question is whether the cayenne makes the shahianu for the whole situation of the pidyana ben and with that we will finish today's gemara whoever wants to go could go whoever wants to stay around i have a compiled list here that i i heard a shirt on chaba is from riptide zimmerman uh associate rav here in the shoal that i dive in in lincolnwood uh with together with other things that i saw but mainly he i asked him to do me a favor and put it in writing for me and he did so he was very kind and i hope it's a so this year this year we have something very very unique which doesn't occur i don't even know when the last time it happened maybe 10 years ago or so that is shabbos and people were asking me throughout the message different allah's i'm not a rav i tell them that i don't know but here's some alohas that you can go by don't go by but this is what i think the aloha is first of all the tinus bacharach this year is on thursday not on friday the fast is on thursday so if somebody's fasting fast on thursday so the seom has to be on thursday that's it now with comments this year is done on thursday night why because vidiq's comments has to be done at night when it's dark use a candle we don't use a candle anymore after my father burnt down our house in flatbush we use flashlight so a lot of people like to use flashlight true story the virtualizer of his house you'll see true story it's really wrong he's coming tomorrow to see him he'll tell you the story firsthand flashlight but you cannot use a candle nor a flashlight on friday night would be very nice after the shabbos meal you take a candle now why not it's a citizen to search your comments destroy search and destroy well you can do it on thursday so do it on thursday so we do it on thursday night that's that now the b or comments is on friday and we do the b or comments we destroy the comments besides the hummus that we want to use on shabbos we destroy before the time of be or whatever the time is so you find out what your neighbor whenever it is call it 10 27 in chicago you have to destroy it before 10 27 on friday even though friday is not aviante by the way when we do the deco we do it with a bracha even though it's thursday night if on a regular year you do it three days in advance you wouldn't make abraham you do dig without a since this is the official official whatever the reason is we make it with a bra now what's very interesting this year is that there's no beetle you're not being the vat of your comments and that's very very important to be honest you're not being without your comments on friday why because you want to leave comments over for shabbos for the commissioner like we're going to discuss so over here you have to be very careful because every year we have a signal that tells us go be the comments when typically we take the comments we toss it into a fire go to a big bonfire you make it in your backyard you toss it and immediately open the siddhar call hamirah the chameleon but this year we don't have that we're going to burn the comments and we're not going to do bittle so we must remember to do bitter on shabbos when before the time of the inaudible whatever something like that okay now you're allowed to take a haircut every area of pesach you're not going to take your haircut after hot sauce after hot sauce every peso but since friday is not irish pesach you allowed to take a haircut and you let it shave throughout the whole day very important since shabbos is their peso you should not take a nap saying anchovies i got to take a nap so i could have kayak to be up on the cedar it's shabbos you can't prepare for yantef but you got to tell your kids to take a nap for that and you should not prepare your say their table on shabbos so since we want to be my to the the whole save the thing with the pillows and then this we want to set it up correctly you should probably do so on friday it's not a good idea to start playing around with pillows on shabbos in preparation for the seder now this is the big halacha you need to have three meals on shabbos and they have to have lacha mishna bread so the best best way to do it and this is what everybody's saying is and at all the two meals on child this morning have to happen before 10 27 in chicago so what do you do you have to daven and have two meals so yes what a lot of people are doing is they're gonna dive in for seeking really early and they're gonna have a meal going to have kiddush and wash and have fish and meat and wine and they're going to bench they're going to go around the corner they're going to say and they're going to wait a few minutes maybe 20 minutes even make a serious break and then have another meal with challah and everything and whatever holly i've left over you flush down the toilet now some people don't want to have chala hanging around on their seder table they just clean it there's no vacuum cleaners there's nothing going on and you're gonna have all these all the stuff coming into your chairs and what some people are nervous so those people might want to rely on the remotion feinstein that says that you could eat a matzah shira that's a egg a egg matzo or a fruit juice matzo which is causal of pesav but not kosher for the seder the rama says you shouldn't do it but ramosja financing proves that you could do it so yes if you are have never been like that that you don't want to eat real khala so that's the basic idea here very interesting rebel yashev says that the first meal of the morning should be the small one and the second meal the large one which is interesting because usually shall show this is supposed to be smaller than the second meal the second meal should be the giant one shall we smaller now one very important since you're eating the two meals before 10 27 and the says that you should eat shall show this after so what do you do you just say before khat therefore what you're supposed to do is eat fruit and meat during the day after khatsay's during the shallow now it's not alcatrilla because has to have bread but you already had bread in the morning yes shall show this so in order to be yaitz what you're doing is you're eating a lot of fruit and meat not that much that's going to fill you up because again you want to come to the seder with the appetite but enough that it's a nice meal a shallow shooter's digging meal um let's see what else i know it's time to go and basically just remember to do your bittle on shabbos by 1027 chicago time i have no idea what it is in new york and the rest of the world but it's very early so you got to get in your two meals you got to get into fast chakras and a fast muscle increase the torah and don't forget that bittle have a wonderful day and based on hashem i'll see you tomorrow live from new york at the tsum baezer hashem and this year mashiach is going to be here so we'll have a few others that i'm gonna have to tell you about the carbon pay stock and how that fits into the whole thing but anyways have a great day i don't know if no amazon anymore if not have a wonderful day great day everybody great day who's that um mark how did the how did the thing go with the how did the item like the um the it's a corey thing this no no no i don't want you paying crazy amounts of money i need to know where's this ticket let me buy it i want to buy it yeah i don't know if it's going to happen i don't know i forgot to tell avi factor that might not happen i feel bad are you are you messing with me are you playing games i don't like i need your name hold on hold on a second but the shiloh is no this is too this is too late for me it's not gonna work i i'm gonna don't worry about official no because i have i have a meeting i have a meeting a very important meeting at six o'clock i gotta do an interview at six o'clock okay all the other ones are not direct but uh no going going monday monday i have a big meeting monday i saw no i also have points i have points on united there's a good flight of united direct i'll go to laguardia what am i going to do big deal no no it's united to me it's worse it's the new work i'm it's fine don't worry about it it's fine i'll drive a few minutes more i deserve it no i don't know if anything is available here mark in case you don't believe me check this out mark are you able to see this look at my flight it was the first option it was the first sunday they gave me so i figured oh it's the ellie be sunday when you walk up the tarmac okay we don't want no presidential calls watch out that trump's scouting how does he walk down walking up is one thing but walking down is very dangerous for the guy who says ah you mean you mean the private plane i thought you're talking about a girl like me should be on a private plane it's a anime stick it's on off oh [Applause] hold on a second you don't say if you all say let's let's let's go to work here okay good i love it i love it is there any way you can just chuck him off for good like ban him for life oh here we go [Laughter] okay i have bad news for you yeshua you're not going to believe this nobody's going to believe this but i want to tell you a secret that i never told anyone you should know you never had corona i put you in a hotel for two weeks stop for fun i know people i know people you think you got a negative a positive volume you had corona six months ago you sure one more sentence one more sentence you're going back to the hotel for three weeks his ex-wife three times yeah i know they put it they caught him you