Daf Yomi Pesachim Daf 109 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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miraban williamsburg zamale lives in a big in the big red house williamsburg is waiting for yiddish sheer as well i spoke to my therapist he said that he's aware of the new addiction called rebelli stefanski he's thinking of arranging a 12-step meeting every day where the addicts will learn together this year deacons yaakov is on top of it ah your father's also give everybody give out just in time for the good morning shirley bernstein not bornstein bernstein donut don't confuse lili nishmas my grandmother soravito bass avrom yitzhak should have and aliyah dan kaufman in the email i would just like to convey to you another story that tells the power of mdy i watch the youtube video of the share daily i'm saying this with the utmost respect and dignity and as if i'm watching my favorite tv show that's the way i look at it i look forward to it every day i don't know what that means who what there's such a thing as a tv and shows and zach and i don't know what this guy is talking about we didn't have me you and i we didn't we have no idea the brady bugs face every day what simpsons what are you from the from the 90s i look forward to it every day sometimes i'm lucky enough to start my day with it and sometimes i need to wait till later on in the evening rebellion is the main character and there are these i'm not making this up and there are all these supporting roles whom i never see i hear the names mentioned nachman seltzer though i know he's a he's real because i read his book our man in jerusalem which is wonderful in high and i highly recommend common to the five towns i know personally but guys mentioned like avi factor menachem uncle phil i don't really know a friend of mine needed a favor from a doctor in israel don't want to go into the details but suffice it to say it was a big mitzvah so i posted on the ndy chat if anyone knew a doctor in israel and someone suggested dr avi factor to me he's this character on my favorite tv show i didn't realize he was real i've never seen you turn colors you're the guy that makes me turn colors no all of a sudden a little revenge wow uh so i can't think that i'm sure enough dr factor came through by the way he's doing a crazy amount of stuff people call him for all sorts of things here here the other character just walked in one of the supporting world you heard oh you heard you're on top of it great mate is on top of it before he shows up doesn't want to miss a single email then he complains to me i should read the emails afterwards all right so i can i contacted him and sure enough that he threw no this wasn't for me is there a friend of mine stop calling him it's like non-stop all day long can i come out of me do it into me dude where did i get a shot how to get a vaccine do you have under the kid can i pay you a thousand dollars get a vaccine get me into israel out of israel non-stop easy he's a plastic surgeon right boys leave him alone the gemara discusses carve magma scarf this was clever so just wanted to relay to you this little story of the power of the dive and the power of mdy beautiful boys so here we are we're def tess ahmed alev four lines down tanya you know i was thinking as i learned the gemara and we're going to get into a beautiful study of zugos peers also to do piers and uh you know it was just the other day we were learning kachin we had 40 daffo kachin and some people were like they couldn't they they dreaded they catch them every day another and just like this we're we're on to these shots you know one day you're loving it the next day it's a little harder it's rushes it's it's it's then it's the ups and the downs i love it all for me it's great one day razer sham everybody would love kachem but here we go beautiful sugi salah tanya bless finn you grab the matzo you steal the matteo this is the source of affection right that's what you think so for this we jump into rashban you see rashbam it's like 10 lines down you grab it you lift it and you show the children and they start asking questions so this is an interesting chat that and this is something that we should pay attention to there's some tzadikim out there that drag the seder they push a dragon and dragon the kids are starving you know the seven-year-old wants to eat and no no this is oh and i have a great shot i heard from this and that and then they get the kid over here it says you go quickly go quickly to get to the mail to the food so that the kids should be involved otherwise it's terrible who said that yeshua yeshua says all you have to do is give them a walnut he's a big character they see him plenty the different mitzvahs here there's the mata the mother we're stealing the mata from the child not the child stealing from us of course we flip the minute but there's this reason for that if you're getting too much food they're going to fall asleep so you steal the food from them you don't you keep them awake they want maybe it's good for them to ask where the food is a kid falls asleep after he eats vegetables so now that we grab the food away from them they're not going to fall asleep and they will continue asking questions okay they'll see all the differences fine but they are shining like the eerie who say that and it's based on this gemara this is the minute of the still the matzo that's also part of the the seder to get the kids involved stealing the mata from the father hiding in the mat so hi tim it says when we lived in kensington my father adam he takes the matzo he made up his own minecraft thing i don't know he takes the mata ties at this button you can't steal there's no way like his arm guard security the whole thing no no no no that's enough for the lizards now somebody said that it seems like i'm making fun of my father i have the unbelievable respect for my father but he's he's stark so i i couldn't stand that i wanted to steal the climate so middle to say there i went outside i went through the back door and i went to the front of the house and i slammed the front window with all my mind i gave it a big zets my father jumped up put the mata down and he went flying out then i went around and i saw the matzah it wasn't very funny i had his mata but i wasn't able to sit for a few weeks doctor guimara no no he didn't he was he was a stickler annoyed at me but okay fine i did that that was a trick and he actually put the mata down and and he forgot nice to show you could ask my siblings i don't know if you can say that one either it's all that's it's a brain the criminal brain being here coming around there to steal yeah i think he wasn't actually i don't know he must have got it somewhere that is he wasn't so into the kids stealing and i don't know i have to ask him where all these things that i had to stick with taina here stickletina there i literally found tyson's this that he doesn't he's a person by the way seriously he knows mr brewer mila bamila by heart he used to go through the entire mission wherever alert mission will knows this is difficult the entire bureau from cover to cover all six volumes every three months and he knows every beer allah every single thing and he's medactic on every single one of those so it's very interesting growing up in that house tanya would never say let's go home he didn't go home for 24 years so he didn't he didn't say and by the way i just i mentioned this i didn't even think that i was going to i was going to mention something similar but what is one of the most famous varts in yiddishkai today i heard this 400 times at least and that is it says revokivo what is it very good right that's the most famous but there are a few what's another very very famous one what's the vard if somebody didn't hear and there's a guy in the collar i don't know the verdict of 12 plus 12. you tell me i'm serious you're serious about it he never went to var to bar mitzvah ever in his life so real quick because it's a beautiful var maybe kiva left home for 12 years he came back and he heard rahul saying halaway should stay for another 12 years so he left with all years and the question is why didn't he just go in and say hi and bye and the answer is because 24 years straight is not like 12 plus 12. it's the the what's the word that's it continuity six hours of learning entire straight is not like three plus three et cetera et cetera and and learning the daf and stopping every five minutes to say a joke and a story is also not the same thing as going straight but exactly then it will be russia shiva's here okay both all right so so rabbi kevin everyone you never told us guys go home time to go home closing you have to give the kids a nap this is a lock of a nap you want the kids to stay up at night you put them into sleep where are pesach verev i'm not kidding i saw this review silverstein i don't want to quote him because i started quoting wrong and like i skimmed through it but he asked to shyla you allowed to give a kid a sleeping pill and and he proves from here that you could because texas asks why do you need a father to give a nap anybody could give a nap dr because the father uses different kind of techniques that only a father could use and that would include a stickle nap uh stick all uh uh what do they call that the melatonin and all that stuff or avi's stuff what's your stuff ambien avi was on a plane mice and shahada he took ambien and uh he started crawling to the bathroom literally on all four mice and shaw he's sitting right next to me crawling all four the stewardess walks over and says ambien just all four and he made his way into the thing all right so yeah that stuff uh representation says based on this tyson is what okay fine next we don't have time for lieutenants here i'm sorry uh where are we very very poor aryan keeper also you have to feed the children make sure everybody's full father's gonna be in show at night the kids might get hungry so you go home early that's the two times a year you tell the guys go home from from base mattress go take care of your family very pesabs they should get a nap now so they don't sleep later very much to feed them make everybody happy everybody has to be happy so what does this have to do with your children it has a lot to do because what do you give your kids to make them happy be i in not in america not a good idea you could get arrested giving your kid kiddish each person whatever they like whatever satisfies them whatever gives them simchem by the way we have to mention once we're talking about the pasta the village to accomplish to keep to be happy from beginning a yanta to the end of the yantam straight anos what do you give a man they appreciate colorful clothing very strong the big day piston might seem nice clean um what's it called iron linen night white stuff okay it depends on the country depends on the place whatever they like it's interesting the chocolate paskins you're supposed to wear nicer clothing than on chalice if this if you have a nicer suit you the young student shout out to why you think that shabbos shout out because yantev has the piece of vesamachta shabbos doesn't have this versamark and clothing makes you happier so then you see the indian of clothing now what if your wife doesn't want a new dress she has plenty she wants something else she wants a new tea kettle she wants a a pot is that okay you behind the mitzvah in a pot yes anything that will make her happy give her a ring give her a diamond uh then of course jewelry but also things that make her happy somebody has to rub somebody they know as the rough could i buy my wife a couch for young tiff yes you ain't in the midst of god a flight to america probably just her you mean yeah but one thing i saw that you shouldn't do is like pay off your wife's credit card bills that's seriously that's not that's not a pr that's not a a plus it just takes away a minus so that doesn't count getting rid of mice is another one of the exam you're getting rid of something you're taking getting rid of debt is not giving her something you have to give her something okay when the base of english was around in beijing in less than two weeks you bring carbonace the meat of the carbon that was the simcha to rejoice with meat shenanigans busserviyan today rambo brings bossar what kind of meat not to be confused with the some people call it and i just roll meat it's not chicken it's physical meat it's meat has to be basar bakar there was a ladle that they used to take out the murious that was the fish fast kashmaka stuff comes right after kuta comes muriasa great stuff he have asked him in lugo to make the show it's like the look of the bass amigos now don't forget a review we're talking now about a reverse how much is the reviews or vs means a quarter a quarter of what a quarter of a look so for example this is very similar to a look let's even say revis is three ounces times four is twelve if it's five ounces to twenty somewhere in between there's 16 ounces so it's not that much bigger than this not that much smaller something like this so let's say this was a mariasa this is the the kata the the kista so you fill up the you fill up the whatever it is and now inside this you have four reviews so this contains all dollar crisis this batson is all your dollar crisis because this is the size of a kista and a kiss there's four reviews it's a full log so that's it that's that's the whole story yeah you pour it out into into four cups but this contains the shear you want to know how much reverse is it's one quarter of a kista obama is sharing review that's how you can figure out what it reveals on pesos he has a better way of doing it there was a measuring koala it was original and there's a today's river so if you fill up me also right you fill up the original and you pour it out you fill it up to the top you pour it out into today's time you also whatever is left in your cup that's reviews that's that's now i get an exact i don't have to take the full look and break it down to four parts which is difficult i take the whole cup pour it out since this is one reverse larger than this now i'm left with the reverse so i know exactly what my reviews is omar now if you look in the art scroll the english one you'll see one of the most complicated math problems ever designed by art scroll there's a lot of f's and and and funny squigglies that i wasn't taught in ponovich i had no idea i slammed it shot i went to the massifta because that's made by hassida memansi we're on the same level of math and i got it the moment made sense what are you laughing why are you you're happy that's what i'm saying you're also south africa it's just thrilled the whole thing oh my gosh maybe the whole math is often i thought they're muncie i thought they at least have some level they went to hey some they're in my bet that's where the okay fine i'm not going to go with where my bed is but it's it's 15 20 minutes by foot here and they're always in the news let's just say that okay fine all right i'm alex buying so if you want to know what are your visas it's two fingers by two fingers by two fingers it's a that amount but we're not done and another half if you think i'm going to go through the whole question are you crazy my name is you have to wash your body with water so from here we learned aloha number one you know you now have any what's the word in an article interposition something like that whatever they say what yeah okay whatever all right no i did not see it today i remember it's azalea so you can't have anything on your your body your skin whatever that look is ruby it's very interesting i don't know i didn't ask aloha and i'm i'm pretty sure here matteo will tell me in a second i like i would i would like to correct about curry especially because those are the probably the only ones if anything between a base and a schwa and i never do because i didn't i didn't feel there's any difference really like in the meaning over here you see there's a difference in the word it makes a difference how come nobody corrects between apartheid you don't but in other shows in other shows no no he doesn't he really doesn't make mistakes it's not a joke it really doesn't hurt i i the last time i heard him was when he he was the bakay an hour in our kanaya what was that did i ever say the story i have to say the story because i'm talking about correcting here i was in svat and the guy it was a parish in the summer i have to look it up what parish it was and the guy started saying who instead of saying who's sorry he said he because he's qasidish she says he he okay in shelishi he said who so i scream out he and everybody looks at me i'm like hey and he goes by they said no he might have shocked if the first one's already then the last one to say what are you doing they thought i was crazy i fit right into that shulk zucker mario okay robin my name is something no seriously you know what it is i woke up i woke up super early to do that art school thing and it didn't go very well but i stayed up that's what it is no i'm sees it and i'm going to get a text from leon welcher oh it's convaldic when you don't sleep not today though all right cause my my name is so what's the what's the path it has to be special water by my not in the water the the water means it's gathered water it's called bisarua mayam should call goofy oil you have to be in the water in one shot you can't just put different parts in and take them out you have to be in one shot and one thing how do you do it from here we see this famous shear of a mikvah of our baam saw how the cameron hey what is it by the way just mention quickly that bark hashem registration is filling up quickly for the serum in new york there's over 70 people that registered already and that's day one and there's not a lot of spots available so we just turned it off cofftes on the bays sponsored by ellie dykeman brochure for all the mdy team in their everyday lives for all the heart avoid this acquaintance they do otherwise known as the supporting cast sponsored for four shleima and you just insert it again to the supporting cast sponsor for the first slammer for all the israel especially from our mdy family please consider joining the mdy tilling group to hilum.8mindaf.com so what's the shear and we had this ready before a bunch of times if a person is three almost tall without his head and he's about an ammo wide so the mikvah must be one by one by three minutes tall and then when he goes in the water comes up he he displaces the water comes up and covers his head now mikvah are bomb so so common went ahead and they figured out that that equals the 40 saw okay let's see what we have here let's maybe start from the end very simple and i guess we can move on from there if you take i'll do it this way three ammo equals eighteen now if you take 18th falcon and divided by 16. trying to show how we got to two fingers by two fingers for reverse if this is the this is the size of a mikvah one ammo by one armor by three armors so from here we can figure out if this is 40 saw we could figure out that a reverse is two by two fingers and a half a finger and a fifth of the finger how so you divide it like this you have 16 but you you take the eighteenth falcao mean divided by sixteen and then you're left with a piece that's a tefl and a half a finger which equals two and a half so okay so if you take the eighteenth fachem divide the eighteen by sixteen pieces this is the rajbam's math darshan has a much simpler way of doing it just you know in a different way but this is if you wanna do it with pieces and try to figure it out with so you take 89 divided by 16 and now you have a sliver that's two and a half uh a tefl and a half a finger each sliver equals two and a half saw two and a half times sixteen equals forty socks you have two and half sun that's liver now if you take the two and a half saw and you divide into two parts you take three parts out of the two and a half saw so each part equals thirteen and a half fifths of a finger which is two and a half fingers and a half a finger and a haimish so if we're again so you take this liver over here you take one of the slivers which equals two and a half saw and we talk about that so we talk about that now you take three parts three-fifths of that sliver and you divide each part equals two and a half fingers two fingers and a little bit then you take that sliver which is two fingers and a half and a half a finger and a haimish and you this is your sliver now you break this into 36 pieces 36 look why is that because this this sliver right here equals a saw and a half a saw and a half is nine calf because each saw equals six calf sun half equals nine cup and a cave don't fall asleep a cave is for lug so how many calves do we have nine times four 36 look so you have 36 pieces in the sliver if we take one piece that's a tether tall and it's a look what's a reverse again a quarter of a look so now we're back down all the way to a look so you take that piece the look piece and you break it down like this you take that little piece it's just breaking down the pieces finally get to the piece of a look and you take two fingers by two fingers it's a little bit more it has and that turns out that it is a quarter of a lug here you go a quarter of a look equals two fingers by two fingers because we broke down the entire that entire giant thing we broke it down the fingers and finally we figured out that two fingers by two fingers equals arrivius two fingers plus blah blah blah okay that's the best i could do iron in the art scroll and in the mesifta for more detail to gemara omar ravage [Music] and this is these are the lachem upon them they had an interesting shape this shulkhan was two amas long by one ammo wide and one and a half am tall this fit into a mikvah how could it possibly fit into mikvah if it didn't come apart so obviously the legs come apart but even this piece which is two alma by one ammo could not fit into a mikvah that's one by one ammo the restraining asked obvious question what if you put it on an angle you cannot stand it up because it's two armors so it cannot fit this way but it could fit this way but it's one armor from here to here and the mikv is one amma but you could put it on the diagonal of the mikvah which is 1.4 ammo the answer is that that diagonal is 1.4 from corner to corner if you're using a paper thin object but since the shulker was very thick and it had a rim as you can see over here so it couldn't fit in the 1x4 diagonal so mellow this should fold it you could break it into two pieces into two parts this is one part and behind was another part and it came apart says the gemara this okay how can you possibly fit one ammo into a one ammo mikvah says the gemara mai kushio what is your big hash beyonce we had this yeah in chaves this is the mikvah what's the problem the problem is maybe the tummy a kinda stomach whatever touched it something to happen over there you have to take the whole shulhan and dunk it in the mikvah once you prove that the mik that the shulkhan breaks up in the pieces maybe was salad and here's a mikvah that doesn't contain 40 saw this mikvah contains 6 000 saw six thousand saw you could put a whole house in here you could be total anything you want just put it right in this is not such a great picture i was looking for a better picture because you know when we learned to say i'm sure this is the best i had then i think as well but they had i think 12 cows that were made out of copper that held this thing up it was a beautiful piece it's a whole but anyway it was 150 times 40 saw great so here we go it says in the mishno you shouldn't have less than four cups this we're going to go on a beautiful sugyo way to end off sahim it's not to then but there's a few daft here the sugi of zugos appears it's a superstitious thing sort of it's a ruthless thing zugus says that since we have wanakadesh barucho we are mahped on doubles on pairs to show that we believe in one one and the idea is sakana sakhan it's very dangerous it's dangerous to your health and you could be over on venus passing the tire you have to take care of your health you have to diet exercise and not mess with shaytan they're dangerous as we'll see point it out more tomorrow as the generations went by as much as the generation had the kedusha you have the opposite the polar opposite when you have a lot of gedusha you have a lot of tomo you have a lot of these these forces hardly play a part in our day-to-day life today you see from the gemara they shade them in the shoulder mask and you go one person two people three people as the ducha leaves the tomah leaves with it as well and finally i just want to tell you a spin on this ishviisha this famous shot ish is alefuchin if you remove the yod you have h fire he shows alex shin hey if you remove the hay you have ace fire if they're not they'll just consume each other they'll burn each other out if you insert the banana shell element to it you have the yud and the hey shem hashem the question is how can you already know the answer i just said the answer but how could a man marry a woman and how could a woman marry a man in zoukas in fact in arizona it's called the zug they're a couple it's a problem shouldn't it be a problem unluckily to have two and the answer is there's three you have to put into the picture when you put it into the picture the two letters h turn into three the partnership two becomes three and you don't have a zook i just got one of those nunu i'm not gonna say who was but somebody says very very close to me what about them correct yeah but are you a shadow when you get married who's yours he created three created that person i'm saying in the marriage in the marriage okay but i'm talking about the two versus three the three versus two what are you saying abby right oh he's he's he's saying for carrots he's saying that the two you're reducing it from two to one and i'm i'm increasing it to three okay here beautiful that's why you have your marriage experience one plus one equals three believe it or not how can you have four cups of wine two plus two equals four it's a cicada you can't do two four six eight those are no those numbers aren't good in other words when you eat two apples not good you have to eat a third anything you should not take two vaccines it's not good anything too not good relationship two never if two shots of whiskey not good only three villa connectre going to the bathroom wiping twice now not good sakana it's a stroke of tray matter relations twice not good omer nachman oh my crow it's not a problem that's they asked shyless what about the egg you peel an egg it's overnight mazzy no tonight you don't people in fact leave the door open depends where you live of course but live in this decent neighborhood leave the door open let us start it seems like this doesn't it's not only in lilo cedar in general the bracha the third cup of the dollar cuisine which is berkeley you can use it for plus but not for a minus it's always for the good it doesn't add up to four in other words if you have four kaisei's but one of them is the kosher broccoli it's as if you just drink three cups you reduce it like he said it goes down from four and if you have a zog you have two cups then it increases at the three it depends on what you want to use you want to use it for the good or be good you want to use it for not for good question that's it's a trick in kosher broccoli each cup stands for something else completely mitzvah hold on let's go a little fighter each one is its own mitzvah and that's why ashkenazis inspired him on every single cop which this fired him don't right talks about it so because the ashkenazim hold that each one is its own individual mitzvah we're not combining these two things they're not com they're not they're not they're not one of trey amay we had this idea earlier a few days a few days ago if he doesn't have intent for two times it just happened so how do they how do they connect why is it you're right they don't it's talking about zuka's beforehand if you eat two things by the way just remember now when i was a child my father introduced me to the idea of zugus when i cracked an almond on on pesach you know with those nutcrackers and inside were too and told me don't eat it zugus i didn't know he's talking i'm serious you're talking about dicta kaden that no don't eat it or he's i think he might have said give one to one person one you don't need two twins i was a twin by the way what chop chop what oh well i i think i think my father knows the stuff we'll see you cannot drink two drinks or have two foods two almonds and then have relations affilo pamachas even if the relations are once dilma challenge umitra because it could cause him to become weak and it'll harm him have a wonderful [Music] is hold on a second let me say hello to everybody hi guys how's everybody doing real quick real quick no he says the father takes away from them what here's your name i said it today three times [Music] he doesn't steal no not this tell them to be irie the eerie and the rambam not it's not in here he's not you're not going to find it in there but the emir and the rambam talk about the kids stealing from the father that's where i found it the eerie tom demi in the rambam hey larry larry pearl's on beautiful good morning larry can you tell me a secret don't you don't have to talk just pick up your fingers how many times a day does mark ashkenazi call you i don't see your finger he's not answering me are you not calling him mark mark are you not calling [Music] yeah i'm not a rob but i'm not a rogue that's what i said slimy i said that in cheers you didn't hear somebody asked somebody asked could i buy a ticket and i said i said i that's it that's what i was alluding to i couldn't say it and share but a guy said could you could you buy a ticket for your wife i said are you going with her or not that's the answer it depends if you're going with her hey it's very hold on a second i gotta i see devered veer nedwin mazeltov it's amazing welcome to the club you should know it's not a joke not a joke everybody told me oh it's going to be so this or that it's it's something unbelievable the kid consumes your head i don't know why it's like non-stop it's unbelievable first-time grandparent first time