Daf Yomi Pesachim Daf 103 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rabbi sai lunch massimi rossi rosemary today's share is sponsored by a rumifeld liliness mass over moisture ben avraham's chronologue i have here somewhere i think i think i printed it maybe not you know it might be in one of these which one yeah yeah yeah i just received a very long after i don't know if i printed it there's so much this new printer garrison okay i guess i didn't print you know i can read it off my thing but okay somebody has that basically this girl how old is this girl she's eight years old she has a tumor right above her heart and her father just wrote to the islam that he's very appreciative that everybody sing to him and he said that maybe we could do this this eight-year-old that has a tumor above her heart we could do felicia belave the varmint should believe and work on philos to be macabre and be much more fila and like this will give her a full slam and remove a tumor above the heart i've had a disclose of the learning but if everybody could be me beautiful this is from hi i hope all is well with you my father's been learning with uh with you via torah anytime from new york for a while now he's been doing the daffy me for years and he has even completed shots i've been so inspired by my dad for making this daily commitment for so long now but your share has not only made him grow more but has brought such happiness and funny stories to his day during this pandemic i know it'd make his month if you'd be able to get some sort of shout out during this year as i've heard you read the emails out loud e ackerman so rabbi ackerman your kid sends you a shout out great and this one is by morty ness he's spoken about this in the past and he's on it again as always this year's a top notch and it's delivering visuals and ability to keep the deaf enthusiasm going i know you get many suggestions yet i think the following one is very important it's not a new idea in fact it's been suggested already since the inception of the daf yet for whatever reason it never took hold everyone knows the dive cycle doesn't finish us in fact it only goes through about two-thirds of shas what a bummer we thought we finished sas and he's just let us know that we're missing a whole third the other third the boko haras and zero i'm entires are left undone it seems to me that if anyone can fix this challenge would be the amazing mdy family that includes you if you want to be back on the team you have to take this on the in-house statistician rip david can calculate exactly how many mishnais you would need and the in-house singer could also nah just then they're done each day to complete the entire shots at the end of the day dive cycle it's probably not more than one or too much nights a day anyway that's his suggestion you like it so wondering too much nice we finished the entire shots in seven and a half years this night can be presented i know that you have too much to do so maybe somebody else could take it on throw it on the youtube i yeah i could do also the hummus here no no after the homies we'll do this plus consider all the expansive strips for more schneider ness oh i just want to show you real quickly hawkhouser came came to my house yesterday to deliver manas and in doing so uh he made a high with me i also wanted to show you my new ceiling in my office this is my ceiling my office if you want to see that's david hulkhauser you like you see yeah it's amazing you said you noticed it from the marquez we're just going to bring we're going to bring i did it in a way that we can bring it raboisai today we have one of the most colorful sugars in shas today is def gimbal and we are discussing what happens this year yontif it comes out of the master shabbos so what happens is you have to make avdala for shabbos and you also have to make kiddush for yantev besam we said we'll take out of the picture according to the regen according to rashbam it's a problem with nashua as we discussed yesterday tyson says if it's a problem so if you're losing your neshama say how come after yanta if you don't make a baby named summit you lost rashford says you haven't ashamed going into yantev comes up with a shot that no you don't have an ashamed serial on yantev it's but the reason why you don't make some is because we eat a lot we have nice food and wine so melodies okay fine so that something's out of the question the question is what order do you do it in it's kiddus first or abdullah first that is the main main macholicus now let me show you don't be shocked this is amazing i mean let me take a peek at whoa this is the much like this right over here and we expect everybody to know this about by the time share is over so we have like this so let's take out the props for a second you can look see it over here maybe you'll get rid of this guy yeah we'll go through it soon and you shall see yeah yeah just move it put it on the table so we're gonna go from this side to this side here okay mandy you're in charge of this yay we got from david holder a bottle of wine what else do we have here and i have this device that took a very long time to produce that's going to go over here what else oh we have kiddush kiddish next what do we have oh we have abdullah this goes where over here you're in charge of the dollar what are we missing here oh we're going to make it more we're going to make it more gabaldic but this is my nerd i have to admit it's a little schmack tomorrow morning 16 boxes of nero is coming in the mail straight from new york from zfat the big one i actually have a rebbe in there listen we're not done yet we're not done yet since i said here you go this is a very very interesting sugar oh you don't understand how many prototypes i went through to get to this i don't know is it two no we gotta go like this that's better okay what we got goofo is so this year mama shia what do you do you can pick one of these eight cheaters right over here so the main mach like this is what comes first what'd i say i was waiting for you for a couple of days few people told me that you used to be a caterer in new york is that true yeah you came there to stroll this sadly right over here makes hundreds of meals for the needy for shabbos and yantef you should just know we have sadiq in the crowd so ishikaya and i also had the pleasure of having his son for shabbos my friend my son's friend so beautiful all right the main like is what comes first kiddush or abdullah because we're at we're at matsushab as we have to say goodbye to shabbos and welcome yanthiv what's more important what comes first you might want to welcome yantif to yantev and not pretend that chavez is a burden a masui and kick it out so first you do kidus or shabbos is more important it's the king and when the king leaves you have to baglet how do you say by late in english you have to accompany the the king and yantv's is the less madriga it's like the the archer calls it a duke the gemara says i didn't know what the word is duke fight it's a little less sian kiddush now wain so this is a big part of it and if you see over here a lot of a lot say in these three iron because the iron is total this we drink all the time so this comes first then comes kiddish why because we're bringing in the new geducha before we kick out chavez let's bring in the show and then comes ner so abdullah is last now always in every have a dollar every av dollar ner comes before have a dollar this is just the the the bencardius so there comes first comes before kidus so this is the source this is the big machog is right over here so therefore mendy you have to move the nair and the half dollar and you have to get the kiddush you go over here you know what i'm just gonna do myself you guys are a bunch of hold on never here we go there goes over here oh tazoi what's this far over here because yang comes first it's toddler half dollar comes first the king is leaving we got to get we got to say goodbye to the king and there comes before abdullah sundar and abdullah and then kiddish comes at the end first we have to say goodbye to shabbos the king is leaving and now we're going to welcome the duke that's that next rabbi varaba omar on top of them oh hold on i forgot it's very important we got to do this this is mama's whoo what are you saying judo in here okay fine say there's what's going on over here oh yain yain comes first toddler because we are going to say goodbye to shabbos first and then ner and kiddush because we have to make we have to break up have dull and kiddush they can't be together so we're breaking them up velvee omar kanye now this is okay so now we're going back the kiddush comes first it's better to to welcome the new kadusha you don't want to throw out chavez so quickly it looks like it's a it's a masui and then there yeah yeah yeah we're on levy right now levy no no where's the no wine is not yet wine is over here and abdullah now what's going on here yes you look inside i'll do this all right we are back so we have kiddush comes first we welcome we welcome yanteff and abdullah now why is ein over here all right now yayan is very important because half dollar a voice i have dollar must be done on wine unlike kiddush kitty shikido on bread so i want to show that the wine is part of the habdullah and not so much part of the kiddush in other words i'm bringing it closer over here even though it's todd there and it should be in the front because i want to show that it's together with abdullah i'm bringing it to abdullah now our boys very something very important is happening i'm getting rid of this i'm bringing hush of a battle here there's only two people that are laughing it's because they gave this to me as shahmanis it's a beautiful boss 5 600 shekel i don't know i didn't even look i know it's expensive battle fight they got it for 200 and now i think it's on it's about five six hundred shock about it's very expensive beautiful battle and that we're going to use for the second part the other thing we could do is because we're doing that it's very important no no a new killer cup this i got from my wife and my sema shots my first team ashas so it's very very crucial i'll tell you what my wife does soon we're going to get there she actually drinks most of the wine she's into the i'm not going to repeat all right yeah you're in charge of this hello is there a machoices here hello okay kino is kiddos yay oh yeah it's dripping all over the closet actually i knew i should have brought a plate okay let's do this fine yeah yes yes you're welcome to come see arikino what's going on here so we got kiddush yayan because we want the wine to be associated with havdolo and uh but this is this is the sailor of abdallah in in regular shabbos how do we do regular shops do ya have dolla so now we have to say the normals say they're going on great martho mar schmidt nihak niyak wow okay so that goes like this nihak what comes after there kid oh i skipped explaining as we go on am i ready to have an elmer nikhil nair because look at the end of the day daenerys is not associated really without a dollar if you could do a you could do an air bury mario ages take a coach for the candle for the light that he gave us nothing to do really um and and and and what are you what are you bumping into first you're bumping into hashem's light hashem created light a fire uh massive shabbos so we say no kiddush that goes back to the macholicas do we do have a dollar first because kiddush comes first because i'm bringing in not no we're not talking about why we're talking about killers i'm bringing in yantef and then yayan goes for the half dollar so abdullah stays there that's great omar and schmidt where am i here okay what's going on here the yayan goes first of all he says abdullah goes before kiddush that's number one this is this is the make my flag is right we have to say goodbye to the king before we say hello to the duke so abdul comes first and the i in this is well we want the wine to be closer to here we can't separate them so in mela the wine has to be part of kiddush part of abdul so we put the wine here and there is by itself like we said before i don't know what's going on i have all these cheaters i have seven sheathes which one should i pick guess what he told them i love this and this dopamine is great so again we got to separate the abdullah from the wine from the from the kiddush we want to separate them and we want the wine the wine is more important to be with with with no that doesn't work no no no side no it's more important for the wine to be with abdullah so uh yeah so we want maybe the shot is we want the wine to be together with both it should be they should be there should be wife for abdullah and wine for kiddush if you put the wine over here it's far away from the kiddush if you put it over here you get wine for both you yield to both things and the narrator like we explained before there is on its own obviously you have to if you don't have bread you do yeah so melee do it in between yeah okay is the first one we don't care about there and there is by itself the king is leaving and the duke is coming in so think about it in real life if a king is leaving what do you what would you do where would you go the batman subway is here i didn't realize so you have to go with the king and the pakistan will be second so i'm a law i do i do abdullah first and kiddus second my hobby okay so that's that now i have a very clutch of this after show everybody this is this is what you do shots with right you have i don't know if you're familiar i don't you know what i do with this that's what i do with it fine that's dumb forget i'll show you so when you're being mighty somebody every once in shock no because this lasted me for six years i got that from you did you i just oh my gosh i hope he doesn't watch this let me take it back okay anyway anyway it's a mess but when you might see somebody you should be sitting you should be sitting what does the islam do here during abdullah they stand there they sit does anybody sit here in this room you sit oh there's a bunch of people that sit very good the machabur says you should sit by abdallah because it's being mighty other people that's what it says jeremiah ever says the sins we just mentioned that abdullah is to say goodbye to the king when you say goodbye to king nobody sits when you take it by the king you stand and that's why the the big men against the stand i actually said because the grossett sat and mimaela that's that all right now think about it look at this you see this top sheet though this is rav yod ko of noon hey what does that sound like yak nahas so abbay and rava go with rav and they say yak nail but if it's the first day biante you should stick in zman you should stick in shakianu so abbay omar i messed this up yesterday i i think i forgot something over there this man maybe yay we're very familiar with rava jaqen has why because in fact so what do we do we say s and only afterwards we say goodbye to shabbos not like the marshall of a king in the duke so half dollar is at that almost at the end what what does what's this what of his man at the end we're gonna see in a second um so why what's all mach like is where do you put so it's very simple on a regular yantef if you don't have mata shabbas what do you do you say kiddush and at the end of kiddush you say shakhianu so shakhiano goes after kiddish but there's two ways of looking at it you could say according to rava shakhino goes at the end not after this at the end it happens to be there's nothing else there so it's at the end so immediately when you have other stuff you put shakhianu atten abbay says no shahianu comes after kiddush so he remains after kiddush it's not at the end it's after kiddush then you add the other stuff afterwards but rava says no on a regular yantef the this is the end shakhian is the end so put it at the end obviously it's not the end there's just nothing else there but happens to be it comes after kiddush that is this far you hear mandy yeah it's better okay rav owner barry you who the eclair a nothing to do with kiddush we could get rid of this not that bottle my friend not that battle if you loved me you wouldn't drink it we're in the middle of sherry we're middle learning toyota rav would i bury you with the equality rover iceland come out your marbson when avi and norm come over we'll have a we'll have a think of one isaac and my mob summit what do we do on mother shabbos for boise how do we do what do we do first samim or barbara mariesh salman so they brought the barbarian summing bar krav about some in beresford first they made a broken summon in bahadur what are you doing rather everybody agrees when there's still and they both say the same thing so what are you doing they both say the first candle there comes some umahi where do you see this this not it says in the mishnah nerum if a person was eating and they realize he only has one cup of wine and he has to do it he has to use it for bigger muslin like we had yesterday and he has to use a five dollar what should he do you should do all of them in one shot do you bring some muslin and have dollar one chat so what's to say there at varam ner first comes candle so what are you saying salmon first neru umazo bissam vavdal what's first ner first comes the candle ubisome wasn't bad you're all wondering so why do we do something first that's the next line on iraf about survivor omar says rove i'll tell you look at that mishna the mishnah is anonymous so the explanation of the mishnah is based under on an anonymous time who's the mr anonymous in in almost nice ruby mayor who's the tan and not mister ava budo and then you do have why so this is the concept of a my vienna mitzvos and it's all discussion fine we're not going to go into it first first minister that by you you're you're finishing up to eat you had to eat fur you finished eating so that's the first mitzvah do the first minutes of saying breakfast what comes first the light or the can or or something more this is like a real minute like a real it became a takana quebec so the way rib youth explains mach like is in basement imagine you get to be by the god of the lord's house you see all these interesting stuff so he asks him three questions about his manhattan what's going on here boy priya geffen acosta come he's there for the whole shop it seems like so he sees rubber making a broccoli coffin right in the beginning of the meal like we do and then afterwards he made another burrito that's what we do right we make another broccoli prior to it i'm like yeah i've been on behalf of i saw this by the raj galos i don't ask any questions very good of course you saw this at the rich ghost it's different the rich ghost's house and your own private house do something might sell on something islam you have no idea if he's going to offer you another cup of wine so when you made a broccoli on one cup you made it on one cup and then afterwards that's it you received das they brought you another cup now you have to make another bra that's what we discussed yesterday right if you don't know that you're going to have another cup so that's it yum cfdas you see the biggest amount you see what's going on you know that there's going to be another cup of wine it's your house so one broccoli should be enough let's remember this line over here tell me the derivative because we're going to have it again tamira says you should they say you should make another bracha they're a bright novel sitting in for all the mdy team and those who want to be in the mdui team and those are gazettes they used to be on their nd when they got kicked off in the mdy team in the everyday lives another guy had some gazettes i had three guys on this table that came to me battalis this morning then why am i not mentioning their name they're part of the team not going to mention anybody's names but they heard your voice oh you're happy wow he's happy no he's saying because i used to drop off and say by the way i'm flying tomorrow to america you have to say sure i'm not missing anything sponsored for first nightmare for holly's role especially for our ndy family and especially this young eight-year-old girl who has a heart tumor right above her heart please consider joining the mdy talent group tohilum.8mindaf.com what's your name malcolm basheva to come down to earth it's very very difficult when you have a kid like that in the hospital it's unbelievable all right talk to you morrow i know it's all you user's granddaughter he sponsored a share for her a while back a few like two weeks ago no what is it what's his name again nothing remember what the grandma's granddaughter unbelievable [Music] he said let's bench as soon as you say let's bench you lock it up and then they said let's drink you're not going to drink anymore so what happens today and it happens all the time in a meal you don't have to say rabbi sane all you need to say is let's finish up the meal's over let's go it's time to go to sleep take a nap that's it so you lock up the meal basically then you say you know what let's have some desserts i just saw i forgot what it says do you remember what said libby somebody somebody said i saw yesterday that somebody was saying that when it comes and you were asking me what about my wife when it comes to these things the wife is in charge she's the baller boss because a person is saying that's on his wife and also he says well what are you benching this dessert you know what happens all the time she's in charge so you soyment us on the wife bring out dessert fine that's that i have a different whatever no can go there fine no my son joseph is asking castro you're also saying who says that he's masking to that but he just reminded me my son came home the other day he said i was playing basketball the guy that looks just like you he's a tough guy he's he's i'm a little kid i'm four years old he's rebounding over me and he's dunking on this nine foot basket and i said that's the also if that's that's your safe he's a tough yes it was a tough guy that's why he has this child it all goes together fine anyway zogde gemara thanks for inviting me to that game by the way zogling tomorrow so the r rationing rush bound both here say that once he says rabusani vareik it's also for him to eat and drink and if he wants to eat and drink he has to make another bracha he makes another bracha but he only has to make one birkasa mason on everything the chocolate says baskins that you have to make a broccoli shaitan and any kind of any time you decide that you're that's it you're done or you you do some i don't know what you do something that that breaks it up you have to make another brah the misha brewer says that you don't have to say the meal is over as long as in your head you think this i can't wait until these guests go let's let's finish up this meal that in your head stops the meal says rebel yashev i love this one vyachev says that we don't have enough das in our days to make ahez kadas i'm not kidding that's what he says we don't have enough dust to be going with us the meal is over we're so wishy-washy this comes in all let's eat another thing let's eat another piece of cake like that no i'm just saying a hundred percent he managed to understand it talk for yourself my friend he threw everybody under the bus like that all right zog de gemara i'm just thinking he says the one word he knows sitting in a sudo a neymar marzutro and ravashi vikaya layu again there was a waiter there his name was the son of rava not a pastor a meme this guy's head was spinning he didn't have the eight cheetahs but he has three sheathers right in front of him in front of him amer made a broken every every time he drink a cup of wine in the middle of the meal he's making he's making uh a bracha now says he's talking about a weekday we're not even talking about the shabbos a dinner tuesday night dinner the drinking barley barbarian often knock him out five minutes later bye break off it um did something in between he made a bracha in the beginning and then he made it he brought him by breaking somebody baraka caused the kama of his sulay beraf he only made one bracha something like we would do probably i'm lost here i don't know what to do what should i do every cup one cup or once in the beginning one and that then the problem that i have was that i was messier i didn't realize i'm gonna drink if you know that you're gonna drink five cups you make one bracha i personally in my mind i had i thought i was only gonna drink one and all of a sudden i got thirsty again i know the abdication of the rav so remember tamida the rav once you say havon venavarak that's it so you have to make another bracha i already signed it all right i don't like them one brock is enough and i'll prove it to you does this sound familiar this year pesach the first night of say there is mutsy shabbos shiloh i have a question for you what's the cedar of avadalo this year what are you thinking you have eight options these eight options and what does rob say tapshito yakino what do you see from here there's only one yaan right over here one yayan there should have been another one five dollar this is the marvel that's not a great raya the fact that he only made one cup of wine over here he's holding in one process of making the broccoli so it's not like you because of muslim where you're stopping you're making a hard stop by bigger salmon you're benching you're saying that's it the suit is over now you have to make another brother but over here you're doing one kiddush one to do choice i should say so now we're continuing the story with rava and who was it revyakov barabo came and he lit a torch mishra from a candle now what's a torch torch has like we know it has two like not my lousy thing here let's see if you can find it here kids there's somewhere in between and somewhere in here there's two two things here okay okay whatever now what's the what's the point of an avocado avuca has the three the three colors red yellow and white because you have a lot of things going on it gives more different colors if you have one little candle it could be one color like a white or a red you don't really have all three that's that's what they say that's how they master that it's that's a better light it's more it's like because the fire shows what is plural very good maui is plural the different colors in the fire um why are you being matriarch yourself as a rubber why what's wrong harmonica straga you have a candle just do both on there it seems like grover was avoiding the question the chavez did it now some i saw some explain the murder actually has a whole that robin misunderstood his question is deeper someone to say that he wanted to give him the the the you want to get him into it give him this horse of going on fine omale eloise if you're i don't i don't buy it that the shamish is doing it on his own what he's in the golador's house and he's starting to make big flames and stuff he obviously heard something from you le have of it you're right it's better to do within avuca with two with two with two wicks because of the red white and yellow puzzle of omar hamad so we're very familiar with this in abdullah we have we have seven nafkaminas benkoi digital hall benner for one review only said one of them is it shouldn't be less than three and not more than seven on my level what's going on with you you should either you should be exact three or seven they explain why it's very exact numbers the one of the four is exactly what we're saying in the final bracha by the way just real quickly it's eight o'clock could you do boy h on a light bulb well it depends a fluorescent for sure not an incandescent bulb incandescent bulb some say why not it's light this is what you bought who created some say not but in their destroy people should be mahmatu i think they're mahmur anyways because it's usually created through hill shabbos and you're not going to make a bracha or moyra age on something that was created from chavez not really okay not really have a wonderful day [Music] if physical shabbos if it's a close-up you can't make a brook on it huh [Music] um [Music] well it's not so much from the market says just do it on the candle you have a candle it doesn't say you should turn the candle off oh hold on it's like you're lighting it hey have a great day great day guys [Music] what is the reason that one says that it has to be separated uh one from the other has to be in a certain order i i i don't understand this doesn't sound like the gemara is giving the reason why which one you're asking a particular one or or in general no no on any of them it's not it's not nice it's not nice to put it's not nice to put so to speak to put two dishes together you're like trying to get rid of the duchess one one after another so you break it up you put another bracha in there then the big question is which kedusha comes first should i say goodbye to shabbos or should i say hello to yantev that's the major question [Music] what the meaning [Music] yeah you dip it into the wine ah the mini gets the dip into the wine yeah i know and then you smell the candle you say huh we used to i used to put the wine in my pockets exactly [Music] what happened today i probably don't hear there's too much noise here i put on a white shirt to make a good impression for us but then in the middle of this year i started getting text messages no i can't do it i can't do it that's it mgy makes people go after that i want you to talk to me about making a good impression where is he where is he today ellie elliot i have an old line that you're not the baller oh