Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 90 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning round boys series was Mordechai last night was a phenomenal phenomenal success as the first first night of mdy kids 90 kids showed up 90 kids you've seen the picture about 77 kids and there's another road behind and then more kids came in after this picture it was on every seat in the house was taken literally every seat and then some [Music] here it is it's beautiful beautiful coming up with the idea and for Gary and for all those and love it gold and it's going to be basically I'm a huge huge success we every day we're getting emails we still I still got emails this morning I'll read some of them this is not gonna get to that something else Michael chassle something like that rebelli mdys creating incredible apples in the world I know firsthands my family and I love South Florida Sunshine to spend this past Chavez with a couple of my New York kids at a vacation rental Woodbury New York next to Carousel my kids and I litvax were the only ones in show Friday night without pace and shrimals we definitely still have like sore thumbs it wasn't long before we were welcomed by many of the locals has sitting with hearty good Chavez's one of the guys asked me where I'm from and I said Miami yeah so you're going to the mdycm I said of course and asked you listen to her belly you said sure oh I asked him do you listen to Bailey he said sure a lot of us do I told him I bought VIP passive for the scene the day they went on sale he thought he's going to try to make it to the seal he then invited us to join him at the house Shabbos lavish kid dish we talked about the sheer good wine and of course the phenomenon of mdy family thank you my Newcastle friend Avi thank you rebelli for helping bring us closer to coming up by creating the mdy family it's like many in this year have been going back to the beginning of review now started reviewing some of the Shabbos when I got to that you'd base I heard a beautiful email from Michael bench and grit which I believe was his first ever email to mdy when you listen to it I'm sure you'll agree that it's as he predicted then exactly what's going on now I looked it up first of all I was I was choked up the entire time I believe that's the death that we left the base measures shopping base that was the first day of covid the official first day I think I didn't go back before that but basically Michael says I know that it's a broken that you had this big base murder-ish and it's closed down but you should know that because of the internet was going to make it grow even more and more that's what he says and then he says to the point listen to this revised it's amazing to the point we're gonna have to make sieum around the world Michael benches truth Shabbos the viewed base 5 minutes and 50 seconds in check it out you're not gonna believe that's what he says gonna make satellites see um around the world and here we are today just two days before three days before the big Seal two days two days before the Big Sea of Miami which he predicted three years ago he predicted Miami in there Miami okay check it out Miami this is from Michael I don't know how to pronounce his name Ben Street something like that dear raps the fanski with hashem's help I finished shots this past January and made a beautiful SEMA shots although I belonged to a local dafyami group I also watch a sheer as soon as I wake up in the morning since I believe our days empowered when we learn before davening and of course I watched them like many I noticed your feelings of sadness and disappointment past couple of eurom since your local group has been reduced no joke now we're down to almost nothing but as we all know Hashem has a plan although he expressed concern about losing the momentum that you created locally please understand that the flip side is that now you are creating exponential and momentum globally now more than ever when many of us are working from home there's more opportunity than ever to learn by using technology of course we want we all want this Mac gay for 10 as soon as possible but in the interim you should be so good to have your share spread globally and even faster rate than the covid-19 has spread globally and have no doubt the once this craziness is behind us you'll have created momentum book locally and globally well above and beyond where you were a few days ago about Hashem you'll have to create satellite locations for all the upcoming human to accommodate all of you tell me them I traveled Israel for work and Hashem the next time I'm there I'll be sure to stop in for an in-person share or two and give you a hug a non-corona hug with much love and appreciation Michael benstrith I hope that's how he pronounces Miami Florida beautiful hi I'm Rosenberg my 11 year old son very much wants to join the mdy kids program to complete mcgilla before Purim but I see it's only available for local kids in Israel we live in Monte New York am I correct thank you so there's another guy there's another guy from Monty that wanted to do it so wanted to get together two days ago I read an email from somebody that wanted to get to start up khaim Rosenberg get together with I forgot the guy's name and do it still Shane regarding the mdy kids program so many kids want to be part of it I would like to suggest that there should be one big remote program for kids this way every kid in the world will be able to join the program one raffle one organizer one system to sign up one place to donate I would give a thousand dollars at the start the remote mdy kids program Anonymous from Lakewood Shane he says on the top no look he wants to be anonymous but Anonymous from Lake is already taken you can't be that name so you're going to be anonymous be from uh Jackson I don't know not as a jet Lakewood is taken he gives ten thousand dollars every month and items from Lakewood sometimes 20. he he he he earned that name don't try to copy try to cop I'm gonna say your Tesco Shane I'm calling you out what your comments on being the first to make Shalom reminded me of an idea I once heard when we say it's a Solomon Raymond at the end of an essay if you want to hear about the Shabbos they spoke about the mishnah that says that the father was in a fight with his son-in-law which is a very common thing and I told Islam they should get out of there gaiva drop the ego and be the first one to make that step to make sure so he says it says over here take three steps back it's a hint toss that sometimes we need to be the first to take a step back in order to make sure of Yeshua cats David and Manchester and your talmudson now just to be clear here I believe that in all these and especially in family we have two brothers fighting you have a father-in-law no one wants everybody wants to make peace it's just that they I'm not gonna be the first one to say it and it's his fault anyway so what you do is you just humble yourself and you have to go and ask mahila you say I'm 100 wrong even though you know that you're 100 right you're 100 wrong and like this you can speak to your kids and your Grant you because we're a bunch of them I know people have died without speaking to the grandchildren ever how you talking are you gonna go up to Shaman you think they're going to be with you oh he's the girl at the door who didn't speak this whole family shite them it's a little guy of him I'm just a little humble just give in you'll be the first one be the man you'll be the first one unbelievable by moisha Heller how would you call a silent Observer I've been watching for a while never commented but after today's death I felt you must respond and you must and you missed a huge vart lame day mdy all took a side in I'm going to quote a screenshot from resist the joke as the talmud of yours it says like this I buy all my sneezing High Enough uh you have it's all about the yomi I want to be myself the bride's Italian sometimes you say my wife I don't know if that's what he meant this guy but maybe it's my wife I can't go to the sheer who's gonna take care of the kids in the morning my wife doesn't let me I have to make the sandwiches if you tell the time I've been as soon as a problem you gotta do the yummy let's go so listening to you daily and definitely you're a big part of my Netflix shout out to abduly schwarzemer who introduced me to share best my schwab entire ly yeah some of you I remember like these guys no that's all you want to finish that sentence um I don't know if we have time for this one it's a long one [Music] Misha Handler what is he saying here ah he wants to make sure he was a big dream of him to compare this role so he booked tickets and then he found out they were going to be in America he wants to know if I can come back by February 9th well try the hardest much Handler at the beginning of the sheer matisy Shabbos there was a mention about a special book to be given to all and attendance in Miami is there a possibility that for those who can't make it to either of the largest human when compared to this artwork book on himself if so how can it be arranged thank you Elio nyman a Muncie mdy participant so yes we had a bunch of inquiries already the book is amazing sponsored by Leon welcher huge huge part of this year he's a ointment of ice they told me already vomits they want to print your vomis now you want he printed this he not only did he pay for it he got the the best printer etc etc and he has a dream that these sperm are going to go out in the world they're going to be gamorus with these pictures the whole thing one day we'll see upon him they are pretty expensive to print and that's why I said that maybe there should be like a a print option for local CMM the Muncie guys could do it themselves print like 20 30 copies I don't know it came out like the ten dollars a piece maybe 15 in shipping but yes we we should do something like that we should print it and I don't think we even have enough for the clever here we only have like 100 fair to throw 400 for Miami so we're going to give one to per family over there whatever but it's it's uh it's an expensive thing it's not that expensive but you know five to ten dollars we could yeah so maybe you'll take care of that you'll print it and you'll sell it on Amazon it's a great idea oh Amazon print yeah print on demand okay cool and finally make sure her sent my brother-in-law Israel you also pavlovski of Queens learning the daffo on vacation Florida can't wait look at the weather over there short sleeves swimming pools hot tea that I don't understand okay brought to New York with him or whatever all right the coilover was sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood buy that title I'm sure the anonymous from Lakewood will give it away for five thousand dollars a month he's I know the guy he he doesn't want to be an honest man like but that's his name what he has to pay five thousand dollars a month of it to be not extra no an answer like we'll continue giving whatever he gives he doesn't have to give if he doesn't want to this guy to be anonymous from Lakewood he has to pay five thousand dollars that's my new price by supporting entire strengthen our bit talking The receptors of our fathers is in memory of the slation my dear wife Bello bass I don't know if you remember Lenny but he started learning Toyota with us at the age of 80. how do I remember this because I said over his email on meaningful people and I met him personally in Manchester he yelled at me for saying good grab him but then I reminded him they gave me so then he's my homie anyways his wife should have uh Elena shama Mordechai is one of the questions is who's the most who sponsors the most in mdy it's Mordechai is a puzzling yes on Friday nights for many many years correct he works for yitzy the the guy with the pancakes today but his grandson Perez hi in Levine another guy that has a record close to 600 people he brought to this year by Marcus schenazi revise it listen to this there's somebody that listens to death every single day and he's only 52 years old and he had a terrible stroke Terribles in a comment out and as mishpaka is listening to this year right now they put the share by his ears he's listening right now I left him a message this morning and said Yoni you got to get up you got to get up and his wife said he's gonna be so upset when he gets up all the diamond that he missed so and suppose before slamming for Yona Michael Ben Adina Sima big big should have a full slam him but Christ the sponsor of the art for the month for complete reforms I don't know if there's any room anymore in the Sim in Miami it's up to you we're way over 500 Baruch Hashem mdycm.com for all those if you want to know where it is how to get there sign up for the local ones I don't know how many are on there I know RBS is on there Muncie Lakewood all those guys mdy kids if you haven't signed up sign up I met a kid last night at 10 30 that his father made us see him here he is remind me your name srocher made a first seem in a very long time right in 20 years first team on the dorm in 20 years did it all thing for his family so his son is coming to mdy kids but he couldn't miss his father see him so I know there's going to be at least 91 kids tonight and probably more so if you didn't sign up sign up and join the family.com for if you want to bring a friend to Nazir I did oh official client is in the House official client is sitting all the way then he's from Tower 401 from Miami he helped my son who moved into that building and he's sponsoring today's share exclusive his wife who wasn't upset at him that he woke her up really early in the morning to get here so you should I asked the wife tell everyone look out after my kids still got to see him says we're holding by a beautiful story don't worry oh God bro now in order to remind the oil what's going on here I made a small little chart this is today's sugio until the following Mission yesterday we learned that ribnotson had a mccoychus from nothing holds that in order to do hafara in order for a husband to be made for a father to be made for annul the nether of his wife his daughter it has to be an existing nether that's to be there it's not something in the future So today we're going to see what about when you go to the Rob and ask the rav to unroll your nether does it have the same Allah do we have the same or it's only a Indian in afarah so we're gonna see three shitas Robin says same exact Macho like is just like remnants and holds it has to exist it can be a future a futuristic something that could exist in the future in order to be Mayfair it has to be how she has to be also to her husband she has to be also to Chocolate can't be that in 30 days from now she's gonna be us at the chocolate and you're gonna be made for today that's from nothing the same thing with the trailer when I go to the rabbis and I say hey I made a nether that's going to be held next year they're going to say come back next year and it's how that's relevant rough Poppy this two sheep isn't real Poppy and that's why it gives us a little bit of a freebie because the same questions that we're gonna ask or say that it's a writer a Papi are going to be a contradiction to a puppy depending on what rappapi says on the one hand he says that according to everybody that the nether has to be how in order to go to the Rob and be made for it or the opposite according to everybody you don't need the nether to be like you go to the rub even rivenessen holds you don't need to be held you just go to the roof fine that's today's so good now we have a miser to prove one way or the other says a young guy and he wanted to be a Thomas he wanted to learn Shas want to learn Jesus is the remission According to some of China we want to learn all of gemara he made he made it interesting nether he says I'm not going to get married we can relate to this I'm not getting married until I finish shots another store this is he doesn't learn whatever it is gemara I'm not getting married says gamara he ran with a stick and with his knapsack a little into the missile he tried really hard he didn't finish all shots it's hard it's hard he thought he'll be able to do it meanwhile the pressure is coming in he wasn't able to the Run says here because he tried his hardest mom is his hardest today is the by the way I forgot to say today is the yard side of the maram shikh where I'm Sheikh Yeshiva we learned a lot of maram he's known as being a very very weak Bal kishron not uh not a vacation and he tried really really hard that was his thing his thing was that he worked extremely extremely hard to the point that he came to some Cipher's biggest talmud today he he tried his hardest huh so places hold on I'm getting there am I finished this match yeah Isis says that he was busy with his fruit you have payrolls in other words he's busy with business and that also teaches something if you want to immerse yourself in Torah you want to achieve it's kadai to focus on one thing it's very difficult to focus on a business growing a business and also becoming a town it doesn't work you have to pick he was young and he wanted to learn first because he knew as the round explains that once he gets married he's going to be thoroughed it's going to be hard for him to learn now is Young he's single let him Focus yeah he had a side business you know sometimes Buckle him after side business and that takes away from the focus on learning so that was it reminds me of uhevsky I said this once before but it's good night to say again he was very into all his kids getting married at a young age that's it so one of his grandchildren got engaged in tifraq and they wanted to throw him out of Yeshiva so he said what's what's child what do you want to throw at Yeshiva so they said because there's a condition is it tonight that when you come to YouTube everybody knows nobody gets engaged here at a young age you have to be a certain age to get engaged it's not a good it's not a good night he was doing the business in order to be able to have money yeah yeah oh she's doing the business you don't have money to pay someone to teach him but he was a mistake in the business it was never okay another shot I think southern was enough for us how many times do you want for one thing he's a great shot him a boy's side tomorrow morning at 8 30 we're not from starting his own share there's no talking during the entire diving and we're gonna say three shot in per gamara wherever we can what he likes it he likes it he's fine he's good he's good still good [Laughter] and tricked him he said this guy he's in a big Torah if he gets married he's also in the whole world it's even to a point where the the the the McPherson talk how could he even be married to his wife as soon as he gets married he's also to her he's also have any I know from anything so it's like it's like a hopper that's not a it's not really beer but kids are it's gonna happen to this guy he's stuck here so he tricked him and he says listen it's not a problem you get married get married and then we'll we'll uh we'll get rid of the nether don't worry about it so you listen to him Rebecca told me Rebecca told me he's a Rob he knows Vince if it's a so he he got married Tino the acid this also has three shots I'm gonna say one nothing's gonna say two ah whatever I'll say two here Sharky Tina over here is a picture that Yoshi made where he basically took cement and soiled his clothes one shot is his clothes and basically said okay now what are you gonna do you have to wash your clothes but you can't wash your clothes you have to go to so you have to go to Rob another shot is he covered his face with cement so that they wouldn't recognize him because he wouldn't recognize him because maybe because he recognized him he wouldn't be matters neither another shot I'll say all three nothing okay here we go there's another shot he he put him he this is this is this is my favorite shot he had to remove all his clothes because he's also behind not so you can't wear a jacket it doesn't matter he can't put a blanket on himself he's completely naked so now what do you do you go it's immense no cement that's not how no and he brings him as a clunker cement into the best then here we got we got a piece of cement that wants to be met another can you please be matinee to this piece of cement there's no way there's no way out of it think about it you can't wear socks you can't wear shoes you can't wear a shirt nothing you can't even know from the world he said if I get married which he did he can't have enough from the world I'm gonna do it in a way you're gonna be so bit sad but you're not gonna be not sneeze I'm gonna put some cement on you okay that's one that's another shot that's the rush I'm going to ask the editor to edit his own comment on my Rover we have a problem here he can say whatever he wants I know we can do anything to him it's an issue who who's this smart to play this trick on him what's going on there look at the guy the guy is in front of a business the guys in front of the best so go to the best then before you get married your bucker you made a dumb nether that you can't get married unless you finish shots and you didn't realize how difficult it is it's not a joke it takes seven years for a lot of people and now you want to get married so go to bed and say you made a mistake you see from here now that in order to be matter and nether you have to be in the nether the nether is I'm not going to benefit from the world so how do you do that you get married now you've acted Taurus you can't have enough from the world only now you can go to the best then no but this is a question of so that goes like this cheetah right over here Robert says Michelle very popular no so this is where puppy number one yes you're right this is Shiloh whether the wife has to be in her nether in order for the husband to be made for it there was something about and about me from King Khal nether California so there's no run on this but the beautiful Rashi the before us he says that the khafra is a lotion of hafara because sometimes but you know even read it like that whatever I don't know how they say kids and he brings this Indian which I got excited because in that book of all the pictures of an alarm everybody has their favorite I couldn't believe Yoshi told me some I forgot what it was it was I'm just like oh I don't remember anymore it was like oh yeah yeah I asked him what's your favorite picture you know what he tells me the one where the husband goes like this to his wife that was the one that nobody made a comment nobody made a boo in the room here that was his favorite fine everybody's their favorite and he's the artist my favorite was this this one I I don't know I like that the guy has a mansion the guy's a tennis court see she guy he's getting in shape playing tennis he also has a stickle bomber she has everything in his backyard it's it's you know he doesn't have to go anywhere has the Mikvah in the basement That You Don't See he has the thing is the Bombay could do with this everything's good and he has a stickle Tesla parked on the ramp I call besider I put that card in there not Yoshi okay anyway kill the bottom Car Bomb so he says it's the Russian bana because if a guy makes a nether it's a Binion so what so Robin Nelson learns you have to build it you have to make something you have to do something it has to ask to be a a physical thing not just a debut right but on Savory in other words that the the the nether is already there but I'm sorry not true you're just saying it is enough stop right over here Max your voice it's you do a foreign huh what happened Gary first time in a long time that happened oh it's something there's so many pieces that to make sure that everything was right is a mess every day so okay fine I'm saying hello nether so when it comes to sha'ala cesra Papi everybody is in agreement you need a netheroy the what so where Durant says again the lotion of hallo is what does mean that it happened it happens it occurred that you can't you can't undo the halois of your words but and when women says the run that others the could meaning when it's hell when it's Hallows you cannot undo your halloys you cannot undo when another happen but other people this is how we learned that we said this in the beginning this deposit that we learned that have the right to undo another because you don't have the right do you have the right it's a deal that when it comes to Shay law you have to have a real nether because it says sorry oops here we go so it says two things here number one I will not allow somebody to have enough for me okay it's interesting lotion lip lining I'm not allowing him to benefit from me whatever the Russian is and then he adds he says and if I have to go to the ROV and undo what I just said I'll never benefit from that Rove it's a double whammy it's two two pieces here coin and shading nanole love it's another thing to the road but once I go to the ROV we'll undo it but I won't be able to benefit from The Rock from if I want to go it's either he can't benefit from me that ruvane and if I ever try to undo that I'm making a little trick that I'm gonna suffer in another Direction what does it mean so over here in in this chart Richard means grooving and Cheney means the rabbi [Music] why doesn't nether have to take place to go and do the second part in other words I have to wait undo my nether to my friend then I become also to the Rob then I go and I undo the Israel I have to the rub you boiling slightly problematic who's my love is awesome to me maybe like anybody in the world I go to to be sure I'll become Hospital okay so let's say I designate this Rabbi the Rover my neighborhood let me go and make a hathora on that Rabbi that I'm designating and say that no matter what even if I ask and I undo my friend I'll never be awesome to my rabbi let's take step number two before step number one according to you that it doesn't make a difference that the nether doesn't have to be how over here you see the nether must be hell in other words first I do step number one then the rough becomes awesome to me you see from here that only after a rough becomes awesome to me I have a nether that's in existence then I go and I take a step two and I undo that that's that's where Poppy's saying that everybody's agreement to that says the immortal um take a look at this for a second nothing happened there just to make it more understandable when it comes to the to the hafara who says what we shouldn't change it doesn't say anywhere it says first do the first one then do this you understood because it's in order there's a certain order in the way the Bryce has said it first he put his friend Ruben in in then he put the rabbi if it takes it then it says he went and he was mattered the first one first one can mean now I'll flip it around first of all means he's made the rabbi motor and then the second thing he did was he made his friend mother in other words we don't have a force here that that is talking like you're saying um the first one that is matter soul on his first one that he went in say okay I have another right coin and chaining nanolepointy over here is the same case but he says I'm explaining exactly that if I if I go ahead and I allow my friend ruvane I go to the river and say I want to my friend to benefit from me I really knows then I turned into another and then it says that he first did Step One is he got rid of his friend and then he got rid of his own zeros was starting Us in two days again Segway into the another why does it say that he first asked on his friend and then he became he asked the baddest and the zeros he boiled into the shall be ratio Israel it should be ratio he could do either or he could ask in the zeros first according to you you don't have to be another and then ask on it you could even prevent becoming in Lazar this is tomorrow sunny would it bring me a riot to wrap poppy that everybody's in agreement maybe this goes according to rava and only one of the sheath doesn't rather Rob is the one that says in this case who holds that you have to be another in order to be Charlotte so maybe this whole thing was according to her Blossom you can't prove anything but I do have a proof says so now we're getting to the second lotion of our Papi and we're going to use the same prices that we just had for that I heard from your father completely different or Mayfair whatever you want to say over here Matthew listen in other words yes there's an agreement but the opposite of what you think green before you said everybody holds it to Red it has to be you have to be another it has to take place after the whatever no it doesn't have to take place if a woman made another if a man made a nether anybody made a nether that's going to take place next year you could go over the road before next year and get rid of it you could be shy on it everybody's in agreement even nothing is in agreement so now all the all the rights that we brought to prove poppy are going to be a question on our poppy it's not a proof it's the opposite of happy the what but it's the same questions the world the posix says you shouldn't undo your words the main model does not manage the translation in other words just your words without a miser you shouldn't undo no oh they were using the word devare part but the the very part it's only devara it's only words don't undo your words famous saying a verbal contract is not worth the paper it's written on yeah so it's a real thing your words just words is God over here it says it has a lot of meaning it has a lot of power oh yes who always encourages us to finish us new sponsor is this also a new wording the members of the HPA group and their families are main I thought more people say on Main okay fine yeah what is the HBA group he wants to know in his chair we'll find out May by the way if you give a I'm coming years ago you asked me to take over this if you remember wow it's a mess [Laughter] foreign [Music] we have two things that he said I'm not gonna benefit my friend inshallah love and if I go in ahead and ask a Rob I'll be also to that Rob I won't benefit thereof initial Ali showing again use the loss of research it doesn't say exactly what Richard means we understand it to mean my friend and then he asked he wanted to undo the fact that he can't benefit his Rob he's very sad he wants to give his robe and he can am I he boil I need your operations have to be in a certain order he could do it in any way he was because he just said that according to everybody everybody's in agreement that the nether doesn't have to be how you can be soiled without another being how um maybe this is Richard that's shiny we don't know right it's a little bit of a free because we did it already according to training that I don't know about any noise over here same case I can't benefit my friend and if I do go to the Rob and try to undo that I will become a Nazir I'll just give you a little heads up yesterday I spent a lot of time traveling through slime I met a real full-fledged nuzzle um basically I'm going to show the first day of Nazir which is oh I forgot to tell them tonight tonight I'm recording here in the basement of Base at six o'clock if Gary could do it if not I don't know we'll have to figure out I didn't speak to anybody I'm melting now Baraboo y'all say if you be there Gary if you could come it would be great if not we'll figure something out we maybe do it earlier I don't know but I met on real time nozzer guy wrote Safari and the whole thing interviewed him for an hour so it's a big deal it's not a joke is it if I'm gonna go to the try to get my friend to benefit from me I will become another you know what that means it's an unbelievable thing and today there's no way out of it there's no carbonus you can't go to the basement that's it you're nauseous there's almost no way out of it although he holds he had a trick you found the trick but it's not so positive anyway and so it says first you go you undo the friend and then you undo you into zeros in other words when you under your friend it invokes a nazirus in you you start you know zero step moment once you start in the zeros you go and you ask Gerard to undo it but you cannot do on your you can't undo your you know zeros if it didn't start yet but according to what you just said about my eye you boy Allah now over here you can't say it goes according to one person it goes according to rib Nelson because you just said that it goes according to everybody rapapi said it goes according to everybody it doesn't matter you could be Charlotte on the net there before it even happens see there's no excuse here before we were able to answer it now we can't do that because nobody can go according to you because you yourself or poppy said that everybody's agreement they could go to the road before it starts the bottom line is the the Run says we're born on that the husband could be Mayfair even though the nether wasn't hell not like reminiscent because it's Rebellion against him nothing and a few other eyes but then he says I mentioned that yesterday I think it's a very very powerful line that he says he says it three times so I have to Hazard over at least the second time he says when could a bow be made for another it's very important this if he came just for that when could a Bobby Mayfair wife's nether only something that's a nether that she's 100 going to be over on like when she says I'm not going to help my father ever again you know she's going to bump into me at a wedding and she's going to give him a little bit of the schmort into The Nether and and therefore what says the ran Allah she did the nether today it's kilo she's over there since it's a guarantee it's going to happen throughout her lifetime so she's already over so let it let you be made for it today by I don't know who okay yo Friedman is my dear father there are three women who just say something even though it's their fault they still get exuber ous if a woman says gonna explain we're talking about the wife of a Kind the wife of a coyan she says I was violated by another man she becomes a sister husband but it's not her fault because if she's married listen to what the round says if she's married to Israel she would get a Suba so just because I'm married to you I should lose my super whose fault is it it's your fault the fact that I was violated it's not my fault because if I was married to anybody in the world I would get a full soup of if I was violated so now that I'm married to you it's your fault that I don't get into it what you're right I had the same problem correct but it's the cayenne's fault it's his problem as always looked around I think even though we're a little late I think we must see this around this huge huge production in Torah over here in Iran uh six lines down from where it becomes very very wide Viking at the end of the day when the I'm sorry you know what let's I have to read at least a little part of the mission to explain around now that was in the beginning who knows that you're not able to have children I know something that nobody knows that you're not and therefore you have a physical problem and you can't have children I want a divorce he has to give her exuber they explain it's too painful whatever it is a physical thing for her so she says I'm using all Jews so husband citations they realize that this is a great trick for every woman who hates her husband and wants to get a super wants to get paid out in full tells us you know somebody violated me whatever it is I'm also to all the Jews and maybe they said if she's so sure that she's violated let her bring the police report Etc so stop the uh there's a Mesa with in the pie scheme that a woman said her husband's used mail and doesn't believe there so they said like this they said if you believe her because you have good proof great but if you believe her because you know that she's a believable person then you should know you're not smarter than the mishnah the Misha says you can't believe her because women will say this in order to get out of it and merely can't trust her Hashem if she says from now on the new mishnah from now on if a woman claims that she knows something physical about the husband only Hashem knows so one shot is they should make a suit of pios so there's a great cartoon here I thought this is great here he made a huge sudha and his Mathis sir yeah um if she says I can't have any relations with any Jews should be made for just his part with David okay so let's try to do the round we'll do the gamar tomorrow even though I don't want to do that I want to do the Kumar as well let's just do the rock it's very very very important you saw this in in the Torah I could ask you guys the question right now is it possible for to tell this woman that even though this is an eraser for her to be married to her husband she could continue being married to her husband because I can't do such a thing could there be Ikea what do you mean yeah we know that they could say don't blow a chauffeur it's amazing Rosh Hashanah where did they ever say it could be Shabbos driving a car to be married to your wife could they say such a thing says the round this is that's why it's very very important this round write this round down because to be married to her husband just because you have a very good reason that you should be married to her husband that she shouldn't use this as an excuse but this woman is hiding she was violated and therefore she's also the husband how in the world did he tell her to go back to her husband where did the Easter dissipate to yesterday they have the right to make them be able to get married stay married they had to make it get there they saw things were getting out of hand this ish that's living business with us in his mother they get their God has a tremendous gather there to do so that you shouldn't give a rise in somebody else to force him to divorce her shoes they have the permission because but it's uprooting something in the Toyota so they can only do it don't don't Blow shuffle only for a certain moment caramel of a thirst like this is for future Generations when they like Ashley says Duran that's a great question but I don't have the questions she was never married to this guy she never married this guy she's a lab but what about a nothing in the mom's there iron in the round right there but anyways unbelievable you saw it in learning have a wonderful day