Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 82 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Mordechai from an anonymous 10 year old fan in Brooklyn ten-year-old fan that learns the doctor every day from afar look at the attached videos here we go all right good so there A lot of times we we go over to people we say hey you want to come to the dove I'll tell you when I was watching this video I was thinking about Dr factor I met him four years ago come do the daf no three years later how many times did I ask you to come to the death annoyingly alive annoyingly a lot check this out this is not about the daf but it has everything to do with the dive because same exactly if you go to somebody and you get turned down like I did without a factor have no fear all right so I just want to tell you about 12 years ago I don't know are you familiar with Rabbi cats in Lincoln Road yes a little bit yeah so I used to have a store by Lincoln Road and one Sunday it was about 12 years ago I was walking in Rabbi cats asked me if you want to turn you put on till today first he asked me are you Jewish I said yeah you asked me you put on film today now I grew up from ytc University and for I don't know after I graduated you know things happened and I hadn't probably put on children in a couple of years wasn't proud of it but I said to him I said you know what rabbi you know kind of thanks but no thanks I already put on today you know and I walked away I told him no as I'm walking away this is you know this is what you're doing I said not only have you not put on now here's an opportunity knocking for you and you and you just she went away and so from that day every single day I've put on film I didn't go back it wasn't until years later that I happened to have seen him again he came into my store I thought I had to tell you this story around but I said because you sit out in the Heat and it's not comfortable and and people Luna you know on Lincoln Road people making fun of them and he's sweating and I said at the end of the day you go home and you measure your success by how many guesses did you get how many people did I get to put on thrill today I said I just want to let you know that I told you no and it changed my life so you're doing good work don't just concentrate on the yeses even the nose could have a big impact yeah that's the factors see after all those no's stuff so like what's your name let's do it again Passaic New Jersey where what street Howard Avenue you know where Ascension street is I'm very familiar really how's he doing Robert Stern so I remember I mean it was my massage tradition I remember young vibrant that's unbelievable okay unbelievable short jacket down hat on of well let's tell me tomorrow that's one yeah zombies clothing yeah um who else don't like him what's your name is from liquid Mama's liquids representing what's your name we got sloth rock on this side I'll click on that side it's beautiful what's where are you from months in New York developing okay who else anybody else I'm missing you're from Lakewood you're not a guest you come every week vernac no thanks you brought me a hat now let me let me see the hats you brought me a hat what's this hat I'll put it on for a second what is this all right uh keep on going what's a Shabbos hashtag daf and dishes all the best a frame sucker he has I don't see any dishes there but whatever he says he's doing dishes fine his wife finished the dishes he took over put the video okay give him up my voice I have to give you tremendous in the booth right now over a week Gary's out of commission with Corona he thinks it's the flu but I think it's Corona I've I don't know what it is it's something not good and you can see this is a nice look into the booth all the screens those are some with actually the five screens I think up there here's the joystick the different controllers and that's torma leaving right next to them so everybody calling is on the left Homer's on the right things have Remy for stepping in and finally show sharabi says hi everybody I recently joined your from Dallas I've never done the dive and haven't really learned gamara since 12th grade learning I really have to thank you an entire mdy group we hear this over and over but it's tremendous you should go after every single person in the group and staff are putting something so amazing huge together with Claudius and stuff never imagine my wildest dreams that me a full-time working yehudi would be doing that Hashem give you the class to keep up the wonderful work regards from Far Rockaway hashtag do the daf PS even once got reminded of the red light in Queens photo attached do the the oh okay let's we'll do this tomorrow again okay I've always said the coil was sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood the coil is sponsored by another person may support entire strengthen I will be talking and the Mississippi sponsors the month responsibilities the day is sponsored by three people by moisha clear copper in memory of my great grandfather moisha oppa Adler whom I'm named for Israel and Stephen hurlitch on the outside of Steven's mother bastio rifcon Bast SV and by Joseph endswag and honor my wife Sarah on our 17th anniversary all the art of the month and next month and the month after are three months sponsored it's five thousand dollars a month sponsored by Anonymous for complete Reformation is only 10 days left to message and we are holding on that pay base really we're holding two lines from the bottom pay out of almost base so yesterday [Music] we learned that if a woman makes a nether against the bathing and putting on makeup according that's an Affliction in accordance it's not an Indian average he says eating is in enough fish I guess maybe whatever is unfortunately you can't decide in enough fish maybe even cutting off a fingers not even enough as you're going through the UIC I don't know but he says I agree there's a problem with somebody not bathing and that would be in the category of it annoys the husband it's a problem for the husbands of Mayla he could be made for that and what's the difference the difference is that Varma you could only be made for yourself it doesn't have an effect on somebody else so years later they get divorced that rohits and Kishore nether comes flying back into play whereas it's an Affliction it's painful he could has he has the right to be made for forever and for everybody so here the next category is attachments of course we said yesterday what category is this it so then she gets married to somebody else her original nether is still there she can't have relations with that with that man but if it's then it goes away for everybody we learned um saying I'm not gonna have relations with any Jew in the world is he could do a little bit what could he do he could do bana leveno he could annul the net there between him and her but she would be awesome to everybody else what does that tell us and if this is in the category of Inuit I might tell you that once he's made for the nether it's moving for everybody no you see from here even according to him task which is the same category as you always see that's Barbara and what are you answering me you bring me a Rio foreign that's not a good Riot why are you sure is I don't know if you noticed but this is very sad the very last peric and himself so this mishna here you don't even have to go back time passing the base if you don't want to just look at the screen oh my review I see Indianapolis are not in enough fish and then he goes out to explain and he at the mission ends off did very very icy so the question is why do you have to say it says all my Arabian gives a speech so why does it says everything in this parrot is foreign [Music] foreign and says like he always does okay so then what's that Allah we don't know we did we warned we didn't give an answer we just said the the right you're bringing is no good so what is it okay so now figure it out yourselves you have to be mocker what does that mean and therefore what so we're going to say that it's devarim Shabana levena it's not internet fish in order to be marked where we're going to say it's and therefore what therefore if she gets married to somebody else she's also their new husband because he only had the right we have to be marked we have to go on the on the worst case scenario worst case scenario is that it could only be made for attachment for himself and not for anybody else in the world so as long as they're married everything's great once he divorces her he didn't have a right to know her nether the new guy is fact at SARS that's huh if it's only good for you it's not good for anybody else that's on you oh my schmuel foreign if the woman says on that guy so now there's no Union fish there's no pain for her the pain is on that guy it's too bad on that guy the housing can only be Mayfair what hurts his wife this doesn't hurt his wife his wife said that guy can't benefit from me okay so that guy has a problem not not her ah well I lost Colonial lie this is what the gamara is going to be very concerned with when she says one individual out of the nine billion people that live on the planet Earth how many are there eight nine whatever it is one person one guy Ruben who lives in Missouri he I can have a no I cannot have an all from him Mayfair Mayfair why because maybe one day she's gonna have to come on to that guy maybe it's another chart I don't know the famous Levitz it's like you go to the to the park and it says on the bench wet paint don't touch so what's the first thing you do you feel to make sure that it's still wet why I you never touch the bench in your life this bench you have to touch no no it says the famous that he cursed rookie line and club and red says the Ramil called Slimer I can't kill him I promise I'm not gonna kill you take care of him make sure he doesn't die a pleasant death so what did he do he told him you can't leave the borders of your shalayim and then his sheep ran away so he chased after them ah with the guy's Meshuggah he knows if he leaves the Border he's going to die shot this the psychology of a man you can't tell a person not to do something not to go somewhere once you tell him you limit a person even though he never had to go there he will go there he'll make sure to go there maybe that's the shot here I'm just throwing it in there because I have nothing else to say today you tell you don't benefit no now this gave her eating that fish there's no guy in the world she can't benefit from she never benefited from anybody in the world but that guy since she can't that's the worst thing and we go on and on what do you say you know we talk okay fine very good it's not payroll is Medina Zoo a lie now we're gonna ask a question again so shmuel comes up with the if she asked herself just on one human being the husband has the right to be made for that's already an Inu nephesh we're talking in the category of Indonesia if she can't benefit from Ruben down the block that's not Benoit levino it has nothing to do with her and her husband has to do with her and Reuben so why could he be Mayfair because it's I mean think about it according to your Boise not taking a shower for the rest of your life is not eating but not benefiting from moving down the block that's you know you have to understand what's going on I'm telling you because I had the experience I was once arrested for a few hours and the the feeling of not being able to leave a certain area because somebody else tells you not to not to leave is the most frustrating the hardest thing I ever went through in my life so honestly stay in the room I stay in a room the whole day but if somebody tells you stay in this room you can't go out if you go out you're gonna get punished that's the worst feeling ever that's say that and not tell us why you were right I did I said already my son got arrested and I was sitting with him he was in a big fight when we moved out of this row and maybe 12 15 people got arrested anybody that was there we called the police the police came took everybody to jail and then they figured out what happened why is this guy's face broken why is this guy's hand broken and then they figured out and they let everybody out besides my son and then started a two-year thing okay thanks thanks for bringing it up and and these guys that they they just met at least the fansky I only lived here for less than a month and this is the Michigan that came to the neighborhood he's in jail you heard what happened this new guy that's probably why he left Chicago he's probably arrested over there the whole thing yeah yeah alive so it says the mishna right we just learned the mission she makes another she's not gonna have any fruit from California from this from this country you're not made for nether you're not made for another why because she has a way out of it she could benefit from all the other food in the world why does she need the African fruit from California she made a net there against all fruit from California all fruit from the United States that's not that's not a union fish but one person in the world that's the Indian fs and that you have to be it doesn't make any sense if you don't have to annula Nether from a an entire country why could you annul another from one person says the gamara we're making an attempt here we're going to go away from it Omer Aviation the reason why you can't make ahafara on one country is because she never took away the entire country what she did was she said to her husband you don't bring me from that country so let's say she likes oranges from California she could still eat oranges to California instead of her husband bringing it Reuben shouldn't leave you anybody could bring you see yourself can bring it she didn't make another against the country she just said that her husband from that country can't bring so uh uh uh maybe you should see the round in a second inside over here the Quran you're going to come repairs you see it like right before it becomes wide no like 20 lines from the top two four six eight ten twelve fourteen sixteen eighteen twenty two three four three six twenty eight twenty eight lives from the top that's involved it's involved if you have a bold guitar repairs Medina Zoo alignment if you only you bring them but if somebody else brings it for me it's not a problem the key of Nations Medina since she has a way out and she could eat those fruits so it's not similar to the case where she can never benefit from another person is Medina so then why isn't same a force in the mission if that's the case just say let somebody else bring fruit from that country is oh I forgot the Islam Mayfair so I just want to show you that nikuda that she has to be able to get out of it through the husband just another guy it's not not the best in the world fine Vita foreign uh let's see inside I believe the reason why it says not that somebody else should bring it since she didn't have at the corner through the husband avocado since this is a way out through somebody else even listening offer okay I don't know fight next I ain't showing yourself uh did we do that already so again she's saying I cannot benefit from one person that's similar to what shmuel's case is I can't benefit from one person it says that the husband doesn't have a right to be makers how come in shmuel's case when she's she makes a nether against one person he could be made for eign when if a person goes to the store and buys a few tomatoes so he checks each tomato very well it has a lot it doesn't feel 100 and it has a little dot on it he throws it it takes only the most perfect ones but when a person buys wholesale even if he sees a Rotten Tomato on the top of the pile it's all part of it he's gonna buy a thousands of meters of course he's gonna have a couple rotten ones so I heard once that's the same thing when it comes to te filo if a person davins and it's a rotten kind of Thriller he's spacing out and he's doing this and he's doing that sakoshbank who just tosses it but if you damn bit sieber it's wholesale filler so as long as most of the people are diving you have to hope that a lot of people are diving they're all wrapped and nobody takes a whole wholesale box of rotten that whatever and you happen to have a bad day in Fila because well we'll take it also take it on be in a meeting with a teacher in uh right only cabbage customer is there you also you also okay we're gonna we're gonna we're gonna we're gonna settle this we're gonna sell this one way or another by missing cabinet maybe I'll say the same Shah the Columbus she just said you cannot bring from that my caller from that store but I can bring I could bring another guy I have somebody else bring from there and that's why the husband can't be Mayfair but in schmuel's case that person that she made a nether against there's no way out of it that person is completely awesome forever however the problem is the the continuation of the mission is then if he's the only guy in town that gives them credit how raise the offer in that case he could do how far the husband can do it the average the government she herself could go into the McCullough it's just she said the husband she's not allowed to bring from them I call it am I offer so what if he's the only guy in town that gives credit but they have a way out of it somebody else could bring from them she herself could go there Ella but the save of the law he might say bow happy so my Maylo just has to slug this whole thing off this idea that she's saying another and the whole mission has to be consistent so until now he said the whole mission is talking about where it's a very weak nether it's another she's telling your husband you cannot bring me oranges from California you cannot go to the to our store on the Block and bring me food from there but everybody in the world could bring from Los Angeles everybody could bring for them I call it but once we're going to take off one case the case of credit because that doesn't work in credit so we have to take all the cases let me says about I've reached to come I see he even she cannot bring from there hello so now so going back to the question again shmuel says that if a woman makes a nether against one person in the world it's such a bad thing that the husband couldn't know it I we have all these cases in the mission laws you made a nether against all the fruit of the country which made another against a certain store the husband cannot be Mayfair he says the gemara alluration he [Music] the racial even in a case where she could bring it why um don't ask me because our mishnah goes according to ibizi the what the the reality holds that all these things are not indones not even that fish you can't do afaro but according to shmuel it is he's like he says all these things are in an fesh so you could do aphara again shmuel says if I make another against one person in the entire world the husband could be made for it why because it's in fesh she has a lot of pain from it ah you asked me capture from from the mission of the mission that doesn't go according to Allah as we said before this entire mishna Bryce everything is is all about the entire parag all the way to the end it is foreign because of it in that fish I will May finish trying to say here so there's a beautiful round here that explains it real quickly let me see two four six eight nine lines from the top why is the gamara being my rock so much says you should know that the mission says that you can't do aphara it's only in the category of Eno you could do afaratenede you could do afaro why could you do that far because says the ride amazing and he keeps on saying this he said before also yesterday I think I mentioned it oh I'm supposed to say sponsored by Greg Haber for broadcasting for his entire family and everyone learning the Daft and that's what for members of the HBA group and their families are made so what's up sister clone to explain small you don't have to explain so much all you need to say to understand again is to say one thing our missions says run very important higher dimensions if so let me just say about pet it's a side that we said maybe on Friday that everything that's Inu Netflix according to automatically becomes Varma according to Boise in other words rubioic is one step below but is consistent like that so whatever hold ish not eating any apples for the rest of your life says we really see that's dwarma levino and if it doesn't work like that we have a big problem says the run and that's why the Gamora is insisting here to say look what the mishna says that you can't do afaro is because rebecci doesn't hold that this is in the category of Indian fish you're right so Mela what happens if automatically drops down to dwarves according to rubioisi that that that's what you need that's something is trying to say here it's the Iran's he saw it over and over and he's all excited that the gamar says him a foolish kind of otherwise why Israel next [Music] foreign of a woman who made a single net there on two breads two types of breads let's say she made a Nether on donuts and on whole wheat bread know that say to tell somebody they can't eat holy bread knew who cares so somebody can't eat a donut it's mamish in enough fish another mistake Icarus I'm not making the gemara says this not me the run says one is made out of fine uh you know white flour one is made out of whole wheat I know Dave you know our good friend Dave is going to write me a text now that uh it's not true whole wheat is much better carrot fight for carrot but the point is you like one bread you don't like the other so she made a Nether on two things one is the internet which one is not even physically what is it you know one is uh once she has Affliction and pain because of another one she couldn't care less I know so the the guitar says a tremendous leadership the husband has a right to be made for Union fish on the donuts so something called guerrara we're gonna drag we're gonna tow in everything else that's related there since it was one leather so everything in the nether becomes more fur huh like a Gilgo the the round use a lotion grower Murphy says you could only be Mayfair for what you could be Mayfair what could you be made for in enough Ash the the whole wheat bread is garnished now I thought because we are learning as you noticed every armored is 10 lines the shortest it's an average of 320 words per daf versus have over a thousand words per day average especially Brokers and you know these kind of surfers so I figured we have a chance here maybe we have a few minutes here I'd like to do this round with everybody just to show you the style of the run because we never really did a real run inside and we have a couple minutes and I I put it over here on the board if you don't want to look it's very very let me show you how long it is this is how long it is but we could do it because it goes really really smooth and uh there's some nice condition in there let's see if I could do it without no I'm stumping me here I'm gonna point over here if you want I'm gonna try to go as quickly you have it it's like eight lines down from where it becomes really really wide two four six eight yeah he doesn't hold of Towing and pulling other men I feel the hoverboards so even if he said I'm being he said before us I want to be made for both of the dorm even the whole wheat it doesn't work in the whole wheat that's a picture of everybody I don't understand why is here I have it over here foreign according to most people it's just it says but it's not that's why we do the Runa so therefore since you want to you want to get you want to get rid of one the one that has enoi so you have to do Bow the iron wrestling multi Mayfair mint sauce and if you say that you can't do the holy bread then you can't do any of it is then of course you could do also the whole wheat bread Natalia because the whole we bread is dependent or in fact the donuts are dependent on the whole we bread yeah and if you say they can't do either of them at the end of the day you're gonna have an internet says no you're permitted to do half I what about the positive Verano the sphere light the near the effects of your foreign you have to be made for the entire nether but the nether you're capable of being made for and you could only be made for Allah in a nephish part of the nether so you did everything you were able to do the rest is up to Hashem foreign as if you did the entire thing that's why you do have this is a question what about it says later on that side they come at the base if we had it today she says I'm not gonna have relations with any Jew you off he could be made for history and she's answered to the rest of the world as as since the Torah says you have to be made for the entire net there he should have been made for all the Jews in the world because without that you can't be made for at all just like you said you can't be made for one out of two breads you shouldn't be able to able to be made for one out of two Jews eagerly made my Adventures this idea that you can only do the entire thing and not half of the thing is only an infection with a civilization videos is annoys her it bothers her who the multi made her it's her pain [Music] and that's why we have these tiny little amudum let's just finish these three lines and we're done [Music] manilates Faith because if this causes a lot of pain Avatar but when it has to do between their relationship the husband and wife now it's it's about what annoys him it smells bad for him look off but might they copied like coppin or might the cop in charge of when it comes to tashmish he's the only one that's smacked between him and her so he's mastered that nether between him and her for the rest are all have a wonderful day