Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 69 by R’ Eli Stefansky

velvet the voice I these are the children of mdy the kids of mdy some there are many many more and actually on a typical day we have more kids right but these are the kids that give us the adults a lot a lot of kazuk they get up early in the morning they have better things to do really you're a child you don't really need to do the dive and learn myself to have to mess up that we have here Akiva that's with us since Brock has that base three years and others so I want to say tremendously to these children and the reason why I'm bringing them up here today dafka today is because a beautiful song came out yesterday from Torah masora that the children and Tyra and we have a big sauce slimy gertner Benny Friedman they sing the song It's a Beautiful song you'll hear a little bit and we have a big source that this the star of this video is part of our share Israel Camp from alaikum here he is now you'll you all here I don't know if you saw this you saw the video yet he was has a beautiful voice I know I don't know about you guys you have a good voice you're in a choir by the way another Factor since Brock is that base how old were you then eight years old and this I could be made this kid asks better questions than most of the adults in this room much better than your father don't even go there no I'm just kidding your jokes are bad everything's bad okay now our boys I want you to watch this video it's a beautiful beautiful song and watch our star here and if you notice all the way at the end he puts a magnet on the door guess what magnet it is okay I'll sh I don't want to give it away here we go [Music] foreign [Music] great job we're very proud of you keep on a whole year doing the job huh how many miscept this and now your friends that didn't come today they would come every single day they're going to be a little jealous okay it's a nice song it's very nice song and good acting the kids are the good actor um the boy said we have a few emails I don't know if we have time we have we have a email from oh he's a classic and immediate Classics let me read that one after having been an avid helmet since Yuma death pay which is almost two years I'm coming to realize that mdy is not just a shared it's a lifestyle the following are some personal examples I've recently noticed if being On The Fringe means you checked out a few minutes of really born since year just to hear some raid and you feel guilty you might be an empty wire Maybe you're spotting Castell wine at an event gets you all excited you might be an MD wire if you hear that the boy read to your daughter is 6-2 and he said to yourself yay just like rebelli it might be an empty wire that happened to him I guess if you find yourself on a scaffold negotiating with bricklayers for the price of shooting a good morning or a boy so yeah video until they threatened to call the police you might be an MD wire if you find yourself driving the stewardess crazy to change your seat near from guy in order to hopefully have him take a picture of you learning the dab you might be an MD wire if you find yourself telling the joke for a second marriage he's good enough and your family's never brought us and based on the funny looks you're getting you want it to yourself where did I go wrong here it may be an MD wire in a more serious note there's a big tails to your jokes those for you yoilee last week I forgot that I didn't finish one specific Duff and I bumped into Ellie dykman who said wasn't that a good joke yesterday which reminded me that I had to be Muslim so keep it up and I said hey look it has okay like these jokes have a halogen tire and fight your mind sincerely do we have let's just do this real quickly three weeks ago I sponsored this out of my father's yards of my son and you guessed it on that day yesterday we had a pigeon I've been for myself I want to let you know that my father had been learning the dot for many years he was a member of beniruving cheer in Chicago since 1989 it was given by Robbie then Ravi feiner is currently given by Rabbi listen yes Chicago some point every my father passed away I realized I had not been learning much and I thought it would be a good idea to start doing that feeling honor my father while exploring differentiar my chanced upon your eight minute daf and after two days I've discovered the full shear this is back when I still gave the eight minute off the sound is going to use this email against you know I told you you got to take Damon okay it is almost as if the eight minute death is baked to get people hooked on your full Shear but don't worry you see that's what the sound always says because Uncle Phil yossi Klein shloime Klein all these main guys that came to this year are off the eight-minute bait that is a bait and switch that's why I stopped it I felt it was not very uh what's the word I'm looking for ethical wasn't very ethical we'll go back to what basically Rebellion I've been with you since I started super so while I don't do that sometimes I feel the full share is an eight minute share that takes you 42 minutes to give at two speed kidding I want to acknowledge right I love him tourski or Zaman tourski is a main figure in Chicago and he's part of the share a very big part of she was my fifth grade reading principal in Chicago he's instrumental in me doing the dive and motivates me to keep going because of him I'm proud to say I do the dove I'm excited to learn and feel accomplished Goldberg Emmanuel Chicago see you in Miami the Israel Shimmer boys side not gonna believe this over 300 people signed up to Miami and I believe that today is the last day for the early bird special which basically is a huge uh discount because it's costing us we thought it's going to cost us 150 000 a person but we might be changing venues and it's going to cost us even more we we have to we we have to change it we'll look we're growing We're Not Gonna probably not gonna fit in the first one anyway fine the coilo sponsored anonymously by Lakewood Rabbi Ephraim Shapiro confirmed that he's speaking at the same but looking forward children in memory of our father of moisha Epstein a soul Rabbi for close to 50 years the show have in Aaliyah to be Stanfield and Hanan ashendorf in memory of my wife's grandmother Joshua hershberg and Stuart Silverman Lily nishmas on his 10th yard side a godo from Sherry Plato the art is sponsored for complete reformed slamaw of Ben Leia I forgot to mention that the video from terrible soira was done the tremendous nugget and Bob's Docker from Chicago he was a huge huge static huge so this is all right here we go just do a very very quick Hazara also because I think it's probably one of the coolest sounding hakiras in Shas Mega's guy is a miklas college it's one of these crackers you can never forget so could I just review it real quickly basically we have a case where the father and the husband the aurus who's engaged to the father's daughter obviously they are the ones who are made for the nether they are no another oh come here inside that you come every day so you get to come to the front we just did a whole thing with the kids from the sheer so come next time I have to come on time and you'll be able to do good morning but you know what you can do good morning Robison now you want to do it no I'm just kidding I'm kidding thank you for coming every day all right so the two of them in conjunction what happens when only one of them does his afara the father let's say does 50 he takes away his he says the nether is an old and he's waiting for the husband to do it I think about it says in Africa what happens but the question is megas guys we go back to the chart is it the shot that the the father took away half of the nether literally took half away and left a complete 50 percent or perhaps he weakened the whole thing he didn't take anything away he just became weaker it's like a a hamburger without any of the dressing says Judah David here here you have there was it was his it was his uh it was his idea here you have olives if the father takes off one part let's say the X he takes out that one Olive that's one way to look at it make his guys or McLeod should just become the they're both there but they're just very weak says just we're doing this quick when the final case we have the father who does the hafara and then the husband doesn't have a chance to do a half Faro and he dies so tomorrow says over here we have a mahalics are going to say Mega's guy is let's go back to them I like it better make this guy is there's a whole there's a complete half the half is there that the husband could give over inherit to the the father could inherit it why because because it's something that's complete it's a complete fifty percent it's Hill on the other hand hold it's weak and something that's weak you can't inherit so in Mela in this case for instance with the two olives according to the shamai you if a if a woman makes a nether she's not going to eat olives and she eats those two olives then malkus why because you have a complete Olive but if you hold like basilo she wouldn't be high of Marcus because it's a very weak element on a weak Olive you don't get Marcus and now we're holding our boy signed up with olive six lines down by rava another hakira going through these beautiful shilohs London foreign if a father or a husband hears that his wife or daughter made a nether he could be mikhayam the nether he says I am saying that this netherismi says the one word and that's it the nether is solid or he could say Alfaro he could destroy the nether so yesterday I went to the title for a few minutes in the morning to ask them what kind of art do they recommend for the sugya and the the Belzer told me there is no art on this stop forget about it I said no you got to put your mind we got to think about it no there is no art anyway this is what we came up with not the Belzer Yoshi did a lot whatever a bunch of people involved there let's say a nether is a building another's a building so hafara would be to break the building to destroy the building what would be Kim how would you guys if you're an artist how would you draw Kim scaffolding so we were thinking about doing like an outer exterior walls yeah but here's another way of looking at it tell me what you think here's the nether building okay here's hafaro the the building is being destroyed by a Florida demolition services the you remember what that lady's name is and the cat is flying out of there okay fine that's our pharah this is what he did for kyom we like this it's all on a different okay I should have taken off the Kim is a wall that prevents that fire from happening it it's a prevention of aphara so they build a wall around so that the demolition can't come you can't do uh pharah once you do a Kill so asks rava and we all know we remember chamber spikes do not work against pigeons especially Israeli pigeons they sit in the spikes mice in the spikes Mama's in the spikes I'm gonna show you uh in the time of Base I don't know if we'll find a kosher pigeon they all have like spikes through their kishkas foreign so here's another picture the guy goes to a business and he says listen I made a kium I made a fence around the nether I don't allow anybody to break it I feel bad I thought about it and my daughter got herself with a big mess here she she can't eat any protein for the rest of her life she made another I gotta get her out of this help me out rabbis help me out could he undo the kill could he undo and break the wall what's the child I mean on a nether you could also go to the bezen and is a human part of the Nethers we have a special Allah you go to bed and undo another but the fact that somebody has that the ability to break another or to be Makai minute who says he could undo that is you can go more but over here you want to do equal but who says that a concept even exists why should it exist you could do it by the nether the key was a special thing what could you do it enough could you do it by afaro could you undo a photo why not oh okay but Kim who's told you Kim was a special who says it says you made it salad Sue says you cannot do it who says it's in the same category as another yeah oh yeah we spoke about it yeah yeah over here it's you're right over here we're going through how it works over there we just mentioned it just like yesterday we we explained the whole the four cases of a mission we're not even gonna explain it that fine sometimes uh-huh it says tomorrow but I'm proud of you that you remembered it because it bothered me I had to find where it was I'm like we discussed the Shiloh already in Pennsylvania now the round just points out that we're talking about that same day because it says you only have one day to do uh what I do it no okay fine but this is me you have a 24 hour you have you have a date fine but it's it's that day so you can't go to the best then six days later and say I want to undo my my Kim and could I be Mayfair yeah within that that period of that day could he undo it into himself now if you're gonna say that you could undo the the the key ohm yes Shayla bahuffer oh yeah so there is a song I couldn't really find it How does it go no oh that's MVD ah yeah I saw it and it's like no no he's talking about you're right it is that okay I mean I always had a big cash on that song like it doesn't make any sense I could I could take a building knock it down I can't really build a bag I can take an atom bomb and blow up a city how amazing things I can put it back but the song The the words of the song If you believe that you could sin and think and do something wrong and and and uh go against for a minute so you could then you could also go foreign the next minute that's what it means but in terms of physical stuff if you believe that you could destroy it doesn't necessarily mean you could build if you could destroy a nether then the nether's gone like no I said it's gone crazy you can build it so the the reason is the round says over here it's a very good Kasha it's not oh if not said you could you could destroy you could build no if the nether is gone it's gone you can't just oh Rabbi I I got rid of the nether could I could you get it back for me no I can't get it back for you you knock down the building you can't I can't get it back for you it's knocked down it's finished it's Rubble just what so the round says my mail I have to come on to this uh this is a photo I apologize with these transitions I have the wrong thing on there but anyway right if you did have Fara you literally destroyed the building what's the half a minute that I could rebuild it so the Run says because I'm passing it down and that whole parishad says you have a heck is between the two things and if I could undo Akim it's exerts are concept that I could undo of afaro you're right logically doesn't make any sense but maybe this is the rod okay by the way once I'm talking about this because I had an email and I thought it is I just heard about it yesterday a woman asked from North Weinberg she says this whole pirate show of at first and daughter is very biased to the men men have the right to to be made for their wives in the darn but women don't have a right to be made for their husbands nothing that's basically what that woman was the one that was driving from Toronto I think to Florida she asked her husband in the email so he told her he said no the opposite you're lucky the Toyota of some women sometimes you know on the spur of the moment they spit at you we're not gonna eat chocolate forever so you're lucky I have a way out of it your husband is able to be Mayfair the husband doesn't have a way out if he says something he's stuck for life he can't eat that chocolate that's what he said you're saying you think to yourself he's just trying to sue okay I saw your eyes huh it's okay to me like if I'm the woman I'm gonna ask well wait a minute I don't have a say in it what if I don't want him to do it what we're good to go all right we apologize we had a uh technical issue it's nothing like you know what yesterday at one o'clock in the morning I sat down I sat down yesterday to watch well we're going to go yesterday I sat down to watch the the sheer the editing of the beginning of this year and I saw that Yosef put it in the first day of brachus as a part of the edit the first day of broadcast and the first thing I noticed is that the camera shakes like crazy we used to put the camera on a plastic table on a little thing it's a cell phone and every movement the whole time the camera's going like this so bar Hashem you know right things have evolved we have a great camera once in a while it goes off so we apologize for that Interruption if you we started getting phone calls from people watching live now what's going on what's going on we're not seeing it okay you didn't miss anything if anything in Mr stickle sensor thing that is for members only people that come to this year thank you yes we just explained how can you have a child in our foreign how far is to destroy how can you undo a destruction okay I love when the gamara has these tashmans because a lot of times like I'll bring you a riot for something similar no it says in my foolish in the Bryson you could go to the best then or to somebody can say hey I made a mistake with my kium I want to undo my fence around the building and what we thought literally like we thought that something that you destroy you cannot do so if the father goes ahead and he he says that he is annulling the the daughter's Nether and then he gets upset at her and says you know what you should be stuck not eating protein for the rest of your life it's too late you can't go to the rough you can't do anything about it because once he destroyed the nether the nether went to shemaim it's bye-bye you buried it and you can't take it out anymore but if Kim you could undo buy your Apple moreover now he's saying the same exact words I am being Makai in the nether I'm being kind of another so obviously the second one is zero because once he's mankind another he says the nether is whatever he says after that it doesn't add anything so another time you can recite him you only got him once but the question is where did the second king go to the second one that he said where is it now do you just ignore it completely or it's suspended and waiting to engage and meaning that if you get rid of the first one you go to the rough and you say I have karate on the first one the second one will plop into place and that's the one that will be McClure so he went to the business and he only asked for the first one out of the two times that he said Mao do we say that the second one comes into place foreign that if a person around brings it that if a person makes a schwa that he's not going to eat I'm not going to eat he makes two shoes he's not going to eat and he eats what happens if he eats after he makes two shoes how many Marcus does he get how many surum does he get just one however even though he only gets one is Sir one malkus but if he asks on one of them on the first one then the second one which is suspended and waiting to come into place falls into place and he's over on the second one so I don't know if this picture helps or not so here's the Shiloh if I should have put a note here what it is this is the kium you destroyed a kium first game so the question is does the second keome come into place you see Kim number one he destroyed he went to harob and they knocked down the wall do we say that the second king comes into place and now you have another wall that prevents that fire from happening or not and over here you see that it does come into play you see from Schwarz that it comes into play says gamara some people got hungry from the hamburger some people some people get hungry from a live animal Boy Rap God now listen to this I I think this is like this should have been uh is he still doing the uh the cartoons on the daf consistency consistency this would have been a geological cartoon it's a woman it's a wife standing there with a notebook writing down every word her husband says listen to what he says the most convoluted you ever met he says like this he hears his wife saying I'll never eat chocolate for the rest of my life he says like this foreign it should be mcquiam your nether is good it should be destroyed and she's writing Village and it could only be substantiated mcquiam if there's that pharah if it's destroyed what in the world just happened so Duran explains his follow obviously let's go step by step very slow if there's a hafara first the nether the building fell down to the ground you can't pick it up anymore you can't do Kim that's step one if the hafara is not how you didn't destroy the building then there's no tonight and you didn't do what he said she wrote down all the the stipulation is well you can't do afaro because that destroys the building and if you don't do afaro then you can't have a comma because he said you'd only you only have a comma if the zafara and you can't do that pharah so what do you do oh says the round there's no question about that comma the only question is about how far are very good that's posture that you cannot have a comma but the gamara says but maybe maybe that first should be okay why because at the end of the day this guy wanted both of them to happen okay maybe he wanted both another it wasn't such a Time o'clock I'm such a guy in Islam why bothering that but he put an emphasis on that photo he wanted that for it to happen he didn't realize that it can't okay so maybe that photo should happen huh no no he wanted you see from him he's megalodas that he wants to have Farah and maybe that far should be hell out of the whole mess that we just had all these words that she wrote down she read the best and hey what should I do he said it should be McQueen it should be Muffler and it should only be more um so maybe from this whole mess we could take out one word here afaro because at the end of the day you see that he's more Magna nafara and that that was that was his intent over here okay Mao what's that Allah sponsored by Greg Haber for brojob his entire family and everyone learning the da so at the end let me just tell you real quickly what's going on here in one line we have throughout chass when a person says two things that even contradict each other do we go by the first lotion or the second Larson fight Joey you were here the whole time and you didn't come to the front come here a second okay get over here love it you you let him get away with us yo is my son Yo's best friend and your son Mordecai's best friend and where's Mordechai Mordecai comes alive Punk today that shows you to come every day on time now how many seconds did you do with us is that true unbelievable I can fire you know you ready for the challenge for coming so um right so we have a Shiloh for instance at the end of the day even if we hold even if we all we say and we agree that we go by the first lotion by the first words that a person says and in this case the first words were what we're gonna go with Alfaro and now we just have to see why why is this different than every other place touch my ability to remember if you see this now it says okay so here we go show the chart for a second tamura tamura is a very interesting Allah are you asking me all these shilohs I don't know hold on hold on a second so this is why is there an arrow over there Gary is that your arrow it's not showing on you don't see it okay let's take it tomorrow is a interesting if you haven't heard about it before and a lot of people haven't believe it or not it's Allah that says that if I designated the animal as a carbocatus over here it's number one and I realized wait a minute that's not nice to bring to the base I mean there's such a skinny little animal let me give it because you brought up a nice fat animal and I say animal number two should be instead of animal number one you would think it's a beautiful thing that he did in fact they both become and as an added bonus we give the guy malcus we put him on a table we give him those marks if he ever goes to the Mickey or whatever he has marks right down his front right down his back 40 of them why because he did a bad thing you don't do that you don't do tomorrow great now here we have a heavy man that says another case he says you see these two animals that I had I had one is an Eula one is a schlemen I want to make this one animal both now an animal can be both but it could be both maybe the way it could be both is let's say it's both and there is a halach like that it's both so what you do is you let it graze you're actually stuff you let it graze until it befalls a mom then you sell it and what do you do with the money 50 slum and 50 Isla okay so here we have a Mac like this that's the case case right over here he says that his animal should be but tomorrow the one on the bottom the nice gesunta animal should be both an oyla and Islamic but he says it like this is I go with his first words his first words was this animal should be an oila boom stop it's an Oiler whatever he added afterwards we don't care about reviews if that was his intent from beginning so in other words like this wherebyc agrees that if he decided to regret and take back what he said he said Island he says well I meant shlomim he agrees that twice and reshine I go with his first words his first words what happened was over here he said you asked him what what happened what do you want and he says I wanted both oh the animal you can't do both so the animal has halacha as both in other words you sell it and you split everything so according to remedy that says that you he wants his first words to be how and then afterwards what does he want over here he wants Kim he wants Kim so there is no how far but according to rubioisi he wants both both you can have over here somebody's giving my photo he meant both and what he really wanted is that far so you give him my father like we said before the gamar says no that feeler will be mayor but everybody's gonna agree now that over here is different and over here we don't say reason we go by his first words I feel like mayor like um when he wanted both of them to happen okay so you can't you can't have both because again robot is a Kim and a pharah are a contradiction you can't have both either it's a destroyed building or it's a building that can't be destroyed but it can be both in the same thing so Mayla since you can't have both so even mayor agrees that the last words are what he meant and in our case if he says both and he said this convoluted thing and he tried to mess up his wife he says he should have a common enough for her and you should only have a how come if that fireworks what he meant is at the end of the day since it can't be both foreign I did let's lock her for the members of the HBA group and their families on Main I see people are paying attention at least the sponsorships [Music] I don't either I guess they don't want us to know do we know um so first of all I just want to say this that drum always you say because we're talking about you can't say two things at the same time always said that I can make by just saying one thing I can make half my audience laugh and have my audience cry hell so you you'd say a very very sad story and this and that and dying and everybody would cry and then he'd put his hand like this and stick out his tongue to one side and then this side would laugh and this side would cry so you'd say I could I could do I could make two in one deeper I can make two things happen it happens to be that if you say that women can't multitask so I could be made by myself about my own wife my wife is able to talk on the phone driver reverse and smash my car myself [Music] no edit just don't tell her I told you a story I we we bought her a uh she bought a Land Cruiser back in the day it was that big Toyota Jeep and it had a Avalon and I parked behind her on the first day I found her car her wheel was on top of my hood if you ask her she said I'm not momish was next to the hood because she smashed on my car good okay you probably deserved it I of course deserved it there's one one last thing but bam is here seriously houses I didn't write any silence how is it possible when the person learns Tyra right now you're learning Toyo your mikaim amitzvah tremendous h word is is equal to Taya mits us how is it possible that you're sitting here learning but really you're doubling your mittens oh if you're a paradigm Levine you're 500 times your Mitzvah because 500 people are learning right now because of you see it's shy to do one thing and be makaim two things at the same time boy rabbit s he said the two things but he only said one at the end and you're supposed to put Durant says it's like uh a comma but the point is the same he said it together we're going to stop here let me just explain this real quick in this case for instance I just use this because I didn't we didn't read draw the art but here is the Hassan that is mechanic a bunch of sisters in one shot how many of them are makotas she says all of you are makotish how many one or none why because since you cannot marry two sisters so if he married Rojo he cannot marry Leia afterwards so you can't do it together so when you do it together it's not how either again if you can't do it one after the other you can't marry Rocco and then Leia say you know he said then when you do it together in one shot like he's doing in this picture zero Emma Miller by us also since you can't do half foreign you can't do two things one after another so melee even one of them is not how have a wonderful day okay