Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 53 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] welcome to all the guests what's your name Irish words and children where you from Boca oh yeah you're gonna be there by the seambization gonna be in Miami January 25th who's the guy next to you there's somebody here but I don't want to introduce him because I can't even say his name what's your name something like that okay you're off the hook now from now Bella film evolving so Latham all the guests what's your name Sally as we're free I could say that one from where ah Brooklyn now in Army how long ago three months beautiful beautiful and you're like from all over the world no you live in London Danish Swede Switzerland I call it he picked up a little bit of his name and each country he went to bed all right I'd like to give a big shout out to my brother-in-law for getting me to give Duffy a try he told me there's a modern guy yes there's a modern guy who thinks I might like I'm a modern guy now I wanna I'm a rather going a gobble I'm going to go the modern guy listen if you come learn to you also I'm everything whatever you want as long as you come he told me there's a modern guy who he thinks I might like and to only try YouTube for 10-15 minutes and if you don't like it what do you lose over six months later I've not looked back I've kept with mdy and it felt great to meet you at the London team having started off yomi the boys side here's another one after over 30 years without learning any gamar at all after 30 years please share this idea let's host for Fortune for my sister establas braina Sarah and my father I like this idea I realized a few years ago how much time I lose I lost Sunday through Friday when folding away my fill in my Palace so instead of allowing my mind to drift into the workday or simply to zone out I started saying what are my favorite to heal him the one from the solicitious I usually imagine at least three times before I finish putting my film in my bag and then I added an alarm when folding my Palace for many of us who don't use this time I would like to build a plastic thousands of the Hill across the years ahead and say they could help bring yeshua's you can pick up your own tillem or Tila to fill his dead space and know that every extra letter word counts it was truly Daniel frowine London England over here Mr Jonathan sir from London also learning and joining the dive with his granddaughters Toby and SD Levy Levy not the health God I decided that my son born Java would definitely enjoy the sheer I attached a picture of the daphon I've asked the nurses turn it on for him daily with hashem's help he'll make who will wake up he's over eight months in some sort of and I noticed on the picture over here the video that he's showing is exactly of a person in a hospital learning to share interesting I hope with the set himself will wake up and tell me good morning my buddy size he will have this here to be listening to your share this is my brother Shia learning to death on the way there to travel with my nephew which my nephew sent me all the best it's all about the da I thought it's all about the Army he thinks it's all about that Friday night when we happened to bump into each other I told you at the hotel that on Zoom I can only watch a fat and fastest speed for you in favor for information because they started watching this year in the fastest speed I also started watching other videos on fast speed I really there's not enough time in the day to get everything damaged and if I can watch this year in Fast and speed the more so so two secular studies if not it's a Brazilian aha he's saying that if he's watching the toyron fast speeds he has to watch secular studies also investment otherwise my boy that I'm getting into it is that at the sheer I told you I felt excitement and douche in the ear and in the base marriage I really enjoyed it in real time it didn't feel like it was slower needed to speed up I need to visit more often so for anyone coming to Heritage Road I really recommend coming to America's of yomi not as a tourist stop but for the uplifting experience experience I'm sorry to inform you that it wasn't just about you when I was there one person gave me a seat another person offered me coffee if you came over after damning to schmooze I was giving I think everyone the legend of the chair that helps a lot of history please thank everyone on my half hope to keep in touch I would really like the picture we took Moshe hey boys are very very interesting news the satellite location we found a new a new home for it great a great location right by the Waldorf here's the front door of the Waldorf 10 feet in front across the street right right by the parking of the Waldorf there's a door and then the shoulder so right there tomorrow morning we're starting there here it is what's the what's the address if you want to put in your ways put into Waldorf and there's five parking spots free up to eight o'clock right in front three Ben shiman right across the world of Astoria Shockers at eight o'clock and they'll have fresh coffee and uh Benny who's gonna be there to make sure it goes you know it was there yishai Sun Ray is is part of our sheer he's the guy that took everybody to cure steer 10 of his friends appears there to make them join this year he's the guy buying that show perfect location fine I have an interesting Shiloh here for today's it's a very very easy daf we're talking about different foods you make another about one food it includes another food so here's yeah we're gonna get there in a second but I always forget to give to give the shilohs I put the Shadows before the sponsors this is an interesting food one type of food because the island guess what it is what it is if I say I make a nether that I won't eat this food I could eat that food foreign okay not with that trick huh because it's I know it's it is it's a little sour fine we'll see it's just for the trick question if a guy makes a nether he's not going to drink oil the the Rob asks him where were you when you made another way in America were United so where were you why is he asking that question if a person makes a nether they won't eat a certain vegetable the rough ass and when you make the nether what was the what was the date that you made the nether why does he ask him that also niguela maisa and finally are you allowed to bring vegetables from America from England entire to Israel why not all seven years all right the coil is sponsored by Mr Anonymous Rabbi Anonymous from Lakewood Haynes sponsored by the locks the month the sponsors ha I just saw this I'm looking at this for the first time is that supposed to be like a hint for tonight I don't like the two words about after makes a joke I don't know what it is and the second sponsor is another by rebby David Amon okay the honoring is ready and the sponsor for the art the first month of art of Yoshi sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood for his nieces my voice no it's Brandon actually true there minute tomorrow the submission of the official mission sponsor that we should we all have this supposed to never give up stay positive and keep going forward tomorrow what happened ah Manchester summer league matches there it didn't grow and it didn't shrink it's the same size yeah You Gotta Serve some food real boys I see the tables are empty over there that's why there's some Black Ops you you're full but you got to give to other people foreign if you have dates you say I'm not gonna eat dates what's that Locker is this motor or not so this is Ceylon it comes from dates completely it's like it says 100 yeah 100 dates this and this are two different items you say dating dates you don't mean a dates the actual honey that comes out of date Mississippi says I won't eat the funniest which are great that will never ripen they're very sour motorists you'll add a drink it's winter wine vinegar comes right out of these grapes the only thing you do with them basically is make vinegar since it's already sour I guess it just fits right in so one again it's the same basically the same idea right samarium does not include the devash of tomorrow and is these type of grapes does not include when you squeeze and you make vinegar Maybe [Music] if the name of what comes out the wine you call it foreign or you call it Vash tomorrow so you have you're talking about this this is how you guys this is the Tilda right this is what comes out of the date thank you but since you're using the word date menu and you make a nether from the original from the date ulcer also by yoyte Mano so therefore if you make a Nether on the original the source so you ulcer and what you squeeze out of the source say The Source the the sources are sir obviously because you said the source but what comes out of the source is mother isn't that exactly what we said in the beginning of the mission is the same exact thing says no it's not the same thing there's one afghanina and we'll see in a second now one problem that we have over here is if you remember the sugar of the Milky Way if milk and whey because you're using the word milk together with whey so way is awesome yeah everybody agrees it's awesome because you're using the word milk and over here we have a problem we have a machlaikus why can anybody come up with a good reason the difference between milk and whey and a date and the honey that comes out of a date no anybody you're London what is the difference when it comes to milk in a way in a way you say where is Arthur because you're using the word milk in it Milky Way milk way it's way way Milk Milk Way and now all of a sudden we're saying it's motor huh it's already there on top so maybe that's a little bit like one of the two shot them in the round he's saying what he's saying is that you have to do something to get to it not bad not bad the the Ron says that way and milk are both liquids they're both liquids so nothing changed in terms of the form so it's the same way a milk milk way if as long as you put the word milk then it's the same can over here you have you have something solid in a date and you squeeze it maybe that's what he's trying to say you squeeze it and you made honey out of it it's a completely different thing so if you don't so just because you use you call it date honey honey Day date honey it's not enough that's one shot another shot is that there are different types of honey you see here in Arizona that's that's by us but in those days they didn't have that word silon I don't know where that comes from it actually it does say over here okay pure date syrup says right right exactly the target exactly very good the target we call it silent but you know here in a show a lot of people buy and I know my wife buys it I don't know why she uh flower honey I guess in America also I just never really saw it until I got here so there's different types of Honeys so Milo you have to add the word Tamar to it not because it's part of the name just to differentiate between all the types of Honeys that you have you have different Honeys Master Incan with whey you don't have to add the word milk so once you add the word milk that means that it's it has that of milk says the gemara you could go back to the Chart it's fine it's a little bit of a it looks confusing but it really isn't let me just there's two categories if you look in the top this tomorrow and Savannah is that we spoke about the dates and the grapes so we have three three ways wants to say as we asked that the honey that comes out of a date is mutter and at the end of the mission it says it should be the same the same and Domino says no what is the difference there's only one difference if you look all the way in the bottom of the chart two boxes to the left there's a green there's a green check over there and that's a very very interesting listen to this a person says I won't eat these sit funnies these gr these grapes according to this mandamar you're permitted to eat the grapes remember I asked the Shyla there's one food I said I'm not gonna eat it's you could eat it's funny guys what you cannot eat is the vinegar that comes out of symphony eyes because like he said like glad you said funniest and not edible really who wants to eat a grape that's that that's it's not a real grape nope it's not really there for eating it's there for vinegar oh so let's just look at the my Huggies real quickly what does the guy say and this whole chart he's only saying one thing he's eating this he says I'm not gonna eat the source if he says I'm not going to eat the source look at this the center shita that's the easiest one to see he says I'm not going to eat a date he can't eat the dvash of a date he says I'm not gonna eat the grape he can't eat the vinegar great so according to even sayera everything is pushed no matter what he says it includes everything tanakama there's no difference between a date and it's a funny ice a grape if you talk about I'm not going to eat the grape you're allowed to eat the vinegar you see I'm not gonna eat the date you let it you let it drink you let it eat the honey the what comes out of the date what comes out of the grape is not included in the grape and in the day the only difference is the final the final sheeta and it's completely different than everybody basically he says it's and they say that if you say I'm not going to eat a date so you now let it eat the the dwash just like review Miss era the big major hitter here is that he says I'm not gonna eat a grape you're permitted to eat a great you can't eat the outcome of the grape but you permitted the grape itself it's huge huge so let's see inside says give me a difference between the two sheets ah I'll give you a a major major difference in both in both cases they're different in the Tamar and in this is funny is the difference right you could see look at the top cheetah when it comes to dates there's a check mark you're allowed to eat the honey and if you look all the way in the bottom according to this and now when you move over this is funny as there's also a big difference according to the tanakama you're not allowed to eat the actual grape but you're permitted in the vinegar and according to the exact opposite you're primitively the gray because that's not included in this nether a person normal person when he says I'm not going to eat this bunions never means the grape because it's not edible it's very very sour unless you're one of those kids that likes those sour you know like those candies that don't make any sense foreign if it's something that you eat and what comes out of it you eat it's edible like these a date and the Honey are both very edible keep going tomorrow with Vash tomorrow and like a date and the Sila and the Honey of the date another boy or somebody if you make another in the date you're not going to eat the honey of it if you make a nether against the honey also bye you also know how to eat the date itself so that's a big Kiddush you look at the bottom of the chart if he makes a nether against this honey he cannot even eat the date itself okay that's always up there that's one kosher indirectly but it's not the norm to eat this grape because it's so sour however what comes out of it the vinegar is the therapeuted nor thereby if you say specifically I won't eat any such funny guys grapes winter grapes ain't ulcer you know your your primitively the grave elevatory the only thing that sauce is the vinegar a person never meant to say that he won't eat the actual grape who cares about the grave we care about the the product of the great which is the vinegar so the ram says that doesn't matter and tomorrow no matter what if you say I won't eat a Tamar I won't eat a sitzvah you're allowed to eat the product that comes out of it you're allowed to eat the dvash and you're allowed to drink the vinegar the first sheet the tap sheet that's Allah the round just points out how in the world did I know just look at this chart for a second how do I know there are the thingamara says oh there's a sheet that calls from Allah and either the end of the mishna go like that or the tanakama in the beginning of the mission goes like that we decided that it's the the last tours in the mission that goes like how do I know that so the round says because if you look at the chart what's above the green check all the way in the bottom two x's two no's that which review them and says so now I know that it's not the tanakama that goes like him okay says look at Mario sponsor that we should all have a spot to never give up stay positive and keep going forward foreign person makes another they won't drink wine motor vehicle I don't even know where it is I don't know if I have a picture or not forget it oh here yeah you see this yeah no not apple cider no it's something that doesn't exist I don't think cider cider wine he said wine it's a wine that comes out of some alcoholic beverage that comes out of not vinegar like vinegar like apple vinegar but apple wine I guess there's a big thing in those days you know the famous mice or the guy the guy called him his kids when he's about to die he says listen we do well with the wine and everything if the all the chemicals and everything don't work and you run out of chemicals you know what you can do you could actually use grapes once in a while that's that's what it is yeah no some people use apples instead of instead of uh grapes whatever them Chicago says fine it's not included it's nether a person says yeah and wine he nobody said you tell your kid go buy uh wine for for Shabbos for for your for the neighbor for for a gift he doesn't go and buy apple wine he buys regular so it's not included in another man whatever person says oil where's that oh here I just put it's out of order sorry man I said man [Music] you can look it up right now do me a favor look it up it's it's it's in the in that gimmo and that's okay not that I remember seriously it's just a famous I'm pretty sure like this says that somebody used to Rob us somebody used to use shum shum oil I wanted to look it up I forgot to look sorry used to use Sesame this oil right over here for Hanukkah says it's Hanukkah and and they said no it's much better to use we're talking about Hanukkah now it's much better to use olive oil and then he lit it says over there yeah yeah you got it you found it anything I want to say is that yeah he's right it's a brighter nicer light Shaman Shem and Zeiss is much better okay so I know there are men no I really didn't look it up I wanted to I'm not playing this game I looked it up and I remember pretending myself what and who was it who is it um are you sure yeah that was really because you want to go from the nerves and his eyes when I move from a bio raise your mother in the beginning is to use sesame seed oil I think Texas over there says beautiful perfect uh gonna gobble by the way if you want to make fun of me right they're going to go seriously it hurts my feelings I prefer I'm like a cheer or Mr stevansky do you want to call me Rev if somebody wants to insult me from now on I'm not kidding call me I'd rather go you want to tell me keep on doing it yeah listen I got enough designers anyway so we know the famous Gamora next so if a person says shemen oil I I make another I won't use oil he does not mean sesame seed oil he doesn't mean canola oil he doesn't mean vegetable oil he means olive oil and he says I'm not going to use any honey this is motor right over here it's a lot of water because honey does not mean in Lush it doesn't mean silan it's a person says vinegar what does he means he's referring to wine vinegar not this is funny it's not the winter grapes midnight creation so that I have a picture stickle here creation so I looked it up but this is based on the the article creation is leak but it brings there in parentheses Alan Purim something like that so here here's the picture I went on Google this Allenport because it's very nigaya to the next word what in the world is see right over there this is Purim capital I don't know what it is but here it looks similar you type it in and Google this comes out they're very similar but they have a larger head it's different different so I'm a melee when a person says leak he does not mean this wide leak if your wife sends you to the vegetable store she doesn't get me leaked and you bring the other one home actually that looks more like the leak that we use today I think I'm not a big mountain League minutes okay so we have to know this is more for tomorrow person says yerick so in Hebrew today modern day Hebrew yerakot greens means everything but in the gemara language so I did a little bit here I tried uh it's a little bit of a mess because the green check if you look closely there's some green checks over there they're on the green so there's not very good yarak is green greens so for instance the tomato a cucumber which is green is not a green it's a it's a fruit it's a fruit of the ground a fruit of the ground is different in gamara language it's called the fruit of the ground really okay he's saying he's a moment I am not yarick is green the arakot is more like the Cucumber Tomatoes fine so the person says from greens asada so you look over here to the right sometimes once in a while these call them whatever you want to call them they grow by themselves they pop out of the ground on their own some sort of interesting uh vegetable that's not included in this nether again what's Less in those days every every country every generation has different words different things in those days when a person said yorak he did not include in his Nether vegetables that grow in the field okay it's some it's really something from the from the field but we use the yarrick as a as a like a nickname sort of says oh so now it depends where you live and what generation you're from if you said I'm I am not going to use oil and you live in Arizona so what Norm the nor the language and I saw seven means they had a lot of olive trees here they exclusively used olive oil they never used sesame oil so Mela you're only officer in shamanzai is but if you live in Iraq yeah or in other countries most people don't cook with olive oil let's say they use canola I don't know what so whatever country you live in is different welcome to the stockings but if it's a country that uses both like we do today we use a little olive oil canola Sesame uh see awesome of course wherever you live that's what's happening let's say most of the time you use canola vegetable oil I don't know what they use today 90 of the time once in a while you feel in a healthy mood use little olive oil with the majority of times that you use or what the country uses maybe that's what the guy meant when he made his nether he meant for the 10 of the time that he uses the olive oil or the other awesome the person says he won't eat uh greens and six out of the seven years of shemitah not on shmita by the way right now as we're talking here in as a straw we're we're making that switch most of the vegetables now are considered ready from the eighth year right we're already cut I said vegetables not fruits fruits is uh I just say today today I ate a Pamela from shmita in other words it's taking off somebody's tree down the block I'm not kidding somebody gave me a piece it's scary because one piece fell on the floor oh yeah you have to pick it up watch it off three second rule and then I took the pill and I threw in the garbage and I first went into the garbage took it out threw it out the window so that the birds get it okay kids are it's a mess not recommended but vegetables because they grow so quickly and now we're ready pretty much past whatever look I'm not not pot skinning but right around now it's it's switching bar Hashem it's easier now to get vegetables against awesome Iraq is like you know and he says I'm not gonna eat any greens so he's what he means is typical Garden greens but his mother he does not include his net there the wild greens now the round just points out interesting I wouldn't have known this without Iran and I thought I was thinking about it but if a guy says so the mission says the difference between different greens this is a yerica Sada and the zierek hagina depends what he meant usually a person means Garden greens does a person when a person says wine does he care is my voice of wine so the answers there's no difference because it's just it's the same product it's just a different way it's a different way of making it's the same product whereas when it comes to vegetables it's a big enough Kamina where they grew in a garden a grew in the field yeah it actually actually seems that it's a different type of vegetable it's like a different fight other ideas because a person doesn't doesn't plant in in in his garden doesn't have regular vegetables so when he says I'm not gonna eat vegetables he's referring to the ones that are motor to him the ones from the field ah so all the ones from the field the wild ones are awesome you know whatever happened over there whatever the the Tim said he found something over there speaking whatever it is fine different time foreign [Music] that's awesome but if you if it's a place that brings in vegetables then it's awesome because you had intent for that vegetable s says Lawrence are you permitted to bring vegetables from America into Arizona one time it says you're not allowed to foreign here's a picture of a gush sometimes you have on a vegetable you have a piece of dirt and the dirt if you touch dirt from you can eat truma why because either one shot is we're concerned that the game they just bury everywhere and and the dirt has in it some fragments of bone Tomah the Jews the guy whatever the shot is so the dirt of hutzleret is matama I'm in Mila I don't want you bringing in vegetables you bring vegetables it might have some dirt on it a gush not a gush a piece that's a problem says you don't bring in vegetables it's not even he had no intent when he made his nether that I'm not gonna eat vegetable he's never thought about the vegetables because you don't bring it in you're not allowed to bring it in all right I heard once the uh was very unhappy with the uh Americans in Yeshiva like two americanas you know they're doing the things they're wearing the special gym shoes that they all wear and the the the the Lululemon pants [Music] he went he said you know when you have a gush when you have a clump of people from hootslerts it's matama I advise that you spread out and you you acclimate to the Yeshiva one by one we're only staying like a goose okay sponsored that we should all have as close to never give up stay positive and keep going forward person says I'm not gonna eat cabbage anymore also be spargus so when I when I first where is it oh here we go I thought it's asparagus but the article says it's not asparagus he doesn't know what it is it can't be asparagus so I just put it not asparagus and it doesn't even have a doesn't even have an explanation what is it he says I'm not going into it he says I don't know what it is it's on the Cabbage so this asparagus and cabbage are I don't know I don't think they're the same I don't understand what they're actually saying that it is the same spot it's not the same whatever okay it's another type of cabbage and when he said cabbage he meant all cabbage by the way I'm just throwing this out here now for no because just because it was a Shabbos there's something about Brooklyn New York that people plant cabbage in front of their house you know what I'm talking about I don't know why I asked my friend why in the world you have cab is growing anything your whole garden the whole front yard is two by four feet that's it they have one piece of grass is big and the six cabbages on it amazing just just saying nice to show you if you've never been to Brooklyn you know what I'm talking about if yes yes huh yeah that's how it is right I'm asking huh it's kale okay Kale's included he says cancer whatever it is whatever it is it should be awesome to be illegal and just doesn't make any sense but there's a lot of things in New York don't make sense yeah oh maybe we'll see that you want me to read this now I can't even read Peter how you going mini crew yeah right right there's an upshot that it's it's soaked in water but that's a that's a problem because then why is it different than whey but as always like they're going yeah right there's a lot of shots another another shot of what this asparagus is Darcy also brings it midnight spy goes smoothly Groove and if a person says I'm I'm specifically saying Spider goes then you're allowed to eat cabbage I mean I greeson everything's out of order here sorry I hope but what's his name doesn't kill me you're safe what's the Chavez okay Greece and grits if a person is grits reason also been Mikvah so he's also in how do you say it in English is like a thicker kind of soup because in this pottage in the Miguel there's a little bit of grits so that's awesome but the person says I'm not going to eat pottage then he's mutter in Greece and that's not what he meant well if a person says I'm not going to eat because again you look at the soup it probably has some uh garlic in there foreign a whole soup so that we already had you remember this that are fried with honey so mamela when I say adult shim I mean also Ashish him it's one one of the same just flavors a little sugar on top if you guys see Matt there because two two things it's not called adoption it's called Ashish him but if a person says I'm not going to eat Ashish him lentils fried with honey motorbike is awesome he's not talking about adoption he's talking about a special food because Ashish you're referring to loaf of bread is that you're going to take a bunch of these curls and put in your mouth and start chewing them you don't chew one you chew a bunch So when you say plural you're talking about chewing grain if you behave nicely again it's one of these things you if you kid behaves nicely give me three pieces of gray and let them into candy let them chew it fight those that I don't know what they used to do in those days they had fun even hug him awesome Grace griesen again singular and plural griss grit and Grayson grits with the S at that shiny time I won't text because one means cooked and one means uncooked so therefore when you say grace in you get everything in there says doesn't disagree he's explaining singular I won't eat a grit one grit a one one grain Italian so you're allowed to chew it when it you let it chew grain and you let it eat uncooked grits I won't eat a single grain alsoever is um so you're not allowed to eat bread but you let it chew because chewing is plural he what he didn't mean not to hit in San Antonio if he says plural also Loco is again plural and singular also Ben Lok is if he says both words together then you now do everything what the because I don't know you're just repeating them he says singular I won't eat oh grit oh because singular means cooked plural means uncooked so you're allowed to you're also to cook but you allowed to grues foreign that's it we're going through all these Foods all the types Grizzly but he stuck everything together he wanted to be super magma singular and plural I won't taste some of melee is including oh so Ben lavasho is foreign [Music]