Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 46 by R’ Eli Stefansky

welcome to all the guests what's your name from months in New York no way very few people brought us the base usually it's broken stuff yield until they got how do you find it because of all the ads by the Sea machans for the eight minute time we're hearing our destroy over there really wow okay we're over three years no it's over three years Ozil from Isaac wow where do you live now okay yeah you want a shout out what's your name Alan gross from where what happens it comes every week this guy it's unbelievable who else you guys what's your name Chloe you sound very familiar from where boss and my son lives in the spirit that's what it is okay so regards where is he Memphis all right you guys next time yeah okay when yesterday since Magilla where do you live oh and you the guy next to you also we met don't tell me brother and we have Robert links unbelievable guests from relation Roberts okay well so okay oh you're you're no yeah last week it doesn't help if it's not today oh that's right oh man that's right okay got it got it the lawyer okay good right uh Ira saffron I think oh listen to this happy 50th birthday many many more my name is Sigmund saffron from Cleveland Ohio I believe that at 96 years old I'm your oldest talmud and everything you wish for me I met him over there when I was in Cleveland remember yeah he remembers first off I may have asked for him I've never heard or seen drain flies until you mentioned them a while back and then I got drain flies and then he said since I mentioned in the what yeah so what's your point you can leave you can leave it now you know what that I decide how long she is you don't like it bye-bye see ya something else this is saying don't worry about it listen to this it's season is I asked you before she are you in your monster Chavez mood you said no what okay this guy says that he you don't want no no email account will start chair okay reverse you want emails to share what do you want they want emails you see this guy got brain flies since I mentioned it in cheer then I mentioned the other day about mice guess what he got and then it says like this he found himself the problem the guy comes and says maybe the mice got smart from the guy you listened to yeah he really said that okay Ronnie Sterling I have to stop mentioning animals everybody everything in the whole MD white family you should know that I come from Israel and get married in borrow apart I joined you with deceptive supers after I watched the scene although I don't understand English well I can't understand you easily I work very hard at a Judaica company and employees can hardly wait for the class to start with the good morning and the energy give really energized me and all the working staff of course I'm the only one who listens to the majority of the rest of depends on whatever okay excuse my English refrain from writing until now but gratitude is a must thank you thank you from your Hasidic student who wishes to remain anonymous and this is from shopsy Cohen the famous shopsicon who comes everyone to Shabbos is sitting right over there he said he sent me this uh screenshot that says yes I came with my brother who arrived by myself without his wife from New York yesterday his entire agenda for coming to Israel was to come to the Shia this morning what I don't see him what's his name again Krieger Krieger from oh you don't see the screen no this this thing this picture oh that's uh where is he which one is he but what's this oh it's not this is not a clip of it okay I got it trigger yes camera brother himself didn't tell me his whole agenda finally you may be familiar with the safer that the Rabbit Road called hayoim it's a collection that teaches according to the days of the year on your birthday wrote The Father which I think but shared and truly describes you have as Israel which is why Toronto attached picture which I cherish shame my hand wasn't on it okay fine the coilover boyza is sponsored that we may always be able to support Tyra and Military protectless from any harm the sector is sponsored and tired in honor of our father monafum kovacsid on his Milestone birthday what's his birthday your boys say [Music] and the Art of the month is sponsored first month sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood Okay so huh oh that is oh that's Manchester wow so later guys and who else and you have you have also I was looking at Manchester oh sorry that's it Benny we miss you here nobody's singing songs garnished you want pizza you go to Charlotte okay listen my boy's eyes so today we're going to be learning a number of things first of all if you have neighbors that are mudra Hana from each other they say you can't benefit me I can't benefit from you can they walk into the same show there's one show in the little village which is communally owned can they walk in the show the mother I love from each other but not for me so what do you guys think yes no huh they could it's a Mitzvah okay so we're gonna see few surprises there this the island was familiar with that when you have ribosome the love is like him even when he argues against the rabbit against Rabon also see here's a question it's a multiple choice question what do they sell in a Mikvah in the base of America so they sell shampoo towels eggs or chant anybody today today they sell at all you that went to another share don't say the answer please what do they sell inside the makeup good but what are they selling the time I think tomorrow very good now we know there's a constant cold but what is what what what's considered what constitutes regulus when you do something a number of times so what's ruggle two three five how many times also something we'll see today all right so we could because it's only four lines we'll allow ourselves to go back to the shortest daf of chass we'll just start from the top of him hey I'm at base there you have two yeah thank you you have two partners guy says Reuben says I'm not going to benefit from Schumann at all and Sherman says to his partner you Reuben I'm not going to benefit from you so we said as we said yesterday we have three things going on over here and oh this is actually a real I didn't even change the the numbers or anything we have three things going on that's what we're going to be discussing today first of all we have the idea of vitour Awesome if Vitor Vita means uh very minor Hana well walking into my front yard giving you a little bit of flour I give you I sell you a pound of flour I give you a tiny bit more it's all Vito it's something that people are not mock of it okay can you give veto to somebody that you are mudaharana from our mission that goes says that it's awesome so therefore even though there's no paid to walk into somebody's hotter in fact the ram brings the gemorian has shot for him in vasra that says shut them are never Macedon one another to come in and out even so the zero over here because Vito is also it's also for you to even benefit that minute would benefit okay the other thing is that we're going to see on Ahmad Bay is that we're talking about I'm just giving you all the things we're talking about a a hotzer that's less than eight amas so here's the hotter in the time of the gamara the Huts are not like by us that the hutzers in the backyard it's a front yard doesn't really matter where it is and what it is the point is they have two partners they own this front yard jointly and they're both what I know from each other so if in this case it's talking about it's less than eight hours plus there's not a lot that you need four hours but each door that was different I love that we had over there in Arab and different different stuff so whatever the the amount is less than eight hours that's what we're talking about over I certainly call this Lakota so since you have all these things Vita is also you're not going to the hearts we're talking about of yes of the opinion yes over here yes brother means that there's a retroactive clarification I thought this was amazing I was sitting uh Chavez with my and my daughter she was telling me about you know the new age kids you're calling kids this is all about psychology everything you do has to do with your past trauma or the and I'm arguing with him and like I agree that there's a lot of trauma and a lot of things you do because drama not everything you know everything everything that you don't understand the the the the the the the law there's a thing called this and it flips that way and then every time you do you have trauma it's either fight or flight then a whole drush is Russia so I said I bet you you don't know what RTC is after the whole argument I said no you know what RDC is retroactive trauma clarification she's like whoa that that sounds deep so what does it mean it says retroactive you know what it is why you give me all these drugs you don't even know what RTC is retroactive travel clarification you hear this whole drawsha you have to sometimes you're right it's not a challenge is that but you have to when you know about a trauma then retroactively you could clarify what it did to you and this and she's like yeah yeah she's masking the whole drug yeah you see it anybody can tell you something you believe it okay retroactive trauma clarification RTC just remember RTC yeah so now we're talking about retroactive clarification see how do you come up with it whatever [Music] so since yes according to remember and we're talking about we're ready we'll go with a little later and we explained it nicely on with Iran yesterday that we're talking about a very small clutter so small hotter you can't devise it you can't you can't split it and give it give one piece to one and one piece the other if it had enough Amish you know four arms per okay fine they could do Bray room but over here you can't you can't split it so what you could split is the time when I walk into my hotter our hotter this time that I walked in is mine you walk in an hour later that time becomes yours on that we say yes the Run explained it beautifully that this is different because we know everything what's going on oh we have all everything's lined up we are partners and it's too small to split but we have one one thing one piece missing the time of the day that I'm going okay so then on that I'll say yes great next each person goes in his time slot and everything is greater now I have a hotter you see that khatsu in the picture I have a hotter now that for me to get to my house for you to get to your house I want to put a big machine in there a grinder it's something that makes noise something that creates a mess a smell it's not it's not Pusher that I need your permission in order to do it so certainly even Republic says yes I could go into the Qatar because this moment that I went in is retroactively clarified that it's mine but I can't put a a requirement there why because you could deny me that that right there's no retroactive clarification because sometimes my children doesn't let me put it in there sometimes yes okay just as a picture this is what a regime looks like this is what a toddler looks like in those days even my brother-in-law and lots of Strauss and your slime that you see that he has over there the cities are they had a Tanner in the in the front yard in the yard in the concert there's a a communal clutter and there's a ton of people used to do laundry there in the town they didn't have ovens in their houses okay do I want chickens in my front yard no I can deny you that right MMA holds you can't do so once you're talking about even got the chickens since there are some people that didn't hear the story I have to tell you the story it's almost a high score for life my grandfather is one of ten Brothers was one of ten of Brothers the fantasies that came from Switzerland so he's in Israel one day he gets a thing your father was nifter Ruby stevansky and he left him in urusha a nice size Arusha so what do you do he went to the kazanesh lyrics up and coming buy property and believer my grandfather he used to have a harus at three in the morning with some guy so he told this covers this is what you said he's a victory he understands about business he knows how to learn what does he know about business this is what I think you should do with your money you should buy a chicken incubator you take a bunch of eggs and you incubate the eggs and then pop outcome these chickens and they can have more chickens more eggs You're Gonna Be A Millionaire you're gonna have a lot of chickens oh it's amazing idea she takes all his money and he buys like the hottest incubating machine puts all the eggs in there and my grandmother told me the story 20 times I only talked to you five she said that she one day she was putting the eggs into this she's looking for something she got electrocuted kids it was a terrible thing and she started having chickens and then everything's going good until there's a little war with Jordan they lived over there on uh what is it called the the street over there next to Gula Navi passed like uh base shift to Israel exactly they live a bunch of Israel incoming Missile hit the machine exploded they had zero left from the holy Russia and we could have owned today haven't been a rock Squad okay anyway yeah yeah the point is you listen if you have if a god of like the khazanesh didn't understand the business okay fine so these kind of things you don't you know how to put in there um oh yeah if one of the now the round explains over here that these things you can't put in because there's a concept of jealousy Kino so if my partner is allowed to bring in a tanor and I can't I'm going to be jealous and I'm gonna put my my Tanner also in there I'm gonna see that he puts it in there so there's a beautiful question here I don't know if I should say it here if it goes a little bit later fine here again Reuben is not a benefit from shimen so ruvang cannot put his grinder in the hotter why and then he'll see he'll see um maybe he goes a little bit hold on let's see goes over here you can't even go into the concert if one of them is no you can't go with why because if he goes in he'll see that his friend has a grinder in there his friend has a Tanner in there she's gonna say I also want to put my timer in there even though I want to do it anyway here I'm not allowed to put my title in there why because I made an usher myself I said I'm not going to have enough for my friend so therefore I can't put my time but my friend he's allowed to nobody made it awesome so I'll be jealous that's the question why would he be jealous at the end of the day if you want you could tell your friend I don't want you to put the timer in also if we're Partners each partner has the right to answer the other part of her putting your timer in there so what's going to happen I can't put in my stove because I made it all to myself I'm gonna walk into the house and I'm going to see that my friend has a stove there I'm going to be very jealous I can tell my friend get your stuff out of here it's my right to get every stove and then he rekhaim and any Tire to go out of there says around very very nice who is going to say something like that to his partner it's not a nice thing it's not manners tell your partner to get your tunnel out of here the norm is to allow a partner to have a Tanner in there so what are you going to do you are going to allow your partner to have it because it's not manners to tell them not and then you're going to start eating yourself up your kishkas are going to start boiling over oh it's not fair he has the toner and I don't have a toner so tell him that no I can't tell I'm not it's not nice and then you're gonna bring in your own timer okay just thought it's interesting psychology RTC says again retroactive clarification I'm going into my part of the house you're going to yours the cliffing but this is what's important Iran says that wasn't important this whole thing it was posted if Ruben is the one that says it I might have a picture here [Music] here this is another okay he says I you see he's the one the big guy is saying the words he says I won't benefit from the small guy so the small guy can't give anything to the guy so now in that case we can force the big guy to sell his share no sorry where am I because if it's a third party so a third guy we have two partners they get along fine there's no nether between them at all but this another guy stranger that he has a nether he can't benefit from one of the two guys could he come into the business could he come into the to property foreign but the Run explains that he has to be coming in for the guy he can just walk in there so guys look there's a guy that's that's that's in a fight with one of the two partners and the partner said you can never benefit from me so he's not allowed to walk into the hotter for no reason ah you could say but I'm going I'm coming not into your part I'm coming to the 50 that's owned by my by your friend he can't do that unless he's actually going in for the friend here he has to be going in for a reason for the friend now once and again in our days it's very negative here in America we have something called there's the stairwell going into into the building let's say you live in our North it happens all the time I want to go through the stairs and end up you know Continental bugging on the bottom over there is that okay you're not okay now a guy the neighbor that lives in the fourth floor told me it's okay do I need a permission from every single person in the building the answer is yes and the answer is no one can give you versions to go through the building he can give you permission one time two times but you can't do it as that's the different different huh no you bring Dustin to my building you go like this of people you go 200 people come into my thing they slam the door they they wear out my my steps forget the light you're going into my private property it's my private property you know I'm not mad if there was one guy so yeah one minute we're learning the whole song you didn't take anything I'm a partner with you I'm not thinking anything from you I'm going into the Huts I'm not going to Cuts because invitor most of that you're taking something you are taking something I have to clean the the stairs now twice so we can set it once a week everybody brings in desert Trails a lot of dust a lot of dust okay ask your local rabbit I'm not passing I'm just saying thinking about it just because you go you got and if you ask permission from one guy that doesn't help you maybe you don't need permission from anybody according to you but if you need permission one guy's not enough and even that one guy even if they all it's only for once or twice but you can't just make from a habit out of it if there's partners says the mission of item foreign guys having a water fight and they also have a xiaomi guy that decided to go into the mix both those clothes not exactly sure why but he has this pushed over the other side fine so this is America's it's owned by the person that you cannot benefit from the other reason obesity this was also done from scratch it's a olive press Muskan beer now another nether that is not gonna have any benefit from shiman Shivan is the owner of these two things or one of these things owns the bath house of the city he owns the owl press ER now if the person that you're not allowed to benefit from the owner he rented it out to somebody else but if he has a thesis is a new music that we haven't learned really that means and this is common even today sometimes people own properties commercial properties where you have a store in there and the and the store gives a percentage of the profits not only in addition to the rent the given percentage of the profits this guy owns the the Mikvah he releases out the mix with somebody now there's another guy that wants to use the Mikvah but he has a question can I use the Mikvah because the real owner that leaves it out he hates me and he made another I can't benefit from him well it depends if the owner of the mcfug gets a cut for every single person that walks into the microphone it costs ten dollars to go on the Mikvah he gets two and a half dollars then it's a problem because he's benefiting he's he's getting he's getting part of your your your son but if he just leased it he doesn't care who come it doesn't matter how many people use the McMahon how many people don't use the Mikvah it's like a typical store you just lease it then you can go in and use that guy's Mickey even though that guy made a nether against you if he gets a certain percentage awesome is going to describe just plain old rent motor then you can go in I will have air coins so remember we had I just stole this from Daphne base here the guy is pointing at a person he's saying I'm not going into your house he didn't talk about a particular house your house in the Hamptons your your house in New York your house okay yeah in other words if I buy your house it's going to be cutting them if I buy your seller kind of Mace if the the the pencil guy dies or he sold it then you let it go into that particular house because you never said you see his hand is above the house he's not he's not pointing at the house he's pointing at the person that house happens to be his house but once he sells that house it's mutter however if he says coin and bazer check it out now the hand goes down oh he points at a particular house and he says this house I am mother myself I'll never go into it mace if he dies you're selling somebody else also remains awesome forever because he answered this particular ass forever um is are we only talking about a case where the person made a Nether on himself he said I will not benefit from let's see yeah this case you see the big guys talking he says oops I'm not gonna benefit from him so he made another that he won't benefit from somebody else am I but what if he said you not me not I can't benefit me you can't benefit is it because only in a case where they ask for themselves foreign what's that other guy supposed to do How could somebody how could Reuben ask her shiman he can't answer it's like he's a harness how could he say you can't come into my into my field I will not benefit from you I understand I could ask for myself but how could I answer somebody else that's like your highness maybe perhaps I feel obedience Maybe ambrero hold that ain't bravero and even if I I could answer you um okay fine oh yeah we had a case if one of the two partners is [Music] so now the word understands the word Mudder means somebody answered him that's how we should learn in the mission somebody made me author oy who played not to the eye not like in this case where I made myself awesome somebody made me awesome somebody made the little guy awesome that he had the little guy in this case cannot receive from the big guy that's what it says and nevertheless this is the yamara and our mission over here wouldn't mean they have to change the word they understand it that we're not talking about that somebody else answered him understand that he himself made it also like in this case the big guy the banker he made himself he said I don't want a benefit from you he made himself also not that he answered his friend that makes a lot of sense it fits into the later diction we learned in our Mishra they can force him to sell his share who are you forcing to sell the guy that made it also on himself or the little guy that you made also you made him also how could you force the little guy to sell a sheer how could the banker the guy with the car say something that would make the little guy the guy with the shake the shake case over there how can you how can he make him sell his Shear in the property well tell him you cannot benefit from you cannot benefit from me so then so so now you're forcing a partner to sell a piece of property that's impossible anytime you want to force a partner and celebrate you have to go to court over here I have a way you just say something and finish yes does it make sense because yeah if the banker made it also on himself Clifton you can force him to get out of the deal who told you to be such a guy and and ask for things on yourself get out of here you're out of the deal earlier but if the banker made the small guy user I'm not giving eyesight why would you make the the life whatever the guy's name over there the small guy on the right why do you make him sales piece of property on Main ass on us thank you um hold on I wrote something important but I can't read my handwriting it's a run because oh yeah uh let me just see if I remember what it says here um aluminum something to the point where oh right the round asks why don't we force why don't we force when when the the guy says you are awesome he asked her as his friend why don't you force let's go back to the banker yeah the banker says what should we call the little guy here the borrower okay the banker tells the buyer you are also in my property so the noise is it can't be that the the borrower has to sell that can be but the run as so Force the borrower the the lender the banker force him to sell both of them can't be in the same deal now he can't force somebody else to sell but you should force him to sell because he opened his mouth and try to answer somebody else if he answers himself we said we force him to sell but if he answers the other guy then we don't force him why not force that guy to sell so that Duran says yeah again if the banker says that I the banker cannot benefit from the borrower then we force the banker to sell if the banker says the borrower can't benefit from me then we don't force anybody to sell why not force the banker to sell so he says no the the life of him asking me can't force because he didn't do anything he didn't open his mouth so why should you forcing me and the banker he's not going to be inertia the whole point is that maybe the borrower will be nif shall he'll break the nether that's that's your problem not the not the borrower's problem we don't force him but the banker there's no reason to force him to sell because he's not going to be a niftia fine but then the round says that if the banker has done this he's ruggled to do this he keeps on saying the dorm to other people then we do force him to sell what does it mean ruggle that's what I was saying this is this is an interesting Allah ruggle in this case if he keeps on doing it means two times so it's like yeah we can learn from this different Allah when it comes to chrisma what else um oh if a person is a lefty or he says he's a switch swinger switch hitter yeah what does it mean switch hitter If he if he did it more than two times they say there's things like that what is wrong it has to be ruggle on the other hand he's done he's done more than two times yeah thank you panovic thank you ambidextrous what it's two times yeah oh fight I'm a rabble omaziri dive involved on the base sponsored by Uncle Cohen the official mdym is p now we know who he is everybody's remember what he looks like okay the score is being able to support him and I throw it to somebody else and to finish shots of the Rebellion so this is the half Amino we already said the moscana when we learned the mishna my foreign when you could split divide the property into two good festive pieces each one has a good piece but if it's a very small property that has less than eight hours everybody's gonna hold yes and it's motor right again the only time you say ain't bravery maybe is because you could split it but over here since you can't split it we'll say yes every person puts in 100 bucks and they put up they build a shop is if you have two people that are fighting reminds me the famous famous joke joke number 172 but was saying anyway they found the guy on an island and he had two Souls why do you have two Souls you buy yourself an island it's a one to dominant and one I swore I'll never step foot into that so yeah we all know there's a guy here right Menachem the guy we have a great show we have a lot of alcohol there's a guy no we need another Soul why I don't know we didn't know he fights I mean he doesn't even know why he keeps on telling us we need another show what's wrong with this show I don't know I I'm not I'm not diving here anymore he left for a month he comes back he comes back again he reminds me of this mindset but so you have two guys never been a big fight big mahoikas and the mother I know from each other they both can't benefit from each other is they cannot step into Soul so if I ask you the question although in the beginning share that here's the answer that I know from each other they cannot go into the show now a soul says the gemara is like something that you can't divide what are you gonna divide who are you gonna divide what you get half you get the beam a lot you can't divide it there's too many people there you and your friend can't divide it anyway me a soul is like something you can't divide pretend that the show was like a piece of property that's less than eight hours they both can't go in now you just told me that if it's something that you can't divide then everybody holds yes and you just divide the hours when I go in it's my hour when you go in it's your hour hello this is where we got it from when there's not enough to divide it between two people it's less than four hours per person a total of seven and a half hours let's say also if there's enough then we hold ambrero if there's not enough so Revelation was gonna say that he has braver why we're gonna we're gonna divide the hours yes we do should we do a little khazar real quickly if it's a large enough piece they can divide between people then everybody holds him very ready so that's the Allah that's the normal way to go Amber why because each person get a piece but if you can't split the pieces then now you have a different spiral that we already know basically what each person gets we all we don't know we're missing one piece is what time of the day they get so and that's very small part of breira that will say yes because 90 we know what's going on it's ten percent we don't know for that we'll say yes according to blessing fine foreign and he rented it somebody else now the the owner who rented it out he has a threesome he has he gets percentages the comment he said how much percent Omar he gets a quarter third a half something significant but if it's here but if it's less than that amount it doesn't count now let me ask you something if this is a partnership we just said if he's the owner and he leased it out and all he gets as his percentage of in addition to the rent he gets less than 25 percent he's not considered a person that has enough very good but what if he's a partner he's a one percent partner could the guy that's mood I know from coming to the bath house the answer is no even the smallest amount of percentage of partnership ruins it or we're not talking about partnership we were talking about that he leased out the entire place and he gets a kickback he gets not a kickback he gets a percentage of the prophets and that has to be 25 percent the question is the Run asks that we learned that there's a big Allah somebody came over to me afterwards because he was awesome real estate if the the renter the guy owns a house and he wants to get that tenant out what do you do instead of putting mice in what do you do you make him moving up you're kind of you're making my carbon so you can't be in the apartment anymore new so you see you could you see that a renter he rented it out to the guy he's nothing there he's not he's not he's not a part of it he doesn't get any any money back he's not making any percentages he rented out completely and yet he still has the ability to answer the entire apartment to the guy so the round says very very nice when it comes to Shiba now we explained already when you rent something to somebody you are mature with him you gave him a lean you said you could use it so there's three things that could break a lean hegdish so if I make a Nether and I make it hagdish I could break it that's great that's when it's between me and you it's 101 I go to the the guy that rented it and I break his lease by making it huggish that I can do this as the Run what I can't do is rent it to you you're the boss now on the Mikvah and now I'm gonna make hagnish call a stranger over there that doesn't take away that doesn't make it awesome for him to come into the Mikvah it'll only make it also if I go to the guy that rented it for me and I make him and the whole makeup dish I can't make one guy in in the street hagdish fine now there's another gearsa here I'm only doing because we have a good picture for it there's a and it's very funny I thought over here the word the Rand is Avo debates him live whoa what's baits him have to do with anything I'll show you here if you see the picture you'll understand everything look official if he sells the eggs in the makeover and that's what they used to sell in those days and they make them today seriously if anybody needs Kyle or anything like that you go to the Mikvah if all the stores are closed go to the makeup I'm shocking they have everything all the best colors all the way to skia basically everything everything shampoo towels Shawn especially chunk wine and great house stop uh what in like in the water so he's saying that if he's only a partner in the eggs He Still Remains a partner in the what is it called the um the concession thank you that's exactly what I was looking for if he's a part in the concession that doesn't count as a partnership he has to be a partner in the water part in the in the make of a part says no even less than the 25 is also considered a partner or even the eggs even if you're a part of the concession it's also oh if so you can tell me the story so what's the case that the guy is allowed to go into the if I if your mother I don't know from the the original owner the big Real Estate Mogul that made you also by Noah when is it us when is it motor for him to go into the Mikvah the macabo betasco when the Real Estate Mogul gets a monthly check of rent and it doesn't matter to him who comes into me who doesn't if the person that comes in he gets a a percentage of that then it's awesome but if he gets just a regular rent check then it's motive for everybody to go in all the people have a wonderful hey [Music] a wonderful week before