Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 45 by R’ Eli Stefansky

Mordechai [Music] today is a very big day for me I'm 50 years old my Hebrew birthday today [Music] [Applause] [Music] I have to hold us wow wow wow wow oh day 11 29 it says nothing to do with the birthday this is a this is my streak okay we got it we got it this is for the guests what do I do with this here come come Saturday wow it's beautiful thank you this for you yo save you see okay hold two hands two hands foreign I lived so far one year more than my own mother well I saw him so I don't take a single day for granted life is very precious and the the stipler says that when I mentioned this a number of times the reason why we have white hair is to remind us that we don't live forever we start getting gray and a little bit more gray than the knees stop working so well and the body can't he stopped playing basketball you can't do this you can't do that today it's cracked over here over there it's there's no bigger semen than when you turn 50. you remember when you're younger I had that that out there you know what the 50 year old oh yeah so it's a wake-up call and Beijing I have to take upon myself to be Miss Kazakh and add a little bit more learning to my day a little bit more has it a little bit more avoido and also it's an opportunity they say it's there's a minute to give a bracha on the birthday especially 50 it's a big it's a big one so I want to give the whole ilum and anybody that's watching should have a life of simcha through avoidance from the kinder designed [Applause] thank you thank you thank you it's been uh it's been a long two months of celebrating it started out in Kenya on a safari and every every other day is another celebration I hope this is it I can't do this any longer I'll see you at 60 days all right so real quickly I first of all I want to say to the to the new group that pays your Chef I think your slime I don't know for sure are they in Zoom right now I don't see Benny so they're probably there so they're there I don't know if you can show them it'll be your valvedic meanwhile there's a few whoa where's Benny ah bennyson Benny all right where is this minus one all right so you should go from Kyle coil here we have here uh email from Ezra Abrams that sells brother from Australia he's been with us for four years he says I hope to see you shortly in person chanukkah it's the holidays over there in Australia and then he he understood that I said that we're doing the very first satellite location he thought I meant in the world ever and I'm talking about mdy he says look we've been doing it since 1997 when satellite came out and we're doing a different shoe room I get it we we haven't been around since 97 I don't know if I was alive then hope to see you soon share members since Hulen Hoff gimmel he remembers yes four years ago from before you were famous kind regards Ezra Abraham's from Australia and real quickly I just want to show you real quickly what it looks like to have a status so a lot of people here who have WhatsApp they don't even know what status looks like this is on your WhatsApp and this is a 30 second clip of this person dovey schwartzmer status it goes through pictures every few seconds good morning my boy saying the sand appreciate the ah anything to inspire somebody else to join maybe she remind me on the bottom it says how many people saw it already because no one says six over there during part two starting tomorrow which is today Rabbi side you could still try to bring your friends I want to give you the Tom or Levy I'm sure that he had everything to do with this I I guess is there anybody else not you no no not him what is this Tomer what are we looking at here this piece of art as Garrison Gershon did it oh Yoshi these are pictures of what what are they of oh throughout the the years shared throughout the years ah I see some some of them in my house some of them this is anywhere somewhere and the bottom is what a pool Americans okay real quickly oh the first picture I didn't put it on you put this here I I'll show it because you wanted me to show it I'm not whatever the coffee my birthday y'all said Billy I put this in my slides here nothing to do with me I want to mention real quickly yesterday I said that we have just a few more days left to sponsor the Miami Museum and there were three people here from Miami two of them came over to me after this year and they said they wanted to donate ten thousand dollars towards the CM Michael Citron and Ellie koppelman ten thousand dollars so basil Hashem we're getting closer to the goal of helping people uh join for a uh oh also I said as a joke the other day this is but even though it's a joke it obviously brings back a lot of harsh memories trauma from from Crader when you're a kid so somebody Gershon Rose did this in Manchester here check this out I'm not gonna show the whole thing because it gets a little boring [Music] you're gonna go to your head and you're gonna go to your head and you're gonna go to your head and you're gonna go to the head you get to you get the idea it's always about him for his entire life you're going to get him okay fine and this is uh mdy magnet on some old car in New York Historical car uh all right so we'll get into it the kylo is sponsored may we always be able to support Tire I mean the tire protect us from any harm the message how do you say how do you say birthday I never you know as much as I learned in all these khadar I never you know what they never did is it awesome to do it's very awesome I've never seen one a hater foreign Jews in recovery that living learning one day at a time is possible person sponsored the living one day at a time like that Ivy Sherman on occasion of test of kisly's birthday maybe Springtime until 120 May review and everyone else at mdy continue doing what they're doing to help rebellious succeed in doing so may all of you be masliac and everything that comes your way who was born in the suburb of panovich Lithuania today my great nephew perish time Levine and the art is sponsored first month sponsored by Anonymous from Lakewood so first of all today what are you showing me over there these are all the pictures okay we can look at the screen for a second we have plenty of time today it happens to be the shortest dolphin shots great idea brother but I like I appreciate this more not ravoy said today is the yard side of Robina College also he's the snifter and test of Kiss Live basically I'm going to be learning his mishna today and I want to yeah it's the day I guess that the kivas jumped off the roof thank you yeah test of Kiss Live that's the Coit versus yard set as well the I announced yesterday that there's a special hummus Edition foreign Gans last night and as I'm talking to him he said you know 230 people signed up and I was driving from here to Jerusalem and by the time I got there it was already 350 people so I don't know what the updated number it might have been we might have given all 500 away so yes for sponsoring I think it costs close to ten thousand dollars that endeavor so you should have got those for giving a gift to give to another why to encourage Tyra unbelievable I just want to welcome the guests real quickly show my license what's your name I was born in Lakewood 50 years ago today Australia thanks for coming your name from Toms River New Jersey when you came in for the show bro because like three years ago you came for times where you lived in Brooklyn then you did the smart okay Moishy Pearl from Lakewood also you know each other with clown never met each other also representing my my birth city from anybody else who do we have here somebody who is next to you Charlie what's your name schnitzel schless huh London are you there you I didn't I don't remember you have to see him ah you see yeah I know it was there 500 people I remember every single one now thank you all right boys side here we go so we have to do a little bit of khazar because it's these are the shortest diaphragm as I said today's daf the shortest staff in chess when you have two sides this is a dab that has less words but there's only a without a normal bass short is that it also happens to be the shortest days or shortest area of Shabbos of the Year okay so we had a mahalaikus about Healthcare how does hefco work what's the mechanism of healthcare we're used to healthcare and that's actually how we pass again Hefner means I say you see this object this computer right over here this is Healthcare and that's it it's not mine anymore now I'm going to be social back because just in case I said in front of three people who I have to real quickly I have to say the The Silence of the sheer before we jump into it so I'm in real estate and one of our techniques to get rid of a bad tenant is you open up the door while it's gone and you send in 20 30 mice and rats and that either this day after day eventually the guy leaves you put a big speaker on top of his you know you're going through the floor above you do so so there's a way that if you have a tenant you want to get rid of you're doing certain things does anybody know what it could be the kids are we're going to learn about it Hashem Hefner when you say something is Hefner how many people do you need to hear it zero one two three how many anybody raise your hand if you think you know we're gonna see it's basically three depending on the rise of the rabbana now if my partner said I can't have a na or he can't have enough for me I can't have enough from him can I go let's say I can't have enough from him could I go into his business if let's say a mother I know from somebody and he owns a store it's another Shiloh different question he owns a store but he rented it out to somebody else could I go into that store these are lockers are going to learn today so going back to Africa how does Africa work half your minutes I take my object my my belonging and I say this is Healthcare it leaves my Rashad so it leaves my domain somebody else can come and grab it but we we saw the Rebellion holds that that's not what rebecc holds that it never leaves Euros until somebody comes and claims it so I say this object is heavier it remains mine up until a point where somebody comes and takes it therefore three years later I noticed nobody took it so I'll say I have karate from the after I take it back what's very interesting is we don't pass the other day we had robot West a big question Rebecca and that's it is gone but we spend all this time it seems like a lot of time because it's shorter mudum explaining a havamina of okay so we had this yesterday just to go through real quickly we have a Bryson and the Bryce had two parts and it seemed like the first the ratio goes like and the safer goes like your Bic the ratio says well the first part of the race is a little bit difficult to understand we have to explain a little bit but the the racist says that a regular half typical Africa where I say this object is Hefner after three days I cannot take it back or who does that go according to because he says I can take it back forever oh so the blue is from we just have to understand why for three days you could take it back for three days I mean once once I put it out there for a milliseconds it's not mine anymore how can I take it back so that we said ramayan Remember the ramai meisser okay special they call them the safer however it's not about a different case it's talking about a case where a person makes a a special type of healthcare not your typical Healthcare very rare after he says this item I'm leaving it outside my house for a week whoever comes and takes it great but there's a limit this item is healthcare for a year for seven years but he put a limit in that case we say that he could have harata forever and ever wait a minute you can't have karate forever the only person who holds you I have he could have forever so comes after the beginning is the safe is that's a big No-No how do you have two shitas and one Bryson so we saw the sheet of ullah that the whole thing goes according to hum and explains it then we're now we're talking about says the whole thing goes according to everybody so the last part of the price is perfect because he says you could always have harata so if a guy made a heftier lisman he said this is Hefner for a week he could have harata the entire week because he couldn't do I say great what did what do we do about the first part the first part is that if a person does have care he cannot have karate after three days he says he could have forever so how does it go according to Abu I see so that we said I put it there just in two words what does that mean that this guy is going to think in his head that he got a gift why because rebellious he says you could always have karata oh he's always have harata so in his mind he thinks oh since I'm holding on to it the guy gave it to me as a gift and a gift is right so that's the other chart the difference between a gift and half if you acquire something from Healthcare you don't have to give anything to the kind in the living no true muslimizers so now we have a case where this item is actually Potter because it's Healthcare in his brain he thinks it's high of he thinks it's a Matana and then he's going to take from The Hive fruit and use it as meister and Potter fruit and what is that called tevel it's a well we'll do the reverse I'll take from the heavier fruit from the Potter and make Meister on the hive he's gonna make a big mishmash so that's why we had to tell him stop that it doesn't last forever here here the two piles there's a pile of Potter piles that was yesterday okay oh the only question is oh now why is it according to her why why could he have harata for three days it's only three days because there are mine we have the ramayan there are mime they they masculine everything they have for a minute and then the back so we say you know what then we have to go back to the to the to the ratio that for three days we in order to exclude ramayan they have to make advocate for three days they have to say I'm leaving this for three days because if you have karato right away then people are gonna do this trickery they're gonna they're gonna be Mafia they're going to cost them their fruit and they're not going to pay true or some measures okay now you say Mom so now we're holding on the top of so you might ask the question well you know what let's let's go back let's go to mandalam base we have a little bit of time let's do it quickly we're running out of time but let's do it quickly I know the people over there in uh your shalim and whoever started Volume 2 today doesn't have it so I have it on the screen we'll leave this on the screen for now this is just the little bit that we're learning from okay three lines now hermaphics camera we have a guy who made his his whole entire Vineyard Healthcare and then the next day he hopped it from Hefner he's high of all the madness the small Graves the the the weaker grapes the ones he left the ones that are in the corner however he's Potter from myser why if you say the shot is that the whole the bryzer goes according to Ula we have this over here that all bright duration save because according to Allah that what then everything is once you say the words happier it's gone forever so it makes a lot of sense since it's gone forever something that's real Healthcare doesn't have Miser that's why there's no Meister here we're talking about the real Allah in the Torah not what rabbona said afterwards in the second that you have to give mice you shouldn't give it's their the Eraser the Eraser you don't give Maison Healthcare and this goes according but if you go according to this that duration is safe are both says that the racing safe is revoice every icy holds that no matter what you could always take back half care as long as nobody acquired it you put it out there in the street nobody was looking it 10 years later you come you take it back you say I didn't want to do after why in this case when a guy is Matthew his Vineyard and he could have harata forever and nobody acquired it but himself he himself acquired it the next morning Potter minimizer but was never half girl by his eye why because he was math correct and nobody took it and if nobody takes it it's not after and it's not Healthcare you're high even Miser am I foreign foreign yeah got another Vic or about any great so that's where that's what we did yesterday now you buy some here we are welding today train everything goes according to everybody see you're right but the price of this price that we have in the on the um on the chart over here I should really get out of it so the people in your shalayim could see and this is already another it depends how you do Healthcare if you do have cure in front of two people then you could have harata it's not such a strong Healthcare and you can do harata within three days of the hall you said it's such a strong Healthcare that it's so strong they don't have to take Meister anymore but the African Republic if you do have your in front of three people so now the whole world knows about it it's a real Healthcare and he's also concerned this is another smart concern that one of the three people will grab it and run away with it so it's a serious effort he knows that what he's doing now is real healthcare because anybody could take it okay so when he does Healthcare with two people the Run explains it's more like a Matana it's more like a gift here take it and he has okay has to leave his possession completely and if it doesn't leave his possession then it's not a good matano but when it comes to three people says it has a coil ABI Plaza has a call everybody knows about it it's how things get around rumors start with three people MMA law it's a real Hefner and you putter from Miser just talking about Avatar reminded me I decided to go it was a little bit of a mistake this morning I said oh I've been closing the famous of its time it's huge I'll spare you looking there for now but the famous we have three people and this is that if call Muslim islamab law so there's no listen to Bishop there's no Russian heart on it so first of all the time goes on the whole thing to say listen you're not allowed to say in front of three people that's 100 awesome but what about if it was already said it from the three beetles in the newspaper could you repeat that Shannara everybody knows about it so the first time as a whole he's on a campaign to say you can usually you can say la Sonora even if you heard it even if three people heard it it goes on to say I'll just say real quickly he says number one you're not going to have Havana when you talk to even if many people know you now have kavana to hurt the person he's talking about you can't say oh he's such a bad guy everybody knows about it but I want you to know what you can't say it for that so that kavana ruins everybody's Oceanaire anyway second of all he's um oh you have to make sure that one of the people that heard it let's say the Lord is set in front of three people what if one of the people has your shamaim and he doesn't talk shanhara so now you don't have this idea of abidlasa the whole idea is the all three are going to go out and spread it but let's see one of the three is not a spreader he's the huffstein himself he doesn't talk on shinara so now he's down to two so you don't have abidlasa so you got to be careful you want to be you want to do what happens you have to make sure that the the type of people okay good luck then he says only if it's in that City I don't know how it works today with WhatsApp and everything if if the guy that's saying those channel in front of three people said please don't say the secret so you know how to say the secret you're not going to add any nice juicy details if you know that one of the three people is one of these kind of schmoozers and he knows and you know he's going to add details so you're over with me either she shouldn't say it for that reason says I don't even know if we pass again like this is uh you could say kids are trying to convince us don't use Avid Lots as an excuse very very hard and he says okay great that's awesome says the gambarro hello if you do have care in front of three people you cannot take it back you can't regret it it's a real strong Health Care definition but if you do have in front of two then it's it's a Hefner but it's not a strong Africa you could have revision Healthcare you cannot have harata even if you do have care in front of one person so why is there a concept they have to do have in front of three people today it's good for you to have two witnesses so that the the guy that was masquerade doesn't take it back okay fine so that's as far as before that if it's in front of three people then he's more concerned that one of the guys might drop it and then he does it for real okay it'll be a real Healthcare um now the return I'm asking question here saying there's not a lot around here even this mom is a short moment but they're trying to mask we had the mishna you have two friends walking in the desert and one of them doesn't have food so the the guy that doesn't have food he could take the other friend's food off a rack his friend puts his food on the rock into this Africa no how many people were in that case listening to the Africa only one how's it work reborn and said we just learned about and said you should do have confronted three people hi Garrison how does Hefner work on WhatsApp WhatsApp is three people a bless Brave during covid you can do it on WhatsApp if you passing okay we gotta ask for every person how it works do you have to take it back or you don't think okay fine I'll go about him you're trying to mask it says anything tomorrow you need three people to do after how do you do it so what's the obvious answer because you're talking about okay so the guy is starving I started War Mater but Tyson says that this whole concept that you need three people by Healthcare is only by karka but by Caleb for Villas Caleb and stuff like that and food you don't need three people others of tices okay hello now we're turning stuff from Heaven base surprise only four lines they will all have this horse to never give up stay positive and keep going forward I'll have to get the sponsor we'll take some time here I did it I'm Daft gonna have to look slowly we're responsible for the mission wow it's been a while oh here we go no I don't know where it is now something else oh it's already here I just wasted that okay now we should all have the scores no that's that's the turning it oh I messed up that's for the micheler great now here turning the dab is by Uncle Cohen sorry the official mdy MSP he also sponsored today for my birthday is being able to support him in a tire and to finish shots with the Rebellion you know what I just realized something you'll see client told me last night that Janko Cohen from the official mdy MSP asked Jesse Klein for his business for mdy's business he does uh credit card processing so what did Jesse Klein tell him I'll give it to you on condition that you joined enough so the poor guy now but he had to join the dive he's okay I'll join and I got addicted so all the money that he ever made from us he gave us back 10 times over because he does the sponsor he did already five thousand dollars in turning into daf he just did another 180 000 of this he gets a significant line but it's very much aligned it changed his life you have other what y'all say what don't do any business with Jesse Kleiner mdy yeah you always admits as you'll gain and money you'll always lose okay so then very simple you have a shot of you have two partners who each partner said I'm not going to benefit from you I don't want to have anything to do with you I don't want to benefit from you now it's a case of it's a little funny case not like we're used to usually it's the mother and the mother I just took these guys from the mouth but because I already had it usually the guy that's the mother the guy with the car he says you I can't give you I'm upset at you so I don't want you to benefit from me over here the arrow is going the opposite way he's saying I'm not going to take from you okay you're a great partner you did so much for me I don't want I don't want to benefit from you okay so they have a hotter it's time and grab the picture from from everyone you have two houses Reuben and shipment and they have a hotter hotter is the front yard they share it now what's very interesting about this mishna is we need these three things here okay hopefully we know Victor is but we'll go over it real quickly victor means a very insignificant thing that nobody cares about no one in the right mind cares whether you walk into his front yard nobody cares a lot of crazy people walk through my front yard I don't care I'm not gonna tell the mailman you could and and then he can nobody cares but when it comes to another we say even Vitor is awesome according to even the smallest insignificant amount you can have enough I said you can't have an oven you can't have an offer me even though in a typical I don't even care who comes people come and they go I never cared today I have to care because your mother for me okay so we have to go with that we also have to go with a machlaikus of yes or ambrero okay be part of the sheer this is the easiest of the easy if you're not alone just pray very very simple idea of I like the way the article says it I have no better way to say it retroactive clarification you go to my Freya and you say this is what was going to happen so let's say two sons inherit a yerusha so it's everybody's and then when Benson says you get the right and he gets the left it was retroactively clarified then we know that when the father died the moment the father died Reuben got the right and Jimmy got the left I took six years in court but retroactively that's what we figured out that's exactly what the original supposed to be that's right over here also remember not yes or ambrero so over here we have two types of braver over here we're talking about what is a shoot of own it's a beautiful Sophia of partnership right your partner what do you want from every store that you own with geely what do you own a hundred percent of everything or 50 and it's this way and that way how do you own it so we're gonna learn a lot about that today if you say yes brero then it comes out that I have this half this 50 you have this half I could force a sale look your mother had not for me you're not allowing me to come into my own property some forcing a sale you buy me out whatever we're forcing yourself but over here we have to go to this the third thing on the list okay I didn't have enough room for din it's not enough property to split and divide what I should get two feet and you two feet you can't divide a private like that let's say it's less than four hours whatever the shear is let's call it four hours I can't get two and you get two I can't force you to sell something and ruin it for everybody let's say it's uh I don't know a swimming pool we're gonna divide it in the middle then you have nothing you have a casanol divide in the middle so you don't have a class and all anymore you have two tiny rooms certain things don't have khaluka so they don't have Kaluka how do you do breira how do you do retroactive clarification on the time in other words when I walk in and I use my my front yard I use my wedding hall then then it's Miss Gala becomes retroactive that it's mine that half hour what time is it 7 54 when Joseph is leaving that's the time that it's mine you know what every minute that you're here is great because we don't have you the whole week Square I hope you're not going to play basketball though anyway so every when I go in at 7 54 it's mine my children goes in in 754 it's also his he goes in nine o'clock it says Shabbos afternoon it says Sunday morning whenever we go in and we use it then we we may vary that it's mine for that minute okay so now let's see inside now that we know that again vitour I cannot give in to my shoot of one ounce not even something that's worthless just for him coming in I can't do that great the other thing is it's like it's whether or not I could retroactively decide who has what and also we're talking about a hotter that you cannot divide right the answer to go into the Qatar says each one could go in because he holds yes and I can decide I just went into my own my own a lot of time 755 is my time that's when I went in and that's mine 100 percent so if it's mine 100 percent I'm not even having enough from you yes I'm now that I ever know from you but I didn't have enough from you I went into my I'm allowed to go into my house it's my house 100 why isn't my ass want to do so I just walked into it and if I walk into it I retroactively and then my friend I decided it's mine for that hour but if you're sharing it 50 50 so now I'm using 50 of yours that's a problem ain't Bray Road they hold so I'm old name breaker I can't divide the property every time I walk in I'm using 50 of yours and you're using 50 of mine foreign now so the ram explains their beautiful thing in shotus it's very important to know this idea says how could you how could you my sort of answer me from going into my own property it doesn't make any sense it's mine I want to go in there touch upon it a little bit but to explain it nicely he says like this it's impossible to say that each should have has a hundred percent can't do that it's a short fist it's a partnership how do I have 100 if you're my partner obviously you have some and I have some so says the round how does it work the way a partnership works is very important to know this the way a partnership works is I have 50 and you have 50. but you have a Shiba to me to allow me to use your 50. you have I have a lien on you you hear that partnership works I have 50 you have 50 but because we have a partnership I can force you to allow me to use it I have a lien a shebot but guess what look at this this chart over here there are three things in this world that cancel a Shiba and alimets releasing your slave if you have a sheep and a slave you shock her and boom the lean goes away hegdish so listen to this remember I asked you how do you get rid of your tenants without rats and noise at night I say that my apartment is hegdish to him there's that City can't use it it i i he has a lease we signed a rental agreement and I have a Shiba to have to I have a heel to allow him to be in the apartment but hegdish overcomes any lean so if I make it hagdish bam he's out Durant says that not me he says it in here so my love I I'm allowed to use your 50 why because I have a lien on you but I also by mistake didn't realize I made it hectish I said your mother had not for me and that's Allah of hegdish and that's it the lean went fighting so now I'm stuck with my 50 without a she Bud to come in there and my mailer it becomes US Army you hear um it's yours it's yours you just rented it okay no that's not yeah you have a Bible story why not why not you could sell it do this no you do different things if you could tell you why can't you but according to your blood that says yes so Mayla it's yours 100 you can't your mother to go in okay now I was very worried that I'm not we're going to finish 10 minutes early and I can't even finish this they're trying to mask a very simple question foreign guess what we passing somewhere else that ain't Brave what are you gonna do oh very passively yes like you're building and the whole reason is because he's breaker we we passing somewhere else that ain't very wrong what do we do so Reuben time says over here real quick I'm just telling you this whole giant run so you don't have to go through it I was going to threaten everybody and start reading it fine without says by the way the Run flows very very easy reason it's not like Tyson it's much much easier it just flies but in Dan paskins he says like this we passed away not because of breira but because it's a different thing because Vitor is motor this also give us veterans user now we're passing videos of butter but also Miguel yeah as a person we always talk about vitres awesome oh very brings Robin which means the ramban find another shot the Run says very interesting the Francis is a shot is that all over the Torah when we talk about brayer just because I like this round because it explains a little bit about breira what's a classic example says the round of breira a guy goes to the cipher and he has two wives they're both called Rahul he tells the the cipher write me a get for Rocco the wife of moisha but which one I'll decide later so at the time of the writing of the get no one had an idea who to get us for not the husband not the cipher and then he goes and gives her the get so retroactive clarification that we wrote it for you okay there's a lot of unknowns and then you try to make it known but over here it says the ran over here there's a lot of knowns ninety percent we know we know that we're we know that I own 50 you own 50. exactly at what point and when what time of the day I could use it and this and that that we don't have so that's a much lighter brayer that's not a typical breira of of all shots and therefore over here we hold yesterday even over here but in this case since we know a lot of information it's not your typical case we'll say yes have a wonderful day oh what's the Shabbos a little later than usual because I'm going to be in July Gary's gonna be here whoever's gonna he's not coming with me no no this this you're going to be a Gary base Hashem yes so what eight eight ten eight ten what's the Shabbos I can get back here on time 8 10. which really means day 20. so yeah