Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 36 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning rap boys hi welcome to all the guests please read anonymously crazy mice the last week I got a check from the IRS for overpayment on tax I decided to give the mice attempty why anyway I decided to give ASAP this week because when I was learning the Parish of yakovino assassin you mentioned the concept this week of mice it was triggering me giving deadly y then I realized that it might be the Leo which is me I guess is 52. it's the same as 50 but with the coylo is 52 hence the donation to Rebellion the kylo then I said hey maybe his name is Elias in adelio so overseok is he missed a few Daft my covers his energy sauce I'm using the time to catch up on that whatever yeah a hundred And subscribe today's my answer a kiss from Hashem passing the kiss of a kid so he sponsored today big fan no he's not he's in the middle of uh big fan of the sheer from Baltimore even sponsored this year in order my son's khasana on January 11th partnership my son and daughter-in-law had a beautiful baby girl and I'm coming down to stroll I'd like to attend this year I'm reading I'm reading this because we get emails like this almost every day what is the address maybe it doesn't have Google no I'm nine any tips from for travel from your salon well I have a tip whoever's here from your slime how you doing if you hear from your slime there are people that usually need a ride back to your slime so they usually get right so that's on the way back usually get a ride weigh in I don't know we have to do something on the on the new app rides to mdy any days Rebellion won't be around things in advance David mitnick here's a good one this is my voice it is a good one this comes with a video this morning one of the best videos I've ever seen this morning I had a nest and I contributed this Nest to me having turned on the sheer literally three minutes before this happened I hope the video I sent came through clearly I was driving my daily he's a bus driver from Muncie Trails it's the bus that goes from Muncie to Brooklyn 6 45 a.m from Muncie to Midtown in Williamsburg for Muncie Trails Williamsburg all of a sudden a car shot across all traffic Lanes right in front of me I didn't have a shoulder on the right to use as an escape because the school bus was there you'll see it in the video the amazing Seattle managed to Swerve just enough to avoid the car in the Park School Bus keep my bus under control the video doesn't do justice to understand how sketchy it was if I hadn't slowed down early on the highway for two seconds it took to turn on the sheer the car would have been driven right into me I sort of think what about thank you for giving me a way to be Makai to ditch music on the morning trip after today your talmud muscle Brawn I'm a Ritz one Muncie Bates I guess he has that uh license plate amerits Muncie beta now here comes the video what's amazing about this video is that he's wearing an mdy cap check it out you see it I don't see it oh you guys see it here's his cap It's A Beautiful video and that's because he was watching this year about his side with his MD white cat it's not bad you guys want to see it again right save your life look at this look it's my mission [Music] I know it's a lot of work but all that only has the sheer from that everyone that could base for someone like me trying to make up what we missed during covid it would be helpful if every die from the beginning of Brooks can be added Iraq Klugman now Joseph yesterday added literally a hundred dab into aldaf bekit sir we're gonna be up and running all the way from braces because of your safe usability acts hard work what okay good but you should feel safe the coil is sponsored may we always be able to support toyron I mean protect us from any harm the coilover for one day in honor of Ripple Yahoo and the coil is foreign ER living is and by Moshe Brown as a thank you to Hashem for guiding me to avoid a serious accident while driving by Danny kalotti do you guys know that Danny kalai watches this year [Music] who's done wait where's Danny you learned Danny okay but he's part of this year and he should come he should come in person Elizabeth Travis in honor of my 50th birthday and learning many more years with raveli I don't know if he has a two-month birthday like mine but kids maybe today is his birthday Devin Mueller in honor of my father-in-law my father-in-law me share three times a day Hebrew Yiddish and rebellious here my father-in-law said rebellious cheater is the desert wow and the art Yoshi's art the first month of art is finds by Anonymous from Lakewood we had somebody that said he wanted to sponsor three months of art three months so if it works great and we could do we could talk we could double it up we could triple it up it's not it's not gonna don't worry it's gonna go to great places it'll be five spots the boys we have a lot to accomplish here today um uh we're starting from that flame on the base let's just go through what we learned yesterday so [Music] see them in Miami oh see him in Miami I'm supposed to announce this talking about the seam of Miami because it's very cost prohibitive it's very very expensive to do see me Miami you know it's Miami so they're asking the I don't know if anybody wants to be missionative as a corporate sponsor five thousand ten thousand to enable the harmony Nam to afford it and before they announced the ticket prices they're looking for sponsors so you should go ahead what's the what's the website and you can call Michael benches through directly it's on the screen not a great idea whatever don't spam him what Miami CM gmail.com the rich people in Israel should pay for me you also feel safe okay [Music] great I have no idea where I am should we say a lot of the guests we have plenty of time here what's your name's addict nothing sure from yeah you you're learning achieving your slime okay who else these guys you know okay these guys great really yeah what's Farm House Farm oh he finished shots yeah he finished shot saying no he finished zooming on him how old are you running after him like crazy okay so we had a question yesterday is Ashley oh we have yasi Klein but he's not a guest we have and we have a bunch of others we will go through them later if we have time and we have Dr Epstein of course that just came back from America yeah so we had a question is a koyan who does your carbon for you is he doing is he your agent's agent so you brought Araya from our mission our mishnah has Coronas you see in the list over here this Coronas in the blue Coronas and the red carbonus and the blue are regular crobones then you have a type of carbon called them these are carbonas that a woman who gives birth brings us the the function of this carbon is to allow you to eat kochem to allow you to go into the basement you took care of everything you need to do you went to the Mikvah and then you have to wait until the following morning in order to bring carbon it's called you're missing kapara you're missing the ability but it's very different than the category on the right category on the right is for the the whole carbon comes if somebody was sin he has to bring a carbon if you notice the mishnah only talks about the list on the left the red list well mockery of Allah of somebody's mother Anna from you if you are not allowed to benefit from akayan the coin is permitted to bring your birds if you're azova you let us so you see from here why isn't the mishnah say a regular carbon the mission should say why is the mission to talk about which is not so whatever it's usually when we talk about a car when we talk about the the common carbonus the reason is because when it comes to Purim you don't need Das you don't need the the the the rotten of the of the person that needs to bring the carbon you can bring a carbon for azov Zava without their consent so it's a different category that's why the mission brings it but if you do need consent then the coin would not allow wouldn't be allowed to bring it for you because you can't benefit from that call you that a coin is doing your job he's your age not hashem's agent if he was hashem's agent he should be able to bring any carbon for you the ones on the right the ones on the left the fact that he cannot bring the ones on the right proves that he's your agent and if he's your agent he's doing you a favor but that's only the ones on the right the ones on the left he's not doing you a favor because I don't need your consent if I don't need your consent so anybody could do it for me nobody's doing me a favor by doing it for me yeah okay good so says the mark but the gamara sticks in that it says the words of the word tairas teaches us Bane godo bangkotton I don't need consent a cotton cannot give consent I don't need his consent I just bring a carbon for a cotton because the word Taurus means everybody we have to learn something from the word Taurus it comes to include even a covenant so you see that when it comes to azov I don't need consent if I don't need consent it's not really enough for him for me bringing a carbon for him but that's only that category okay nothing more goes into that line there's another place that says the word tairas you have it like 10 lines from the bottom of laminate on the base oh you love this a woman who gives birth it says Taurus what does Taurus mean Paris means even a katana now that's the Sugi we had a number of times give birth can a talent give birth if it comes to included that means if aktana gave birth one is permitted to bring your Cabanas without her consent well it doesn't make any sense because the Titanic can't give birth according to the gemara and we'll explain it how could include somebody and only octana comes to include and this planet can't even fit in this category Katana cannot give birth there are three women who are to use contraceptive to avoid pregnancy katano um Owen was pregnant women who's nursing Katana why does she why is she believed to shabbat is because if she gets pregnant she will die I when we had the soaking subas and before also we always had but you see go on the news and you'll see there are girls in America I know for a fact 11 year olds 12 year olds 11 and a half year olds so you see a tonic cookie of birth so we're coming up with all sorts of shot them Durant says over here beautifully listen to this cop if she gives birth she's not a Tana if she's 10 years old and she gave birth then she's a 10 year old dialogue just seem on him that's it if a girl is capable of giving birth you know you don't have to be 12 years old to be a good dealer you have to have Sim on him and if you gave birth you're you're a dialogue when you're 10 years old so that answers all these things it's very good why why are you giving me those eyes 12 years old means we don't know whether or not she has Simone but she has Simone that's it cannot give birth yeah says the gimoro you're right foreign concussion yeah he says the gamara what was the whole question because the word Tire ass is extra and the word Taurus comes to say Tana no not necessarily he's always tired even it comes to say if the wife the your letters is a shaita then the husband could bring a carbon for her he needs to bring a carbon for her why because he's married to her and she's mayor in order for her not to be a tomato he has to bring a carbon you know there may be carbon at least says that a person can bring a carbon for his wife now I have stomach question if a husband is a millionaire and the wife or let's see if I carrot it doesn't matter let's say the wife has a job she doesn't make so much money the husband is very wealthy he makes a lot of money now but your letters could bring a carbon it depends how wealthy she is if she's very wealthy she'll bring a regular animal if she's poor she'll bring a bird what kind of carbon does a woman whose husband is very wealthy but she's not what kind of carbon does she bring the the expensive one or the cheap one that she could afford and then here's the question what credit card so and in in this case where the husband is bringing for her does he bring what he can afford or what she could afford and the answer is it it doesn't go by the woman it goes by the husband in all cases and that's what Igor says right over here he has to bring a carbon what he could afford not what she could afford the expensive carbon we call her body and any carbon that she's high of it's not just but even a carboner whatever it is if she's kind of uh he brings the carbon forward fine now what about if a woman she she promises Hashem she says I'll bring your Oiler why because I feel like it does the husband have to bring it index of it says anything that you your hive I have to bring to bring it for her she comes along and she says I want to give an adult Hashem does the husband have to give it or not you say no why not so if you look very good very good says no um she cannot be Makai of him well she she's Mikhail Chavez she's just fine so there's a tices over here on Lambo and aleph towards like the middle and he says a beautiful lotion [Music] any woman could destroy your husband literally all she has to do is say I want to bring 25 isilos today and tomorrow another 25 hours and every island costs a thousand dollars and that's it he's gone he's a god he's more great to pay for it so we say a carbon Nether now I want to bring Ariah that what I want to bring a Raya whether or not a Cayenne is your agent it says in a braai saw that a coyan should pour the damn here's a picture he sprinkles the dam of the khatas and the awesome four the Israel now I just want to point out that the gamar is asking from abrasa we had this is what David asked yesterday it says so what's the answer why doesn't the gemara bring from our own mission and from the braisa instead of bring from the braiser because our mission is talking about what this category right over here the the last one on the left side in the red is a material so we could easily say that it fits right into the category says referring to a matsara is just in that category and therefore I have no proof anymore but I'm going to a Bryson and I'm asking from the brightest it doesn't talk about in the Bryce at all about and it says why would I say and force myself to say oh you know what kind of we're talking about no it's a regular carbonation yet it says that a coin could do it for you damn so uh so what do you see you see from here that he's hashem's agent Hashem Hashem told him to do it he's not doing you a favor at all and therefore that's why he can do it says no we're gonna be forced now we're forced to say we could we push it off and say sorry we're talking about again we said we don't need his consent we don't need that is the word Torah what does Tyra mean even a cotton so Ben got all been caught on you don't need consent and if you don't need consent you're not doing the guy a favor at all anybody off the street could do it so certainly the coin can do it says nah we learned the name is we didn't have time but eventually we're going to get to it where yoshu Bezos and draw piggle it's a concept that people get scared of but we have it so many times shots over and over we're all used to it already almost everybody besides the new guys maybe people there there are four avoidance that a client performs when he Shucks the animal first he does cheetah then he receives the blood you can show it on the screen then he do it he receives the blood and then it does he walks with the blood to them's back and then when we show before this reek of the final thing in all four of those avoid us and those actions during the action the coin could have a bad thought what's a bad thought when it comes to carbon a thought that this carbon is going to be eaten after it's allotted time in other words a carbon typically let's say Islam you eat it for two days in a night he thought himself let's say you want to mess up the Israel he hates that guy he sees he's all coming with a big fat carbon that cost him a thousand dollars he says no problem I'll do it for you he checks and while he shuffs he says okay we're gonna eat this carbon in four days from now that's past its time he just ruined the carbon he destroyed the carbon take the carbon throw it in the garbage that's all in the head but it has to be done during if there's a pause between and Kabbalah you can't think then let's say they they they walked to them is back and then they took a five minute break during the five minutes he can't think about it during the I'm just throwing in another thing fine now the alarm is like this who thought this bad thoughts okay we'll go back to that point later this afternoon we learned it but we'll talk about it later so if the client wanted to mess up the Israel just to make him lose a thousand dollars so he's Hive to pay a thousand dollars to little bow about it he just ruined the thousand dollars of this route you pay it again hello no you defense I don't know what yeah of course no so then it says it's not piggle that's not piggle he wants to mess him up he says I was in Fargo if he doesn't say it okay we'll talk about it when we get this welcome I'll go upon himself we learned every day what an answer then but you for sure asked that you're saying okay but if he did it by mistake you don't have to pay the thousand dollars Allah beagle The pigo Remains whether he did it before you and he did be amazed it's a beagle yeah if he's saying that he's the messenger and the agent from people I understand where a person can come in and Destroy somebody else's animal but if he's my agent I told him to do it I might be golden piggle it shouldn't work at all I don't care how many thoughts he had it shouldn't have any effect at all why lay Malay because the Israel could tell the Korean there's always a concept you didn't do much I made you an agent to bring me a carbon you had no right to think a bad thought and therefore you're not my agent if you're not my agent foreign so you see from here that what he's a agent of Hashem I mean this is a cost of three words the rush over here on the side brings the gemara that we read it can't say this but this is red you could interpret it right it's not something we could come up with where any human being could come up with this is from marcina lawyer actually you shouldn't think any kind of thought in any cert in any circumstance even when I'm a schliach and you have the right to say that I still have the right to ruin it with my mind because it says in the tiger I could ruin it in my mind every time every time you bring a carpet for somebody it has to be with consent besides the category because oh so over here we have a concept called what does that mean Rabbi is a year New Concept today a cotton cannot bring a carbon he's an EF sharp he he's not about he doesn't have the capability who brings it for him his father so therefore I can learn for all other people in the world who have the ability they're F shares that I could also bring a carbon for them without consent I'm learning an f-shar from the e f sharp E F sharp says in the Torah I could bring a karma for a kid who doesn't have the ability and I'm going to learn to the rest of the tiger for all the people that are F sharps says gamara if that's the case is this right over here is because most of the time when people bring corbones it's because it's because they ate the wrong food they thought that this piece of meat is so a typical is called a carbon trailer now foreign that a man a husband has the right to bring a carbon for his wife it doesn't matter what carbon it is it says at the end the reviewer says any carbon in the world that says in the end of La made on the base right two lines from the bottom including a carbon cactus she is a shaita she's not capable so she's an EF shot just like I learned from a child who's the EF sharp to adults who are F sharp I could learn from a shaita who's the EF doesn't bring to an adult who's Abshire so I could bring your carbohydrous for an adult the same logic that you have by hmm pays off what a straighter you can do anything yourself but is to bring we're talking about a shot there what time and what if she becomes uh what if she becomes a nishtapa she became smart again we're gonna see in a second okay let's see maybe the digamore will talk a little bit about you sorry it says is if I designated for my friend it doesn't work why not we should we should learn we should learn a person who's capable of bringing somebody else should bring it for him why because we have a case of a woman a wife who's a shyta whose husband could bring it for her even she's an EF sharp she's the EF sharp so we should learn that F sharp from e f shot by the way this is the famous maiser right over here this is the story the guy had a discussion with the rebellious I completely understand why you made my wife literally perfect she's she's capable and she has the best Midas in the world and she saw she's great great great you did that so I should want to marry her but why in the world did you make her a shaita and all of a sudden he got a message from Uncle I made her a shaita so she should agree to marry you is a word if she ate if if what happened she she was over in Avera when when was she over that there if she's over there when she's a shyta a shaita never brings a carbon they don't have that dust no dust no carbon lavascript but you're gonna say that she ate it when she was well and then later on she became crazy fridge a person who ate Caleb we have a concept she was smart she was normal and then she whatever happened there she lost it and then she became good again is apostle the carbon is possible why once it's rejected the carbon is rejected it's Nitro you can't you can't bring it at the time that she's a shayta it's no good so that's it you can't bring it so any time that she becomes a shyta that's it she's partly from a carbon so what's going on here so this whole your whole question right so this is not possible okay what about a carbon paste uh should you know the Navy I had a we have a real carbon Pace up in the kitchen I don't know where it is but here's here's the here's the new carbon pesach with a beard and payus this is a it's a goat but it's a carbon peso fine it's it's ripped off from somewhere it's not not it's not 100 original the beard and the pace are very original I love how my favorite specials why is it that a carbon pays off you can't bring for your friend now what's a good question gonna be the question's gonna be let's learn EF Sharma I could bring a carbon basil for my children without their consent so anybody should be able to bring for an adult as well foreign so is asking that we learned from this past accelerate Salve is one father brings for his entire family including his kids one of them's there celebrates all boys love the eraser it's it doesn't mean who you have to bring for your children and that you you could prove from here that they don't need consent it's it's not a heel so it's not a cube I can't prove anything else I can't bring another carbon I can't bring a carbon PESA for an adult based on this possum this person is not telling me that I have to bring a carbon for my children if this person told me after being four EF shars so then I'll learn F sharp for me F sharp but then positive is not telling me that one kid stuck his head into your slime he gets a part of the government unbelievable he has the ability to give it to his brothers also this carbon is shafted already it's on the floor the only time you can be part of somebody's carbon pesach is when he's still alive when the carbon is still alive you have to be part of how does it work you have a you have a carbon you have a goat a sheep and you say who wants to be part of this you make a group but they all have to be part of the group and the animal has to be alive you can't be part of a group once the animal is dead avoid so then if so what is the father saying here if he's not part of this when they arises then why is the father saying whoever comes first says that the kids should be used to be running to the base learning how to love Mitzvahs going to the mitzvah I said this many times I'll say it again my father when I was a child he woke us up early in the morning at four o'clock in the morning to go to Crown Heights to do caparas fire tugs early in the morning now I'm looking at it now I wouldn't do this to my children but at the end of the day I think it gave us a certain appreciation we made a he took me to the store to buy sleeping bags for the Suka was going to be a very cold sukas sleeping bags heavy pajamas the the three layers I think I believe and I discussed it with clever on the Safari I think it instilled in me a certain appreciation for Mitzvahs like you I I remember till this day I love that we went we bought the sleeping vessel just smugged me to sleep in the sucker we went for caparas today I don't even do caparis on chickens anymore but that idea stuck in my head to wake up early in the morning it's something you can teach your children okay he's supposed to be mechanical kids there's a story that the that the girls made it to your slime before the boys now what should it say it should say whoever came first wins and they are part of the carbon the other ones are not part of the carbon that's not what it says it says everybody is part of the carbon just the the boys were a little bit lazier than the girls so you see that it's not at the rise it's all part of it great the tolerance for myself it says in the mishnah that a Cayenne whose mudrana the Kayan is not going to benefit the Israel yet he's permitted to take trumas and miserus for the Israel just in time ah five minutes left um yeah yeah much easier and shorter throughout chats the second time around base Hashem we're gonna focus on them with base official mdymsp this was being able to support the military and finish shots with the rebelli check this out boy side here we have a potato head this is a Cayenne Potato Head why because what happened is there's a pile of potatoes on the left and yasi Klein everybody give them a big round of applause look here in the house foreign I didn't think about this before I'm thinking about it now this is a true story Noah your teacher went to recruit girls in America during covet and she got stuck there a random man by the name of Jesse Klein sent her his credit card I don't care and she took him up on it she swiped it and swiped it he never met this woman in his life he made sure that she was she felt comfortable she was related to somebody from mdy so yossi Klein goes ahead mattress makes sense this whole story no he went and he decided to do somebody a favor he took from his old pile you see that pile is Jesse Klein's pile and he he took this and he gave it to Dr factor in this case you see Mama she took his medicine he's calm everything's gevaldic so he lost weight everything everything this is a different this is before he joined this year before I joined this year look at your mdy why ties Dr fact look at this [Laughter] okay so anyway goes ahead gives us to the lady this Meister 10 Truman's two percent Truman mine is the same thing if are you hattoria takes from his own pile sorry does he need the consent of Beyond Schwartz all the way to the left the owner there's a there's a question somebody not in front can I could I could I acquire a gift I find something in the street I say I'm acquiring I'm picking it up I'm searching it for my friend Avi could I do that or not that it is Das now what's a Shiloh me I mean that's what I'm doing a great favor look how much fruit I saved him all those potatoes on the right he didn't have to spend and give to the kind or to the lady so you don't use content what do you mean I want the Mitzvah I want to do the Mitzvah this is there was a guy that put together a Petra hamar he worked really really hard to get the two khmerium that never had a baby before the woman the the female and then she had a baby and it was a zachar finally one time it messed up was in a cave as he had bought another one finally after three years he has the Pedro hamar he advertised in the newspapers whoever wants to give him 100 bucks he had a thousand people he's not and they bring that you look in the online pictures gold silver the rep is about to show up a guy comes over to the coin here I've been I'm in pain here's my hundred dollars he ruined it for everybody ruined it he's exactly I just gave the client 100 what I did it for you I I just redeemed the donkey what's wrong he said let's he ruined it he ruined nobody had a sauce over there if it ever happened it's myself so they say that I'm serious so so maybe it's a midsole what do you I want to do the middle who asked you to get involved there is permitted to do his truma and is with his consent who's consent what the Cayenne or the Israel who is it I mean not the coin yossi Klein the nice guy or Beyond Schwartz the also very nice guy but the owner of the cream the mayaskree al-shabal tree who owned it if you're gonna tell me it was one pile you see one pile completely owned by the Yemen Schwartz from the five towns the dentist and you see climbed the big Sadiq decided to take some of biyama Schwartz's fruit without asking him and give it to the levy or the Cayenne well it died in the mind and what does it mean it was with his consent he lamented to Die the delay was yossi Klein's own Das the schlier who asked you it says an apostle came to remove gum at them but has to be with consent Ella so the word Das in our mission so that must mean that Benjamin Schwarz all the way to the left he's the one the owner of the pile he's the one that gave him consent and he said yasi do me a favor you're you're passing by my field take a bunch of potato heads and give it to the coin he did with his consent oh come I had to like who said but wait a minute anytime somebody does something for you says Duran anytime you hear this anytime if you tell somebody do me a favor take this tissue throw it in the garbage you're doing his that's how enough for the guy that sent you you're his agent that's not all we're talking about people that are also right now Beyond Schwartz cannot benefit from yasi Klein and he told him go do me a favor pick up a bunch of fruit they're heavy schlep it over there go over there you're going anyways to Brooklyn bring it over from him he's doing his life no so we must go back to the next case the case is it's his own fruit yossi Klein was being attacked he's getting from his own potatoes now what does it mean who's consent is now if the owner of the the large pile agrees to this he's benefiting he doesn't have to give his own fruit this is not he's saving him cash that old pie on the right is what he's saving because he doesn't he would have had to come out of his pile it means that you'll see Klein himself had that's to do it he's taken from his own fruit and he's giving for for his friend the armor started that but if Beyond Schwartz has to agreed to it the guy the owner of the real pile has to agree hookah behind it like you see from here so again the question was if I take from my own fruit and I give to my friend and a gift for my friend do I need his consent or not you see over here you'd only consent because if you do have consent then you gave him my no and it would be awesome to do we're talking about the simple case of it's one pile owned all by the same guy the dentist from the five towns where I was talking about a case where he just announces he doesn't ask the client it's very different if he asks yossi Klein to do it then he's having a no because then you'll see his client is doing his Sleek versus his agent anytime somebody's your agent that's your Hana you're not out of benefit you're a mood that I know from him but he gave a general statement he threw out in the ear let's see I have here if a guy says you are my schlier take truma for me red awesome not good if the guy says green that's what the gamara says over here he just screams out makes a NASA whatever wants to be nice to me I'm not telling you you I'm just making a general announcement do I want to do it for me is welcome to do it for me I'm not gonna be my not like the Peter hamar over here I don't care about the Mitzvah then it's okay as the run but if he says the lotion in the middle because that's a little bit more direct and that's awesome that doesn't work have a wonderful day oh yeah