Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 33 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] ah listening we'll start over the video my father of Moishy lachman shlito got myself and brothers and vow we have all been tell me them of the sheer what a father that's what we're talking about bringing them Hashem are positively impacted as well police see attacks Jay lockman AKA RL 58. it's only appropriate that they're going to be taken away from his children thus a person at a Kiddush should first make a bracha that's what we're talking about yesterday that maybe some people go into uh Bar Mitzvah whatever they eat and only afterwards they say first you're going to take and somebody I forgot his name was sitting right over here in your seat said after maybe that's shot in uh giving Yitzhak food and then braches first you make a bracha on the food he said you thank you I'm saying as um as opposed to saying first and then make a broken bless Hashem first then people check out attached pelioids who side to zoyar that if a person wants to bless his friend or son he should first bless Hashem otherwise the broadcast what are you saying okay whatever it's all right so this guy says like this this guy has a murder thick idea I love I mean it's a good idea it's actually a good idea but put it to the list of other ideas unbelieve what you're doing for cloudy so how many people are shy of the player and learning instruments tremendously I myself try to do that for you on a regular basis I don't listen to your sheer usually it's easier for me to do it on my own but very often I listen to the first 10 minutes just because it gives me a lot of music to see the after 71 here the emails have people change their lives through this year I don't know how good your Hebrew is but it's not so bad maybe you should give a share in Hebrew also yeah can you imagine what would be like if you can do the Israeli Community what you did the English speaking Community although and there's a show there's so much Tire within the hands with hands reach unfortunately there's so many even which are detached from learning and something like you share could get them on so actually this monster Shabbos right is this monster shot as many it was starting a new location mdy satellite location where they're going to watch this year live every morning after chakras somewhere in recovery you have the address your middle sign maker that's okay don't talk say that we'll get it later if you can do it I think there's even a bigger audience Target many many real and good dealing which are thirsty for this kind of thing it's uh for you it's just another 45 minutes yeah anyway remember your share but can you imagine how much I bought the satire there would be I mean you're already doing the Slime maker thing you might as well just throw this in and then the eight minute to have two you know how many more you think and also second year in English for Beyond Schwartz and his friends in New York benching you with a continue tremendous anyway this is a status Sparks of a Nation a solo 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the charts every day Lauren's Lamborghini Lauren the guy was on of today if you don't have a Tesla you know this Volvo is garnished where's the camera yeah yeah volume two is coming out very very soon so bring your friends bring your mushpacha bring the people you don't like people you do like everybody no Jew will be left behind he said yesterday [Music] let's see let's see this solo come on come on I know but this is the Covenant to bring another Jew you know how many Xena will join if they hear you solo they will hit this will be your way to do it nope okay insist not the coil is sponsored May will be always be able to support Toyota made the tire protect us from any harm I mean the message your father was coming back today Tuesday okay because this thing's over today in Syria Tila Rakowski in memory of Ruby Rakowski sorry sorry lame on the 28th yard side like the Ari and hilly Fishman in honor the birth of a baby girl Tanzania Airlines and the Groves of bed Shemesh oh you related to these folks well hell someone like him what's your name we met already no we have some alaikum and you I also the grandfather Mazel Tov Mazel thought first time first kid so how old are you 18 19 what's going on here [Music] wow unbelievable okay everybody say here we go we're holding my brand new mission of the Flaming base Ahmed Bayes by the mission of brand new peric what is the difference if somebody says I will not benefit from you at all or I won't benefit from your food what's the difference only very few differences very very small difference hello the only difference is that if a person is just from food so you can take a shortcut to go through his his property it doesn't really hurt the guy that much you know I don't know if you've ever been to Muncie on a Shabbos but people are going through people's backyards it's very very normal to do that it's not like it costs them money or anything the other thing is you could borrow from him something that has nothing to do with food if you're only Madonna from food so you can take from him a cleave like I have a couple examples here a tape measure this has nothing to do with food really or a toilet brush or a sewer a sore snake yeah there's no Cycles to food okay no I I this is here for a reason okay fine these are things you could you could borrow from because if you were more than enough from his belongings then that's included if your mother from foreign these items are not included but if you said you're not gonna have anything to do with your friend's food it doesn't only include food it includes everything that has to do with Food Lion here's an apple pharaoh different Sif there's different sizes for flour for wheat very high here's a requiem this these are Calum that allow you to make food it's part of the food making process the tunnel this is a toner this is a in those days they would they would put the the pot on top like we sort of what we do today Hollow you could lend him clothing if he's a man you give him a ring the talus this is very interesting we have a picture coming up soon onezuma is a nose ring for a man so you know the story I went through Comcast with a guy with a photographer and a photographer had a ring on and she said I don't understand why you bring a girl to take pictures of me so so Yankee said what do you mean girl he's a boy no no there's a ring uh the guy got so insulted it was terrible mama she wanted to go off the dirt I'm not kidding so did not like the whole ring thing and nowadays might be a little different it's um the whole thing that was his thing but in time you've seen the mishnah they used to wear Rings they used to have nose rings as well Montano who's the Tana that says that going through somebody's property dreesus Regal taking a shortcut is not a big deal Omar of adebara I have a rebellious so rebellious would say that a shortcut is a problem if somebody is and you have you go to the store in those days especially you bought a pound of apples the guy would add an Apple so he wanted you to come back it's a good business practice so that extra Apple that's called Vitor he's just giving you something for free even though there's no there's no real monetary gain here this is it's normal business this is it's not because you're something special this is how it's done you only paid for a certain amount to get that little lecture so so too I would say the same thing with taking a shortcut shortcut would also be problematic now according to hamem people are not mocking on these kind of things they're not Market on shortcuts they're not mapping on the extra Apple so male it's not even considered having Hannah from the other person a so it says from food you cannot borrow from him an Apple for the tools that you make food asking tomorrow where did you get this from it says the word means food it doesn't mean food utensils it means food no you're right actually you're right if he would just say the word Mahal ah would I know from food food includes cereal meat pizza those kind of things but the sifter that makes the pizza that's not included but he said so foreign he is answering on himself anything that causes food that brings out food and the Run sticks in a little clay chair because otherwise what in the world does he says the food means anything that brings me to the food obviously that's what he meant well if that's the case maybe that's not what he meant means inside her nose that you could have from the food besides swallowing it and eating it hey Marshall maybe maybe the word means to put the food on a wound so you're not eating it but stahhanna that comes out of the food I'm a robbery right so what he's saying is he's adding these words what the mission is talking about a case where he says any benefit that brings to me eating yeah again so our boys say let's let's think about this for a second the guy says anyhana that brings me to eat is awesome that would include a sifter what about taking the food and putting it on your wound that we just discussed a second ago he said another brings to eating he doesn't say anything about not eating it's all about eating so if I take this food and I put it on my wound is that motor officer what is that what does item say hello so it's actually my clothes but we're going according to the round so here this is what we come up with the Sookie right here based on the shackle the tire based on the three the two tourism of the gamara we have something very very clear [Laughter] that's jealous we're not stalking any more in this we're being nice to each other especially Brothers you started though you deserved okay fine where's tati when we need him listen if a guy says just your food so the gemara says if you just said that word it does not include utensils it doesn't include anything but actual food that's the gemara taking it from the gemara second classes he says so you know how to take United eat the food but guess what Hana of the Michael also includes medicine so you know I take that food and put it on your wound what about a sifter it's not included in that does not include a sifter but if so Mila in case number two in blue a sifter's mother case number three and I did tiny little three because I couldn't put a real three in there that's what we just discussed according to the Run you're not allowed to eat and you're not allowed to use the Kalin because it brings to Michael but to put it on your wound is mutter comes out beautiful if you say a certain thing then wound is awesome sifter's mother if you say another thing wound this Mother's awesome so it depends how you say it these are the three ways to say it and it just comes out very clear the round brings this it's not me the Rand says it just from the questions I think about that's what you're saying on Friday we learn sometimes they get more ask a question and says the answer a question answering from this that's how this brings out all these Allah foreign does not include wound but if you say I know I'm revealed that's the machology all around Papa Paris so here we're going we're we're one step removed it's not food it's the trunk of the car that holds the food of Perez little picture here you have a hamar that's carrying Paris and he also has a sack so the the donkey the car and the sack that the whole the plastic bag that holds the food is that included in your Netherlands foreign you don't have food you could have a carrot like the without the donkey you don't need the dunk it just helps you so it's another step removed so these are all included by a Papa Sauce here's today's art Yoshi thought this would be hilarious I feel bad for the guy at 1 30 in the morning he sent to me I was really sleeping and uh he said I uploaded but I couldn't find the uploads I had to take his it's not as the clarity is not the best but it will make do this is this thing if you look close I just blew up the thing here's a guy it's hard to see but he has a nose ring he has a ring on his finger he has a horse he has a nice cloak all this for what oh I don't know could you see I wish he did the uh nose ring A Little Bit Stronger but all this in order for him to get food what does that mean if you come along and you look with Hobbit you have a nice nose ring in your ear in your nose oh people will feed you I have a muscle I just did today like today this is a demo right here yeah if you come like this if you wear a special cloak then people give you whatever you want in those days it was a nose ring a ring on your finger this I don't know what some sort of Talus a horse oh it's cautious reminds me this uh this guy yeah there's like a 20 year old kid who figured out that if he rents a Lamborghini Lord Ransom with Lamborghini and he rented a bodyguard so let's say it costs them 2500 bucks the whole thing and he showed up to these parties and people like just swarmed around and this kid he said his name is you know whatever Roth I don't know what his name was Gates the name is uh you know Andrew Gates what'd you get and they and and then people started investing with him he was he was a con artist that's what he did he just all you have to do is show up a nice horse and today it's Lamborghini shot that's because that fine okay Misa umizo and also this is the same thing so you hear the Shiloh here there are things that bring the food to you and there are things that bring you to the food so it's two different shilohs over here over here you're you're taking action to bring you closer to the food you're wearing a nice hat that's going to bring you close to the food it's different than bringing the food to you through a Napo Florida through some sort of tool there was a mice that's not supposed to be funny this mice it's a it's a musler Haskell it was a poor person who went to a wedding came with his tattered clothes so they kicked him out and said you don't belong here get out so he went to one of his friends and he borrowed like a nice suit uh nice suit he comes in and she's like oh gosh bring him up the Frog and they gave him a they gave him a meal so he takes the meal and he starts smearing it on his clothing like this putting in his pockets so what are you doing he said because they didn't give me the meal they gave my clothes the meal so I'm giving the food to the clothes always you have to remove yourself from don't look at the address you look at tashma I have imaginary boys this is in our mission that you could lend somebody a cloak in a Talus nezam a nose ring with her boys I'm just I keep on thinking about this like if we were to meet the people in the time of the gemara we throw them at a show for sure not let their kids into our schools but the guy shows up in the nose ring so what if he wrote chass who cares he has a nose ring unbelievable what's what's the what's the what's the story in the mission a guy borrowed a ring what is he doing with it he's not gonna show it off to anybody there's no connection between the ring and the food he made a net there again he made it out there he's not going to benefit from Roofing from Ruben's food he's permitted to borrow roofing's ring okay what does he do with the ring he's not he's not showing it he's not he doesn't go to show with him just in his house he walks around with it okay so that doesn't help him with food why would that be awesome it has to be the only time it's awesome is if the ring is connected to food to his nether land of course it's mother and Alive affili rice man no he runs around and everybody sees he has a nice fancy diamond ring oh so they're giving food victory machili so you see over here that a grandma this is just a grandma it's causing somebody to think that you're hush of a guy and therefore he gives you food and that's motor we're talking about a case we never you just put in this package there is because it just mimics the ratio the ratio says you shouldn't learn certain things now to save a machine like these things record he says the same thing over and over so I'll just say what he says he says but now we don't know we don't have doesn't tell us what what to do in this case you could go this way it could go that way so what do you do the humra and it's also says the hell again the official mission sponsored and scores for continues anything that you don't it's a it's a tool that it's not for food awesome this is an amazing Allah so here it is this is the drain snake that we saw before has nothing to do with food but they rented in Home Depot so if I give it to you for free what just happened you just gain 25 dollars and what are you gonna do with the 25 you're gonna go buy food so male that's awesome that's the that's a major credit all these things if there's some money involved here where you can gain money then it's directly as if you gave him food awesome our first mission of the the parrot it's talking about Napoli the sifters it says you're not allowed to give it to him foreign that even something that doesn't have that much benefit doesn't have benefit it's also also veto resourcer so too nabok Faro when you're not masculine is also it's like letting a guy go through your front yard it doesn't cost you anything nevertheless it's awesome so therefore even though there's no monetary gain here it's still also according to the liazard it says the official mishna sponsors you know what we'll just make this one I didn't look inside in the dorm but I'm pretty sure this is one mission okay Spanish scores for continuous we'll give him a break sponsors so we know what Matthew is we had a lot of it in the last few weeks yeah you can do this I need the button though no one day every year this morning we put in a big pile we take three boxes of the pile and we buy with the carbonus all of clay is supposed to be part of the carbon because we have the communal components like most of anchovies different things that we do the tamid every morning every afternoon you have to be part of it everything that has to be part of it so if you didn't give your shackle your friend could give it for you I'm going to see maybe perhaps he already gave it but never arrived at the end of the day even if he didn't give we the base I make those gifts for you we have you in mind even if it never arrived even if he never gave and therefore you yourself the the guy the nice guy that's sending in a half a you know those guys that pay the meters you see the the meter made what's it called get everybody call me in New York and you run you put a quarter in there real quickly fight so you see that the time is coming going so you know what I'll send a half a shekel for this guy he doesn't have to pay you back and because he doesn't have to pay you back it's as if he never got Hannah from you now this is a big one and it sounds very familiar because we had the Sugi at the end of subas a month ago whatever a month and a half ago a guy owes a hundred thousand dollars you go on you pay off his mortgage you go you pay no he doesn't have to pay you no we're gonna see it's it's not giving direct benefit right now foreign gives it back to him see shiman didn't give anything to ruvane it was ruvens he didn't gain anything it was his to begin with so Reuben is permitted to receive it back Makai we're gonna see who exactly lost it is the person that has the nether not the nether the person that's that that can't benefit the person that could benefit there are places that they pay people to return Davido now as far as this role explains here we had this but just he says it with the backtailer he says how what do you mean we pay it's a midst of to be measurements he says it's something similar to a principle that saw that there was it was necessary to make a tick on to fix what's going on people didn't want to waste time people have jobs people would I'm gonna go pick up this guy's wallet and I have to make it to work if I don't make it to work I'm going to lose all this money so just let somebody else pick it up was that will pay you for your lost time that's what we pay just similar to a principal he even uses a lotion like the mafiker the the Bala Veda the one that lost its nakasim and to pay back okay I was thinking like what's a good example about Shabbos Aveda today I'm not saying there's a hundred percent highlightedly correct but it's within the realm of Ash Aveda today we don't really find things that much you know a bike lost this but what could be a shop Savannah I saw this resolution was murdering me this idea that if so if you see your friend driving let's say to a wedding and the wedding is next week and you don't tell them to tell them hey you're wasting your time you're wasting your the fuel in your car you're so shopping that sort of thing like to to help your friend not to lose money says the mishna um if now the guy returning the Aveda he has every right in the world to take the ten dollars that he lost he makes ten dollars an hour so he lost ten dollars the other guy wants to pay him so you can take the money but what if he doesn't want the money he says you know no I want the Mitzvah I don't want money yeah a lot of people would do that but the guy that lost that Veda is not all that I've had enough from him he was mother had not from him the the guy that lost Aveda let's call him Ruby he said I'll never benefit from shipment and by him by shipment not taking the ten dollars that he deserves ruvane is going to benefit ten dollars it's going to remain in his pocket he is doesn't have to pay shim and he gets to keep the ten dollars she just made a game so what do you do it's a big problem he can't gain from him because he's moving or not so what does he do like this let him take that money and give it to English almond s we had the sug you know who ushari what you're doing is you're chasing away a lion a lion is about to attack your flock so you come with a stick and you chase away the lion you can't demand any compensation for it there's no compensation you there's no visible Hanoi here this so the rhyme brings the famous sugey like if I go into your property and I I plant a bunch of trees and I plant this so you're McClure to give me at least the basics the cost or whatever but over here you're just chasing away an irie why is it a Mitzvah to do what like what to to pay somebody's right back if you your mental not not the not a right but it doesn't have a Mitzvah if you pay my hive are you guys Okay so time out but wait a minute no there's another thing here you're talking about the guy doing the Mitzvah I'm talking about the guy or you're saying that the the master shekel is not my midst but I just had a monetary game I have to give a half a shackle and because you I don't have to even have a circle I have to pay back because you I don't have the paper so I benefited from you a lot of money ten thousand dollars even if you have a midst of I don't have a midst of receiving it from you I have to pay back you say it's timeout in addition to the previous that we discussed a long time ago this is also you have to pay ten thousand dollars there's a Mitzvah but it's also gonna cost you ten thousand dollars out of your pocket that is not a Mitzvah the ten thousand dollars by itself foreign now it matches a shackle that the round explains again because anyway he doesn't have to give it because he has a little bit of a hailing in the carbon Zoo this is hard on as you're gonna see the gamers can explain the case that a person with a famous case right we had if you if you started in the dorm it's not so famous but we had this thing supers where a person leaves the country and he leaves his wife and his wife has to fend for herself calms a friend along and doesn't like what he sees and he gives the wife food he's my father sir so Hunan holds that the husband when he comes back he tells the wife bye-bye you're you're probably not the wife tells the nice guy it's your problem I don't have to pay you back the the guy the the the the bad guy that left without leaving his wife any money he's you can't you can't sue him and then we're going to see soon interesting name and they hold that he could just swear how much he gave to the wife and he could beat and therefore it is a real Hannah if you recall I said the story that I'm not going to say it over again but mama has the I think was the birthday who said about a certain person that everybody was making fun of him by the lavaya that he was the stingiest guy in town he said listen I had three dinner tires with this guy and one of them was that a husband promised his wife that this stingy guy is going to take care of her and he left and the wife came knocking on the door and what happened was the end the story was like however they never made a deal but the stingy guy realized what's going on he didn't want to hurt this this woman so he gave her food he gave her food and then when the husband came back he was surprised to see his wife living it up so he said what's going on like she said didn't you tell me that so-and-so is gonna gonna pay for my expenses he says yeah but you didn't tell her the truth he runs to the guy what happened he says I understood what's going on I paid she says okay let me pay you and the The Miser the the the stingy guy says I'm not taking any money I want the mitzvah so was it the birthday yeah but the ship is sad a guy like that three dinner tires and they came to me the entire the guy said I want to pay you and I said I'm not accepting any money I want them that that's not a stingy guy you you thought one way but which happens very often I'll go upon him it's the same story he leaves leaves his wife without any food and somebody came in and uh wasn't a fire knesser sponsor let me give him a base the official mdy MSP the school is being able what's MSP again he told me then what manufacturer suggestions retail price no managed service provider uh who it's a service provider some sort okay he's the official mdy we should know if he's the official mdy we should know what it is the scores being able to support limit attire and to finish shots with the Rebellion fine my corner what's this going on oh rubber Omar thank you rub on my feet are called Robert doesn't like to say as we get the guitar is going to play management first was passion he doesn't want to say like a color it goes according to everybody this is an interesting case but it happens sometimes it happened to me one time the guy says I want to borrow money but I'll pay back whenever I feel like it it's okay basically it's in Matana he might pay back he might not if I feel like it when I feel like it if you never need the money again that's what the guy told me okay fine so that's what happened there it's very rare but that's what happened so in Mela when you go and you pay it back you're not doing him any favor the guy made a deal with the lender I don't have to pay it back if I feel like paying back I'll pay it back it could be in 100 years from now it could be never so Mayla don't go ahead and pay for me nobody asked you the time didn't come one day I'll do it by myself now there is an Indian and that the gamara over there says as a mascara uh the guy's embarrassed you're saving him from embarrassment okay Martin doesn't bring it here really the other National in front my corner so let's go back to Khan it's not me to tell you um and somebody decided to tell about the wife of he never gets paid back so according to them he could get his money back if you get his money back he benefited him however those have been hurting like the blade um here's the picture you that's mine still still the remnants of elizart position one day you won't have to suffer through this if you do something like that you try to support somebody else's wife when he's gone you should know you'll never see your money back now the rash ball there's a mahalak is here the rap brings a rashboo and he argues on him the rashford says the khanan is only talking about a case where he gave the money as as a as a loan to the husband he gave it to the husband in other words the husband has a friend that lives locally he sees I he left his wife here forgot to leave her allowance I'll step in but I want my friend to pay me back what if he doesn't say who pays him back he just says I'm giving this woman money it's very interesting because that's what we would think was the case here right never stipulated who he's helping out the wife or the husband he just came and stopped without saying anything says the rash was dumb then it's different because then he lent money to the woman and the woman is hived to him she will go to her husband and sue her husband Iran argues on that okay Islam is a Muslim here I couldn't find this button understands he says that sometimes it's V if he wants to save his life he has to break his antlers if his antlers are too large he'll get caught by the predator in a second he'll only be able to get between the trees and the bushes just to break his antlers so says I don't know if this is a Matthias like that but a theoretical Matthias says we also have to break our antlers our gaiva our things our things that our Manel us to push ahead in life things that you think that are important to you like antlers sometimes they just gotta get rid of them all right Dr gimara all my reviews says Divya call not like hanon he doesn't want to just say that the mission goes like uh one individual he wants to say that goes according to everybody that we're talking about a very specific case where he borrowed money from somebody on condition that doesn't have to ever pay it back but that's not good says says Rob uh that's a very far-fetched case and if I allow you to benefit from somebody in such a case you might come to benefit when the case is a normal case of a regular loan not a loan that is specified XYZ a very very rare case truth is we can do this again tomorrow we'll do we'll start it today it ends tomorrow the Soviet think about it so unfortunately because of muscle shops I couldn't get Yoshi he tried but so this is my stuff and it's not very clear what we see here is I I get it the the papers are very light but Ruben is he's dropping stuff from his suitcase in this case and shiman is the one that found the stuff and he wants to give it back to the to ruin the ballavedo ruvin is balaveda he he lost his stuff shiman is the master tomorrow this is allowed to give it back to River no problem is just giving back to Ruben what belongs to Ruby over here we have the famous concept the fruit of yourself revises of the opinion that when you how is so you have a special Hana when you return an Aveda the guy who returned avedo has a special I know why because now he doesn't have to give money to a poor person little chakras I'm definitely enough to give money Chavez Aveda how is now everybody agrees even those who argue of Joseph agreed that Arabia is only arguing does it become a shame of soccer through that Pluto whether it comes to show himself is not relevant everybody agrees that he's going to gain that Pluto and if he gains that Pluto he does have a knock hello this idea that a guy might come when he's dealing with Aveda it's not I just want to say real quickly to Benny because I I was talking to Benny about it he said he he doesn't feel so comfortable giving to certain people that come through the show and then I saw him starting to give shackle so I found that you're dead today it's an arrangement test so if you die you can look it up it says every day you should give you should try to give find the Ani the the base that lady says very interesting Mr Levy says I didn't like think about it too much this is this morning but he says that it's very hard to find the true Mitzvah nowadays very hard a real Mitzvah we don't have uh we don't have one Mitzvah that we have bishlaimus it's Dhaka you can always find the real Ani and give him real stalker as a doctor so anyway this idea of giving a pruter just a pruta have a wonderful day