Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 27 by R’ Eli Stefansky

please keep this Anonymous my guy is already at dangerous levels thank you thanks to you my guy is already at dangerous levels thanks to you reading this in hopes that gives him someone who's like I asked this person to write this email and he requested that I keep it Anonymous so I'm gonna say his name is mati stingy with the love and respect and admiration he did ask that I keep it Anonymous and I don't care for the record I learned I asked them in Russia's two minutes ago and he said well if if you already said my name okay and I yelled it out here but it's it's for physics I want you to know that I was with him for Shabbos and he was learning the entire time every time I went in the lobby whatever he was sitting there with the gemara they gave me a lot of to watch him and ask him what he was doing and he told me that he was doing khazara every Shabbat the entire week I think it's very very important I know that yassi Klein does it I know a few other people and this could give physical as many hours that we don't know what to do with all of the DAP on that week and that's one of the problems with dafyami that you forget it here's a way to remember for the record I learned 12 daf over this past Shabbos one in between the lectures and 11 while waiting around for my wife the review schedule has been a game changer for me it only takes about three hours of Hazara and by the end of the week I've learned 21 deaths I review that's this week not every week is he like that I think right every week 21 deaths okay every week sorry every week 21 it only takes about three hours of Hazard by the end of the week I've learned 21. I reviewed that that the day's death as soon as possible I have to share usually it takes 10 to 15 minutes max then on Chavez I reviewed the previous week which takes one and a half to two hours Pro tips to make hazar go faster one follow along in the gamara while watching this year today you can do it on the YouTube because the guitar is on the YouTube second tip is review the day's death as soon after this year is possible preferably within two hours of sheer three the goal of hazor should only be to make a laning with basic understanding in other words I think what he's trying to say is don't bog yourself down if you don't understand it go right there it's dafyami the point is to learn as much as you can and remember as much as you can and if the one detail you don't get and then you're gonna bog down on that detail then you're gonna forget the rest of the dove thank you again for your kind words of Shabbos again me and my wife I hope that you and your medicine gained as much from the shots as we did with love and respect and admiration Mr Anonymous multi staying for monthly thank you for sharing I know you didn't want but it's a name here it's not me writing this email my voice I had the scores me and Gary we drove up we're already in Feria so we drove like 35 minutes to see our great friend Avi mandelbaum if you don't recognize him here he is without here he's going through chemo and he his spirits were very high his body was weak but his spirits were high so we had a great time over there and uh anybody that wants to go up there and visit him he's very happy to have guests we're almost done here we got a oh I want to thank you even see Snapfish especially during the cash right now and getting the dive into his cheer you mentioned several times that today's stuff is not like yesterday's dive yesterday's death was more fun and get schmuck well today is more in the dark like and tomorrow will be more fun you also mentioned towards the end of this year that the city was hard so if you didn't understand it don't worry 95 of the people didn't understand it so we'll move forward I beg to differ every day physical as you yourself said in the promo video Family harder than others to understand you definitely try your best to make it understandable and I think did a pretty good job today it was a hard tsugy and definitely made it easier with the chart I understand that you were trying to motivate the new recruit to stay but at the same time I think it should be made clear that every time and here a video of f94 anybody know f94 is no I'm a ratson I'll keep a sulkowitz what's wrong with you here we go I don't know how he got the video on I think it's hard to do that to get it to play but anyway okay but seder fine this email I'm not going to read the whole thing but basically he says that he has addiction issues and things in there why way Jacobson is a big tadek that um reply to his email even though he gets hundreds of emails a day and then he really cared for him and if anybody needs to reach out why we Jacobson is the person to do so the kylo sponsorship the coil is sponsored may we always be able to support tire and maybe Terry protect us from any harm I'm scared to say the next ones the Messiah sponsored hey Google and this one my boy Sai it's a big shocker and very very sad the month is sponsored by Jeff Rosner nishmas a very very young bucker who had an inoperable tumor and this is um the details for the Lovato that's in America uh shiv and everything I guess Joseph will have to post that but they did decide at the end went back and forth I got emails from the father himself from Jeff himself his name is then they decided to keep time the month is sponsored by Dr Abram Epstein in memory of my dear the party loved ones included in my recent young teviskars he's not back yet by the sloth Rock family schlafrock family in memory of their mother and grandmother Hannah basavraham by sidram films LLC yaakov Citron in honor of the stefansky family what is you felt like it uh all right we had a bit of a difficult tsuki yesterday I think it was difficult maybe I was just very tired but I think it's actually pretty easy we're just finishing up the Sugi if you look at um there's a mishna that is the end the end of the sugar but you'll see how simple the sugya is and just using the chart I had yesterday and uh making it a lot simpler and easier foreign over there nobody's using it okay so we had a person who makes another attack he makes a net there and then he realizes that his father was part of the Nether and he wants to change it around a little bit so either he keeps the original nether that's called a maimon he leaves it as is he just throws in his father at the end to explain that that's not what he meant or he's a machano these are the Los Angeles of the run it's not if you don't know the slush and it's not a it's not in the gemara mishana means he's changing it he says had I known that my father was there I would have changed the whole lotion around and that ruins everything that's nether shooter side once I change things around and I take people out then just take everything out or you don't sometimes according to we'll see Rob and rava does everybody hold like that only everybody keep holds like that but still I was like that okay so now we have this my legs right over here we had Robin Robo rabbit says when it comes timeid that you're not changing the wording and you find that your father is there so everybody's also besides the father it's not a another shot it just remains as is it's a nether that remains a full nether the father wasn't included in this Nether but when it comes time and Shana when you're changing the words then is holds that it's another shooting with the cooler you gotta get rid of the entire Nether and how come are you Robert says no when it comes to my Midway you're not gonna change anything in that we have a macarcus but when it comes to mashana everybody agrees that in other words Robert holds there's no Mach like us when it comes to another children another day you get rid of some of it everybody holds you get rid of all of it okay so we're going to use this chart it's going to make everything very easy now Mom is easy all the way through the Michelin hey Siri I have a cash a question of rava what do you say you say that everybody holds in it like it says when you're not changing anything even in the case where you're not changing we have a machlikas so we have a case I'm not say nightmare yesterday that some of it is motor and some of it is awesome in other words I keep some of the nether I don't keep the other part a person makes another on a basket he says everything in the basket is asarami and then he realizes that there's a phenomenal piece of fruit in there a fig that's just really really juicy and really good schmuck it's called some say that it's a fig that takes three years to ripen two year whatever there's even a sheeter that says it's a banana whatever it is it's a very very gishmaker fruit it didn't mean to make a nether on that fruit that is very similar to the case that he made another on a whole bunch of people he didn't realize it's a very very good Schmucker person in that group called his father I wouldn't have made another so what's that Allah all the fruit is awesome the good fruit is motor just like all the men in the group are also on with his nether but his father is not available [Music] and somebody just told me a few hours ago that because of what I said he tucked his kids in and maybe it's the first time in his life I don't know that he literally went over to all his kids he tucked him in and he said well they really had a lot of they really appreciated it so let me just share with you real quickly that in this Shabbos it wasn't videoed and a few people came over to me mainly my wife she really appreciated no other people came over me said oh it's very nice man so I'll share with you they asked me to be on a panel to ask parents about their their uh their experiences so there I am sitting next to YY Jacobson Russell and my friend kind of been on on panel and a few hundred people there I think most of the place was there a good few hundred three four I don't know it so I started off saying I said the only reason and they asked me this mama right before I I got into the car to get there they said could you do it and they didn't tell me what it's about so I said fine I got out on the panel I said the only reason I agreed to do this is because from now on anytime my wife argues with me about I'm going to look at her and say you know who you're talking to I'm a panelist and keshinavian fight so then I went on to tell them just the experience that I had which I am actually really bad at it but it was an experience that I had and I wanted to share with oil and that is and I'm saying it because I need to work on myself maybe someone will get a history from it maybe even one person like that person that told me now I know that at least one person told him that when I lived in Chicago this had to be at least 10 years ago my sons today are 20 and 16. so let's say there's like one was six and one was ten I decided I need to be a good father I need to take them out every Sunday I'm going to take them out so I went and I bought a book about all the good places in Chicago that is it went through the book and then I decided I'm going to buy a picnic basket well now what a picnic basket and then I started taking them to places there's a place with the remote control you get a car and you race other people on this massive track and we took into the museum and this and that and every time I went took out the picnic basket and and laid out a sheet this a blanket and we made a picnic the whole thing so I said if I was in sheer I would have a prop I'll show you what it looks like so I had I brought it with me I could brought it to the hotel I don't like to prep a lot here it is this is the picnic basket I bought that happens to me here it is oh it's mamish the cups the plates the whole thing now let me show you something real quickly if you open this up right over here this is very important to this year hold on I know Mandy's he's going crazy like what is going on here yeah it's not a here okay look watch man you man you don't believe it's about the sheer it's about the share do you have a basket look what happens you take out the the plates look what happens ah I found them there from the okay that's what has to do with this year besides that is it called kala this is what is okay great what have to do with Chavez okay so what happened was that a few just recently my son Akiva was here last week he came in he flew in for my birthday the whole thing I heard him over talking I overheard him talking to my son Allah he said remember we used to go with Daddy we used to go we went remember yeah and he had a picnic basket and we had a picnic and and this and we went to the the Train Museum and we went there we went there and he was describing it and it Mama it hurt me because thinking to myself all the times I took them skiing we flew and I spent all that money on them and this and that and the only thing I heard from them was complaints how come we only had tuna and where's the steaks and with this and that Amish but a simple thing that didn't cost me any money just a few sandwiches but I spent time with them that they remembered and then also on Friday I heard my wife mama I heard my wife talking to to luzzy and she said Daddy is Shiga he's taking a picnic basket and he wants to show somebody a picnic basket and she says how many times did he already take you one time right one time he says no it was five times we went here he listed them off we went here we went here we went here all five times imagine if I would have continued and I would have spent that time with them I thought that's because if somebody comes to spend that time with them tuck them in five minutes basically I'm gonna start going to these baseball games even though I can't he plays on Friday I need to prepare share basically I'm gonna start going I have to take him I have to spend more time with him all right anyways what's that have to do with the Suga nothing like I said I figured if yesterday we finished at 8 20 today we could also finish at 8 20. it's a new time by the way what's your name tadek once we're battling you might as well what's your name is from Spanish what's your name from where and your name from Cedars okay oh no you hop around the famous Harvard is not your first time here no way get over here you gotta get over here ah the famous album Reddit emails and Zach what was the last email you wrote to give all the email come come talk on camera a hug a hug oh yeah wow hey now we gotta go learn Tyra fine okay something tomorrow my love domar what is this case so he said if I would have known that there's good fruit in there in the basket I wouldn't have made the net there in my life is what is this what is this called he's changing his word and that's called what a mishana I would have said a completely different nether the black now is so here we have to go to this chart take it out look at this now you see the you see the Arrows with the arrows everything makes sense now we're talking about a case of Michiana and it goes according to ribi Akiva only we'll please but if you look underneath the arrow that says rubikiva it says mutarim who does that go according to rava rava says that when it comes to such a case everybody holds that there's no nether it's not just Rebecca everybody so this is a question on rava how do you say rava that everybody holds it over here it says bye Mary take a look at the chart look at the look at the screen for a second it's not talking about this case Michonne and rubikiva it's talking about this case and it goes according Rob is gonna say you see it's rubber Rosie will say it's talking about a my mid and this is actually and according to him it's awesome the word now he's not changing his words at all so that's called amayment foreign different case you're asking me because you thought it's a mishana I'm telling you no it's environment now another one more question similar to this case a person made a nether against five people and then he realizes with their left how do you realize is his father is there so this would be a case of mishana he changes it he says if I would have known that my father is part of the group then I would have said something else I would say whatever now we say the case of this is Allah once I get rid of the father the father's not in the nether so everybody's not in the nether oh I'm sorry but if he says and this is the case of a moment this is a different case over here you don't have because he didn't change it he didn't change the wording it's a moment and in the moment you don't have the Kula says now we go we have to go to the chart for a second here we go now you see it says rabba so according to rap we have a ratio and a safer we have two cases yeah again the ratio is that would be the case of mishana he's changing it and it goes according to Rebecca now the second case is that's a case of maimon so everybody's answer in that case rabbit hold everybody's awesome because it's a moment he didn't change the wording everybody's awesome great so it goes good according to rabba either aberration now let's just go to the next chart check this out now going down we're going to rava and rava is going to say that the ratio is a mishana and everybody holds his mother the safe as a mimet and it's awesome okay so there's a long run here and basically Iran says that when it comes to another shot and Iran does this I think throughout the as much as I've seen he goes through the halacha unlike Rashi he's more like orientated what do we take out of here Lamay says he says the law is like group Akiva and basilo who say s but what do we do about this right here Robin so I thought this is very interesting it's time as to refresh our memory who's the rabbit between the two rabo rava one of them was a rebby one of them was a Talman who Rob is the rebby Rob is the talmud so who are you asking what are you asking like rabba rava so the Run goes through it he says listen at the end of the day rap is the revi but at the end the end of the day Robert zabasara he lived after rabbit so maybe she go like him so Amela we have to go to homura we're going to pass can like rabba that my mid everybody's awesome besides the father we see my medicine says the father um and we already passing like Rebecca you see in the other part so we're passing like rabbit throughout by Miami we say everybody's awesome and by mashana we the Rand started out so we say that that um and then he goes in and brings China that say maybe dafka by a pesach when you have a remember we have a passage means that I uprooted the Netherlands but maybe not by harata okay fine says sponsored perfect a person now remember the first mission of the parrick has four type in a dorm you don't have to go to yeah something to motivate you mom is an exaggeration now we're discussing up until now nether of a shy gig he didn't realize he forgot that he made another he's not going to eat and he ate and now we're talking about uhness unfortunate circumstance happened that prevents him from being kind of the nether Midway what's the case his friend said if you don't eat by me you're whatever is going to come off sir the challah and the guest became sick he couldn't show up our son became sick right someone just told me this is a famous story that there was a guy that told his wife listen we have too many girls if you give birth now to a girl I'm done I'm out of here what happened your birthday girl the doctor sees that she's crying she says what's going on this is my I'm getting divorced today he says don't worry I'll take care of it he goes to the father and he says Sadiq you had a son Mazel Tov the guy is jumping says but listen he has a heart defect his heart effect he's not gonna he's not gonna survive besides the heart effect he only has one ear and this if you're missing a few toes it's not he's not a hundreds he's instead the father started to cry start crying he said no no you had a healthy daughter be happy oh he was happy and he walked out of the house with a simple Club okay it's not a good thing to have a sick son AR yeah he was coming there and this is not a highness as we're going to understand from the gamara you have to just I'll stick it in here this is a serious something crazy happened to the river never happens once in a blue moon this happens you couldn't get through the the river maybe if he would have paid a lot of money but this is also highness to spend money he didn't he didn't uh I didn't want to come to my friend and pay 200 to get a special speed boat that's going to go over the snow that's not what we that's not part of it this is considered highness oh there's a guy that the pirates for for just Amusement he told listen you're gonna eat this loaf of bread which is bishalakum you guys very much he says if you're not I'm gonna kill you this is okay fine so he ate the bread she eat the bread then the purse looks at him and says why are you so sad I understand what happened he says I'm just sad that you didn't point the gun at me and to make me eat your tree for Gaza see that's the highness highness it's a big highness he had to go into his head and then he's thinking about wow I didn't need Trey a better trade okay so now we're going into oinus when it comes to to Mama's there was a guy that had a fight with his friend about a monetary thing okay they're a real estate dispute he this guy that we're talking about he's he he's holding on to the real estate and he says that he needs a little bit more time to prove his his case so the bezel was a little weary you know he's stopped schlepings and he does you know how you do it you keep on pushing it off and then you take it the entire could take six years no we want you to do today if not if you're not going to do it today at least give us your documents as collateral if you don't show up within 30 days that's it you lose everything we're gonna give everything away to the other guy says no problem of course I'm gonna be there in 30 days I have all the proof in the world I'll be there knew what happened he had uh 30 days pass he didn't show up because he had some unfortunate situation if I don't show up in 30 days you could have it you could have all my stars I'm the guy I'm the guy that holds on to the to the real estate I lose it all in this Philly also he had an onus and he didn't show up yeah it's unfortunate that he had his son was got sick and you don't leave a sick son at home I get it but you made a deal and that's it you lost everything all my rubber rubber is furious with this what do you mean foreign ERS you can't do anything typically that naira is a naira murasa she's engaged she deserves me so but not in this case you see you don't get me so maybe that's a special person when it comes to to killing somebody as it says in this positive the special they have to look into it you have to search for any way to get the murderer out of capital punishment so okay so that's why we don't give her capital punishment but how do you know that that applies to Mama's what about our mission um foreign remember and all the flights were stopped nobody could fly into the sky it was like man I'm sorry I can't get from here there this is then there's a talking about her practice guy because nobody could fly anywhere so he got the organ that he was waiting for because nobody could come in to the to the hospital he was not he was on the bottom of the list because he's right there they put okay fine one of these mice foreign retroactively it comes today it starts today I'm giving you a gift today right now we're married for 12 months if I don't show up after 12 months then you are divorced today then we should be my battle everything I don't know if everybody remembers but although in the beginning subas we had a whole sugeya I forgot with that maybe that's base that there's no honest beginning there's no such thing as a artist baguette because we're concerned for the fruit size and the snooze remember that's okay I think it's definitely base in the bottom over there I don't remember I don't remember okay it's the beginning supers so the round talks about it and he says okay we're going with something else here he always says but we could have answered this now we have a better answer we're going for fine according to you rather designers so why should the guest be a good get army support and to finish us Rebellion what's the whole point because here you see the chart the famous the famous evil chart you have Reuben is married to Rocco and then he goes bye-bye what is this guy coming back whatever and then so his wife Falls the ibom 2 shiman that's evil now he doesn't want this to happen his wife dislikes Sherman is a mean guy so he wants to avoid that by giving her a get he doesn't want to divorce her because he still wants to be married to her he thinks he's going to come back from his business trip but then he dies so the point of the God remains he doesn't want his wife to fully even to his brother so in mayless howl even in such a case that's why Tyrese a gift but typically speaking Robert would say it's not whatever the nether is because it's highness and by highness you have to consider the highness we don't punish a person for highness in this case we do punish so to speak because he wants to get to become there's another story if I don't show up within 30 days I want this to be a get famous case we also had this a bunch of times also passing my bar I'm talking about liking subas all of a sudden he misses the boat literally misses the boat he comes to the edge of the he sees the boat leaving he in our days he misses the bus train what I hear it's missing the trade I have the the the tremendous I live on the fourth floor every day I watch it I see people running to the Bus pregnant people I came to the conclusion that a snapshot that they missed the bus is the shot that the drivers wait until the people get there and when they get there then they drive away I see it every day literally you see old woman running and he's like Hashem please let her just make the bus and she gets there and you see her going and as she knocks these are non-jewish drivers that show me around him serious every day so am I am I exaggerating everybody say seriously you guys live here you know what I'm talking about so true so true I don't know that they only leave when somebody come gets there fine I'm alone oh so you start screaming don't let don't divorce my wife I'm here I'm here I just missed the boat because it's nothing we don't care what he's screaming what made us honest according to Ines you see that you don't kill the girl so don't give her a gag he should have known that he's gonna miss the boat there's a message you heard about the guy in the Mr the the bus it happens every half hour every 10 minutes every boss every stop there's a messy the people are going to miss this boat so you should have known about it you should have thought about it says we just said that if a person had a dispute in real estate or whatever it is and he gave all his stories over to Basin he says if I had to show up within 30 days I'm so I'm so convinced that I have good proof here I'm not take my star I don't care and then he doesn't show up asking him smarter gambling right if I don't think that I am going to lose and I give you money and you take the money you're a God of according to review the smackda loikanya we I don't have smita's dance I didn't I didn't agree to this King and I thought XYZ is going to happen that's why I get my stars had I known that I'm gonna have a highness I wouldn't have given it to you by the way according to spardem according to Value himself Spider-Man shouldn't play the lottery because he holds it that's uh that's in a Smackdown nobody's going to give well I don't know if it's true because I I think people know you're not going to win the billion dollar lottery but it's because you have to give a dollar and dream about it you know maybe but remember hell that it's huh it's a waste of money but this is a dream what would I do if I want to the guy built win the billion dollar two billion one guy one guy won two billion dollars I hope he doesn't take some because he might be poor he's you should break it over 20 years wow what if the guy that guy that won you know I heard that Sheldon Edelson he spent 150 million dollars that Obama shouldn't win now he didn't like shouldn't he was against Obama it wasn't a source whatever he's against he I think he's worth like 20 billion and he spent 150 million that Obama should have went so I don't know I think Obama said it once like the guy's Australia he could have given me 75 million I would have dropped out of the race and he would have saved 75. he put the money he was betting that Obama's not gonna put all this money in there it's not really kind my Smackdown I don't know if it's true would he actually covered his for some people covers more important than 75 million dollars I don't know to be the president United States for 75 I don't know he probably made 75 million off being the president no he just Speaks now it's 2 million what is it really okay so the question is says that the guy loses his property or whatever it is because he gave the stars but he never had intent to do it when you give it over to best then you're showing that you're serious that you're not it's not a bet oh I know I'm better than you in poker and therefore when you take my money when I lose you're gone of stealing the other guy's money because he never had intent to lose but you know if you play Maybe small money I don't know what it is he's in their own I told my kids not to play kit fitlach and the only thing they do is they like to play kids with us okay don't tell your kids not to bake good luck whatever it is dreidel oh he says don't do it picnic it's not like guys what if bezen holds on to it then all of a sudden it becomes more serious it's not in a Smackdown a person had alone and he paid part of it now you don't want the malva the lender to hold on to the star because then he could take the star and pretend that he never got paid and he'll go after the larva for the full amount so typically what you do is you rip up the star and you write a new receipt but it's a problem a receipt to this so Walmart noise so what he did was visualized he gave the star the Malvo to start the third person so he's not a Russian and collects when he shouldn't be collected but the lever says listen I'm making a deal here I am so certain that I'm going to pay off the whole thing if I don't pay off the entire thing giving back the star in other words I'll pay the whole thing again everything I paid I'll pay again hell why he's giving him Matana he's so sure I paid you today 100 bucks and I owe you 200. I'll pay you 200 even though I paid you 100 bucks I know I'm gonna pay you the other 100. the gears madly no son he came the time came and sure enough he forgot he had a highness whatever it is it doesn't matter he has to pay up he promises gonna pay again pay again no it's matano he says matano there is saying I have to see how to do it Allah says no but I called him you see from here that's considered in a Smackdown why does your view to say Lord is the famous one that says and therefore he doesn't have to give you see over here even though it's in the hand of a third person like in our case he's so serious he gave it over to somebody you see that you do says the love is not like that so the question is in how do we pass in in general this is just showing them maybe is Kanye over it says what's going on here because over here is different we says when all he's doing is he's basically the clearing that all his rights I'm coming back within 30 days I have good rise for me when it doesn't come back when it doesn't show up he's saying that all his proof is Checker their lies that's why I didn't show up and that's why it's about it's not that we're taking his property away from him we just we remove his rise when he doesn't have rice then everything falls apart does work but on condition delay honest that there's no Force there's no anus there's no on what was the lesson unfortunate circumstance you need a few conditions first of all as it can't be anonymous can't have uh I don't know missing the whatever it is the highness and also you need a business but the bottom line is like this this is not a case of a smack the Y because in our case where he gave the documents it's a case of machov he's saying from now right now I'm making a Kenya with Basden like a king Soother whatever right now it becomes yours I have a bunch of days to undo it but it becomes yours me action right now not later on right now now if there's a business explains Iran then you don't need the first condition of saying makshov do you have a bezel khashev and they're able to take out money from you why because a person doesn't make a joke out of the best thing if you're gonna go with her best then you're going to give your stuff to the best and you're not going to come back and say oh I didn't mean it I didn't know that that's so it's as if he said have a wonderful day