Daf Yomi Nedarim Daf 13 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning boys [Music] we are having some very crucial guests we have David bediel's father you're you're a big uh Hustler very bamboo right yeah five years or five Cycles five Cycles wow all right it's time to mix it up a little bit sorry very gross right Alan from Midwood somebody who else do we have we said a lot with no somebody what's your name again how's your client from well so you guys don't know each other after wow oh who's that father father son shall lay him all right so I just want to talk a little bit about Manchester because I'm still in a high for Manchester here we'll start with some pictures here's the birthday cake I'm by the way I'm celebrating my birthday my birthday is only in November at the end of November I'm celebrating it it's a two-month birthday starting from Kenya you could send your cakes you can do whatever it's a two-month thing okay beautiful cake this is what they gave me I couldn't think it was a little bit too large didn't fit in my suitcase but bezosam will get her soon it's a handmade frame by shimmy leafman and uh let me show you a little bit of the of the the Sim call over there [Music] 300 people Manchester there's no dance floor they had to put tables on the dance floor so we made it was just dancing between tables it's very but that was the schmuck part of it look at everybody's standing [Music] aha [Music] I just want to get to the part where Gary's on the chair oh here he is and Thomas in the right top corner all right and this is the speech that everybody's talking about there's two speeches they're the toss-up there was a 14 year old I don't have a speech here maybe also a different unbelievable speech that he wrote by himself and this is Guy Levine Robert he's a he said in the beginning of speech that he didn't even go to show once a year he was complete uh not trying to Shabbos somebody made him from and this he says is the first time he's ever at a Jewish Affair and here he says it and he gets a standing ovation at the end of this little thing so it's a almost a two-minute clip listen to this [Music] now this is my first big Jewish event like this and as all I can do is speak my truth but I hear some people talking about the time it takes or the difficulty it takes it took me 27 weeks a half a week and it took me 122 weeks to learn the about loss that's two years and 10 weeks to learn new about us at that for a week [Applause] and I'm the guy that parked around the corner from the rabbi on Shabbos so as I didn't embarrass myself if I can do this anyone can do it and then I met rebelie and uh it's been life changing it really has um I'm gonna just tell everybody then do your books now I can't do it justice it was a good morning my wife thinks you've got the loudest voice anyway what I just do it let's start again at the beginning no because he said good morning my boys are very weak so I have something to make it up for her it really has it really has at 10 o'clock every night you can hear in our house I can't do it Justin so we'll say good morning and Rabbi my wife thinks you've got the loudest voice in the world but what she doesn't know is that at 9 59 I turned the TV up loud so the sound of your voice Rings through my house and that everyone in the house knows that this is a house where we learn and live tour of values [Applause] everybody okay now everybody say if you live in The Boondocks and you haven't seen this yet let me play for you I got this from 46 people already you don't have to send it to me but nothing didn't see it yet so let me pray for him good morning boys didn't work hold on good morning rad boys [Music] [Applause] have to share good morning Rebellion that's my new daughter born today November 6th at 3 54 pm and myself doing the death and charity she's only four hours old in the picture is that that's why she's sleeping nothing to do with the muggage here muzzled up to my parents Mr and Mrs Usher Lang both big listeners of the daf and my in-laws Mr Mrs Akiva Marquez Mr Asher Lang is the one that gave me the pack the chocolate in the shape of uh of the death of the Shas and one more before we start to share I want to introduce myself my name is shim shifan I'm yossi Mel's grandson a family friend a very big family friend I love to shoot inside of work about a year ago and although I had to say the learning be ion I felt something was missing my friend mentioned that he joined the cheers and usually start even though it was in the middle of himself I started that day and I've been hooked my whole day has been different since starting the death so thank you for that looking forward to finishing the dark minimum it's called okay here we go the coil of responsibilities sponsored by himself scores this one I really can't do I'm not gonna accept this one this is from gedalia Miller in honor of myself joining question now I got a whole bunch of people asked me to join and I just got emailed this morning and it's an amazing program for those who have kids that are off today or going after their on that path catching up she's an amazing organization I have to say Russell if anybody's familiar with does somebody on this table right here who has personally changed his life because of this program and his son is doing amazing because of it so whoever could join can join my issue is I wasn't sure about my learning if I would be able to to give a share there and to prepare this year once I'm there I'm going to want to listen to all the speeches you know on that I need to hear it all and stuff give all the good stuff so I don't know I have to think about it it's in a week from now I still have until I have Shabbos to decide no biscos I know I know because before shlema for you who does Zev Ben Naomi malka and it's another two two different um sponsors by her loving family and finally what's going on gone and do I love them speech in appreciation to all that we we have you have a lot of stuff you come to this year you can fill up books now books books mdy London in appreciation to all the organizers of the outstanding London and Manchester CU MIM plus welcome Paulding who's join us from the UK you hear this and my I we didn't even go to the scene we did a share prior to the scene the day before 27 people joined there and many people joined throughout the thing I got emails with people that just joined from coming to the field maybe I'll read them one day for any UK mdy inquires please email local groups mdy London Gmail mdy Stanford Hill at gmail ndy why manchester24 set 24 7 at Gmail and the White gate said they have gateshead wow a Gmail okay listen the the item had an issue coming a lot of hasidim have a big problem coming to this human because people will know that they have smartphones not smartphones it was very very hard whoever came as much uh mysteriousness so you scratched everybody who came and next time we'll have more people all right we're holding up your gimmel I'm an alif towards the top so we had an interesting my colleagues yesterday when a person makes a net there and he has a piece of meat and he could translate his words in two different ways does he mean that he's referring to the meat that's in front of him and that would have no significance at all it wouldn't be a nether or perhaps it's even referring to the status of the meat that was yesterday and that has more significance it makes more sense to think that he's talking about today but today makes no sense because it's not another it's motor so we probably met yesterday what do we do limo wanted to say that's the same as if somebody has a first born animal it goes to the client it's called the bakar foreign [Music] yes it has some sort of douche and that's what we're going to discuss today a little bit more not too much something even though it's born kaddish it's the first board but the owner has to say something he has to say with his mouth so since he has to do something with his mouth so maybe it's considered Dover another that is something that you could apply be mattress another two because it's something that has to do with the guy's mouth okay the story a famous story that goes around and it's one of these stories that if you don't believe it you're an epicyrus and if you do believe it you're shaita so you got to pick which one you want to be no it's a literature myself there was a farmer here that I just wrote that there was a curve guide that said listen you have a lot of animals why did you become a shooter for the narrow you probably should live with a guy and that's what they do and then all your firstborns want people hire them and then you can sell them it won't have any issues you're selling it we can't buy from you the prime are all mixed in there he said absolutely not I don't have anything to do with this so sure enough as The Story Goes the next day his cow gives birth to a firstborn and it dies she takes the dead thing and he throws it off the the little Cliff that he has over there in his farm a couple days later another animal not a part dies another animal dies takes it throws it off the cliff third animal hits it he calls up the Cure guy says listen come quickly something's weird my animals they haven't died off like this so the guy comes and and they take a look and they see that the animals were eaten but the car wasn't eaten we threw off the cliff first was intact because even the animals even the coyotes know not the touch of a heart as Bush's heart like I said you could believe it or not it's your choice don't worry it's already many books it's already taken all right wow wow wow wow okay anyway says again tomorrow well my timer three lines down in my time in the man is sorry oh we're not alone oh no no here um like five lines now right that's where that's where we stop mom's like that okay I like the word he he period loiyama Mall in the middle of a sentence okay so tomorrow wants to say that this might like us that we have of could you could you could you be mattress could you use it as a nether or not is of where exactly is the the nether house do you go by today they go by yesterday 's dumb and we're not talking about after this you're talking about before so it has nothing to do with the the status of the animal everybody we're talking about a mahogas before this vehicle my time at the mandatory so if it's talking about before zrica is dumb and before the animal the bukhar is still has douche on it and you didn't apply the blood to the Miss Baya so there's no header to eat the animal yet to still Usher so why in the world is that fossil not a good at first so why is it not a good nether he's saying that Milo for bread should be like this Bihar that's still awesome this is we're familiar with because and it wasn't made Cottage by a human being it's born also it's similar to Pig um now so what's the other bundle am I going to do Gary the uh the win um and the Manola that says that no you could be mattress to a bukhar it is something that you can make another do I'm a crawl Hashem on the screen if I had a button it would be better foreign so there's a the Posse is telling there's one exception to the rule there's one Dover author it's not Pig it's not there's one thing that is lashem it was created and made automatically not by a human being business sir yeah and that's one animal that you could be mattress and you could say that my loaf of bread is like that and what is it is coming to say to include even an animal such as a heart one exception to the rule and the other man what is he going to say so what do you guys think if somebody doesn't have Vera is mahal Chavez no is it something that's inherently osser was a born author or a human being made at Oscar what do you say huh inherent it's awesome it's another everybody's saying it's not there see more says no I still need a hitter Shear I would think that it's a double or another um no nevertheless it's considered over another um I could make I could because then the day as everybody's saying here there's another human being made but why did you pick katas over Bahar and these are simple stuff we already know the answer has been out there because it's the human being it's the guy that made the aveiro he has to make the animal into he wasn't born is is an inherently called that she's born College as soon as he comes out there's a lotion that Allah see them use when they speak about like the the Rebel's child or gradually say s so everybody understands that just because somebody's College reminds us just because you're causing Miracle you're born you could still be a behemoth foreign told him if you don't learn Torah you're going to be a revolution in other words as a that's all you're going to be is the representative you better start learning be a mens for yourself be a be uh okay you could say this loaf of bread should be like who so it's I it's born like that the animal is born like that so it's no different than Pig it's no different than than anything else that's born o no it is considered an animal that became awesome through human intervention why the saying machine even though it's born a firstborn you have a Mitzvah to say something and beat me you have the image the firstborn news of his Apostle Commander sorry what is he gonna say okay even if you're not mark this it remains Cottage I don't have any good jokes today but this is the the famous famous line talking about rabbits there's a rabbit that the Mr train Miss Detroit so he looked at the train he said this train should go off a cliff the hundreds of people that are they didn't do anything so the conductor was a bad guy he missed he said okay fine it shouldn't go off the it shouldn't go off the cliff didn't go off the cliff why are they laughing I was joking the book anyways no that's what happened over here you have to say you should say uh it's kadash no no it Still Remains abhor says we learned in the mission just to remind the Islam the picture oh I have here we have on the wall a lot of shows and I just don't have this is called the dorm Plus and you could uh you could donate money to different causes so here it is this is I took a picture yesterday from a mobile one and it has here if you want to be mustative in pity and Peter hamar you just pay 180 shekels you become a partner if you want to make a 90 shackle races I guess if you want to be part of shearing the first sharing and it goes to God they don't have Courier I think part is a problem today there's nothing to do with a car you can't do anything unless it becomes a mom has a mom you can't cause it to be follow Mom you can't put something on its ears so that a factor uh a wolf should come and attack it so what are you gonna do there's a there's a there's a a miser actually that somebody uh Kayan in Tel Aviv woke up in the morning and there was a sheep by his door tied to his door said a gift to you and he didn't know what to do because if he was the guy was doing it because there's nothing he could do with it it has no value nice to take care of a sheep for no reason unless it befalls a mom was the guy trying to be nice to him or the guy was trying to mess with him he had no idea so he had to take the Sheep what I got a sheep but you shifted on the spot and it was all good yeah you know I just he just said that I got a sheep they bought me a sheep from Stephen's colon as a gift in the middle of the sea of shamalek and they come in with a live sheep so two people the two people that bought the Sheep they gained from it Avi kamianski ate all the meat and non-fix got sheep marks on his living room floor Adam if you own this house he has those are the two yeah okay there by the way we just found something out Dr Factor goes and he buys into everything that he's not allowed to buy into but Daft get to ruin it for everybody that's what he just said he could he said he could but let me see does he's one of those yeah in the mishnah the mishna says huh he's saying it's not going to affect us because it's not gonna affect it's not gonna affect don't argue go out afterwards whatever is the money how much did you spend 180 let's see the thing is so cool about this I need him oh you can do Madness and name if you want to give Audi just give 180 shekel revive Maca Robertson we can do our own Market over here [Music] listen to this very interesting thing that if somebody says like a like a sheep Imran or like the room of the here the Corral of sheep in the basement see what he's referring to a carbon so if you look at typhus on the mission that you don't base satisis gives like five reasons and the final reason I thought it's very interesting he says that maybe he's Matt busit he's associating it he's linking it to the Isle of Abraham avinu which is in this week's pirate show Imran if a person said instead of camera it says in the mishnah he said imra the cuff the cuff is linking it it's like this but what if he dropped the cuff imra limra camera and then he added you have to add this which is going to say I just wrote instead of him I wrote Kevin and he adds the words he says in other words either with the cough or without the cough no difference 18 lights and quotes all the words that we had in the mishnah here's if you want to see what atem looks like where is it there hey Tim the wood of them is payoff the fire of them is back itself yerushalayim here slime coulomb and after each one he says now if you remember in the mishnah review that comes along we said the homage thing goes according to review it comes along he says you have to say if you just say yerushalayan without the cough it doesn't work so this Bryce argues on the argument review though foreign if he says let's say he says or I just I'm saying it out here you take one of the words and you add two words one of the word one word in this list of many many words I don't know 12 15 how many words are here so it should be awesome like the trees if I eat it's a lotion of Issa again he's saying this loaf of bread should be like the wood and the Miss bear which is awesome I'm not going to eat it if I eat it it's Usher like the wood underneath so it works that's a good Nether but if he says he says motor okay so that's the reverse I am not gonna eat that which is awesome so you didn't make another that's not that's mother but Manchester meaning who's the mishna again we could go back to the mission and look at it inside the last line in the mishnah on Yoda with base all the way in the bottom it says [Music] if you don't if you drop the cuff you don't say kill yourself because right above that the line right above it says I'm going backwards but says review then the gamar explained to us that the entire mission is reviewed though so reviews is coming to explain the mission you have to say that this loafer bread should be like K like Jerusalem and if you just say yerushalayim nothing who always argues in review though so who's the one that argues and holds like this Bryce that we just read it must be remembered and I reviewed because in this Bryce uh the Bryce doesn't distinguish between okay and without a care it says yerushalayim kirish lives all the same thing so must be roommate say something tomorrow um aim to save okay so if it's remayer let's see so this is a continuation like what we learned similar to the city we learned about the genres famous but if all of these things you say here like this thing on the screen maybe I should draft this why is it any different these words Kevin which is like a carbon right we just explained Kevin's is like the Isle of avramovino it's like some like a carbon any way you want to look at it he's trying to say a car but not just a sheep in the in somebody's Farm but if a person says so la we always said La Means Loy it's like not a carbon okay but on that we already had this amazing Shabbos and we're gonna have it today at least twice it should be it to a carbon not not a carbon but Le to a carbon with a schwa it's the opposite it's lit carbon dual carbon so let's let's go slow here if a person says Loy carbon there's two two possibilities he's saying this should not be a carbon okay so it's not a Karma and the story so it's not a nether in order for me to make this piece of bread oh sir I need to to associate it to to be manifested to something so I'm saying this is not a carbon okay so it's not a carbon it's kosher it's motor so I didn't do anything so obviously I didn't mean that what he meant is Loyola carbon and then I have to reverse what he's saying I have to infer from what he's saying but that's that's a problem I can't do that you know why I can't do that because remember hold so you don't reverse what he says it has to be in his words if you I don't understand the sentence I don't infer anything I'm not a Lambda it says remember I don't do lambdas because the tire says if you go over the Border Great And if you don't go I have to explain myself I can't understand anything by myself so Mila I can't say like carbon what's the lesson here uh [Music] um I can't go I can't reverse it because remember doesn't reverse so Mila says the only thing I could do is I could use this lotion let me change the Pata LA to Allah and I'm going to explain the reason why I'm not gonna eat this this this little red because it's like a carbon a part of to meaning no no because here the whole the whole music I hear you saying the homosexual he's talking about a person who said words a person who says words and we don't know exactly what he meant there's a 50 chance that maybe meant this maybe it meant that he's probably not saying he's not just talking without any meaning he probably wants to say that he's doing something that's awesome now the way he said it is not 100 we could translate perhaps we could translate what he's saying he may get it awesome we can't ask him because what he says doesn't mean anything to us and what he says and what his heart means have to be equal heavily but shove him he said something and now we're trying to figure out can we put a issue into his words or not that's what it is it's a little bit the hook yeah but by other places now time out it could be what ribaba is saying oh yeah Oh you mean why just asking General why does la mean Lloyd you know what forget it here here us Americans will never understand this okay let's go right there um okay I hear what you say you just don't want to know but this is a a miser not to laugh at though don't it's not a joke that that's laughable although some will laugh I am short because they try to make me feel good I just just explain the suggest slightly a woman told her husband nothing will make me happier than you buying me a diamond ring so next day the husband came and gave her a box and there's nothing in the box he said you said nothing will make you me happier than so I got you nothing nothing will make me happier okay I said it's not to be funny it's to explain that you could translate a sentence you could say what he meant to say is it's a big truck why would I say something like that a normal person says obviously the woman meant I want a diamond ring she didn't no but if I want to be an overhaul if I want to push it I'm going to push it oh she she said I said she said nothing will make me happier than a die ring so she said nothing okay okay she said what you did what I gave her a box with nothing in it myself okay fine see more like Casio what's like that so if we're gonna compare it to this sentence and this sentence remainder says same idea reminisces okay this Israel imro so if you say imra it's it's a shot if you really said it Durant says do the shot him if we put in his words we we change or he really said Imran what if he says loyal imro I can't explain anything that he's saying I can't put new words in his mouth Libra I could translate he meant to say this should be like I'm not gonna eat it because it's going to be literally like a car but her princesses like carbon it's not a carbon I can't I can't I can't explain anything anymore but if he says with the Shabbat then I can explain it five says the mishna oh finally perfect oh no this is it okay the mission is four minutes more than usually three minutes five minutes oh it's not on my face yet I have a carbon a person says the word carbon oil these are all things that are awesome I'm not this is something that's awesome it says since he didn't say with a cough it's motor we're gonna see that maybe perhaps when he says oyla a person is not saying like the oil I'm making us or like the oil I'm being macro so therefore it's it's not a good nether he's not trying to say this loaf of bread is like that's awesome the slow bread is like if he says carbon carbon sorry also you have to say if you say then it's not a good nether we'll see the run inside real quickly even though we're late Iran says over here hot carbon I have a lot more carbon around sorry foreign so the round is learning how to learn exactly but Iran is learning that it's as if he's saying in the life of the carbon as we're going to see the gimbar says the gemara oh mayor uh La carbon so we already explained La in the gamar we explained that it's Le it's with you sir Tony carbon high carbon carbon circle closer Kerry Mayer who's this Tana must be remay or delay suddenly been Emerald Imran we have to stick in camera that's the most important word which is missing there's no difference between it says the ones that argue on which means in the differentiate between is the same motor why shall another carbon it's a schwa according to Iran according to others it's no words what are you saying I'm I'm swearing in the life of I'm not swear in the life of a Karma what is in the life of a carbon mean it means nothing it's not a nether this love of recipe in the life of a carbon according to Iran it's more of a seems like it's more of a schwa than a nether oh hold on my hot carbon high carbon okay there's a difference between saying hot carbon and two words suffering hot carbon and high carbon because high carbon means it should be us or like a carbon and that's awesome in terms of your game on base as a scores to continue being able to support Toyota and to finish shots of the belly for Ben Sarah is my timer explains when a person says in the life of a carbon that's nothing says a carbon right La Means not and I have to infer from it that if I do it then I'm over that it's not a carbon if I don't eat and if I do it it is a carbon which means it's awesome how could I infer anything or a Bible and this finally the final time nice carbon yeah I don't infer anything it's within that one sentence I'm not eating it because it's like a carbon says the official mishna what do you have over there Rebecca if you remember the the first time maybe in shots I don't know if it says it again I forgot to look I don't remember anywhere else but it's a very shitish term Gabriel hefter was brought in the gamara when a person makes a schwa on something it's on the giver it's on his body his body is not going to sleep when a person makes an object he makes a nether he says I won't eat this piece of bread or I won't go on that bed but when you do something that it's an inanimate object like sleeping you can't touch sleeping it has to be on your body my body won't do this action it won't sleep my mouth won't talk so is talking something that you could touch not really but a mouth is something you can touch so what is he saying though I won't do things for you ragged in my life is important it's a good nether that's what is the difference is that some things that are more common and something's more common than the other Mitzvah if a person makes us that he's not gonna wear till in it doesn't work why doesn't it work because but a person can make a net there that's not going to wear its villain we're going to Asuka says the rap or Rashi is could work on sleep a person can make it sure he's not going to sleep but he can't make a nether that he's not gonna sleep in the dark so Mayla how does he make a net there that he's not gonna speak speaking is not something that you can touch it's not physical what he meant to say he doesn't say it what the mission of means in his words we could translate his words is that my mouth my physical mouth will be awesome for me to talk I'm not going to move my mouth it's physical that works on another I'm not physically not going to walk that cannot mean I can prove it like Tony it says my mouth doesn't talk about the words so the rant says another is Khal on something that doesn't have a mamish or a boy have a wonderful [Music]