Daf Yomi Makkos Daf 15 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] Good morning rap boy live from Chicago might be the last shar here in English. I'm flying tomorrow evening but I'm not exactly sure what time shar will be. Is uh if people want maybe we'll do something in the afternoon early afternoon but I didn't we didn't make up yet. Maybe how about like 3:00 Chicago time? Maybe. Does that work for anybody? Okay. 3:00 Chicago time. Tentatively. This is the spiraldic. Um yesterday I read uh about two 11 year olds and once again there are two 11 year olds in today's emails. What was interesting that there was somebody that came yesterday from Toronto. He came a little early wanted to be at some meetings today. So he came like the day before to meet me after she wanted to pitch me some. So usually like I don't really meet with people but he he's very persistent and he want whatever we didn't exactly know what he wanted something very important. So basically he came to tell me that he has an organization with 180 children that do the daff in it's like 180 it's nothing you got a lot more. And how old are these? They're like 11 to 13. It's like it's very nice. He want he wanted me to take it over take over his organization. It's only $65,000 a year. Like first of all, we have something called MDY kids. I said just today, just today, I read two emails from 11-year-olds. And here we go. I didn't even put this one in. Somebody else put it in. So his itchy itchy saffron 11 years old. That's the boy that you made that video for. It's my nephew. I did. by the made. Cool. Says that at the he asked me to make a video for somebody. He looks kind of lit. No, he's Lavage. Oh, he's he's No, he went to literature. No, from Tom's River, New Jersey, learning the daff on his MDY tablet. Oh. Oh, it says over here was at the Shabat with his parents to cheer on his cousin of Abelwoods who's making his first sem. Ah, so by the mirror of I I I saw the video actually. I don't know if it's here. Is it in there? No. Okay. And here's from another. Dear Rabi Stfansky, I think that this was translated. I'm not 100% sure. You'll tell me. We'd like to express our heartfelt gratitude for the engagement of our son Mis Baroo Winnick who is 11 years old. So, I'm thinking that this was translated from Spanish. I don't know. Maybe that's what they meant to say that he got he's engaged in Tyra something. But he's engaged. He's 11 years old from Gibralar. Mis thoroughly enjoys the learning experience and eagerly looks forward to studying the DA alongside your videos. Kids, you have to be careful when you do Google Translate. Thank you for your dedication and hard work. We truly appreciate it and are immensely proud of Mis. One regards from Moshe and Miriam Wanik something like that all the way from our little Gibralar. This is not the first time we just in the last two weeks I I read somebody else's email I believe. I think it's somebody else but it was definitely from Gibralar. Dear Belly, so we had two 11 year olds. Here comes the seven-year-old. My name is Barry Gray. I'm 17 years old and live in Toronto. I joined Yashir for Makis and it's going amazing. I really enjoy listening to you and has made my B very meaningful. Just want to share with you the power of the and the last night I come home at 1:00 a.m. after playing a two-hour floor hockey game. And right before I was about to go to sleep, I remembered that I hadn't completed that day. I immediately listen to I was able to fall asleep peacefully afterwards. Thank you so much for all that you do and the entire MDY team. You're such a This is a big actually think about it. Two hours of Florida. It's not simple to play hockey. come home drenched and tired and the last thing you want to do is open up a and he sat there and he learned at one in the morning. It's a big that's the power of because maybe otherwise he didn't learn that day. I don't know. It's uh and he feels great about it. So this gives me a lot of two 11year-olds a 17-year-old. Today's death reminds you of the famous country western humor song on my I'm my own grandpa. You know how many of these emails I got? Not this time when we're learning. 20 people would send it in. It reminds me of the song. They all sent me the link. I got it by Ray Stevens. The song should be less offensive than Mr. Mrs. Potato Head giving birth. But that was a much more complicated. I didn't look at it now, but it's like father grab. It's like 20 people over there. So I this might be acceptable for the shar. Thanks for the chart on this one. Yesterday when you explained it, I couldn't get it, but the chart really did clarify it. Can only imagine the conversation that generated this crazy scenario. Mandelb ai mandelbam's brother. Oh, this is in some funny place. It says M3. I don't know what country it says over here somewhere but oh as goldman hi rebell joined the daff a while ago and I used to do it with my ro and sh but after watching your white daff one day and seeing your amazing style of how you get the daff funny pics videos since around 3 months ago I started doing the daff twice a day with my raven with you and you're amazing you inspire me to go one step further and get a customized the boy we inspire people some people take on shikra some people learn khazar and some people get a license plate inspired me to go one step further and get a customized license plate see picture and video. Hope you like it. It's good morning raite license plates. That's fine. And he also has the Melbourne Australia. M3 is in Melbourne Australia. Why'd you say anything? Rebell from Australia is here. Humility is a big thing. Huh? Humility is a big thing in Australia. Really? But when it helps the we're not you listen talking about humility. There's a big in this room and uh he's gonna kill me afterwards but too bad he snuck in just like a few seconds ago. I just noticed him now. Oh this 43 on YouTube and 30 in Zoom. So you all know that our school came out with the new the manuk the art school with the nucas. The guy behind it is sitting in the room. He pushed our school push push. You have one it's manuk. Let me see it here. We all have Wow. A lot here. A lot of people in this room here. Show me. Wow. Wow. Here we go. You have the one. Does it have this in the front? Oh, look at that. It even has this. So, look at this. You see this name right over here? He's sitting in the room somewhere. We're not going to Ari. Ari. Say hello. Stand up for a second. Get over here. Ari, come on. Ari, come. Come. Come. Come. Come. You got to come. You got to come. Come around. Step around without knocking out the wires. People have to learn. You went. Thank you so much. Wow. This goes Listen, this guy right over here donated thousands of garam. I'm not going to say how many. Over 4,000. Under 6,000. I'm not going to say how many next ones. What are we doing? So you're doing couldn't be done because the timing but they work forever has already begun. No way. That's my favorite. You know that's where we started. Wow. Wow. Let's start. Let's start with the art school collaboration. The editor is working is a whole thing. I spoke to he doesn't want to do because told him not to end up working together. That's a big people are learning. It's a tremendous thing. Look, one guy, one guy decided to do it himself. Unbelievable. No vamis. Are you coming with us at the end? He's going over afterwards. Oh, hold on. I got to tilt it back. Okay. Almost. We're almost there. Okay. Wow. Um, there won't be a manuk. We are, by the way. Usually we do this way in advance. And because Makus is so short, I never mentioned that we're looking for sponsors for it's only 10 days away. 10 days away. So we got spoiled with Makus and all the donation and and everything. Even my son donated money over there. So if anybody wants to step up and do something for it's also what is it 50 or something. Um and then comes aari is saying it's going to be with working on it. That's a big kadesh. I didn't know that's going to be that quick. Okay, we got to move on over here. Let's just uh here one last picture. Also during um Gishot meetings I do he does the Yi Ezra shar I wonder if it's Dave's brother he's holding the phone the gum the whole thing uh the sponsored by anonymous turns in honoring family in memory of their uncle anonymous may our learning bring us closer to one another and to Hashem monthly sponsors that's Jeff Gourmet Los Angeles Jeffy sponsors month. Thank you to Rebell's wife and kids for the great sacrifice they make allowing him to spread to for the masses. Oh, if you're talking about the Kyle, I forgot to show you this. I need to show this to you. Check this out. The kyle is taking a test. I mean, you we talk numbers all the time. Oh, 4,000 Gamaras donated 5,000 Gimaras and 5,000 people joined and 6,000. The numbers are these guys from our ky mdy ky are taking a fer a test on 2,000 damara. Is there anybody in this room that can take a test on 10 damar 10 30 40 100 2,000 daf it's crazy and this is after they took the test the test just took the second one today it's six seven hours of non-stop going and answering and answering and now at the end of the week I think it's Thursday it says over here what day it is no Sunday crazy unbelievable I said yesterday about 1,800 now it's about 2,000 they Great. So where were we? We are holding by the coy sponsor weekly sponsors anonymous in honor of my first completed of doing somebody reminded me somebody from Los Angeles wrote in today said and we speak about this a lot. There should be a forum where people have questions on the gamar they could send it and the guys from the ky can answer back. One day that'll happen as well. Kids monthly of the month in honor of Kleazi for all the work they do. We have a very short D today. Check it out short. It's going to go quick. Very good. We have 50 people on YouTube and and I don't I forgot how many on Zoom. 30 or so. Omar Rabana. The last line on the base. Okay, this is basically today's this line right over here. We know and we learned about this idea called lavanita. Does anybody remember what that means? Means as follows. Let's say a couple of examples. Here's a guy who is stealing somebody's purse or wallet. Does he get malcus? No. Why? Because the tells you what the remedy is. He just needs to return it. If he returns it, he doesn't get malus. Well, he'll never get malus because he could return it. So, what is that called? That's called alavanak lass. There's a there's a live that says don't steal and there's a fix. If you do steal, give it back. Any L that's you don't get malus. What's another example? Carbon pesa. This is the original from when we were learning the I don't know how long ago. Long time ago. So this is the upgraded version of this. The Tyra says you have to eat the entire thing. Can't leave even one ounce of meat on it. He says, "And if you do that, but then the Torah tells you what the remedy is." What? What's the remedy? You burn it. Okay. says but what if the remedy can come before the actual what if it can come before the actual in that case you do get malus yes sometimes there's a remedy if you steal there's a fix if you leave over the pes there's a fix but what if the fix could come before the actual is for instance so for this we have to jump over here where is it here. Let's let's go back one just to remind remember the the mitsar guy the lashhara guy he's texting he's saying he's lash and uh what happens poof he gets harass white dots so what's the is that he must leave the machna here's the machnikdash there's the theim he has to leave the mach. Okay, he has to go out the m you see he has to go to the purple outside of the purple. He has to go outside of all the three mas. Okay, so here the says two things says leave. So here he is he's leaving. You see he leaves and he's going to toss his cell phone away because that's what caused him to. Then, you know, 6 minutes go by and he's bored and he starts texting again. Now, he goes back in. So, in this case, he could he could leave. The leaving could happen before going in. He doesn't have to go go in and then go out. It's the Torah says don't be inside go out. It could be the opposite. So let's see. This is the whole anytime there's a don't do where there's a remedy. there's an essay and you do that you could do it before before the essay even happens like in that situation you get so they tell you said this you kind of didn't say the truth he's avoiding it no I never said it in other words I take it back. I'm retracting. Oh my. I swear said it. Not only that, it's in the it's written down. This guy must leave your like in the beginning is the to go back into your what happens first? You could first do the remedy. go out and then if you want you could be over on the is you don't have to be over on the is and then do the remedy. You don't have to steal and then give back over here. You could leave your you could do the say first and then you could do the say go back in and what does it say? [Music] It says in our Mishna, these are the people that get malus. One of them is somebody that goes into the mikdash when he's and he gets malus. So he's right. This last line that said the last line is that if there's a and together the says don't go into says leave and you go into Jerusalem you're wait a minute I thought going to retract it over here you see that he shouldn't retract why because in fact you do get malus on doing the going into you into the mikdash you get malcus but why it's an assay that comes with the lay didn't we say that when there's an in took it back and said no you don't get malus say you do get malus so why did he take it back so why did he in fact retract so this is going to be something we're going to go be talking about this a lot is Somebody who violates a girl, this girl has to be dka between 12 and 12 and a halfish. And what does the say? See if I have the B here. Yeah, check out the so you have a person who did a took action. He violated. So what does he do? has to pay 50 and he's obligated if she wants he's obligated. He must marry her. He can never divorce her. So there's a an what's the top red part. You must marry her. What's the What if he does divorce her? Malcus or no malus? That's basically our question right over here. When the comes first, you must marry her and then the comes afterwards. Don't divorce her. That's similar to the last time in the over here. If the is first, there is malus. Oh, so why did retract and say that there is malus because of this guy who must marry this woman. So okay, he married her. He never let a divorceer. By the way says very interesting. He says why did puti overly he forced them. You know this smiling said so why do you have to put a why you have to force them? because he wanted them to be and once they're can't divorce them can't change them for another nation I forced to marry you interesting part he did divorce he he was on the ger he must remarry her for a second time but according to all the way in the bottom of days in this situation he should get malus here look at this what comes first in this with not with yes marry her that's when the comes first and then the say don't divorce her you should get malus if you divorce her so why does it say over here in the bra you don't get malus that's why he took it back now if I could prove to you or I could explain to you why this is different than everything else then it's not a question of if I could explain to you why in this situation you don't get malus then everything is is good so it reminds me this uh I said this a long time ago I could say it again I don't think anybody remember maybe the the few golden wrote it down somewhere a guy um I see Mark is having issues coming in and out of my computer ask him if he's if he's Okay, Mark. No, a guy comes to the RV and says am I am I allowed to take a gusha? Says yes. So somebody standing there says why why did the r tell him yes. He says ah I know this guy he's married he's happily married. He's just a bala gulla. He's a wagon driver. He he heard in sh that you're not allowed to take a gusha. So he thought he thought it means like to take on the wagon, take a gush. He's a he's happily married. He said the says that a shouldn't take a he thought you have to know your your clients. Oh, if he's a he gets malus and he doesn't return her. He doesn't he can't he can't remarry her. Ken can't marry a Gusa. So if he can't marry Gusa, he gets Malchus. It actually fits in with the Gumar later on. And we'll see that in certain situations, even if there's a fix, if you can't fix it, why can't you fix it? Because in this case, he's a he can't fix it. So what happens then? You get Malus. A isel who could fix it, fix it. Why? Why should you get Malcus? Remarry her. Let me ask you a question, Rabo. So let's see who knows the answer. Why should the C not marry her? There's a there's a mitzvah in the to marry her, right? The is the the mitzvah. Oh, there's two there's two. There's uh it's an assay to marry a unmarried woman and a to not marry a woman who's been married. So, it's two. And why is it two? It's one to marry a woman who's never been married before. And there's a low s You say in the show in the Gusha. Interesting. Um I don't uh that's not the answer I'm looking for, but I hear it sounds very interesting what you're saying if it's true. Is there an I don't know that one. He doesn't want her. He he want he he doesn't like this woman. He wants to divorce her. But anyway, so Tisha says that there's only an if she wants she also she's a participant in this. She has to be agreeable. You don't have here. Okay's question. I hear what you're saying. I have to look into that says the gar. And the gumar just explains the question and if he's he has to return the wife he has to remarry her explain the the comes first that he should marry comes before and he did it first he actually married he should get males in this Why does he not give him? That's where retracted. So comes to explain no it's not a contradiction to why [Music] uh she did a very nice job here. Okay. So we have we're all we're discussing here is two things. We're talking about that's a person who violated physically this naira. And then we have that's a person who got married and he didn't find for his wife. He says he he makes up a story like the guy he puts up a patchkavville. By the way, they they just came out yesterday. I saw a whole thing that the conservatives they they put out or the reform they were putting out patchka villain that you're now a vote for WO the conservatives paid for it. It's because they don't want anybody to vote so they paid anyway. It was that was also what that's how it is. Whatever they they they it was it was a crazy move on their part. They paid for the patchka bills. That's and the people I don't know why what they gain in the whole thing is in America. Okay, whatever. Great. So, so we have these two things. We have the difference is by the way if I if I were to ask you what's worse, what's a what's a graver sin? What's a bigger to be ma somebody or to make up a story about your wife? What's a bigger is so we're going to see most people today's societ say manus what do you mean gra somebody in the street and then violate it's crazy but the seems to say that no is worse the says it's worse the says the penalty is double and you get malus and you have to pay pay double and you only pay half and you don't get malus so let's see so says both somebody who's somebody who's they can't divorce the the has to the guy has to marry her and never divorce her. The guy can never divorce his wife. Why does the have to say that he has to marry her? Let it let we should learn it directly from the what? He didn't take action. He used his mouth. He said something not nice. He made up a story about his wife that she's not absula he must stay remarried to her forever. If a guy was he took action so certainly you should have to marry her and keep her. So says he saw it we actually mentioned yesterday I think where was it? Yeah we said the whole was is extra and if we don't have a we should use it for making oil you know just if you have a word over here you don't know what to do with it use it for something else. So here we go check this out. We should just leave this mark leave it on the screen now for a while. It says in the of you see he's trapped to her. They're in a handcuff together. You can you can never break away from her. So why do you need why do you need uh you should just take this lacial and use it for us? Why is it need to save by immunity fun? Now I don't need it. I don't need the because the Torah says it you must marry her. So let's put it. You saw that. Boom. We're going to use it. I don't need it for the in the beginning. I'm going to use it for afterwards. Why do I need I could use I could learn from from so I don't need I don't need the the but I do need it afterwards. Now what if what's mean? If he divorced her if he divorced her he must remarry her. So let's use that for afterwards. Oh, but here we have to fill in the blanks. We're missing something that what that if so the Torah is saying that does say yeah this is already similar to to Geneva if you steal return. If you didn't finish the per pes burn. If you divorce your wife, remarry her. So that's a that's a remedy. That's a that's a fix. If you did something wrong, here's the fix. The Torah tells you how to fix it. Oh, but everybody agrees that if it's alive and I say if it's a fix, there's no malus. That's what the is coming says. No daf in there's no malus. You know why? Cuz is not the typical lav in a essay. It's a lavanic. It's similar to stealing. You did something wrong. You divorced her. Remarry her. There's no there's no malus in such a situation. You hear it's good. This is not again we're talking about there's two there's two things not to be confused. There's a there's a and that the fixes the and then there's our where the and the are independent of each other. You could do the without the you could go into your without going out of your you could one is nothing to do with the other over here the says no it's not that case of we're talking about something else we're talking about that the the the marrying her is because you divorced her it comes after the not before before we talking about yeah this case before we're talking about you should marry her that's an essay do not divorce her comes afterwards. Now we're saying the opposite. You already divorced her. You already did the now after the said. So that's always a fix. That's a that's a fix. And on a fix, you don't get malus. It's just like stealing and giving back to say but time out. We just said the bottom guy in guy you want to learn from a shra there just like a shra what he has to marry the he has to stay married to her forever so too the guy on the bottom has to stay married to forever and I don't need the to tell it to me and since the told it to me I must put it on the back on the that's where we are right now no your whole your whole logic is flawed I can't learn from I can't learn the bottom guy from the top guy Check this out. Check this out. It's like a and therefore I'm going to take it away from you. I'm It's different. It's much more. So here you see a big boy. This might help us to understand that when you hurt somebody verbally it could be worse than physically. You know like everybody says sticks and stone like with the song that we used to sing when we kid sticks and stones won't break my bones but names. No sticks and stones break my bone but never hurt names will never hurt me which is not true. Yeah she check it. that we know the our whole generation has tremendous trauma from all the names that were called not from the beatings of the rebi. So the gar says the saysra is worse. It's a you're making up a lie about your wife. You already you already have a relationship with her. You're making up a lie that's worse than being somebody. Why? The proof is because you get two punishments. You get 39 lashes malus plus you have to pay and what you're paying is double the amount of the manus I cannot learn out from the top. I can't learn out from the from the so flawed. So is going to fix that a little bit. Oh sorry. Oh hello. Let's fix it out. Let's fix it a little bit and then we could reuse it. Oh, now the Gmorra is saying no. It says it says let's do the reverse. Don't say the top. And where am I going to learn from? From the I'm going to take it. You see what I just did? The of the use it for the top guy. and learn it from use your logic for my goodness is less severe than a than a why because he doesn't get malus and he pays he only pays and he doesn't get malus nevertheless he has to marry this woman forever she that is much worse why because he has to pay and get malus like he has to stay married to her forever interesting I heard once from I believe it was he said a very interesting thing about it why is it in our society if somebody steals or somebody's in our society we look down at them he's like what about all the other is that we You know I don't know what he's a little bit but it's no it's hard but this oh he did this kick him out of the right saying if you're a manal in school and you know about parent that was overas or the big he did a pyramid scheme out everybody out out. But if he found out he wanted he drove once to the store to buy because the guy only that that you said because everybody has a type of rice and everybody has to make more money and this and that and he went and he he did it. So it comes from more than anything else not that not that you're sticking off of the because if you're sticking off of the then it's a guy takes a certain haircut that's also to do then you should also ask and you should that you don't care so much don't care that that oh I could have also been wealthy I could have also stolen but he did that pyramid scheme and I didn't like a kin in there that's what he said okay fine think about it think there's some to So why do I need two? If I don't need it for the shamra on top. So let's put it back down. Oh, this is where I need it to go down. Mark, this is where I need it to go downwards. Right over here. It shouldn't be on the top. It should be on the bottom. I don't know if he fixed it or hasn't fixed. It's something. Yeah. The basically the is saying the box right now. I don't need it for the front part and I don't need it for the front on what I do. So, if I don't need it, I'm going to use it for after that he gets divorced, he should return her. So, this box right now, um, I asked Yoshi to fix it. Then I asked Mark to fix it. I don't know if he did or somewhere else. This box needs to be on the bottom left corner and then we're good for that. Huh? Whatever. Because I'm gonna have to go marks. We'll fix it later. Okay. This box is no good. Now down now says but wait a minute this how could you learn from? How do we start the whole thing? It shouldn't say why because I can learn the top from the bottom. It's not true. There's something different about them also. Oh before we said is much worse. Why? Because he gets pay he has to pay and he gets malus. But now we're saying time out on the other on the flip side has a he didn't do any action. He didn't take action. The the guy took action. Okay. So therefore I shouldn't learn from fixes it. Let me see if there's a fix here. Oh poof. Take it away. Put it back to where it was. Goes back to the Okay. You see Mark? This one I I I thought what I'm saying this is the one that the has to be on the bottom. Okay. He tried he did it but it's just too complicated. Oh now says another is still holding with me or that's it says let's start over. It says, "Don't say it over there." Why? Let's think about what happened. The rabbi said, "Think for a second. We had a married couple. They just got married last night." The next morning, he goes to Bez and he says, he makes up a story about his wife, but they're already married. So why is the saying you should marry her? He got married yesterday. So what does the mean stay married to her? But so why does he use of get married to her? So is not so good. She's they're already married. Oh, I don't need it here because they're already married. Oh, so let's take it and put it down. It goes downwards to the guy. Now, I don't need to tell me that you should marry. Why don't I need to tell you that? Because it already says it in the Tyra. So I have a double over here by theus. So what do I do with the second one? This way. I put it for if he does get divorced remarry her and then just to repeat then it becomes then it's a remedy it's a fix and on a fix you don't get malus oh sorry says but wait a minute maybe no no maybe you learned it right the wrong way maybe it belongs up there and you said I don't need it over there why because they're already married. It's in Sham. If you're just listening, it's going to be impossible to understand, but okay. Maybe it belongs to Shamra by before they got married. Well, they're already married, but I don't need it there. So, I'm going to put it. No, no, no. No. Oh, over there. the only choice left. I don't need it for the mighty in front of so I'm going to put it on the Shra afterwards which means what? that if the dude who's already married to this wife decides to divorce her he must return her and that's a fix and on a fix when there's a fix when there's an say to fix the loss say what was the say don't divorce her and he didn't listen when you don't get malus on such a situation okay beautiful says this is Great. You're right. Doesn't belong down there. It belongs on the shra to the left on the but nevertheless look I already told you that if you divorced a shra the top one if he gets divorced he must return his wife. So learn the bottom from the top. That's it. Learn the bottom from the top. So there's a fix for also and how why I should learn from. So what are you going to say? Nevertheless, what are you going to say? What's the but has much more. Why is it much more? Because you have to pay and get binged up real good. 39 lashes. So certainly guy if he gets divorced he must remarry his wife. Wait a minute. She can we already said then we we go all the way back. So then how come there's no malus for the what? Oh okay fine. So says the garra. So now comes and says you know why the doesn't get malus it's what's again it's when you do something wrong there's a fix the says the word means to me that there's a constant need to repair every minute every day there's a there's a need to M if it's after he divorces her he should return he should he should return her there is there so the famous of the villain the first uh modern day rashiva modern day I mean like you know 250 years ago first known yeshiva that we have in in you know the previous generations by the way most of the stories that we have about the come from he wrote he witnessed this this that stories are have a they're very authentic they're not like oh I think I heard that he that the guy flew when he came and he he saw So this malik that thing the stories that we have are from so went to the villain when he's 20 years old and said that he learned entire 14 times and he doesn't remember it well I don't so the vill said you want to remember with 14 times what's so he says how many do you need 101 he said no entire life he used this slush The what that this is basically what was saying in the beginning that the thing of is a they get malus if you do that say [Music] First to remind when it talks about malus, it talks about this case right over here. This is muzzling an animal when he's threshing the wheat. The animal wants to eat, but you don't allow him to eat. That's called. So we say that all aas in the Tyra have to be similar to this a of putting a muzzle on the animal's mouth which is for one it's not a glass it's not a lav that has uh a fix doesn't tell you the fix just says don't muzzle doesn't say but if you muzzle you should take it off So over here also how could you say that you get malus doesn't have an to it a fix well just because added an essay to it it should be worse than this is plus an why should it be worse So how come we have the famous concept that if there's a live and then is the fix to the you don't get malus just say oh what's the big deal it's plus an why should it be any different than a regular and you should get malus no when you have the whole point of that say is to fix the so if you're fixing the then there's no lav and you don't have to give malus. But if there's a lav plus anay that's not a fixed to the to the it just happens to be there that's my it's like you're over on two special things. So why should you get malus for it? Just because there's an assay doesn't make it any better. If the is a fix if the tells you what to do when you get into the situation you forgot to eat the meat or you not you forgot you did it on purpose. You didn't eat the meat of the current bes the tells you fix it burn it. In other words don't get malus. But if the Torah is telling you like he's saying if there's such a thing don't marry a gusha you you should marry a regular woman. So it's not a fix. It's just making the is even more. So why should you get malus for that? Sorry just to show you the number real quickly. We're going to see it but it's easier to see it like this over there. The Bryson says any that has an if there's a plus an uses two. So the says there's a mistake here. Either you're going to put two times two words or you're going to put two beatles. But you can't have you can't do both. You can't say the word kaim and what's the difference. Big difference. Think about it. Yeah. I'm asking you a question. You have a guy who's supposed to be married to this I don't know he's mighty Shamron a woman and he has to be married to her forever and then he divorced her. So we don't give him malus. Why? Because he he could remarry her. A month goes by and he didn't remarry her. Does he get Malcus? Huh? No. How about a year? How about 27 years? So that's the question over here. Bit means that as long as he didn't make it impossible, then I don't care if it's 27 years went by, you don't give him out this. What does k mean? He means if he didn't do it right away today, he has 24 hours to marry her. When Bezan says marry her, remarry her. That's it. Go marry her. Don't Don't start, oh, I'm planning a wedding and I'm not sure. And you got to do it right now. I don't know. I just made up 24 hours. But it's now be here's a good riddle. How would somebody go ahead and be marrying his wife by dying? No. If she dies, no. She gets married. Oh, marry. What you say? That's very nice. That's very good. No, but the sister could die. Then he can remarry her. There something similar to that. If the wife gets married, that's her problem. He Well, it wasn't his fault then. It's like her dying. He didn't do the he wanted to and she went and married somebody. And if he and she married him within one minute. Very simple. If he swears that he won't marry her, he makes a nether. I'll never marry. So then he can never marry her at this point to get. So now you'll get Marcus. Okay, there's no I hear what you're saying. I also thought about that. No great is on top of stuff. Good. I was worried that was falling asleep here. We're almost done cuz look base is very short. Says that's great. If you say he got rid of it forever, he can never do the the the the remarry again. So that's very similar to what Ra and Ra were saying over here. Kyov means I have an entire lifetime to remarry her as long as I don't swear that I'm not going to marry her. I got 27 years to do it. But according to the says that you should remarry her right away, that minute. And if you don't, you get Malcusar. That doesn't fit in so well with Ra and Ra that say you have unlimited time to marry her. You don't have unlimited time says their answer. Don't don't do over here says the trying to fix who started the whole and he's the one that says he's the exactly perfect. It fits right in. He's the one that says that you have unlimited time that you have to read in the bry two words of bit not one word of bit and one word of the whole is talking about unlimited time as long as you don't swear that you're not going to marry her you're good you don't you don't get mal and this we already learned so I'm going to throw this on the screen you know what let me just say the turning of the real quickly Sponsored by Adar Global. Onestop shop for all your financial needs. By Kovations LC in honor of our sons Kro for learning Sanhedrin and Makas with Rebelli. In honor of Adar Global Innovations, true role models of how to support the DA and learning. Oh, I forgot to tell the guy last night. Look, we have Ko and forget the all the emails. We have two guys here that finished the whole he did give me that real Israeli kids like kids from to do. They made a whole scene there with the little no. So it's not it's not it's not puzzle for kids. Okay, good. So let me just throw this on the screen even though you see it but I I think this explains it better only because this is red. You see the issue in what we're reading here. It says in the anytime there's a that says there's a there's a a positive commandment do not steal there's a positive return it if you return let's say the so over here it says the word and what it say right before says I don't like that because it's a contradiction means you got to do it right Okay, means they have a lifetime to do it. So, pick or choose. He says my either you're going to read it with two two words or you're going to read it two words. You have to pick if you're going to read the word in the beginning. So then the the second word is not the second word is kim. In other words, you have your entire life to fulfill this mitzvah of let's say exam. You steal a bike when you're 13. You have until you're 97 to return the bike or but however I say to yeah you have up until 97 to return the bike until 120 to return the bike. Fine. No, he argues loves to argue with and he says no you have to read the in other words you have one day I don't know how much time you have whatever it is a very short amount of time to remarry this woman you divorced you a woman you married her and you divorced her remarry her immediately and if you start playing games you will get malus in this case says The source of the mafus what does it mean when the are not sure that this guy is going to be when they warn you right every you do you need to be warned how could they warn a guy on something that they're not it's not so simple that he'll be if you see a guy that's going to kill somebody if you're gonna kill him you can't tell a guy hey I'm warning you that you should marry her. Maybe I will, maybe I won't. Maybe in seven years from now, 25 years from now. But if you know that he must marry her within a certain amount of time, within one day. So it's not as suff. It's not a suffic in the in the warning. It's a it's a warning here right now, you must marry her. And if you don't bite, you're dead. Orus. That's our is here between is this considered or not we'll start this just because I want to show you this uh short clip over here and they go according to their own by the way we're talking about suffix I mentioned this last time we mentioned that the the I heard tapes from and all sorts of they say I say tapes because back in the day they used to you know remember the kids don't even know talking about before CDs before the the tapes literally cassettes and I I bought in uh in in May there's a store there that used to sell all these cassettes the white remember very dark white thick tapes and they were like a shakal or something so I bought all these uh shirum from and if you wanted to like skip forward you have to push the button forward wait 25 minutes until okay fine so one of those cassettes he says that you should never threaten your kids like, "Oh, like if if you don't come home on time, you don't know what's going to happen to you. It's going to be crazy what's going to happen to you." You don't if you're not very specific. What sounds Trumpian? What's that's that's a trauma. He just says open open-ended threats. Does he is he is he mikim then? To be determined. To be determined. So I think so far he's pretty staged with what he unless he's doing it like to negotiate like oh I'm going to throw 250% tariffs but then the next day he's going to take it down you know whatever cuz it's just to negotiate and then it comes down the whole world gets ter okay no not the whole just one fine some sometimes it's obvious I don't know why they go crazy oh terrible dude it's obvious it's just negotiated fine so um real estate people know this stuff maybe other immediately doesn't happen. So, where was I? I have no idea where it was. Oh, so he says, "If you have this open-ended threat, then the kid knows it's nothing happens." Like when the Reb says, "Oh, if anybody doesn't come back recess," they never do anything. If you say very specific, you will have to write your name 700 times, then fine. Then he says he shouldn't threaten because then the kid take. Okay, we're not going to go into person makes he's going to eat this loaf of bread today and a day went by and he didn't eat it. What happens? He swore he's going to eat it and he didn't eat it. Do you get punished or not? You don't get why. So hold on here. this little video clip here. Monty, not again. Every time you're hungry, you put the whole fridge in one sandwich, and in the end, you barely eat a quarter of it. This time, I'm really hungry. And you know what? I swear I'll eat it all by the end of the day today. You know, you'll get 39 malcus if you don't eat it by the end of the day. I don't want to be rude, but I think I'll be putter for one of two reasons. Does anyone know what the two reasons are? Now, only those who don't know the answer should answer. Yes. Only those who don't know what. Okay. All right. So, let let's just finish up here because we're busted the hour. He didn't eat the sandwich. So not eating something, not doing something doesn't result in malus. You have to take action in order to receive malus. They both say you don't get but for different reasons because at the time when they warned the guy to that he will get malus if he doesn't fulfill his obligation it wasn't known it was undetermined whether or not he will or won't maybe we'll go over tomorrow maybe not have a wonderful [Music]