Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 57 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning so our brothers in they came out of yan and they turned on the news and they all want to know what is going on I got a many many phone calls so I can just tell you from my perspective we are sitting here in AR we have two days of everybody's very very sad people are very down I don't want to use the word depressed very down um living in a in a neighborhood where you hear the sirens you hear bombs probably hear the bombs all day long and you hear the planes coming over every 30 seconds another one another one and from our she alone we have a b bar Foreman who sits in the back he had a tremendous alah this this year he comes every single day and after daving he learns another D from another M fman Bar fman how with the H I know u h so is's on the front lines my own nephew M simad front lines we know that a whole Brigade of gani was wiped out from the front line it's it's s after since since the Holocaust there was never a loss of yiden with that kind of number in one day in a single day and we're we're all very B we feel it here I mean the the only thing if people say to themselves well if I was the the president if I was the Prime Minister I'd go in there and carpet bomb it and I'll do this and it wouldn't happen and all you say is you see the y in the good you see the y in the bad runs the the world puts in the leaders minds and if there's not going to be a carbon bombing because he put that Mak in there if they're going to make peace tomorrow and you don't like it it's because put that in there and the only thing that we could do is is we could learn more to and instead of I I really want to tell us to the I think it's important especially for those in America probably going to be looking up and down on all the sites and all the whatsapps and I'm asking you as a a do not look at those videos the ones that show the Y the the women the children it's going to leave a in your brain they'll never be able to erase do not look at them do not view them and instead of watching those things say use your time wiely to say more to him to learn more to that's the only thing that we know how to do um I I have to ask M from our executive director to this this is not uh stop I'm I'm emotional like everybody else he brought in a crew yesterday they want to do a video for promotion for for the shabas I said I'm not in I can't I just can't speak I I didn't speak the co but with that being said we have to say [Music] for [Music] hey [Music] for [Music] for [Music] first time as a I'm reading this POS with you they came in with jeeps and with motorcycles and today today's day and age it's a a suus it doesn't get any funnier and sillier than than a motorcycle they have hostages a motorcycles that's how they the day that we have tanks and and jeeps and hum and they come with the but we have Bo said today's D we're going to learn the the the captives theim and I I I recommend if so if you could go to a private place and just think for 15 seconds imagine your own daughter in the situation that these women and their children are in just picture your own flesh and blood with these these standing over them and who knows what they're doing to them just just picture it for 10 seconds you have to M feel it in your bones and be with them in that s today's sh is being sponsored by the lock and Ling families L New Jersey because are the best sponsor of the month as that our family should be blessed with health come from supporting we have with us some guests and I after I forgot his name he came in from J he was here for f but he drove in all the way from yesterday and because we decided as as a group that we're going to limit the amount of people in the B Mar to 15 we didn't allow him in we had to be there was other people that we asked to leave and we couldn't allow him in and there's a big Sting from the shei got up and gave a seat to one of the guests and somebody else got up and tried to give him Helper and try to give him in a seat he said no I don't want to take it but later on I kind of did cha I I I saw him in my house I gave the kid some gifts and we wish him well there on the way now back to jalar huh has said his father's the r of J and then the kid is only I don't know 12 years old and he's been doing that for a very long time to the r of Ukraine for coming again you're already this is familiar not I mean with the but in terms of war and bombs in Ukraine you have this you have the bomb what in Ukraine really wow okay it's m to see the P the Iron Dome go up to hear the thuds every if you just listen Bo I thought that I woke up early in the morning to learn it was on chabas and I hear I thought it's Thunder said this can't be thunder just not one after another then I real I had to wake up the okay oh we're holding by the way on like 10 lines down no that's not it sorry 2 four six eight lines down we learned in the mishna that things that are that you can't benefit from so you can't be mes a woman with but if you transfer if you sell that item to somebody illegally so the is not n in the money the money is to be mades with so now we're going Thing by thing we learned in the mishna so this is something that Yoshi worked many hours on I'll show you what he did here forfa here you have the uh scum of both cities trying to figure out where the dead person belongs to how close it is to one it happens to be smack in the middle take a good look at this picture because it took him many many hours I'll show you also how I know it took him many hours and they basically when they measure they see it's exact so they have to bring a calf and they bring it to a special t as to the Hard Rock bed and over there they they the the head of the the EG and they say look they they have they have to take some because there's a mace over here and they need to do TR for it so here this so the way he got to this is through AI but he wanted to show me and I have here from 1:21 in the morning 3:59 a.m. the Mount of proms to get to what I wanted to I wrote crazy fine and then he he shows me here the prompts each little tiny box hundreds and hundreds of tries to get the certain people the way you wanted it it's not what people think that you just type in oh uh two cities old men in the middle and boom it doesn't have many many hours and hours of redoing so whatever okay and here he is like what time is this 4:05 a.m. that's he's still conversing with me okay so and I'm not trying to show that I'm up at four because that's already late for me okay I'm just kidding but no no jokes today how do you know that it's it says the word here so just like so to once we know so we're going to say the other we'll see later when a person speaks gets there's a whole process what he has to do so he has to bring two here went fast here he has a beard the hair he has to shave off all his body here and he brings two birds he brings a piece of Cedar a he takes one bird he shs one bird um yeah it was too lat already he didn't uh we have it actually we have an animation of where the blood goes into this vessel and then he takes the other Bird that's alive and he dips that bird into the blood into the mixture and then they release the bird where do they release the bird where says in the we're going to see later on this exact place where you release the bird and how you release the bird okay says so these birds are also one of them is also how do you know the so have a seat over there if you want come wherever okay good once I'm here what's your name sadic girls from Monro okay please edit that out what's your name Ro from London that's your son today I'm happy you see you see I asked him otherwise they could have just forgotten to ask okay you like wow okay listen it's not that bad sometimes people come the day before and I don't okay thanks for coming again so so here it goes there's something called a Mak there's something called a m m is easy m is like a carbon a carbon gives you a kapar that's easy like a like we just discussed the cow the calf that you bring it's M for the murder of this person who we don't know what city who who murdered him there's no l they didn't l meaning they didn't accompany him out whatever the reason he died food then something called a is something that allows you to do something else it's not a kapar that this brings in is not forap it's to allow him to come into it's to allow him to do things same thing with the it's not part of the Kap it's not because he spoke he has to bring Birds this part of the process of him becoming tar so if you see on the on the right column that the the and the are there's no difference between them you treat the same way you treat a there's no difference there's no difference between the and the on the outside what you do outside of is also outside outside it says is like any carbon it doesn't have to be any carbon that brings a and also talks about the which is and the which is the on do just like when you're talking about the inside ones the two carbon are the same you take the carbon you put it on top doesn't matter if it's it's all the same just like that we just established it's also is going to be identical to because it's it's a is that no sorry it's the is like the which is also yeah as everybody else no different than everybody else I'm not 100% there like I'm not focused my like everybody else but in addition to that I have a a very personal dilemma that I'm going through now in my in my personal life and I was running around to to to yesterday just to figure things out and every single person that I know my my the people that I'm close to and I ask this this guy says 100% yes and this guy says 100% no and so with with the fog that I have in my head my brain is like all over the place to sit down and learn is is difficult kids okay I'm just telling like case in America they don't C this I'm sure right now they're probably more B than we are we're two days in they're just now what's going on okay when exactly does the applied to this bird it's also what bird and when and how you purchase two of these sparrows do we call them Sparrow yes what are the the little guys people used to eat them the ker eat it I don't know how much meat is on there but you you from the time that you shed it one you shed one you don't shed the one you don't is not the one you don't sh was never so you have two birds they're not also you have them in a box they're not you take one out it's still not and you sh it at that moment it becomes what about the other one that you let free you dip him first you do a whole thing to him the guy doesn't know it's flying you dunk his head in some blood and then boom you let him go he's not no no because rash says not like that and then how could it be before says makes iter so how could it be before what made it AER makes it AER you have two birds one is Ru one is shim shim you did he became Ruben how did he become what you didn't do so he goes flies away agrees to you when you purchase the two birds they both become so they become so what about the one that flies away he's he's in a box he's when you when shim bird number Ru it's funny guy he's Ru he becomes M at that becomes is Grant they have these birds ah I should have brought in props I have those birds somewhere okay it makes sense there's no nothing happened there so it has to be the that made it also why [Music] just like becomes like a carbon when it's [Music] alive so too the birds we learned from from so think about it you have a calf you're bringing it down you're walking it marching it down to the when did this calf become it's not a it's not a carbon you didn't say oh this should be an and that moment it becomes you didn't you didn't donate it to the so it should be that it should be so it doesn't have doesn't have so when in the world did this become the some sort of phase in the process of the and at that phase whenever that phase is that's when it becomes but I don't remember I don't remember so my friends got around and they they try to figure it out common sense since the says the Torah says you have to bring the into the into the into the by the way there's a say for by has a whole lot of shist and questions and all all about the it says if you found let's say the in the in the let's say the lives in no good you have to bring it down so that's one of that's a phase just like there's a phase of purchase that's a change in the in this animal there's also a change when you knock its head off there's something in between something before knocking its head off it's called taking it down to the to the so you're telling me but when you purchase the EG it's not it's nothing how could say that you when you purchase it over here it seems like that purchases nothing there's a phase called but there's no phase of of bringing a bird somewhere it says it says okay it seems just points out what I I said before the seems like a whereas by the birds yeah you have to take the birds but it doesn't say you have to you have to bring it somewhere you have to do something with it [Music] says another question when the T says you can eat all T Birds call all it's coming to include something it's coming to say that the bird that you set free you're like to eat if you catch it afterwards you could eat it and this this one you shouldn't eat from it it's coming to say that you're not allowed to eat so we have two birds that the brings one you're allowed to eat one you're not allowed to eat the one you is the one you sent away is M now the is going to ask I'm just prefacing it here so you remember maybe the one you is M to eat because you it I don't know and the one you sent away is also who told you which POs to use for what that's the going to ask but if you're telling me that you that these birds become from the moment that you bought them so I need a to say oh this bird is also to eat after you it say yeah I do need a why when you have it's everything but when you forget the talk about so now the becomes now the owner also becomes M so you see helps you so I think by the by the bird also so the bird also should be matter it that's why the has to say no this bird is if you and you found that it's a says rash that the word Venus I found it means that it became a now when youed it why because let's say it had a damaged brain like it was you see the skull is dented in it got a gun zet it flew into somebody's mes into a glass wall and has a thing over here and so it's not n you didn't find it it happened before this means it just now occurred just figured it out now one of them is m one of them you could use you take the other one take another one and the first one is completely but if they both became from the moment that he purchased it what released it from it when something becomes KES it doesn't become unes without transferring the to to money to doing something you can't just say oh it's it's not you it's not that youed it and you did a bad and that and that that's what you found out afterwards was was a a tra which it can survive very long from the moment that you purchased it so you never purchased it your whole purchase was off because you bought something that's not right there's no there's no's no that was his bird [Music] um here here's the so the birds these sparrows right You' be surprised you think only pigeons are tar no these little sparrows the brown ones that fly around the tar them it says in the red and it looks something like this his a piece of Cedar red Crimson thing uh someip fine says but what if you did you didn't listen to the without the necessary ingredients you don't have the no you already dedicated it for the so it's no did it wrong in the wrong way the whole is is it a good or not a good in other words go like this what does do removes the NAA of the animal sometimes you can't even eat the animal sometimes you find that it's a tra you can't eat it it's no longer a there's no it's not an A so what is is this a so there's a that says that you don't consider it at all for many different things it's not considered at all that's the since it can't be a good bird it's not it's not considered but the whole is is a good not a good but everybody agrees that this bird what are you going to do with this it says over the bird when it's alive it's it's not it's not awesome says the no is right from here it's like that but he he somebody else like we had before we have a we have a means it doesn't give you a you didn't do it just allows you to come to means you didn't have you need a Kap so you compare the like whatever are the same put on we took the and what and just like this is just like so theer the bird is like Anda is also when it's alive that we already established it's AER we said when you bring it down to the it becomes a so to the bird when it's alive it's AER you should eat every kosher bird even this bird that you sent out you set it free I don't know if this is true but me personally I would say if you ask me which POS goes to what I'll say the bird that you shed you did A on it is the bird that you sent out somewhere is also why why did you flip it you said the bird that you is the bird that you sent out is so what's a good what's a beautiful just common sense that if you sent out a bird I'm just saying throw it out if you sent out a bird into the street and it's m it's a to eat then what happens if shim goes and catches it so what he just ate a iser he doesn't know so now from now on I can't eat any sparrows cuz maybe maybe it's I don't know so how could it be that the said send out a bird and Let It Go free when it's stop throwing out a no it's impossible that a free bird is AER why because nowhere in the toy do you see that an animal is AER is that true that there's nowhere in the to that an animal is AER I'll give you a few cases if somebody designated an animal or a person actually bowed down to an animal here's a live [Music] animal that means you're only also to bring it as a carbon but as use a personal use it's M for those in need of and by conations in honor of my uncle can you 2500 people their lives have changed forever hopefully not so many but a thousand of them missing legs fingers who knows what brain damage number huh just people really oh that's good news that kind of news we like not like yesterday when they found 30 people and the parents came out and it turned out that they were of we're talking about yesterday they found 30 people and parents were waiting for their children and they saw them coming out of a pipe they were hiding over there by the Rave concert and they ran towards them and then it turned out that they were all illegal immigrants hiding they weren't their sons uh but you're saying they found how much 100 hundreds of people that were hiding without service they without that without cell phone service service wow okay but that's I'm warning I mean you have to warn there's a lot of ups and there's a lot of downs and there there's a lot of hostages we have no idea we have no names we don't know numbers we don't know anything right now we're in the beginning all family soash brings this this is in the first the second it says in the soash says he brings the that each one of these their extra words each one comes to say another bring these ASAS one is says says it has to be and it brings the POS because it says that that you kill the owner it means Just Like You Killed the owner of AD so to the animal believe it or not you need two a to testify you don't just kill an animal if somebody had relations with an animal it says over here in the so it becomes a we spoke about sh yesterday you have an axe that kills a human being he's whatever here's another animal that's also you have to kill it because it with another human being and it becomes also to you forget about it becomes not to to you so what are you telling me there's no such things an animal the reason why the bird that you let free must be M because there's no such thing as an animal that's sa here here's an animal that's a here's a that's you're right there is case but most animals are so it doesn't make sense that this should be the one that you released the one that should be is the one that you over here say you sprinkle the seven times with this bird that has blood on it and then you let you let it go on the field so what's you let it go why do have to say on the field to teach us that it's what are you talking about it's known I need the word you shouldn't stand on the wall of looking over the sea and letting it go into the sea you has to be you have to let the bird go we never knew this right you take the bird you let it go over a field just yesterday somebody sent me a a unbelievable speech that somebody said just yesterday like I don't know if he was what he was he spoke but the last words I just thought was interesting I haven't heard Y in a long time he said a line and that's how he finished all his speech he said in Hebrew he said if you don't make then ya is going to turn into that was his life it says like this don't stand on the wall of and you'll throw it into the desert so you not send the bird out into the ocean and not into the desert you can't stand outside of the city and send it into the city you have to stand by the the the wall of the city and send to open field cuz the t is up so don't tell me is coming to to tell me that oh it's m like a s so what is he going to do he has to come up with this he has to also know this where you release a bird he learns two they have to first that that like a s that's M so to the bird that you send out as M to eat if you catch it and second that you have to send it over a field it's impossible the said send this bird free and then if catches it he'll be [Music] eating here's the I threw it in the tells you you have to send it from the wall you send the bird away this is just from yesterday here's our famous nozer I don't know if I mentioned that the uh this nazer I interviewed him and he I think has like 40,000 views probably the the most watched video of MD nothing to do with me everybody want to see this nozer so over here you see he takes off his hair he holds it in his hand and he puts it under the pot of the schl and he burns he burns his hair over there and it's so if he were to take this these hairs and a woman with it it wouldn't work it's so check this out this is very important to see inside says he's not all to use the razor says this is only one of 13 times that the T removes the V from the word and the reason is because Andes are two different words means what does mean that's means it's holy okay it's different means holy the V is between the D and the shin but if the V is between the K and the then it'ses it's like a so then why does the say without a to tell you that you can put the V wherever you want on the one hand it'ses it's likees on the other hand it's holy it's KES so let's see inside so I learned from here that it'ses it's you put the V how do we read it as if the V is at the end of the word but the T took the V out of there because we're going to read it for us for our we're GNA say it's not so that's how I know that the he of the is but wait a minute if you're telling me so what if I sell my hair as a sh remember I I saw one of my relatives at a and I said what's going on with this long hair she I'm growing it this girl has and she has the same color hair as me I thought he's haking in chinik it turns out that he really did it and not only that he was kind of insulted that he mentioned in cheer came we made afterwards not M he says oh you me he knew right away within 10 minutes he called me up whoa I really gave it the whole thing fine guy wants to sell his long hair like this Noz he has hair up there wants to sell it as a Shel you need 30 cmers and you give it as a sh sell it what would happen just like Kim if I take a not a but I take an animal that's owned by the bdash and I I I buy from the B so my money becomes KES and I get the animal but the I could transfer into money but what happens what happens for real think about it if I were to take this that the Miss says sell it as a take the money be mades woman does it work or not Benny it works that's what the Mish says that the the doesn't transfer the is of is doesn't transfer to the money that's what we said today that's the end of the Mish the last line but according to you it should true answer to the money it should be AER to be M with it because it's like a like a carbon like a Hees not a carbon but Hees says oh says no we're dancing on two kasas over here on the one hand it'ses it's likees on the other hand it's it's holy it doesn't use the same it's it's like but it's not like and that's exactly why the T didn't put the v in there because you can read it both ways you're supposed to read it both ways on the one hand you read it KES that it's on the other hand you read that the the doesn't transfer into the money and if I use it to woman over here you seeb doing he's actually Redeeming the now if you don't redeem it it's also you have to take a thing chop the head off of the and then it becomes also it says in the and if you don't do this that that that thing that the did you have to cut it head off I'm sorry says when the head is chopped off then even agrees that it's also how do you know that I saw a very very interesting child what do you say I'm asking you tell me what you think a is an electrician and he gets called into McDonald's to fix the electric M for him to fix the electric or not why not why not that's why I'm saying this when I bring is to push your button to get you mad it's a says awesome I also thought it should be that's why I'm saying it because you're you're helping him and you're having enough enough from his his whatever okay have a I have a I have a I have a riddle I have a riddle how's it possible how's it possible that a person is not allowed to eat mils if he eats fles before very good how is it possible that a person is not eat fliks and he's not to eat mil no everybody's eating not everybody's eating he can't eat not fling not milk oh the answer is a few minutes after the N days come in and he he just ate fliks so he's not eat Flik because the nine days and he's not eat milk because he Flik if you have a bris during the nine days oh yeah okay yeah something like that right see him happened to you you go to see him after yeah the I noticed it says it three times all three times are by the end of the three different pares the famous that cooking it together is also to eat also to benefit and it's also to cook it we're going to see tomorrow that it says so that's why a lot of a lot of people are not aru on this whole thing he says we have a little bit of here that is if you take a a p animal that's not carb you bring it into right here above me you can see the you bring it in there it's how do we know you bring my caronus into my house into my and your animals your don't mix them up if you bring a carbon in middle of it's also why is it's also be Ming it and if you're Ming it it's also and nothing happened if you it so the is remains on it so to yours in mine if you bring a simple animal and bring it into if you take bring if you do that in the reverse you bring a simple an bring the is only on one case of you bringing outside or outside you just told me that this we never went this late we started a little late you just told me that that's why but if there's no by you bringing in into the there's no so maybe it shouldn't be it says three one by all by but by a we gonna be able to do this let's just do quick for all those who just walked in here I want to tell you biges maybe you didn't know this when CL in the midbar waser meat did you know that if you had a sheep you weren't allowed need it you knew that Benny you didn't know so it's good thing he came today it the only time was to eat meat is if you brought as a carbon that's it unless it had a m if it had a m you're allowed to eat in the midbar once C said you're gonna live in you can't come to me every time you want to eat a steak you're GNA come all the way to you you don't have to come to the so this comes to say that you're not allow to bring fine we'll stop have a wonderful day to [Music] everybody