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anybody remember what that is we know about even if a person's you make a can make you make a seems like so long ago you remember this you remember that is that if a person Tells A store owner give credit to my employees she says fine I'll give credit to the employees at the end of the week the employees say we never got paid we never went to the store and the he says what do you mean I paid them so they both make a and they both get paid by the boss is K that a person gives the before he does he gives her money and that's called it's like regular to a woman but since she's she's she's only she requires a get zik is a before the oven what to do if he wants to be or he wants to do she's skook she has a bond everybody knows this refusal it's a a a young girl who was married off by her mother or brother so it's only a marriage with and she could refuse the guy any minute she wants but of course if the father marries her off she cannot do p is when a when he's doing one of the four he thinks in his mind that he's going to eat this carbon outside of it lot of time it's the carbon makes the carbon possible and he is there's another one called if he thinks what cars for eating he says okay I don't remember anymore we only learn over and over and over and if you're wrong I'm not going to be happy is not the calls a pigle but that's on it is if you think to yourself you're going to eat it outside of depending on the type of car car eat he say I'm to eat that's if you eat it according to them the co is not sponsored by anybody the is sponsored families L Jersey because are the best that should be blessed with health 120 they're back one of them is back which I forgot which one was off got it first is today of the month that come from supporting somebody came over to me today and he said he's a little discouraged by the sugas he's thinking about dropping out he threatened me he said when is it going to be over I said well basically today we're going into a actually a little bit today a lot tomorrow I told him he's he's a big time and I said listen that's the beauty of every day something else sometimes it's harder Su sometimes it's easier Su sometimes you personally you get annoyed some you get excited some people love a some people the opposite some people you know how many people told me the favorite I'm not kidding there's certain people that have a brain for Math and for um how do you say say family uh genealogy they love that stuff my grandmother's cousin is your father's second people love some people love youas some people love this each P that's why every two days it's a new start you have this we're I think it's a very simple and easy if a person I don't even know if he's talking about this he's talking about the other Su who know but we're getting it's almost over is the idea of telling a woman you owe me money I let you money I'm a banker I let you money I lent you a million dollars today I'm going to forgive you the loan on condition that you marry me RAV says no marriage you can't do that why because you have to give her something and to forgive a loan you didn't give her anything and even no it's meant to be spent it's gone you could marry her with the of the forgiveness if you said so specifically now you're having I'm forgiving you with that no but that's not what he said he said I'm you with the loan the million dollars I'm erasing it you see Zero not K so let me tell you what the gamar is doing here yesterday the gamar said well maybe somebody argues on R and it was very very clear brings a line it doesn't get any clearer than that and the gor Wiggles its way out of it and says no it doesn't really mean that they're arguing with RAV we're talking about a completely different story he over there he wasn't forgiving alone over there he tried to give the lady $100 he said I'm going to be getting we're going to get engaged his $100 and he lied he gave her 99 so that $1 became a loan it's different than a guy erasing a million dollars no you don't have R fine look what the gar is going to do today says well maybe somebody argues with r name and then says no I could explain in four different ways why he's not arguing with r and doing so we're going to learn all these Concepts that we never saw before a lot of them we never saw and then the rest is again oh maybe another source and over and over here says again no no no it means something else like we said yesterday no it means it doesn't mean that and at the end of the day the does it three times today maybe we have a that argues with r and the first time is four four different ways to do it and even if you say it's like thisbe it's like that and then the second one is three times and the third one is three three different ways out of it so now let's see what the says we're holding 18 lines from from the bottom have a lot to catch up at the end of the day nobody argues with r maybe somebody does but we can't prove it says name you see this check guy owes me $100 here take this so what's the difference between the two cases this is also a Brand New Concept called he gave authorization he said here this Mila this this loan that somebody owes me here it's yours here's a loan so what's the difference there's two two cases you hear one is a and one is a Mila what could be the difference and what's the second one without a okay very good B very good you went to the she today didn't you again so we have so let's try to remember this for theator says I can marry somebody with a I give a woman a document that says that so and so owes me a million dollars here you go now this is very different than forgiving alone right you think says well what's the case exactly so and so owes me money and I'm going to give it to the woman and say go after so and so he owes me a million dollars I'm giving you a million dollar check I'm giving you a million dollar isn't that exactly the words the second case so we must say that the first case just means I am erasing whatever you woman owe me and I want you to be to me that is the case that's the exact case of RAV no so we have remor here that says that argues on ra that I'm aades if I eras alone you do become says no here we go four different things we're talking about somebody else's and over here is there's no document the first case is here's the document take it be become the second case is somebody owes me money I forgot to write a document but go after him okay so everybody understands though right it's p if I erase a loan a woman owes me money a million dollars and I erased a loone so right now she didn't get anything but if you owe me money you still owe me money I take that document I give it to her now I gave her something I gave her something that's worth money I could sell this star in the market 50 cents on the dollar sometimes 95 cents on the dollar depending how trust sometimes zero cents on the dollar depending on the guy but it has some shavas usually somebody owes me money a million dollars you'd buy it for $100 no even if the guy's a real Shyer you might buy it for 100 bucks so that's what I'm giving the woman I'm giving her shoing right now it's different than rasing a loan okay so says has no connection to Rav erasing loans this is a real that somebody owes me now the say so what is the then so the is going to go into both of these things in two cases if I give a woman a document that says another person owes me a million dollars here's the document says we have to understand what another Cas is that guy owes me a million dollars I forgot I'm a tip I forgot to write a document say hey by the way Ritson he owes me a million dollars go after him go after him what's says let me explain to you even though has nothing to do with really we're going on a tangent now to explain the difference with this is a different and because we're doing this it's beautiful because we're GNA get to learn a lot of different the words of a if I have a document that says I owe you so I could take it and give it to anybody I want any one of my friends and he's it's interesting I have a I have AAR I can mess up I could give somebody my friend thear and it's not his if I don't do the right thing if I don't know the just because I gave him the document doesn't mean it says so the T re says that I could just give it and it's his these are the words that we need you have to write a document to the document have to write a document I Ellie am giving over thear that ruin owes me a million dollars I'm giving it to you shim if I don't write that document it doesn't work so here I thought I was being a nice guy and give my friend a million dollar that so and so owes me and I tell him you go after him I gave him nothing if I don't write another document it's nothing and let's go into our how's holds like re that I could just give her the document I just gave her the document she became KES I gave her a million dollar loan Les the re and those argue on they don't hold of rebi and they hold what you just gave her is zero a it says I owe you some other guy owes me a million dollars I just gave it to the woman she didn't get anything why cuz if you don't write another document on top of it it's nothing let's learn another no one holds a re you can't just give a document very very similar but different if I give if I sell a to my friend you write inside the you have to write these exact words and if you don't write five words in the it doesn't work re yeah before that argu say you have to write a whole document pap says whatever you write I don't care but make sure you write these words basically it's the same thing similar different so doesn't like you don't have to write I just gave over this document as is to this woman and I'm a everybody holds you have to another the way listen to this unbelievable this docine says that Ruan owes me a million dollars and I give it to you I sell it to you for $10,000 tomorrow I could wake up and say you know what he doesn't owe me a million dollars and you that have thear now you you have nothing cuz what did you buy from me you didn't buy everything you bought the ability to go Sue that guy and that it's are you that that got married that time no somebody else no okay just hit me whates you it away I just explained what did I just explain you tell me what I just said I I didn't get you had a CL and you gave it away oh so explain again I'll explain again nothing changes when I sell the I am the guy he deals with me and that's it that never that doesn't change I gave you I sold you I gave you the ability to go after that guy but he owes me the money and that's the only thing that's what that's what he holds it that's how how they him explain it I did a deal with him I lent him money so he owes me the money I can't change that deal all I could change is the ability I'm too weak to go after him he's a tough guy I said you know you go after him I'm going to give you the to go after him no if I want I can be I know that's why he came here tonight it sounds it sounds absurd but that's how it is that's says and even his son could do the same thing and now that makes sense because I never S I didn't sell the actual loan I am still the one dealing with him the is the like that what the guy's the ability to be alone at any given time so M the woman you hear this I give this woman AAR that at any given time I thear so she's not on her own husband you hear this the husband the gives his kala a million dollar it's says that ruen owes the a million dollars and he gives it over to the C here be Mis with this she's not going to be K you know why cuz she thinks that he's a bad guy and he's gonna one tomorrow he's goingon to wake up and say I'm that guy a million dollars mess up his and she's not she's gonna have zero out of the she's not going with there's a guy KY guy running to KY he's late to KY and he sees a woman coming out of the store with 17 bags you know we see it here on our block all the time a lot of local people they don't have money for a car and they slept you can't even imagine they don't even have money for a taxi and they're slepping these bags so giv this guy is running the K and he sees a woman and he says you know it's a I know I'm running to but I have to help her out she runs over to help her out and he look he sees it's his wife he ah I'm on the way to co have a great day so she says he's not going to leave me he's not going to be that guy a million dollars and mess me up I have a million dollar loan here why why should he do that to me you can never trust this guy she knew she had a reputation already who knows what he's going to do he gave her a say a million and tomorrow's be guy okay now let's go back we're just taking a little bit of a detour here to understand different things beautiful and we're going to go right back to the to see if anybody argues on but meanwhile we learned that if a man tells a woman I want I want to be you with a million dollar loan that I forgot to write AAR on I was drunk I gave the guy a million dollars I didn't write a loan a document I want even we have says yeah like eight lines from the top [Music] of so it goes like this you have a Mal and a and a third guy that's that okay we I think that's what he was doing here for this but the point is you have right now we're talking about a we're also talking about a Mila a Mal Anda with a Mila so basically I could tell this guy owes money this is kind of okay but what what's going on here is I have a no I owe you money sorry I owe you money and so you could say instead of me paying you give it to him okay the malva the guy on the left says you love owe me money give it to the third guy now guess what Rashi brings here the I'm sure everybody remembers it I didn't remember rash says this is one of the three things that never gave a reason why this works it works as is without any Aiden without a document nothing I the Mal tell the give it to somebody else and he has to do it now if they argue on it that's something else but there's a certain Kon just by me saying it so this doesn't work for forone this is a mil he owes me a million dollars I say in front of him in front of her you give the money to her and you become AES says it works there K here say no you don't have the right to just do that it doesn't work once again going back to rap again huh yeah you no no no there even if she never gets the money there's right now it's worth something are you willing to pay for it the guy owes me a million I'm going to tell him to pay you are you willing right now to give me $100 for it a million dollar you're willing to pay me100 $10 you ask him to pay me is that a of good so pay me that right now you have $10 right now I'm giving you that $10 that's it that's the not that's the million dollars if he never ends up paying too bad but it was $10 right there a certain not RAV says that if a woman owes a man money and the man is M the money even a million dollars he cannot be mad with it because he's not giving her anything that he gave two months ago the million dollars is gone so what is he giving her now nothing no maybe somebody argues on him again it's person says I want you toes with a here's a in other words says there's no K even if the you hear this you just stick this in it's a p but rash talks about it even if this document is worth $10 it's a beautiful piece of paper it's parchment how much does parchment cost it how much does it cost he's learning over there forget him anybody else is Robbie Gold how much is a piece of parchment how much the size of my gamar $40 $40 so even if this $40 piece of paper is worth $40 and it says I owe you he owes me and and I give it to her now she say she has a piece of parment it's worth $40 says we're going to see forget the money even if it's not worth a scent even if it's a garbage piece of it's a toilet paper I don't know what it is nothing no go in between we have to see how much it is go to R gold R if he says it's worth $40 says it's worth zero says what's going on it's very vague we don't know what's going on here if we're talking about somebody owes me money over says no we just learned a second ago says so that can't be must be talking about that she owes the money so mayor holds no so we have aru here's a of this case because it must be a different type of must be talking about a that she owes in money and he's and says it's good not like so what are we supposed to do now we're supposed to say that this is not the same case it's not a case of that's what we're going to do perhaps it's not a talking about something else he gave her no you didn't you know what means the first Miss in K what's the first what's I'm trying to get engaged with a right the first is talking about engagement not and I didn't bring I didn't sign So reading like this because we learned a second ago but the famous if it's the a that sign create get or it's the a that witness the the get going to the to the woman so also I gave her k no is a possible because no perhaps all I need is to testify like we do today here they saw The Ring going from the to the that's all you need I saw thear going from the to the don't need to be signed inside signing inside is just to make sure that later on nobody is so don't know therefore they say let's forget the the K through let's do K with so let's evaluate thear and this is just now for for whatever reason it we're we're going in a certain way that we're going to push off AR and say maybe we talking about this maybe talking about that Meanwhile we're going through all sorts of we just another do you have to write it says in the that has to be when you write a get it has to be with the intent of this woman if you write a get for this woman then you try to do it for another woman doesn't work and we have the First with I didn't have in mind for this woman I had a mind for another woman I broke an engagement now I want to use it for this woman is it a good or not we had the other day is very strong with you have to go with with so just like Gish has to be with intent of this specific woman so to we try to bring a from a that talks about a that a guy gave a woman a we thought it's talking about the of that it's is alone he's alone no you didn't understand we're talking about a guy that wants to be mades a woman without any loans who wants to ride in the that's it and now we have a sh do you need or Not Another sh makes a lot more sense we should be um what do Rashi say I forgot already that um this this this goof for where we learn from something like that okay great everybody he did he wrote it everything was good he went to theer he want to surprise her by the way we're getting engaged what do I know you yeah I want yesterday to CER I already told them your name and your father's name everything's good don't worry I forgot to mention to you that we're getting engaged okay we have a two each one has two one is one is is an important to notify the woman before you go to the CER or not don't need to you need to so so what's so as she says it's the same idea but we come out with a different outcome either do we learn from a get that you don't need Das by get you could go to the cyer and tell the cyer write this get for my wife her name is this and this and that you don't have to notify your wife beforeand you just surprise her I bought your birthday present she opens it up oops a so since since I learn everything K from Gish so I learn also you can surprise her or not remember these far from G also perhaps you need to das by Gish the husband is the one that's releasing the wife from this marriage he's the one in charge so to speak he's releasing her who's in charge in kushan the woman she's giving herself to him so again we're comparing just like Gish it's the husband who gives her over so to by she's giving herself over need she needs to know before you go to theer and that would be the all right another try and this is the last one for today and then we go to the m perhaps the M of not the the she of that what does r say Ben remember alone so perhaps somebody that argues she comes to this guy he's a he's known to make beautiful pieces of jewelry she comes in with a a glob of melted down gold and she says make me a bracelet make me a nose ring make me something and I'll become aish to you so just to know what shim is shim is a ankle bracelet let me show you picture what I didn't want to do now I'm gonna ask you in six months from now what's shim you're going to remember angle bracelet I have to tell you the because if people are new to so I have I have this property in Indianapolis it's called abne lake so when I used to go all the time so I went there and I go say Okay I want to see some apartments so she said what do you want to see so I I I would tell her what what Apartments I want to see because otherwise she'll show me the best ones you know so I look in the board what's like vacant I want to see this this and this okay K we're going to this apartment show me around and I'm minding my own business whatever look looking and all of a sudden the closet door pops open and a criminal jumps out of the closet and starts running for his life it was pretty scary cuz it's quiet there and that a guy popping out of the closet like that runs for his life and I'm like Wow that's scary like I look at her she's she's she's white like a ghost and all of a sudden the guy comes running back he runs back like who what now he runs to the closet and he takes his ankle bracelet and he runs back out he was able to fagle his way out of the bracelet I'm not kidding but he realized that they got that he's like in the wrong place whatever he it had to be with him so he hold okay anyway just thought I'll tell you this smile something this NM this is a nose ring she did a while back and rings I think it's a phenomenal sug here this is a this is a sug of oh I forgot to ask I forgot that the okay we get there maybe someone help me out once he makes it she becomes engaged mayor so we really need to understand this is going to give us a beautiful understanding of a person who a Craftsman you give him a piece of wood and he makes you a stender at one point you owe him the money the at the end the every time every every time he improves the Stander by by money Etc we're going to see it's a beautiful no some money has to get to her hand whatever that means what does it mean money if you're talking about that the gold has to get to her hand so let's think about it says she's say no the piece of gold the jewelry has to get to her hand so what did RoR say RoR said it doesn't have to get to her hand he's in his shop he just crafted a ring boom she becomes Mes in the shop without her without him giving her anything she became mes as that possible even if he didn't give her anything how is he you have to make an action you can't just as he's tapping away on the ring and it's a perfect ring that moment she became a she's not even in the room that makes no sense say you can't give her a ring you have to give her $10 on the side listen to this this is not enough VAV is another mus today imagine you were decided to stay in your today not coming to you Miss all these unbelievable there's a concept called and that is I know it's for you but you can come in come come come just not only that he ate a sud he rushed hard he thought that we're going to be a little late for no no not when I know people are going to get messed up and they have to they're going to they're going to go through the sudit and everything I'm going to rush quickly start Sher fast so they they know I'm kidding but anyway so here's the Shiloh a guy is making a piece of jewelry every PR that he makes does the woman owe him at that given time or only when he's done with the with the jewelry is I forgot what it was that's why I was thinking I was thinking over Shas I have to ask somebody but you'll remind me you guys remind me when the says that to is different than than jewelry that when a person makes something not in this case exactly because this is a little different because that person gave him a piece of gold but when a person let's say uh builds builds a stender for something to sell he makes he works 20 hours and then it just gets destroyed he realizes he put the right the wrong thing the wrong stain on it boom it looks terrible he can never sell it so what does he get for all his work zero but I forgot say you remember when we work in even if we come out with the wrong or no or whatever it is and we don't remember we still get for learning that's what we get but a regular guy he doesn't get for working nobody cares oh I tried too bad nobody's gonna give you money for trying matter get that's the whole point that's why I said it that's right exact that's why I'm saying it y I thought everybody understood okay we have to be M what no no we even even thinking about [Music] a you have to do it's but no I I I disagree okay no is the MIT that's the whole point he did the MIT the MIT is to read this word now if you understand and not understand you get more not less but you get for reading for just learning Tyra not reading but learning we're talking about something else here we're talking about where a guy there's only two minutes left for the she is that what's going on here also M it's different you need a different time CL for plus we start start early what is it it's only 10:30 he starts the timer when with singing still soar say like this I don't know two hours and whatever was is extra is extra we use it during the week oh the other way to okay so so a guy this woman gives him a piece of gold he starts working on it every time improves it by one PR which is let's say 25 cents she owes him 25 cents another 25 another 25 cents all the way to the end now when he's done she owed him a total of $200 but that was a that's a that's a loan cuz she owed him 25 cents three days ago another 25 three these are all loans at the end of the day there's a bunch of loans here and you cannot be mades with a loan so maybe that goofa is the shil here could I be could I be M with loone or not the Mand that says that it is K because he alls he could be mades with all the 25 cents all the prus that accumulated by him fashioning this piece of jewelry and with that he's M and that's alone you could be M alone it's not a problem maybe that's the so here we have that argues with ra and says say that and we're going to talk about a little bit more we'll understand better again everybody it's a bunch of that add up and it's a big let's push it off again and say we're not forced that anybody argues with ra everybody agrees with ra again everybody's going to agree with ra they cannot cannot get engaged with with a loan that exactly how does it work when somebody works on an item for you do you owe him every minute as he's going along or you owe him all the way at the end to no it's one Lum suum and when he comes to get deliver the ring he gives her the ring she gives him the money she just paid for all his work and then he says listen you that don't give me the money don't give me the $200 with that $200 I want to get engaged to you and it works no it it's accumulative it goes one and another and another so it's a big loan accumulating here and I cannot get engaged with a loan another way we could explain it to no everybody holds it accumulates everybody agrees he cannot get engaged with loone another concept we never had we're not even going to make it it's not that popular when a guy you could you could learn it like this when a a guy makes a piece of jewelry out of a piece of gold that you gave me the guy becomes a partner in that piece of jewelry his work goes into the jewelry becomes part a partner if you want me to get out of the partnership you pay me that's another way to look at it so that's does he become a part in the not everybody grees no you don't become a partner and it accumulates the the the the accumulates the work accumulates as you go along it's one BR on top another BR it's alone and of course he cannot be like says he cannot be with alone he added another Gem of his own from his own pocket he took a gem put it into the ring if I forgive a loan of a million dollars and on the side I give the woman 25 cents does she get all excited about the million dollars that she was that or she thinking about the 25 cents no she's thinking about the little Jewel over there that he added not all the work that he did and that is the sponsored for all those in need of and inovations in order my uncle and as for year fill all family the back of the I saw today M kiss from hasem the whole need based on this if a person steals an estri I don't know why he I got it yeah thank you yeah thanks if a person steals a esrig and he breaks the pitum does he have to pay back a SRI with a pum does he have to pay back what if the guy has like a a $300 SRI if he no does he just give him back a a fruit asig he's talking about if let's say an is worth less than a PR but the woman wants to do the Mitzvah and for her to do the Mitzvah the is worth 25 cents where the pr with that or not it's the whole need done I just thought it's interesting that he talks about e today I don't know if they no this was printed many years ago the P fell out on the first day of sukus huh you give back a that's you leave passes give back a so if you steal an srig and you what you saw it where in the I still the on the back okay when I first moved the first years I bought a beautiful beautiful as with a pitm and on the first day um I was putting the the back back in the thing and I cracked off the pitm so I was new the and I wanted them to know exactly who they're dealing with so I I said and I took a bite out of the asri only because I always wanted to do it because thear talks about on the first day the guy ate his estri it was a terrible it tastes disgusting don't ever do it and they said oh they capped already who they're dealing with and that was it it's all downhill from there says the gamaro I he said something about 9 months later I don't know what but I'm going to ask the editor to edit it out and okay if a guy says I want to get engaged to you with the work I did for you that's a that's a Lo but with the work I will do in the future so we have a three of like if he says what I'll do in the future not and certainly if work I'm going to do in the future doesn't work so certainly in the reverse in the in the rear who the author of The Mna says if I'm I'm going to add a little bit of a jewel in other words we're going to see in a second this has to do with that same child that we had a second ago if her D is on the Mila D is on the jewel B so what's the three says that work that I'm going to do in the future I could be M woman with and says no so what's what's same thing that we said a second ago if her D is on the or on the get ready this now it's all easy from here on out here he tells the woman here's a cup of wine and she she's about to drink from it and she realizes it's honey now honey costs more than wine so she actually upgraded it but she was in the mood of a glass of wine and who she needs honey now it's worth more let me ask you a question is there anybody in the room here that thinks if he she says give me that piece of silver and he goes and he does a switch and he gives her instead of a piece of silver he gives her a piece of gold K or not K huh not K he just instead of giving her $1,000 you just gave her $100,000 piece of a bar of gold she likes silver she's so you should marry her she's so stupid How could a woman like silver more than gold it's not it's not a good for another reason huh I'm giving you value I'm giving you what what you say it's not issue value Val he gives a Kil of silver no no no no I'm telling you it's not the same value it's a kilo of gold versus a kilo of silver what's mes or mesas wow oh you guys to the I would never say that never this I'm telling it's the same weight it's and that then it turns out it's gold it's worth less yeah the let me see if I have here let's see this here Bo check this out something like that okay good buter the guy there's a guy I forgot his name there's a a young guy I remember this was I was fascinated by this guy he came to Hollywood and he he rented a Lamborghini with a big massive guy like he found some guy off the street he said listen here's $200 pretend you're my bodyguard he rent to Lamborghini how much Lamborghini cost to rent $1,000 a day something like that they rent them all day long huh no no no it cost over $1,000 my son trust me I know I didn't rent one but somebody very related to me did and got into stickle small accident not a big deal but the the the little Bender Fender cost more than your car so Daddy I'm here in Florida yeah okay anyway so he rents a Lamborghini for $1,000 and he rents this guy for 200 bucks and he shows up to this place and he comes out and they say what's what's your name he says my name is Steve Rockefeller I know the last name I know he said ra Rockefeller what his name is Clark yeah Clark Rock clar comes in and all these actors were became his friends he's walking around with these bodyguards and this and one day he came in he comes with the helicopter he rented a helicopter big thing comes in he comes out and he started investing Millions with him and then he ended up marrying like an actress oh Mya a shakan he was a he's AER he's the poorest guy in the world he didn't have a sent his name but he he he stole $1,000 from guy to rent the Lamborghini once he rent the Lamborghini came in and made this whole show anyway so by by me in my Apartments I say these guys come in they they literally drive like Rolls-Royce you go into their apartment you never saw anything like it they P they don't have they don't have they don't have a dime to their name they don't have furniture they sleep on the floor I'm not joking the fanciest cars these guys so everybody in the street could think we also were with this you know we have to impress the neighbors and this and that without can't afford it swipe another car another card whatever we're all Lucky in it I him the guy he decides he he tells her he's very wealthy and turns out garnished he's he's a faker he tells her I'm very poor but comes out that he's a big AER that we know a lot of people like that there are people like that they pretend that and then it turns out not not what what you don't know these guys can you afford to give the sh $10 the guy owns like blocks and blocks and a lot of guys like that anyways fine this is a no she thought she's marrying a poor person it turns out he a gazillionaire why is it not a kushan so the preer says very interesting she wants a husband that she can controlle a guy's AA he's he uncontrollable he's a beh he's like who the guy in town you're going to tell him what to do so that that's why not okay fine with G the family and this and that we're going into different time it's late is not true if instead of giving a bar of silver you gave her a bar of gold it's K if if instead of being a on you're AER it's good says the we have a three-way contradiction but it's not really contradiction one place it says take this cup she gets both the actual glass and what's inside you only get she only gets the glass that's what she now what's inside shees she gets what's inside not the not she means he meant what's inside not the glass itself so we actually have a a little bit of a thing here okay one is a glass of water one is a glass of wine and one one is fish brine so now fish brine is something that you want to take good care of and keep it for a long time smack is stuff it's not something that you just you need it for a long time so you need it for a long time it goes like this it's better than may obviously is nothing so it's the glass is is great it's it's the wine inside with the wine you need both you want the Brine and you want to keep the brine you don't want to how you going to hold the brine you're going to put in your hands so you need both so may those if he gave her something better this if a person goes to the store he says I want a bottle of wine and he gives him a bottle of happened to me I was in a very restaurant and they had my favorite bottle again I'm saying Castell and it was one of those what do you call them Magnum and it was a 200 six or something something crazy so I said I told the guy how much you want he gave me a price says okay fine seemed like a good price I said what if it's spoiled cuz I saw he did they didn't take care of it he said it's spoiled I'll give you your money back no problem I said do I have to bring it back he no I trust you kids I brought it home first shice I opened it up it was I learned that the certain wines they don't let like 2006 is already share so we went back he said listen the way I sold it to you was now to give you back cash I can't really do that but you know what just come to my restaurant a bunch of times so my family went there like without me every birthday for the last six years they've been going toay up eventually no no it's already paid back but this year it happened no they already paid it my my kids love that place and she somebody goes into the store could I please have uh a little a little uh vinegar and they give him instead of vinegar wine which is more expensive you can take it back ah you got something better I'll make look my recipe calls for vinegar right now don't try to give me something that costs more don't give me wine I need vinegar right now what do you give me so the deal's over there's people that right now they explain this woman needs a piece of silver right now she needs to it's a button for her for coat what are you giving her gold it's not going to match she right now ah it's worth more too bad she doesn't have time now to go to the changer and to go to and sell it right now she needs silver even if it's worth more there's a famous M with a guy that was AAR guy every time they hear they asked him what's worth more a half a shekele or a shekele so he said a half a shekele give me so they give they all laugh does the smaller coin is worth more like this everywhere he went everybody come to here which one do you want half a shekele a shekele he said a half a shekele he so finally somebody said I don't understand don't you know that a half a shekele is less than a shekele he says yeah what are you doing says a crazy you know how many half a shekel I made from this wherever he go goes people are giving half a shekels okay fine some people no what I'm trying to say some people like half a shekels more than shekles whatever his is he had a so he heard unbelievable he heard explain we're not talking about right so the question is at the end of the day if I'm giving you something that you didn't ask for I requested silver give me Silver I requested this give me that it says that the deal is over how could it be a good says no you didn't understand we're talking about a case lend me Silver and with that silver go be this woman he decided to be large the guy oh the guy that sent me probably doesn't make care if it's a kilo of silver kilo of gold he just wants he wants to Cas woman whoa no the guy said silver he's not he has a budget he doesn't it's not unlimited no he's just explaining to him listen give me a little something and go if it costs a thousand times more he's also happy with it that doesn't fit into the if we're talking about so it's not the telling the it's a telling the woman my boss me also another problem if he made a mistake for the good he he fooled the the sender he didn't fool her means that he gave the woman something she didn't know that's not what happened he he gave the woman something that his the sender the M doesn't know it's the wrong word he told you say what do you mean it was found it was always gold I'll say a little different I like but a little bit of a different spin me and the lion of theab we said said the L it is talking about but it's the woman sent somebody to accept from the man who the man told me he said I'm going to send somebody it's going to be a beautiful thing I'm gonna give you some silver gold she was explaining she wasn't saying a story she said I don't want a guy that gives me gold I only want silver today I need a button for my the only reason I'm marry this guy cuz I need a button for my coat she going to give me gold now like no she's just saying whatever take something valuable and bring it back here and therefore why does it say it was found the because it was wrapped in a rag and when they opened it up then that was gold have a wonderful evening a wonderful tomorrow 10:00 here in the B [Music] Med that