Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 29 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning wrap boys this big shower tongue that we're all very excited about I need to tell you before it even goes online that we have the world-class speakers rip why why Jacobson himself is going to spend the entire Shabbos with us it's huge huge and ribari Venture and a good few others he is a big part of this year and the music is going to be unbelievable we secured I don't know if I could say again with Homer we could say you only Dickman himself from marriages thrall is flying in with his band we had an unbelievable when he was here by the uh see in my mind it was out of this world they bring him in for what for all the uh tasks all the Hass concerts and the kids are so it's going to be unbelievable so yesterday during cheer we came up with a murdick idea where every single person from the share whether he could afford it or not could come to the Shabbos and that is if you know somebody that's a corporate sponsor kind of person a big company in this and asking of course out of his comfort zone so a few people reached out to me MS corporations [Music] no seriously did you go out of your comfort zone for this very much wow okay so you just ruined my whole thing over here hold on a sec let me see if I can play this we just but you're not getting a free room [Music] I never asked for money it's adamant comfort zone I don't like ask people for money but uh and I think it's a cost of a thing and obviously um so I'm stuck again if I'm comfort zone I'm interested I'm going to work too much and see if we can get some sponsors thank you again for the dedication all right so this is a big friend of this year we use a lot of money to share but he said that he's never asked in his life for money from anybody but for this he's gonna ask responses the cops how cautious it is to get other people to come to help other people be able to afford it Etc he's going out of it and to other people already secured sponsors in here no I'm all right so we're on to something Mr chef was spotted catching this year waiting for a bris Sunday Morning Noon when are they announcing father ready in the Pomona show Ellie I joined tradition of Base then by that filming program a few weeks ago he's from Curious Cil his name is it could be just got mixed up here with the weights when I read it the first time my name is listening to your interview on one of the recent podcasts I guess the what is it called the last what latest talk that's right latest I'm sorry that's what it was and I'm really hooked to the extent that I'm not listening to them the Hebrew and English got mixed up here he wrote a beautiful even curious cereal but wrote a beautiful English email here Venice a few days ago you mentioned with excitement that's on top of the the needle kids he has a right anyways New York hi everybody I'm 15 years old live in Boston first started doing the film in Titus but fell off the bandwagen vomits got too complicated but I'm a hundred percent sure that happened because I wasn't watching this year yet I started there in the middle of getting in Washington ever since doing that every day to be a struggle for me but now with the sheer I can't wait to do it it's the first thing I did my mind every morning first thing you have a chakras let me shoot him they're amazing thank you so much YouTube changed with that for me seanatova Ozzy viden now three emails one day the same topic I landed in New York Sunday morning got an Uber sleep the Shockers didn't have a ride to get to my brother-in-laws I started selling my suitcases taking 15 minutes after a minute I decided to turn out on my headphones and listen to that so you get some Torah a minute later a car pulls up and a fellow marvstein Stearns all familiar right told him I'm from RBS and asked if I know at least the fans getting mdy so I gotta ride from MD wire who listens every day and is a huge bajran yeah Ken milberg tonight listen to my mother's top the yard side this has come from the five towns Israel sponsoring to his staff hardcore Survivor I also want to thank the mdy family so many of whom came to the shiversity my beloved daughter 20 something year old daughter was Nifty folks Like official Dr Ben Schwartz comment number two Dr Dan I've farted oh fakovich okay oh my name is [Music] don't ever leave us for so long otherwise the bush will give you ten times I truly believe listen to this says call me from the five towns I truly believe that my daughter's ticket was completed mission accomplished I feel blessed Hashem for 29 years before we had to return her she's happy to remember the family upstairs when Jeff comes tomorrow please well I'll unite again my mother hadira my my dad says reception thank you cow man Josh Layton this morning my wife's car died on the road the five towns she asked a random person to give her a boost the kid sir we lost the cables the Haley gear offered to go home come back to help when I got there I took a look at the car and to my surprise it was the great BMW with the joint mdy plates not only is he a holy member of the sheer but is he also a huge box set so because Josh Leighton rebbe in Darke yes Josh it says my voice today is right after shared the Sleek husband right before the the first minion also had Stevens so we need a pick it up a little bit Dakota sponsored may we marry himself sponsored by looking loving families Lincoln New Jersey because third and actors are the best segula and honor rebellious and old and the wires the second one is for all the good he has given us and continues to give us her boy said this is a huge huge Mazel Tov for the mdy mishbach slimy Rosenberg who does Unbelievable behind the scenes and is a big Honor doesn't want his name ever to be mentioned his son got engaged his son was by us for Shabbos Mazel Tov the engagement of shimmy Rosenberg and hacio zahavi an mdy golden dove story in honor of our dear friend dedicated Mazel Tov in honor of my Hebrew birthday whoever you are Mazel Tov and don't forget to give us on the birth of a grandson great grandson first one right it goes after the last week you know oh okay okay and the Earth so so I have a Shiloh here if you have two guys that are into learning and you only have enough money to support one of them one of them is very very smart and he gets things and he accomplishes a lot because he has that brain the other one is a much harder worker not as sharp who should you support of course the the what the harder worker who says smarter one what do you say you say the smarter one why because you did the sugar yeah the answer is of course I can ask you the smarter one I'm gonna see it in the sugil a little later it goes against the what we would think no common sense so so we have like this we we just had a mission that hegdish the base acquires things differently than regular human beings regular human beings be quiet with mashika the base I make this acquires things with money so basically we have four cases we have two cases where a person acquired from the base Army all four cases a person acquires something from the base of English he goes to them he doesn't buy something off of them two cases he bought it with money and two cases he bought it with machine there's a double standard the individual who buys from the base amigdas almost always loses so if the price goes up he has to pay the the extra if the price goes down he loses and just hit me I whatever into Tesla so whoever bought a Tesla X energy straw a week ago just lost fifty thousand dollars today because the price just went down 150 000 shekel so if you were to purchase that from hegdish you take the loss even if you just bought it with meshika and with heck this you could only buy with kesf you take a loss there's one case though I'm gonna see in a second one of the four cases so two cases are with mashika two cases are with money one case the price went up in one case the price went down in both because the machine we have price up price down so let's see top of that test on the olive and then after that we go to the mission of the famous Mission and condition which is basically easy I got into talking about swimming and you know and all sorts of fish market stuff what he would have an aim okay so case number one is right over here if the person was trying to acquire from there is let's think about it ourselves our boys side from the base I mean this you acquire with money and money only so he went and he acquired something they said not with money but with mashika and the price went up what should he do he should pay the extra amount of money why because the price went up and he didn't do opinion the only way to do a Kenyan with is with money so Michelle he made a deal with them that it's going to cost a hundred but by the time he paid them first he did the machine he took it himself where a typical store when you go to the store you purchase it with machine huh not here foreign I just want to show you the project I showed it to you the other day but it's just very interesting this is where it says does anybody see that correct that's what you see the Joseph okay just wanted to point that out again so case number one is he tried to do machine doesn't work with hagdish voice so therefore he has to pay the higher price what happens if case number two the price went down he met up with he made up with um with uh she's gonna buy the Tesla X from them for 200 that's the normal price suddenly the price is dropped all he did was mashir he took the keys from them he drove around he brought the car home well too bad I mean he could theoretically walk away from the deal if he wants to because he didn't do a king yet but if he wants the deal he can't say ah yesterday was a hundred and I bought no noise it dropped the price he has to give the original price you're right that heck this you purchase with the way the way you acquire another purchase the quiet you acquired through money only it's impossible that a headache should have more power so therefore basically we want to dance and do hazardous over here and we're gonna say no heck this also works with meshika and you did meshika at the higher price pay the higher price huh yeah you could walk away because there wasn't anything yet as always that's Allah now the next case is now he's using kessef he paid money foreign so three cases where this fellow is out of luck he's up against hegdish he has to pay the higher price of 200. my timer well it works with money so since he works with money this is obvious this this doesn't you can't take anything back the third says money works so he paid for it at the higher price the fact that it went down tomorrow too bad that's a loss according to everybody foreign but here's the one case that's very different he died the Mana he gave 100 to the base and the price went up he gave money at the lower price and then the price went up mashupada pada very nice in El Amana over here he gains he doesn't have to give the 200 only 100. so again in a case of money where the price went up then he gains why am I okay well if he was an individual buying from a friend would only be with why all of a sudden now you should be able to dance and say pay us the higher price so [Music] it says the first mission in azov it says there's a curse called mishapara and basically it goes like this who took revenge on the door Matador flogo who was a person who just says he's going to do something and he takes it back he says well listen uh we don't have a contract you know this whatever it is if that's against what they do like like in the Diamond District they say Mazel and that's it it's over and if you go back on that it's a mishapara what in the in the Diamond District No Mazel over here again yeah yeah but we want to invoke the the what regular people do you want to say forget the money well the mice uh people only are trying to hack this so let let them pay more to the base I think does no it's over the halogen mishna call Mitzvahs have been alive any the way we understand it simply the guitar is going to have trouble sort of understanding it that simple but the way it is and that's the mascara of the gemara any Mitzvah that the father has to perform on his son such as Bismillah as you're going to see soon as there's no father around men and women now what is this mishna doing here there's a number of shot them why is this hearing himself this condition says because we're talking about kadushan one of the three of them that a father has is to marry off his son so it fits right into the skiduation says you know up until now we're talking about Kenyan how do you acquire a cow how do you acquire a goat how do you acquire a wife and avid and now we want to know how do you acquire oil so we're talking about Mitzvahs and acquiring them such as Rosh Hashanah Schaefer a Mitzvah that's time dependent that only has to do with a certain time of the day certain time of the year like returning a lost object foreign to round off the corner as you can see in this picture over here on the right there's a it's kind of hard to see let me I don't know if I should do that here oh here right over here there's a red line so this you're not going to round it off this whole area can't cut off now just to reiterate when I was in Chicago and there's a lot of guys that are bald they shave their entire head so I I decided to speak to them I can't I have somebody that's very very close to my family that does it I can't speak them but I went over them and one of them had no clue that was awesome I said you know that sit but I'm shaving my whole head I said okay we went through this how come it's either the rice now if you could grab on a little bit then that's not a problem as long as you can grab on a little bit fine but a woman doesn't have that answer just talking about it because we we're in another we had this um oh yeah I guess okay it's a Shiloh weather not a woman it's much like his whether or not a woman has an issue to to give a haircut to Cotton not to be mocking of the continent will just pull that out for no other good reason then you don't have any we don't have much art today fine the whole message [Music] means the beard they don't have Issa to shave the beard actually it's a big heel for them too about the time I look amazing and if she's a Korean she's letting me retirement nobody got that joke give me time into the Mason Michael Mrs have been alive what does it means if you're going to learn a little differently than what you think that it's that the son is to do to the father can't be talking about famous so but it says this posix starts off Interesting Man on a single man to be to fear his parents to give them respect honor English it's plural I reckon schneid why is the tire finish off with tiro and she says you the two of you should fear your mother and father in other words a man and a woman um as the list is going to go on now any midst of the father does for the son like we're familiar with the briss to marry him off then a mother is what is a father what what does the father have to do for her son he has to give him Bruce Milo foreign and for literally an hour and a half he has another son that's a little bit uh you know a little bit more ad add about an hour and a half this kid was with his finger in the gamara learning and I went over them afterwards they said you don't understand the the Matana because who gave you I never I can't remember my my sons don't like to learn from me which I do you learned it for an hour and a half straight it's unbelief got the Godless if I carry over the imprusion the big long red beard it's humbling sitting there learning ishma Empire and to marry him off to help him out would you do him to make a wedding for him that's also and to teach him uh a trade thank you a trade to teach him a trade that I remember from school it's this line over here I know no anybody else okay the father should teach your son how to swim yeah okay so representing says in the water means that giving driving lessons to teach him how to be a safe driver because you're giving the kid a killing machine literally a killing machine at the age of 16 there go try not to kill people don't go 100 miles an hour in a residential area you know it's okay so you got to teach them be uh like this okay well oh to swim we're kind of trying to teach designs swim like this and like this I don't think your time said that that is ah but they do say that when he was teaching his kid how to drive because he holds like your ability and his son-in-law his grandma he said what you do is you mix the gas like this that's what they said just mix I saw the taxi driver going like this so he's supposed to mix a lot okay you're showing him alive if you don't teach your son to trade Milam de listos that means you you're teaching him [Music] when your son doesn't have paranasa it doesn't have a trade and he goes out into the world and you didn't teach him so it's your responsibility it's as if you taught him how to be a gun of unbelievable important to be a gun it's your responsibility you could take this to other things as well of course that's almost let's see you do a big talker of course specialty there's a guy that comes here come out every day to Miss Murder he comes with a very very nice car and he's a he's a professional he smiles at everybody everybody gives him money more than the other guys and they know that he has a nice car he told me he says listen and I go to work every day I work from nine to five but I can't make it so I come in for a little extra and it gives everybody a good word he gives a little it's on his brand new car latest model car so you have to know how to do it huh the boys to help him out he lost money on the X all right [Music] how do you know for her son because it says and if the father doesn't do it then you cry Israel year old unbelievable I I just the guy was masking to do it Allah foreign how do you know that the woman and you could think about this yourself is Bruce Mila amidstation you could only do it after the kid is eight days old so it is my girl and if it is then why do I need Apostle to tell me that a woman is says no it's not a midsization that's the same test we're going to use also Rashi brings it for opinion Ben once the eight day comes then the heels remains forever I touch his ass but you only do brusmilla during the day not at night since I say that's even a stronger question he said no that's only when it's bismano the first day you do it during the day you can do it even at night the sieve it says in the past again we're going to read it this Shabbos to Generations that it stays for Generations zeros how do you know of all generations who knows how many different opinion and Ben start with this gamar right here this is the isai that the father is a father didn't forget I can't say it enough times when I became bar mitzim my father said go ahead and do your own opinion that I did it with wasn't a real coin or whatever take all your money Etc should I say the story again I knocked on the guys I went to the silver store I gave him I said I need the five Stella of silver so he gave me little Pebbles little like uh balls of silver or no thing and then I went to the client I knocked on the guy's door he didn't say here's a cup of water here come inside he opened the door he let me stay there he right away pulls out from the thing because I guess they do it every day he gives me the thing he says say this he took my money slammed the doors I felt like a million bucks I just took all my badminster money gave it to this jerk and he was probably the mix foreign thank you the trauma the trauma that I had from there [Music] you should do it for yourself foreign okay the idea is almost the same says it later also but just here just to make it slightly clear the pada means you should do you keep that you should make sure that you are redeemed means you should redeem others so says the gemara it doesn't say these two words it says one but it says it says the second one but it's extra it's completely exercise I'm going to learn from it I'm telling you you never saw a dresser like this in your life the positive if you could do the first thing on the right tipada if you could do atsumoy something it's not done yet we're not over and how do you know that you yourself shouldn't be part of yourself and now look at what happens here it reverses so if you do others you can do yourself if you can't do others it's interesting that the same very very interesting type of Russia is going to be said again in a different for different um we're not done yet it's a three-step process here and how do you know that other people have to be played to Heritage okay you only have uh to be part of your son and not your daughter says that's why you go straight to the okay who lives if a person only has five cell at his name and he realizes his father just tells him on his death and by the way oops I never did opinion on Ben for you and he has a son here so what should he doing on this five sellers it's himself or his son who called them he him his old Mitzvah comes before his son there's a very very powerful line by river Victor Miller they made a big ratio on me this line and it takes some time to like digest what he said somebody asked him once should I work so I go so I work more so that my children I could buy them homes and set them up and buy them the right stuff and all the stuff and he said to take care of yourself learn for yourself do for yourself and everybody's looking at me now this guy that's great no why who said it's your heel to buy your your kids a million dollar mansion let them work themselves this is what he said of course you take care of your kids but that that extra stuff that we all work for we really want to set them up and buy them a business and on this and they're each one to their own thing but everybody's buying their kids houses if you could take that time that you just spent earning more money to buy them houses maybe take that time and learn for yourself who could them live a night it's very very deep and it's something you need to think about we take it for granted yeah I've told you what I brought them here it's time I shouldn't buy them in a house my father bought me a house I shouldn't buy anything else I shouldn't do this think about it no reviews this is no it sometimes before him why Shazam it's supposed to say I love him you the father who is supposed to be part of you your father so your father messed up that's your father's problem he's in the caver now but now you have a real to be part of your son so that keeps comes first she's living so I say I love Viv you when you're looking at yourself it's not your heel your father should have taken care of you when you were 30 days old and he did it was that Mrs below your love and now you have a special gift take care of your son take care of him first correct but that comes first okay so let's let's continue for a second I hear what you say it's a good question he's asking but you have the gamar establish you have a gift to be part of yourself and that came before you even had a son or maybe you're real huh right the way the myth is constructed is that the father does for the son not the son and if you have time and you have extra money then you do Visa over here in honor of Uncle El Khan impressman as a sports rep on impression as this was for a year Philippines for his family Ellie all of them they want everyone doing that says anymore like this you hear this answers what you're saying if there's only five sellout you go first before you start my time you have a hero on yourself take care of yourself you have karka you have real estate that you sold off and you had a dream to do a Mitzvah with that you shouldn't have sold the cargo right if you owe money you sell your real estate the guy goes after the real estate you had a Mitzvah you sold your real estate I could go after the base I mean goes after your real estate sitting in real estate that you own right now it's it's free to go maybe the Survivor review is the one that says that what that the Sun comes first review The Sovereign tells you you must redeem your son it's as if there's a star here so if there's a star when you sold off your property had no right to sell the property it really belongs to the client Park Libre in the free money that you have give first to redeem your son as review this says first goes the sun then goes you so now when you're on your own we only have five sellout you go first but you have tencela one is already sold to somebody else in a piece of real estate one you have so the one that you have give to redeem your son and once that's done now the Cayenne could go after that real estate the five seller was the client retirement day fine but inside removal of the subway right so lucky that you can't go after real estate that you sold why because just because you had to leave in the Toyota doesn't make it secure it's not part of the real estate you can't go after real estate and therefore right now we look at it as if you only have five cell line when you only have five seller you come first before you son turn around button live this is you have two misses in front of you you have five seller it costs you five sellers to get from fat all the way through slime this is three times a year on YouTube and you also have a hero to be part of this song What do you do you should do Ali you should do pity in a band first is going to bring Apostles it makes a lot of sense review though why is this one is going to leave us once the anthem is over you can't make it up you can't go Mata and say oh I I wasn't let me go today too late you can do it his entire life foreign [Music] on every single one of his first born sons from five different women he has multiple this is nothing to do what the father has to do with the mother her first born son is you learn from inheritance it has to do with the first born your the Man's first born he missed the boat over there or you don't have a father you have to put yourself in your sheep and learn so what's interesting is this is another Apostle in the varum it's not a play on words like I understood right away Rashi says it's a different possible oh it makes a little bit of a difference and how do you know that a woman is which means to teach your child and to learn to learn since a woman doesn't have to learn to teach them so going through the table it turns out like three of them are my nephews but the department wanted to come to pajamas I said why he says oh my father does the daf another guy goes I do the death my father does that My Mother Does the duff so mother imagine is the teacher but how do you know that a woman to open up a safe and learn on their own over here it's the same type of drugs that we had before but over it's a little bit better better meaning over here it's the real words it's a real possible before we were playing with the word tiffdale with the yo the podenitive but it's the same word it's just a question how you put it in the kudas over here it's a different sukum anyone that you have to teach so he is to teach himself if if a father has a key of the teacher's son so this and he wasn't taught so his son doesn't have to teach himself a girl you don't have a him to teach her so she doesn't have to teach yourself um how do you know that other people is turn up on them who little mind a father didn't grow up with Yeshiva and everything and now he has a son who should he spend his time and money on on teaching his son or himself who couldn't live now he should teach himself so here is that if the Sun is a very sharp kid in his good memories you see that we do we don't go on on hard work and effort when it comes to this we're going who's sharper the other review doesn't say that but he wants to work he wants to work are you here he also wants to work listen to this review the son of the famous we're going to have a good story about him famous myself the son of of her whose name is grandfather is so he sent them to learn about it he also uh when he comes home that's what he did over there for a year [Music] foreign what did I send you I'm better than you I should I should have gone myself to that you stay here take care of whatever you need to take care of days line up let me go show my body so I was all excited to hear the revac of the father is coming um there was a certain shed in the basement betrayed when two people would come there usually when two people come say them go away this guy was a big hotel shade I feel to be a mama I haven't been dancing even during the day here we have a picture of the shed he you know the magic people um we have a trick since remark is coming don't give him he comes into the city pretend you don't even see him to be a big mess and he'll have to take care of the nest all bats he went to the basement so he appeared like a snake that has seven heads every time he bowed one had fell off Umar so the next day revak was upset if not the fact that was an ass I would be in big danger so the martial asks over here how in the world did I have the right to put ravaca in danger he's going to be saved so in this you know if it takes away from the school Master Marshall anytime you do a Nace even a goddel even a rabbit it takes off from his from his closet is unbelievable thing and I thought it's the biggest sight he says abayo was certain he was he had a Suffolk but he knew that and davening is not considered that's doesn't take away from davening is natural it's you dive and you get it all right boys I just have a request from I had a little bit of a shot here but it needs a lot of help and my shot was and uh I I hope that somebody sends in tomorrow or a few people send in the to fix it up and maybe know him you guys could help me out that the seven-headed snake maybe represents the fioimi every year that you learn the daf you get rid of one demon one one one thing and you keep on going one year after another year and after seven years you don't congregate Zahara you get rid of all those the the the hurdles and the the difficulties some of these away but then like but boys I have a wonderful day