Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 23 by R’ Eli Stefansky

[Music] hello rebelli another magician and Mentalist Mark garfinkel he did a Family Show Box for you did a short clip for mdy showing us what are near to my look like here we go Mark garfinkel here I'm doing learning gamark condition for mdy and it says near to what's inerta I'll show you oh yeah [ __ ] what is the day for the upcoming shabbaton in the mountains of New York and that Terrace they didn't have this that you know this is I'll be coming from Florida would like to have as much advanced notice as possible to make hotel reservations and e-reservations as much as possible in advance before it sells out you may you might sell out the first day thanks David Gray that's why you bought your tickets what day November 3rd third and fourth very good we have added three donations for people to choose from gifts for coiler guys for the hog give bonuses if I break I'm taking the 1200 daf test after the hog sponsor yeshiva's been his money for coil guys and before before I told you to let 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Lamont may be married to Crown Hashem because you'll know exactly what I'm talking about lack of living families like New Jersey because turinach is the best gula is all the empty wires on Main rosenfelder harness truly Meisner the result another my father remote 65th and birthday 65th birthday and I forgot to put the email in he sent me an email he's been with us since there were only 10 people on YouTube foreign Coffee corner and beverage of the wig vladis love Zachary voice but there is hot chocolate I see the hot chocolate machine running okay otherwise I'm starting off with the schmucket story here three lines in the bottom of the basement base sarashi says he came from Kush where are you you got it you with us what do you saying right but Rashi says Kush it does sound like that and uh of course the article anytime it says Kush they're I don't know they I don't know if this is real or not but they like they always say Ethiopia like to be politically correct I don't know Ethiopian it was Ethiopian Jew if you didn't do a Gary he wasn't a Jew Gershon he's a convert Gary talking about Gary was brought many times in shots so and it also comes from Kush so it must be a different one there must have been two Yehuda hinduos because over here it says he was a girl that didn't have any descendants didn't have any ocean and therefore as soon as he dies everything becomes heavier anybody could be zoech on what he has he was sick without any ulterior motives he wanted to be moving but when he got there he noticed that it's all over it's literally at the end of his life but literally at the end of his life he looks around and he sees evid Kanani and he realizes that as soon as this is the Sharma everything becomes heavier including the Epic Nani and David Kanani could be zulkin himself who acquire himself so what does he do only live there he tells the slave that was there rebi who didn't do a Slave take off my shoes I was thinking like you're a guest like well if I guess if you're an avid you take you take everybody the middle explains in terms of Avada in them a Teva to want to do for other people to to be submissive to somebody flemisana I was just thinking this is a big need on here in that rhino could you prove from here that in those days they didn't wear hat and jacket because if they did you just take off your head or take a yamka from underneath you why do you have to take off the shoes you see that's so important yeah Gavin de Leo it's a woman I'm not done it's so cautious it's so cautious that if you haven't had a jacket you never take it off you think of your shoes right I bring that I bring down both cheetahs it's a long distance from review you didn't do his house to my sister's house he figures as long as this edit is in a state of doing avoided for you he's he's serving you then he's working for you and as soon as his master if you didn't know dies he's going to be zoja in him from from Healthcare or it's just gonna just gonna become his ape [ __ ] when I first got married one of his good friends was what was the mice over there his good friend was captured oh what happened was there was a cross and his good friend burnt the cross it's like right in front of the show they put down a so he went and he decided oh I'm gonna burn it they caught him and he said oh burn across that's it it's all over so they wanted to redeem him and they went around collecting they went to reverence the reason said how much how much is it to redeem this guy so basically what it was it wasn't stomped through it was they went to the the guy in charge over there the guy watching the the cell he said how much do you want to look the other way she said some crazy amount of money he just got married he said you know I have all the money I want to do it so he gave all the money and uh okay so they gave the money to the uh the security guy and he he took it and then the whoever was the king whoever it was realized that there's some something fishing going on so they started looking into it and they started narrowing it down then it must be the security guy he let him out so he was very nervous and he he went and he knocked on the door by Roberto senators and he said listen if he tells the wife he says if ribio innocent is such a unbelievable person that he took all his wedding money that's what it was all his wedding money and he gave it to to free someone he must be a very Crush of a person I want I'm I'm about to make a very I'm getting out of here I want you to watch my money I'm going to come back soon I want you to watch all this money plus whatever else I had and he gave him the thing turns out that whatever happened to that guy he never made it serious tenacious comes home and he he sees a pile of money and his wife says you're not gonna believe it this guy knocked on the door she didn't even know about the whole story he gave us this money so to be honest and started crying he said that was like almost like a slap for Michael Jordan he wanted to be kind in the midst of a opinion because like threw it right back in his face like he didn't accept the Mitzvah that's how he took it and he said the reason was because he was being selfish and he wanted the entire message for himself was such a thing so no I'm just saying like he came over here but this is like this different it's not the same item right back in his face over here he was oh that's why he was upset sorry the nikudo was it was upset that he got scared like he was right back that makes more sense now over here reviewing Duo he got scar but maybe not So Much from the same idea so okay besides it says the big hilum is the the sky is every day for example it's one of the things that you get a little bit of Skye okay so wait a minute just one more story because before we go into this over here one more one more we have plenty of time short half short half it was uh no it's an opportunity to say I thought it was Shiva going through security and they made him take off his shoes I don't know the whole story but somehow he they lost his shoes he comes out and somebody took his shoes or whatever it was he doesn't have shoes and he asked the guys there TSA what's going on okay see the side the board the plane without shoes so a guy asked him what's going on so he said listen I went through security and took off my shoes and some I can't find my shoes so you guys said listen since I saw that you were really calm and you're you look like a real Mensch so I wanna I wanna donate to Yeshiva I gave him a nice fat check because it's about me this Sinai oh and after the story here I could show you this I almost forgot the spark Hashem I remember check this out this is this is it right here this is the masani on his head okay that's the shoes he's taking his shoes to his house okay so think about now we can go into the economic it's not really soggy yet don't get nervous some people say that this event was a gobble he's an adult MMA law he was careful zapier's lamisa this one died and this one came alive a really bad guy had a strictest Levi and that's this is the lotion he used I didn't say Vani he says okay fine look it was a message foreign dies the masutra is continuing to live the Avid went from some instead of having a bad spot a dead spot in the middle where he could be quite himself it went right through from somebody that's alive to somebody that's alive the guy that was alive dies and immediately somebody else takes over he continues to live is that pierce that the evid is able to work for the next guy and not be coin himself some say he wasn't even an adult this slave was a cotton and doesn't go like episode there's a guy who died and didn't have any hiroshim and the Israel came and took everything is that every single one could be kind himself even a Qatar held like this shita that a cotton could also acquire himself so we have to prevent the content from inquiring himself so we make him carry the shoes home you could come three months later and say what happened to your master he died oh I want to be zuckering you on you so there's no need for him to make him carry the shoes hope all right maybe there's people there tell you talks about this other people maybe you're scared of that okay because of so the mission says that every Kanani he's purchased with and he acquires himself because mayor the mayor says mayor says he acquires himself with money through somebody else he himself the evidence himself cannot have any money because he doesn't he doesn't have a king without his master what is going on over there how come people are sitting over there come here no there's no seats of it here's the seat one seat here one seed there okay so they like it over there we have to like it's like Rebecca really when I don't know how it is today when I looked in the mirror I went through a bus I really shared and he gave it in the dorm room and there's like people down the steps in other people's beds it's gonna be soon not like him but it's the best marriage is like his is enough oh here we go turn off again I've had enough of it last night with my mishbacher discussing yes okay speak to my wife because we're gonna have a three-way because let me show you what we're gonna have here we go over together we can do a little khazar it's very very simple but we did a revolutionary chart for today's daf so first of all here are the inside this mashakona Avid Connor Rabbi this is an idea that anything that the slave everybody agrees to this imagine going to have in kind of Rapid there's one way around this and that is that if you tell the slave I'm giving this money to you on condition that your other doesn't have any resource in it then this is us there's a man the armor that holds that works and this is going to see Ramirez it doesn't work there's another idea in the sogia that even though Eva doesn't have a yard you can't acquire anything but he could acquire the get and himself at the same moment then that could work and then we have a question whether or not this is earlier another receptus is it a sauce for a slave to go out or not a slave is working is it a sauce for him no what does everybody say it should be your slave you want to leave not everybody holds that some people no he likes it what's a spider that he likes did anybody remember huh okay [Music] no that's the Nerds already that's the evidence no because he he he's allowed him with a shift we had this fire where was it and get the okay so now I want to show you this mahogics real quickly it's a three-way machlaikus and it's it talks about castlevan star and basically the question is could a slave acquire himself with kessef and could other people acquire him with kessef could a slave acquire himself with a star and could other people acquire him with the star believe it or not in every single case so let me show you for a second well question is saying that a slave could acquire himself with money if somebody gives him money I'm actually in the rap club it works and other people could do it for him and this is all talking about in a case that it's against his will other people could take money for him or or pay for him and let him out star also could receive a star for him and he goes free and he himself could receive so according to the comments across the board but each one is a different savara you have to know why so let's see if this works quickly here oh it's working so this is a new the new content that we have is that we explained the svara on the top right corner so it's not like Yes program but whatever we're getting there Jonathan huh no we have a competing Shabbos and he's going to the other one so that's why I had to go when you hear Ours from him you'll know why he's a cousin same name he's going to the competition it is check it out wait wait just like Truman mice is revolutionary let's go back to the chart for a second real quickly say that when other people could could let you out without your Das is because it's a source remayer for instance holds that it's not as close I'm gonna have to see why other people can do it everybody else is supposed to remember me says it's not as close what could be a good reason that remainder says even though it's not a Swiss they could do it other people could do it for you it's not a source again let's explain means it's beneficial for the evid and anything that's beneficial for somebody else you could do without asking him so I could I could pick up a a million dollars on the floor and be kinder for you because it's beneficial for you even though you don't know about it or anything huh well picking up money no no no no we need a better sport but anyway okay now Casa how come he could acquire himself with money you give him a hundred dollars I it automatically becomes the others because the evid could be cleaner without his master you can tell Menasha in the rap commercials but what about star so other people could acquire style for him we know through this again just going quickly and finally the atomic because so the difference here we just said three different spirals and we have to understand each one okay so let's start the song because because it's very it's very deliberate that a slave uh could acquire himself with money with other people's money meaning not his own money not if you give him money to acquire himself asking about skin on what's the case if it's against his will middle average so that's a given remember is the one that holds that it's terrible for a slave to go out why now he's awesome and here's the idea that this is that you could acquire something for anybody as long as it's discuss but you cannot acquire something for somebody if it's if it's not good for him and over here remember Halls that's bad for Avid to leave why it's unbelievable you think that he he would want to leave no it's bad for him it's better for him to be multi-to-shiftra in his bathroom hello yeah Rashi says if he's a coin he's awesome Truman if he's Israel he's also initial so must say that we're talking about that he agrees to it that only through other people not through himself so if we go back to mayor uh a little bit of a delay I hope it doesn't just jump so we're here no not there we're here we'll get the to the room soon for him to get a hundred dollars from a friend on condition that he leaves his master and his audience it doesn't work says remayer I can never give a slave anything on condition why because as soon as the slave takes it in his hand it becomes the Masters even if I say specifically on condition it doesn't go to your master I can't do this like saying here I'm gonna put in the left hand on condition that your right hand doesn't take it's all the same you're the the event is the Masters you can't make any deals foreign it's not saying only this way maybe it means to mix it up because even with himself and we're going to teach us in Star that again and his hand come together it says that a star is only by himself and his friend can't do it for him we need to understand if he agrees to it why not um so this is the this is the end of this this is the end we're not going back from this what about he says our mission is talking about it's against his will machanic holidays is a beautiful swara take a look over here again so now the swears go in the corner over here kessef you could be other people could acquire could take money give to the master against the slave's will why because if they want they can purchase the slave it makes a lot of sense right now they can walk over the master hey how much are you a slave a million dollars here's a million dollars take the slave we don't ask the slave so they could do the same thing here's a million dollars and let him free it's a beautiful savara we don't need his Das Ani because they could you could they could purchase a slave from the master but that's with a star that says purchase it doesn't mean they can take this a different star that says he's free it's a completely different Canyon one is a purchase one is a sale and one is freedom it's the same money yes it does different things it's the same money star is different it says different words in it yes we're still talking about about Karthik why does the slave go out when he when the master receives money we don't ask the slave a thing he leaves Israel the master who got it he leaves so because if you don't need the dash of the of the slave at all but over here by the star how the star war the slave accepts the star and it goes out but you need the dance of the slave and over here you are accepting it for the slave that doesn't work so when you don't need the dash of the slave At All by cassav great but you need to that's his life if somebody else can do it says now let's go to the next mcclages they say two things again the exact opposite of her mayor kessev works by himself when he he himself gives the master money star only works when other people acquire it so what could be the svara why only I we're gonna see soon that it's not like that okay fine yeah we just saw that say that everybody and anything a person could the slave himself and his friends could do money the slave himself and his friends everything's a check so let's see how we get there because over here it says even though it's against his will um as you can see in the top corner of so you should be able to do it this friend should be able to do it but it means even himself the commas better than himself because himself as soon as he gets the money his master got it even though right but now we're going to tell you that no a slave could be coina however I say again I'm a national rabbit he got the money on condition that his master has nothing to do with it so how do you explain the last part foreign we see every single day that a slave goes out for Freedom when he receives a star from his master that's adorable myself have you ever heard of a slave not being able to take a shower so that's a given that's a given and you tell me don't hold that what so we passing like we're married I can't be so it must be all like that foreign [Music] says gimoro very interesting so stop here for a second yes that's exactly what but what's going on in the mission only spoke about star they never discussed star is another shita called says there yeah hello you're right star is different the reason why it's not mixed up in the mission because it's different but why is it different Allah it's a different cheetah completely so if you look at the Bata batam shita holds I'm sorry the what is why because they hold who himself can't do it why what's this word that a slave can't do it himself I know it's a little confusing I don't say that and by cancer would be that uh you need your rabbis let's see inside and now we have three complete maclargasm so if we want sorry if we want to start from the beginning real quickly go through it quickly my computer moves faster okay so we said it's about so how could other people go against the evidence will and and purchase him or let him free from the master the answer is because since a person could buy a Slave without his will so you can free him without as well and rabba says because it's it has to do with the the master has nothing to do with the slave we don't ask him a cloud the master takes the money he's only Israel next oh sorry wrong way Castle he himself cannot acquire himself with money why because ain't Keen lovable a rabbi remember that lotion I used a different lotion later on but it's a mistake it should be it should we should have the same I said same exact thing 18 level below your album he cannot do it himself great how come star not through other people because according to a mayor it's remember mayor other people can acquire star because it's not good for a slave because if we said there's a difference for her because you could buy because it starts a different type of style he said could redeem him it's good for him either that's why yes she didn't have a billy Rabbi you could give her a slave money I'm actually boy could acquire star Again by the way the four bottom purple checks is all the same things okay I don't know if that'll help anybody and I know maybe okay fine all the purple bottom ones star you could go through himself but they can't do by himself because you need the other to do opinion much money every kind of Rabbi now here you hear this Judo over here we say okay that's that here's the actually the famous One law was read I saw some guy who came in there and erased it the costs have a lot of savory creases by uh Everett it says and by uh by uh but again it says because I've lost seven degrees so we have a connection obviously you can't do this by yourself this is where does a husband put the get in his wife's possession does a husband own a wife for all those women that are watching they're all nervous no a husband is not on a wife he doesn't own her body so maybe he's putting together in somebody else's possession together great and whatever the opposite like it makes more sense almost I'm saying just like a woman could accept the guest so a slave could also accept it they also have Lola Lisa but they learn it differently cannot acquire or get a star on his own evidence appoint an agent to accept it for himself now we know that the contribution so what's the Shiloh here so the Shayla is if you look at Rashi says a lush and it's beautiful if you look at Rashi like six lines down and Rashi sticks in here is the question here how do we view when somebody else takes a gift for the event is it because the tire said that's how it works or is it because it's as if the evidence is Rashi if it comes as a excuse me as a schlichus that the Evan wants it so what if David says straight out I don't want it I want to stay here you're right in general it's great forever to go free but I love my master I have a a private helicopter I have all this schmuck I want to stay right here could his friend say no I'm freeing you I'm freeing you it's a school for you if the toyer gives you that scores then David has no say but if it's as if the evidence appointing you an agent and now he's saying I don't want to appoint you an agent then you can't go against his will says the gemara keeping the government a slave dude a slave doesn't have the ability to accept his own yet because he holds remember in the bottom left corner and I said Judo what's the swara it was foreign the coin did for you is he your agent appointed him you have nothing to do with this Kamina what if you move the hand off from him well the child in the dark you said you kind of have nothing to do with you ever in my life you Cayenne could you do something special for this role and bring his carbon up under his mouth if your mother or no you can't if he's your age and you can but if there's nothing to do with you he's just like a Barclays agent then he could could you appoint an agent for something you can't do um now it's so we prove from here that he's because if he's a person how could a Israel appoint the client to do zrica when a when Israel Canon Duce Rick himself you can't appoint somebody to do something you can't do sister wait a minute but according to what you just told me the line here we have a great case of a slave who cannot accept his own guest here's the case what are you proving to me that accordion is you see that a a epic Nani could appoint an agent to be Macabre leget his star even though he himself he can't do it see there is such a concept oh the Lord he says the Gomorrah Jonathan the London you've never there's never one situation an entire Tire when you're talking to this Rico heaven but an evid is in the parachute so once he's in the parisha you write over here maybe technically you can't do it because because so it's almost like a woman I'll give an example stamp let's say a woman doesn't have hands so she can't accept the guess it's a technical reason it's not that she's not in the pirate show so Mela as we learned that a slave could accept a get from his for his friend from a different master I mean if there's two slaves one master has two slaves one slave cannot accept the gift for the second one why because it never left the Master's resource but if it leaves another Massachusetts he could accept it for him so you see from here that what that a slave is in the parisha he could accept Ethan once in a while um foreign as long as it's other people's money maybe this is my flights maybe they're made of an inking level blue Rabbi that you have to give the slave unconditioned that your master has nothing to do with it has been king and the same idea would be to a woman and we said by the way because it has to do with Messina since the woman receives the results if she doesn't want the husband's missing us he doesn't take her stuff it's one of these things Rashi says that if the reason why we stick in the woman here we're talking about a Vladimir not about a wife but if we learn one Allah foreign if he accepted a gift from a friend then he could free himself with money that he owns um even if he accepted a gift boy it's not good and a woman needs to come out to her husband to make a king welcome my skin on Darkness if he he gave it him unconditioned that the owner the master cannot have anything to do with it so the mess there's nothing to do with it that's the Shiloh here could he do something like that now by the way sometimes like throwing it out it's like there is a Shiloh what if someone's parent gave him money to buy an apartment and there's a stroke yeah here's money to buy a house here's money to buy a car could the parents say um I'm giving you the money I'll get this you don't have to give Doug information yeah yeah so neither ask your local Rabbi but I'm just pointing it out so you could sometimes give money on conditions nobody else gets gets to touch it mayor it doesn't work because the moment the event acquires it the event is owned he's won in parcel with the with the master so as soon as he acquires in one end his other hand is like the Master's Hand the master got it right it does work please no if a person says but it doesn't work everybody agrees that the master grabs and that would be a problem for this duck kind of thing the currently Avid the corner of the Connie rabbit whatever it acquires it's literally like like somebody's horse if a horse acquires a piece of straw the the owner of the horse acquires it you can't say oh I'm giving the [ __ ] something and the owner can't bother my skin okay this is different I'm not giving it to you I'm limiting how much you have possession over it before we were limiting which person is allowed to acquire it only the slave not the master that doesn't work but over here I'm not even giving it to the slave I'm giving it to him 50 I'm giving it to him only to give it over to the master to get out of it it's not even the it's not even the slaves no this also doesn't work even give him a partial it goes right to the master we're born in Savory Nami holy comac no I didn't give anything to the slaves I gave you a hundred dollars not that you should acquire it and then give it to your master they should just pass it on to the master never even went through your shows from boys I have a wonderful day there we go