Daf Yomi Kiddushin Daf 11 by R’ Eli Stefansky

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will from within U so I figure from will here we go okay I'd love to be m you with the seventh as you mention sh kind let me know he the I'm just reading this because there's a coming up here and last time I didn't get anything so it's like I don't have to go all the way to to America to get the maybe over where is he Tako he's not even here okay don't even tell him about this no said like a like after Theon something a little garish it's like that very good if you sit over here the rules are got to be careful not to lean into the camera otherwise that guy is going to start screaming mshare but thanks for being here where you from London very nice and what's what's your name all the way say it loud what's your name from welcome I heard that you came straight from the airport exactly like that first placeing first place touring yeah I don't know if he does the da but he's touring to see it's also it's one of the places even even before the do you go to the kis no but but you are going to go some people come here and they're not allowed to go to the kis you never know um hell I've been part of the D for some time I'm wondering if you would be able to read out a small email from my friend n Heyman who will be getting married on Sunday n is planning on coming to the ship from for the third time this Friday morning when he comes pretend you didn't hear this email he wanted to wear MD socks under the but a higher power veto that choice just wanted to wish you have to put your foot down literally put your foot down no pun theend wow your friend is not here he used to say good morning every single morning every morning for like two years straight only in the beginning until somebody convinced him that's not a good idea some Grand listen since you know maybe you could arrange like or something under the for me no okay long okay is his his father's watching right now he's getting a lot [Music] of oh did you see the picture you didn't see the picture of there's oh they saw it okay great next Blinder thank you I'm re South Florida I teach nth grade be teaching this year I was looking for charts old T friend Ai kamansi and he graciously shared the slides thank you so much Jeremy Blinder H Jeremy Blinder what's his name now SCH Blinder he changed [Music] nth grade re I'd like to share the pleasure bringing back no heon to the she oh that's the same guy okay who you're the ah you're writing this and he's the it's all okay did you know he's writing an email that his friend wrote an email no okay there brought back no hyon I called him during the SE on and he said he's rejoined but today he sent me a message really rejoining he's been there every day even PL coming to sh Friday it's such a good feeling to know that someone is learning the D through me you hear that feels good welcome back doc thank you for the opportunity sponsor that weown sponsored by lock fames Lake New Jersey because are the best last day Dr in memory of the of his [Music] beloved all wires tomorrow we're gonna be down to four just a few days ago seven first day the par Peter merker of Ruth Denker on 39th yard for AR Ben a dedicated mdy member and always inspires others should have by brain in tag un your full potential success in all my Endeavors injured in shooting attack in har on Monday operation is today should have her on the 17th yard site the art of the month sponsored by that come from supporting so here we go we are holding before you know what we're ready T into K holding all the way on the top and the shil is as follows does when a woman gets married to aen if she's a Israelis she starts eating truma and if her husband the K dies she stops eating truma unless she has children from him she continue eating truma what about a woman who's not married but she's in stage one of marriage she's has a he gave her a ring so yesterday we were discussing it he said that according to she does eat truma but each one had a different reason why she should not eat truma today why bagbak says because the a the that if she eats truma and she's still living at her parents' house so the will give her some truma and she'll be nice and she'll share with her brothers and the I mistaken is also says the is something different the is what's Sy means anything that cancels like a sh on AAR that cancels AAR s over here something that cancels the the AIS so you have a woman who's just engaged gets a ring she's eating truma for a year and then finally the day big day comes and he takes one look at her and he sees that there's something very wrong with her she has four arms whatever the problem is he says I'm at here so it turns out that the K that he gave her the ring that he gave her a year ago is retroactive there's no K so for a whole year she was eating [Music] truma B that's s so that's where we're holding Rashi sticks in I didn't mention yesterday we're in a rush yesterday also talking about a first of all when we're talking about a so I wanted to tell you this this might about said that why because he doesn't have an ounce of GA and every person in this world has G he doesn't think he has G he's a BAL and once I was doing that I was going to show a video of but I I'll leave it what I'll show it later it's so um okay but Rashi mentioned before forget just says that there's a called person doesn't drink from a cup unless he checks that there's no flies in or whatever he checks the cup so if a person even if he's mades explains rash even if the K is so we know that he's going to he's checking for and if he went ahead with it then there is no s in such a case that's just the thing that that rash brings down on the bottom of B so now say like this all the way on the top of how come he he comes on to this what's with don't have to be concerned that she's going to be eating truma for no reason says the you should know there's no why if he sees outward M then and he sees it and he still buys a slave nothing and if it's something hidden what does he care he's not marrying the he doesn't care what about a different moment finds out that he's now it's a problem to have a ghav in your house you turn around M she has yester uh two days ago the the Doom construction my house so the contractor tells me that he had three razor blades each one cost $10 and they all three are missing so he says watch this he calls one of the guys he says you know we were using the razor blade I'm looking for it I forgot where we put it maybe you put it somewhere I heard this with my own ears the guy goes oh you know something I by mistake put it in my pocket I have it on me right now it's with me see at least he found one out of the three every day they steal something else you have somebody like that says is a guy that kidnaps people not a very good guy to have in your house says he's he's more of a gambler also not such a great thing he deserves it he accepted upon why because they're all like that that's just the nature of EV EV is going to be a GH of kidnapper Gambler whatever it is that a person noticed that his cleaning lady took an apple she took an apple she pocketed an apple he wasn't happy about it because and this big problems with his Apple giving to the guy so he runs after her and she noticed that he's running after her as you see she started walking a little quicker kid say caught up to her so she was like this she puts her hand in the pocket takes out all the jewelry she stole and she gives it to him she thought that he's running after her because of the jewelry because he's trying to be Mak on the he got his jewelry back without even knowing okay okay so what else what else is left list the guy sticks up he's he's a bank robber arm robber this is already a holder from madrea who knows what he's going to do to the master who knows how long he's going to last as a slave the he's already they already said he needs to be put to death they might take him but he's just not a good guy so that's that's a lot worse than a GH of that people already know PL he's already Etc as the gor but if you take a look at this uh simple chart say one thing this a and the is that she shouldn't eat truma one says one says but the bottom line is they're saying the exact same thing can't eat lays between the two of them says so just did a a quick thing here Kel is a person that accepts upon himself all M so there's a here okay I see the colors are not coming out so great I wanted to like show red and green but it's not such a great idea to do green on top of blue and black okay fine I'm just between is one thing is the other Kel is a person that accepts upon himself or M so what are you telling me she might he might find AUM on her and that's s well if I accept upon myself then there's no so I'm not that she's going to give her brothers truma that's not my concern my concern is M so in this case she's allowed to eat trumo she's allowed to because he's himself about say he was a little bit uh handicapped a little bit and he's going out with somebody and she said you know I can't marry it's too much so he told her look in the mirror she looks in the mirror and she sees herself as a handicap so she she shooken up and he told her look the end of the day you were supposed to be handicapped and I doubt for you that you shouldn't be hand I wanted to take it upon myself the what are you goingon to say same thing same answer as before okay saying for the in the room okay the the LX over here they they they roll their eyes okay it's your things it's your loss so he next thing is M if the father gives his daughter over so that's it now she's no longer with her parents she's not giving any food to her brothers so there's no concern that she's going to feed her brothers the concern is that the yet there's a s so I wrote where the first one is and again one gives her over to the next so that's it she's not coming back it's a very strong part of the the and but there is a problem of simp he might discover a and retroactively it's not says the we learned in the why do say dinner when everything in the is a right everything what's where did they get this dinner so we have a number of reasons here that's today Alo a woman has self-dignity what she's going to give herself away for 25 cents even less I don't even know how much approv it today it's garnish rberg how how much is approved today oh it give me 10 minutes I'll be back or this week s I'm sorry I didn't look at it yet no this is more okay fine bar after all this what do we come out with few pennies a few pennies less than a quarter less than a quarter in America the quar is 25 cents yeah wait a minute you're telling me she has a certain dignity and what about rani's daughters they were pretty three of of gold so I was thinking I had to say this very adal without uh like putting my wife in a bad light no but she doesn't watch to Shear it's l when I when I was when I was a so my wife told me in a very a way and she had a good she said listen my sister just got engaged and my sister-in-law just got AG we all got married within like the samea her sister a month before and they they the other two got a two two carat diamond and she she said you know I'm not saying anything but you know it's going to look atile weird like two carrots my father my father is not not even in coyo he didn't even get a coyo salary because he learns at home so I hear I hear whatever you're not mock with if it's going to be less no no no but I'm just saying you know okay fine so I came home I told my father my father said what are you talking about of course we have to get her whatever your sister has she can't be different and this we're going to get her I said but how do you going afford all so went to the went to the went to the guy and he says no it has to be a mish a clean one my father said no M it was a lot of money like like I don't know five times more than than he would typically spend more so kid bought a nice nice ring and uh well I'm trying to say is the the the end of the story my father took a look at this thing and he was very he says he called up my father right away he says listen you didn't have to do this I didn't expect you to do this you are not paying not for the photographer not for the music garish that's it you're whatever it is I'm thinking to myself when you go out of your comfort zone was that of my father's comfort zone you go out of your comfort zone takes care of the rest you don't want to you don't you don't want you don't feel like doing but it's the right thing to do you do it don't worry about the the rest will take care of everything all right I hope she's me should I tell you the real story now [Laughter] famous the the last three quars of the story is 100% MOS [Music] he says oh good cash you bring me a cash from a wealthy spoiled girl who needs three C of gold if she decides to take it she took it what if she doesn't know is that night it's dark or she's certainly doesn't know because she send and she didn't dictate how much it should be she she was assuming a certain amount all her friends got three C of gold she should also why do they why do say you need a dinner not a all when the Torah says the word it means means literally silver real silver none of this uh plated stuff and fake money real now a happens to be it happens to be made out of copper and the dinner isri so he said it needs to be now hold on so the the T doesn't say how much silver so you go to the minimum the minimum is a m y this is not important not to confus people get very confused when you start saying this is six of that and times eight and this but real quickly just uh a little chart here so oh went too fast okay this is a sell one s now if you want to visualize it as as a dollar for Americans um so One S has four dinner like we have four quarters it's going Mish fast for some reason it's a little bit sped up and a dinner equals six which is T so okay so maybe we should go for the least says rash can't go for the least once you see that said it's not I'm going with another he's telling you I don't want it to be the regular thing usually I do a everything I'm telling you for for K I want you to use I want you to use silver so you didn't say oh gold to Silver that's worth instead of 25 cents is worth 50 cents that's that's not what he meant said do I think it's 190 times right we said in the first 192 times aut that's the so I want something what's 192 times the amount it's not who knows what either 192 times a few cents is all right so now the is gonna go and and see if we could poke some holes in this one s is yeah 48 P okay ignore next here he knows the thing in my son's school they don't give out money they give out and because they want them to to know how to okay so we could ask them so the says is this a cloud I'm going to go through a whole bunch of things to see if this works in everywhere in the has from it is able to poke a hole in it this this is TR every time says the word it means silver spor in honor of my uncle for a year filled with for his family reell and all MD and everyone doing the now I wanted to go to zoom today because we have a little bit more time than usual and speak toon H who just got up from Shiva but it's not working his mother's nter and he told me yesterday I went on Zoom I go on Zoom after Shear told me yesterday not it's not working for some reason we can't patch him in but he said he said and this gave me a lot of that's what I wanted to speak to him he said during Shiva he was the whole time about the da but after Shiva he jumped right back into it he went on to zoom went to the DA that everybody's holding now catch up later okay so maybe we'll get him on a different time not not able not able okay okay so so it's all about him saying something very so let's see if we have here yeah this should be over [Music] here so the famous we had it first in a person tells his friend you owe me X and he returns and he says no I owe you less than x but I owe I owe you something so the is he has to take he has to swear that doesn't owe him anymore if not doesn't take a he has to pay him the rest but what's the TA and what's the how much what if he says you owe me 10 cents you owe me two cents is that a and he or he says he owe me a million dollars and he admits that he only owes him 5 cents that happens a lot of times you know you you paid up but you forgot the the the sense I owe you five cents is [Music] that so we have bring according to the has to be to according to the has to be two in other words he has to admit at least two he owes at least two k according to ra according to he has to be sued for two okay regardless why does it say that the T has to be two if every time the T says KF it means silver and it's the least of the silver so it should be one where did where did come up with two this is a whole different number doesn't say anywhere in the t two it says CF and we said it's the least of it from the fact that the to says the the gar tells us it has to be two thear seems like made up a number has nothing to do with what you just said has nothing to do with being silver has be the answer is bring the it's plural of when the T says it's one but in that particular case it says says says that if I sue you for two needles how much are two needles less than a quarter 10 cents I sue you for two needles and you admit on one also no has to be has to be worth something not not a needle let's continue by my also the Torah says the word c what does it mean over there you take the money so Yoshi redid a little bit let me show you what he did the covered today's sh my Shen is when you're left with 90 out of the 100 right because you gave a little bit of truma which is about 2% you gave 10% fromer that's all you did so far the Ley took that and give gave trumer but you gave 10% now you have 90% left from the 90 you have to take 10% and give it to who to yourself so that's nine so you take nine apples take nine apples and it's too heavy so what you do is you are P the apples into money you redeem the apples you keep the apples at home and whatever the apples had thei it transfers into the cash it goes like this takes out of his pocket and now the money turns purple the apples turn red and they now you can eat the apples at home and now the money has you take that money and that money you carry up to the sorry not the he takes the money you get apples back you get steak Etc and you eat it so that P it says like this so think about it talking about in those days today also on p i I asked the the because they have they get a lot of coins I asked them for coins for for so they gave me a bucket very very heavy imagine you have to slep a bucket like that to to your SL in those days on on your donkey got to carry you know where you going to put it it's very heavy you're a farmer you have hundreds of thousand worth of fruit of myeni and you need to transfer into cash you transfer into prus and now you have a box full of prus weighs a th000 pound what are you going to do we the to so you take a higher denomination a cell and you transfer all the PRS into the cell you just do a switcher could you do that there was a always walked around with jingling in his pocket quarters so they asked him why he said listen I when a when a guy comes to me I give him a quarter that's his minute he doesn't give a d he giv a quarter maybe just to be y not to because if you don't give could be very problematic even if you think the guy's a liar this that what if he's not and you didn't give him he asked you right I said this a while ago and since then Benny gives every single guy no matter how hard right this in you give taking the da to life so I don't oh but he said but I don't want when the guy comes so I'm going to take out a dollar and ask him for change he's going to get he's going to get excited for he's got a whole dollar and now you say change so that it never happens so there's a guy sitting on this table I don't want to say anything who it is because it might bear told me that his big Bala a wealthy guy but he didn't like when they came to work sometimes they would Ambush him at his job and he get very mad like what are you coming all the way into Manhattan into my office asking wait I have hours at home so this guy comes from he says uh I need I'm making I need I need some money so he takes out a 20 gives him 20 the says no no no you don't understand I came all the way from to marry with my daughter I have money he tells him no no you don't understand I'm waiting for $18 change okay anyway got to stick it in sometime I'm not I'm not promoting that I'm saying some people like that so this guy is trying to make change over here with his uh with his Mo that have on them trying to take the money and put them back in so it says and again so K means what what does K mean we just said K means silver was not he's taking the which are not silver he's transferring so you see that doesn't mean silver means also extra so also the guy is redeeming a field so there's a concept this is a concept in according to him at least if you rip offes you lie todes and you buy a piece of real estate that worth it's a100 million and you buy it for for a dollar off ofes you don't have the typically means that if you sell something for more than six sixth it goes back the if it's exactly a six then the you have to give the money but it's a little bit more than a six it's over when it comes to you don't have whatever the doesn't you don't have this from puzzle but it says you don't need the we have just said says so also work right so this is the question this is basically what we start off it says the word huh yeah yeah this it this it that even if he went down from am that's that's enough something wortha [Music] said brings it yeah what I want to bring I want to I want to take I want to be fromd something that's worth X and I give him a much smaller amount so goes out a Hees even though I just ripped off you don't say it's it's Buckle okay what do we do it says in the says it says says and we said means silver how do say a woman with a we learn a woman from a field and just like a field that says has to be silver so how could still say what that says that every time the T says it means silver only goes according to you can't be that rasi goes according to bisham that's we don't pass like new new way anytime the T mentions an exact am we go a little bit into it a little further of the the 30 of EV that gets killed by by by a sh you make a story about your wife you pay 100 to the father say 100 then it has to be that's when it has to be silver but when say something they say wait a minute so you're basically telling me these things it already says the when a slave is killed by an ax the 50 of hband comes so when the says for instance you have to pay the mass of 30 so it's it's silver no sorry oh so what so the ask I already said what's is only saying when it's when it's like but it's all these things that has to be so he didn't add anything he added oh so for this I have a video of hold on you're talking about this last year he's 96 years old over here how no 100 [Music] one [Music] hand all right so it's not really means when you hit your friend I just thought over here passed more than yesterday's what says rash you blow into your friend's ear and you damage him you get so now you cause him damage you have to pay him so it says you have to give him a here I just why did I put it here because I wanted to not the yeah okay don't say it's the for dinner it's not for dinner only because that's what people call a half you give him a half I'm just you know I don't know if this's a pun or something is like for you gave a smack that's exactly it right it's an eight it's the eighth of value correct what is it or it could be no it could be a no because my slap is different than your slap if you you slapa slap oh that's why it's m like that okay it's not it's not a pun it's it's literal okay it's a very interesting story slapped somebody so they went to ra and said half so takes out a from his pocket was one of these that didn't was hard to to buy stuff with it had a hard time so he says pay me so he takes the zo he slaps him again in the face he says now you can have the whole thing one these M okay why say you need a full dinner not so there's another called we spoke about it PR rating let's say you bought an for for 600 for six years so that's 100 a year she works for three years so if she wants to go out you give the the master 300 if you say that you have to give a dinner so you pay a dinner they keep on going downwards if the minimum is how go L if you gave a dinner then you can go downwards you could do pro pration but if you don't give that amount then you can't go down says it's impossible that do me you no because it has to be similar to you what's you means that the master can marry the the or he can give her over to the son and we're going to see discussion it's with the with the money of the the purchase within the purchase price of this he says you know what I'm not giving you anything today I'm using that money back then but that's not the point the point is so here's a nice could you buy your sister as an can you buy her from your father the answer is no why because you can never be Mi you can't get married her and one of the conditions is in order to purchase have to be able to be so just like Y is an essential part of the purchase so to an essential you have to be able to be and if you can't do it have F so we'll stop right here ra boyai have a wonderful [Music] day