Daf Yomi Kesubos Daf 89 by R’ Eli Stefansky

good morning boys we don't get over here I don't get over here that I didn't know but I also have a gift for you come here let me show you what my gift is the dentist the Woodmere dentist the five Towner through his kids so for belly's kids this is it this is this is the best the best so we'll say now we're gonna get hundreds of these we don't have room anymore that's it thank you so much wow yeah what a gift that's a gift pizza rolls anything pizza for this defense keys so everybody said this gave me a lot of kism we have here is Josh here where's Josh hi Josh these are the two hardest names in classroll put together Josh Shiri and Aggie and shamshi schlafrocket s-c-l-a-f-r-o-k but here's the the Pella is the very shy people naturally they went out of their comfort zone and went to the OU the this uh what do they have now like hundreds of people there in your slime they sat there and they recruited people out of their comfort zone everyone Kipper they got nine people to learn more Torah it's unbelievable the the shy people if you think you can't do it because you don't have it take a look at Josh even in the picture you can see like he's like hi Josh what are you hiding over there so they met Avi Berman the head of the OU in Israel who's a part of our DA they met a bunch of people they try to recruit RAV gov just turns out they gives his own share okay you might have seen the type of like you said I was this close to getting it please see below the Manchester Dallas seal we're looking forward to seeing you in the cover of boys side the news you've all been waiting for a ticket system for Manchester Galaxy is now live use the link it's gonna be awesome the Manchester same committee yes it's going to be awesome the London they're ready what London's already at 250 people probably here we go I was taking a video but somebody took a video of me so I'll show you his Vantage Point here we go okay you guys again thank you for your amazing sure while traveling Japan years ago I left a Kangol cap by the train station at 11 A.M when I got back at 10 pm it was still there I was trying to say that the certain Nations that they're mocked on and honestly we should there's things we could learn I guess Aaron aronov Jackson New Jersey oh my boy side airbn keeper stalker will save your life and I challenge you you hear Mindy you don't hear listen to this challenge if you could find this docker that has more impact the dollar for dollar change a person's life for thirty forty dollars bring him to Tire changes his life his family's life if you could find such a zaka then you don't have to sign up but we're not looking for money we're looking for people more people I want to get another 100 people we had already 249 people sign up since I started talking about this last week just yesterday alone 52 people so Jonathan's defense if you made the show 180 check uh which is more than fifty dollars Jonathan subscribe what are you looking at your name over there I know very shy did Edwin 36 rifle Battle of 10. 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Beyond Rosenbaum 52 Barry asman 101 tell me when to stop Menachem . so oh we have to do the oh there's another one here hold on this was great I had such I know yesterday from all the names Alex mermusting my nephew he said wow he's doing the Duff and he didn't tell anybody and then I get this email I hope all is well and you share today you mentioned that you're related to alexstein I'm not sure if we're for sure related there's another Alex Merlin's theme but I was curious how your related to Alexander was saying that you know I live in Kew Garden Hills now I'm from Great Neck originally so his name is Alex Mermelstein he's the one that sponsored not my nephew hold on all of them but I have a new Alex I have a note from this guy either way schmock you have a great clarity I appreciate it so much for listening to the dog Alex from revelstine from Kew Garden Hills there's two such people in the world okay we're working on my nephew now the kylo this is the last day of this sponsor ten thousand dollars that's it to support 11 unbelievable coil guys we're taking I think it's less from beginning of shots from broadcast That Base to wherever we are so he says it's a thousand dollars it's gonna be over a thousand dollar test that they need to know Clark one of the hardest tests around there the there's a test the success of our family that we Merit always Crown Hashem responsibility my children the second sponsored himself the Jeff Rosner of my son is binder is happy birthday Gabrielle my best friend very happy sharing my Hebrew and English dates with you Mazel Tov advisory holding on the bottom of Payless on base by the mishna brand new missionary sponsored by what you call us so you know I don't know but you guys you go to the DMV is that is that what it's called in England DMV anybody so back in the day when I was getting my license went to New York City to Manhattan a line literally three four hours didn't have the the technology at where you could get a little note a paper that says a number you come back to a wait in line get to the front of the line she says uh what is your birth certificate Alberta I have my passport no no no okay go back home stand the line again for three hours and you come to the front where's the gas bill where's the go go back home six times now yeah you know what I'm talking about you need you need all the documentation when everyone comes to get a tsuba she wants to get paid up she has to come with documentation what does she come with she comes with the get she proves that she's divorced and she comes with the actual Suba she has two documents what if she shows up to the front of the line and she doesn't have her two documents she only has one out of the two so depends which one attitude she has she might be able to collect Heights she shows up with a get where's the tsuba I don't know she's not required to produce the actual tsuba because the tsubas there are born on it's a miser besden it's active bezel so you can't claim anything against the best then she could go ahead and collect her Suba without producing the document subo the animorget she didn't bring her get she didn't bring it yet she doesn't have a get so now what there's a woman once who the other one was she didn't have a gift she said she's divorced was he at the documentation I got divorced into the city didn't smell good so the so one of the day on him asked her so you know but I hope uh you go around the hustling like this sometimes how many times this is a fair how many times you go around your husband now they get divorced seven or fourteen backwards backwards so she said seven okay fine you know she's lying very magette she comes she shows up without anything she says you know what I don't have a get I got lost I paid up yes she's divorced I paid up the Suba but I lost the receipt so it's interesting we're gonna have a whole sugey now about receipts could you force the liver the one who pays up who you force him to accept the receipt or not right from here you see that you quote but the more brings a ride from somewhere else I had a receipt got lost that is by the way the whole problem with forcing somebody to accept the receipt what's the idea the malva the guy that has a star in this case the woman has exuber so either she gives the husband the sub he takes a Subaru rips it up into shreds so she can never collect on it or the malva gives the live uh the star that says he owes him a hundred dollars and he takes and rips it up the other option is the mama says no I like it it's it's you know one of the Reps signed on it I wanted for my own collection I want to give you a receipt the lady could say perhaps no I don't want why as we're going to see soon that's not really soggy but I'm just we're here in the oh because of this he has to hold on to it for life put it away keep it know where it is I want to put it on you you have to come up with a star I'm going to take that star and burn it let me see you come up with the star now what are you gonna give me a document I have to save it for the rest of my life you know in those days where are they saving things they didn't have like uh safes so you have to dig it and put it and then this the whole house was four by four where exactly is he putting it so that's that's the McCoy's over here he's saying other children my receipt is gone okay in this case the mission is going to say she doesn't collect because what she's missing is not the Suba which is the durabano which is the best then over here she has a reyesa in the get and it's the rice apart that's missing so therefore she loses up which we're not really discussing it's not really our sugil but the Mishra says so you have a aluminum Melba the Marvel comes and says here here's mystery and it doesn't have a principle of how mamish talking about last week we're sitting here in the basement here's my principal it's a real document three they on him what is this document exactly so deposit here's the puzzle it says when you have shmita like this here shmita is erases everything you can't go collect from your friend your friend owes you money erases all right they're erased so what's the principle because you have another positive test it says so the problem is right before shemitah people are going to be very weary I'm not going to lend you money because if I lend you money shmita comes tomorrow and it gets erased why should I lend you money says you're not allowed to not give him because he scared of shemitah comes Hillel and he makes the prosbo what's the problem so rashiover explains the principle works that we're giving it over to beslin give the whole thing over to visit and Hefner doesn't have the right two just be Matthew your your possession whatever I give you a thousand dollars bezen takes a thousand dollars from your property and decides it's not yours anymore and then they make you the lender you're the best and she have to go and grab it go take it it's the whole trick okay some sleeper brings over here that if you hold another sheet it's another sheet that says that the way the principle works is that it says if you're ready collected the money just the the the borrower is holding on to it for you but how long you already collected it so if that's the case then we don't pass in like the first like Rashi what rashes we're passing more like this and then he says that if The Crucible is lost then you're able to go collect because you already collected it he doesn't have a principle it's a little bit of a Hotspur now you lend somebody money the guy says yes you left me money you lent me ten thousand dollars but I want you to prove to me that you wrote a principal otherwise the tire Hashem erased the loan how luckily it's erased I I admit to you I borrow but something called I want you to prove to me that you have a principle and he claims I had a principle and got lost hello you don't have to pay up you he has to prove the mouth has to prove that he has a principle he did you a favor and he lent you money but he has to prove it I'm assuming Emily man we're going to see the tomorrow exactly what is he going on there's a there's a sheet in the game that the whole mission is just the continuation from the time of the Sakana in other words if the gaim found a principle in your possession they found the super in your house off with your head so I can't have a super how am I gonna have a super so you can't come to the woman with a title where's hexuba I'm not allowed to have exuber they kill me so she has a good excuse the guy is a good excuse that he doesn't have a principal good so then she could come things change now and she'll come and in that in that generation that kufa she come and she could be going Suba without a get without shalom says the guitar from our mission from the first part of the mishnah from the fact that it says that if a woman comes without a tsuba you give her her entire tsuba the husband pays up the whole thing and she doesn't even give him a document so what's preventing him from doing it again and again and again should go to another city and say my husband knows and then go to another city unfortunately we see the the fights that people have when they get divorced to do anything to put the other person in jail and to take money from them why not you're a terrible person so crazy so you see from here that you have to write a receipt the increase because if there's no receipts so I just want to show you this real quickly yeah there are three three options here option number one is that the Leva because we're dealing with the Malibu the malva is holding the document the original document could he say I don't want to give you the original I prefer to give you a receipt so that's the whole question could he decide he wants to give a receipt the letter says I don't want to take a receipt what if the life says I want to receive I don't want the original document for whatever crazy reason I want the receipt then there's no question I don't even have to put it on this thing over here it's positive the life it wants a receipt of course you give him a receipt no Macho like is in the world the whole child is if Delilah doesn't want the receipt and the Marvel who has the original document doesn't want to give the original document says I'm forcing you to take a receipt now another thing is that if there is if it's a place where they don't write stories you don't write aksuba you don't write a star whatever it is such a place then in such a place everybody agrees well again no Macho I guess we're going to agree that there's oksuba uh a shiver there's a receipt nothing it's in a place somebody help them out you want to come over here come over here you know whatever we're not going to put the camera I'm not going to talk to you don't worry about it come Garrett has see them from border park where you guys from [Music] right over here or something somebody help him out Okay so don't worry middle of a very complicated soothing suit it's not a big deal no no never mind let's go back to the thing get off this camera no in a place that the minute is not to write exuber so of course when she collects your tsuba you have to give her a receipt so where's the Mac like this is in a place that you do write exuber but there is no no super now now what so says the guitar like this over here from our mission that's mashma they write a shiver you write a receipt you write a receipt now we pass again Rashi says we pass can you don't you don't write a receipt okay Omar RAV you know don't bring your right from our mission look if it's a the middle the middle one the green if it's a place that the minute is not to write exuber mother you don't write exuber so in such a place you have to write a receipt there's no there's no option okay is somebody reading here it's just noise that I hear okay okay [Music] fine Jonathan don't use this this is not uh it's not Material foreign I stopped and the Machine kept on going I didn't have the machine okay and we have to understand what you say even a place that you do radic super you do write a showiver you do write a receipt that's problematic why would you write a receipt first of all himself holds your own right and receipt but that's not Allah is that we don't write receipts so why which we'll say that Omar RAV on no of course you don't write a receipt you don't write a seat but the demon fires eliminate them are small but I could explain I heard this from from schwul himself they could go two two options our mission is talking about either in a place where they eradic Suba they do radical and Varma kasafi and the husband says I wrote aksuba I love Allah no he's not he's not believed that that he changed from Dominican Marco he has to bring Uriah if it's in a place that you write exuber and she says he didn't so in our missionar we're talking also in a place that they write exuber the radic subba and she brings a Raya that he didn't write itsuba so that's why she collects without exuber okay so again the mission is talking about even in a place that you write exuber and she brought a Raya that he broke the the minute over there and he didn't write it Suba so mama she doesn't need to bring her sofa she brought a riot that he wrote with Alex zuba okay huh yeah in such a so according to the pens according to according to shmuel yeah according to ravner according to Rav since that's the the Dominican Markham so you there's no there's no there's no shiver so that we don't write over there finished say something more about RAV holiday at the end of the day RAV took back what he said that it's in a place that they don't write you don't write a show everybody so RAV is very simple now RAV is going to say a very very simple idea he says right you come to the bathroom you bring two documents with you you bring a get you bring a super each document accomplishes something else the get accomplishes the basic the 200 that absula gets a hundred dollar money gets but the basic tuba and the silver document accomplishes all the extras anything that the 37 above and beyond the 200 that's the Suva accomplishes so what happens if the woman only brings a get to basin what happens if jelly beans again according to Rav he gets 200. according to what does she get everything so that's this right over here that if she just brought a get to besden rap just said no a get is only part of the payment you get the 200 but tomorrow says no you bring a get you get everything that's what the mission says right huh quite a small without a get you get you you get you receive GT you receive everything says and that's how he learns in the mission where that says no there's two parts here this is the get and this is the tsuba writes says RAV my shot is beautiful there's nothing you can say about this shot you can't you can't argue on this is it sorry Messina says how does this fit into the mission so now and we learned the mission like soup of animal get what if what if she shows up with like Suva without a get here image of a gitty and she explains my gay got lost boy I paid the Suva my receipt got lost the guy has a law we're not going to be talking about this at all he says I lost my Crucible you don't pay Optical so swollen the racist says that the reason why she gets everything in the ratio and the ratio why because she brought a riot that that's how we just explained she brought a riot it's in a place that they don't that they write exuber she brought it right that he didn't write it she gets everything okay so I'm safe he's gonna say it's a place that you don't ride aksubo and he claims that he did write I said right listen you're going against the American welcome prove it the bottom line is really messy right I'm really zoopare and he doesn't really go pay but the problem is Rob ravu splits it up and says again accomplishes the 200. like super accomplishes everything above it hello okay she doesn't she doesn't get the main part please accept she showed up with the tsuba so let her at least get right it's two it's two separate documents the get gives her 200 and the tsuba gives her the hundred thousand that he added so why can't you get the hundred thousand she just showed up to best and went like super okay so the get she won't get the 200 the basics the high quality uh whatever the the what the standard thank you she won't get the standard Suba but everything above that she should get based on what Raph said gamara um not only does she not have a gift she has zero she can't prove that she's divorced she's coming to Benson with the tsuba so every woman has a tsuba Center drawers on hanging on the wall in some houses so what that means that she deserves to she has no right that she's divorced she doesn't have a get and she doesn't have anything that she got divorced so nothing happened because he could say I didn't divorce her yeah so therefore he's believed he could say I divorced her and not only that I gave her the Suba so I thought this is a very interesting places to point out let's just asked a question what kind of Amigo is that he could have said something easy and instead he admitted that he divorced her so well I should believe him when he says I divorced her and that I also paid up the suit as places but if he says I didn't I didn't divorce her you know what happens when you don't divorce a wife a lot of money if the supporter sharing Susie have to give her so it's not a great me good he I'm the one that he's saying I don't know what super but now he has to pay a lot of support maybe he doesn't want to pay that support so he's saying that he divorced her foreign if a guy comes to you and says you owe me a hundred bushels of Wheat and you tell him no I don't know you 100 bushels a week I owe you 100 bushels of barley what's Allah you don't have to pay him anything zero because you cry for about call on his China he said you owe him 100 bushels of wheat you deny that you just admitted that you owe them 100 bushels something else too bad on him you hear huh he's not asking for anything he's not asking for it right he's not asking for it he's exactly the guy that Tony has denied it all so he said he's saying you don't know me you don't know me barley homie wheat so they're also the woman says he owe me a Suba in other words she's saying that you don't know me the well maybe I'm mixing up places and Marcus says that terrorist he says that she was already murdered that you don't owe this but obviously it's different but he says she claims subba he admits share and because it's interesting Allah to point out okay okay now the camera says wait a minute you just answered what we're talking about a case there's no way then not that the raid them here why because the last part of the mission is talking about ate them and if the last part of the mishnah huh they don't pay in order my uncle River hold on Pressman let me just say this robotic also I'm catching the people that skip all the emails there's a lot of people like that yo so Birdman when he goes home right so those people this is your time and your opportunity right before Yom Kipper to be mistative with the whole khaburra we're trying to get another 100 people here you probably didn't hear because you didn't watch the emails not 100 people to be started today and tomorrow we had 52 people who started today I think it is today and tomorrow because it's so close to Yom Kippur let's get another 100 even very small amounts doesn't love each other 25 cents put go go to the website and the Y monthly it's a great website it's very easy to use 100. we have soccer columns 400 people but 274s starting from when did I start on Thursday Wednesday Thursday when did I start talking about this I'm not going to bother dial them anymore so I have to even keep us just make it one push okay oh no I didn't finish the thing as a source to continue being able to support Toyo and finish shots with the belly and in honor of his uncle Rebecca so in the safe it says that this is Adam why because it says right when the guy in found the star in your house to kill everybody so he said Allah it says without again she doesn't have a get she comes to bed with that again what's your name whatever Mrs so-and-so I want the hundred thousand dollars that my husband promised me if he divorces me where's he get I had a burden because the going were going to come where you ate them I don't have ate them you're invade them so get out of here so obviously she has ate them so she has Aiden in that part of the mishnah she had this ate them in the entire Mission has to be one one case foreign the question that we had according to Rav how come so this is Aiden how come she can't collect the part of the Suba that's due to her from the tsuba we said get gives her the standard shoe bug is it the extra she has Aiden and she's coming with aksuba give her the everything above the standard before you answer because she doesn't have Aiden but it's impossible that she has no either because the the end of the mishna is talking about that she does have Aiden okay so we have to change the whole thing now we're just gonna finish this and we're starting a new Sergio hello cool every single lately the whole entire missions a woman who comes with a tsuba without a get don't pay her the tsuba remember him now I really hear myself when there's no Ada Garrison so if there's no way them the husband has amigoi right that's what we said on top of the page this is Amigo Aviation but if she does have Aiden that's what we said in the mission that we it's from the mission is okay so she has Aiden that's what I've said there's two parts this is the get zaksuba if she comes with a tsuba with Aiden what does she get everything above the standard great the whole mishnah is answered according to Rav very nice vehicle what about the standard the 200. if she produces again she gets the standard because again the tsuba is for the extra the get us for the standard so she has to produce the get for the stand for the 200.io by the way this week it's time I want to tell you you guys that the bells of horse that we have in our kylo he told me that Ariana sashana he met a bunch of belzers in bells that do the duff they said and then somebody else came to me to tell me the same exact thing that there's a guy he actually wants to come see the he's very he has a whole thing about casitos he's promoting Casitas on a website all has a 50 000 sugar crazy amount so he wants to come visit this year because he heard he was in Bells also and he said that in Bells you stand the whole time there's not enough seats very serious stands and he wouldn't leave his spot by the half soccer by the by the break because if he left the spot he'd loses the spot and he heard the people next and talk about the shin so you're not the only conceding don't worry about this other disposals okay there won't be the the icker the the basic and if the BR and if and if she brings the the get then she gets the basic yeah no because she he claims I already gave it to you you don't start from scratch and only get to three surface he's arguing he said I already paid you up she says but here's Mike subo okay like super whatever it doesn't look super 100 extra dollars a million extra dollars whatever it says above me up the actual the actual Suba of the 200 that we know sometimes that she doesn't get unless she produces a get according to Rav according to small you get everything in one shot and this is from that from the danger on even though she doesn't have to get she gets everything she's really alone okay foreign it's for the extra how does she get the standard says says the ad miso like a death certificate she has proof that he died yeah proof that he died you get it maybe he divorced her and now he's going to take she's going to take the guess afterwards she's first she's going to get the tsuba because she has Aiden that he died and then she's gonna use the get and and go back to the you saw him take more money for now the immortal just now says we're talking about a case that she was married up until the death she never got divorced we know of her fact she was there with him all the way to them with them maybe three minutes before we don't have Aiden not much the last second so maybe the last day divorced her says if that happened you would have said that I'm saying then the husband should have brought Aiden and whatever he didn't that's his loss shall collect twice what about I'm one of my neighbors a modern minister in a regular mono she has testimony that she was with her husband the last minute okay so she produces anything that he died and that's the certificate so she gets aksuba but if she's she's never with him they're only engaged so how's she going to get aksuba now how do you know she gets a soup at all so that's the next sugya he's going to talk about how do we know that uh now again the same question maybe she'll collect twice in a situation not a place doesn't mean a place in a situation where it's impossible there's no other way okay so if that's the case now we just answered and our money from Everest and now we're going to use that same exact things as Rashi back on the first question anytime you have an Albano then we have to write a receipt so if you write a receipt then she can collect twice foreign to testify their husband died maybe she'll go from medicine to business so she'll collect twice at the same but if we have no choice then we write a receipt oh Marley American she should wear that because they're abashing says rational amazing thing the first one was called Mar and the second song was called Mar that's what Rashi says you have two sons but same exact name said it's a problem I heard a mice it's a true true story a guy in abroad had 14 children and he called his one of his last children he called him Israel mayor after the his wife started screaming sugar we have another kid the Yankees Israel named after the Stabler he forgot that he has a kid named Israel he called his is one of his kids the same name but this isn't better myself the nasivas famous deceivers at his son's breasts who's thinking and learning and when the guy asked him what the courage might be strong he thought he was asking him he's like confused he thought he's asking what's your name she said yaakov so he called the saniaco but it was his own name he called the son so the recovery passed him this is a true story okay keep the name because it's a sauce it's a mama it's a beautiful thing that his father was so thinking and learning during his own son's breast so it's a great Simmon fine um okay not enough time here it's 801 but resolution has an interesting myself that a guy got married to this woman and they had a son but it was the second marriage and she insisted that they call the son after a father makes a lot of sense the problem is the guy already had a son same name so it's interesting paskin that columned the same name as your other son because otherwise this stepmother is going to treat him terribly for the rest of his life like this kid is because of this kid I couldn't name it's a kid's okay fine so anyway back to it's not even going to get to the suit it's just interesting that Rashi brings that he had two names one of them was called Meyer the older one kashisha be ready another one was admire the younger one how do we even know that uh engaged woman has a Superman we learned the same we had this already enough that if she became an almano in this guy minus from an engagement she gets entire super this is the tomorrow that's not a great Rio why don't be the cost of love talking about in a situation you don't have to write super he decided to be nicer in rotorixu then she gets it if he diesel okay so he forced he wrote it even though he didn't have to so what's look at this over there if you recall that the only reason perhaps he wrote her the Suba is because he thought he's gonna marry her and since he died prematurely he had no no intent of dying before his hasana she doesn't have to give it to her foreign we'll just get over here Tommy Lee two lines is there Russo here we're talking about engagement you don't use the first day the person diesel every time we learn this we say the same thing she doesn't have an Issa okay it's talking about something else Mesa she dies any arsha he doesn't inherit her oh this is what we're looking for May sue if he diesuba so again we're gonna say that's not a great Riot why yes you're right this is Allah maybe he did it on top of everything else that you're supposed to be doing okay says Rashi since it's so close to each other he already wrote Eric super your mama she's thinking he's a he's all he's about to think maybe he should inheritor commercial or not bottom line is we don't have an answer how do we know that an arusa gets a tsuba or voiceai have a wonderful day listen wow